I learned an interesting facet related to ageism in hiring today.
Posted by GArockcrawler@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 601 comments
I am out of work at the moment and was participating in a tech job seekers session presented by a Chief People Officer today.
The topic of ageism in hiring came up. In addition to the common perceptions that our age group is “too close to retirement”, “not tech native enough”, “more expensive than new grads”, etc, another concern that I had never heard is that we will cost employers, especially small employers, too much in health insurance premiums.
Maternity care, OTOH, is categorized differently because it’s considered more of a one-and-done.
Sense_Difficult@reddit
Oh yes. One of the lessons I learned many years ago with my ex is that one of the employees at his job was let go because he and my ex were costing the company more or raising the premiums more for everyone else in the company for health insurance because they both were going through cancer treatments.
Of course they couldn't prove it, but my sister and BFF both work in medical billing. They told him to make sure that he basically lied about a work gap by saying he went on a vacation to visit family rather than saying he was going through chemo. Sis said, no one would hire him if they knew this. Better for them to think he was a spoiled person who could afford 2 months of vacation. It's so messed up how our health insurance screws up so many things.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
A few years back I had surgery in late September. Medically necessary but elective. In late November, I was called into the CEO's office and told my role was over "unless I hit [a huge pipeline number] by the end of January." In retrospect I am nearly positive now it was because the cost of that surgery.
tastysharts@reddit
my husband was told I am the highest user of our insurance. Can't remember the wording exactly, but the company is employee owned and someone mentioned to my husband that I use the most insurance out of all of the spouses in the company. One year it was 200,000 for hospital visits and 120,000 for meds. Lol. Fuck them, I have crohn's and it isn't my fault medicine is expensive af
plemyrameter@reddit
Username checks out.
Sorry you got dealt a bad hand
LifeIsAPhotoOp@reddit
is that any type of HIPPA violation?
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
Under HIPAA (the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act), healthcare providers, health plans, and healthcare clearinghouses — known as “covered entities” — and their business associates (companies handling health data on their behalf) are limited in what health information they can share.
Unless the patient gives written consent, they can only disclose protected health information (PHI) for specific purposes such as treatment, payment, or healthcare operations.
tastysharts@reddit
I'm not sure how they knew or what exactly it was they knew, but it was like, yeah, your wife wins the award for most insurance used, it my have been our district specs but I definitely recall me being mentioned. I don't really recall the specifics, or who said it exactly, it just was mentioned somewhere...
Commercial_Wind8212@reddit
It's not their fault either though.
colcatsup@reddit
None of us chose to be born at all.
Myanonymousunicorn@reddit
GenX comment award here
Charming-Insurance@reddit
Are you in CA? I’ve run a business here and we had the same baseline, regardless. Nuts curious if it’s diff in other states or diss since the ACA
Sense_Difficult@reddit
NY
budcub@reddit
There was a article in the Washington Post many years back about AOL having financial trouble due to self funding their health insurance. An employee had a premature birth and her expenses were over a million dollars. She sent out a semi humorous/serious email saying "Sorry my premature baby is tanking the company"
Stock-Door8307@reddit
I own a gun store. I seek out gen X because I feel like it's the last generation of people who work hard and don't complain or expect the world.
RazorRadick@reddit
So how do I quietly let a prospective employer know that I'm on my wife's HMO plan and I'll never use their insurance ever?
QuirkyForever@reddit
Time for universal healthcare not tied to employment.
RedditWidow@reddit
The time for that was 20 years ago but too many people are resistant here in the US
LTQLD@reddit
There would be guillotines set up in town squares if they tried to take universal health away in Australia.
Staff_photo@reddit
That's what we thought in Canada...
Deep-Ad-9728@reddit
Wait what’s happened in Canada?
Staff_photo@reddit
Our healthcare is being decimated due to underfunding, and is thus being called a failure in half of our provinces. But our premiere here in Ontario (the Toronto part) is spending $8 billion on a TV commercial to be aired in the US, so that's cool I guess. Kids need chemo, but we have other priorities.
2cats2hats@reddit
I'd say over half. COVID ripped off the mask just how badly the Canadian provinces are governing, especially with medical care. Lots of finger pointing going on and five years later the issues persist. In some provinces it got worse.
Staff_photo@reddit
Too true, ami!
Zealousideal_Dog_223@reddit
BS on the 8 billion dollar commercial
Staff_photo@reddit
Like - that plan is bs, or the mention of a commercial is bs?
Kaa_The_Snake@reddit
What commercial? Why? Unless it’s going to get rid of a certain problem we’re currently stuck with for the next 3 something years (unfortunately, and it better not be more than that), save your money.
ElleGeeAitch@reddit
Ugh, I'm sorry.
temerairevm@reddit
This is how they privatize everything in the US. Cut funding, make it suck, convince people government is incompetent at the thing, privatize.
basscat474@reddit
Well that’s pretty much it.
Deep-Ad-9728@reddit
Damn
FujiKitakyusho@reddit
The guillotines were impounded until all back parking fines are paid in full.
sickiesusan@reddit
Thank you! I have an unpaid parking fine. Need to find and get it paid … seriously!
Meng_Fei@reddit
The LNP certainly tried to cut parts off, but now Labor is back and slowly fixing things. And yes, even though I have my own private health insurance, I'd absolutely riot if our govt tried killing Medicare.
lumpkin2013@reddit
There's people trying to reform healthcare across the country and working very hard. Consider helping out.
https://medicare4all.org/
GeneralLivid7332@reddit
It really is the only answer. Disagree ? Please tell.
SlipstreamSleuth@reddit
My 58 year old husband just had a 7 hour heart surgery last week and never told his boss or anyone at his place of employment he took time off for medical reasons. It was supposed to be a simple pacemaker procedure, but the surgeons had to do some leak repairs 😣 He just asked for a few PTO days off, and is back at work already. He’s afraid to lose his job, and can’t even lift his arm, so is typing with one hand. He is worried if he’s honest with them that they will see him as a liability. Obviously the insurance knows, but his boss can’t see that.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
The lady said the utilization/cost info is bracketed by ages but doesn’t contain individual info. If it is a small company it could be much easier to back into who utilized what but for large companies it is much harder.
SlipstreamSleuth@reddit
It’s a huge company, so at least there’s that .. Hopefully they don’t find out.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
This is why the life expectancy in the US is dropping and the US has an option problem. People aren't allowed to get sick.
RutabagaJoe@reddit
We were the only generation that had to teach our parents and our kids how to use a computer.
Taminella_Grinderfal@reddit
I also wonder if we’re less prone to falling for bs on the internet, spam, scams etc? Cause based on my early experiences I don’t “trust” computers, like not in a crazy way, but early computers weren’t nearly as idiot proof. Clicking around on stuff you weren’t sure of was high risk that you’d infect/delete/crash your computer and lose everything.
Hi-its-Mothy@reddit
Yeah I have this view on AI. Lack of trust in big tech not using data as they wish, regardless of assurances (talking of use in the business sense here).
Free-Preparation4184@reddit
Yes. This. People assume I'm a Luddite because I'm wary of AI and am not jumping in the"gee whiz, this is cool" bandwagon.
It's like, no, i just know too much. I see how it can be used as a fantastic tool, but I also see the really dark places it can take humanity. I want to hit my head with a brick. Like, didn't we learn anything from what social media did to humans and society?
socialmediaignorant@reddit
We all saw War Games in our formative years. We know how dangerous tech can be.
SoCalChrisW@reddit
KokoroFate@reddit
C:>delete .
Apparently, this does BAD things in DOS 3.1.
phillymjs@reddit
Heh, the first DOS command I successfully executed on my Tandy 1000 was “format a:”— unfortunately I did not heed the “Insert new floppy for drive A: and hit Enter” and nuked my only DOS floppy. Luckily the people at the nearest Radio Shack were nice and copied their store demo unit’s MS-DOS 2.11 floppy back onto it for me.
Now that I think about it, that Tandy 1000 came home in mid October of 1985. I wish I knew the exact day, but happy 40th anniversary to me getting my first computer.
Free-Preparation4184@reddit
Yeah. I remember erasing a $30 disk full of Commodore 64 games because I accidentally formatted it and didn't put tape over the disk notch.
yountvillwjs@reddit
command line or gtfo
JennJoy77@reddit
LOAD *,8,1
Releesaj663@reddit
omg commodore 😁 serious flashback to Impossible Mission
JennJoy77@reddit
My dad was an early adopter so we had the 128!!
Curtiskam@reddit
I had the 128 too. It replaced my Color Computer!
LetsTryAnal_ogy@reddit
I had a TRS-80 and my brother had a Timex Sinclair.
birthwarrior@reddit
God bless! My Dad was a computer programmer for the Air Force. He bought my brothers and I a Commodore 64 for Christmas. I was learning basic programming on that at 10.
Uncle_Hate@reddit
Loved that game! "Destroy him my robots!" Iykyk.
be_super_cereal_now@reddit
"Stay a while, stay forever!"
badwolf42@reddit
Hey, taxi!
Sure_Film_8221@reddit
"Destroy him, my robots"
gigantischemeteor@reddit
Holy flashbacks!
_namaste_kitten_@reddit
LOAD "",8 (damn, nothing) LOAD "",8,1 (ugh, still nothing) LOAD "$",8 (gotta find something) L, (where's the boot file on the List & why'd they put it at the bottom??) LOAD "PLATOON",8,1 (time to play!)
GreenGlenn@reddit
PR#6
maximus_the_great@reddit
Battle Through Time, Trials and Tribulations, 1942, Ultima. Best games ever!
NewPresWhoDis@reddit
SYS 64738
Electronic-Fold-2416@reddit
I haven't seen that in nearly 40 years!
UmbertoEcoTheDolphin@reddit
It's an older code, but it checks out.
bcope12@reddit
try-catch-finally@reddit
CALL -151
IceTech59@reddit
PR#6
SleepyMastodon@reddit
THESE ARE MY PEOPLE
NomadAug@reddit
You forgot the quotation marks. Nothing going to RUN with that command.
JennJoy77@reddit
I think I had that same issue as a 10-year-old trying to start Time Tunnel 🤣
ButterflyBelleFL@reddit
“SYNTAX ERROR” was the bane of my existence as a 10 year old just trying to make the random sounds in the back of the book.
Meetzorp@reddit
Ours was LOAD "$",8
And to get the "$" it was 'shift lock' so the muscle memory is
LOAD 'shift lock' 242 'shift lock' 'comma' 8
colcatsup@reddit
those of us blessed with epyx 'fast load' could just hit commodore-run/stop, iirc
Meetzorp@reddit
Ohhhhh fah-ncyyyy!
EntranceFeisty8373@reddit
Core memory unlocked!!
Simusid@reddit
debug.exe -G=C800:5
DigitalBoy760@reddit
CASS L?
Anywhichwaybuttight@reddit
Ask this hiring person what cd\ does
MerkinSuit@reddit
Duh! It cuts the Compact Disk in half.
ElectricTurtlez@reddit
I actually had a twenty-something ask what the “round silver looking thing” was! 🤨
DevolvingSpud@reddit
Tell them it’s an 8-track
cheetach@reddit
Hahaha
Admirable-Bar-3549@reddit
Really blow his mind - show him a floppy.
Latter_Leopard8439@reddit
Younger generations. Oh look, someone 3D printed the "save button."
Puzzleheaded-Novel27@reddit
No no no not the 3.5” the real floppy 5 1/4”.
Latter_Leopard8439@reddit
The first computer I inherited from my silent gen dad had to 5.25 inch floppy disks and no hard drive.
You had to load MS-DOS into RAM with a floppy and then put in the game disk.
It was made by NCR (national cash registers) and displayed games in the mighty CGA (color graphics adapter). You had shitty green, black, white, various greys, and a shitty red, with the occasional out of place blue, that was really dark.
I remember upgrading to EGA and VGA at some point. But those computers had a basic hard drive for the OS at least.
epitrochoidhappiness@reddit
Naw, real floppies are 8 inches.
SoCalChrisW@reddit
Was going through some old shit of my dad's a few weeks ago, and came across some laserdiscs. I was showing them to my kids, they were laughing at it. And couldn't comprehend needing to flip and change discs multiple times in a movie.
dauchande@reddit
It does nothing but wait in bash
Multigrain_Migraine@reddit
Better yet why is "rm -rf /" not a great command to run
Stare_Decisis@reddit
I have not seen a dos prompt in many years. Takes me back to my "root"s.
Anon_user666@reddit
My best friend and I are the only people in my current friend group who know that command and he is my best friend BECAUSE he knows that command.
Any_Grapefruit65@reddit
I mean, my tag...lol
Roguefem-76@reddit
cd/sierra>kq1
2014ChevyCaptiva@reddit
Sometimes the command line is faster and easier.
ygkg@reddit
I showed a PERL script that I use to cut down a file with too many rows for Excel to one of my Gen Z coworkers the other day and they just did not understand that you could interact with a file as raw text when there's no button to click that does what you need.
