ULPT Request - finding someone from my university
Posted by throwawayyyyy1324967@reddit | UnethicalLifeProTips | View on Reddit | 6 comments
This guy that I don't know very well from my university has nude pictures of me and I'd like to either ask him on social media or approach him in person to make sure he deletes them. I know his first name, birthday, the year he's expected to graduate, and that he lives on campus within walking distance of the on campus garage we met at.
For context, this very attractive guy idk approached me in the parking garage at our university. He was very charming in the moment and asked for my Snapchat. I gave it to him and later that night we exchanged nudes which he saves in the chat. Early the next morning I'm in the shower when I think to myself I'm gonna delete the nudes of me he saved in the chat. I get out the shower and see that he sent me a pic on Snapchat while I was showering. As soon as I open the app his name disappears and I can only assume it's because he blocked me. Im not offended but I just wanna make sure my nudes are completely unaccessible to him if he were to ever unblock me and enter our chat. I’ve tried checking the following of our uni Instagram but unfortunately I go to the largest fucking school in Florida.
wowmencownfkd@reddit
Maybe search him up on linkedin but anyways pls take this as a reminder to never send nudes, seriously 😭
PhilMeUpBaby@reddit
Lesson: Data never dies.
Those photos that you send in 2025?
They'll probably still exist in 2050.
I still get spam email sent to addresses I was using the 1990s.
I get lots of spam email sent to addresses I was using in the mid 2000s.
Nude photos: There's a chance that they are going to be passed around amongst other people. Then you've really lost control of who sees them.
And, even if the recipient is 100% trustworthy, what happens if he loses his/her phone, or the phone gets stolen?
A phone thief is going to spread those photos everywhere.
Annual_Government_80@reddit
Please take this opportunity to caution your friends.
Skeggy-@reddit
Too late, you already sent them…. Derp
vonhoother@reddit
You're going to have to come up with something that gives you leverage over him. He's probably made some other enemies, see if you can find them. If you still have the pic he sent, you may be able to do something with that.
i-am-foxymoron@reddit
I know this is an ethical reply, but I think he has NO obligation to delete your nudes. I know you are young, but you are also old enough to know better. You need to remember that ANYTHING you put out there on the interwebs is going to be there forever.
/endrant