TheaterFire

Anon gets a GF.

Posted by retardinho23@reddit | greentext | View on Reddit | 218 comments

Anon gets a GF.

Reply to Post

218 Comments

MonsutaReipu@reddit

Everyone wants a cute BPD sanrio gamer goth girl who is obsessed with them and wants to fuck their be their fuckdoll until they actually get one. The first month, maybe first few months are amazing. Then things get dark, and your life is narrowly ruined. You'll carry trauma and a distrust that you never knew existed.
View on Reddit #80769028

Deadcoach@reddit

what's the male version of cute a BPD sanrio gamer goth girl? figured if I can't get one then I'll be one my self
View on Reddit #80792772

Shamasha79@reddit

The male version is the lead singer or guitarist of an underground band who haven't been discovered yet but are gonna make it any day now. You watch his fingers dance and make that guitar scream and you know those fingers can do the same to you... But he can never keep a regular job, he falls into depression over his lack of accolades or success, locks himself in a room working on his art for months on end while you work and pay all the bills and he puts you down in front of his friends. But the sex.... it's amazing.... I mean, hypothetically
View on Reddit #80961624

rooneylover6969@reddit

I am curious, do you speak from experience lmao? That is too detailed 😂
View on Reddit #81809706

Shamasha79@reddit

I might have married him
View on Reddit #81810828

rooneylover6969@reddit

Thank you for responding! Hope you are doing well! Now I know more about everyone having similar issues 😂
View on Reddit #81991564

Deadcoach@reddit

Unironically sounds like scott pilgrim
View on Reddit #80961694

Shamasha79@reddit

😅
View on Reddit #80961819

ManBeSerious@reddit

profile pic with a beard talking about those things you look pitiful
View on Reddit #80814159

KitchenAd5997@reddit

Are you serious right meow?
View on Reddit #80817482

ManBeSerious@reddit

im 100% right ans youll never know it
View on Reddit #80822763

ManBeSerious@reddit

grow up
View on Reddit #80814130

yzsKPC@reddit

![gif](giphy|1aIDN81XDJuDK) Flashback to preparing to have a circular 3 hour conversation trying to convince my ex I wasn't pulling away just because I can't message her while I'm working
View on Reddit #81236746

BrainArson@reddit

That's the exact thing I think of when somedude says "I wAnT a BiG tIdDy gOtH gIrL"
View on Reddit #80899976

Snoo_58305@reddit

They’re physically addicted to good times and know that extremely bad times make the good times taste better. They eat shit so that steak is transcendent.
View on Reddit #80769885

bitchnibba47@reddit

![gif](giphy|1S2JQjl2pIj94MdP8x)
View on Reddit #80890877

GeoffreyGeoffson@reddit

>they eat shit so that steak is transcendent Oooft that is a nice quote
View on Reddit #80770562

ElectroMagnetsYo@reddit

I’ve been awake for hours but that sentence woke me up
View on Reddit #80833984

misterpickles69@reddit

Found my next tattoo
View on Reddit #80780175

Annatar_Artano@reddit

Put it on your neck.
View on Reddit #80799752

Dribblejam@reddit

img
View on Reddit #80827685

Koi-Nami@reddit

As a girl with bpd, this is one of the most stupid comments I have read in a while.
View on Reddit #80792497

CACAMASIVA@reddit

The irony
View on Reddit #80793124

Pingushagger@reddit

This comment made her cheat on her bf for the 8th time. Thanks for that.
View on Reddit #80796637

CACAMASIVA@reddit

Lmao
View on Reddit #80824748

NullHypothesisCicada@reddit

Reddit poet
View on Reddit #80815050

Appropriate_Banana@reddit

Trauma bonding is a bitch
View on Reddit #80799827

IM_INSIDE_YOUR_HOUSE@reddit

Goddamn that’s some fucking fire wisdom
View on Reddit #80799582

Xenochu86@reddit

This is literature
View on Reddit #80791770

Useful_Taro9125@reddit

https://preview.redd.it/rq3jpm8b5apg1.jpeg?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9af953dc277ea7cff4bf31a01d831da369e17c4d
View on Reddit #80776596

Outrageous_Basis_997@reddit

![gif](giphy|dWUh7DYYCLeVBu91yd)
View on Reddit #80774652

Capnmarvel76@reddit

![gif](giphy|H8EcVo9V89e5SrUful)
View on Reddit #80773045

Commodus_Wankus@reddit

Hellraiser vibes
View on Reddit #80771173

mason878787@reddit

The trick is to love bomb them into getting meds and therapy
View on Reddit #80796857

myrmexxx@reddit

It works until they decide that meds and therapy already did their job so they don't need them anymore and then the manic states hit'em like a train and shit goes hard pretty quickly
View on Reddit #80875352

ya_boi_kaneki@reddit

typical "i can fix her" mentality until they actually experience their so called fantasy. but not like telling them not to be stupid will actually change anything
View on Reddit #80773503