Smart kid, but completely unaware of anything without a GUI.
AdoraBelleQueerArt@reddit
Ok now I’m feeling like a tech genius - i call myself a Luddite & hate coding but i had to learn so much shit just to get things to work….i may be behind technology wise with regard to other Xers, but apparently I’m undervaluing my skills.
Thank you fellow olds
Spiritual_Concept_57@reddit
People used to obfuscate perl just for fun and write some crazy regexes.
im_dead_sirius@reddit
This. I was preparing to scan an old D&D module. "Only" 32 pages plus the fold outs of the covers for things like the map.
Mapping the task in my head, I reasoned out "click menu, select scan, press "okay" at least once, wait for scan to render in Libreoffice, click menu, select save, choose a file name, hit ok at least once, go back to scanner to switch pages, repeat."
Probably with a bunch of other little steps. Like all the mouse moves.
Fuck that. Script time. (Generalized and commented after, my use case was more simple):
Example:
# ./scan_pages.sh ~/Documents/scans project_x
. You can also rename "page" when calling the script by adding that substitute after the output directory.After starting the bash script, instead of going back and forth between my printer and computer, I just took my keyboard over to the printer (it was still in wireless range) and pressed "enter" after switching pages. Once all done, I had a directory/folder full of scans, neatly and numerically named.
Now it lives in my ~/bin directory. Might be useful later, if not, my (slightly fuller) version is 426 bytes/characters of storage. Big whoop.
xBobble@reddit
Don't hang around Hommlet. Just go right to the ruined moathouse. You can always roll up new characters.
im_dead_sirius@reddit
I don't get the reference, but it made me laugh all the same.
xBobble@reddit
Dang. I was hoping the old D&D module you were scanning was the old Temple of Elemental Evil series. It's for beginner characters and you start out in the village of Hommlet and investigate an old, ruined moathouse where the bad guys are trying to resurrect an ancient evil. One of the original classics.
im_dead_sirius@reddit
Hommlet... every module seemed to have a pun or word play in it.
casual_observer3@reddit
Just ask IA to write it out. Even easier!
im_dead_sirius@reddit
That's actually what I did with the scans. I tried my system OCR, it sucked, so I dropped doc on AI and it did the transcription up mostly nicely. It runs OCR on it anyway.
One thing I figured out, its better to go in reverse page order, or the AI gets bogged down in the plot and formatting, and starts assuming and glossing over content. In a forward direction, it got bogged down regarding columns and missed the starts of new sections, but that was partly 80s TSR design quirks, which changed column counts and sizes page by page. The first page was 2 columns, with one at 1/3 the width of the page, and the other column being two nested columns at 1/4 and 3/4 width. Page two swapped to three columns, small gutters, the a few pages later, 2 columns and huge gutters.
As I worked through it, I squirrelled away saved pages, then sections as soft copies, so what was done would become nonvolatile. I did have to watch it with the context overlaps from page to page, it tended to drop beginnings and forget endings.
So now I have three copies: the original paper, a series of scans, and repaginated, single column digital documents by section.
phillymjs@reddit
Young me in the early years of my IT career laughed at a guy who told me that 29 years ago, as I was watching him pound away at the keyboard in a terminal window on a Sun workstation and asked why he would do such a thing when he could just point and click in the GUI.
Then Mac OS X came along, and half of my day was spent writing shell scripts to automate shit so I wouldn’t have to click around in a GUI.
I just remembered that guy’s name and found him on LinkedIn. I should message him and tell him I learned he was right.
kadyg@reddit
You should! I bet that would make his whole week!
ThirstyWolfSpider@reddit
Isn't it almost always?
Though from some of the comments above I get the sense that some people might be talking about Windows, which I never used in my career and only use as a retro game launcher, so what do I know about that? Under Linux, you're going to be using the command line for most things.
jax2love@reddit
My late stepdad was technically late silent generation, but he was an OG programmer. More than once I heard him say that you had no business using a computer if you couldn’t remember DOS commands 😂😂😂
1crbngrp@reddit
I, too, came from a silent generation dad who was big into programming. When I was 7, he told me that I needed to learn to be computer literate because someday, I would use a computer to make toast.
SleepyMastodon@reddit
He’s not wrong.
kategoad@reddit
My boomer spouse and silent gen dad both programmed computers using punch cards. I started programming on an Apple II+. And stopped there, pretty much, although I did learn Pascal in high school.
I'm currently (unofficially) leading my team on our testing of AI in our legal department. I'm much more tech-savvy than most of my colleagues.
Watchtower80@reddit
My 1st college course, taken at a JC at age 15, was Programming in DOS.
So now I amuse myself with Easberry Pi builds, and my kids get bored
jackl_antrn@reddit
Sounds like my jr high computer teacher- in the early 80s 😂
SleepyMastodon@reddit
That should be law. It would certainly fix the internet.
happycj@reddit
VI is life.
CrushTheRebellion@reddit
10 PRINT HELLO WORLD 20 GO TO 10
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
I work in software design, and my former boss gleefully announced to me one day that the work that my team and I do would no longer be needed in the future because everything will be in a chatbot. My response: so basically you’re basically describing a future that is taking us back to DOS?
Spiritual_Concept_57@reddit
Manual editing of autoexec.bat and win.ini just to recognize the USB.
Joe_Early_MD@reddit
Amen brother ☝🏾👨🏾🦳
Taelasky@reddit
'Hello world'
armandcamera@reddit
You have died of dysentery.
tommy_b_777@reddit
got root ?
TheEngine@reddit
Listen bub, if you didn't optimize your AUTOEXEC.BAT and CONFIG.SYS every other reboot to have enough extended RAM to run whatever game you wanted to play, you don't get to come at me with "not techie enough". We laid the foundations for the professional, gaming, and streaming world that exists now.
I still play Rogue through DOSBox to keep my mind young (and fuck you too Minotaur!)
Applesaucesquatch@reddit
And rtfm
lisavfr@reddit
First you have to ftfm so you can then rtfm.
alwaysneversometimes@reddit
Yeah I’m young gen x and feeling annoyed that I’m tech support for both ageing parents and teenage kids. The kids were supposed to be teaching me by now!
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
Right? This absolutely gets me.
velocicranky@reddit
I’m a school teacher but not an IT teacher in a school of near 600 kids. I am mid-fifties. There would be maybe 2 kids in the school who are handier with computers than I am. It’s complete bullshit about kids being digital natives.
Fluid_Anywhere_7015@reddit
I’m a college professor. “Digital Natives” is the stupidest descriptor ever. The only thing “native” about these kids is their familiarity with apps - they have ZERO understanding or even interest in how their technology works.
Try to explain something as simple as HTML and their eyes glaze over.
Roguefem-76@reddit
God that's so true. Being glued to their iPad all day is no proof of proficiency in anything but scrolling.
symbiat0@reddit
Maybe we need a new term like "Digital Stupids" 🤔
ElectricTeddyBear@reddit
That's because the moniker was for the end of millennials/the start of gen z. iPad babies become iPad adults.
SallySparrow5@reddit
I've been in IT most of my professional life (university libraries, public libraries, now university IT). During the public library run, I started saying, "'Digital natives,' my ass." It's been used frequently over time.
SnooStrawberries1078@reddit
Not digital native...digital dependent
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
👍👍👍
Clickclickdoh@reddit
They are touch screen native. If you can do something by touching the pictures on an iPad, they probably know it. If what needs doing requires knowledge of what is going on behind the scenes and how the OS works... probably lost.
Motomegal@reddit
Recurring conversation in my house:
Teen son: “Dad, the WiFi is out” Me: “nope, the WiFi is just fine. It’s the internet connection that’s out.” Teen son: (stares blankly at me)!
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
A buddy’s of mine taught his kids to use downdetector.com before they bring him any complaints.
Latter_Leopard8439@reddit
I always get "the internet died."
No, I assure you the world wide web is still operating world wide.
Did you check your wifi first? And then maybe the connection from our house to the internet might have an issue.
But its probably your wifi settings because my computer is connecting fine.
mcfandrew@reddit
I have tried countless times to explain to my friend that her VOIP phone is not a landline and she’s wasting money on it. She simply can’t grok it. She’s 49.
blaspheminCapn@reddit
Or "it just works" which is even worse. They're all afraid of opening up the box or even know there's a manual
EntertainmentOwn6907@reddit
They sure know how to bypass the filter and figure out how to watch movies on a vpn on their iPads though.
Ginger_Ayle@reddit
The wildest part, IME, is that a lot of younger millennials and Gen Z can barely use a computer if it’s not disguised as an app. They went straight from iPads to iPhones — no detour through “actual computers.” Ask them to go to the command line or for a simple SQL query and it’s a deer-in-headlights. As tech’s gotten more intuitive, the baseline skills we used to take for granted have slipped away. I've seen babies swipe at board books FFS instead of trying to turning pages.
Credit where it’s due, though after 25 years in tech: these kids are absolute pros at navigating complex UX/UI; they’re digital natives who can’t remember a time before iPads.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
I guess I would argue about being able to navigate complex ux/ui, but I agree completely on their app savviness. I was a product design lead who inherited an enormously complex legacy product and a UX/UI circa 2005. Clients griped all the time that their newer, younger employees could not “get” the interface.
Elliebell1024@reddit
Correct, HS teacher here. They cant save a fucking file correctly
Latter_Leopard8439@reddit
Yup. It's always unnamed file name. And they dont know how to click "recent" or create some folders on their google drive to organize things by class.
But at least Google does autosave for them. If they can find it again.
Latter_Leopard8439@reddit
They dont even know where the "refresh button" is on their school issue chromebooks.
bemenaker@reddit
Ask them where the C: drive is. Or where their files are stored.
MrSurly@reddit
Surely you mean
/
?(I use Arch, BTW)
fuckyourcanoes@reddit
"In the cloud"
phillymjs@reddit
I confess to occasionally forgetting myself and swiping when I want to turn the page on a physical book I’m reading.
MerlinsMentor@reddit
You mean, they're pros at memorizing the intricate details of BAD UI that's prioritizes above all else the maximization of screen space on phones. Phone UIs are almost universally awful. Just try and find typical settings.
_letter_carrier_@reddit
…and our generation built the internet
MrSurly@reddit
More accurate to say we built the web.
Famous_Station3176@reddit
Actually, it was a boomer who invented the internet
Braincloud@reddit
He said built, not invented. A good case can be made for that.
AlsoSprach@reddit
Most of the people who invented the Internet were boomers and the silent generation. The youngest Gen Xers were still in grade school. Even Tim Berners-Lee is a boomer.
We can't take credit for Unix, Windows/DOS, or Apple/Mac either. We can claim Linus Torvalds though, so that's something.
AdditionalLaw5853@reddit
I mean, we used computers when DOS was a thing and you had to load a program from a disc you carried in your bag and then save your work on another disc. But OK. I don't use tiktok or Instagram.
Due-Flamingo-9140@reddit
Our grandparents got us computers for high school graduation. Mine was so fancy! I had two floppy drives so I didn’t have to keep swapping back and forth from WordPerfect to DOS to WordPerfect.
erbmike@reddit
I think I still have some unrealized trauma from trying to work with that program in HS. Word was a downright joy in comparison.
Old_Butterfly7984@reddit
I prefer to hire older software engineers because they do know the technology better and have better intuition with technology than young folks that haven’t evolved with it the way our generation has. Also, many younger folks get through the computer science curriculum with a lot of group projects so their skill sets are lacking. Couple that with school favoring Python instead is f a C based language and it’s a crapshoot. I have hired younger people when there were no other options and had to teach them how to code. Don’t even get me started on their work ethic - it’s like babysitting getting them to put in a full 40 hours per week.
SavageBudgie@reddit
Yes! Been using/building/programming computers since the 80s, yet because I don't use (or care to use) those platforms my tech skills are somehow deficient? Have had to learn new languages systems multiple times over the years, and now somehow I can't do this any longer? Really annoying.
spectacular_gold@reddit
My first computer you had to load the operating system first... From a cassette tape! Had to make sure it was wound to the right part
Top_Bumblebee5510@reddit
My very first Tandy computer had to have the operating system loaded by cassette, you just unlocked that memory. We played a game on it where you had to circle items on the screen. They appeared faster the more you progressed or something. All in a sepia tone. I remember having something like 25 floppy discs with all my different papers from my fourth year of university on them.
MarcooseOnTheLoose@reddit
Whoa. I remember that.
danknerd@reddit
Extended vs expanded memory modes too.
MarcooseOnTheLoose@reddit
DOS is for youngsters. We grew up on CP/M. 😄😄😄
Mikey317717@reddit
My son (17) is great with software, but crap with hardware. I have cracked this gaming laptop 3 times to install new ram, 4tb of ssd hard drive and a Wi-Fi 6 card. He watched in horror all three times and was SHOCKED when all three were successful.
Gave me a high five and told me he thought I was going to brick his laptop.
Zerbit-Spucker@reddit
Mmm…. not true. I was born in 1956 and we bought our first computer (a Leading Edge) in 1987. We taught our daughters how to use computers.
