Do you have any advice for a funeral speech / eulogy?

Posted by Twat_Features@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 89 comments

My mother died, I’m her eldest son. None of my family are able to do it, they talked about doing it but the grief is too much for them. I thought it was important so I’ll say some words. She was only in her 50s, fairly big funeral in a Church. My plan is 4-5 minutes, talk about her kindness, tell a funny story and read a poem I think is apt. Any advice for being up there on the pulpit? I’m a strong public speaker through work, but never had to do this before and I’m worried my emotion might get the better of me. Essentially I’m feeling pressure because I am literally the only family member speaking. Thank you.