Never got to experience anything like a "childhood friend". Family moved around too much, my longest friendship as a kid was a few years long before we moved and I never saw them again. Sometimes I wonder what things would have been like if they'd settled down and I got to actually make long term friends. Hard to imagine.
Stumbled upon your comment, i also didn't get to experience a childhood friendship (not because I moving but bc I genuinely couldn't make long lasting friends). You still have time to make friends that will last a lifte time, maybe not from childhood but at least it's something
I had an ex like this. Highschool girlfriend; her neighbor kept hugging her sensually and laughing at me behind her back. I got pretty pissed but she said it was nothing and he’s just being stupid. Like two months after that she started avoiding me entirely and a week after that I got a note in my locker explaining sh
Pains me to admit that I lived almost exactly this like anon. The only difference is she left me for the guy she cheated on me with and got everything she ever wanted in life at 21 because of it.
I actually have my own perfectly healthy cat. Had her for almost a year, got her when she was two months old. Lost my job at the start of the year but have enough savings to live on my own without income for a year, and I'm using the time to get some data admin and analytics certifications while job hunting. I know most people would probably say that's great, it's just hard sometimes to see that knowing how things ended up with her and I.
I mean, she was also very abusive of me because her mom was horribly abusive of her, but hey, when you've known each other literally your whole life, you kinda can't help but still feel that love.
Her life isn't nearly as perfect as she pretends. Women like that are never satisfied, there's nothing in the world they won't take for granted after enough time.
My ex did this to me right before she went to college. Unfortunately for her she got pregnant dropped out and is now a single mother receiving welfare and living with her grandparents. Sometimes situations sort themselves out
There are good women, and bad women. Quite often bad women turn good women bad. Doesn't really go the other way. As the amount of bad women increases, the amount of bad women increases.
It's not literally exponential, as in it's not x^x.
Let's just say that for every 1 bad woman there is, they corrupt 1.2 peoples minds for the rest of their lives each year. X = the number of women currently bad. Y equals the number that are bad after that year. Let's start out in the year 2000 for the sake of it and say 1% of women were bad then. The world pop then was just over 6 billion, so half of that is 3 billion. 1% of 3 billion is 30 million. So let's solve.
Y = X*1.2
Y = 30 000 000*1.2
Y = 36 000 000
year 2001 = 36 000 000
Y = 36 000 000*1.2
Etc etc
I guess this could be expressed as Y = X(1.2Z) where z is the number of years passed. So if we take that 30 million as X and input 25 years as Z, then we get 900 000 000. The current world pop. is ~8 billion, that's about 23% of the female population today.
Of course, I have not clue what the actual amounts or conversion rates are, but hopefully you can see how out of control it can get.
Woman's biggest downfall is always trusting other women unconditionally. Knew a trad girl who got convinced OF is the way and sex is freedom. She broke up with her high school sweetheart and ended up mother of 3 kids from 3 different strangers and multiple STDs, now she spends her time posting on FB blaming everyone but herself. She also tried to get back with her hs sweetheart, he just laughed and roasted her on a public post so hard she moved to another state.
This is an interesting thing to me, because I know it is real based on experiences from friends but it has been the opposite of my own experience. My fiancé and I have been together for over 7 years and her single friends have always been supportive and loving towards me. If anything they were pressuring me to put a ring on her finger and when I did everyone was happy. These are also not squared away mature people, they’re mostly younger restaurant workers with plenty of issues to go around.
I think this is more of a trend of toxic friendships, where people kind of just accept who they can get as a friend and assume that they have one’s best interest at heart. The other side of the coin would be guys who see their friend growing up and having a stable adult relationship and getting upset because their bro isn’t partying with them anymore.
Same kind of thing happens when you grow up with a poor family and actually make it with a good income. They say shit like “man you used to be cool” and “you lost your roots”. Pride in being poor and envy from those who make it out and not stay in their squalor are never worth your time no matter how related they are to you.
There's a possibility that you're just actually a nice guy, so your wifes friends will obviously support you.
The reality is that nobody divorces / breaks up with someone just because their friends tell them to. That helps with the process, but a lot of this discourse is just ignoring the possibility that the men might actually not be great.
