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Adept-Town5944@reddit

From what people usually share, moving across the U.S. isn’t as overwhelming as it sounds; it just comes down to planning and choosing the right method.

Most people either hire a full-service moving company, rent a truck for a DIY move, or use portable storage containers. Some drive everything themselves, while others fly and let movers deliver their belongings a few days later. A common approach is packing essentials in your car and leaving the bulk to professionals.

Many also take the opportunity to declutter selling or donating large furniture instead of paying to move it long distance. It can save both money and effort.

In reality, it’s all about logistics: booking movers early, organizing utilities, and packing properly for a long journey. If you want to keep things simple and stress-free, working with a reliable company like Isaac Moving can really help since they handle most of the heavy lifting and coordination.

At the end of the day, you’re not moving your whole life just the parts you choose to take with you.

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CharlesDickensABox@reddit

Sell everything before you move and buy new stuff when you get there
Get a big truck
Both
There are also moving companies that will bring a container to your house that you pack up and then they ship across the country, but those tend to be more expensive than 1 and 2.

Whereas back in the day with my truck and a log of Copenhagen I did colorado to NY straight shot. Wouldn’t recommend 27 hours of driving for both safety and because it sucks, but that couldn’t be done so easily with a family in the car. I’d usually make that a 3 day drive, go see Scott’s Bluff national park or visit my brother in Chicago on the way.

Just saying the times really balloon when it’s a road trip with the fam versus one guy

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Bright_Ices@reddit

My family did a lot of cross-country road trips when I was kid (and when my sibs were little, so there were 3 of us kids). We did all kinds of fun stops, but we did 22 hours in 3 days pretty regularly and 32 hours in 4 days a few times. I think my parents would have lost it after 5 days in the car.

I had my car shipped this last time for two reasons: 1) nit enough space for what I needed to carry with me, and 2) the major one-I was having electrical problems with all of the lights on the passenger side. I really didn’t feel safe driving 1,000 miles in it.

That turned out to be a very good decision because it turns out there were some major issues after a pin broke off, which then caused some melting. I had taken it to be looked at before I left, but it went out the week before my move and they couldn’t get the piece in until after I was due to leave the state. The first time I took it in, they just said a bulb was out, so my confidence wasn’t super high.

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Beautiful-Report58@reddit

If you have several vehicles, it’s a necessity.

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BlaggartDiggletyDonk@reddit

Or you are moving from, or to, Hawaii.

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ThePickleConnoisseur@reddit

Wear and tear and the costs could be more than just shipping it

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christine-bitg@reddit

It made sense for me to ship my car halfway across the country.

IIRC, "College Hunks" was started by actual college students. I'm sure they're all like 40 now and it is kind of weird, but they probably thought it was funny when they were 19.

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firelock_ny@reddit

they will probably break some stuff you like.

You can get some decent stuff at Goodwill, or at least you used to. I still think about that kitchen table I had.

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AFetaWorseThanDeath@reddit

Nailed it.

I myself have moved many, many times over the years, and every single one of those fell squarely in the first two brackets lol

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bass679@reddit

I've done the first three of these, this is pretty accurate

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nomadschomad@reddit

I would say…

1A. Hire a full service moving company to do at least some of the packing, load the truck, drive your stuff across country, and unload it.

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ShowScene5@reddit

Having moved across country in the past year, it is cheaper to pack your stuff into pods and have them shipped than it is to rent the equivalent volume truck and and pay for the gas to drive it.

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Mustang46L@reddit

There are a bunch of companies that will drop a trailer at your old house so you can fill it as you have time. When you call them they'll pick it up and store it until you're ready to have it delivered to the new place.

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BM7-D7-GM7-Bb7-EbM7@reddit

There are also moving companies that will bring a container to your house that you pack up and then they ship across the country, but those tend to be more expensive than 1 and 2.

I should point out, often times when someone moves across the country it's for a job, and the vast majority of the time the company that hired you will pay for it.

I'd argue actually, if a company wants to you to move across the country and doesn't pay you for those expenses, then don't go work for them, it's not a good company.

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msmsms101@reddit

I honestly found the uboxes and pods to be cheaper than the full name moving companies for cross country.

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kirstynloftus@reddit

Yea, my cousin and her husband moved from Virginia to Alaska and then to Colorado (military), they rented a truck and drove most of their stuff themselves, with the biggest stuff (furniture mostly) driven by a company. But they live a very minimalistic life before that because of how often they move (harder now that they have kids, though)

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This. Its a combination of all of these.

Im probably moving from colorado to Michigan soon. Plan is...

1) sell anything that I dont want and things that I won't want in 2 years. Specifically big items, obviously. 2) Get a "POD" and ship that across the country 3) Pack my car to the brim.

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jdealla@reddit

I moved from NC to CA and back.

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BoopleBun@reddit

You gotta look ‘em up ahead of time, but there are chains that accept them as a general rule.

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DifferentWindow1436@reddit

Hard-core. Good for you. People forget - it doesn't have to look pretty, you just need to get your stuff to the next destination. Have been there myself.

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bonzai113@reddit

I moved everything a truck load at a time. it took me a month and 4 round trips to move everything 4 states away all by myself.

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Most people will hire Moving Companies and Drive themselves.

My wife and I have made a handful of long distance or cross country moves (Alabama->Southern California->A brief move back to Alabama->Washington->Central California).

We’ve sold most of our furniture each time (Except once) and bought again when we arrived as it was generally more affordable than hiring movers.

Each time, we kept enough to pack into a UBox, (a mini shipping container that a popular DIY moving truck rental company will rent out and ship for you), which costs much less than movers or even renting a truck and driving it yourself.

Anything that we wanted more immediate access to would be packed into the car and in a roof box, and we drove to our new location.

The only exception was the last move from Washington to Central California, where we did not sell our furniture and hired movers, we still drove ourselves. We both liked it better the way we had done it before.

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OkDecision1612@reddit

Hire a semi to pack and move your stuff is the nicest way

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dobbydisneyfan@reddit

In addition to what people are saying, I’m adding that moving such a large distance permanently isn’t all that common at all.

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Serious_Astronomer74@reddit

Moved from OH-> MS. Husband hauled everything in a U-HAUL trailer.

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Asparagus9000@reddit

Moving trucks.

Temporary_Pie2733@reddit

If I’m not mistaken, there are also options to have you stuff stored for a short period and delivered to your new house when you are ready for it. I imagine that might be more expensive if it involves unloading your stuff then reloaded onto a local delivery truck.

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jonesnori@reddit

Yes, I think both of those are true. I have an idea that the storage is small compared to the trucking cross-country, though.