MonsutaReipu@reddit

My experiences weren't like that at all. A lot of these girls don't seem broken to begin with, because they've gotten very good at masking all of their problems and mental illness. This archetype of person desires attention and validation above all else and they know exactly how to get it. They want to be loved, desired, and obsessed over like a conquest. Once they get it, it's never enough and they move on to the next one. Now once you gain some experience and know what signs to look out for, or start trusting in certain stereotypes a bit more, it should get a little easier to spot these types before they ruin your life.
View on Reddit #80777256

poop-machines@reddit

Imo you're both kind of right. Dated a girl with BPD who gave me a distrust and trauma I never knew existed. This made me better at watching out for people like that tin the future and made me much stronger. I had to become stronger to leave. Since then, I came across girls with BPD, and quickly avoided them. I recognised the signs, they didn't even have to tell me.
View on Reddit #80820558

Odd_Plankton_925@reddit

Accurate lol. A few months back, i hung out with a girl that i had been texting from hinge. After the first hang out session, i just point blank asked if she had BPD after an entire night of red flags during conversation. She said yes. I politely told her i wish her the best and it wasn't going to work. I was actually very proud of my character development because she was very attractive and pretty fun to talk to. 5 years ago id have definitely ignored my gut instinct. Look at me making non self-destructive decisions :D
View on Reddit #80862431

Lpfanatic05@reddit

Depends, is a big tiddy goth gf? Or a dump-truck goth gf?
View on Reddit #80802674

WeeTheDuck@reddit

both
View on Reddit #80841075

Loktarian@reddit

Mine just disappeared after 3 weeks. Her sister claims she bought one way ticket to Malaysia, but we never heard of her again.
View on Reddit #80777988

Ducokapi@reddit

Sitcom ahh explanation for the absence of a beloved character in new season
View on Reddit #80782351

-esperanto-@reddit

Just say ass bro no one cares
View on Reddit #80805153

hstormsteph@reddit

# ASS
View on Reddit #80827213

KitchenAd5997@reddit

It what the cool kids say nowadays
View on Reddit #80817434

KillBosby@reddit

I bucked my bronco for 18 months - I feel like a real cowboy! 🤠
View on Reddit #80791653

leredspy@reddit

Happened to me years back. Started off like it's the best thing that happened to me. I to this day instinctually twitch when someone out of my vision touches me even if it's someone close.
View on Reddit #80773531

hstormsteph@reddit

Yeah. Same here brother. Even though she's dead now, I'm still looking over my shoulder when I end up in her city. Grippy socks, grippy box tho good lord.
View on Reddit #80827009

poop-machines@reddit

Same, I still overexplain myself in anticipation of a blowup. Still have lasting trauma. Still flinch when partners raise their hands. Still twitch when someone touches. Still say "I'm just going to the toilet" whenever I go to the bathroom because I'm afraid of them blowing up at me for not telling them.
View on Reddit #80820709

Thrasympmachus@reddit

I respect the honesty
View on Reddit #80783327

CaloricDumbellIntake@reddit

If I got BPD will it cancel out?
View on Reddit #80818188

TwistedBamboozler@reddit

First month? Shit i don’t don’t make it past 2 weeks
View on Reddit #80808356

Icy_Magician_9372@reddit

Now imagine having one of these for a mother.
View on Reddit #80791598

Knightmare_CCI@reddit

eugh, don't remind me
View on Reddit #80807816

Palmajr@reddit

As someone who dated at least two women with BPD this is insanely real. The latest is just as described. First few months were incredible. The lovebombing is crazy. I felt as if she was the one, but if I did anything without telling her, shit went downhill fast. It started to drain me really, really quickly. I'm not exactly communicative, especially when I am angry and I tend to shut myself off, which to someone with BPD and attachment issues feels like death. At a specific point I started to actually research BPD and communication techniques but it was too late and I eventually lashed out at her with all I was feeling and it ended. Would I do it again? Absolutely.
View on Reddit #80807409

static989@reddit

Yeah, was in a relationship with someone with BPD for 5 years, eventually became abusive. Relationship ended almost 2 years ago and the whole thing absolutely trashed my mental health. Not worth
View on Reddit #80799601

Thanag0r@reddit

Real life skill issues.
View on Reddit #80770517

MonsutaReipu@reddit

Good luck bro. There are some lessons people just need to learn themselves.
View on Reddit #80777035

LittleHeartlessAlien@reddit

I had one about twenty years ago. A few months into the relationship, her therapist pulled me aside and told me she was concerned because my girl had visions of harming people and needed me to be aware of that for my safety and the safety of others. When I broke it off with her, she tried to stab me to death with a kitchen knife.
View on Reddit #80769955