Yeah was going to say it’s just shitty friends that cause this. Real friends will support their friends choices (as long as they’re good choices), shitty friends will get jealous and offer bad advice to bring them down to their level.
I agree with this, just remember a good number of people are fucking stupid and they're still people's friends and give out shit tier advice, you can see it on all the relationship subs on Reddit, dumbasses read a couple sentences about a really complex relationship and just dump their fucking awful armchair psychologist advice and pretend like it's God's gift to the world.
We can blame the friends all we want but you dont just end up with 3 kids by being a hoe because of one occurrence. This is the story of girl fucked up, and kept fucking up, and blaming everyone else makes it more obvious how she ended up at that point.
Happened with a friend of mine. Married with two young kids and very stable life. Started listening to her divorced harpy friends and filled for divorce thinking she would get to keep it all and than some. But my friend had a rough upbringing that gave him amazing survival skills, so he had all his shit covered and decimated her at the divorce settlement. She basically threw everything away by following her amazing friends.
Seriously though, your spouse can flip a switch and be predatory by viewing a divorce as an easy cash flow while they "liberate" themselves. Ive seen it with my brother in law. His ex wife has the strat to breed with a guy, cheat on him, divorce him, and move to the next guy. Repeated that ~3 or 4 times. All as a means to compound child care payments, alimony payments, and get bigger welfare checks. Gaming the divorce court and gov't welfare system so she doesn't have to work. She's a parasite.
Cover your ass and don't be at the end with your face in your hands saying "you think you knew someone for the past "
If the society is just Men fucking Men, there won't be a sequel. Someone's gotta bite the bullet and fuck a couple of female boipussys for the rest of us
I mean someone's gotta make the babies. Not like I want to tho cause women are gay dude, anyway who wants to strip down oil up and wrastle for a few hours?
The elites were. We don’t know much about the average person. Think about it, if gay sex was incredibly common, why would they bother to make art of it?
Pfft, that's why we use AI to make the perfects gfs.
[Please don't. In fact, stop using anything that has AI as soon as you can. Your information is being fed to american data centers by everything and any one. Do not make it easier for them]
Anon misses the fact that women are equal to men…and therefore also prone to being shit people. In fact, most women can’t really be defined as simply “good” or “bad” - you know, like all people.
Anon’s real problem was making women into some kind of fantastical being as represented in TV, movies, and anime, while also interpreting one woman’s actions as the actions of an entire gender.
Anime girls strong and equal? Lmao the life cycle of an anime girl is to be strong in her youth, meet the main character and then become far weaker for no good reason, become a lobotomized wife figure and then finally get fridged for the next main character's tragic history
Obligatory not all anime girls, but a lot of them, and far more likely if it's an anime "I grew up watching"
The sluttiest girlfriend I’ve ever had has cheated on me countless times with different people (I mean, one time we broke up and didn’t talk for a week her parents told me she was coming home with a different dude every day and they fucked the shit out of each other in her room), we broke up and got together three times, after that I decided enough was enough, and mind you, we weren’t even 20 at the time. Flash forward two years, I stumble upon her social media accidentally and find out she’s now a perfect wife and a mother with the second kid incoming. Of course she can’t afford two kids so she’s begging for a free crib and baby clothes. Meanwhile I’m living a pretty good life. I only feel bad for the kids.
Oh, and if someone’s wondering why did I even bother getting back with her. Well, first reason is she was my first real partner, second and more important is that she threatened to commit if I don’t. One time she even told me a story how she cut her wrists and ended up in ICU, but she didn’t even bother bandaging her wrists when we met to discuss it to hide the fact they’re absolutely intact.
Anyway, don’t know why I’m telling this ancient story here, have a good day everyone.
Sounds like she's doing well overall and has changed then if she's a perfect wife and mother. Fucking sucks that you see people capable of doing great things, just can't be that for you. But aside from the financial issues hopefully she has changed for the better.
Im convinced humans aren’t made for long term relationships anymore, the optimal way to live as a man is by fucking and enjoying the company of random women you click with, while never committing too much so you don’t get hurt when they eventually leave.