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indifferentunicorn@reddit

I’ll tell ya!

You move only your nicest most important things to the new state, then put all the other crap in a storage building to rot for the next decade in your old state, just in case you ever need it.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/10-best-warehouse-self-storage-222017585.html

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me315@reddit

It’s different for everyone. When we moved across the country we sold most of our big stuff and packed up everything we wanted to keep and rented a truck and drove it ourselves. W

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ReverendMak@reddit

I’ve moved from Philadelphia, PA to Pittsburgh, PA, then back to Philadelphia, then all the way out to Austin, TX, then up to Chicago, IL, and then back east to Washington , DC.

Also, while in the Philadelphia area I did two local moves between neighborhoods.

For local moves, I had friends (including one who owned a truck) come and help load up vehicles and move in multiple trips.

For the cross country moves I hired professional movers to pack all our stuff up. Sometimes directly onto trucks, but twice into containers that went into storage for a bit before the actual move. In those cases we were staging our house for sale and living a sort of minimalist life without a lot of our possessions, plus taking a vacation mid trip between old and new homes.

Either way trucks, loaded directly with our stuff or loaded with the storage containers, hauled our things cross country while we drove either one or two cars loaded with family, dog, and suitcases with a week’s clothing. We did some vacation stuff along the way and then met the trucks at the new home. Although one time the trucks were late and we basically camped in our new house for a few days waiting for our furniture.

Then the professional movers unloaded our stuff into the rooms each box belonged in, and we personally then sorted it out in more detail and put things exactly where they belonged.

Each time you sell a home you will be able to fully pay off your mortgage and put away a serious chunk of money right into your bank account. So the money usually isn't a problem.

But I've seen moves literally break up marriages before.

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Total_Ad5137@reddit

U-haul, pack as much as you can in your car, or sell and fly. :(

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MMStormbird@reddit

All of the above. I moved halfway across the country in a moving truck with some friends. Another time I had things moved in a shipping container by a company. It really all depends on how much money you're able to put into the move.

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epigator@reddit

Believe it or not, they will let you rent a 26 foot U-Haul truck with just a normal driver's license.

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sdcarl@reddit

We moved a third of the country with four containers that arrived after us (the companies will store, and charge you for it). Rented an RV to move pets and sentimental and most valuable things, and shipped the car.

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Tyisha_Schaal@reddit

This depends on your current financial situation. If you are financially well-off, you can simply buy new items. If you have many valuable items worth collecting, you can hire a truck for transportation!

If your financial situation is not very good, you can consider driving yourself.

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mdavis360@reddit

We actually don’t move the house. We leave it and start living in a different house.

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11twofour@reddit

They moved a whole Victorian from my old block in SF. Very stupid.

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Not always.

We've moved houses twice lol.

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Nervous-Confusion-72@reddit

Dad jokes. I like you.

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I_Want_A_Ribeye@reddit

This is significantly less work and what I have always done. Much easier to move occupants and contents.

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Tullyswimmer@reddit

So I've known two families who've made major moves after being "established" in an area (meaning owned a whole house, not an apartment or condo, had it furnished)

One moved from New England to California, the other from New England to Florida.

In both cases, they sold/gave away as much of the large furniture as they could, used a company that rents "moving pods" (basically small shipping containers) for a lot of it, and then packed up one car (one of their families selling their second) with the critical stuff they'd need for the first few weeks and drove it down.

I have owned 3 houses (sold 2) and lived at 7 addresses since I graduated college in 2017. In every case, I have driven a u-haul or similar vehicle to my new house, or moved over the course of a few months, only renting a u-haul for the last big move.

I’ve done it both ways…when I was a child and moved from NY to CA we had a moving van and my mom and I flew while my brother and dad drove. When I was moving 1/2 way across the country for grad school, I packed my car and drove. When a young adult I drove across the country, I had a moving van bring my stuff.

Usually if moving for a job the company pays to move your stuff

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nomadschomad@reddit

Hire moving company with big trucks. Fly or drive your personal vehicle. Timing isn’t that complicated. Those trucks might take two or three weeks to go cross country especially if you aren’t filling a whole truck because they will make multiple pick up and drop off along the way

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BonCourageAmis@reddit

I moved myself 2x DC to SF and back. I drove a 15 ft truck. Drove for 5 days each time.

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gumby_twain@reddit

Watch the documentary “Moving”, showing the real struggles of a typical American cross country move.

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Yep, there are moving companies that will come to your house, move everything out onto their truck, then drive it to wherever you're moving, and unload it and place it in your house where you want it.

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megafly@reddit

Some employers pay a moving allowance as part of hiring.

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Direct_Tea5916@reddit

Moving company and then drove ourselves across at the same time. You kind of have to match their schedule so you are there when your stuff arrives. I guess you could pay for storage in your new location but that’s expensive and a pain.

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Salty_Permit4437@reddit

Hire movers.

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maple-belle@reddit

Do you mean "would you ship your stuff on a boat if moving from San Francisco to San Diego"?

Because I know this is extremely American of me, but I immediately thought "There's no way those cities are far enough apart to justify that... [googles] yeah, that's only 8-10 hours! Why on earth would you pay more money with a drive that short???"

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Growing up I moved with my parents we moved 5 times, I then moved for college, they then moved 4 more times and ive moved from where I went to college to a city for a decade, then just moved again less than a year ago. The general path has been WA > IL > PA > MD > OH > CA (I go to college) > AZ > TX > CA and for them... ...MD > OH > CA > NJ > FL > AZ > FL

In the 90s and early 2000s my dad had his move paid for my his corporation. It was typically paid for by the company, not a reimbursement, paid directly by them, on top of any sign on bonus.

After the recession, corporate moving largely dried up. His sign on bonuses financed the moves.

For myself, moving from CA to AZ for college was a car load. I brought clothes and personal items and bought what meager furniture i needed in the new city.

After leaving college, I sold most of my stuff. I moved into a 4 person apartment during college, we kept the lease going for years, just subletting it out to new kids, so as I left I just sold it to the guys still living in the apt.

So moving to Texas was easy, few suitcases with my clothes and personal items again.

I spent a decade in Texas, all in DFW, I moved every couple years on average. First time I borrowed a buddies pickup, second time i rented a uhaul, and after that local moving companies--cross town moves were around $1000 for my \~2,000 sqft worth of shit.

