Weird question
Posted by Frequent-Usual5697@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 44 comments
Have you ever felt nostalgia for someplace you’ve never been?
Posted by Frequent-Usual5697@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 44 comments
Have you ever felt nostalgia for someplace you’ve never been?
Sleptwrong65@reddit
Whenever I see documentaries of England with landscape, Hadrianian’s Wall, sheep roaming around, I become homesick. I’ve never been there. I’m an 8th/9th generation American with Dutch and English ancestry but my closest English ancestors were the middle 1700s. When I see English countryside primarily I get that feeling and I’ve even cried. I don’t understand why.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
My grandparents were first generation emigrants from England and Scotland. I love history so these are places that I have that feeling for as well.
Wooden-Glove-2384@reddit
I don't have nostalgia for places I have been, so no
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
Not even wistfulness?
Wooden-Glove-2384@reddit
Nope.
I avoid those feelings completely
It takes away from now and now is all that exists
Historical_Pin2806@reddit
From watching a lot of US television shows growing up, I'm nostalgic for 70s/80s era New York and LA.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
I’m from the US and I have this for many places around the world.
WingZombie@reddit
There is a Welsh word, hiraeth. It's basically a wistfulness or longing for a place/time you've never experienced.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
Thank you! I love this answer and I’m intrigued by Wales.
kat2211@reddit
England - London in particular. I can just feel myself walking down the streets there; sometimes it's almost like an ache I want to "go back" so badly.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
That’s a big one for me! Would love to go there.
Comedywriter1@reddit
You should definitely come. I live in England now (am from the States) and it’s pretty fun. Kinda like a weird parallel universe. 😂
Love London. I haven’t been there for several months but used to be a semi regular at the British Film Institute.
Comedywriter1@reddit
Manteo, North Carolina
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
I’ve been to the Outer Banks several times and always wanted to go there and Roanoke Island. Husband not so much
LollipopGirl923@reddit
For me, it's always been Oregon. It's just so breathtakingly beautiful. 😊
Comedywriter1@reddit
Same. I used to freelance for a company based there and the photos the manager emailed me were stunning.
Have you seen Old Joy?
LollipopGirl923@reddit
No, I don't believe I have. I'm sure it's beautiful ❤️
omibus@reddit
The Nordic countries. I see the towns, the mountains, the fjords…I want to be there.
GoldenAgeGamer72@reddit
Weird answer: Not only have I had nostalgia for somewhere I've never been but the place also doesn't actually exist.
These-Educator-1959@reddit
Although I’ve been to Las Vegas (the first time was about 1989) I feel nostalgia for old Vegas. I used to watch shows, both TV and movies, of Vegas in the 50’s-early 70’s long before I ever went or even was born. But I feel like I “miss the days” when people got dressed up and they rubbed elbows with the Rat Pack at the Desert Inn.
Dont_Care_Meh@reddit
The World Trade Center.
I grew up about 90 miles out of NYC, so we'd go to the City from time to time. Never made it to the Twin Towers in our visits.
I can even see, say, an old Barney Miller episode that has them in the skyline and the regret fills me. It's not a matter of "someday" like lots of regrets can be attenuated or deferred. I know it's never.
MyriVerse2@reddit
Yes, and here's a weird example:
In New Orleans, back in the 1970s, there was a restaurant with a notorious menu that included exotic wild game... including tiger and elephant. As a kid, I always wanted to go just to try it. But it closed when I was too young to afford it. I'm still nostalgic.
RedditWidow@reddit
Boston, but I think that's mostly because of all the time I spent playing Fallout 4
JLammert79@reddit
High schools in movies. I was homeschooled, I only showed up 10 days a year for tests or to pick up friends after i graduated at 14. The schools and cliques are things I viewed from the outside.
NGJohn@reddit
More like a longing to visit, but I've wanted to see the Scottish highlands and countryside for almost 50 years.
SubatomicGoblin@reddit
New York. I love movies and television shows set in gritty 70's Gotham.
Unlucky_Profit_776@reddit
NY er here, there was nothing like NY in the 80s and 90s
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
New York City for me. I’ve been to New York and loved it but never at the holidays.
Advanced_Nose_7738@reddit
I hear that. LA for me. Being a Midwest kid, LA was this fantasy place where there's no winter.
Unlucky_Profit_776@reddit
Yeah, England, since 1983
hunterglyph@reddit
Iceland. Somewhere in the back of my mind I’ve seen the northern lights and spent way too much on food since I don’t eat fish.
lawstandaloan@reddit
I wish I had been able to have lunch at the Automat. When I see it now I old movies, it makes me a little sad.
MaximumJones@reddit
Stonehenge. Apparently my ancestors used to sacrifice people there. 😎
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
Lol
IngvaldClash@reddit
MaximumJones@reddit
IngvaldClash@reddit
18”
Anathama@reddit
All the time. It feels like a memory for something an alternate dimension version of me experienced.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
This is a perfect description
stormyanchor@reddit
I’m re-reading my favorite book from childhood as we speak. It’s Julie of the Wolves, set in the Arctic Circle. I’ve never been farther north than Ohio.
So yes. Absolutely.
Frequent-Usual5697@reddit (OP)
I’m not familiar with that one but I’m going to look it up.
warrenfgerald@reddit
I still have a dream of living in a tiny mountain village where the Sound of Music was filmed.
daydreamersunion@reddit
Terabithia. Maybe one day I will find that darn bridge
SamWhittemore75@reddit
Where is that confounded bridge?!