You are a coward, and it shows in how you say you interact with women here. Everyone has vulnerabilities, and showing yours to people you trust, even if they might use it to hurt you, is a strength. In romance it shows that you trust your partner, and if they end up leaving you because of it, they weren't worth keeping around anyway. Hiding from commitment, hiding from vulnerability, is cowardice, plain and simple.
Why would I ever show my vulnerabilities to anyone? That sounds like it’ll just get me hurt more often than not, you can delude yourself into thinking it makes you strong, but you’re just enduring unnecessary pain in the name of finding an exception to the rule.
But that exception makes it worth it. Hiding your baggage out of fear, rather than facing them head on, is not only, in scientific terms, bitch-made, but it's also unhealthy. Besides, I'm not saying you disclose your vulnerability to everyone, just those you trust. And I know how difficult that is as well, because there's always the knowledge that it could be used against you. But that vulnerability being used against you just lets you know not to trust that person. It doesn't mean you expand that to everyone around you, just that you know where you stand is valuable. Because you can then start to form meaningful relationships, and not just romantically.
I would never wait to have my trust broken before I know if I can’t trust someone, I’ll observe their actions and judge for myself whether or not I can trust them, and to what degree.
I fucking despise trial and error, no woman is worth gambling so much of my time away hoping I’ll find one that doesn’t break my trust, that’s like saying I should just keep hitting the slot machine because eventually I’ll hit the jackpot, no thanks.
I used to feel this way and have had tens and tens of women in my life that proved over and over you can’t trust the other sex. But then I got lucky and one girl came along that showed me that exceptions exist. So try and be open to that.
There just isn't nearly enough hopecore to drown out the negativity. Ended my engagement after 6 years together. What I hate the most is how hard it is to tell yourself you aren't the sole problem/deserve it. Even worse when you see how quickly women bounce back like you never existed (a lot of the time because they already had toes in the water)
Had an ex leave me for someone else thinking she'd be doing better.
I got married a few years later to an amazing lady who's extremely happy with me, in love with me, the rare occasion she gets drunk she's extra lovey and loves to brag about me to our friends and hers.
My ex has a kid, lost all her friendships and didn't make new ones, stuck in a dead marriage to what mutual acquaintances have described as "the most boring man alive", and described her as a "pathetic alcoholic husk of a person".
My first gf was like this up until she thought it would be a good idea to take heroin, cheat on me to get heroin, and then stab me in the hand when I tried to get her to go to rehab. 8 years later she’s calling me the day before my wedding from rehab apologizing and asking if we could meet up and rekindle the relationship, which is when I laughed, said no, told her I was getting married, and then ended the call by saying she was deserved the consequences of her bad decisions. She died a few years later from medical problems that had accumulated from STD’s, drug abuse, and other physical problems from old injuries.
All because she let a bunch of girls she thought was her friends get into her ear and convince her to go down that path
Sonicmasterxyz@reddit
Hard to believe this can really happen to a guy. The image, not the caption.
Internal-Growth4098@reddit
It can you just gotta make sure both parties try to make it meaningful and last for a long time
Sonicmasterxyz@reddit
I mean having a lifelong partner from childhood. It's waaay too late for me
wsdpii@reddit
Never got to experience anything like a "childhood friend". Family moved around too much, my longest friendship as a kid was a few years long before we moved and I never saw them again. Sometimes I wonder what things would have been like if they'd settled down and I got to actually make long term friends. Hard to imagine.
Internal-Growth4098@reddit
Stumbled upon your comment, i also didn't get to experience a childhood friendship (not because I moving but bc I genuinely couldn't make long lasting friends). You still have time to make friends that will last a lifte time, maybe not from childhood but at least it's something
qoheletal@reddit
Did you know in Arab and Muslim culture they prevent women from doing certain things? For instance going out or driving cars.
You think there's more to that?
Sorry_Koala_8181@reddit
Ok, but did he still say yes after posting on 4chan?
az09abaut@reddit
obligatory post of this image due to the image OP used
ConciseSpy85067@reddit
White man has been here
Weekly-Researcher145@reddit
How can you tell?
kardfogK@reddit
Racial cuck porn
AppealHealthy5570@reddit
Those are made by and funded by Jews
Nidus-Zealot@reddit
He's still here
Dont_Touch_My_Nachos@reddit
Hello
Alfred_Leonhart@reddit
I am touching your nachos
DankMemesNQuickNuts@reddit
Racial anxiety about getting cucked by a black guy
Ver_Nick@reddit
It says "white man has been here"
Dog_Got_license@reddit
Shaulaaaaaaaa@reddit
>white men
>image made by asians
rawsausenoketchup16@reddit
image didn't load but I know it's the one about white men leaving a trail of cuck porn.