By the time I left TX I owned a 2500 square foot house. We moved to CA with me taking a new job. Moving our 2500 house worth of stuff and a car was around $11,000. Thats people coming to pack, load, unload from TX to CA (other routes may be cheaper, this is a "reverse commute" currently, a lot more people are moving out of CA heading East than folks are leaving DFW heading west, so drivers taking "return trips" for less)

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Perfect_Storm_425@reddit

Just moved last month. Company hired a relocation service. Packed up all my stuff into containers and shipped my car. I flew out and lived with the bare minimum until it arrived. Took longer than expected, luckily I live within walking distance of my new job.

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ham_solo@reddit

I moved from NYC to Oakland, CA, at the end of 2020 after my husband got a job here. We were lucky in that the pandemic allowed us to take our time since he was WFH.

A friend had done a similar move about 10 years earlier, and they decided to use moving trucks to get their stuff across the country. They hire a company that puts your stuff in a pod that goes on a truck, and they drop your stuff at your new address. Unfortunately, it can take up to a month to get your stuff. They estimate the cost based on what you tell them you have, but my friend said once the movers got to his place to load things in, they inflated the price a huge amount because they claimed it was more stuff than they were told. Further to that, some of their items and furniture showed up damaged. He ultimately said it was a bad idea and wishes they did something differently

Based on that, we decided to forgo all of that. We shipped via the postal service the things we really cared about - mementos, and stuff like records and a few books. That cost a few hundred dollars. Other things we sold or just gave away. Because it was COVID, we weren't really able to have a stoop sale, or we would have made a lot more money. One good thing about NYC is that you can leave a box of usable stuff on the sidewalk, and someone will take it within an hour. Once that was done, we loaded many bags and our dog into a plane and flew across the country. We stayed in an Airbnb for a couple of weeks while we found a place, bought a car, etc. I will note we both were working full-time, well-paying jobs, so this was financially doable. People with less means might have a different experience.

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matthewrparker@reddit

My husband and I moved from Austin,TX to New York earlier this year. We rented the biggest moving truck we could find, packed our two dogs into the cab, and drove 22 hours over about 4 days. It was rough, but we made it!

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ancientastronaut2@reddit

You pay around $14k for a big truck to take a four bedroom house and a vehicle two states over. Or so I heard from a friend.

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urquhartloch@reddit

As someone who has done coast to coast many times, you rent a truck and pack as much as you can before driving that truck to your destination.

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Trulio_Dragon@reddit

So, this was fun: when I moved across the country, I hired a shipping company to deliver my car.

They delivered the wrong car. Right make, model and color, wrong car. The driver had to take that car back across country and bring me mine at his expense.

Any or all of the above have, and does, happen all the time!

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ezubaric@reddit

We've done this too often, and we use PODs. It's cheaper than other moving companies. The container sits in your driveway for a while, you slowly fill it up (I'm obsessive about packing every square inch so that it won't move in transit), then it gets moved cheaply to wherever you're moving.

While it's in transit, we take a vacation, then return to wherever we're moving. We stay in a model the first night(s) and unpack the POD in our new driveway.

I’ve moved several times. The best way is to hire a company to pack, move, unload. Of course we had cars so drove kids and pets to the new place. Today the cost is between $15-30k depending on the size of the house.

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When we moved in 2019 from California to Idaho our trip was about 600 miles. The most affordable way we found was renting a truck and driving ourselves. The rental truck prices were insane from CA to ID but when I looked at the other direction it was laughably cheap($4,500 CA - ID vs $175 for ID-CA). So with some back and forth driving on my part it went like this, I drove our 1st car from CA to ID and left it with my brother. Rented a 1 way truck from Penske because they dont charge for miles. Drove the truck back to CA and paid someone from FB or craigslist to load everything from our storage into the truck. I then drove the truck back to ID where we paid another group to unload at our new house. Then drove the truck back to CA and dropped it off and then drove our 2nd car with my wife and dogs back to ID. All within 6 days. So even with the extra fuel back and forth we were way below the $4500 for the original rental.

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Fae-SailorStupider@reddit

The first two times I moved cross country, I sold everything except what I could hit in my suitcase (I flew), and just started over. The third time I rented a truck and drove most of my furniture and possessions.

I preferred selling everything and starting over. Mainly because flying for 10 hours was a lot nicer than driving for 3 days.

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AtomikPhysheStiks@reddit

Unbuild the house amd pack it up.

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I have been living in 5 different states, when moving, I did both. Big gadgets/appliances, I will ship them. And smaller stuffs, such as books, vinyl, clothes, trinkets, I would rent a truck and a cargo trailer that I attached to my car, pack everything in boxes and drive them to the destination. Fortunately road trip is fun for me, so I don't take them as a burden. When I was single, my best friend would drive my car with the cargo trailer attached and I'll drive the Ühaul truck. But now my spouse helped me with one of the driving task.

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Slothnazi@reddit

I moved from Midwest to New England.

Basically, find an apartment/house before moving -> sign lease -> pack all belongings in a U-haul or throw things out -> drive the 900 miles or so -> receive keys and unpack into new apartment/house.

A LOT easier with multiple people. If you're solo then you probably will have to hire help.

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HackDaddy85@reddit

I’ve hired moving companies. Drive myself to the new location. And the moving company usually serves a few days later.

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MoonieNine@reddit

I've moved across country several times. The cheapest and easiest thing is to sell most of your furniture and just buy new (or used) when you get there.

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Forward_Tank8310@reddit

It can be a big challenge. My wife and I moved 4 years ago from Los Angeles to Southwest Florida. I’m a management consultant, so work from anywhere with Internet for corporate clients. We found a moving company to pack & store our stuff. Cars were shipped. Stated in a hotel in Florida using travel miles. Agent put our home up for sale. Bought a house in Florida in 3 weeks. Had our stuff delivered from LA.

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Forward_Tank8310@reddit

It can be a big challenge.

My wife and I moved 4 years ago from Los Angeles to Southwest Florida. I am an independent management consultant, so set my own hours and can work from anywhere with Internet for my corporate clients.

We found a few properties online that we wanted to check out in Florida, and arranged both a selling real estate agent in LA and one in Florida to help us there both by phone. As it was during Covid, only one moving company was willing to come and look over our stuff to give us a realistic quote. The others simply gave general estimates that varied greatly, so we went with the quoting one. They packed everything up and took it to a storage facility.

Our cars were picked up the next day by a separate shipping company I booked online, we gave our keys to our local real estate agent, and we flew with our two cats to Florida.

Our cars arrived two days later. We stayed in a hotel using travel miles while we looked at candidate homes with our agent. We bought one and took possession within three weeks.

While in that process, our real estate agent found a buyer for our California house. Things were still selling fast in that part of the country.