At that time we were using IBM desktops (8086 and 286) at work and I was the first person to test the “internet” to transmit financial results and daily communications. All the Engineers and Accountants I worked with had home desktops and taught their families to use them. My Mom (born in 1930) bought her own computer in the late 1980’s and taught herself to use it. Alas… she’s 95 now and no longer has the eyesight to see the screen.
No-Durian-7032@reddit
If you were born in 1956, you’re not Gen X.
Zerbit-Spucker@reddit
That’s my point…
No-Durian-7032@reddit
Ah the boomer ellipses…
NackieNack@reddit
I'm a 1975 digital first, tech crazy genX. Don't fuck with my ellipses...
No-Durian-7032@reddit
I hate it so much.
NackieNack@reddit
Whatever. 😉😁
No-Durian-7032@reddit
Honest question, why do you guys overuse the shit out of it? You use it for everything, all the time, and do so incorrectly.
NackieNack@reddit
Ok, reverse question due to telling me I use them incorrectly: what, in your opinion, is the correct or official reason to use them (in an informal setting)? I ask because you saying we're using them wrong leads me to believe you have a different understanding of the correct grammatical usage of ellipses than I have.
No-Durian-7032@reddit
They are used in quotes for omitted words, and can be used informally to indicate a pause or hesitation in dialogue. They are not just some open ended, passive aggressive, form of punctuation like so many older white guys seem to think they are. Hell, My dad will text me “almost there…” wtf do the ellipsis add to that?
NackieNack@reddit
They're not passive aggressive, they're trailing thoughts, sometimes replacing the proper ending to a sentence (like in your dad's case). They're actually proper grammar in this case. I use them a lot because I'm a lady of a specific age who wanders around the kitchen a lot, wondering what the hell I wanted in there and use ellipses because I write like I speak. With lots of trailing thoughts, pauses, topic pivots. There is zero passive aggressiveness indicated by ellipses.
I thought it was the younger gens that felt punctuation was "passive aggressive".
No-Durian-7032@reddit
I don’t agree, I’ve encountered plenty of passive aggressiveness with their usage.
NackieNack@reddit
I think maybe younger gens use them for that purpose? Trying to think of when ellipses would be used in that manner made me remember this hilarious skit and if it was written, printer lady would certainly use them 🤣
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzEHCKfMFur/?igsh=ZXZjdXQ4Ym9qNm0w
Bokononfoma@reddit
I think something unique to Gen X is that we appreciate some of the very basic functionality available now that arrived while we were in grade school or college. Those that came after us always had the simple advances and took them for granted.
Things like computers with graphical interfaces (Windows/Mac) or even readily available word processing software in computer labs (had these in college, not high school). With SPELL CHECK, and COPY AND PASTE! That was the best fucking thing ever when I first did it. It can handle my footnotes and page numbers? And Excel? Automated spreadsheets? They do all the math? You can make a pie chart and I don't need a protractor, compass, or colored pencils?
I just think a lot of us were in our learning/coming of age years right when this stuff was hitting for the first time. It'll be interesting to see if AI catches hold in a similar way and changes hour by hour life. Maybe it kinda fizzles out a bit like VR has so far, or it gets huge and bottoms out like the .coms and telecom companies when they have cool tech, but can't find many profitable applications. Or maybe something new. I feel like we've seen a lot of turnover/growth/advancement in tech, which happens (Moores Law). It's only going to get more interesting.
CrushTheRebellion@reddit
Sometimes, I'll open a command window in Windows and start typing DOS commands. My Gen Z kids think I'm hacking into Windows through some kind of a back door.
Qikslvr@reddit
Right? Not tech native enough? We fucking BUILT the tech industry.
brownja1116@reddit
This. So much. We were writing stupid routines in basic, moved up crude C compliers. Were directly addressing video memory to create graphics, etc. younger people are big tech consumers, that's not the same as being tech savvy.
Best analogy is music. Being really into music doesn't make you a musician and it certainly doesn't make you a composer.
NewPresWhoDis@reddit
That look when GenAlpha data scientists forget to configure a VM with enough RAM for their dataset.
Low-Teach-8023@reddit
And many younger generations don’t really know how to use computers and computer software. They are so used to app based devices.
t1dmommy@reddit
My husband just had to teach an intern how to use folders. To save a file in a folder. They didn't know how.
debcon14@reddit
My daughter TA’s an intro to programming course at CU Boulder. She now routinely has to show college freshman how to create documents and folders, and how to save the docs to the folders. They no longer learn computer basics in most public schools.
Flimsy_Fee8449@reddit
What do they save to if not folders?
TheJokersChild@reddit
Cloud. Google, iCloud, OneDrive...
t1dmommy@reddit
They had only used things like Chromebooks which just save things randomly.
Flimsy_Fee8449@reddit
Ooof.
EntertainmentGood996@reddit
We invented the internet!
dstommie@reddit
This isn't really the case with older Gen Xers, but would be mostly true with younger Xers.
My mom is actually an old X, and while I'm technically a millennial (81), I definitely had to be her tech support.
tex_hadnt_buzzed_me@reddit
I taught myself to program in Basic on my Apple IIe from fucking magazines from the library. When I was 9.
zaskar@reddit
We INVENTED the tech they use.
Thanatologist@reddit
And we have been through more computing changes than any other generation too
SonOfGreebo@reddit
I had "reply all" on email explained to me by a man, who was literally not as many years old as the number of years I've been using email within businesses .
ilovethedraft@reddit
I have unread emails older than this years interns
PhD_VermontHooves@reddit
One of the best comments on Reddit. Ever.
Bender077@reddit
oh this immediately replaces my ''I have ties older than you'' usual response. I am SO stealing that!
Kestrel_Iolani@reddit
I once told a kid in our warehouse, "I have shoes older than you."
Jankypox@reddit
I’ve been coaching U10 soccer and one of the kids was questioning my experience. I pointed out that my soccer boots I use for training were older than his parents. He was quiet after that.
GigiDeville@reddit
I can't have unread emails. That counter makes me cringe.
Flimsy_Fee8449@reddit
Okay, this comment just set me off in a fit of laughter. Thank you hahahahaha
I'm using this line if you don't mind. 🤣
OffbeatCoach@reddit
Lol I learned “computers” in high school. We learned FORTRAN with punch cards that we filled out with a pencil. ✏️
Relevant_Fuel_9905@reddit
Yeah I think the tech native thing is a false narrative. We’ve learned tech - all the way up through today’s - as it appeared.
Cereal____Killer@reddit
Not only that but our technology frequently didn’t work right and we had to troubleshoot it… today’s “digital natives” are frequently at a loss when tech doesn’t “just work”
ThirstyWolfSpider@reddit
They have internet access and search engines for their debugging. Mid-'90s "the [only] computer is not booting; what do I do now?" was a different beast.
Cereal____Killer@reddit
Definitely hard mode… don’t even get me started about having to edit config.sys to get a new game to work
PolychromeMan@reddit
My first day at my first professional job: well, to create graphics as an artist, of course you will need to install this video card, despite having no idea how to install stuff in computers. me: um,...ok?
UncleNedisDead@reddit
Aren’t your kids Gen Z?
beerandmastiffs@reddit
To be fair, my silent Gen dad taught my brothers and I. I still remember using our rotary phone to connect to the computer at his work to play tic tac toe where every move was printed out on a dot matrix printer instead of being on a monitor.
RackemFrackem@reddit
Really? You think millennials didn't also do that?
cruisereg@reddit
I laughed when I read that. I am the most technical amongst all generations of my extended family, by far! It really helps that I’ve been writing code since I was 12. How am I not tech native? Idiots.
Due-Flamingo-9140@reddit
I worked for the company that invented the internet. I built e-commerce websites from scratch. How are we not tech native when we built the tech?
IPlitigatrix@reddit
I have a EECS MS and some dude I worked with asked me I knew how to drag and drop a document into an email. But I am 48 so I lack the ability to use a computer. Wild.
Top_Bumblebee5510@reddit
Did you slap him with you Encarta Encloypedia on CD-rom?
mutant-heart@reddit
Seriously, wtf. We built this shit.
lovewildtimes@reddit
The ultimate techie sandwich!
KY_Rob@reddit
9600,N,8,1,R…
Important_Crew8890@reddit
We made the internet. Millennials are just tourists
TomStarGregco@reddit
💯💯💯💯💯
TomStarGregco@reddit
Exactly 👍
Bordone69@reddit
No shit. New desktop people at my place don’t know how to troubleshoot a print job failing much less an error during software install.
Dangerous-Pirate-554@reddit
Millennials laugh at this sentiment
Elses_pels@reddit
Are you trolling ? We invented that too LOL! (We also invented LOL)
yankeesoba@reddit
No kidding. Tone deaf.
ShadowMosesSkeptic@reddit
Millennials are doing the same.
sunfish99@reddit
Well... many of us, but truthfully not all. Older GenX could still get into a career without dealing with computers much (any non-office job). And those that didn't have given the rest of us a bad rap.
I have a friend who didn't get a home computer until she was in her 40s, when she went back to school to get her BSN. She'd never used Word or PowerPoint in her life before then, and teaching her was frankly kind of painful.
muchDOGEbigwow@reddit
I still troubleshoot my kids tech issues.
beachbummeddd@reddit
Wow are you full of yourself. Typical X’er.
Navy_Chief@reddit
We watched and participated in the evolution of everything they are using step by step, how TF are we not tech native enough?
Libelia@reddit
IDDQD IDKFA
BluestreakBTHR@reddit
I’m here to chew bubblegum and kick ass.
-GoodNewsEveryone@reddit
Oh hello fellow millenial! Yes we did teach our parents and our children. Now wait, who are you again? Oh right the generation that was already grown up when modern technology came into everyday use. So not native.
Sharpinthefang@reddit
Not quite, early millennials had to too, but we will be the last.
Equal_Groundbreaking@reddit
This!!!
rskurat@reddit
ICHRA obviates those concerns, but of course most HR and C-suite types are too stupid
Western-Bug1676@reddit
This shows we are doomed. We need both !
The young people are stupidly enthusiastic and the old people hate them , it’s nature lol
But, they actually are supposed to work together for optimum benefit.
Knowledge is obtained through time , experience, trial and error. Respect your elders.
larrybirds@reddit
I love when they say we aren’t tech enough and we literally invented the tech
Mash_man710@reddit
Aussie here. We have universal health care, and ageism still exists in hiring..
gotchafaint@reddit
Well that’s a relief lol
Fantastic_Cake4952@reddit
In Canada as well
temerairevm@reddit
It’s super true. As a super small employer, the health insurance premium for someone who is 60 can be 3-4 times as much as your younger employees. You’re not supposed to discriminate but that is a massive financial incentive to discriminate. I had an employee whose health insurance was the equivalent of $8 per hour. For a really crappy plan.
Nobody wishes health insurance was decoupled from employment more than small employers.
gotchafaint@reddit
This is institutionalized age discrimination
denisebuttrey@reddit
So why do so many vote against universal health care. Wouldn't we all be better off if our health wasn't tied to our employer?
Expat111@reddit
I’m a CFO of mid sized companies. From a financial perspective, if we had universal healthcare like I had while living in Singapore, my company would easily save $300K in employer paid portion each year. Why American business owners resist universal healthcare absolutely baffles me.
In Singapore a reasonable tax deduction for the national health plan was deducted from my paychecks (like when we Americans sees the social security deduction on out paycheck) and there is a 50% employer match. As an example an employer is “taxed” $100 and the employer kicks in another $50. Simple, affordable. Also, I paid out of pocket for an add-on private policy through an AIG company that upgraded us to private rooms, private practices, etc. in total each month, I think I paid around US$250 per month for a family of four.
diablette@reddit
Would you put some of that 300k savings into wages though? Because just taking away the benefit and not replacing it would be just the shitty thing many employers would do. But with fewer people chained to their employers, it might end up an employee market which would balance things, in theory.
Cooperman411@reddit
I’ve often wondered how many small businesses would take off if we had universal healthcare. How many people who may once have had cancer, HIV, or other chronic (or just really bad) illnesses who aren’t entrepreneurs because our insurance system is f’d!
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
I heard an NPR segment on this years ago and they said the growth of small businesses would be staggering if employer paid healthcare wasn’t a concern. This is probably why big businesses are fighting against reform.
Ruh_Roh-@reddit
Ding ding ding. It's a way to trap employees. They want the employees up until the moment they lay them off because of "shareholder value".
GigiDeville@reddit
It would completely disrupt the job market for a few years because people who are working for insurance could suddenly quit and work for themselves.
Creatorschilde@reddit
Right? It’s wild how many people don’t see the connection. If health care was universal, it would take a huge burden off both employees and employers, plus it might actually encourage companies to hire based on skills rather than age.
denisebuttrey@reddit
Great point!
Flimsy_Fee8449@reddit
So a lot of employers are perfectly happy to vote against ACA, which has employers handle health insurance, and which will save them money.
