Personally I love my Di2 shifting on my road bike, so much that I'm going to be upgrading my steel commuter to electronic shifting shortly. I can see why others would prefer to stay fully mechanical, though.
No, I live in China and went with a much more reasonably priced option - Waltly Titanium. I've been so impressed with it that I'm going to order another frame from them this year.
Mine is mountain bikes but I can’t afford to have anything more than a very small crisis.
I went for a ride with my sister who really wanted to try the trails by her house. She was on a box store Schwinn. She saw my bike and was like “oh wow, that’s a nice bike you must have spent like $300 dollars on that”. I didn’t have the heart to tell her It was a bottom of the line MTB and still cost me nearly $1500.
If you’re patient, you can find some abandoned dreams on Facebook marketplace for a song. Two of my mtn bike buddies got new never touched dirt full suspension treks for $1200 ish.
I put $800 of parts on a Schwinn Axum before deciding to upgrade. Built a bike from parts over late covid starting with an NS eccentric frame that was on unbelievable clearance.
I love it but sometimes I still miss the Schwinn!
Aha, I was wondering why you'd choose a hobby that would mean spending your free time away from them...but I guess that age they have their own world? Mine is very little so I spend my free time being a big brother he can't have...part lego engineer part punching bag.
Mine is bikes as well but I keep have this reoccurring midlife crisis where I get one every year. I started as strictly riding mountain, then I bought a gravel bike, and now I have a road bike as well. This is the latest addition:
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I was going to get a custom ti commuting bike as my custom stainless steel bike is a bit too fancy for daily riding and harsh finnish winter, but the builder just ghosted me once we settled on a design 😢
Same here! But instead of road bikes, it was a cargo bike (a scarily fast bamboo and carbon fibre one). We haven't owned a car in 6 years and do everything by bike. I love it. I'm even starting a courier business this year because I want to be on my bike more.
Laserdisc player! 🗣️Pssp...They were only all that compared to VHS. They no longer stand up as anything particularly wonderful. For instance, "widescreen edition" was a fancy way of saying letterboxed. It looked better than VHS letterbox only because of increased horizontal resolution. But that's comparing awful to passable. DVD widescreen is truly anamorphic.
Go on and wring my neck,
Like when a rag gets wet.
A little discipline,
For my pet genius.
My head is like lettuce,
Go on dig your thumbs in.
I cannot stop giving,
I'm thirty-something...
Dammit, I was reading all of the replies to this post thinking "Ha, what a dumbass purchase, why do you need a $1k sealed gi joe transformers thing" but when I saw this one I thought "yeah but that's buying a piece of history, plus it will be FUN, amythystfist can't afford NOT to buy it, I should do the same"
Damn I don’t know how I never saw this before, thanks for sharing! Probably the easiest skit the writers ever worked on, like one of the comments mentioned all they had to do was transcribe an IRL debate between the two main types of Weezer fan.
Also just to be clear about what side I’m on, I’ll just say Pinkerton RULES and anything that came after pales in comparison (although I admit I enjoy listening to a few select songs from their post-Matt Sharp era, so what?!?).
I went relatively cheap with mine after I turned 40. 5000 dollar Jackson Custom Shop Dinky. Its an electric guitar.
I didn't wanna be basic like all the dudes that are pretending to be bikers and bass fisherman.
Look, I'm with you on that, but are you saying this is the equivalent of what you WOULD buy, or are you saying you actually DID buy this? And if the latter, fucking WHERE?
Where are you keeping this. Legit question.
My partner has wanted one his whole like and I’ll buy him one happily if I can come up with a good place to display it. So far I’ve just seen a lot of really impractical whole rooms dedicated to toys/ephemera that we just don’t have a room for
Had mine at 41 in 2020. I was worked as a pharmacy tech for assisted living and memory care facilities. Lots of DNRs. I think the stress and death got to me—entire facilities got emptied out as people died, but then because wheels were already turning for peoples’ family plans and the industry demands beds be filled people would be moved in just to get COVID and die, rinse and repeat. I woke up one morning in the mental hospital and quit that job a few weeks later. I am so much better now.
I came to the conclusion that everyone in those homes had their humanity stripped from them and many were being kept alive solely to be milked of their assets or to keep those state Medicare checks coming in.
Making people live in a memory care facility really ought to be illegal. We really need better options for end of life.
Had one of those in 2022 at 42. Feels like I never got over it either, been in therapy regularly since then. But its like the damage is repaired and functional but still sore and I feel like it could happen again at any time. I hope your situation recovers securely and you have support.
Mine is because I lost my dad, my FIL is quickly dieing of cancer, my dog is slowly dieing of cancer, I work in first response and my job exposed me to more death and another aspect of my job is isolation which adds another element. My life is surrounded by death and it’s given me a very dark outlook on life.
2020: 2020
2021: Dad died rapidly 7 weeks after diagnosis of an unusual condition that might have been treatable for 5+ years if he had not stayed home during COVID (see: 2020)
2022: husband informed me that b/c I have gained weight (15 lbs, starting at very skinny) (see: 2020, 2021) he was no longer attracted to me. Tried to make it work but could no longer trust him with my health or heart. Left. Bought a house in my own. Adopted a perfect man of a dog.
2023: $35K in unexpected home repairs.
2024: Dog died of early onset epilepsy.
2025: Additional $16K of unexpected home repairs.
My tank is fucking empty.
Sending a big hug. These on their own is a lot, all of them together is just overwhelming. Hope life gets lighter and you find your joy and balance again soon.
Same. Working with group home people during COVID did some shit to me and I haven't been able to look at people the same ever since. I started therapy but I'm impatient and very distrustful of the industry so I quit. I haven't worked since then either, so I'm just keeping my shit together and being with my family. I've given myself the title of Family Activities Coordinator.
Are you me? I was managing two group homes for people with extreme behavioural needs. I couldn’t get staff, and worked 100+ hours a week from 2019-2022. I burned out so hard that I left the industry and do something completely different now.
I hope you find joy and healing.
I was just the guy who picked them up to take them to appointments. Theoretically it's a super cushy gig but you see things that fill you with questions.
Years of attempting living up to other people’s expectations while managing “depression and anxiety” (undiagnosed OCD and ASD) and then finally being accurately diagnosed at 29 did it for me. *You mean there’s a reason, and it’s not my fault?!*
Us “twice exceptional” kids really had it made.
(I’m in therapy and handling things, but, damn, there is a truckload of acceptance to come to terms with.)
Are you asking about how the stability manifests?
If so, for me it was about realizing that I had built my life off of expectations that were in conflict with many of my own values. I had to unpack a lot of childhood wounds and learn to tune into and cultivate my own inner compass. I had to learn how to tolerate all my feelings, because I grew up in an environment where it was not safe to express much of anything.
I used a combination of mindfulness, inner-child healing, exercise, therapy, and reading to rebuild myself in a healthier way than I was raised (which was to be very judgmental, self-critical, and codependent). I learned to take good care of myself rather than driving myself into the ground. It was a lot! But it’s been one of the best journeys I never wanted to take.
Does that answer your question? I’m happy to elaborate if you’d like.
Thanks. I meant more how a mental breakdown itself manifests. Like could I have one or had one and not realize, or is that something that makes a big bang?
But your way to recover is surely useful to know.
Oh yes =) Well, in that case, as a layperson with a deep interest psychology but no formal training beyond a bachelors’ degree:
I don’t know if there is a single kind of manifestation. I would guess they can come in all shapes and sizes, dependent on you and your own capacity for stress.
I personally believe breakdowns can be big and noticeable, with symptoms like dramatic reinvention, risky or impulsive behavior (including impulse spending), and intense emotional dysregulation (anger, panic, manic states, etc).
Or they might be unnoticeable, and manifest more like depression.
To me, a mental breakdown is simply a breakdown of mental systems that once worked for you, but are now holding you back and perhaps causing more harm than good.
I had one about 15 years ago after the deaths of the matriarchs in my family. I wonder if my neural circuits carved a nice new path to a breakdown that makes it super easy to follow again, yay!
I feel this.
I broke in 2021 in the midst of the second round of quarantines. I lost my business, my home, and my son (his mom disappeared with him) over the span of one week.
I’ve been a shadowy husk of myself ever since, wandering through my days in a languid haze.
I know that haze well unfortunately. I'm sorry you do too. I had a cluster of difficult and painful experiences at the same time which also triggered this breakdown. It's like emotional anaphylactic shock, like parts of the spectrum of feeling shut down entirely. I didnt truly realize what people meant about "feeling numb" (emotionally/mentally) until this happened. For me, when the painful experiences passed and were resolved, i found some healing. But the haze is still there, but there are times when it isnt as bad now. I hope you can find healing too, and im sorry this is part of your life right now.