MonsutaReipu@reddit

I had more than one, because I don't learn lessons easily, and one of them told me that all of her ex boyfriends raped her. I don't know why that wasn't a red flag to me at the time, or why it came as a surprise when I heard word she said the same thing about me after we broke up, which was because she was cheating on me. Your story is much worse. We need to spread awareness for the youth especially in this era of hot goth baddies.
View on Reddit #80776995

SirBorkel@reddit

Been there, still miss her, it was like a drug, not healthy
View on Reddit #80769808

Acceptable_Willow276@reddit

If you're a sensitive guy who's affable and socially pleasant, you attract those people because they get good value out of playing with you
View on Reddit #80769834

Hyper98@reddit

I fell for this twice already. Now I automatically assume they’re mentally ill when they express interest.
View on Reddit #80972421

PeanutsNoT@reddit

I lost mine and want her back, we are not the same.
View on Reddit #80910815

jayeddy99@reddit

I have a ex with later in life BPD she’ll call 40 times just to talk things out . It’s years after the break up so I listen to her and let her speak her mind/vent as long as she promises to keep up with her medication and therapy sessions .
View on Reddit #80769492

justkiddingdao@reddit

So wait you can just develop bpd later on? Can you cure it?
View on Reddit #80778811

jayeddy99@reddit

I think hers is trauma related . She’s been through a lot and has manic episodes every other month .
View on Reddit #80779899

Koi-Nami@reddit

BPD doesn't have mania. :) -girl with bpd
View on Reddit #80792324

Terflog@reddit

I guess you didn't want to talk about the voices so you deleted your comments? Was a simple question really.
View on Reddit #80827870

Koi-Nami@reddit

BPD doesn't involve hearing voices lol. Thanks.
View on Reddit #80828399

Terflog@reddit

Auditory verbal hallucinations affect 25- 50% of those affected by bpd
View on Reddit #80828633

-YggDrazil-@reddit

Yeah that's bullshit, lol
View on Reddit #80898292

Terflog@reddit

Read the correction below
View on Reddit #80898787

Koi-Nami@reddit

I don't think you really know anything at all. 'hearing voices' and other such hallucinations is not a daily life sort of thing for people with bpd, it can happen when extremely stressed or upset or going through something emotionally difficult :3 thank you for acting as if you know anything at all, and tysmm for being EXTRA weird for using another account to spam reply to me.
View on Reddit #80829370

Terflog@reddit

Oh shit thats why i couldnt find my comments, thought that was odd. The statistics on hallucinations in bpd are easy to look up at this point. Youre the only person with bpd I've talked to about this that doesnt have auditory hallucinations. Or at the very least the only one who says they dont have them. It is being discovered that auditory hallucinations are much more common with bpd than previously believed.
View on Reddit #80829629

egggspecial@reddit

they were easy to look up, you're right! BPD is not associated with hallucinations during episodes, even severe ones. what does occur is distressing intrusive voices and imagery that are known to be internal. bipolar, especially BP-I *IS* associated with manic hallucinations. physical reality-testing is maintained with BPD; it's the internal world where the distortion happens.
View on Reddit #80857399

Koi-Nami@reddit

Bro I think you need more therapy than I do. Shoo.
View on Reddit #80829794

Terflog@reddit

Misinformation. Thats for hallucinations in general. 50-90% experience voices.
View on Reddit #80828717

Terflog@reddit

Now I know you dont know about damn thing 💀
View on Reddit #80828520

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

Yes they do.
View on Reddit #80799331

Koi-Nami@reddit

No.... no they do not! :) But thank you for being wrong. Mania is part of a bipolar diagnosis and is not at all part of a bpd diagnosis <3
View on Reddit #80818772

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

No it's true. I experience both types on a regular basis.
View on Reddit #80819093

Koi-Nami@reddit

Again, it is NOT part of bpd, and you can have concurrent mental health issues (like bpd + bipolar) or be delusional! :)
View on Reddit #80819400

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

Yeah not true. It can be easily. Wife just had bipolar removed as a diagnosis. Still has TRUE manic episodes. Every rando wants to act like an expert but even the experts disagree with each other and dsm is ever changing.
View on Reddit #80821497

Koi-Nami@reddit

.......TRUE manic episodes is not a part of a bpd criteria and any actual doctor that specializes in bpd knows that. :) The DSM is not ever changing, it has had the same criteria for a long time and it is not ever mania <3
View on Reddit #80821965

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

No its mania. You dont get to just say what it is or isn't lmao. You dont know. Also the dsm was last revised in 2022. Ever changing.
View on Reddit #80822228

Koi-Nami@reddit

Actually, the last actual change to the bpd DSM criteria was in 1994 :) which added 'psychotic-like' symptoms. In 2022, the dsm itself was updated but the criteria for bpd wasnt changed :3 nice try. Mania is not a part of BPD and you can pretend all you like, it doesn't make it true. But I hope your wife finds the cause!
View on Reddit #80822424