BenoxNk@reddit
aren’t asians the ones fascinated with being cucked?
Aymoon_@reddit
I think both NTR is very big though
forgettfulthinker@reddit
Ntr is literally a japanese abbreviated word in the english alphabet
breakfasteveryday@reddit
lol wat
familyfriendlyvnmese@reddit
It doesn't matter
drak0ni@reddit
Sounds like a someone competent in photoshop made the edit and improved the image quality to make it seem like it’s the original.
throwawayskinlessbro@reddit
I WAKE UP
grasscoveredhouses@reddit
THERE IS ANOTHER
OberstGankbar@reddit
This broke something in me
backinredd@reddit
It’s called the cuckold angst
jjkm7@reddit
She has ntr eyes in the version anon posted
MorbiusFan31@reddit
I know what you are talking about. Should I end it
HidenTsubameGaeshi@reddit
Don't let your dreams be dreams
GruntBlender@reddit
It's the mythical third version. The ultra original.
girlgamerpoi@reddit
I know I was on to something when I look at the picture and looking for ntr.
godkingrat@reddit
Hate this.
magicarnival@reddit
Neither of these is the version OP posted. The version OP posted has white skin with curly dark hair.
Compay_Segundos@reddit
How very observant of you 😂😂😂
ZX52@reddit
Except neither of these images is the one shown in the OP. It's closer to the "original" with the woman's eyes and baby's hair, but the baby is white.
AlphaMassDeBeta@reddit (OP)
Interesting.
GreenBirbz@reddit
I had an ex like this. Highschool girlfriend; her neighbor kept hugging her sensually and laughing at me behind her back. I got pretty pissed but she said it was nothing and he’s just being stupid. Like two months after that she started avoiding me entirely and a week after that I got a note in my locker explaining sh
rip-droptire@reddit
Was looking like it was about to get racist... the fact the father ended up being not only present but a great dad was a pleasant plot twist
FrozenFern@reddit
57% of Black children in the United States live in homes without their father present, how would it have turned racist?
nEwBiEKC@reddit
This must be satire...
noineikuu@reddit
I dunno. I've seen something very similiar happen twice with different couples.
DukeRed666@reddit
Just go to Missouri, Kansas, Nebraska... you will see things you thought were only possible in internet rage bait.
mandrewsf@reddit
Sounds fucked up enough to be believable. Middle America is really something else.
TrueGootsBerzook@reddit
Pains me to admit that I lived almost exactly this like anon. The only difference is she left me for the guy she cheated on me with and got everything she ever wanted in life at 21 because of it.
Senior_Independence4@reddit
dude get off reddit go get them
pepitobuenafe@reddit
Bad advice, he should get himself. Hit the gym and star saying "bro" to anyone you come across.
TrueGootsBerzook@reddit
Ive been going to the gym for five years, currently have been going four days a week for about nine months
pepitobuenafe@reddit
Keep at it, read some books, work and get enough money to take care of some cat or dog.
TrueGootsBerzook@reddit
I actually have my own perfectly healthy cat. Had her for almost a year, got her when she was two months old. Lost my job at the start of the year but have enough savings to live on my own without income for a year, and I'm using the time to get some data admin and analytics certifications while job hunting. I know most people would probably say that's great, it's just hard sometimes to see that knowing how things ended up with her and I.
I mean, she was also very abusive of me because her mom was horribly abusive of her, but hey, when you've known each other literally your whole life, you kinda can't help but still feel that love.
ambermage@reddit
Very wholesome
Now, 2 options.
smash a femboi
become a trophy husband
No half measures.
FrozenFern@reddit
Fake and gay.
Fwob@reddit
gross.
Fwob@reddit
That's great! Now you need to forget about her.