Once we knew our future address, we contacted the moving company and had them bring our furnishings and other stuff to the new place the day after taking possession. We handled setting up utilities in advance, so everything was ready soon after move-in.

All in all it was expensive and at times stressful but we’re very glad we made the move.

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FourLetterHill3@reddit

When I moved from Dallas to Los Angeles I packed my apartment into a big U-Haul (moving/box truck). My step-dad drove the U-Haul and my mom and I drove in my car with my cats. I’ve also known people to sell all their things and buy new when they get to their destination, and I’ve known people who ship everything. There are many options! In my opinion, renting a truck and hiring people to help with the packing/unpacking is the least stressful and costs less than the other options.

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DocLego@reddit

I moved from Colorado to Wisconsin. Hired a moving company to ship most of the stuff we were keeping, piled the rest in the cars, and drove across the country.

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rufus_xavier_sr@reddit

I helped my brother move from Colorado to Florida. Sold his house. Got a month to month rental. He sold everything but the few things he wanted to keep. Loaded it all into a big truck and we drove it to Florida. Slept in shifts and I flew home. He paid someone to unload it on the other end. His wife and their son drove separately later to get the cars down there.

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imissher4ever@reddit

Pack everything you want. Load it up in a truck. Go..

dbthelinguaphile@reddit

In my experience, throw everything in a big truck and drive it across the country.

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dmantee@reddit

My ex and I moved from Philadelphia to San Francisco by packing our two cars as full as we could, and nothing else.

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cybertruckboat@reddit

I just moved about 800 miles. Not exactly across the country, but pretty far.

We spent weeks going through everything, throwing stuff away, and packing. I rented the biggest box truck I could legally drive. We hired movers to pack the truck (this was a massive help and I highly recommend it). They filled the truck top to bottom without an inch of wasted space.

I drove the big truck to the new house while my wife followed in the car. I hired some local labor to help unload the truck (also a huge help). We were in the new house for a week doing our best to unpack and move in.

Then we drove back to the old house and lived minimally for a week doing final cleaning and repairs. We slept on a mat on the floor. We ate ramen because we couldn't really cook. We had left some basic supplies and tools behind.

Then we rented a box trailer, packed it with the last of our stuff, and drove back to the new house.

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Gracefulchemist@reddit

Moved from Chicago to LA last year, and we did a hybrid approach. We got rid of lots of stuff, packed stuff in 1 car and my husband drove it out to find a place to rent. After that, he flew back and we packed stuff in u-haul pods and had them ship it while we drove our other car out with our cats. It was expensive, but still less than getting all new furniture and more reliable than trusting moving companies we could afford.

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trinite0@reddit

I helped my friends move from Missouri to Philadelphia. We did it in a two-day road trip (would have been safer with three days) with a huge U-Haul truck and their car. The husband and I alternated shifts driving the truck, and my wife and his wife swapped off driving the car.

The truck was full of about half their possessions (they had unwisely done a first trip by themselves, then realized they really needed help with another one), and the cat was full of their kid, their pet cat and pet rats, and as much stuff as they could fit around them.

you maybe hit a few minor things because its much bigger than what you normally drive

You can rent a 10.5 meter length truck and drive it without any special license: https://www.uhaul.com/Truck-Rentals/26ft-Moving-Truck/

Good luck everybody else: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLuaPZWkvZ0&t=2s

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gioraffe32@reddit

You get a moving truck and drive. And it fucking sucks. I did Midwest to the East Coast back in 2024 and it wasn't experience ever, but it definitely wasn't fun. I flew my dad and brother out to help me. We put into the moving truck then convoyed out east. I drove my car, they drove the moving truck. Took like a day and a half. And then we moved in into my new place and then I paid to fly them back home. Think it cost me like $4000 total.

A friend recently went the opposite way. Midwest to the West Coast. He did a little smarter, I think. He paid for movers to toss his junk in a truck and then the movers drove and delievered it to his new apartment. My friend flew his brother out to the Midwest to help him drive his car across the country. I think he spent like $5000. The shitty part for him was that for some weird reason, it took at least two weeks for his stuff to be delivered!

Next time I move, whether in-town or across the country, I'm probably just going to hire movers. It sucks.

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thenciskitties@reddit

On our recent long-distance move, we paid a moving company to ship our things for us. They also could have moved our things to us that weekend. Shipping was half as expensive ($3K), but it also took two weeks for our things to arrive.

The first time I moved long-distance we didn't have as much furniture or money, so we rented a small-ish UHaul to move it ourselves. Quicker and cheaper, but you have to drive a much larger vehicle than you're probably used to.

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The usual procedure, as far as I'm concerned, is:

- Get rid of what you're willing to get rid of. This will vary a lot by the person--some will get rid of almost all the furniture and re-buy; some will take everything.

- Schedule movers who will carry almost everything in a truck. They'll often come look at your stuff and give you a quote.

- Hold back enough stuff to survive at the destination until the truck comes-- it will normally arrive after you, even if you drive. Basically what you'd bring if you were going to stay at a hotel, possibly with the addition of sleeping bags and extremely minimal kitchen stuff.

- Movers show up, load, drive away. Depending on how much stuff you have, you may have the whole truck, or the same truck may be moving several people's stuff.

- Drive your car, with your family and the stuff, to the destination.

- Either "camp" in your new home, or stay in a hotel, until the day the movers are expected.

- Movers arrive, unload, you spend the rest of your life unpacking boxes.

Alternatives:

Some people rent a truck on a one-way rental and move their own stuff.

Some people cut down on their possessions so much that they can just take them in their own vehicle.

Some people have the car shipped, as well as all the other stuff, and fly.

Some people have one adult drive the car while while the other adult flies with the kids.

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Odd-Respond-4267@reddit

I've done several 2k mile moves, typically rent a truck, tow the car with the truck,

Last move, had a company drop off a container, and have it shipped.

After it was packed, I found out that shipping would be a week, I extended the drive up a few days and hit some tourist spots (wine tasting).

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Illustrious_Leg_2537@reddit

Hired movers. They packed up the house. We got in the car with essentials and clothes for a week. Truck with furniture and stuff showed up a few days after we did. It was a 20 hour drive. We drove straight though. Truck made one other pick up and drop off along the way. Lost one lamp.

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ur_moms_chode@reddit

I got rid of almost everything and Mailed a few boxes... My uncle works for an airline and is Able to get a steep discount from fedex so it didn't cost all that much

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w3woody@reddit

We moved from Los Angeles to Raleigh.

