ULPT Any supplements to boost my confidence and libido?
Posted by velvetsundaae@reddit | UnethicalLifeProTips | View on Reddit | 38 comments
my girlfriend is beautiful and has fat butt. shes also so sweet and nice, but deep down she’s a slut. i am embarrassed i can’t fuck her the way she wants cause i go soft. makes me feel weak compared to other men she’s been with. i’m NOT looking to “talk to her” cause doing that did not stop my anxiety. Can you recommend me some supplements that either boost libido or confidence to erase my anxiety? I don’t want to waste too much money, so I’m only asking for someone who has experience with a specific supplement. Thanks
jamnut@reddit
Tren/test/mast blast
ThatRocketSurgeon@reddit
He’ll want to fuck a cinderblock in half and go back for seconds.
velvetsundaae@reddit (OP)
did this guy just recommend some type of steroids
jamnut@reddit
I recommended THE steroids my friend
ThatRocketSurgeon@reddit
He recommended all the types of steroids.
velvetsundaae@reddit (OP)
whatever this stuff is, i need
Comrade_Bender@reddit
Tren gunna have my boy fucking twinks and trans girls in no time
Tang_L2D_King@reddit
Some good old white powder can help with confidence.
UnbelievableDingo@reddit
This works well, but I wouldn't trust any powder in 2025....
gianmk@reddit
dude want his dick to be hard, not limp.
Skyblacker@reddit
Kegals. They aren't just for women, they can also help with erectile dysfunction.
velvetsundaae@reddit (OP)
hell is that
Emotional_Being8594@reddit
Pelvic exercises. They do help but you need to be consistent with them for a while. Basically strengthening the muscles behind your dick which keep the blood in.
The only short term solutions are Viagra and Cialis, or the more generic stuff you can order online like Sildenafil. Relying on drugs isn't great though, obviously.
I had trouble with this kind of stuff too man. It sucks. A lot of it is mental. You get inside your own head. I was open with my partner at the time and she was understanding. It may have helped that I got really good at eating pussy.
The best advice is a healthier lifestyle. Including mental health like quitting porn, which isn't easy with a lot of time online. Also reducing smoking and alcohol.
For dietary things, I don't know for absolute sure if these work but they always showed up whenever I would look into it:
Daily multivitamin, especially with magnesium and vit. B6
Fresh watermelon, avocado, apples, walnuts and almonds. Pretty cheap in most places. I would basically have 5-6 slices of each in a pot and also eat a small bag of mixed nuts with different coatings every day so it didn't get boring. I called it Sex Mex.
Ashwaganda tea. I'm British so I was already drinking tea every evening I just changed to this stuff. It's on Amazon.
Chicken and fish also showed up a lot.
Basically this is just healthy eating, but these things in particular seemed to be on every website and recommendation I saw. It's really easy to work them into your diet. Also do some light exercise, even just sit-ups and kegels before bed. And definitely reduce porn.
Sexual health is part of general health. Best of luck man.
velvetsundaae@reddit (OP)
thanks for being useful. literally
RainingLights@reddit
asks for advice
gets advice
"Idk wtf that is"
Spirited-Energy-7897@reddit
I also recommend cialis. My next recommendation comes with a cautionary warning. Kratom can help with PE. I get these kratom/kava shots. They're expensive but if I take one or two of these I can last much longer. If you have too much kratom then you might not be able to get/stay hard. Pair it with cialis. HOWEVER, this is an addictive substance. Heroin addicts will use it sometimes, and it helps them get off the drug, but then they've effectively replaced one addiction with another. Proceed with caution if you go this route.
viddied@reddit
Just have a few drinks. They'll ease the anxiety and may increase libido. Just don't overdo it. Long term, though, best way is to talk to her about it. If she's understanding, it'll hugely help the anxiety and allow you to perform.
AS14K@reddit
alcohol is a WILD suggestion for someone concerned about erectile issues
viddied@reddit
I'm not suggesting that he get smashed. Plus, he's having issues with anxiety. So calm down hun.
Papas72lotus@reddit
Get your testosterone checked. Ask for Cialis. And try peptide PT-141. Kept me hard for hours..
littleoctagon@reddit
I've heard that gas station sex pills sometimes contain actual Viagra. Apparently they rarely get tested and if they do they just get fined and rename/relabel and sell again.
defiCosmos@reddit
Those things work!
UnbelievableDingo@reddit
You don't just have to do traditional PIV sex to rock someone's world.
Tease her, go down on her, use your hands to make her cum, then you have no pressure to perform, only enjoy the sex.
If you want to build confidence have sex with her slowly and build the tension, adding deeper penetration as you go.
Longer foreplay can also add duration to your sex. (You mind isn't fully engaged for 20min even if your cock is)
Get a couple silicone cock rings and try them out.
Stop masturbating quickly, make this last longer and you can train yourself to last longer.
FelineOphelia@reddit
This is true if you make her come first like with you your mouth, then you'll feel less pressure?
FelineOphelia@reddit
You just have anxiety You don't need anything to like help you physically like testosterone or all this stuff that people are saying You just need to get rid of your anxiety so you need to smoke weed or get a little buzzed but not too buzzed because alcohol makes you soft just enough to get some liquid Kurt
defiCosmos@reddit
Xanax × Viagra, that's how I got my baby mamma pregnant.
PM_PICS_OF_YOUR_FEET@reddit
All in your head, just man the fuck up
Flguy222016@reddit
Go to the dr or the web and get some cialis dude you’ll be good to go.
velvetsundaae@reddit (OP)
what if she’s seeing me tonight
Flguy222016@reddit
Go to the gas station and grab something that says something similar to thunder fuck and get to smashing. Or a supplement store and some horny goat weed. lol
whorangthephone@reddit
do NOT do this, some of those shits have so many conflicting meds inside of them you'll be safer just copping some meth at the corner or something.
will also have more desired effect.
iamrbo@reddit
If she’s seeing you tonight the best method is a very difficult cardio workout or do legs.
functioning_artism@reddit
It's easy these days to get Cialis/Viagra prescribed online though things like Hims/GoodRX. I'm not necessarily recommending either of those specifically but they're out there. If you're seeing her tonight, there's no real quick term fix. Work out, eat healthy, avoid alcohol, get plenty of sleep. It sounds like it's an in-your-head anxiety issue more than anything. She's clearly with you for a reason so don't overthink it, and get some Cialis/Viagra if it's something that's becoming too much. It's not a huge deal and I'm pretty sure the "stigma" around stuff like that isn't really a thing anymore. Nothing to be ashamed of and once it works that alone will probably help with your confidence.
MrQuojo@reddit
Black Maca!
713nikki@reddit
You can’t get hard bc you keep thinking of the men she’s been with? Maybe you could do the job if you cut out the middlewoman and just try to fuck the dudes? Unethical since you’d break her heart but you’re already calling her a slut for your shortcomings ^(lol) anyway.
HellzRaiders@reddit
Ashwagandha, reported to increase testosterone and reduce anxiety so win win.
CappellateInBrodo@reddit
Work out
joaoslara@reddit
Peruvian maca and a good workout 3-5 times week increase your testosterone levels