Universal Healthcare is a different animal. They don't care about that. They simply don't want to pay it for others.
Business_Coyote_5496@reddit
Come on, we all know why
Robochemist78@reddit
If you think healthcare in the US can't get any worse, you lack imagination.
denisebuttrey@reddit
And your point is?
Robochemist78@reddit
No matter how bad it is, it can always be worse
denisebuttrey@reddit
And your point is?
Cheers_Owen_Kellogg@reddit
I think what he's trying to say, even if it's bad there is the non-zero chance of it still becoming more bad
PieTighter@reddit
The bigger the pool the more spread out the cost. No bigger pool than "everyone".
GoodLyon09@reddit
I so wish it were decoupled and I work for a large corporation. I just don’t think my healthcare should be my employers’ business. This was one thing I found disappointing about ACA. And, my large employer has to navigate plans from a bunch of states and countries. You think large employers wouldn’t want it either, but I guess they get some tax breaks for it.
temerairevm@reddit
I don’t think most want it. It’s only a tax break from the standpoint that it’s like any other expense. Expenses reduce your profit, which reduces your taxes. But it’s better to have profit.
archiebarchy@reddit
I’ve always wondered, is that purely anonymous by age or do they factor in past health claims? Like at this point, BCBS has basically a lifetime of data on me via various employers and I’m sure can fairly accurately predict my healthcare expenses barring unforeseen accidents.
Fluffymanolo@reddit
Aggregated past health claims of a particular age group and gender in previous years. I used to do quotes for group health insurance. The cost went up substantially until the age when one goes on Medicare. Then the cost goes way down. Once on Medicare group health insurance is considered supplemental.
archiebarchy@reddit
So we all just need to get to 65 and we’ll be hirable again! 😆
Chance-Travel4825@reddit
I wondered this as well (i have some HEAFTY previous expenses from my 30s but still have the same job and i worry it might be a mark against me in some hr data snoop.)
temerairevm@reddit
It’s anonymous. We buy ACA compliant plans and those aren’t allowed to discriminate based on gender or pre-existing conditions. They ARE allowed to charge up to 3x as much for older people (I just looked it up). At the start of each plan year they send us a chart with the rates by age.
Chance-Travel4825@reddit
Thank you for this information.
HairRaid@reddit
Early retiree on ACA, no subsidies, can confirm. AFAIK New York and Vermont are the only states that use community rating, not an age curve, to determine rates.
Psychological-Bet932@reddit
It is purely anonymous - they don't look at any history - just what the actuary studies say will be the cost for an employee that age.
I_like_kittycats@reddit
Yet another argument for universal healthcare
tropicsGold@reddit
No. it isn’t. Government running healthcare is the dumbest idea on the planet.
ThirstyWolfSpider@reddit
It's pretty clear you haven't learned much from the rest of the planet.
mslauren2930@reddit
Sadly a lot of Americans think medical debt and needing GoFundMe to pay for medicine makes our heath care the greatest on earth.
olily@reddit
We've tried pretty much everything else, what's left to try? And GTFO with any "free market" unregulated crap. We did that before, and had snake oil salesman and quack doctors/treatments out the wazoo. Why would we want to go back to that?
And one more thing: Every other developed country has some sort of government involvement in health care and they have lower prices and better outcomes than we do. Why can't we do it? Are we stupider than every other country? Are we not smart enough, brave enough? Why can they do it and we, supposedly the greatest country in the world, can't get our heads out of our asses enough to actually implement it successfully?
Chefy-chefferson@reddit
We are the GREEDIEST country in the world, I fixed it for you. That’s why we don’t get universal healthcare. That’s why the elderly and disabled don’t deserve healthcare as well.
temerairevm@reddit
If “supporting small business” was anything other than empty rhetoric this would be one of the main ways government could do that.
NorCalFrances@reddit
Citizens United does not favor small businesses
MrSurly@reddit
Minnesota is looking to overturn CU at a state level. Turns out states define what a corporation can and can not do.
NorCalFrances@reddit
They should! The current administration has been using the tactic that they can do whatever they want knowing full well that "move fast, break things" means permanent damage can be done long before the court system catches up. States should start using the same tactic and likewise tie each case up in lower courts for as long as possible, on the order of years.
temerairevm@reddit
Or individual humans
Panda_Zombie@reddit
Or robots
NorCalFrances@reddit
Considering robots are pretty universally owned by mega corporations...
eat_a_burrito@reddit
That is socialism until it’s my turn then it is ok /s
No_Function_7479@reddit
Socialism is good - who doesn’t want to take care of your family and your community? One of the things I love most about Canada is that everyone I know is happy to kick in a few extra bucks off their paycheques to provide universal healthcare
EntranceFeisty8373@reddit
But if we Americans do that, we'd have to tax millionaires and make fewer fighter jets...
Katsaj@reddit
I earned it, unlike all those freeloaders. /s
lumpkin2013@reddit
There's people trying to reform healthcare across the country and working very hard. Consider helping out.
https://medicare4all.org/
diogenesRetriever@reddit
I worked for a small company where I was one of the youngest employees. Each year we'd go through the process of working with our insurance broker on trying to keep rates reasonable. We eventually went to what they called "age banded" rates. After a year I looked at the plan and figured out I was subsidizing everyone else so I switched to my wife's plan. The result was that the census jumped and all the older guys dropped insurance going on their wive's plan too. I effectively killed our health insurance benefits.
temerairevm@reddit
It’s not your fault. The system is incredibly stupid and in the sentence devices the wrong things. Enjoy low premiums while you can, because the older you get the harder they are to find.
Expensive-Ad1609@reddit
This is so interesting. Here in South Africa, many employers offer 'Total cost to company' packages. They make employees pay for 100% of their own healthcare, or they give a small contribution towards it.
pdubs18@reddit
We have something in America that might be similar that is trying to catch on called ICHRA (Individual Coverage Health Reimbursement Arrangement). It’s still just window dressing until hospitals stop predatory billing and collections. MRIs can be $300 or $3000. You never know until the bill comes. Avoid emergency rooms unless you are dying.
Expensive-Ad1609@reddit
America is a messed-up place. I'm so thankful that I live in South Africa. We have state hospitals where one pays based on one's income, AFAIK.
And, those of us 🙋🏽♀️ who have private health care can get Gap cover. It pays the shortfall if the medical aid doesn't settle the full bill.
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
Healthcare is much less expensive in South Africa.
Healthcare expenditure per capita in the US is about US $10,921. 
Healthcare expenditure per capita in SA is about US $547.
For instance, some treatments that cost tens of thousands in the US cost much less in SA.
Example:
Angioplasty: US $57,000 in the US vs US $14,200 in SA. 
Expensive-Ad1609@reddit
Health care in South Africa is crazy expensive for people who earn Rands. That's 99% of the population. A doctor's visit in my middle-of-nowhere town costs R700. The average South African salary is around R6000/pm.
Yes, there are state hospitals where one pays according to one's income, but middle-class people try to avoid going there.
Remarkable_Salad_250@reddit
And wanna know why hospitals charge so much? (Aside from top heavy salaries) So many uninsured people plus abysmal rates of reimbursement from insurance for people who are insured. Every time someone with no insurance comes into a hospital, the hospital must recoup the cost of that person’s care somewhere. Guess where? Then when some insurances only pay cents on a dollar, costs go up just to break even (for example, if I know I’m going to only get $1 for every $100 I charge and I need to make $10 to cover the actual cost, I will need to charge $1000 for that thing that only costs $10.) And it’s only going to get worse if the ACA tax credits go away. But no, we don’t need Universal Health Care. We’re fine. Everything’s fine. 🙄🔥
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
I think we’re in full agreement.
AnitaPeaDance@reddit
Add to that if your employee has special needs dependent(s) and/or partner, even more $$$.
temerairevm@reddit
They can’t discriminate based on pre-existing (thanks ACA) so unless it’s a gigantic employer that self insures the special needs dependent doesn’t cost any more than any other dependent.
It’s also super rare for an employer (especially small ones) to contribute anything to the spouse. I’m a total unicorn for paying 100% of employee premiums. So typically the spouse is something the employee has to pay for so that doesn’t really affect our costs.
KombuchaLady3@reddit
I'm getting laid off at the end of the year for budget reasons, and I am signing a separation agreement just for the extended medical coverage.
Small_Dog_8699@reddit
Fuck, I need no health benefits, double my 401k contributions.
ThirstyWolfSpider@reddit
That works out great in two ways: you have more money for retirement, and you don't have to worry about that pesky longevity risk when planning for it!
dtg1990@reddit
You don’t. Until you do. Cancer is showing up in younger people. Go to the /cancer sub and see how many are teens and 20’s. Then of course injuries can be expensive also.
temerairevm@reddit
Right? But here’s the rub. A small business has to have 80% of its employees enrolled or you can’t get insurance. So for a while we had 5 people and one had a good option somewhere else. Which meant any new hire had to be on it or the rest of us lose coverage.
We were trying to negotiate with a guy who was 25. He wanted more salary. We laid out the per hour value of the benefits. He didn’t care because his parents were going to keep him on their plan for another year. And apparently he wasn’t able to look ahead after that. He was like “just pay me more” and we were like “we have to put you on this plan regardless because you’re cheaper than the other person who doesn’t need it.” Anyway the negotiation went nowhere and we didn’t hire him.
It’s just an unbelievably stupid system.
eat_a_burrito@reddit
That’s ok. The Insurance CEOs need their 3rd home in Costa Rica. Feel good knowing you are supporting their poor lifestyle /s
Silent_plans@reddit
Wow. I had no idea this was calculated on the individual employee basis, rather than averaged across all employees leading to a flat fee.
temerairevm@reddit
Bigger plans do work the way you describe. I’m not sure what the size threshold is for that. We are probably going to switch to an association plan that does this. It’s not really much cost savings though even with average age of 50.
MiskatonicMus3@reddit
If that were true, they wouldn't have overwhelmingly voted for a fat orange fascist.
temerairevm@reddit
I truly do not believe that any substantial portion of MAGA voters was primarily motivated by a love for how our healthcare system currently works. I kind of wish they were because you could reason with that.
Kaa_The_Snake@reddit
But but DEATH SQUADS!
Tangboy50000@reddit
This came up the other day and everyone wanted to say I was wrong, that insurance doesn’t work that way, and that having babies was way more expensive. Get a pacemaker put in and tell me having a baby is more.
temerairevm@reddit
Everyone is sort of right here. Not sure how old you are but I am old enough to have had a “no maternity” policy before ACA. Generally companies couldn’t offer them, but they were available on the private market. My rate about tripled when I had to move to ACA.
Women and men used to be charged different rates and one of the main sources of complaining about ACA was young men complaining that their insurance got so much more expensive. I remember it acutely because as a woman who was actively trying to never have children, I was super annoyed that most of the IRL complaining I heard was from men who participated in multiple pregnancies.
The thing about pregnancy being expensive isn’t just the cost of an uncomplicated birth, which isn’t nothing and it’s also VERY common- the average woman is going to do it 1-2 times. The things that can go wrong more rarely are extremely expensive.
CajunTisha@reddit
It’s wild how much it differs for a 29 year old compared to a 50 year old, I agree, I would love to not have this tied to employers.
kevinlovechild@reddit
I concur with HR and Finance career. I switched plans to the same price for all but it wasn't easy (or cheap.)
In my dreams, we have European labor laws and healthcare for all. Apparently, this is not the "American Dream"?! We're apart of the Blank Generation...
U_feel_Me@reddit
Would you vote for “socialized medicine” (like Canada and France, for example, have)?
Pragmatic_Hedonist@reddit
Australia has a good tiered system. Everyone gets "basic" like your classic HMO policy. If you want, you can purchase a higher level of coverage that gives you more flexibility in choosing your doctors and hospitals.
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
I’d vote for single payer like Medicare for all.
thatsplatgal@reddit
Health insurance is such a scam too. It’s crippling small business and preventing people from going out on their own.
Reader47b@reddit
I'm 50 and I worked part-time (freelance, from home) for many years while raising kids. Now I need more hours and more income (always planned to go back to full-time work, but now I really NEED to because my husband left me), and so I have tried and tried applying for full-time jobs. Instead, I've ended up with the freelance job I was already working plus two other part-time jobs (so no health insurance provision), and I pay for Obamacare. Take what you can get, I guess.
If we decoupled health insurance from employment, it would not be an issue in hiring, and it would make job transition easier, which would force employers to pay more to retain workers.
Starbreiz@reddit
Lol not tech native like we didn't grow up using Apple ][e.
As a woman in tech, ageism is definitely a huge issue tho
SallySparrow5@reddit
Sexism is still rampant in IT. It's not so much from fellow GenX tech guys, but now it's the millennial guys questioning me on my decisions. JFC. "Tech bros," my ass.
Starbreiz@reddit
It cracks me up when tech bros act all bro. I've been building and working on servers and networks since before some of them were alive.
