Alternative to DirtyPenPals
Posted by ZinguBing@reddit | RedditAlternatives | View on Reddit | 18 comments
I used to be a regular poster on /r/dirtypenpals (you can see a buttload of prompts in my posting history), but ever since reddit got rid of DMs and made the site chat-only, it's started to suck. I put a ton of work into my prompts, write creative and thought-out stories, and the only chats I get in response are along the lines of, "hey 31m like to get my balls stepped on want 2 rp?"
Does anyone know of sites where good erotic RPing, with story - and, importantly, that isn't just cishet dudes looking to write garbage and wank - that I could move to?
Thanks in advance, friends!
Chris-dancer@reddit
Before having and OnlyFans, I used to lurk on subreddits I liked, and when I found a guy being funny and interesting, I just DMed him.
Guys looking for free sexting are usually very very desperate and intense, it's rare to find someone with whom to build a more lasting connection - yet lasting connections is what I find much sexier.
So instead of looking for that, I focus on guys lurking on decent subreddits.
For example!
You'll see that most guys looking for free sexting are THE SAME guys who comment "Me!" or "Yes!" when a bot posts a random picture of a woman on a subreddit with the title "Comment something and I'll auto send...". Those guys are insta red flags.
On the contrary, guys making a funny and sexy joke on a subreddit about coffee, challenges or nerdy things are usually much more interesting to chat with, and are not as desperate.
Icy-Background4853@reddit
I for one feel like the people on dirtypenpals are way too horny for their own good.
You've made me curious miss, how do you entrap your victim in your web once you've identified a suitable candidate?
I for one feel a little embarrassed to come unto strangers on the internet... I kind of fear they'll feel I'm harassing them, even If I myself would like it if a stranger came unto me - provided they do it tastefully. I guess it kind of comes down to what Robert Greene said about everyone wanting to be seduced deep down.
Next_Faithlessness87@reddit
Why are you being downvoted?
This is some good advice
MetalMaxwell@reddit
Probably the "not all men" crowd taking offense to her honesty.
Guys, being smart and funny is much sexier than just offering to do something sexual for a woman. Yes, even as an act of service or submission. You have to understand women hear that constantly.
But make a girl laugh, think, or forget her woes? Solid gold.
Next_Faithlessness87@reddit
I have an open-mic standup show I'll hopefully be appearing on again this Sunday. If what you say is true and I get the audience to laugh as I did in my first show, I hope I won't have an army of women waiting for me like the Portals scene in Endgame.
MetalMaxwell@reddit
😂😂 here's hoping!
EyeAlternative9890@reddit
Hey! Honestly! I have been facing the same problem as well! I mean I just want to find someone I can sext with and share some interesting thoughts! But then couldn’t find any subReddit where people would actually enjoy sexting! Girls would end up promoting their OF. Do we have any subReddit where I 23 M can connect for sexting?
amib20@reddit
We do exist !
Chris-dancer@reddit
No. I don't know any woman who'd sext for free on reddit. I've seen scammers, guys posing as women and worse.
I'm sorry but if you wanna sex with a real woman nowadays, either you earn it, or you pay hahaha
Historical-Week181@reddit
Good perspective. Wanna chat lol
Aubergine_Daydreams@reddit
Same. I've had much better experiences doing stuff along these lines (although I talk to everyone, not just men) than just "chumming the waters" so to speak.
Annas_DPP_Account@reddit
Curious, did you find any good websites? I miss the old DM system, too!
MetalMaxwell@reddit
Gosh, right? You could format everything so nicely, block it out for a good story. More reliable notifications too! And chat was a great OOC area to work on the scene.
I just wanna make sexy stories with other interesting people!
Razor39479@reddit
There is a brand new, still in soft launch, adult social media site called AltMeet.com you might check it out.
dahlia-dreamz@reddit
I got banned from the “DirtyPenPals” subreddit just because I have an OnlyFans account and someone reported me (that's what the admins explained me) 🤷. I think it’s really a shame that you get banned right off the bat, even if you’re just looking for normal conversations with like-minded people.
So if anyone knows of a similar subreddit where content creators are also allowed to look for conversations and role-playing, I’d love to hear your recommendations 🤗.
So
Due_Ad_7023@reddit
Hit me up we can chat
National-Style-6547@reddit
To be completely honest, I wonder the same thing about women lol I’ve had profiles in the past that I’ve put tons of effort into and most of the time the reply’s are short, poorly written, or just have no genuine long lasting effort.
I’ve been looking through your pf and I’m super curious about some of your prompts.
Wanna make chats as good as dms together?
merchantconvoy@reddit
Try Grindr.