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

Youre just splitting hairs now lmao it was changed in 2022. The change not being about bpd doesnt mean the dsm isn't ever changing. All criteria being changed was never my focus, just yours in a strawman style effort to be contrarian. I understand you feel that mental health needs to be concrete but it isn't, especially with bpd, psychiatrists seriously either turn tail or bullshit their way through it.
View on Reddit #80823248

Koi-Nami@reddit

....Bro... The criteria for bpd has not been changed until 1994... Which means no, the dsm for bpd is not 'ever-changing' and mania is NOT a part of the diagnosis and you can't just say it is simply because your wife has it lol. I trust the experts and my own bpd experience more than you.
View on Reddit #80823368

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

I never said the dsm for bpd. I said the dsm is ever changing. A blanket and true statement that does not go into specifics. You haven't dealt with many experts then obviously. That being said the dsm has been updated many times throughout its iterations to improve upon false information within itself. There's no saying in the next dsm bpd isn't changed. The study of mental health is much less developed than other areas of health. Hell lobotomies were practiced for 40 years before we got a better understanding of how the brain works. Mental health diagnoses being one size fits all just makes it easier for professionals to label and dismiss clients. I cant say it is a part of it as much as you cant say it isn't.
View on Reddit #80824133

Koi-Nami@reddit

Good luck lol
View on Reddit #80824166

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

I don't need it. For as much as I've studied her mental health and a large number of bpd havers after meeting her, navigating it is second nature now. All I ever have to do is say what im thinking and then it turns out her therapist said the same thing and us both saying the same thing without ever talking to each other gives her an epiphany. The crazier thing is shes a social worker who specializes in adult care. So in the end it takes 2 people saying to her what she says to clients. Side note and feel free to scroll on, but does god talk to you? No matter what both her therapist and i say nothing has gotten through to her that it isn't god talking(she literally has never even been to church let alone read from the bible so we dont get were the religiousness comes from)
View on Reddit #80825735

Puzzleheaded-Ad2905@reddit

The dsm-6 is projected to release in 2030 as well. So ever changing.
View on Reddit #80822285

do_meme_for_OP_tanks@reddit

Hello can you say broadly what is right and wrong in this thread I don't understand what BPD is anymore 😅 Sources on the internet doesn't explain well what it actually feels like to have it
View on Reddit #80792751

HeavenBaron@reddit

Basically think of a really fluid, shallow and insecure sense of self, with severely amplified emotions. Any small thing can be a trigger and make you feel like some great injustice or conspiracy has taken place against you, and encourage you to act unhinged, psychotic, unhealthily etc. there is always a trigger. For bipolar, mood swings occur over long periods and for no discernible reason, for bpd you may have several crashouts a day, or none for a month, it depends, if there are no triggers, life goes on.
View on Reddit #80797290

jayeddy99@reddit

I just means she had episodes I’m don’t know all the terms I just try to be there for her the best I can give her patience and a person to talk to without judgement
View on Reddit #80793092

IMN0VIRGIN@reddit

Man with BPD here. BPD often gets misdiagnosed as depression and/or PTSD in men, partly to do with stigma with mental health. It also can develop in young adult and usually does due to historic factors, often to due with multiple incidents with things like betrayal, parental abuse and abandonment. It can be treated with therapy, but treatment can be years of work and often relies on success both inside and outside of therapy, which is difficult as the biggest enemy to someone with BPD is said person with BPD.
View on Reddit #80784779

Carbonatite@reddit

And alternately, depression and PTSD in women often get misdiagnosed as BPD! Gender tropes suck
View on Reddit #80831056

LEGAL_SKOOMA@reddit

yes, you can even inherit genes that make developing bpd a lot more likely no, but you can treat it to the point where it isn't really a problem anymore. takes a lot of work though
View on Reddit #80780900

andooet@reddit

"get a gf with BPD like I always wanted" ... and that's why we don't feel bad for Anon today
View on Reddit #80769446

xyLteK@reddit

Yeah I can't understand why anyone would want this. It's just daily psychological torture and walking on eggshells hoping you don't accidentally do something to set her off, and if you do... there's absolutely nothing you can do. I guess some people are desperate enough to get laid that they're (initially) willing to put up with it, but it very rarely lasts long term.
View on Reddit #80771458

Ssyynnxx@reddit

For me it was low self esteem; this person makes you feel like you're god sometimes and the rest of the time makes you feel like subhuman dogshit
View on Reddit #80774048

xyLteK@reddit

Yeah real. For me I was 19 and hadn't dated anybody to that point, so when this girl comes into my life and says all these nice things about me, I was pretty desperate to hold onto her. That desperation kinda blinded me to how cruel and manipulative she was actually being, and it took me an embarrassingly long time to figure it out for myself. I wouldn't wish that situation onto anybody.
View on Reddit #80774458