I appreciate that, but I’ll be ok. Presently working on cobbling together a mosaic out of the broken pieces. Things seem like they’re heading in a better direction.
Yeah I hit the wall right about the same time. I'm still not back to *fully* functional.
I think COVID fucked everyone up worse than we realized at the time and we're still living in the aftershocks. All that liquor and time at home.
It's okay to be not okay.
I had my first one in 2015 and followed it up with more minor ones in 2016 and 2018. It takes time. I'm 10 years out and in a much better place (and honestly better for the whole experience), but it is going to be awhile before you are really ok again.
Glad you are in a better way and have that perspective, that is heartening. I have had a couple of mini episodes since then but more recoverable so far.
But I still feel so different than i was prior to that. I guess realizing how thin the barrier was between internal safety and the abyss can never be forgotten, but on the other hand it's good to know that it can happen again because I have prioritized things in my life differently after that. Made some good changes too, but some things are still a puzzle.
Nearly the same here with 2022, both friend and dog passed away, and just broke down.
In some ways it was a long time coming, but emotionally have felt raw since then and just feel like another break is moments away at any time.
It’s a broad term but typically moderate to severe anxiety and/or depression, sleep problems, difficulty concentrating, questioning life purpose, feeling overwhelmed by regret, difficulty adapting to change, feelings of isolation from friends, existential crisis, to name a few. Real fun stuff.
Look into autism level 1, formerly called Asperger's syndrome. I'm experienced all the things you mentioned while unraveling this in myself.
Anxiety is the main issue we face, but our psychological needs are different from people without autism. CBT and traditional talk therapy where we complain about our problems isn't as helpful.
Learning you have autism. If you were intelligent, well-behaved, and smart enough to get through school, no one suspected there was a problem.
After 20 years of being made to feel that I'm insane from the piles of mental disorders I've collected, I learned about autism. That fits my personality so much better than bipolar disorder!
Now I'm beginning to think I'm not the only one. Depression is at an all-time high because of the number of well-behaved smart kids who were missed for ADHD and autism in the 80's.
It's not a mood disorder, it's a developmental disorder. We learned how to not rock the boat at a very young age, so certain parts of our psyche didn't develop past early childhood. We just coped really well for long enough.
Nice! I’m on my second divorce at 41.
I work a remote job and so I have the luxury of being destroyed mentally by social media and depression all while getting paid.
I hope you have (or will get) good support for yourself.
I had a significant one a few years ago age 41-43. I’m still recovering from it, and have been in weekly therapy for years. I learned that a very traumatic childhood (never mind adult trauma’s) can’t be bypassed by being a high performer. It has to be faced.
I had my most serious one in 2020 right before the pandemic started. There’s still some skills I’ve never gotten back, but at least I’m doing better socially now.
I had one in 2016, 2020 and suffering currently with more of a slow mental meltdown like taffy in warm water now. Not much is helping unfortunately as the causes are varied
You fucking hipsters ruined it for those of us who have been buying vinyl for years. There was a time were i could go to the record store and come out with 10 records for $20. New shit was maybe $20. Then all of a sudden vinyl was cool again, those batgain bin records became $5 ea and a new release is $40. Thanks!
100% agree with you there. I started collecting in college in the early 2000s and nobody wanted vinyl. Now it’s hard to even find a record store with a $5 bin. Everything new and at least $30.
Laughing as I look up and see 9 crates FULL of vinyl records purchased by my husband in only the last 2 years. Not to mention a two new turntables, speakers, etc. Yep.
I thought I was getting back to my roots until I learned about the price of records. In the late 90's, a $30 12" was something that was ultra-rare and out-of-print. Now, that's just the price of a record.
90% of the time I am listening at my desk so I went with ultra near field speakers. As in you are meant to be listening to them 2-3 feet away. I went with Kali LP-UNF speakers and a RSL speedwoofer 10e. r/BudgetAudiophile is a good resource. As is youtube cheapaudioman
Yeah, in 2025 I finally upgraded to a proper turntable with a built in preamp. Two solid bookshelf speakers and splurged on a nice shelf for it all. No regrets.
Same here. I have quite the CD collection, but now that I’m “middle aged” I can afford a decent turn table set up, and it lives up to the hype.
What albums are y’all getting into? I just ordered deftones “around the fur” vinyl which is peak xenial midlife crisis for me lol
Key 90s viynl for me are: the MTV Unpluggeds: Nirvana, Neil Young, Alice in Chains. 311 Greatest hits. Beastie Boys Hello Nasty. Blind Melon. Morphine - Cure for Pain. REM - Out of Time, Automatic for the People. Rage - Evil Empire. Pearl Jam - Ten. Tom Petty - Wildflowers. Widespread Panic - Ain't Life Grand
Nice mix, I have all of those on CD so it will be fun to hear them on vinyl when I find em - just looked up Alice In Chains MTV unplugged and it’s starting at $400 on eBay -_- I’ll be going into this slowly….
Every day I am thankful I was spending all the leftovers of my meager paychecks on records in the 2000s. I have such a great collection now (about 800 records) and got most of it for about an average of $15 per album. Used records were so cheap and abundant back then! I've kind of lost the passion for collecting now, the thrill of the hunt has left me. Plus the current prices make me cry!
Huh. I didn’t associate me getting a record player and scouring garage sales for records as a midlife crisis. I thought I had to my a motorcycle or something.
Both. As for gear, an Akai MPCone is pretty much all you need to get started. You can rip samples directly onto it, or import files from an SD card. There’s a reason the MPC series is a part of hip-hop and sampling culture.
Eh, vinyl is growing among the younger folks. My 16yo bought a record without us owning anything to play it. I bought her a used cheap player that she wanted but now I’m looking for a vintage home audio and CRT tv setup.
Oof this hits hard because I definitely got back into collecting a few years ago. I still had vinyl from my early 20’s but took a break until the kids got older and I no longer had to pay for daycare.
Ooh, which one? I'm an ex-handbag lover but we just took out a home equity line of credit and Im over here thinking...it doesnt HAVE to be spend on the home....
I got tattooed early in life, in like 2001-2003. All 5 pieces. Then after at least 22 years, I got a 12-hour piece done on my chest last year at 41, and am going to start another \~12-hour piece in a couple of weeks. That's my big splurge.
My midlife crisis purchase so far was a 1977 Trans-Am Firebird, in blue, with gold trim flames and bird, and tee-tops.
It’s a Hot Wheels, because divorce does that to a person. But I have my dream Trans-Am, even if only in my dreams.
I got the Soundwave Lego set for Christmas. It transforms and talks. The tape deck opens with the eject button. I didn’t purchase it myself, but I’m having so much fun with the build I’m almost ready to take it apart just to do it again.
All of us are in our 40s and at our midlife crisis... i remember my dad buying a whole 60s rock and roll band set + PA system to hold his own outdoor concert good enough for a futbol field.
What's yours?
Dude I bought my current place from had a full recording studio in the sleepout, I've never seen so many Gibsons in one place in my life. My friend came to the property showing with me and they were practically drooling when we were briefly let into the building.
Yes, I think it does! I know several of my teenagers' peers' parents who have opened speciality stores/sweet shops/artisan bakeries/coffee shops etc when they hit 45-ish.
Holy shit I had no idea buying a drum set is a midlife crisis move. I was a drummer as a kid and haven’t played in a long time due to living in nyc and not having space. My kid is getting into music and I was considering getting a dope electronic kit bc a) I can afford it and b) it would be quieter and more compact than an acoustic kit.
Am I just having a midlife crisis instead?
Mine was model trains, but that was partly because I missed my dad, and the last thing we did together just before he was diagnosed with acute leukemia was go to a train show and talk about building a layout together. Then when my daughter was two she loved trains, it started simple and became a major hobby.
That's so cool. Have you seen Rod Stewart's model train setup? It's incredible! He's spent decades creating it, even renting an extra room in hotels he stayed in while touring so he could spend hours working on his models every day.
Y'all got money?
Seriously though, I'm getting into woodworking a bit, so maybe something like a lathe? I feel like the Lego Millennium Falcon is the actual answer, though. That's the purchase your wife sees and starts looking up divorce attorneys.
That’s a relatively cheap purchase compared to some mentioned here, but I warn you - there will be a second rock tumbler, a bigger rock tumbler, the dual-barrel rock tumbler, and finally the vibrating rock tumbler. At least, it could go that way, I’ve heard. 😬
Damn, I'm jealous.
In elementary school we were asked which instruments we wanted to play when we moved up to 4th grade. I chose drums and guitar. The music teacher (fuck you, Mrs Warner) said i couldn't, because "those are boys' instruments"
The fuck? As far as I know you don't use your dick as a drumstick or to strum a guitar (but hey, I never had lessons so what do I know?) so how are they "boys' instruments"?