Her life isn't nearly as perfect as she pretends. Women like that are never satisfied, there's nothing in the world they won't take for granted after enough time.
Solar_RaVen@reddit
Stop hitting the gym, go hiking for a change, gym too crowded... not enough grass.
forgettfulthinker@reddit
Piss on her front door and then shit in her mailbox
girlgamerpoi@reddit
Cheaters will always cheat.
Ecstatic-Compote-595@reddit
dude its highschool lmao what are you from the congo
bendable_girder@reddit
Violence is the only solution here
Cdog536@reddit
I woke up today and decided to tell myself I got bigger problems to worry about. I hope you think the same.
breakfasteveryday@reddit
Pretty rough ngl
glockenballz@reddit
My ex did this to me right before she went to college. Unfortunately for her she got pregnant dropped out and is now a single mother receiving welfare and living with her grandparents. Sometimes situations sort themselves out
mistakesappreciated@reddit
,
TheMorbidHobo@reddit
There are good women, and bad women. Quite often bad women turn good women bad. Doesn't really go the other way. As the amount of bad women increases, the amount of bad women increases.
obsolete_broccoli@reddit
TheMorbidHobo@reddit
The rate, friend. It's exponential.
obsolete_broccoli@reddit
X = X ≠ X₀ × e^(rt)
TheMorbidHobo@reddit
It's not literally exponential, as in it's not x^x.
Let's just say that for every 1 bad woman there is, they corrupt 1.2 peoples minds for the rest of their lives each year. X = the number of women currently bad. Y equals the number that are bad after that year. Let's start out in the year 2000 for the sake of it and say 1% of women were bad then. The world pop then was just over 6 billion, so half of that is 3 billion. 1% of 3 billion is 30 million. So let's solve.
Etc etc
I guess this could be expressed as Y = X(1.2Z) where z is the number of years passed. So if we take that 30 million as X and input 25 years as Z, then we get 900 000 000. The current world pop. is ~8 billion, that's about 23% of the female population today.
Of course, I have not clue what the actual amounts or conversion rates are, but hopefully you can see how out of control it can get.
obsolete_broccoli@reddit
r/theydidthemath
bdrwr@reddit
"Live this until high school"
Okay, so panels 1 and 2 out of 4? Literally only half of the fantasy?
hundenkattenglassen@reddit
Lmao no
Lmao no
Enjoy that single mom life, queen 💅
Even without the kids and fat I’d still be no because my dad didn’t raise any damn simp. A fool, yes. But not a simp.
TomatoSpecialist6879@reddit
Woman's biggest downfall is always trusting other women unconditionally. Knew a trad girl who got convinced OF is the way and sex is freedom. She broke up with her high school sweetheart and ended up mother of 3 kids from 3 different strangers and multiple STDs, now she spends her time posting on FB blaming everyone but herself. She also tried to get back with her hs sweetheart, he just laughed and roasted her on a public post so hard she moved to another state.
torolf_212@reddit
Single women keep women single
TheNathan@reddit
This is an interesting thing to me, because I know it is real based on experiences from friends but it has been the opposite of my own experience. My fiancé and I have been together for over 7 years and her single friends have always been supportive and loving towards me. If anything they were pressuring me to put a ring on her finger and when I did everyone was happy. These are also not squared away mature people, they’re mostly younger restaurant workers with plenty of issues to go around.
I think this is more of a trend of toxic friendships, where people kind of just accept who they can get as a friend and assume that they have one’s best interest at heart. The other side of the coin would be guys who see their friend growing up and having a stable adult relationship and getting upset because their bro isn’t partying with them anymore.
Alfred_Leonhart@reddit
Same kind of thing happens when you grow up with a poor family and actually make it with a good income. They say shit like “man you used to be cool” and “you lost your roots”. Pride in being poor and envy from those who make it out and not stay in their squalor are never worth your time no matter how related they are to you.
Ozuge@reddit
There's a possibility that you're just actually a nice guy, so your wifes friends will obviously support you.
The reality is that nobody divorces / breaks up with someone just because their friends tell them to. That helps with the process, but a lot of this discourse is just ignoring the possibility that the men might actually not be great.