UpstairsFan7447@reddit
I think we are the most tech savvy generation at the moment, simply because we know the world without digital technology and what exactly the tech solutions are meant to do. And as a bonus, we even know what to do when the technology is not working properly, for whatever reasons.
Knowing technology includes also knowing when not to use it.
SallySparrow5@reddit
I appreciate that last sentence. I need to start using that in my workplace since everyone's on the AI kick but can't explain why they want to use it, just that "I want AI."
Charming_Butterfly90@reddit
With you. Got laid off after 20 years at 53. Still unemployed a year and a half later. No health insurance. $130k/year down to $400/week from unemployment and uninsured at 54. Needed some blood work. $503 with 60% discount for being uninsured. Three days later Dr. calls and said bloodwork is off the charts abnormal, I need to go again to make sure it is right. WTF? I haven’t gone yet because I pay my bills and want to pay that bill before I incur another. In the meantime I keep losing my breath and nearly passing out every time I stand and now that I actually may have something wrong with me, too bad, so sad. America is such a disappointment right now.
oldschool_potato@reddit
But we don't take mental health days off every other week either. We probably should have, but don't.
MelodicToken@reddit
Yes this happens a LOT with younger workers. It blows me away. Do you think they’re out getting mani pedis while we schmucks shoulder the workload? Or just lay on the couch all day. I wonder how they sleep at night knowing they let their coworkers down so often.
OFMOZ24@reddit
Why should anyone of any age not use their PTO? I’m Gen X and burned out. The only thing I have to look forward to is my time off.
MelodicToken@reddit
It’s a good question. I’ve been wondering if I should just start calling in sick when I feel like it. Like really, maybe I’m the idiot for not using my sick leave, family leave, bereavement, health care leave, and… just not showing up on time. I wonder how well our healthcare system would work if we were all just barely there. I’m the one who has to shuffle people around when others call in sick, but I’m sure they’d somehow figure it out, right?
SallySparrow5@reddit
Millennials that "earn and burn" their time off I just don't understand. I've always gone by what my Dad taught me about banking two weeks of sick time whenever I landed a FT job. I got really sick in 2023 and burned through it and I'm still trying to get up to at least five days of sick time banked up.
On the other hand, I have a millennial coworker (almost 40) who whines that she needs a mental health day every time she does a basic task or takes a sick day when she has a hangnail. Unfortunately, life has really given her a big reality check this year and has no time off and we keep getting hit up to donate some of our paid time off to her. No. Fucking. Way.
NewPresWhoDis@reddit
Those glamor shot DITL TikToks aren't making themselves
LectureBasic6828@reddit
"I wonder how they sleep at night knowing they let their coworkers down so often."
The audacity of them not burning themselves out to make profits that they will never see snd for co workers who probably wouldn't even go to their funeral.
MelodicToken@reddit
We work on a team in healthcare with amazing benefits and nobody’s making a profit (we are not in the US). We’re literally working for the health of our community.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Burnout is very real in the healthcare field. Maybe the issue is not with people needing days off and is with the sector where they work being understaffed.
MelodicToken@reddit
Absolutely staffing is an issue. But unplanned absences increase burnout because then the whole team has to work short. Staff should use their (generous) vacation leave, and schedule appointments for massages, physio, therapy, do lots of self care, for sure. They can use paid sick leave to go to appointments. I’m in favour of that— scheduled and then we can plan for it. It’s the unscheduled days off I have a problem with. We are a small team and once I had fully half my team call in sick one day in the middle of the week. All of them came in the next day with no sign of illness. That was a hard day for us. But most popular is to call is sick on a Monday or a Friday. Or adjacent to a STAT day off.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
That's very specific to your job and very much not a new thing in healthcare.
ComesInAnOldBox@reddit
Like a baby. Sadly, the people who most complain about the lack of empathy in others are seriously lacking it, themselves.
MelodicToken@reddit
Imagine thinking you know me well enough to say I have no empathy. You could not be more wrong.
Or are you saying they sleep like a baby because they don’t give a shit about showing up for their teammates? And they have no empathy for how their absence puts more workload and stress onto others? In that case, I think you’re right.
ComesInAnOldBox@reddit
Uh, what?
That's exactly what I meant. How you took what I said as an attack against you, I have no idea.
MelodicToken@reddit
I was the one complaining about people calling in sick. And you said “The people who complain about the lack of empathy in others are seriously lacking it, themselves”
ComesInAnOldBox@reddit
Did you miss the part I quoted? Makes it pretty clear who I was talking about.
NewPresWhoDis@reddit
We're the ones getting shit done while the youngin's are busy figuring out if the have enough spoons to get through the day
shadypines33@reddit
I actually felt guilty all of about 2 minutes for taking a vacation day this week, because two other people called out sick, any my boss would have to cover their tasks. But then I reasoned, I've taken 2 days off in the last 10 months. My boss, who just got back from a 10 day vacation, can pick up the slack for one day.
churros4burros@reddit
That was a great Quiet Riot album.
Useful_Specific5275@reddit
The health insurance one ticks me off because I’m the only one in my family using the company plan. My husband is on his company’s plan and we have no kids. While someone 20 years younger than I am could have a spouse and young children on their plan. It seems like the premiums would even out.
SallySparrow5@reddit
I just got notified this week that I now have to pay a $200 monthly surcharge to have my spouse on my employer's coverage for 2026. Since he's not on his employer's insurance (which it complete garbage). My husband did say someone at his workplace is on the insurance plan because his wife's company will not cover anyone except the employee themselves. So, I guess I have that to look forward to next year.
Blrfl@reddit
Most companies cover the premium for the employee and anything above that for a spouse or family is on the employee's dime.
The real racket is family coverage. Every plan I've ever been on has one rate for that whether you have one kid or six.
ntyperteasy@reddit
Don’t worry. Younger people can’t afford to have children so your employer is spared this expense.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
smart. it's a feature, not a bug....
SDBitsME@reddit
Same!
TXtogo@reddit
When my company did layoffs they looked at peoples health insurance costs as part of the decision of who to let go.
Olderbutnotdead619@reddit
Does that mean menopausal women will be scooped up for employment?
Own_Clothes9361@reddit
I’m in nursing. We are thriving over here. No kids to take off time for, years of knowledge and generally the clients seem to appreciate the experience
muralist@reddit
Yup, I love when some over 50 OG nurse shows up in a hospital room. They act like they own the place and they know so much and have so much useful experience. I feel like patients really pay attention to what they have to say.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Too many health issues. 50's is the age women are hit with auto immune, chronic pain and inflammatory health issues.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
Prolly not for those of us on HRT & live a healthy lifestyle.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Way to shame people.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
That's not shaming it's factual.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
It's not factual because even people who lead fit and healthy lives can get chronic illness.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
And some of the chronic diseases that affect women can be avoided with lifestyle changes + HRT. Is it a guarantee? No. Is current research showing us that hormones protect us in many ways? Yes. Will being fit, eating right prevent health issues, in many cases yes. It's why docs tend to lead with lifestyle changes for better health outcomes.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
For many lifestyle changes aren't required because they aren't leading unhealthy lives. Many chronically ill people are extremely motivated to get well, so if it was as easy as eating well, exercise, meditation, and fresh air, we would be healthy now.
You seem to be under the illusion that only those will poor diet and no exercise get chronically ill.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
And many chronically ill people got that way because they did not make the lifestyle changes then needed to early enough. My dad was one of these people. My mom wasn't, as hers was bad luck, MS. Now, get on with ur day. Good bye
LectureBasic6828@reddit
This is my point. Perfectly healthy people, with good diets and regular exercise can get chronic illness. It is bad luck.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
And many health issues can be avoided thru lifestyle choices. Both points can be true & are as are my parents example. Imma gonna go with my own life insurance plan of treating my body as good as I can to avoid as much as possible. U do u
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
Dang, give it up! Move on
Olderbutnotdead619@reddit
Until they discover HRT
LectureBasic6828@reddit
HRT doesn't cure everything, unfortunately.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
It can be incredible when combined with all the good stuff, healthy clean diet, exercise, sups, good social life, etc.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Unfortunately fit and healthy people can be struck by chronic illness. Also, not everyone is blessed with the opportunities to have perfect lives either.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
We can, but we reduce our chances significantly by how we live. I say this having started a lifestyle change at 58 that was rather total that resulted in me losing 80 lbs & 7 sizes in 12 months w/o drugs or surgery to assist. I got extremely lucky I hadn't collected health issues since my dad died at 51 and my mom at 58. I reached a point where I was disgusted with myself & decided to change everything all at once. I tell u this so u understand I worked hard to change my present & hopefully my future.
Olderbutnotdead619@reddit
No but it sure can help!!
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Oh, it definitely does. Take it from me at your peril!
Olderbutnotdead619@reddit
It's been the best thing I've done for myself in decades.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
Right!
Sufficient_Stop8381@reddit
Definitely. I worked for a company that was self insured and they frequently found ways to bounce long term employees without making it look like ageism and I always thought that had something to do with it. I never used my insurance for anything other than checkups and minor acute care like a cold or flu but I’m starting to come around on the idea of universal healthcare, though I’m sure the government will ensure it’s screwed up and lines the pockets of the billionaire class somehow.
And nothing will be done about ageism until the mills hit 50. The booms got their gold plated retirement benefits and we still don’t exist to most generations. The mills will screech for attention when they start hitting senior status and then ageism will be the most important thing in the world. They might finally do something about healthcare too.
Naive-Elderberry5529@reddit
This makes me so PO'd, but not surprising, unfortunately. They keep raising the retirement age older and older for social security, but for those of us in the job market within 10 or even 15 years of that "magic number" it feels like we're screwed
Can't get a job with health insurance because employers deem us "too costly", don't qualify for Medicare yet, and if we aren't lucky enough to have a spouse with health coverage we have to figure out how to pay for health insurance on our own without a job.
I feel like it used to be years of experience we're valued, but now it's just looked at as a liability. On a job interview this morning I actually had a this conversation, "Yup although it looks like AI can do everything, there are still some things it can't. So someone still has to do the grunt work of manually entering in data to the computer."
I wanted to scream "Yes I've been doing that for 40 years! Give me a chance please!"
Instead I smiled sweetly and said "I really would like this job!" Even though it's a "contract" position for just a few months; not even a chance of becoming permanent with benefits. But at this stage I feel my desperation creeping in.
It ended with "We'll get back to you..." and so far, crickets. And so it goes.....
anhydrousslim@reddit
I’m at the tail end of GenX (late 70s bday) and I accepted my fate long ago - when I retire is a choice that will be made for me, not by me. Doing everything I can to be ready, I don’t think it’s too close to happening yet as I’m still in my 40s, but I think once I hit mid 50s or so, that might be it. I don’t think I want to retire then, but at that point I expect that if I lost my job, I will struggle to be hired again. I would encourage my fellow young Xers to prepare similarly.
Naive-Elderberry5529@reddit
I hate that it's true for you, but sadly it may be......I would encourage you and any of your fellow younger Gen X's to look for a second source of income . a side gig, etc. So if the worst does happen you aren't stuck.
And also if you want to go back to school, make a career change, start a business , don't wait!! There are lots of us ten years older who went through those questions and procrastinated on what choices to make .....and then one day you wake up and it really is too late to make a career change. Or at least very difficult!
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
I'm so burnt out on corporate culture that I'm trying to make a go of it myself as a contractor/independent consultant. Yeah, I will have to cover my own insurance (somehow) or hop on my husband's (assuming he keeps his job). This revolving door of surge and purge staffing models just has to go. Rather than focusing on age, my pitch is about wisdom and experience.
Oldebookworm@reddit
mkdir x mv a b cd ..
tundrabarone@reddit
I started my IT support in 1990, accidentally. Worked on ATs and XTs, booted from floppy disks. Learned config.sys and autoexec.bat. Figured out extended and expanded memory. Pre-windows. Early days of coaxial cable networks.
I ended that role around 2015.
AdmirableWrangler199@reddit
Maternity care? lol you think we’re having kids
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
No, the context was that while overall utilization may be higher in younger age brackets because of childbirth, the costs are less because they are generally not chronic/long term/high cost conditions.
Kwyjibo68@reddit
The health insurance is the main reason I work (and continue to work) for a large company. We were self employed for a time and the insurance cost was exorbitant. More than twice our mortgage.
But you’ll never hear most politicians talk about how costs of health insurance is stifling entrepreneurship.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
It will be interesting to see what comes of things when Millennials hit this age. They were the ones who make paid parental leave happen. Will their influence stick or fade in this situation?
1009naturelover@reddit
Not new.
Companies big enough to have a "C" level group of executives have been targeting almost all 50+ for awhile.
wookiegtb@reddit
As an Australian where we have mostly functional universal healthcare and nationally mandated retirement savings called superannuation, I read stuff like this and just can’t fathom it.
Panic_Azimuth@reddit
We call(ed) it Social Security.
wookiegtb@reddit
Is that your 401k? Or is that different? I guess the difference is the requirements and levels of protection. We have a government pension for those who either do not have super or not enough of it. Super is now 12% of normally earnings. And that doesn’t go into an employer run investment fund. That money is managed by your choice of a generally competent superannuation management fund.