She assigned me the flute. I didn't even make it through the first quarter with it. Then she assigned me the viola, which cannot, to my dismay, be played like a guitar if you want to pass. The rental instruments were returned.
I still don't know how to play any instruments.
I'm about to do this one myself. Once we get the spring purge completed in the garage and basement I'll have room to set that shit up and then it's go time 🤘
That's like $1k in crash cymbals. My younger son just got a new one from Santa this Christmas for the drum kit he got over the summer. Santa was surprised about how expensive the crash cymbals were.
Get Astrobot. Seriously great game that is light-hearted in nature. I think it's the only game I've ever played through twice and I'm basically a life long gamer.
After years of listening to my husband say he was going to buy himself a PS5 'one day', this Christmas I decided he needed some down time for himself and bought him one as a Christmas present, along with TLoU 1&2. I will not let myself touch it because 15 years ago he handed me the X-box controller and said, 'I think you'll like RDR' and well, I basically took over the X-box. Won't be doing it this time. I want to start a new RDR2 playthrough, but can never find the time...
He did, but he has a bit of a strange mentality about expensive gifts. Not that he can't afford nice things, because he's always been incredibly generous to his family, but he wouldn't normally spend so much on himself. He always asks for practical (boring) gifts, it was great to get him something frivolous for once. He had an horrific year after his sibling passed away last January. Last year was nothing but stress and heartache and hard work for him. He deserves so much more than a console, but I hope at least I can give him some much-needed me time this year.
I bought a game on Steam for the first time in about five years. Last one was Little Nighmares 2. I played it (honestly forgot the name already) for about an hour before someone in my family needed something. I walked away and left it running. Found it two days later and realized that I don't think I can do this anymore. Have not tried since. I also start a new job next week, so will have even less time.
I played Super Metroid two nights ago for about two hours. I got through Kraid, Crocomire and that weird plant thing. Got the grappling beam and wrapped it up. Will probably not touch it until the holidays next year.
I kind of miss playing games, but part of the fun was that you could just sit and play for a long time. I can't do that anymore, it's no fun when you are always watching the clock. "Hey, I have 20 minutes before kid practice is over, so I can play for 10? Piano lessons later on, so can't play then, have to yell at the kids to practice. Time to cook dinner, no game now. Cool, dinner and dishes are done, time for a game! Oh wait, I have to pay some bills, help with homework, car has two low tires, gotta go get the air compressor and fill those, the cat just yaked up some vom on the rug, where's that little carpet machine, etc.".
Speaking of that, I was actually going to play today, but I have an appointment to get TSA PRE clearance, so I need to dig up my passport and get to the interview soon.
This is why I spend all my little micro-moments on Reddit and not games.
A friend gave me a PS4 as a gift when the newest game system I had was an original XBOX. The PS4 was leaps and bounds better in graphics but good god does it annoy me with updates and add ons and subscriptions. The XBOX turned on and played games. The PS4 is like a needy girlfriend with issues.
Is the PS5 like that? Where when you first plugged it in it required 45 minutes of update downloads before it would allow you to do anything? And basically every time you turn it on there is a new mandatory update? And everything is subscription based or has seemingly essential add-on stuff that costs money? Soul sucking stuff like that?
Kinda. PS5 is essentially a better ps4. It runs faster, no real loading times. Slightly better graphics and frame rate . I happened to like the subscription service though. 100's and 100's of games for a monthly fee ? Or gambling and buying a game you might not like.
At this point, I’m pretty comfortable saying that it’s my Nintendo Switch that I let my kids use 😂
I haven’t really bought anything new beyond my existing hobbies.
Absolutely gorgeous!
I played for many years (music major, etc) and used to have a Selmer Super Action 80 series II. I loved that horn. But eventually, one sad day, I had to sell it to pay my bills. I think about tracking down a horn and playing again all the time.
And this? This is a perfect “midlife crisis” sax. I applaud you. I hope you enjoy every minute of it and give it all the time and love you can.
Thanks! I started playing at around 11 or 12 years old, took weekly private lessons for several years, played in jr. high, high school and college, even auditioned and got into regional honor band, etc. But around age 20 I just put it down for some reason. I started playing about 3 years ago, joined my community concert band, and have been having the best time. Now I’m starting to learn jazz improvisation, and really playing music that means something to me (as opposed to classical or big band sheet music). I’d highly recommend you pick it back up! We’re in a golden age of good equipment and unlimited learning resources.
Not sure if this qualifies as a "midlife crisis" purchase, but it is something that I have been saving for a while. A trailer that is outfitted as my mobile museum for showing and displaying my vintage motorcycle restorations. For years and years I did it how most people do, an open flatbed trailer. Now I can just roll up, open my doors, power on the lights and TV and I am ready to show/educate. This purchase felt like I finally "arrived"
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I think tomorrow I will go buy not one, but two 42 inch US General (Harbor Freight) tool boxes to finally get my garage back in order. I haven't had a tool box in a decade and it's time.
My wife is Japanese, we lived in Japan for a while, and we take our kids back every year.
I cannot even tell you how many people our age have asked me for travel recommendations. It’s endemic.
Ha this was me. Actually everything in that old comic was something I had done, lol
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I also have plenty of cats, so I did the plants outside. My fiancé and I both - separately - started native plant gardens a few years ago, which was one of the things that got us talking again after we’d fallen out of touch. Definitely kinda midlife crisis-y for both of us, although mine is part of a larger obsession with bees.
All my travel plans are dependent on how many cool bees I can see at the destination.
we bought a farm... not in the 'bought the farm'= nice way of saying someone croaked manner either... we have a farmhouse, barns and fields that were turned into forest with trails... then got an UTV to drive around on it and do farmy type things, which mostly involves building bonfires and inviting the neighbors over to make s'mores
we've both taken up traveling for our respective hobbies as well... him for DMB concerts and football games and me for ultramarathons
he also has a ton of Legos
we're DINKs who started out poor as fuck and worked hard and got lucky... i realize we got some lucky breaks by being the right person in the right place at the right time
Putting yourself in position for those breaks wasn’t luck. You’re selling yourself short. You earned those breaks and proved you were the right people for those positions. Congrats on the success, enjoy the rewards!
Hmm, that's a good question that I really don't have an answer to. I just bought a car so my son could have my old one, but I spent around $21K landed and only borrowed $11K of that. It's very much a used, new-to-me car.
We already own a home.
Due to numerous health issues, I have discovered I don't really like to travel... so while I *loved* Hawaii, I will only move there, I do not want to go back to travel.
I bought a Brother knitting machine that was made in the 1980s in Japan. Got it from someone in Turkey who refurbishes them since they haven’t been manufactured in decades. New expensive hobby unlocked.
When I turned 40, I bought myself a new car (Honda HR-V). It’s not a normal midlife crisis car, but I bought it to replace my previous HR-V for the sole reason of wanting a car with Apple Play. There was literally nothing wrong with the car I was replacing. Just wanted to see maps on the screen. No regerts.
And plastic surgery! I gifted myself a breast reduction.
I joke to my wife that she got lucky that my mid life crisis car was just a new Corolla. I really do enjoy driving it and the payments are less than the gas costs in my old V8 truck.
I had a BR two years ago. Unfortunately, insurance denied my surgery after multiple attempts. Plus, the results were too conservative to make a noticeable impact on my quality of life. so after I save more money and research a new surgeon, I am looking to schedule another one within the next three years. Giving my hard earned money away to plastic surgeons was not how I planned to experience a midlife crisis.
I can only imagine how frustrating that must have been for you, with the physical and emotional stress and feel like the results don’t do much.
My results aren’t the most aesthetic, but I’ve decided to look at it as a medical procedure and keep as-is, unless I win the lottery. I’m really the only one who sees any faults with them, and that’s because I go looking for them.
Insurance covered it and my share ended being around 3,500ish. I was quoted about 12k out of pocket, if insurance didn’t cover it - I’m in New Hampshire. I was also lucky enough to have sick time/PTO to cover my recovery.
The process from my initial discussion with my PCP to surgery took about 9 months.
The reduction sub has a bunch of information and support for anyone considering a reduction.
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MASH made me do it. I bought a subscription.
I'm one of I think three guys my age at work who doesn't own a F-150 or similar car. It's been noticed too and I just point out it's not like my mom couldn't drive one of those things.
i just had this talk with my husband about a week ago! i need a "new" car and i was saying i wouldn't mind a pickup because of the functionality. But now they've removed a ton of the functionality *and* made "the smallest one" enormous.
We live in a 100+ year old home and the driveway in very narrow and so is the street. Where the heck would i even park? And, you know, i'd actually like to *use* the pickup for pickup things while still being able to see animals and children in front of me. i got started but i'll finish there, lol.
Holy wow! i had honestly never even heard of these until today which i'm somehow insulted by. i'm stoked to know that this is a thing because, yes actually, this is kind of perfect for someone like me (and many people i imagine). Thank you so much for putting Telo on my radar.