We put our house up for sale.
We sold or got rid of a lot of junk.
We finally sold our house in LA
We arranged with movers to pack up what was left, move it across country, and put it into storage.
We rented a temporary apartment (pre-furnished, month to month lease) while we shopped for a house.
We bought our house, then arranged with the moving company to deliver our stuff to the house.

The process took nearly a year, from the point where we contacted a real estate agent, to the time we had our stuff in our house again.

If you are not selling a house, but just moving from an apartment to another apartment, the process can go faster. But there are moving companies who will move your stuff cross country. It can be expensive, however, and you have to weigh the cost against just selling everything you own and buying all new stuff at the other end. (In our case, we had a few big pieces we wanted to keep, a lot of sentimental stuff--and got rid of the rest, in order to reduce moving costs.)

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Senior-Cantaloupe-69@reddit

I’ve moved cross country, including a Virginia to Hawaii move back in the day. I’ve always hired a moving truck. Most were covered by an employer. Two were out of pocket. I was broke for the first (Wisconsin to Kansas). I used ABF U-pack. They dropped off a semi trailer and I loaded it. I paid by the foot. The second was a year and a half ago (Washington State to Arizona). I had money to pay pros. They sucked. I’d probably do U-pack again and hire local movers to load and unload because I’m too old and bougie to do that myself now.

For cars, I normally drive them. For Hawaii and back, I of course shipped the only car we had. That was okay. Kind of a pain picking it up in Eastern Missouri on my move from Hawaii to Kansas but not terrible. For the employer paid move from Wisconsin to Washington State nearly 20 years ago, I shipped one vehicle and drove the wife and kids in the minivan. That was a long drive. That shipping company was much better than the military shipping from HI to KS. They dropped it off at my house.

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ToxDocUSA@reddit

I move a bunch because I'm in the Army. Most of the time I have a moving company come, box up my stuff, and then I drive to the new place and meet them there. Sometimes it's a direct trip like I'm racing the truck. Sometimes they stop and load or unload a bunch of other people from the same truck and it takes weeks.

A couple of times I've partially moved myself. There are companies that will provide large cargo containers and you fill them yourself and then they ship them to you. Other times I've rented my own truck and driven everything (that was more younger when I didn't have as much stuff. Usually we wind up driving one of our cars and shipping the other (separate from the household goods), but there was one time when we sold our cars and bought new on the other end.

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madcatzplayer5@reddit

You rent a 5-day U-Haul truck from a Boston location with a car trailer hook-up. You load it in Boston with all your shit, you put your car on the back. Then you drive for 3 days straight to Los Angeles. Unload the stuff, return your U-Haul truck to an LA U-Haul location. If you have a vehicle with a hitch, you can also just rent a trailer that can hold a whole apartments worth of stuff.

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christine-bitg@reddit

You sure put on some miles if you drove from Boston to Los Angeles in three days.

I moved from Baltimore to L.A. and it took me about 4 1/2 days. Balto > Indy > K.C. > Vail > Vegas > L.A.

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madcatzplayer5@reddit

Google says 44 hours of driving for Boston to Los Angeles. So yes, I’d say 4 days is the best you could do. Sorry for my quick estimate.

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christine-bitg@reddit

It's all good. Makes a difference if you have more than one driver too. (I didn't.)

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commanderwake@reddit

I packed my car up with everything I couldn't sell and paid a car transport company to take it across the country. Then I flew along with a couple checked bags containing anything that didn't fit in my car. With my start date for my new job I didn't have the time to drive that far even if I wanted to (and I didn't want to).

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H_E_Pennypacker@reddit

Most people don’t move a super long distance very frequently. I’d guess most people move a very long distance between zero and two times in their life. Like other commenters have said, if you do that you pay a moving company, or get rid of everything not super essential and move everything you own in 1 or 2 cars, and buy new furniture etc at your new location.

I have moved between 2 states but not as far as from one coast to another. Most of my moves have involved renting a moving truck, packing it myself, driving it to the new location and unpacking it myself. I have never hired anyone to move my stuff.

If I were moving very far I’d probably get rid of a lot of bulky furniture or appliances and buy new stuff when I get to my new place. I would not fly unless I really had to.

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ShinySuiteTheory@reddit

Just had a big move from Texas to Massachusetts.

My wife and I loaded everything in shipping containers which were picked up by the company that provided them and taken to mass.

Then I drove our vehicle (29 hours, broken into 3 days with a small dog and small cat.) and unloaded the moving container with friends when they got there. Then went to go pick my wife and 1 year old up from the airport (they had been staying with her family)

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ImportantImpress4822@reddit

You hire a moving company, they load it up into the truck and drive it to wherever it needs to go. It’s like any trucking job, A trucker will spend hours on the road a day. They drive across the country for all sorts of cargo/shipping/etc

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24 foot Uhaul towing our car on a trailer, 1200 miles (almost 2k kilometers) from Denver, CO to Portland, OR. With myself, my partner, and our cat in the cab. That was a rough trip lol

I'll never forget, after the first night in our Airbnb when we arrived, I went out that next morning to grab something from the cab of the truck. It absolutely REEKED of stressed-out mammal hormones and sweat 🤮😂

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i-am-jjm@reddit

Moved North East to Mid West. About 1100 miles. Moved packed, loaded ~42,000 a tractor trailer equipped for moves and unloaded and unpacked a new house. They will not move ammo, alcohol or other such volatile items. They moved firearms, art, saltwater aquarium and golf simulator.

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T00luser@reddit

I just find 400 friends with pickup trucks.

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Zaidswith@reddit

contract with a moving company
rent a truck to move yourself through budget, U- haul, a few others.

with both options you can also ship your car with the moving company or tow your car.

if you rent a company you coordinate drop off time. it could occur with a large moving company and you have a you get your new place.

I moved from Orlando to Massachusetts for work.

We hired movers, who then stored our belongings in a warehouse.
We lived in temporary housing provided by my husband’s new employer, as the market in Massachusetts is insane.
Me and the kids flew with the cat. We wanted to minimize travel with the cat (and the kids).
My husband drove one car up with the dog. The dog was too big to fit in passenger area, we were not comfortable putting him in cargo. Especially in the Orlando heat in late July. The tarmac can get unbearable very quickly if they don’t load them immediately and the cargo area isn’t climate controlled if you get delayed on the runway. The other car was stored at my grandparents house.
We eventually closed on a house 3 months later because the process up here is crazy. We contacted the movers to bring our stuff. That was a process. We also contacted a transport company to bring our second car from my grandparents to our new house.
They finally delivered the stuff almost 3 weeks later. We were then able to move out of temporary housing and into the house.

So yeah, cross country moves are not for the faint of heart, especially if you have family involved.