Guess I just here these stories of people who for what ever reason lose their jobs or can’t work and something happens, and end up with no social security, huge medical bills, or no medical care because of potential cost etc. and it leaves me shaking my head.
Panic_Azimuth@reddit
No, a 401k is a private tax-advantaged retirement account. Social Security is a mandatory government retirement program.
We pay into Social Security through our paychecks - currently 6.2%, and the employer matches it so total contribution is 12.4%. You only pay this on the first $176,000 in income.
The amount you draw in retirement (age 67) is based on your highest 35 years of earnings. You can draw at 62, but your payout will be lower. If you retire later, you can get a bit more.
It's an OK system, except that the government likes to rob the pool of money to fund other stuff.
SqualorTrawler@reddit
"Not tech native enough" is funny as shit. You know what, if you need someone who is super-duper great with TikTok I'm not your guy, but if you need a Powershell script or a Perl script (no one ever needs a Perl script, but you know, IT COULD HAPPEN), I'm your guy.
root_fifth_octave@reddit
‘Not tech native enough’ is kind of funny. Like yeah bro, I’ve only used everything from command line interfaces to AI.
lalacourtney@reddit
Yeah like where the fuck do they think the tech came from? Who made it?
root_fifth_octave@reddit
Maybe they think it started in 2008.
prettyedge411@reddit
They do. 5 years ago a college student told he thinks the internet was invented in 2008. Shocked when I said 1994.
EC_Stanton_1848@reddit
prettyedge411@reddit
The World Wide Web debuted April 30, 1993. So I was wrong.
rjm72@reddit
Heck I was emailing folks at other colleges in 1990! They’d freak if they saw us using the old VAX system!
hells_cowbells@reddit
I was gonna say I got my first email account in 1991. I was using IRC, Gopher, and usenet soon afterwards.
Bondler-Scholndorf@reddit
Shout out to Gopher!
Triviajunkie95@reddit
I’m still proud I got my gmail account by invite and it is my first and last name, no numbers, etc. OG. It’s still my primary 27ish years later.
Tankgyrl245@reddit
I had a rocket mail account
hells_cowbells@reddit
I still have mine that I got by invite. Sometimes I kick myself that I didn't grab an account in that format. I basically used the same format I had used everywhere else, which was my initials and a number. I remember thinking gmail was a joke because they introduced it on April 1st, and there was no way they would give that much storage on an email account.
LeatherAppearance616@reddit
Same, I’m in a username fight to the death with a guy who has my same first and middle initials and exact last name and we are the same-ish age. He got yahoo and Skype, I got Gmail and Protonmail.
Elses_pels@reddit
LOL! I have one at a previous work and one private. Both from Brazil. We emailed each others emails for years. “Hey, I think this is for you”
im_dead_sirius@reddit
You got the good, he got the now mostly useless.
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
Same.
progenyofeniac@reddit
First initial, last name Gmail right here. Also crazy proud of it.
Elses_pels@reddit
My email is Googlemail .com
Google was not allowed to use gmail in Europe at the time. Always raise an eyebrow :)
im_dead_sirius@reddit
I think you can alias that. You probably have a gmail equivalent.
Elses_pels@reddit
Yes. It works with gmail too. But I keep it for a laugh :)
im_dead_sirius@reddit
Same.
WickedMuchacha@reddit
Same
Balor_Gafdan@reddit
same
External-Low-5059@reddit
TIL my gmail address is vintage 😆🤔 don't think it was by invite though? But it's just my name.
notanyonefamousyet@reddit
Can’t upvote this enough in agreement!
Kaa_The_Snake@reddit
lol me too! I even remember who got me the invite and which job I was working at the time!
Of course my memory of anything actually useful or important isn’t this good, but I can still remember exactly where I was when I first heard Smells Like Teen Spirit!
OliveSmart@reddit
Same! I worked for a University. Ah good times…
hells_cowbells@reddit
I was a student. At the time, they were only allowing engineering or computer science majors to have accounts. I started off in engineering, and later switched majors, but they never took the account away. I was from a small town, and it blew my mind that I could talk to people around the world for free.
JennJoy77@reddit
UNIX!
mslauren2930@reddit
VAX! Did you go to Haverford?
rjm72@reddit
No, I was at Colorado. I had the account for a class as a freshman. Later upgraded to UNIX based a couple years later.
sunfish99@reddit
My first email account used Pine, on the department's Unix network.
rjm72@reddit
We had pine and elm in 1993! Took us a while!
MrSurly@reddit
You could argue back to the late 60's. TCP/IP rolled out in 83. WWW (which runs atop the internet) was invented in 89, went public in 91, royalty free in 93.
Colleges were 100% using the internet in the 70s and 80s.
engineer_but_bored@reddit
It's because youtbe starts in 2008
213737isPrime@reddit
1970 something, depending on when you think the transition from Arpanet to "Internet" happened. But I was definitely using the Internet in 1984.
LeatherAppearance616@reddit
Wow was it really 94? By 95 I had a fully blinged out Geocities page. Everything on it blinked or rotated, doesn’t get much more native than that.
ginger_kitty97@reddit
It was 1989 for the world wide web.
WickedMuchacha@reddit
I can stop hear the dial up tone,and unless you had 2 phone lines in your house you couldn’t be on the phone and internet at the same time
tarix76@reddit
No, ARPANET started in 1969 and converted into the internet in 1983. The important date for the web is 1993 when Mosaic was released.
1994 is best known for the death of Kurt Cobain.
peter303_@reddit
Boomers invented computers and the internet. And they are put out to pasture for being old.
tarix76@reddit
I was discussing GenZ's lack of tech knowledge with a friend and said something like:
In order to get anything done on a computer we had to learn nonsense like LOAD "*",8,1and then some of us were bored enough to go learn what all of that meant! A cat can use an iPad.
For those who forgot 40 year old tech: LOAD -> load something into memory "*" -> that something is the first thing you can find 8 -> from the (first) floppy drive as the default is from tape 1 -> RUN immediately after loading
dkohler72@reddit
Not trying to be pedantic but the ,1 technically means to load into the memory location specified in the program. (otherwise it would load in the default location for basic applications) You still had to type "run"
tarix76@reddit
Oh right, I guess it was either the fast loader cartridge or just regular memory tricks that made things autoload. I do have some vague memories of being amazed at the games that could run themselves.
egordoniv@reddit
Eh, this is debatable. I moved back to the sticks when I got older and the majority of Gen X out here can't find a file they downloaded on their phone if you put a gun to their head. Some of them legit can't tell you if they have an apple or an android phone. "it's whatever they sold me"
SnazzieBorden@reddit
That’s more of a rural/urban divide. So many rural places didn’t have access to the internet while us city kids were learning programming in elementary school. There’s places in my state that still don’t have internet access, or at least not without paying an arm and a leg for it. Add in poverty in those communities and it’s easier to see why they don’t know much about tech.
Rab1dus@reddit
100%. I get the rest, but tech native is not an issue with us. The health premiums is a uniquely American thing but most of it is fair.
FigNinja@reddit
Yes. My first internet interface was a Unix shell account. I dealt with HCLs, setting jumpers, manually setting the addressing of memory for certain apps. We just had to know a lot more about how things worked. I am glad that things have gotten so much more user friendly. I want technology to be usable by as many people as possible. However, my grounding in understanding these sorts of systems and working as an engineer all these years as we developed them into what they are now has helped me pick up new technology very easily. I also haven’t lost my excitement at new things. I know the common perception is that we calcify. Maybe that’s to come, but it hasn’t happened yet.
temerairevm@reddit
Like who do they think invented this shit?
Deep-Ad-9728@reddit
🎯
Do not mess with Gen X baby
SlyFrog@reddit
I think a lot of people need to drop the delusion that this is about anything other than just age.
We don't like old people. You didn't want to work with the "weird" 58 year old guy when you were young. As we age, more and more decision making gets done by people younger than you. People have always gravitated toward bonding with other people their own age or younger.
See how many people spend time really visiting and talking with their elders even outside of work.
It's a harsh reality - people wish you would just disappear when you are old.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
58 isn't old.
SlyFrog@reddit
Keep telling yourself that.
Maggieblu2@reddit
Lmao 59 year old here who hikes 2 miles a day up mountains, skis, can dance for hours and pull all nighters. I am more active than people half my age. Also, when I was a younger me, I hated my peers, my friends were always older. Now I am the older friend to many. Stop painting such narrow pictures.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
I prove it to myself daily as I finish my long workouts and enjoy more energy than I had when younger. I do tell myself, I do.
SlyFrog@reddit
Which is exactly what old people tell themselves.
[Stares into mirror] Yep, still got it!
Young people laugh.
GenX-ModTeam@reddit
Prejudices & Hostility - No speech of any form targeting anyone, including but not limited to:
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
Pretty ageist comment, u must not b GenX. Maybe someone younger trolling.
It is not delusion but observation. I work with people age 25-75 in a building that serves the public typically a few hundred daily.
I observe a lot & know that the work & effort I put into my body & health is paying off. We can actually change our biological age too.
So be smug, but keep an eye out for the fit grey haired ladies that buzz past u out in the reals, one of them is me.
SlyFrog@reddit
Uh huh.
I look forward to seeing 58 year olds compete at the Olympics, since so long as you keep a positive attitude and work out hard, you aren't old and don't lose a step.
Not being delusional is not "negativity." Seeing the world as it is instead of how we want it to be is not "lack of kindness."
You know what really ages people? Years going by. That's what ages people.
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
Who said anything abt Olympics? U ready compete at the level youngster? Silly comment. And u will age as well & from ur neg comments, that probably won't go well. Again, good luck. Good bye
Panic_Azimuth@reddit
Um, I'm not sure what corners of Reddit you're subbed to, but that is not what appears on my front page.
mookiexpt2@reddit
Every one of those statements makes out a prima facie case under the ADEA. If you’re ever told this when applying for a job (and you’re over 40), run don’t walk to the local EEOC office.
Vladivostokorbust@reddit
I’m not quite gen x but spend time on this sub because I relate to this generation more than boomers. And the gen jones sub is too repetitive.
I am 65. I had to enroll in Medicare Part A at my birthday but am currently employed. I retain my employer’s insurance coverage for anything not covered by A, which only pays for inpatient hospitalization. That’s totally off the table from my employers plan from having to cover. I pay the same rate regardless. In my case my employer covers all premiums for spouse and i.
My point, once you hit 65 if still employed risk to employer goes down.
TheGreenLentil666@reddit
Tech veteran here. Been flown all around the world to speak at conferences and teach what I know. Been passively looking since January.
I’ve scored one video call.
Talk about insurance and all that shit but when the person interviewing you is <30, you are simply NOT getting the job. Doesn’t matter if you’re good, fast, cheap, etc.
And when I was 30 I had the same bias.
Alit_Quar@reddit
My brother is a boomer, but he was a programmer since the 70s. Lately, he can’t find work for the reasons OP states. So he retired from programming, now he’s a full time blacksmith. He seems to be happier.
Melted-lithium@reddit
The healthcare thing has been a Bomb for years. No one is immune over 35. So if we are getting that bar that low - They better start working on making child labor legal again. If any job needs the experience most employers are looking for on their ridiculous job postings - they aren’t going to find tweens with that experience.
And fuck the technology thing. That’s just bullshit - and has nothing to do with age. I hired a kid that’s 25 that doesn’t know what a PDF is. But he sure has shit knows Snapchat.
TheJokersChild@reddit
Kids still use Snapchat?
Melted-lithium@reddit
Yup…. Have college kids and they use it as the primary mode of Communication with friends.
everlasting_torment@reddit
Ageism makes me laugh because we have an 80 year old president. Okay to run the country but not okay to be a project manager at whatever ahole company.
Redsquirreltree@reddit
I was shopping for the company health insurance plan.
More than one insurance agent told me we needed a higher percentage of younger people on the payroll.
galtzo@reddit
My dad is a computer scientist who programmed via holes punched in index cards.
Crivens999@reddit
Tech savvy is funny. We were the generation almost forced into further education for IT. Not that I complained, love programming…. Anyway we have decades of experience in tech. However 23 year old me who worked 90+ hour weeks in Dubai for months, sometimes hallucinating because of the lack of sleep literally putting in 15+ hours a day of constant coding to meet our deadlines would run rings around my full stack programmer arse. I’m very tired, even with my 30 hour weeks…
GeneralLivid7332@reddit
Wait until preexisting conditioner are removed. Good times.
ToddBradley@reddit
That cat isn't going back in the bag.
mslauren2930@reddit
Oh my sweet summer child…
PresidentSuperDog@reddit
Settled law is no longer settled for this SCOTUS, they just need the right lawsuit to come their way.
slowtreme@reddit
and lined pockets
Deep-Ad-9728@reddit
I do not want to return to that shitshow. My entire life is a preexisting condition.
