I mean that's how first dates usually work. People solely go for other's appearance and height and maybe vibes. Sometimes personality but it's usually looks.
Personality and stuff like that usually matters in the long term though.
I'm a chud but 183cm, which is tall in my country's standards so I get to date a lot but the relationship doesn't usually last more than 3 months because I have a shit personality and is emotionally distant.
Also if she said that he was quirky and fun he would say “And she thinks I’m ugly so I know she’s shallow and couldn’t even find anything to compliment my 4/10 appearance on” Anon nuts insecure AF
Nice try, but he specifically stated first that her personality and shared interests are what he likes about her.
If anon is to be believed, that was clearly not a reciprocated feeling
He's probably not that attractive, she still just generally likes him enough that she wants to date him. But she's being polite and telling him what she thinks he wants to hear
But what he actually wants to hear is "You're an ugly freak, but your painfully online personality was just so compelling that I've managed to overcome the nausea I get from looking at you"
I think they should marry and deserve each other. Anon is 25 years old and still has hope he will find someone 'not like the normies', and his date is very obviously lying about being an internet autist because no one who's spent 10 minutes on that side of the internet would say that unironically to a 4chan incel
Huh. Now that I reread his list, it’s literally the most surface level interests. Anime/series can basically be the same thing, and wtf would internet culture even mean? Probably “don’t use TikTok or insta.”
Don't people usually agree to first dates based on appearances? Finding out if they have a compatible personality is the whole point of going on the date.
Pretty much, yeah. Looks and confidence are the baseline for your attractiveness, and it's what gets you in the door unless you start dating someone who's already a friend. Personality traits and mutual interests can make your attractiveness vary above or below that, but not by very much for most people. I've seen people put up with horrible people who they have nothing in common with just because "they're so hot".
It's something I've wrestled with in the past. There have been girls i really liked, but we weren't really compatible. They also weren't interested in me, so it made tye decision not to pursue them even easier.
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