MrSam52@reddit
Yeah was going to say it’s just shitty friends that cause this. Real friends will support their friends choices (as long as they’re good choices), shitty friends will get jealous and offer bad advice to bring them down to their level.
Winter55555@reddit
I agree with this, just remember a good number of people are fucking stupid and they're still people's friends and give out shit tier advice, you can see it on all the relationship subs on Reddit, dumbasses read a couple sentences about a really complex relationship and just dump their fucking awful armchair psychologist advice and pretend like it's God's gift to the world.
secondcondary@reddit
Solar_RaVen@reddit
We can blame the friends all we want but you dont just end up with 3 kids by being a hoe because of one occurrence. This is the story of girl fucked up, and kept fucking up, and blaming everyone else makes it more obvious how she ended up at that point.
DarkScorpion48@reddit
Happened with a friend of mine. Married with two young kids and very stable life. Started listening to her divorced harpy friends and filled for divorce thinking she would get to keep it all and than some. But my friend had a rough upbringing that gave him amazing survival skills, so he had all his shit covered and decimated her at the divorce settlement. She basically threw everything away by following her amazing friends.
girlgamerpoi@reddit
What did he do as pre cautions?
DarkScorpion48@reddit
Had everything documented and married with a good pre-nup she didn’t pay attention to
CPC1445@reddit
Get. And. Sign. Tha. Mutha. Fuckin. Prenup. Booooooys.
Seriously though, your spouse can flip a switch and be predatory by viewing a divorce as an easy cash flow while they "liberate" themselves. Ive seen it with my brother in law. His ex wife has the strat to breed with a guy, cheat on him, divorce him, and move to the next guy. Repeated that ~3 or 4 times. All as a means to compound child care payments, alimony payments, and get bigger welfare checks. Gaming the divorce court and gov't welfare system so she doesn't have to work. She's a parasite.
Cover your ass and don't be at the end with your face in your hands saying "you think you knew someone for the past"
LowerObjective4500@reddit
He casted power word: Exiled
Thegreen9@reddit
I met a girl at work that I fell in love with; she preferred the man who had slept with almost every girl he met.
She once told me that all the men she dated have been bad, but I think the problem is her.
Japponese@reddit
Fake: anon had a girlfriend Gay: anon is disappointed by women and thinks men are better
alfredo094@reddit
Talks like a rabid misogynist
Why aren't women good with me, guys?
Fern-ando@reddit
In greek myth, woman were a punishment to men.
eat_my_bowls92@reddit
They were also super fucking gay, soooo
Happy_Ocelot_4945@reddit
A perfect society. Lost to the sea peoples and the passage of time
Currently_Im_At_Work@reddit
Well of course they lost to the passage of time.
If the society is just Men fucking Men, there won't be a sequel. Someone's gotta bite the bullet and fuck a couple of female boipussys for the rest of us
TheMorbidHobo@reddit
?
Shame4Lyfe@reddit
I mean someone's gotta make the babies. Not like I want to tho cause women are gay dude, anyway who wants to strip down oil up and wrastle for a few hours?
Haunting_Training_59@reddit
Wtf didn't they have Indians back then?
Laxhoop2525@reddit
The elites were. We don’t know much about the average person. Think about it, if gay sex was incredibly common, why would they bother to make art of it?
Able_Caregiver8067@reddit
There are also songs about love, about food, about beer, etc. What kind of logic is this?
TheMorbidHobo@reddit
Men were for love and sex. Women were for breeding.
avagrantthought@reddit
Women were for making more men
Drafo7@reddit
Hesiod was a major incel.
anonareyouokay@reddit
That's why the ancient Greeks were known to give each other brojobs
PointsOfXP@reddit
Imagine working, fucking, and just having fun with zero issues and then a woman walks up. Greeks had it all figured out.
Mrwright96@reddit
And lust from the Devine was the punishment for women
hornwalker@reddit
The smartest thing about this greentext is that anon, at least subconsciously, knew society and anime were two distinct things.
Sheinyjr@reddit
There’s your first fucking issue
TheVoice106point7@reddit
Pfft, that's why we use AI to make the perfects gfs.