It's the inflation. In all seriousness, vehicle size inflation is real and is a response by the auto manufacturers to get around emissions standards by placing vehicles. Add to that that the margins are much higher on the massive trucks (plus, who doesn't need heated leather seats etc when hauling their groceries).
I used to have a 2001 S10. I wish I hadn't gotten rid of it years ago. I currently drive a Honda Fit. I've hauled large loads of mulch, lumber, and stone in it. The stone is hell on the rear shocks, but, they are replaceable. The looks I get from people as I load it up, particularly when I'm loading the car to the roof with lumber, as they try to figure out how to tie down that one 2x4 they got in their little 4 foot bed, are always fun. The only thing I can't carry are full sheet goods. I can rent a cargo van when I need to do that. (That said, I'm still on the hunt for a cheap used truck with a real bed (or a cargo van))
Bed widths have held steady forever but they are all taller, for sure. Has to do with an arms race of sorts, the more payload capacity, the heavier (stronger) the axles need to be, therefore bigger, therefore the truck sits higher up. Cabs until basically the ‘80s were only single-cab configuration, a bench seat that held three adults. Now those are the rarest and the quad cab (5-6 total seats) are more common. My truck wasn’t even offered without the quad cab. Also, if anything the beds have shortened on average to accommodate more cab and still shoehorn into a garage.
I had a Honda Ridgeline pickup from the age of 34-42 until a kid hit me and totaled it. Having that in the parking lot at work amongst the F150s and Rams looked out of place. But mine hauled just as much stuff in the bed as theirs from Home Depot runs, camping trips, etc., plus my trunk got extensive use. And I didn’t tow anything, but most of those other trucks didn’t tow anything either. Or if they did it was a boat that a Subaru could have towed.
I bought a Ram 1500 Classic Oct ‘23. It was replacing the Insight I had been driving since Aug ‘16.
I love the thing. The power, the sound, etc. but the big thing was my 2 older daughters and I go camping on a regular basis with our scout troop. We could barely get everything in my Insight and needed something better for stuff.
Could I have got a bigger car or SUV? Sure. Could I drop a yard of mulch in the back of one of those? No. I hate paying people for things I can do myself. Like yard work and such.
Now that I have bought it, I have load the bed several times with stuff that would have previously require removing car seats from my wife’s minivan to barely fit. Several loads of crap that we couldn’t put in her van. Drug a trailer with a piano from PA. Started being the primarily hauler of scout trailer.
It’s be super useful and drives way better then my crappy Insight did.
Not saying pickups aren’t useful. I’m saying that most mid-size pickups can do everything that most people need. My Ridgeline got 26mpg on the highway but could tow 5000 lbs and had a 3/4 ton bed capacity. Plus I had no problem fitting 4 passengers in it with me driving when making the 5 hour drive to summer camp for our scout troop. I wouldn’t recommend a Tacoma for hauling passengers though.
Mid size are ok for most stuff. We have a bigger trailer, so I don’t think a 5k towing capacity would work. My ram can do 11K. But I didn’t buy it to tow initially.
Bought needed something that could potentially fit all 6 in my fam (me, wife, 4 kids) which meant a mid-size wouldn’t work. No middle front seat option.
That stuck me with Silverado, Sierra, F150 and Ram 1500.
Totally. I mean I do "get it" but I just don't share this particular neurosis. I get in my car and sit in traffic. The hell do I need to be king of the road for? Definitely don't need an absurd monthly payment for that.
I guess you dont do your own yard work, build your own stuff, repair your own things, lug multiple hockey bags, or do lots of outdoor stuff?
I bought a mid-sized truck this past May and can't believe how practical they are for people who do their own stuff - and I'm a white collar guy.
I uhhhhhh……. sold my fancy Volvo wagon for $40k and bought my dream 90s car. Then got my kids into 90s cars/trucks. Just paid cash for 4 shitboxes and we are fixing them up and driving them all over town.
It’s a real bitch some days. So much fun 99% of the days. My husband keeps a new SUV for reliability….. I prefer to just wing it. All our kids are teenagers and they love it. I’m definitely bringing down home values with my garage/driveway……. but housing is too high anyways 😂😒
Old Mercedes mostly. 94 E320, 96 C220 and an 81 300d…… then a 97 Chevy truck and a 95 Honda civic. Bought a trailer (we have a 2016 Dodge Ram that we use to get everything home😂)……. then a second Mercedes C280 as a donor car…… except it just needed a starter and tires. So it’s registered and insured now 🥹
In my defense 😩 We have five teenagers and I made sure each had a mechanically sound car that THEY chose. I just saturated them with visions of German engineering. I can’t afford to buy each kid a $25k car. What I can do is buy them a car and fix it up to run and drive like new (or modded within reason🥲) What I won’t do is co-sign a loan when the world is on fire economically.
Selling the badass Volvo wagon just funded 4 cars plus got me the base for building my E320 into an Evo. It was an amazing choice that I wish I could’ve made sooner.
This is awesome. Your kids are really fortunate, plus some or all of them will probably be more equipped to handle car issues in the future. Even though I can't repair a car myself, my dad taught me to go to the auto parts store (and even the junkyard a time or two) for parts.
We have been keeping YouTube hot with searches😩😂 but it’s so amazing how much random knowledge is on YouTube. Just incredible. Like, we have been able to fix power windows, radios, headlights and radiators and glow plugs and starters and suspension (scariest🫠) and body work (we suck at this and will pay for any future body kits/body repair 🌚). Omg the a/c system was a nightmare.
My husband is a boilermaker welder mechanic……so if it’s anything involving the engine or transmission…..he immediately steps in and takes over. I just watch (in awe) as he tears stuff down and builds it back up. He just doesn’t have a lot of time……. Because we actually have a family farm outside of town 💀 plus he’s a union welder so he works standard tradie hours (long). So my E class can wait. Maybe I’ll find a cool old International Scout and build it for him while I wait to tear down my AMG motor. That would so fun. He likes the really old G wagons too (sorta military looking).
Cruises. We go on minimum one a year, usually two. We splurge and only cruise Norwegian Haven (ship within a ship - private bar, restaurant, pool, etc).
We have no kids and work 70+ hours a week in our own business with no employees. We shut the store down and get gluttonous two weeks a year!
We’ll drive our paid off cars into the ground and are roughly 3 years (hopefully sooner) from being completely debt free. Only student loans and mortgage left!
Nice! My only cruise was on a Norwegian, it was a smaller ship but really nice. I remember wanting more young people on the cruise with us, but now I would appreciate it more.
Generally skews older, but now we’re older - so we’re catching up 🤣
Were friendly with a couple our age on the last one and their 16ish son was with them. He referred to me as “that lady my mom has been hanging out with” OUCH!
I don’t want anything, maybe a ridiculous car of some sort once the kids are through college? I don’t really want one though, just something practical!
Oh, maybe a float tank/sensory deprivation tank? I would never get one really, too much maintenance, but maybe haha.
I got some cheap arcade machines from an operator who was retiring 10 years ago.
Ended up selling them cuz nobody but me cared. 😅
I'm not healthy enough to maintain them anymore so it worked out.
Bought a shitbox car as a commuter and “rolling project”. Got it fixed up enough for my kids to borrow when their shitbox cars break down. Still haven’t gotten to the project part of the “rolling project”.
I got the gaming consoles, I got the big TV, bought a vintage turntable and some records, still feeling empty and disinterested after a while. The crisis continues, I guess…
My wife did this and has mentioned several times how “freeing” it is. I was totally on board btw, not that she needed my permission or approval. I’m actually really happy for her.
That is the one thing on my bucket list that I will never get to do, despite being an aging rocker and metal head. I sing so badly that I've been thrown out of choirs. I make people laugh at funerals because I'm so out of tune, and I can't play an instrument to save my life. So, no rockstar lifestyle for me.
I did, however, write two books about a rock band. That's as close to wish fulfilment as I will come. For the ears of the world it's better this way.
My midlife crises caused my psychosis to go into full bloom, so I gave my life to Christ and started to hammer out the theological framework for a radically different form of Christianity so that I can help future generations be raised in a better world.
I mean uh... um... I bought a new computer?
Maybe I'll buy a hearse...
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The wife contributed this one, so it saves me from taking a picture of all my Warhammer figurines.
My wife and I have gone to some pretty big name shows over the last 3-4 years, but a band I liked a long time ago was doing a set in a local dive so we decided to go. I had more fun at that $27 show than I’ve had at almost any of the $100-200+ shows I’ve been to recently. Forgot how much I enjoyed small local shows.
I started going to metal shows at small venues with a buddy a few years ago. there is some amazing stuff for 1/10th the cost of big show, and the crowds are more manageable .
GI Joe Classified Series Action Figures from Hasbro.
