Normalize being an adult

Idk how far the imbalance of work can go, but if compatible good faith relationships are ride or die, if one person becomes disabled for life, then that would be the true test of a relationship of 100/0 with both people wanting to stay committed to the other person both people willing and truly wanting to do the 100% when life hits you worst case scenario. Otherwise it's just friends with benefits. I think the test of disability is a truth, a reality that a lot of people don't want to admit they aren't as kind as think they are and how we are all internally self motivated by how we feel emotions at the end of the day. I say this meaning people shouldn't take advantage of each other in bad faith, but that people show true commitment when one person becomes disabled and is unable to help themselves. Leaving a disabled person behind is similar to leaving a injured battle buddy out to die alone by themselves because people aren't truly ride or die but only hedonistic. This is probably why there is a isolating culture since people aren't ride or die but instead hedonism fun buddies, not willing to have true solid companionship where people truly have your back.