[Please don't. In fact, stop using anything that has AI as soon as you can. Your information is being fed to american data centers by everything and any one. Do not make it easier for them]
BannedfromFrontPage@reddit
Anon misses the fact that women are equal to men…and therefore also prone to being shit people. In fact, most women can’t really be defined as simply “good” or “bad” - you know, like all people.
Anon’s real problem was making women into some kind of fantastical being as represented in TV, movies, and anime, while also interpreting one woman’s actions as the actions of an entire gender.
SweetTooth275@reddit
Every time I read something like this almost always it's 🇺🇸. Perhaps the issue is as usually the country (or rather mentality), not the sex.
The_Mad_Pantser@reddit
anon is scorned by 1 woman and extrapolates to 50% of the population
CIMARUTA@reddit
"... Until high school" lol
usingshare@reddit
op had gf when he was a teenager and is still salty about getting broken up with into his twenties
Lolmemsa@reddit
I mean if she contacted him again she’s the one clinging on to it
MorbiusFan31@reddit
30 year old man thinking about his middle school girlfriend bruhhh. Im crine😭😭😭😭
Ubera90@reddit
She was wrong to get back in touch.
Formorri@reddit
Anime girls strong and equal? Lmao the life cycle of an anime girl is to be strong in her youth, meet the main character and then become far weaker for no good reason, become a lobotomized wife figure and then finally get fridged for the next main character's tragic history
Obligatory not all anime girls, but a lot of them, and far more likely if it's an anime "I grew up watching"
steelersfan1069@reddit
Is… is this loss?
eximology@reddit
Haha same thing happened to me but after 11 years of a relationship
Magnus_Helgisson@reddit
The sluttiest girlfriend I’ve ever had has cheated on me countless times with different people (I mean, one time we broke up and didn’t talk for a week her parents told me she was coming home with a different dude every day and they fucked the shit out of each other in her room), we broke up and got together three times, after that I decided enough was enough, and mind you, we weren’t even 20 at the time. Flash forward two years, I stumble upon her social media accidentally and find out she’s now a perfect wife and a mother with the second kid incoming. Of course she can’t afford two kids so she’s begging for a free crib and baby clothes. Meanwhile I’m living a pretty good life. I only feel bad for the kids.
Magnus_Helgisson@reddit
Oh, and if someone’s wondering why did I even bother getting back with her. Well, first reason is she was my first real partner, second and more important is that she threatened to commit if I don’t. One time she even told me a story how she cut her wrists and ended up in ICU, but she didn’t even bother bandaging her wrists when we met to discuss it to hide the fact they’re absolutely intact.
Anyway, don’t know why I’m telling this ancient story here, have a good day everyone.
hewhoreddits6@reddit
Sounds like she's doing well overall and has changed then if she's a perfect wife and mother. Fucking sucks that you see people capable of doing great things, just can't be that for you. But aside from the financial issues hopefully she has changed for the better.
Magnus_Helgisson@reddit
I didn’t believe she REALLY changed back then, but you might be right for all I know.
girlgamerpoi@reddit
Social media is a front. I don't see her posting about fucking different dudes even back then...
rip-droptire@reddit
Ragebait lol
sirbananajazz@reddit
This is why I exclusively go after men (they reject me too)
BanzaiKen@reddit
Blotsy@reddit
You gotta be willing to top
throwawayskinlessbro@reddit
unironically this
the_cum_snatcher@reddit
True and gay
ShitMcClit@reddit
You gotta be doing something wrong then.
Drs3RTH@reddit
ChoiceFudge3662@reddit
Im convinced humans aren’t made for long term relationships anymore, the optimal way to live as a man is by fucking and enjoying the company of random women you click with, while never committing too much so you don’t get hurt when they eventually leave.
theattack_helicopter@reddit
You are a coward, and it shows in how you say you interact with women here. Everyone has vulnerabilities, and showing yours to people you trust, even if they might use it to hurt you, is a strength. In romance it shows that you trust your partner, and if they end up leaving you because of it, they weren't worth keeping around anyway. Hiding from commitment, hiding from vulnerability, is cowardice, plain and simple.