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Oh yeah. Pottery. I started 3 years ago with classes and now I take a pottery class every week. I have so many glazes and tools at home and a vevor wheel. Considering a kiln and better wheel for home though...
I got a Civic Type R it was a dream car of mine as a teenager
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beauty treatments! botox, fillers, lasers, glp-1s. lots of women who can't honestly afford it choosing them over investing, saving for retirement etc. it's just a little here, just a little there, partially covered by insurance sometimes, so easy to lie to themselves about the actually big cost over a few years.
I started a gaming collection. I didn't keep any of my old consoles so I bought an atari 2600, nes, snes, genesis, sega CD, 32x, GameCube, dream cast, wii, wiiu, all xboxes, all Playstations, a multicade and am currently building a classic game collection. I want a classic pinball machine but the aforementioned purchases have lowered my bank account to where i gotta slow down a tick before getting one lol.
Tried to play this old Xbox game on my Xbox 360 and found out they cut the online abilities of 369 which disabled backwards compatibility. So. I bought an Xbox, Xbox one and every fantasy game made on those platforms.
I’ll keep you in my thoughts, LOL
Right before Christmas I bumped into an old coworker I hadn’t seen in 13 years. After talking about our kids and she realized I had 2 boys she asked if we’d try for a girl. I’m 48 and my youngest is 15 years old. There’s no way I’m starting over at this point, LOL.
That will be me soon, one graduates next year But then the next starts HS right after… but only one with activities? That’s gonna be nice and feel like a vacation!
Same. Oldest is 10, and our youngest is 18 months. I'll be 62 when our youngest graduates highschool...so that's fun.
That said, I've been thinking about getting my first tattoo. So I suppose that would count.
Oh, we have enough weekend loss with Elementary school soccer, basketball and lacrosse. But I can see it getting worse until my kids learn how to drive.
If anything, buying my oldest a car at 16 was my mid-life crisis purchase. I was excited to see her so excited and for her to be able to go places on her own. It’s one of those rites of passage where you really feel like a grown-up. She treats that thing like a stereotypical dad would treat his car too - always clean, fuel never below half a tank, parks it where it’s unlikely to get door dings, etc.
Plus, it’s saved her parents a ton of time shuttling her and her sister around to their activities.
I spent quite a bit of money on my gaming kit. Video games are my much-needed escape from the world. Perhaps not “peak” midlife crisis material, but the older I get, the more I just wanna game.
Oooooh, fun! We have six hens that we got as day-olds. They're about to turn two, so I expect egg production may start to slow, so this spring we may add a few to the collection.
our original crew is a year old now. we've lost several to marek's which really sucked. I am hatching these eggs with the plans to vax for it myself at 1 day old. Just regular ass Ma Ingles over here. :)
SAME HERE. Been bleaching the shit out of my hair since lockdown. The thrill of potentially melting my hair off once a month reminds me I'm still alive.
I learned to sail last year with the intention of buying a boat. Crewed on a race and absolutely loved it. Sadly, a back injury and surgery got in the way. Hoping to have enough stability to get back out on the water by summer.
Welcome to the club. Why are divorces so expensive?....because the ex is a bitter, angry, troll. Now married to the woman I should have married decades ago. So worth it (even if it cost 6 figures).
Some of you confuse affordable hobbies with actual middle crisis purchases.
Like the surprise on your wife's face when you take out a second mortgage on your house to buy a sports car.
What's the millennial sports car?
I bought a new WRX 3 years ago 🤷♂️
When the finance manager asked how I was from a Prius to a WRX, I immediately snapped off "midlife crisis". She nodded and said that makes sense.
No shame in my game. 😤
Someone said once that millennials don't have mid life crisis bc it's just ALL been crisis since 9/11 and I kind of agree. I don't think we
A. Live the lives that our parents did, where a big shift was a sign of a crisis (i.e. we aren't afraid to make big changes often)
B. Have had the capacity to select one moment to be our "crisis" indicated by a big purchase, bc we've been in survival mode since 2001 and oh by the way can't afford the big purchase anyway
I recall hearing this and generally agree.
I'll add that it's also frustrating that the previous generation looks down on us as if we are the ones who sabotaged social mobility.
For guys, grills. Everyone around my age has a smoker, and/or a Blackstone type flattop, and/or a charcoal grill, and/or a gas grill, and/or a brick pizza oven, and on and on.
I live in a condo. GE Profile came out with an indoor smoker last year that actually works. It uses a catalytic converter to filter the smoke. I use mine almost every week.
I feel like I missed out. I got an old Weber Genesis (90s era) off of some dude on Craigslist for $75 like four years ago. It came with a rotisserie and the cast iron grates.
Maybe I will repaint the sides this year. Of course, I said that last year too.
Maybe I will just cook supper on it.
Ok, first off: how dare you?
Second off: that’s fair
Third off: I’ll have you know that my reverse seared tri tip would pair amazingly with the pale ale I used to make.
I'll get mine with my tax refund
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I have a:
Charcoal grill. 15 years old, needs a new charcoal pan. Other than that she's in great shape. Keep the cover on it when not in use. Used semi regularly.
Turkey frier. I fry about 4-6 turkeys per year. Two on Thanksgiving, 1 at the beginning of December for The Feast. One for Christmas. Usually one or two in ~May, depending on hoenmany I bought on clearance in January. I use it year round to do all of my fried foods at once. Wings and french fries usually. It's time for a new valve on the burner. I think it has a leak.
Pellet grill. Just a little 30gal. We're a family of 3 so it gets the job done. Got it on clearance after my brother and I smoked a turkey on Thanksgiving on his offset. Had to replace the controller last year. Use it at least once a week. I love it.
Flat top griddle. This was given to me by a resident at my work. I had been eyeballing one for years, and he never used it, so he gave it to me. Propane. Had to buy a valve for it to go to a normal sized propane tank instead of the small green ones.
I have had a gas and charcoal duo grill on my porch for a good 15 years at least. I am interested in getting a smoker though because smoking with the charcoal side of my grill just seems so hands on.
This was me getting a nice griddle this past year to replace my 15+ year old grill. May get a smoker in the future too. At least the family reaps the benefits.
I dunno if this peak because I’m also going through a huge life change and some massive grief while also hitting a midlife crisis. I’m kinda going crazy doing some stuff we had always talked about doing together. We had talked about each learning an instrument and starting a “Psychedelic Country Funk” band called the Psychedelic Outlaws. So I’m buying a bass guitar (picking it up either today or tomorrow) and taking some lessons.
I got scuba certified, taking guitar lessons, and have a semi-personal trainer. These are things I would never have considered spending on myself years ago.
Hopefully our first home early this year. We rent a piece of shit house in a nice town outside of Boston. It’s a piece of shit but we have been in it for 5 years and know all the issues. Our land lord is great and asked us if we want to buy. I feel like this is the only way we will be able to buy in MA, and I’d rather buy a piece of shit where I intimately know the problems rather than only being able to afford houses that need a lot of work and getting bones. So that’s mine, I suppose.
“It may be a crap shack, but it’s my crap shack,” it’s what my husband and I say about our house. I have lots of affection for it, despite all of the problems we have.
And Atari 2600, NES, SNES, N64, Genesis, Game Boy Color, Broken SegaCD, a PS2, a whole bunch of mod chips, SD Card Cartridges, a Microsoft SphereX surround sound system, a 27 inch and a 36 inch CRT.
I was quite happy buying a raspberry pi which has pretty much all those games on it. It will never be the same and pretty to look at as all that hardware. But it's something kid me predicted would exist one day and now I have it. (Rarely use it. But it was fun playing the all the arcade games I never had enough money to play).
I'm an outlier though and enjoy all games on a flat screen.
Turning 42 in a little over a week. My midlife crisis had me getting out of a toxic codependent relationship and making a plan to be debt-free in 2 years (with the exception of my car payment).
Thanks. The getting out of debt is easy. The other thing less easy. It's hard to go from "not good" to "still not great, but also lonelier", even if it is the best thing for both parties. (but also it's the reason I'm able to get out of debt, lol)
I've been in a lot of really shitty relationships (platonic, romantic, and familial), which cycle through phases where you just end up alone or lonely. You just have to remind yourself: it's better to be lonely than abused. Walking away from a 9-year relationship is no joke!
I bought a boat right around when I turned 40, but I don't know if I'd classifiy that so much as "midlife crisis" as I finally reached the income and financial stability where I could comfortably afford one.
Then again.I think that's where a lot of the whole reputation of "midlife crisis" purchases comes from in the first place though. \~40 is where a lot of people are finally financially secure enough to purchase expensive toys like sports cars, boats, or other stereotypical purchases. The attribution of it being a "midlife crisis" is often just cope from people who can't afford those kind of purchases.