Bluejay017@reddit

i’m in the exact same scenario right now i wouldnt wish this on anyone
View on Reddit #80848403

xyLteK@reddit

Run
View on Reddit #80852023

Bluejay017@reddit

i just feel awful she has so much bad shit going on in her life this girl has never had a good day in her entire life so i feel awful wanting to break up with her
View on Reddit #80871035

xyLteK@reddit

Yeah well. In the end you're not the one responsible for her pain. If she isn't in the right headspace to maintain a stable and long term relationship, you shouldn't be the one punished for it. You just reaffirm that you're always willing to support and be there for her, relationship or not. I think that's the most that should be reasonably expected of you in the situation you're in, and it isn't your fault if she can't accept that. Just do whatever you think is best for you both
View on Reddit #80889210

Gaybulge@reddit

Are you me? Bc the exact same thing happened to me at the exact same age lol
View on Reddit #80857941

Knightmare_CCI@reddit

As one who is also 19 and also hasn't dated These anecdotes intimidate me somewhat
View on Reddit #80807857

xyLteK@reddit

Basically my advice would be to not put out for the first girl who shows you affection, know your worth. Don't feel pressured to commit to anything serious if you're not 100% sure it is sustainable long term
View on Reddit #80852527

Ssyynnxx@reddit

Idk why it became a meme to want to find someone severely mentally ill to be your gf. I almost got killed and i lost years of my life. Never ever put up with that shit dude
View on Reddit #80824773

Ssyynnxx@reddit

I was 21 & yeah, in hindsight i got targeted. Seeing these posts used to make me mad as hell because anyone that says they want this definitely hasn't been through it lol. It fucked me up for a very long time. I'm glad you got out of that man
View on Reddit #80774921

NevermoreKnight420@reddit

Yeah I've seen this on reddit a lot the last few months and assume it's a meme. Dating people with mental illness irl can be very challenging, even if they're in treatment. Sure the sex is usually fire, but you can find that with more stable people too.
View on Reddit #80789452

QuestionablePotato42@reddit

It’s because the sex is unreal
View on Reddit #80822307

xyLteK@reddit

Lol I didn't even get to that stage, we had phone sex but nothing physical. Maybe that was lucky for me though as she had a body count and I might have gotten some nasty STD from her
View on Reddit #80852283

eximology@reddit

Might happen borderline people are promiscuous. My ex would flirt and whore with everyone that came her way 
View on Reddit #80884336

eximology@reddit

They think it is yandare but yandare irl is less cute 
View on Reddit #80780672

Ryntex@reddit

I kinda do. Sounds stupid, but he's probably a naive kid who didn't know any better.
View on Reddit #80813292

Capnmarvel76@reddit

‘I finally attached a car battery to my testicles, like I always wanted!
View on Reddit #80773106

AttakZak@reddit

I have two friends with BPD. One has “Quiet” BPD and the other has “Impulsive/Self-Destructive” BPD. The “Impulsive/Self-Destructive” one did everything under the sun after they refused to take their meds and even accused our friends who got into a relationship that they abandoned her which ruined our friendship group. The “Quiet” BPD one just gets very sad, has an eating disorder, and needs constant reassurance. Can you guess which one became a veterinarian? At least she takes her meds again.
View on Reddit #80771311

vini_2003@reddit

...the quiet one became a veterinarian in my friends group. This feels all too similar haha
View on Reddit #80794280

DonkeyTheKing@reddit

why is bpd n vet a thing??
View on Reddit #80861847

AttakZak@reddit

For some people I think it takes helping in some meaningful way to quiet the self-doubt that BPD can bring.
View on Reddit #80794950

DonkeyTheKing@reddit

na yall lost i acc bagged a petite half white half latina BPD baddie n it's been going well 🤙
View on Reddit #80861409

Individual-Heart-719@reddit

The only ones who wins in this game are the ones who don't play, or the man who smashes once and then blocks.
View on Reddit #80769768

crimsonpowder@reddit

The king move is called the “bust and bounce”
View on Reddit #80775975

Gaybulge@reddit

https://preview.redd.it/1ajs4v26fhpg1.png?width=3840&format=png&auto=webp&s=0def5eb0a2faf838a47fd4ab842351edac5cf4ef
View on Reddit #80858185

Rodmeister36@reddit

Ah the old nut and bolt
View on Reddit #80778054

Karmafication@reddit

Ol' skeet and retreat.
View on Reddit #80794080

far-out-dude@reddit

Ah yes the classic orgasm and then go home and discontinue the relationship
View on Reddit #80797497