ChoiceFudge3662@reddit
Why would I ever show my vulnerabilities to anyone? That sounds like it’ll just get me hurt more often than not, you can delude yourself into thinking it makes you strong, but you’re just enduring unnecessary pain in the name of finding an exception to the rule.
theattack_helicopter@reddit
But that exception makes it worth it. Hiding your baggage out of fear, rather than facing them head on, is not only, in scientific terms, bitch-made, but it's also unhealthy. Besides, I'm not saying you disclose your vulnerability to everyone, just those you trust. And I know how difficult that is as well, because there's always the knowledge that it could be used against you. But that vulnerability being used against you just lets you know not to trust that person. It doesn't mean you expand that to everyone around you, just that you know where you stand is valuable. Because you can then start to form meaningful relationships, and not just romantically.
ChoiceFudge3662@reddit
I would never wait to have my trust broken before I know if I can’t trust someone, I’ll observe their actions and judge for myself whether or not I can trust them, and to what degree.
I fucking despise trial and error, no woman is worth gambling so much of my time away hoping I’ll find one that doesn’t break my trust, that’s like saying I should just keep hitting the slot machine because eventually I’ll hit the jackpot, no thanks.
-esperanto-@reddit
I used to feel this way and have had tens and tens of women in my life that proved over and over you can’t trust the other sex. But then I got lucky and one girl came along that showed me that exceptions exist. So try and be open to that.
mattmcguire08@reddit
"I was taught by anime..." YOU ARE HERE on your road to idiocracy (getting close)
JoblessJester@reddit
Its only your turn
International-Jury71@reddit
There just isn't nearly enough hopecore to drown out the negativity. Ended my engagement after 6 years together. What I hate the most is how hard it is to tell yourself you aren't the sole problem/deserve it. Even worse when you see how quickly women bounce back like you never existed (a lot of the time because they already had toes in the water)
Serial-Therapist1@reddit
"was told by society and anime" Pack it up anon.
ambermage@reddit
Are you saying that we shouldn't base our understandings of healthy relationships on NEO, Goblin Slayer, Berserk and Redo of Healer?
avagrantthought@reddit
jonatna@reddit
Why can't people take a normal lesson from a situation like this
UntitledPixelArtitst@reddit
Stong, beautiful, I think not, but equal to men, sounds about right.
CannibalisticChad@reddit
Working-Tomato8395@reddit
Had an ex leave me for someone else thinking she'd be doing better.
I got married a few years later to an amazing lady who's extremely happy with me, in love with me, the rare occasion she gets drunk she's extra lovey and loves to brag about me to our friends and hers.
My ex has a kid, lost all her friendships and didn't make new ones, stuck in a dead marriage to what mutual acquaintances have described as "the most boring man alive", and described her as a "pathetic alcoholic husk of a person".
mrinkyface@reddit
My first gf was like this up until she thought it would be a good idea to take heroin, cheat on me to get heroin, and then stab me in the hand when I tried to get her to go to rehab. 8 years later she’s calling me the day before my wedding from rehab apologizing and asking if we could meet up and rekindle the relationship, which is when I laughed, said no, told her I was getting married, and then ended the call by saying she was deserved the consequences of her bad decisions. She died a few years later from medical problems that had accumulated from STD’s, drug abuse, and other physical problems from old injuries.
All because she let a bunch of girls she thought was her friends get into her ear and convince her to go down that path
YoungDiscord@reddit
Anon takes advice from anime
Anon wonders why his ex thought she could do better
gvdc@reddit
How fat is 24 fat? Is that a lot?
SageoftheForlornPath@reddit
he's just not using commas
magicarnival@reddit
Looks like it's around a 3XL
AlphaMassDeBeta@reddit (OP)
In Stone, yes. If you didn't know, bongs weigh themselves in a bunch of stones for some reasons.
all_time_high@reddit
System32Sandwitch@reddit
"sorry, i can do better"
Hackeringerinho@reddit
Hahaha happened to me (but with my first uni gf).
ZX52@reddit
Why does this keep happening?
tarantulator@reddit
Fake, because OP said he had a girlfriend
Gay, because that's why she'd break up with him if she were real.
HeirAscend@reddit
“Told by anime” 😭✌️
ThrenodyCore@reddit
Thenderick@reddit
There are plenty of green flags out there anon!
Chicken-Rude@reddit
they were right, she did do better. but then he became better so she tried to go back to do better.