GeneralLivid7332@reddit
It's coming though. Because it was Mitt Rimney's idea, it's definitely Obamas fault
Gloomy_Shallot7521@reddit
I wish I was close to retirement; I've got a good twenty years to go and that is if I am lucky and my retirement accounts still exist when I get to that age.
dijinn72@reddit
Employer is not supposed to ask for a birthdate up front. How do they know how old you are without hiring you first?
TheJokersChild@reddit
Eucation. They ask when you graduated college (and ften assume you went to one).
dijinn72@reddit
I used to list the year I graduated on my resume. I removed it now, I just list the university and degree. If that question appeared in an application form, I would fat-finger it.
nectarinetree@reddit
It will be a required field. You would wind up not being able to submit the application if you don't give them a year.
gbuildingallstarz@reddit
But you baby vibe code in .py
Spongebob_Tightpants@reddit
We need universal healthcare now more than ever. 😞
WhenVioletsTurnGrey@reddit
That's only the beginning. I had to fight for a position, then was hazed. No one would teach me anything, while younger, inexperienced employees. All while I got the best reviews& raises they said no one gets.
I've always been a desired employee. I've always been the one who they want to move up the ladder. I took 3 years off to run my own business. Came back to the workforce & obviously aged out.
The funny thing is that those 3 years made me a better employee, with more drive & a much better attitude.
SageCactus@reddit
But...if they fire you, don't they have to give you COBRA...so they aren't saving for 18 months. Or do small companies get out of that?
And before anyone comments, I thought the COBRA "price" was generic, not, Jimmy gets 20k, but Mary gets 30k.
TheJokersChild@reddit
Offer it, yes. But taking it is the hard part because now you're paying full "retail" for your plan rather than having it subsidized through your employer.
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
I just went on COBRA. I’m sure this is intended to get people off. The company says I don't have coverage if a doctor's office checks. The doctor’s office and I have to call for every appointment.
SageCactus@reddit
That's weird. I'm planning to go on COBRA in March and know from other ex-employees that that is not the case where I am.
But... I imagine there will be some level of pain involved. I just don't know where, yet
NoRestForTheWitty@reddit
Yeah, I’ve also been on COBRA before and this was a new one for me.
Temporary_Client7585@reddit
On COBRA you pay the entirety of the monthly premium and the company doesn’t contribute any funds. So you’re on the hook for all the plan fees. It’s expensive. It’s better to negotiate the company paying for your health insurance for 3-6 months as part of the separation agreement.
SageCactus@reddit
But if Jimmy is 60 and his health insurance to the company is 3k a month, and Mary is 20 and her health insurance to the company is 1k a month, and COBRA is a set price for everyone, does this mean that if Mary quits it's so expensive that she'll pass, but Jimmy would say, "not so bad"?
I-Way_Vagabond@reddit
Insurance is set annually and they look at the census of the entire company. But once it is set it is the same price for everyone. Now the rates are different to employee, employee and spouse, and family. But the age doesn’t factor in at that point.
SageCactus@reddit
Yes, so this is what I don't understand. If the COBRA rates are the same, but folks here say the costs for employees are based on age (and other factors), then the COBRA rates must be higher than the company insurance rates for a young employee, yes?
PensionAnswers@reddit
The costs are based on age, but it's the average age of the employees. Everyone gets charged the same rate.
Temporary_Client7585@reddit
It really depends on which type of plan was selected by the person during the company’s open enrollment period. If Jimmy selected a gold+ plan and Mary’s plan is a lower premium high deductible the costs are going to be very different.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
I negotiated that my former employer pay COBRA for 3 months/through the end of the year when I got laid off. It's $750/month for BCBS. They didn't fight me on it.
TonyBrooks40@reddit
I kinda knew this tbh.
Fine_Worldliness3898@reddit
Indeed….set me back from IT to the profession I had in 1997…..gave up on IT after 23 years
LetsBNiceYall@reddit
It's interesting, I'm healthier at 60 than my younger coworkers. It's lifestyle or in one case genetics.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
"Not tech native enough." It's the older software people who can dig down into the bones of the software to find the problems because they know how to build source code from nothing. The new graduates don't learn this and wouldn't know a compiler if it hit them in the head.
TheJokersChild@reddit
The new grads are too into "vibe coding" to actually make software that actually works.
Interesting_Sign_373@reddit
I was recently job searching. I'm pretty sure everything was AI gibberish made solely of random key words. No salary range. No real job description. Some were tagged as remote and were not. I'm over this nonsense but I need to work. Found a job an hour away. Those 3 years i worked within 20 minutes of my job were great and now it's back to commuting.
TheJokersChild@reddit
That's becoming illegal in more and more states. Thanks, Colorado!
typeyou@reddit
Um.. Did they have learn dos on their own? I didnt think so.
MissDisplaced@reddit
This is precisely why healthcare needs to be separated from employment!
The government wants us to work until age 67 but it costs employers too much to hire older workers, thus forcing many people to take Social Security early.
You’d think big business would get behind supporting a separation of healthcare from employment as it’s less for them to deal with. But they’re not.
Optimal_Platform_215@reddit
Regarding large employers who self-insure employee healthcare, they seem to purge folks over fiftyish if they start to see big health care claims. It doesn’t make sense to keep the seniors if they will suddenly cost hundreds of thousands as compared to a younger person without major health issues.
friendlypeopleperson@reddit
“We cost our employers too much in health insurance premiums.” This really upsets me. I’ve paid my share of insurance premiums over the past 3 or 4 decades. I’m a very healthy person and so is my husband. (Thankful for all our blessings.) We have never really had any health problems or expenses.
But now that we (all of us collectively speaking) are getting a little older, we are being “punished” from many multiple directions. I used to pay lots of money in insurance premiums when I was young and healthy and was told that I had to because that money is used to pay for older people who needed more care. (Paying for it felt like I was being used back then.) Now that I’m older, I’m getting charged triple what younger people are? Why aren’t the younger people’s premiums paying for us GenXers now?!? We are getting screwed again.
I know. I really do understand the situation much more in depth. I just wanted to complain a little about insurance coverage expenses, too. I feel better now that I let out that little rant. NOT.
Witty-Transition-524@reddit
It feels like we were the last to have working, mechanical minded, diy, Mr fix it, ain't no thing as planned obsolescence, "hands" too.
shadylady_beepboop@reddit
That and they want employees to use their own social media and LinkedIn to advertise for their employers and network. Free labor imo.
OurSpeciesAreFeces@reddit
That's why the university I work at has been offering early retirement and implementing perks designed to attract younger workers such as parental leave.
Top-Nose2659@reddit
Meanwhile, in New Jersey you can take 3 months off for paternity leave now.... When my daughter was born on a Thursday night in 2000, I took Friday off and went back to work Monday....
ThirstyWolfSpider@reddit
I'm "tech native enough" that my initial patents expired years ago, but whatever.
BoomeramaMama@reddit
Ageism is nothing new.
Many people 50 years old and up, who lost their jobs/careers to George W. Bush’s Great Recession faced long term unemployment & were never again able to find a job paying anything close to the job they’d lost to W’s Great Recession.
Many went from solid middle income to low income & never recovered financially.
kcjonezz@reddit
rm -rf
kwill729@reddit
“Not tech native enough” is hilariously stupid and untrue. We were the pioneers who got us to where we are now.
KetoLurkerHereAgain@reddit
Must be able to lift 50 pounds
Another way to try and weed out people who might actually use that health insurance. Normal for manual jobs, but for sitting in front of a computer? I think not.
ObligationNervous157@reddit
I sometimes ‘help’ with writing job descriptions and I always edit that “must be able to lift 50 lbs” bit out and make someone justify putting it back in. I’m almost 60 and 50 pounds is nothing for me but including it is a crock unless the job is loading trucks or similar.
awkwardpotluck@reddit
Do they try to justify it for desk jobs? I would love to hear that one.
tinlizzy2@reddit
A ream of paper is about 50 lbs, and the UPS driver brings in 4 reams at a time, and someone needs to put them in the storeroom.
KetoLurkerHereAgain@reddit
Or, you can open the box/case of paper and carry it to where it needs to be ream by ream.
tinlizzy2@reddit
I know. I was just spitballing why a desk job description would justify requiring the ability to lift 50 lbs, if not ageism.
LondonIsMyHeart@reddit
A ream of paper is 500 sheets, so one package. Do you mean a crate of paper, a whole box full of reams?
Kaa_The_Snake@reddit
Reams upon reams. It’s reams all the way down.
Yeah I’d think a boxfull would be rather heavy.
awkwardpotluck@reddit
It’s definitely heavy, but that’s what hand trucks are for.
tinlizzy2@reddit
Yes, a carton of reams of paper! That's what I meant.
ObligationNervous157@reddit
Often they don’t justify it- someone added it years ago and no one questioned it. So now it lives on for no reason If I take it out no one puts it back.
awkwardpotluck@reddit
That seems like something made up to discourage women from applying. Fuck they.
Kaa_The_Snake@reddit
lol I’m a 53 yr old woman and if they put that in there I’d challenge anyone who wants to interview me to also be able to lift 50 lbs. Buncha bs is what it is.
Pigeonofthesea8@reddit
50 lbs isn’t that bad though, I bet you could do it
linniex@reddit
Not for nothing but I’ll know it’s time for me (54F) to retire when I can’t put my 40-50lb carry on in the overhead compartment of a plane on my own. I travel A LOT for work and that is my benchmark.
Commercial_Wind8212@reddit
Honest to god who can't lift 50 pounds?
JennJoy77@reddit
I weigh 95 pounds and I'm not confidentI could lift more than half my weight...
Commercial_Wind8212@reddit
get a job modeling clothes and looking pretty then. seriously I doubt if they will test you and at work you can use carts to move things
Working-Lemon1645@reddit
Yes! My sister is disabled and wanted to join me and teach public school in my current state, but I realized that I hadn't seen a single disabled teacher since leaving California. Then I checked my contract, and it said I needed to be able to lift that fifty pounds as a high school teacher. That clause didn't come out until the teacher shortage got bad enough in 2015 or so.
Old_fart5070@reddit
The implementers of the Internet are not technical native, got it tech bro.
-brigidsbookofkells@reddit
Actually the studies show that employees who are “weekend warriors” and engage in risky sports incur far more insurance costs than older people. I did work for one company that was contemplating private insurance in which the expense increased as you aged. It was a startup that had been acquired and I was in the older percentage of employee population, but ran half marathons as opposed to my very sedentary younger coworkers. Employers need to be reminded that millennials and Gen Z grew up when afterschool play was gaming or being on their phone, rather than running around outside. I am in a woman’s running club and the average age is late 40s/early 50s as we just don’t attract younger women
Rare_Cauliflower_330@reddit
My husband (a fellow Gen X) helped me homeschool our kids (Gen Z). We made sure they knew how to take apart their computers and write code. Now all their friends go to them whenever said friend has a tech problem. My daughter has brought home three laptops and four DSes to fix. I am so proud of them - carrying on the Gen X tradition!
SheriffBartholomew@reddit
WTF? Who would think this? We're literally the most tech savvy generation alive. We gree up with tech when you actually had to understand it to use it. Younger generations don't know how anything works. They barely use computers, they rely on AI for all of their information, and software & hardware is all created to cater to the stupidest people nowadays. We're the only generation who actually understands things, values history, standards, and protocols, and has evolved along with the tech. I've forgotten more about tech than my young coworkers will ever know.
Blrfl@reddit
We had the luxury of doing that as it happened instead of being forced to drink from the fire hose, which is what we've done to the younger set. I say we because it's the older generations, which now includes us, writing job descriptions that expect far more from fresh grads than we were ever expected to know. Meanwhile, how long are typical BSCS programs? The same four years they were when I got my degree 35 years ago. What we seem to be telling young engineers is "learn harder," and we sound like a bunch of boomers doing it.
The industry has largely dropped any pretense of wanting to invest in developing young talent and does very little in the way of long-term retention of those they hire. It might be nontechnical bean counters making those decisions, but it's still our generation doing it.
We've also been very slow to acknowledge that the full set of knowledge in our field has expanded enough that it can't all be kept in one head in any useful way. I don't look down my nose at people who didn't walk to school in the snow uphill both ways like I did. People developing databases for insurance companies have their own problems to solve and don't really need to know the gory details of how device drivers or compilers work. I've got at least one of each to my name and that knowledge is rarely helpful in the work I'm doing today. It's nice to know, but when I have a problem with the Kubernetes cluster that's running what I develop, I call the guy who understands it to fix it. He'll get it done a lot faster than I would and I can concentrate on what's on my plate.
Screwsrloose1969@reddit
I noticed a marked decrease in job opportunities when I hit 40… 16 years ago.
sunqueen73@reddit
I was backing up my old company's network on TAPES and taking those cassettes home as insurance in case of network failure every night.
These fuckin young ppl think they invented computers and the internet.