TechnicalLocksmith92@reddit

Conceive and leave
View on Reddit #80838714

Gaybulge@reddit

My ex-GF probably had BPD, and I have completely sworn off dating thanks to how much of a shitshow that was.
View on Reddit #80857869

xxwarlorddarkdoomxx@reddit

Bro got a bipolar gf and thought he’d never see the other pole
View on Reddit #80769801

retardinho23@reddit (OP)

bpd is actually borderline personality disorder
View on Reddit #80769872

PFGtv@reddit

Genuine question: what’s the difference?
View on Reddit #80795249

UbenYankenoff@reddit

Bipolar is more like extreme mood swings, while borderline is like the feeling of insecurity you get, times 100, and it can be onset by plenty of things that would upset you/make you feel insecure So like, my boss was bipolar, and he would tell us to do stuff, then come back later and yell at us for not doing it faster (even though there were things that kept us from completing the work) then see us later and be all smiles and 'hey guys, how's it going' all within like 3 hours Much like the post lol, it was great with my ex for like 4 months, but then my Ex would be insecure, need constant reassurance and validation, then split and call me a POS for minor things/because she would be upset. So they are very similar, but slightly different
View on Reddit #80796709

thisisridiculous96@reddit

Why is such an incorrect post so highly upvoted?
View on Reddit #80857761

underwear_dickholes@reddit

Noooo, bipolar is more like days, weeks, or months of manic then depressive episodes. Borderline is more like extreme mood swings within minutes. Bpd is extremely unstable, volatile, hostile, manipulative, etc - the worst traits and known to be one of the, if not THE, worst personality disorders. Especially since it's nearly untreatable with medication.
View on Reddit #80799443

YeetmanRey@reddit

What are you talking about?? Yeah medication is not the primary treatment, therapy is, but it can be used alongside and help. Bpd is not "bad person disorder". People can have bpd and just live normally or people can not have bpd and be the worst manipulative assholes you've met. Pointless categorization
View on Reddit #80800516

arbydallas@reddit

Yeah I've been diagnosed with BPD and even though the diagnosis doesn't really fit me very well I've read a lot about it and talked with a lot of mental health professionals. This thread is all about catastrophizing and shitting on people with mental health problems. BPD can definitely cause a lot of trouble in the lives of patients and those close to us/them but uhh some of this is pretty wack
View on Reddit #80831611

xxwarlorddarkdoomxx@reddit

Okay then bro got a borderline personality gf and thought he’d never see the border
View on Reddit #80770086

RepulsiveVacation933@reddit

https://preview.redd.it/7194nwrt6epg1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76b1e6a99fc8604ebbce8729032a6aab8705b305
View on Reddit #80809731

ThatFuckingGeniusKid@reddit

![gif](giphy|VIPfTy8y1Lc5iREYDS|downsized)
View on Reddit #80777846

BigHeadDeadass@reddit

Same thing, right?
View on Reddit #80795609

Outis918@reddit

This isn’t BPD it’s just being a shitty woman lol
View on Reddit #80790902

Money_Ad1028@reddit

It's both
View on Reddit #80846051

Koi-Nami@reddit

They cant comprehend that bpd doesn't equal bad and that a person can just be a bad person regardless of diagnosis :/
View on Reddit #80820325

SaboTheRevolutionary@reddit

Nah, that is definitely BPD
View on Reddit #80809534

LeatherDescription26@reddit

As someone who has the misfortune of a BPD woman being in his life I can’t believe anyone would ever want that. Like even the highs get annoying as hell to deal with because 1 you know the fall is coming and 2 love bombing that intense is just too much. Also they may seem all over the place but I’ve seen how malicious they can be if they want to, imho BPD is right up there with NPD and ASPD. It’s not the fun mental disability like mild autism or ADHD. Wanting a girl with it is like wanting to be around Hannibal lecter
View on Reddit #80793298

Money_Ad1028@reddit

Literally. All cluster B personality disorders are about the same level of awful to be around. Step mother is diagnosed BPD my grandmother is diagnosed Histrionic personality disorder and just like everyone else I've known people with NPD and ASPD. It's nothing to glamorize they will all ruin your life and genuinely enjoy doing it, because they'll convince themselves (and everyone else) that everything was actually your fault.
View on Reddit #80845863

No-Play2726@reddit

![gif](giphy|99sF595rq30Vxhkl0I|downsized)
View on Reddit #80839550

BlackfyreNick@reddit

No way that tweet was from 2023. That’s some peak 2013 Trump tweeting
View on Reddit #80769184

onarainyafternoon@reddit

I mean, yeah, I don't even think the tweet is real. No fucking way Trump knows what BPD is.
View on Reddit #80771365

maxseale11@reddit

He probably thinks it mean big penis disease
View on Reddit #80787738

nEwBiEKC@reddit

Disease? lol
View on Reddit #80819701

Money_Ad1028@reddit

LWell yeah, if he doesn't have it must be bad. Awful. Terrible really. One of the worst diseases you can possibly get I promise that the best don't need big penis disease.
View on Reddit #80837071

-esperanto-@reddit

You guys are painfully dull if you thought it was real to begin with
View on Reddit #80805266