Just realized that I’ve bought 12 boats since turning 40. Some for my daughter and some for my wife.
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Very perceptive. We spent our youth scrimping and saving, had a few lean years while paying for childcare. Most of our furniture was mis-matched and second hand until very recently. But with no childcare fees and stable well-paid jobs we have reached a point where we can afford to buy pretty much whatever we want.
We're in the process of moving to a house that costs twice as much as the one we're selling. We've lived without a proper garden or garage for seven years, and have found somewhere that suits us perfectly. We joke about it being a midlife crisis with family because we're a bit self-conscious of how big an upgrade it is. There's a bit of an inverse 'crab in a bucket' mentality going on that I really need to nip in the bud.
Ozempic and testosterone injections. I see nothing but 40-50 years ago olds at the med spa at my gym going in to get them. They cost hundreds a month there because they don’t take insurance.
Thought I’d be buying myself some midlife crisis car or toy but too many expenses. Even though at 44 I already have a pretty hefty 401k balance and home equity but my expenses are just too high for where we live. On one hand I wish I had more fun money but on the other hand I don’t need “things” and need to focus on raising my kids right now.
Mine was buying a condo in Tokyo. I didn’t mean or care to land here. But I got older and figured I should do something. Still working on the language — 11 years in.
Kitchen stuff. In the last year I’ve gotten a French press, a milk frother, a new keurig, an ice machine, and an instant pot. At tax time, I’m finally getting my kitchen aid stand mixer. Also thinking about a bread maker
I bought my racecar (and motorcycle) in my 20s, so my 40s have been about growing the home bar situation. Buying too many bottles of things I barely use, and building out a nice collection of glassware. It's silly, but it keeps me occupied and makes me happy.
A gym membership, quit drinking, and dropped 70lbs. I don't need anymore actual things- hell I'd sell my house and live out of a RV on a land if my wife and kids would agree.
Glad you had a good experience with LASIK. For hair restoration, clinics in Turkey tend to offer solid results at more affordable prices compared to other countries. If you ever look into options there, Estefavor has been getting good feedback for different hair transplant methods, including FUE and DHI. Definitely worth researching if you want to take the next step.
For me it was going all in on a games room. I had used a piece meal computer for gaming for years on an old rickety table with a terrible chair that had terrible posture in the family lounge.
I realized I was spending more and more time gaming as I got older because I was spending less and less time out partying. So I splashed out on a gaming room setup. Top of the line PC, expensive peripherals, renovated the guest bedroom into a gaming room. I have shelves of my PS and XBox games from over 3 decades of gaming displayed now. Lego and figurine cabinets. LED, RBG lighting. 70 inch TV and surround sound stereo with big lazy boy chairs to watch sports. A bar with a well stocked mini fridge. The whole works.
It was fun creating the space and now I have a cool games room.
A Harley, sounds kind of lame and boomerish, but a few of my friends got one and I decided I'll never be able to afford anything, buy a house or probably retire. So at 35I did the right thing and got a cheap dresser and rode around doing non Harley riding things with my friends for a few years. Playing random stupid songs nobody on a Harley would listen to roulette when at stop lights, and wearing nothing Harley branded, and random shirts instead. It was fun while it lasted.
Second home, too much shit I don’t want anymore, and now multiple therapists. Planning to sell what I can and focus on family, relationships, and experiences.
Parenting Parents!
I am getting more worried about my aging parents in their day-to-day life. There are so many tasks that need to be done, but not willing to accept or ask for help.
As a kid I loved racing games, all the way back to Out Run at the arcade. I had always wanted a nice racing sim, but couldn't justify the money. My wife finally convinced me to save up for it and 1.5 years ago I finally built one. I now get to live out my dreams of being a race car driver. Next step, the racecar bed I always wanted as a kid.
I dunno about everyone else, but I just bought myself a gigantic “adult” beanbag chair.
Yes, this is a real piece of real adult furniture marketed to real adults that really exists. I feel like I am truly getting back to my childhood roots…
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Early 90’s model Toyota Winnebago mini motor home I’m restoring. Something to go camping with off grid with family.
Spent years in the Army, so off grid camping is great for me but sleeping on the ground and shitting in a hole I just dug is a bridge too far for my other family members. 🤣
It depends what you want it to do. I bought a second-hand Airwrap a few years ago and use the larger curling barrel to get a round brush blowout look. I don't like the round brush that comes with it (makes my hair frizzy).
I can use the smaller barrel for more of a curl, but it has to be used on damp hair and still won't curl as well as a real curling iron because it's not as hot.
I can go from wet to styled in about 25 minutes, and I put my hair in a bun at night to keep it wavy, so I don't style it again until the next wash.
Bought the car a few years ago but started dying my hair a little crazier (voilet highlights) about 8 months ago when I decided I really DGAF anymore what anyone thinks.
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Mine hit early. I tried to re-purchase several toys from my childhood that I could find on eBay in my 30s (GI joes, Transformers, Matchbox/Hot Wheels, etc).
I bought myself a skateboard for Christmas, already pulled a calf muscle but yeah just trying to pathetically relive my teenage years and feel something.
My dad died on my 42nd birthday and it instantly kicked my midlife crisis into high gear. Bought a Wrangler, went backpacking through Southeast Asia, got married and settled down (I'd been living a rather wild single existence beforehand)
Nothing like losing a parent to reframe your future. But is living a wild, single existence a negative way of being? I “settled down” at 34 and can now see I was still a young doe with so much life to live.
Traveling to other countries and experiencing the rest the world. Now that I have the money I have been having serious FOMO in seeing the other places other than America. My wife still won't join me to certain countries so I just go with friends instead. Our daughter is a teenager so she's getting to the age where she's appreciating (somewhat) the travels.
A college education. Dropped out in 2001 after the world started burning to become a rock star. I then realized the music industry is a scam, creative partnerships are impossible to maintain, even the best musicians tend bar when tours are over, and it might be time to go get one of those 100k/year tech jobs. Just in time for my job to be phased out by AI. I'm never going to financially recover from this decision.
Rebuilt a Windows 98 machine for oldschool gaming since so many of the old DOS/WIn9x games are cheap these days.
Via C3 at 1.0ghz, but you can adjust the clock multiplier, enable/disable caches, and disable the special execution pipeline to get basically everything from a low/mid 386 to about a PII 450 for performance. Tossed in a Voodoo 3 card I had sitting around and boom. Nostalgia.
Planning my second midlife crisis purchase of learning to play the Hurdy Gurdy, that seems crisis purchase worthy.
Went to Coachella for the first time. That same year I took trips to Jordan, Cabos, Paris, the Ozarks, NYC, LA, Beyonce concert x2, Blackpink concert x2, and a Janet Jackson concert.
I’m blame the banks for approving me for credit cards with ridiculously high limits. It was never a problem… until I hit that midlife crisis 🫠💸
I'm the cliche. I bought a new convertible sports car that goes faster than I need, but makes me smile much bigger than normal.
Come to Banff, we can go for a ride in the Rockies together. Smiles mandatory.
A kayak. But couldn't find other people with kayaks to go with. So I bought a second one and just invited people to join me. Have had a lot of success getting people to join me.
I started to do "iron butt" rides. I've ridden motorcycles since I was in my 20's but almost exclusively at the race track. Bought a road bike last year and went from Southern California to Austin and back. Planning the next one for June and it looks like this could potentially be a yearly thing.
Just as an observation as a xennial but the midlife crisis car went from being the corvette our boomer parents bought to these lifted useless pickups I see everywhere.
I learned to ride a motorcycle and purchased an Indian scout bobber this past year. When my older by 4 yrs brother was saying on his bday that we basically have only 10 years left of being comfortably mobil, it kinda jumpstarted my crisis.
I don't think a motorcycle is peak xennial mlc, but my love for bikes did start from watching CHiPs.
I took my best friend's daughter to Europe as a graduation gift. I wanted her to know that there's a lot more to the world than what you see in your home town. I wish someone had done that for me when I was young enough to do something with that message.
After 30+ years of drumming it finally occurred to me that learning bass might be cool.
So I bought a bass guitar, is what I'm getting at.
My fingers hate me, *but*, force-feeding my left hand fret-fondue is actually improving my stick control.
Computers, maybe?
More specifically, buidling your own rig.
My wife and i both got the itch last year, and considering how prices are skyrocketing due to the enshitication of the internet because of AI, i'm glad we did. Microcenter has legit become one of our fave stores to go to now.
Wifey made a rig consisting of a 7600X3D, 7900XT and 32GB 6000mhz ram in a montech king 95 pro case.
I made a rig with a 5800XT, 9060XT 16gb, 32GB 3200mhz in a montech x3 mesh.
Over the months we've done lil things to enhance the build and play experience. Desk mats, mechanical keyboards, curved screens, higher end peripherals like mice, head sets and microphones, and now we're trying to find the right chairs for longer gaming and work sessions.