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Yankee_chef_nen@reddit

When my family moved from Maine to Louisiana (1500+ miles) we packed our household goods, loaded a U-Haul, Dad and younger brother rode in the U Haul, Mom the dog and I rode in the car in convoy.

That dog lived in 11 different houses in six states.

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crazypurple621@reddit

My husband and I moved from Seattle to Albuquerque and yes we really did load up all of our stuff into shipping containers that were picked up by a moving truck, and then drove with boxes of our immediate need items in our vehicles.

It really depends on where in life you are. We had been married for 10 years at that point, had a kid, dogs, and owned a house full of stuff. Replacing that stuff would have been much more expensive, and because we were buying a bigger house anyway we were already looking at needing to buy a few different pieces of furniture. We did sell the furniture that wasn't going to work in our new space, but replacing just the furniture with what we had would have been well over $10,000. Shipping it across country cost $3,000 which the company covered as moving expenses. When we moved up there though we just loaded our cars.

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gard3nwitch@reddit

I've never moved more than 100 miles as an adult, but I know plenty of people who have.

Some people will hiring a long distance moving company, yes. Some guys show up with a box truck, fill it up with your stuff, and drive to your new house.

Other people rent a truck or van and DIY it. (This is easier if you're moving locally.)

There are also companies that will drop off what's basically a small shipping container in your driveway. You fill it up yourself, and they'll come and pick it up and deliver it for you. Then you unpack it at the other end.

And then some people just give away or sell all their furniture before they move, and only take what they can fit in their car.

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Gyvon@reddit

When I moved from Houston to Missouri the moving company put our stuff on a truck that was headed for Chicago with a bunch of other people's stuff. They would stop at various places on the way to drop off part of their load.

Took about a month for our stuff to arrive.

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dr_stre@reddit

I’ve done this twice (sorta 3 times?) over long distances (1500km minimum, up to 3500km).

First time we did a thing where they drop the back of a semi off and you fill it up and then they come and get it and take it to your destination where you get some time to unpack it again. Wasn’t super quick, took like a week and a half at least to get our stuff. We drove separately and enjoyed some national parks along the way.

Second time was closer to full service. We hired a local moving company comprising mostly college athletes or former college athletes. We packed everything first and they loaded and drove it directly to the new location. We drove as well, and actually passed our stuff on the highway twice. Couldn’t do any sightseeing this time unfortunately.

Third sorta time was moving the rest of our first house into our third house after we finally sold the first one just after moving from the second into the third. (Less glamorous than it might sound, it was a long term work assignment, not just a second home for the thrill of it.) This time we did similar to the first time but instead of loading it ourselves we hired local movers to load it and unload it.

Ship everything via trucks (hire a moving company) and take an airplane?

Yes

Have someone local stay at your new place who will let the moving company in, while you arrive later?

No. Moving companies also have storage. They hold onto your stuff until you've taken possession of the new place. In the meantime you probably stay in a hotel for a couple days.

Do you drive across country by car?

Some people do. It's the easiest way to get your car moved. You can also have your car shipped by car carrier truck, or hire someone to drive it for you.

Do you actually move all your furniture from the East Coast to the West Coast, or Seattle to New Orleans?

Yes, people do this all the time. Or rather, hire movers to do it.

Do you ship your stuff via an actual ship, if possible (e.g. San Francisco - San Diego)?

No, this is unheard of. Movers move stuff by truck.

There's also a company called U-Haul that will rent you up to (I think) a 26-foot box truck, which is the largest you can drive on a regular driver's license. This is commonly done to save money. People often tow their car behind a U-Haul, or if their possessions are small, rent a U-Haul trailer to go behind their car. U-Haul specializes in one way rentals - you can rent a truck in Boston and return it in LA.

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Adjective-Noun123456@reddit

Currently moving my girlfriend and her daughter down here from Seattle, so I can speak to this.

For furniture and boxes we're renting a pod, which is essentially a shipping container that the company drops off at the home you're leaving for a few days. You rent it for X amount of days at that location to load it, then they pick it up and transport it to the home you're moving into, and you have it again for X amount of days to unpack it. Then they come and pick it up.

For small 1 & 2 person households, it's common to utilize moving rental companies that specialize in providing moving trailers and trucks for self-moving, such as U-Haul , Penske Truck Rental , or Budget Truck Rental.

I've moved the equivalent of Boston to LA (coast to coast) and have done the half-way version of that several times. We have always rented trucks and done it all ourselves. The last big one we had a 23 foot truck, towing our car on a dolly, and our pickup towing our boat. Everything loaded to the roof.

When we retire in a few years we'll be relocating again, about 1,500 miles. I plan to sell/donate most of our stuff then so we can downsize and start over in our new digs...but we'll still need a rental truck for the heirlooms, books, and clothes we'll keep.

FormidableMistress@reddit

I had to move unexpectedly a few times now because my house became unlivable. Once I had a gas leak in my apartment and my landlord illegally turned the gas back on instead of fixing the problem. So I moved a thousand miles away to stay with my best friend for 6 months. I put everything I owned in a storage unit in the city I lived in and just had a small box of essentials I shipped to her house, and took a carry on bag on the train with me to her city. When I was able I came back and got a new apartment, and moved my stuff out of the storage unit.

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AlarmingSlothHerder@reddit

I moved once from Virginia to Texas. Before I had a job. We put almost all of our belongings in a storage locker, my ex went to stay with her parents in upstate New York, and I drove to Texas to find a job.

We made a reservation with a moving company that they would load all our stuff up at the storage unit and bring it to us wherever we ended up in Texas.

I found a job, drove up and picked up the ex and drove her to the Texas town I got the job in. We stayed in a motel for a week. My ex found a house to rent while I was at work.

We started our lease at the house and "moved" in with nothing but our luggage. She contacted the moving company and it took them about a week to bring our stuff. So it felt like we were bums squatting in an abandoned house for that first week. lol

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A moving company. Or you rent a truck and drive your own stuff across the country.

But yes - people drive for long distance moves. They drive their cars (which they also need to move), pets, maybe valuables in their cars. Moving truck has furniture, boxes, etc.

The delivery will be scheduled once the owners have arrived at the new house.

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TeamTurnus@reddit

Either drive a truck or hire a moving company to do so for you (depending on budget and amount of stuff and size of truck needed).

Folks pretty will usually drive themselves since they usually have a car and they need to move that to.

For example when we moved to flordia we drove for like 3 days to get there as a family.

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einsteinGO@reddit

When I moved from Maryland to Los Angeles I paid to have my car shipped and flew and met it a day after I arrived.