ThisUsernameis21Char@reddit

That's an edit of his post about vaccines and autism
View on Reddit #80801939

vjmdhzgr@reddit

My best guess is they edited an original "many such cases" tweet.
View on Reddit #80796713

i_always_give_karma@reddit

I’ve been with my BPD girlfriend for 5 years and it’s nothing like any of the bs you read online. Yeah she’s sensitive, but she isn’t a manipulative monster. She crashes out over things that would just piss other people off a bit. And when something good happens, it’s like Jesus descended from the sky and kissed her on the forehead. It’s just emotions that are more extreme than regular.
View on Reddit #80834823

outland_king@reddit

Why is it always the girls who are BPD, and guys are just labeled as assholes? When was the last time someone mentioned a story about a guy with BPD?
View on Reddit #80834192

ChoiceFudge3662@reddit

I’m convinced this is just the experience dating women in general, that’s why I switched to men
View on Reddit #80791871

SaboTheRevolutionary@reddit

Unfortunately men can have BPD too
View on Reddit #80809412

ChoiceFudge3662@reddit

Yeah but we’re pressured by society never to show emotion so BPD guys are basically just normal men.
View on Reddit #80833954

jonatna@reddit

Notably, not everyone with BPD experiences it the same way. Lots of people are functioning in relationships with BPD. They are not radioactive. It's notable that the person in this greentext went looking specifically for a toxic relationship.
View on Reddit #80777729

Carbonatite@reddit

Yeah the fetishization is super gross. I have CPTSD from growing up with a step parent who had an undiagnosed personality disorder, like I know in detail how awful those experiences can be. The fact that people casually sexualize legitimately traumatic experiences is weird as fuck.
View on Reddit #80831214

NodesJourney@reddit

Holy shit, a positive comment! Fetishization of BPD is mega weird and the dude absolutely did it to himself. Not saying the girl is in the right either though because if the greentext is to be believed she doesnt seem to be working on her BPD either.
View on Reddit #80782880

ToxinWolffe@reddit

Being a guy with BPD i relate to both sides the guy and the gf...
View on Reddit #80827430

Satisfying_Fog17@reddit

An astoundingly simple and economic solution is possible: to tell her that you no longer care about her due to her betrayal. I can assure you she shall beg you on her very knees to come back. Alternatively, she may attempt to murder you, but that is just a risk.
View on Reddit #80769345

JunoJune73@reddit

Both of that happened to me
View on Reddit #80824580

xyLteK@reddit

Yeah I tried this and she never contacted me again lol Haven't heard anything for over 5 years now, all her accounts are gone so I have no clue if she's even around anymore
View on Reddit #80771150

BigHeadDeadass@reddit

Best case scenario
View on Reddit #80795553

Satisfying_Fog17@reddit

Merely reading this truly renders me desolate.
View on Reddit #80773237

Hollow-Lord@reddit

Nah, though people with BPD aren’t a monolith that kind of thinking is for only some types of people and usually not ones with BPD. The extreme sensitivity and wild extreme emotions would mean any rejection is more likely going to lead to her leaving entirely or murdering you and then leaving entirely.
View on Reddit #80791221

Yoda2000675@reddit

Do NOT get with a BPD chick. Dear god. They will stalk you after ending things
View on Reddit #80819286

TargetRupertFerris@reddit

Livia Soprano taught me never get romatically involved with someone with BPD
View on Reddit #80818463

L_Onesto_Steve@reddit

My first relationship was with a BDP girl, shit was traumatizing. Stay away from girls with mental health problems, it's not worth it.
View on Reddit #80815995

Thedran@reddit

6 years with a girl that had it and she destroyed my personality, isolated me from all my relationships, was a major factor in my worsening PTSD and making relationships is like swimming through molasses because I have to keep reminding myself they aren’t looking for ammunition and probably genuinely mean what they say. Hers was bad and pretty sure she got some of her moms diagnosed Narcism too but it still makes meal on eggshells anytime I hear someone I’m talking to has it and I hate it.
View on Reddit #80805833

Kaie1313@reddit

Meanwhile I am a man with BPD...the opposite end. I am pretty much destined to die alone... probably sad. Maybe with dementia from all of the psych meds I take...and I regret all of the times I abused my ex also with BPD....she realized I am too far gone. Even she tried to get better and she found a far better man then I'll ever be.
View on Reddit #80773767

Tomachian@reddit

Never too late to change, you might always have these impulses but you can condition yourself to not immediately give in to them. You've already acknowledged your issues and its great step towards getting a hold of it
View on Reddit #80804284

danielifico@reddit

Ts just true and heterosexual. Fuck bpd hoes man
View on Reddit #80769579

Tomachian@reddit

Literally?
View on Reddit #80804056

sharktail_tanker@reddit

Never put your dick in crazy
View on Reddit #80769462

beegproblemzzz@reddit

*Always
View on Reddit #80771721

xXHalalManXx@reddit

Never**
View on Reddit #80795172

Gullible-Trainer5508@reddit

Gonna\*\*
View on Reddit #80797570

IM_INSIDE_YOUR_HOUSE@reddit

Cum***
View on Reddit #80799754

xXxMindBreakxXx@reddit

Never forget to***
View on Reddit #80795805

beegproblemzzz@reddit

Wipe***
View on Reddit #80799285

CanThisBeMyNameMaybe@reddit

I once dated a cute chick who was bipolar af, i lasted 2 months with that shit.
View on Reddit #80796885

xXHalalManXx@reddit

You can’t win with BPD
View on Reddit #80795130

PizzaSniffs@reddit

Just avoid BPD at all times. Juice is never worth the squeeze HOWEVER If they do have BPD and are actively working on it, then fine.
View on Reddit #80791456