It may seem childish, but im 40, wifey's 36, and we have no intentions of having kids. We still enjoy our us time, gaming, watching movies, cooking, making espresso, working out, drawing. Its not an extravagant life, and def not as expensive as other purchases our friends have made (lambos, smokers and grills, motorcycles, etc) but...its been nice.
Try midlife crises as adhd. Several new and renewed hobbies. Golf, trap and skeet shooting, Magic the gathering, new RAV4, trip to Disney world for the “kids”, major back surgery for a ruptured disc. Piano lessons. All in a year
The usual
I gotta know, was it the final fantasy set that got you into Magic?
I've been playing competitively since 94 and there is a lot of.... feelings about these types of sets in the Magic community.
My pipe dream midlife crisis acquisition would be a handful of the cool old 80s Euro cars from our childhoods that you never see anymore, plus the necessary garage with lift, set up to work on them. Not even anything crazy, but a Saab 900 Turbo, a later Porsche 944, and a BMW E30. (Out of the running: Vanagon Westfalia, too old to trust on a camping trip; Porsche 928, impossible to keep running; BMW Z1, very scarce import; Jaguar anything, because Lucas.)
None of this can happen. I have nowhere to put such a stable and I’m not sure I want my main weekend activity to be the quest for Saab parts. Cool cars, though.
Been there done that. WW2 jeep, Westfalia, E30, an old BMW motorcycle, a Ural sidecar bike, even a post WW2 era plane. I eventually realized that I only have one ass, not enough money or room to store it all and sold everything. I miss most of it though, especially the BMW motorcycle as it was super rare
Hard top for me, but same. Took her for some serious trail running recently. It was amazing, but my lord I didn't expect to be so SORE the next day.
I've had mine since July; 2021 First Edition with the Sasquatch package, it's the first off road vehicle I've ever owned and I'm in love. It's definitely my mid life crisis car though.
Lego sets…seriously, where were these when we were kids? Hated having nothing but bricks and zero imagination beyond a basic tower. Now there’s an actual endgame with a roadmap to success and the results are unbelievably cool. Expensive in many cases but very cool stuff
My mom was always a big fan of Legos, but the most extensive set she could afford to buy me when I was a kid was a Paradisa Horse Ranch. I spent a lot of time building that set and some simple houses out of my collection of bricks. But, it was nothing like what's available today.
My own kids getting into Lego gave my mom and I both excuses to get back into Lego again too. I started with some of the wall art because it doesn't take up space, but my husband finally bought me the Zelda set for Christmas which is even more amazing. Meanwhile, I started my mom with some of the flower sets, and now she's building out a collection of Christmas village sets.
I assumed it was coming eventually, but hadn't seen the news. I just looked it up, and it looks promising. Maybe this time there can be multiple Zelda mini figs instead of multiple Link mini figs. According to my kids, Breath of the Wild Zelda fell for Ocarina of Time Link and Breath of the Wild Link is jealous.
My son definitely sparked my interest as well. He was gifted some simple sets that we did together and as he got a little older and very into vehicles we started getting him some different cars, construction vehicles etc and I had so much fun doing it with him that I went down the rabbit hole of adult sets, they really do check the boxes of many of my nerddoms - did some really nice Star Wars & marvel sets and just got the gameboy which I can’t wait to start
My girls got really into the Friends sets and have built themselves a small village on a table in the basement. They also really like the Mario sets and the occasional City set. Lego has been the main thing they've asked for for the past few birthdays and Christmases, so our basement is getting a bit full. But, I like that they keep playing with the old sets as they add new ones.
I used to have to help when they built complicated things like a moving aquatic amusement park. But, when they stopped needing my help, I realized I needed my own sets. I hid my first set (Starry Night) as I was building it so that I wouldn't have to share. But, with my Zelda set, I let them each build some components and play with it as I built it. They made up a drama about the Link from one game romancing the Zelda from another and built them their own treehouse to live in using components from Lego Friends sets.
Some of the car sets look really cool. My husband is not as much into Lego as I am, but he has pointed out that the Ferrari would match the Ferrari flag in his office. My plan is to get some of my stuff out of his office to make room before gifting it to him.
Ironically, my husband and I were each gifted the Gameboy set by our parents. His mom bought it for him because his parents were divorced when he was growing up and could only play Gameboy at her house. And my parents gifted one to me because I'd been hinting I wanted one. I've been joking that we need to figure out how to build a link cable.
The earliest ones I can remember like this were the pirate ship and the pirate grotto. As I was growing up, we only had the kits with the instructions.
Vinyl records
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Sneakers / Jordans
Carbon Fiber Mountain Bike
You can either go deep into any one of them, or mid-level in 2-3 of them. Really depends on how much $$$ you have to burn.
$3-10k will get you a pretty sick bike. Plus you will have better performance tackling hills. This is probably the healthiest option, physically and mentally.
Beware the vinyl and audiophile route: the rabbit hole is deep, and on the high end can get crazy expensive.
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If you grew up never getting the ones you wanted, you splurge on them as a working adult.
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I just got the Puma Rick & Morty’s to add to my shoe collection.
Great eye! Those were the first "expensive" shoes I got back in 1992. $63 including tax (kids sizes). It was a Christmas gift. Ewings are back and available which is when I got these (say about 10 years ago). Thats what's awesome is all of the retro shoes have been coming back since the early 2000s. I've been buying here and there over the last 25 years. Stopped and sold a bunch on ebay around 2011 (I was nearing 70 pairs). Then slowly started again in 2017. Sitting on about 30 pairs at the moment and Im done until they bring back the Air Ups Penny version and the Jordan 7 black/red.
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The best shoes I ever got were knockoff pumps about 5 years too late.
A couple years ago I looked up some of the shoes I wanted and they’re still way too expensive for me 20+ years out of college
I had knock off WalMart pumps in 3rd grade called Pro Wings. The pumps are back and at around $160 now but they go on sale and you can get them around $120ish or below.
I hosted my nieces last year. The (then) 10 yo called me out on having too many shoes.
Actively trying to reduce them now (going through backups before replacing if worn out).
> If you grew up never getting the ones you wanted, you splurge on them as a working adult.
I experienced GAS so I put hard limit on shoe replacement every 12 months.
Facts, brah. Nails and hair weren’t something my mom ever spent money on for herself or us, either; now I spend more on both than going to the doctor (excluding therapy, lol).
Buying a shit ton of Warhammer. I know I can’t paint it all but I guess it’s because I couldn’t afford it when I was younger. The community gets bent out of shape if you have a “pile of shame” but at my age and life stage it’s easy to afford and cheaper than so many other hobbies <shrug>
See, this is a totally valid expense. Our favourite musicians aren't getting any younger. Who knows when the last tour will be?
Clutch came to the UK recently. Had I not had work and kids to worry about, I would quite happily have booked a week off work and gone to multiple gigs, as a friend of mine did.
That's exactly what my friend and I said. I mean none of the other epic grunge bands are possible to see. I missed Tom Petty while he was alive. If there was anything to go into some minor credit card debt for, it was standing in the pit right under Eddie Vedder. #noregrets
I've always been jealous of people who can reel off a list of bands and say nonchalantly, 'oh yeah, I saw them at x and y', because I live somewhere that made seeing bands a big undertaking (travel, hotels) and none of my good family and friends are really into live music, so I missed the chance to see loads of my favourite acts. I've finally come to the realisation that if I want to see someone, I can make it happen for myself. Life is too short to spend it thinking, 'it would have been nice but it's too long a journey/too expensive/too difficult to arrange right now. I'll catch them next year.'
Some experiences can't be repeated, so you have to dive in while you have the chance!
Hobbies (to be fair boardgames can be an expensive hobby if you have a decent sized collection), recreation, and home repair in that order. None of them reach midlife crisis level purchases though. I did splurge on some original comic art recently though that required some self-convincing first.
I converted my work trailer into a cargo camper. I’m planning on upgrading to a larger one and living in it full time after I sell my house. Off grid, baby.
A house. Overpriced in a 3rd tier city on a higher interest rate than is prudent at the peak of the market. But damn it, this 80 year old money pit is mine!
Things we wanted as a kid but couldn’t get because reasons.
For me it’s guitars and video games, and always having toilet paper in the house.
I also started baking bread.
Joined a band for about 6 months before I quit because they wanted to start touring. Really, having a wife and kids who aren’t used to that kind of life did not bode well for us. Especially when the wife found out I wanted to pay for all the initial cost of the merch. 😅
Travel. I've reworked my life so I pretty much only work and travel. I never spend more than 2 or 3 weeks at a time at home. Last year was my biggest year yet for personal travel (not including years when I've done a ton of business travel). I did six cruises, four big international trips, dozens of smaller domestic or close international trips and 10 work trips.