And yes, I stayed with a friend for a couple weeks while I found and then moved into my apartment. Then I bought all my furniture when I was in my apartment.

Friends who have also moved cross country have rented pods to be shipped and delivered with furniture. And I’ve had friends do the drive cross country themselves.

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94grampaw@reddit

The same why you move shorter distances, but you just go further, moving to the other side of town, ivoles the same stuff as moving to the other side of the country, but all your stuff in a box truck and than drive 1-3000 miles than put that stuff in the new place.

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whatsupgrizzlyadams@reddit

We had a moving sale and sold all the furniture, and a bunch of other stuff except the beds.

We were able to rent a single u-haul to carry the remaining things. I drove the big vehicle with the 2nd car on a rented trailer.

When we got to the new house, we Thrifted for new furniture. Fresh start!

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RedLegGI@reddit

Moved from Ohio to Alaska then Alaska to Ohio. Involved a moving company both ways. On the way back home, drove the car and packed them with a lot of immediate use items.

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Tacoshortage@reddit

Lots of jobs will pay moving expenses if they transfer you to another city. Some jobs offer moving assistance as a signing bonus. The moves I've done have all been myself with a box truck because I didn't have much stuff and the distances were short but moving companies with big semis are common.

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TheKiddIncident@reddit

You literally can hire a truck and do it all yourself. That's probably the hardest option. My mother and I did this years ago when we moved from Oregon. There are companies like u-haul that will let you rent a truck in one state and return it in another, wherever you're going. Probably the cheapest option.

Way easier to hire a professional moving company. They will pack everything in a large truck and ship it for you. There are several companies in the USA who specialize in exactly this. Not cheap, but way easier. When I got moved by my company, they paid my moving costs, this was awesome and way easier.

I've moved coast to coast a couple times now, and am about to do it again, so I feel qualified to share my experience.

Yes, you can get a huge moving truck and drive that across states to bring everything with you. My parents did this when I was young and it was a massive pain in the ass and extremely expensive.

My preferred method now is to just sell or toss everything bigger than a small box. Mainly furniture. Then pack the car you're taking full to the brim with whatever you want to bring, and start driving. I did California to Florida (twice) and Florida to Washington State this way. And you do, you just drive state by state, 8-12 hours a day, take power naps if you get a little tired, grab a hotel when you get very tired. Takes time, but it's pretty fun honestly. Then you get new stuff when you get there, with quality dependent on how long you think you'll be staying.

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Highway49@reddit

If you’re my brother, you trick your younger brother to fly from CA to DC on the pretense of visiting, and then you trick your younger brother into helping you move when he arrives.

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Alymander57@reddit

First time at 21, I loaded up my SUV. Second time at 23, I needed a small U-Haul trailer. 3rd time at 27, my dad flew out and drove the small U-Haul truck back to my hometown while I followed in the same old loaded up SUV with the dog I had acquired.

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NitescoGaming@reddit

I've moved coast to coast twice. First time I packed my car to the brim, drove, and bought furniture on the other side. Second time I got a U Box from Uhaul and packed it with the stuff I wanted to keep, and had it shipped over.

Other options include hiring professionals, getting a bigger truck and driving it yourself, giving away or selling things on one side and buying new stuff on the other.

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bjb13@reddit

I have moved many times over the years. There are lots of ways to do it.

In 1978 Intel moved our entire group from California to Oregon. They had trucks pick up our belongings and move them to our new homes. We drive ourselves.

Over the years there I moved 4 or 5 times. I hired a truck and got friends to help move everything.

In 2001 I moved back to California. I got a truck and moved my belongings. I then flew back to Oregon and drove my car down. The day I drove down as 9/11. It was a very weird day driving 650 miles listening to just the news.

In 2002 and later in 2007 I moved from California to Pittsburgh, PA and back. Each time I hired a 26-foot truck and a trailer. I but my belongings in the UHaul and towed my car in the trailer. I’m happy to say I did it without ever having to backup the truck/trailer combo.

In 2011 I went to work in New Jersey. My new employer paid for a company to move my household belongings, another company to move my car on a truck like the ones you see hauling new cars while I flew out from California.

Calaveras-Metal@reddit

I moved from San Francisco to New York City once. I loaded up all my stuff into a Hertz box truck. Basically the biggest truck you can rent without a truckers license. And drove it myself across the country. I stayed in a few motels and even slept in the cab one night when all the hotels were taken by a car show.

Then I unloaded most of it into a storage unit in Brooklyn because my new apartment was New York smaller than my SF apartment. And I have a ton of music gear, books and records in addition to ordinary stuff like clothes and chairs.

Most folks hire moving companies, especially if they are a family.

But I have a history of doing hard work so moving a house full of furniture is just another sweaty day where I get to eat pizza at the end. I'm also a little bigger than average, so moving a dresser or something isn't a big deal. I've also moved other family members like this. I'm kind of designated mover in this family.

I think the part non Americans have trouble with is that yes we really do drive all the way across the country. My grandpa would drive about a thousand miles with his wife to come visit us down south, then he would drive another 1000 miles down to the tip of Florida for vacation. Some folks would do that trip by plane or train. But the reason American cars are so big and comfortable is because lots of folks like to drive long distances. Or do so for work.

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Weightmonster@reddit

Typically moving company (often company pays for this), getting rid of yourself that won’t fit in a suitcase and start new, sell large stuff and move in a car, rent a moving truck and try to drive your stuff… Lots of options.

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kamakazi339@reddit

Rent box truck

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Emergency_Ad_1834@reddit

I moved from Seattle to Chicago as a renter. We visited Chicago to narrow down neighborhoods and got in touch with a broker to help us find an apartment. We did video call tours and explored the area on google maps until we found a place we liked. We used a moving company who packed and transported our stuff and we drove to Chicago with our computers and a few weeks of clothes while we waited for our stuff to arrive.

It’s not cheap. For a 1 bed, 2 office home we spent over $10000 to move

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OtherConversation592@reddit

fold it up an put it in my pocket.

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reflectorvest@reddit

You can look at my flare to see where I’ve lived and from where I moved. The only time I flew for a move was when I moved overseas. Every other time, including 6 months ago, I sold big items and packed my car with smaller stuff and drove, then replaced bigger stuff when I got to my new place. I am a single adult though, and I imagine it’s different for people with families.

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Do_Will@reddit

Americans have a way of not getting too attached to a place, a house or its contents. And, furniture depreciates very fast and easily disposable or movable. Hence, a decision to move is taken much more lightly than in many other countries. Usually, if an employer pays for the move, maximum furniture is moved. There are several options for moving, depending on budget and ease - Moving companies, Loading and unloading companies, U-Hauls, Trailers. Moving can almost become a fun reset.