The insurance thing has pissed me off for the day
Iwonatoasteroven@reddit
As an older worker it’s really important to counter the stereotypes about older workers being less tech savvy. Many of us have been using the Internet since its inception. As we get older it’s time to limit the number of positions we include on our resume, remove the dates for the years we graduated and ensure that the email address we’re using isn’t from a provider that’s well past its prime. I would discourage using and aol.com, hotmail.com or yahoo.com. These domains just seem dated to me. I’ve also used AI to reformat my resume and was happy with the results.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
A lot of wisdom being lost by not hiring us. My spouse works in industry and says there’s a lot of millennial managers in their 30s and 40s who don’t understand how to lead and develop business because they job hopped several times in their 20’s AND there’s no one older around to show them or teach them because they were all let go.
Rowan6547@reddit
My friend is 50 and unexpectedly laid off. She's applying for a state job as an administrative assistant that has unexpected age related road blocks.
The application required submitting ancolleg transcript, but the step to get one only applied to a younger generation - it was harder, cost money, and took longer for her to get hers. She ended up not completing the application because it also needed her number of credits from high school. Why? Who remembers that from 30 years ago?
fpnewsandpromos@reddit
Employer based health insurance has been one driver of ageism for decades. A young staff is much cheaper health insurance wise for smaller employers. Just another reason health insurance should have nothing to do with employment.
toooldforlove@reddit
I'm not usually petty and vengeful (I try not to be anyway) but they will have their time. As more new tech and advanced software comes into the scene, the millennials will be treated like that one day by Gen Z (if not already) and then Gen Z will treated that way Gen Alpha, etc... etc.. I try to take some comfort in that.
austin06@reddit
Just one more reason - not- to have healthcare tied to a job. Makes absolutely zero sense.
buckbuckmow@reddit
As a former small important in biotech, it was about healthcare. 100%.
Few_Sky_8152@reddit
I'm Gen X here, retired early from a grueling b* job. Started my own business, hired three young appeared to be eager employees. Nothing but drama, and very little work. Got rid of them and hired three GenX, No drama, No whining and crying, no excuses and wish I'd done this sooner.
andrewdiane66@reddit
Well defrag my hard drive and call me tech support...
GarthRanzz@reddit
“Not tech native enough”? WTF? We invented the tech. We are tech support for our families; parents and children. All the best tech people I’ve worked with for the last 30 years are all Gen X.
I’m sorry you have to be out in this job market. I know it isn’t good. But that “CPO” needs to be right behind you looking for work.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
Thank you. She was cool actually. She provided helpful insights and advice. The company she works for is in a domain adjacent to mine so what she was saying was relevant and useful.
One of the points she made was about salary. To your point regarding our collective levels of experience, we're expensive. She also said it's a real fear among hiring managers and HR that someone with our level of experience would take a pay cut just to keep working...until they find something better. As I said in another reply, fuck full-time corporate culture. They demand loyalty with nothing in return.
213737isPrime@reddit
I guess if there's something better available then HR should be paying more for the role in order to stay competitive?
trycuriouscat@reddit
Did we invent tech, or did we just grow up with it? I work on mainframes, and they were invented a few years before I was born. I learned programming starting in sixth grade, using of course computers of the day. So let's be honest, Boomers, or even Silent Generation, "invented tech", as it were. Of course from 90s on is mostly Gen X, so I suppose that's what you are talking about.
IamZebos@reddit
This is why relying on your employer for healthcare is flawed. Your well being can’t compete against a company’s bottom line.
susiequeue13@reddit
Sure, I’m closer to retirement, but I’m not looking for “the next opportunity” like, oh, a dozen younger peers have on their way out the door during my tenure.
lostmindz@reddit
Yes, now health insurance companies can only rate (charge different premiums) for tobacco use and age
powderline@reddit
Ageism is for sure a thing…. I’ve watched two buddies go through it. One is retired now and just focusing on his music, and the other is going through it right now. I have experienced it as well until I finally decided to leave tech for good.
Cleanslate2@reddit
That’s not new. I heard that before. In 2011 during the last recession. I had been laid off repeatedly since fall of 2008. I ended up with a temp firm for a year. I asked them why I kept not being hired after successfully interviewing over and over. I was 53. The temp firm owner told me that companies were afraid that if Obama were elected again, the health insurance would be too expensive because of insurance for older people. Ageism again. I have definitely heard this before.
zeusmom1031@reddit
Welcome to Boomersville.
FrostnJack@reddit
Well, fuck. Every damned day it's another horror show. I wish I'd have bought a sprinter van back when we had jobs and incomes. We wouldn't worry about being homeless come January. FML
If the Boomers ran out of ways to screw us, their Millennial kids are hell bent on "hold my beer" see how to take it to an 11 in ways to kick us harder. #enoughalready
AdmirableWrangler199@reddit
Millennials did not have a hand in this. Maybe you mean Gen X.
PoisonMind@reddit
Too close to retirement? I wish. The youngest of us are only 44. That's a long way from retirement.
lacetat@reddit
This just makes me more angry at my skip level. All this stonewalling and gaslighting, making me wonder if it was me, my abilities, or some other mysterious lack within myself.
I only got this, my first "real," and not alternative lifestyle, job at the point most folks consider retiring. I've had to fight through a lot of self doubt and separate the "me" issues from the "them" issues.
(Most of my work is remote across a large firm. My title was on par with the kids coming out of college. So when my work product was at a much higher level than a true new hire, I basked in the kudos. But also felt like I was cat fishing them. Once my title matched my experience, the random emails filled with glorious praise stopped.)
RaspberryVespa@reddit
😑
This is all I’ve got. A fucking emoji. Tired of everything being so fucked, all the time, for everyone.
😑
jenn1d@reddit
Thank you for posting this. My hubby is in the tech field in his early 50 and type 2 diabetic. He still has his job but was let known he will be laid off in the near future. He has been applying to other jobs and quite a few ask if there’s any disabilities and enlisted on the checklist is diabetes. He maintains his diabetes and not any issues while working. It’s crazy if they consider diabetes as a disability then can he claim his disable????
sethasaurus666@reddit
The tech natives of old know the truth.
We were there when the ZX80 crawled out of the primordial soup. The punched card machines stood as motionless sentinels as we forged silicon dies to create the new1kB RAM chips.
People were disseminating code via printed page, and later, we carried it on sleek black disks, spreading the binary viruses far and wide.
Once the telephone lines were pressed into service, the BBSes appeared, and eventually we graduated to the internet.
The abomination we have today is the product of managers and capitalists.
ImOnPlutoWhereAreYou@reddit
Nothing new got a BS in Management in "92
CoconutMacaron@reddit
I keep reading stories about Gen Z having no clue how to operate computers. How are they getting hired?
MundaneHuckleberry58@reddit
Great I’ll just become un-disabled. Yknow, the accident that forever derailed my earnings trajectory in the first place, that has meant I’ve never clawed my way back to what I’d otherwise have been worth.
Difficult-Ad4364@reddit
Another joy of being American. My guess is that’s not a problem in most of Europe?
LectureBasic6828@reddit
Ageism is still a problem, just not for health insurance reasons. Younger employees are thought to be cheaper, more energetic, and will work longer hours. Whether this is true is very questionable.
tommymat@reddit
Health insurance premiums are the real problem. My employer is paying a ton to insure people and when pressed on the rise in costs, “it is what is.”
As a GenXer to the core I respect the blow off but these prices are crazy for routine health checks.
LectureBasic6828@reddit
In countries where health insurance isn't the issue, ageism when seeking work is still a major problem. Employers think younger people will cost less, be more energetic, and work longer hours.
Over_Razzmatazz_23@reddit
Imagine being in your prime with a fresh degree and on equal footing as you, can't find a job to hire you either.
It's hard for everyone right now. At least when the going is good it evens out for older generations.
CompetitiveSale7198@reddit
Major, major, major issue. As someone that has been the person trying to mitigate 29% annual increases from UNH and found no one else even willing to submit a bid on our plan, it’s more than just a few more dollars to the employee.
Your employee census, especially for a small business can be everything. And every year, we get older as a group. Sometimes the only way reverse that process is when you hire, hire young. I can’t imagine (though I’m sure it happens) people are letting people go because of this solely, but when someone leaves or retires, getting younger for the insurance census is definitely an opportunity for management.
Formal_Plum_2285@reddit
This is really not true. I live in a “totally free healthcare” country where companies are reimbursed when employees are sick. Yet it’s so hard for people +50 to get jobs when they are unemployed. I have a 58 year old friend who’ve applied for several hundred jobs and she get’s an interview here and there, but mostly she gets no response even though she fits the job prescription perfectly.
Elses_pels@reddit
I am 60 and had too many careers detours. I’ve given up trying and carrers can fuck off. I decided that I will look for dead end jobs and document it and if I don’t get them just get unemployment and not feel bad about it. Just as I was ready to put my feet up and not care about anything I got a retail job with a nice crew. Happy out here. I do my job well and have a chat with customers. Ageism is real but you can downsize to a shitty job and is quite an eye opener :)
jtrades69@reddit
i'm not sure. i think the cutoff is 35 regardless. i was early 40s (10 yrs ago) looking for something less stressful / more rewarding / better paying and getting the brush-off
Pigeonofthesea8@reddit
I agree, 35 is about it
Puzzlehead536@reddit
That is why I am currently stuck in retail. Ageism is definitely a real issue.
YouMustBeJoking888@reddit
It depends on which country you're in. Ageism is a thing outside of the States, in countries where there is universal healthcare, so there's more to it.
Also, Chief People Officer....
Picmover@reddit
Last year a friend of mine was let go by a giant music streaming service he'd worked for for over 20 years. On the record they said it was cutbacks. Off the record they said he was too old. He was 52 or 53 at that time.
I always believed the streaming service thought he was too old when it came to music and new trends. The reason you describe here though, makes a lot of sense.
Impressive-Health670@reddit
I work in this space and I’m not sure the person who said that knows what they are talking about.
It would be a bigger concern for companies that self insure, but those are already giant organizations. If a smaller company is concerned about hiring an older worker because of health insurance premiums they don’t actually understand the economics of it that well. It’s not a significant enough cost to justify not considering a candidate that may be the best fit for the role.
YellowBeaverFever@reddit
Heh, the technical bit got me. Laughed so hard I threw out my back.
captcha_fail@reddit
Just got hired by a smallish but growing company. It was never spelled out to me but because of simple logic I'm guessing I had a leg up on competitors because I don't have children and they can likely guess it won't change (it won't- it's never been a goal for me) . I'm almost 50.
That said, we just had an open enrollment meeting and our advisor told us our company offers better insurance than he himself has. If I get to year 5, this company will cover me with $0 from my paycheck as a loyalty incentive. Free insurance on my first day of year 5.
Triviajunkie95@reddit
Jealous. The last time I had that benefit was 1999. Seriously. It lasted about 2 years before we had to start paying maybe $20/week.
GArockcrawler@reddit (OP)
The CPO did say that some orgs are making it a differentiator to hire top talent by providing great benefits like this. They're just harder to find/not incentivized because it's an employer's market at the moment.
Still. Congrats on the job! may you have happiness and success there!
puzzleheaded_Homie@reddit
I rolled up my severance from a tech firm where I was caught in a layoff wave, and left my role I had obtained in the meantime as an operations asset in professional services, and started my own 1-person firm about 5 years ago now. I'm mortified at the idea of this ever failing and having to go hit the job market again, the freedom now is better than any salary I could have ever been making in the large corporate environments.
I hope you nail something down that makes you happy.
mtcwby@reddit
Back in 2000 I had a guy in his 60s working for me and the company part of health insurance for him was about $1600 a month. The 25 year old shipping guy was $350 for the same coverage.
prancing_moose@reddit
“Not tech native enough?”
We invented this cloud shit you take for granted today!
bradmajors69@reddit
Yet another reason we should all have universal healthcare.
Fr00tman@reddit
It’s so funny they call us “not tech native.” We grew up with the evolving world of computing, had to learn each generation of systems - and the earlier stuff we had to understand the underlying logic of the systems. I constantly find myself amazed at how tech illiterate many gen z kids are bc they grew up w idiot-proofed stuff and all sorts of proprietary sandboxed apps and don’t intuitively see the logic of the systems underneath and generalize between systems.
Plus, accumulated knowledge and wisdom is valuable. Ask Boeing :)
YourGuyK@reddit
The reason they don't want to hire older people it's you expect a salary that matches your experience. They aren't worried about you retiring. They generally don't try to retain employees, and don't expect more than 5 years from anyone anyway.
Tangelo-Agitated@reddit
In "socialist" Canada we have no such concern.
Oxjrnine@reddit
I don’t cost my company anything
micande@reddit
And yet when I was in my early 30s, the president of my small family-owned company called me out explicitly in an all-hands meeting about rising health insurance costs because I had a baby the previous year. We just can’t win, can we?
Playful_Fall_7230@reddit
That’s why we are ‘more expensive’ than younger people. It’s not just salary.
Small_Dog_8699@reddit
For me, it is just salary
mvcjones@reddit
Hmmm. All of those perceptions exist, and they stink.