I just got home from my last one on Friday and I'm heading out again in two weeks.
I decided it would be a good plan to come out of retirement and play semipro ice hockey. So I had to buy new sticks, skates, and helmet which have all gotten so expensive.
Oh and I do sim racing...and mountain biking...and I have golf clubs...and TTRPGs...and other gaming stuffs...
So I think my midlife crisis is collecting hobbies
I did that all through my 20s and 30s. Haven't done it in so long, but I've had a box of dark blue hair dye sitting on my shelf for over a year. I seem to have lost my bottle a bit when it comes to wild colours.
I don't think it's an 'old' thing, more a compulsive knitting and crocheting thing. Almost everyone I know had a 'yarn stash' as opposed to a bag full. They 'hoard' it. Including my 12 year old niece!
This is true! But my yarn tastes have drifted into the high end range, hence it fitting the midlife crisis mold.
As for the old part, being middle age isn’t bad. I just have what I call the old lady mindset sometimes & not necessarily in a bad way. ☺️
I bought a darkhorse mustang. It’s not a midlife crisis, it’s a my wife is in perimenopause and it keeps me sane car. I need my cruises every couple days to decompress.
My midlife crisis took the form of camping. So now my shed has multiple tubs of camping gear, and I wound up buying an SUV to carry it all because trying to go camping in a Kia Soul with no cargo space sucks.
You can see where the wife and I (DINKS) have taken our dog to in my post history.
Camping and caravaning was my parents' midlife crisis - along with cruise holidays.
Now they (or my dad) have decided that they're too old for frequent travelling, and we became the owners of a 6 berth tent and everything you would ever need for a camping expedition. We had to fit a roof rack to carry it all. I won't like, it was handy to have everything handed to us ready to use.
They sold the caravan to our neighbours. Had it been a 4 berth they may have handed it over to us too, but the tent will do fine for now.
Saving up and floating my kids’ college tuition, I’m covering me and their dad’s shares (I’m sure he’d contribute if he could) and the student pays me back their 1/3 of the cost as they’re able
Fuck off, Aunt Sallie/Nelnet/et al
Mine is more depressing:
1) realizing the delusion that we’ll ever save enough to have 250k per kid available in case they want college
2) realizing I’ll never not be able to work
3) realizing that my parents delusional “you should do whatever you want and follow your dreams” while being poor, just meant I’d end up with student loan debt I’ll pay off in my 60’s if I’m lucky
Travel. Like ridiculous amounts of travel. I’m using all those leave days I saved up over years not taking leave. Since June: Iceland, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Hungary, Austria, Germany, Mexico, Italy, Turkey, US East Coast…
Not sure it counts but I’m coaching my 9YO’s softball team and got a new glove for Christmas. For reference the last new glove I got was in the summer before high school (1995).
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I got this for Christmas and now I'm looking for new companions for my new toy.
I got drunk last week and spent $78 on a new pair of ear gauges and when I realized what I’d done I was like “how will I ever financially recover from this?”
I don't, but I have enough debt for them.
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I don’t, but about three years ago I’m pretty sure my crisis manifested in the form of the lowest-trim-level electric Ford pickup. My wife was OK with it because it can supply power to the house in outages from hurricanes (we’re in Florida) and therefore I got the hardest-accelerating vehicle I’ve ever driven. I’d say “fastest” but one time I got to drive a rental Corvette. Hoo boy.
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Did you HAVE to call me out like this?
Well between 20s and now: I've got motorcycles, kayaks, bikes, little sporty convertible, a Jeep, and different houses. I don't really know where to go from here.
More of a Covid-era *on the cusp of a midlife crisis* purchase, but I threw a lot of money into Warhammer 40,000 there for a while because I finally had grown up money... only to then decide I didn't actually like *playing* 40k.
So there's that.
I think my midlife crisis over the past 5 years or so has been a desire to travel and I can't fulfill it due to being caregiver for an elderly parent. So, I may just end up buying myself a leather jacket like I wore in high school during my metal head phase of dress.
Do some mushrooms. You're a saint for taking care of your parent btw. I work in a nursing home. It is not very fun for them to live there. The mushrooms though will add some flare to your life though when you're in the mood.
I don't know if it's still the case, but I remember a few years ago being in a target and they sold records ??? What in the hell ? They were all albums I would like to have too.
I don't know about peak but I used my health as an excuse to buy two Browning Citori's. A 20ga my wife and son will use (yeah right) and a 12 for me. Chasing pheasants and grouse has got to be good cardio right?
I answered this on the original post also, but mine was the Jeep Wrangler I wanted since I was 12 years old. I saw Catherine Heigle drive one in the Disney original movie, Wish Upon a Star and wanted to look as cool as her lol. I also started riding motorcycles again for the first time since I was 25
I got into upgrading my home theater stereo setup. Over the last year or so I have upgraded my A/V receiver. Purchased my first AppleTV device for streaming. Upgraded to bigger bookshelf speakers and center channel, and added Atmos speakers.
Some people are fine with a speaker bar and maybe subwoofer. I would rather have a full immersive home theater experience. Luckily the wife is ok with my speakers taking up space in our living room.
That sounds pretty nice actually. If I had the added security that the van was high quality and wouldn't break down, I would love that. You can be in any kind of weather. Outside it's storming, or cold enough to die in. You're warm in dry chillin' in the van. Or traveling to anywhere you want to go and don't have to get a motel.
My wife and I bought a BMW convertible and have started traveling for music festivals much more.
Just bought a bunch of mid century living room furniture, and some records we were missing.
I bought a used old GWagen (the old pre-Miami douche type). God I loved that truck but the risk outweighed the reward and it didn’t work for our family. No regrets though.
I was about to get a Kei van. My wife could not see the appeal. Then she got pregnant and I got a Subaru. I still walk around every kei I see. Maybe when our son is older.
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Not even young people look cool on these. Also not me in the picture.
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For my dad it was a motorcycle, but for me it just seems to be all the Japanese robots my parents wouldn't get me when I was a kid.
3D printer! Using the happy parts of my brain that still get triggered by new technology (rather than all the parental parts that just hatehatehate it) to make a bunch of replacement parts for broken household stuff and the occasional legend of zelda keychain or neat cosplay stuff for the kid.
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Mine was a very fast sports car that I destroyed within 10 days in a spectacular crash that shattered my pelvis. That was three years ago and I just got back on a bicycle for the first time yesterday. Proud to say that my ass did not hurt.
I have small kids and don’t work right now. I expect when I *do* go back to work, and have my own expendable income, paying off the house will be first. 😅
I've started collecting dolls. Barbie's I've always wanted/used to have, dolls I never knew existed when I was busy being in "adult" in my twenties. Just fun stuff just for me. I'm sure everyone around me considers it my midlife crisis, but I think of it as just finally not giving a Frick.
I no longer care what anyone thinks and just do what I want. I also am not wearing makeup or dressing up just to go shopping anymore. What Not to Wear raised me to never leave the house without being done up, but COVID broke me of that and I won't go back. My skin is so much better now too. Plus I don't care if you don't think I look nice because chances are, grocery store stranger, I'll never see you again. So why do I put effort in to visually please you when nobody cares? So dumb.
It's all probably more a perimenopause thing than a midlife crisis but they're also one in the same.
Dude I cannot overemphasize how much it’s done for my quality of life to have a good stereo at home. I was close to perfect in that regard for years and then one day at a Goodwill I found a pair of amplified tower speakers for $75 that cost like $2,000 brand new and I gasped and told my wife “These have to come home with us.” They did and they have done nothing but make me happy.
I have a 1978 MGB roadster. It's small, 2 seats, convertible, 95 ravenous horsepower. It does not attract women. It attracts old men who used to have something like it.
I feel like mine is travel. I’d rather spend money on that than most things. Mostly it’s been more local stuff or short flights with the kids but my husband and I have taken a few further trips together and I do a girls trip with a friend fairly regularly. I’m just tired of waiting to do stuff.
Well, mine so far has been to build my own cargo bike from scratch out of bamboo and carbon fibre. It's because my big cargo bike now plays havoc with my knees, but also it was my 40th birthday and I wanted my version of a sports car.
I bought my husband a longboard for his 40th birthday, which he does use a lot, and was a springboard to get our kid into skateboarding.
Hubs hasn't had a big crazy midlife crisis purchase, unless you include upgrading his computer because that costs a fortune these days, but that was necessary for work. His midlife crisis stuff is visiting his friend in Berlin and pretending they are 20 again, and having a bit of a mad weekend (which I totally support btw, I'd be there too, but we have a kid and we like to keep the 2 things separate).
I guess it's all pretty tame from us.
Buying all of the Transformers that I wanted as a kid. And vinyl records: lot's of vinyl records. I'll never own a sports car, boat or motorcycle, so those will do me just fine.
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