Distance only matters in terms of the time it takes to get there - a few hours more.

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Moved from Oregon to Massachusetts. Then back to Oregon. Then North Carolina. Then back to Oregon.

You hire people to move (and sometimes pack) your stuff.

Often you will do a big purge before a move and decide what really needs to be transported.

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Traditional-Goose-60@reddit

Couple of friends with trucks and big horse trailers moved me several times

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quietude38@reddit

I have a friend who just moved his family from New York City to Mobile, Alabama (for work) and after a moving company flaked on them he rented a 26-foot truck and another friend of ours flew up there to help drive the truck all the way from Queens.

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ontheleftcoast@reddit

we used a moving company, it took several weeks for the stuff to arrive. we slept on air mattresses and ate a lot of take out while waiting.

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Depends on the move and the economic class of the people. Wealthier people can hire a moving company and then make their own travel arrangements. People my class will sell as much stuff as they can part with, rent a truck for whatever is more cost effective or personally important, and drive the truck themselves.

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Sufficient_Cod1948@reddit

There is a whole industry of moving companies and moving rental trucks.

Depending on what stage of life you're in when you're moving, you either pack everything in a truck and move it, or you throw it out and get new stuff when you get there.

And, as a PSA, be cautious of all small moving companies and brokers! A lot of these are straight out shitty scam companies and are gonna steal your money, break your shit, and lose your shit. They'll then hide beyond contracts and make it hard as hell to recover. They count on people not having the means to sue them. Do research before hiring any of those fuckers! They will also lie to your face.

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Dave_A480@reddit

You can hire a moving company to move your stuff by 40ft commercial truck(s)...

Or you can rent one or more moving trucks from companies like U-Haul or Budget, and DIY it.

There are a few companies (ABF U-Pak, PODS, etc) that split the difference - you rent the trailer or shipping container, you pack it yourself, and they deliver it to your destination by whatever mode of transport is most economical.

Most of the time it goes - like everything else in the US - by interstate highway.

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gardengrowsgreen@reddit

We have done it before. We put all our stuff in shipping containers and then they are picked up by a company and delivered to the new location.

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KrevinHLocke@reddit

I put all my stuff into a suit case. My wife on the other hand needs like 3 moving trucks.

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Slytherian101@reddit

Typically, we just fake our own death and start life over as an advertising executive in Manhattan.

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macoafi@reddit

There are lots of options for long-distance moves.

You could hire a company like Pods that puts a shipping container in your driveway for you to fill, and then they move it. Then you fly over, and it's delivered to the driveway of your new place.

You could also rent a big truck and fill it, then drive that across the country. It's only like… 30 hours or so to drive across the whole US. If you have a partner and can take it in shifts, you can do that in two days, just have to pay for one night in a hotel.

If you have a car, you'd hook it up to be towed behind the truck. If you have a car, flying is probably not an option, since the car needs to move too. Well, unless you have a partner and kids. Maybe your partner does the driving, and you fly the kids.

Either way, you probably sell most of your furniture before the move.

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katamino@reddit

Or you ship the car with the moving company.

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Due_Willingness1@reddit

We moved from Washington State to Maine, figured the easiest way to do it was buy an RV, load everything up, make the trip, then sell the RV when we were done

Ship belongings in a moving company truck. Then drive yourself from one place to another. Most places really require a car, so it wouldn’t make sense to leave it behind and fly. I’ve never heard of anyone shipping things by boat unless moving overseas.

As for the timing with the moving company, you schedule the delivery based on your timetable. If there’s going to be a delay, most companies will park the trailer with your belongings and do some shorter, local moves while they are waiting for you to arrive. Of course, you pay a storage fee during that time.

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4MuddyPaws@reddit

It can be different for different people. A lot of times, if it's for a job, the company will pay to move you. At least it used to be that way.

A lot depends on how much stuff like furniture has to be moved. If it's just a small apartment, some people will rent a truck that will hold it and move it themselves. Otherwise, they can get a moving company. I've never shipped stuff. For long distances we used a moving company and drove our own cars packed with immediate necessities, like clothes for at least a week, paperwork and that kind of thing.

Husband and I once moved a few states away and the moving truck somehow got lost. It was our first time and we didn't have many extra clothes with us. That was a pain. We bought sleeping bags and used them on the floor. We moved because of his job and I had to delay my job search because I had no clothes to interview beyond a pair of jeans and a couple of shirts. Learned our lesson.

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doveinabottle@reddit

I’ve moved across the country three times. First time I did reverting myself (packed, loaded, unloaded). Second time I packed and loaded and paid someone to unload. Third time paid someone to pack, load, and unload.

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EngineVarious5244@reddit

I mean, I did this, OH to HI, and I pretty much started fresh. Most people who do downsize as much as possible. Unless you're military in which case Uncle Sam will pay to ship all your heavy stuff.

But it's also a lot less common than you're probably imagining. People from smaller countries (in terms of area or population) tend not to realize how regional America is. It's much more common to move within a state or at least region than from one side of the country clear to the other. Like even people who move from Hawaii tend to end up on the West Coast.

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People do any and all of these things depending on how much money and stuff they have (maybe not shipping things on a boat, that's usually too slow). You could rent a box truck and drive it cross-country, hire a moving company to take your stuff, pack everything up in a personal vehicle or trailer if it will fit, or just sell your stuff and start over in your new place

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kmoonster@reddit

There are as many solutions to this as there are needs to move. Ship via company, rent a truck yourself, use your own car, ship by rail, mix of options....lots of solutions.

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DadPuncher69@reddit

When I've moved across states we've rented a Uhaul truck and driven everything ourselves, and we've also hired a company to do it for us and we flew to our new state. It really depends on the distance, our budget, and how much time we have off work.

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Live_Ad8778@reddit

Shipping companies. You'll see their trucks all the time.

That being said as an individual who has done a cross-country move twice with very little I opted to handle everything myself. First move had everything boxed up in tbr back and top of my car, second I rented a U-Haul trailer.

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Any-Concentrate-1922@reddit

A once moved a few states away and hired a moving company. They took my furniture and boxes and I met them at the new house the next morning.

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Traditional-Job-411@reddit

My mom passed away and left ALOT of antique furniture that I wanted but lived across country. I looked into shipping and I could have bought the exact same things where I was at on eBay and such and spend less than having it shipped. I looked at both movers and shippers, crates etc.

I’m of the opinion that you buy new furniture now.

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