MechwolfMachina@reddit

“Finally get a gf with BPD like I always wanted” You attract with what you put out, gg’s
View on Reddit #80790201

forgettfulthinker@reddit

Even having a bpd female friend is absolutely insane
View on Reddit #80788778

Ecstatic_Estimate_24@reddit

When the mentally ill girlfriend I wanted displays signs of mental illness 🤯
View on Reddit #80786879

Capelto@reddit

Married a BPD chick. I'm also Bipolar 1 but we're making it work and it's working well. You get out of it what you put in.
View on Reddit #80771466

justkiddingdao@reddit

Damn bro they’re downvoting you because you’re making it work. Rooting for y’all.
View on Reddit #80778918

theyeshman@reddit

Normies hate it when mentally ill people are functional. Anytime I post about losing my career as a pilot to a bipolar II diagnosis, making it work after seeking treatment, and how fucked up it is that treated mental illness is seen as worse than untreated mental illness in some fields they're rooting for my downfall.
View on Reddit #80783279

HelpMePlxoxo@reddit

Unfortunately, a lot of assholes like someone to punch down on or someone to look at and say "haha, I'm glad that's not me!" When people with disabilities or mental illness actually work their way up, then losers are forced to reflect on how they've achieved nothing despite being perfectly able. Instead of doing that, they'd rather continue to punch down and put others back "in their place". I've seen it happen in real time before in a large online group chat with a dude who was hyper autistic and developmentally disabled. Everyone loved laughing at him and because of that, they pretended to like him. When he got therapy, a girlfriend, and a physics degree, everyone in the chat (who had none of the above) was intentionally trying to push him back to the mental state he was in before. Moral of the story being: some people will always wanna see you fail if it makes them feel better about themselves. Use the naysayers as motivation to prove them wrong. Because they are wrong.
View on Reddit #80785692

jonatna@reddit

Not married but same :)
View on Reddit #80785485

thinn_cs@reddit

Everyone memeing on bpd until you have it yourself
View on Reddit #80770711

NodesJourney@reddit

Lots of misinfornation, bad experiences and, weirdly enough, fetishization of it out there.
View on Reddit #80782944

Spicy_tacos671@reddit

Have some self respect and tell that bitch to go fuck herself. I wish somebody share some body positivity to young teen guys. Never stick it in crazy
View on Reddit #80770760

1967542950@reddit

when I was younger I fell for this, ruined a good chunk of my college years (at least the love life parts of it anyway), now I shout this shit from the rooftops. plsplspls it’s so simple idc if it’s “mean” or “insensitive to her problems” you gotta come first king
View on Reddit #80781256

eximology@reddit

Yeah it is never a good idea. Plus a lot of girls who claim to have complex ptsd are actually borderline my ex for sure was 
View on Reddit #80780439

_Volatile_@reddit

Anon gets mentally ill gf and is surprised to find out she's mentally ill?
View on Reddit #80778840

yeetzapizza123@reddit

It's a green text but this is true and straight 100%
View on Reddit #80776680

Na-na-na-na-na-na@reddit

Baltimore police department has seen better days that’s for sure
View on Reddit #80772376

UnplacatablePlate@reddit

If you really cared about her you would have texted her goodnight and not fallen asleep; it is your fault honestly.
View on Reddit #80771578

Gay_Giraffe_1773@reddit

BPD is a complete bitch. My ex-wife had it, and it was a rololercoaster of crazy until I finally left, and of course, I am the devil incarnate now to her.
View on Reddit #80771490

RatOgryn@reddit

\>stick your dick in crazy. \>be surprised when they're crazy. Many such cases
View on Reddit #80770568

Thanag0r@reddit

It's absolutely your fault. There is no world where it's not your fault. You choose crazy women but want to behave normally around her. That's not how it works. You either play by her rules or find someone in default settings.
View on Reddit #80770367

UpsetPhilosopher4661@reddit

i don't mind the mental and emotional torture but i draw the line at cheating
View on Reddit #80769659

Internal_Paroxysm@reddit

I'll take shit that didn't happen for 600, Alex.
View on Reddit #80769210

SlipperyGibbet@reddit

The rapist for 400
View on Reddit #80769520

One_reedy_boi@reddit

many such cases
View on Reddit #80768951

Mental_Jeweler_3191@reddit

Rookie mistake.
View on Reddit #80768917