Did teen hangouts ever actually exist like they do in movies and TV shows?
Posted by Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 697 comments
A lot of movies and TV shows that were produced from the mid 80s to the mid 90s often show these hangout spots that specifically cater to the teenage demographic. I don't mean places where teenagers just happen to congregate. I mean the full blown diners that seemingly no adults are ever at but are always full of teenagers. Meant specifically for teenagers to hang out at as if they were adults on their own. I think the most well known example of this is The Max from Saved By The Bell. But they seem pretty commonplace in a lot of different movies and TV shows.
I'm an older millennial that came of age in the late 90s and early 2000s, and they definitely didn't exist for us at that point in the way you see them portrayed in a lot of movies and TV shows from the generation prior. And by the late 90s they weren't really a thing in movies and TV shows either.
Did these places ever actually exist? Or were they just idealized versions of what every teenager wanted that television and movie producers knew would grab their attention?
Disastrous-Corner-17@reddit
We had a Pizza Hut a roller rink we all hung at that were next to each other. Dropped off with $20 picked up by 9.
SeatSix@reddit
Rarely specifically for teens, but there were places we congregated. In general owners tolerated at best, but they b all wished we would leave.
We were loud and didn't spend much money. Drove other customers away.
As a older person now, if I have a choice, I'll go to a store not full of teens versus one that is
Suitable-Peanut@reddit
When I was about 15 to 18 me and a bunch of friends worked at a movie theater that was right next to a yogurt shop that had a pool table in the back that another couple of our friends worked at.
So between those two spots it was definitely a teen takeover. Those were some of the best times of my life! Especially when I started dating the girl from the yogurt shop đ
longbreaddinosaur@reddit
I worked at a 6 screen United Artist theater that was at a mall but not directly connected. What an absolutely amazing and degenerate time. It was small unlike todayâs theaters, so very tight knit and we were all young. We would stay late, watch movies, and get high.
The release of How High was epic.
Ok-Pin6704@reddit
I worked at a 6 screen UA theater also. I have the best stories and memories from those years. It was the absolute best job for high school/college. Lots of shenanigans after hours screening movies and doing not so legal things in the parking lot and projection boothâŚ. There were days that sucked, but itâs the only job that I miss- mostly because of the people that I worked with and how much fun we had.
caddy45@reddit
Iâll jump in, I worked at a rural 4 screen and it was so much fun. We were the social check in spot if you needed to know where everyone was so people were always stopping by between movies to see where the party was.
It was hands down the most enjoyable job I ever had. Iâm still friends with most of the people I worked with and we had always talked about how when we made enough money we would move back home and buy the theater to give us something to do on the weekends.
It was wild. So glad we didnât have security cameras.
DistributionSuch1544@reddit
In the 80s, I knew a guy, we called him âRatâ he worked at the movie theater across from Perryâs Pizza. He really liked this girl named Stacy who worked there. She got in to some trouble later on. Those were some fast times.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
Was it a TCBY?
Suitable-Peanut@reddit
Nah it was a standalone shop in my little town
carlitospig@reddit
Omg I forgot about frozen yogurt. And I worked at a shop! lol, we also made these killer espresso smoothy things. Iâm surprised I slept at all that year.
BananaPants430@reddit
During the late 90s, the 8 screen movie theater and the adjacent Baskin-Robbins and Mexican restaurant were the domain of teens on Friday and Saturday nights. It was basically the place to go if you wanted to hang out with friends without driving a half hour to the mall.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That sounds pretty cool.
Acceptable_Bat379@reddit
In my home town this happened but it wasn't permanent. One place would become the teen hangout for a few months. Then adults or someone would find it and start hassling teens or send the cops to bother us and the teens would just find a new spot. Or something new would open up and we'd just migrate over for another few months.
OKAY-Pr0ceedure@reddit
I just heard this sentence in the voice of Miley Cyrus on Saturday Night Live
MmmmmnBrittyKooouL!
Mockingbird819@reddit
Video game arcades. Those places were pretty void of adult presence
Ok_Recognition_8839@reddit
In the early 90's the owner of a local country bar started having teen nights twice a week. Same setup,soda only bar,pizza oven and the stage/PA was open to anyone. There would be a couple hundred kids there every night. Pretty fun.
Now in the 70's my primary school bus stop was a Dairy Queen in Marathon Florida.Very small community back then and the schools were all within walking distance so after school the entire DQ property was purely kids from age 5-18, even working the counter. As close to what you are describing as I've seen.
HotgunColdheart@reddit
Bowling alley in my cousins town, it was a heap of teen goodness. Played so much air hockey and random arcade games. Plus plenty of bowling and $10 went really far! Food and gaming were both way cheap.
tootiessage77@reddit
McDonalds parking lot đ
jtrades69@reddit
++genx we used to hang out at perkins or hardees, super late, no one else there. some nights (fridays maybe?) there would be older people there too. depends on the restaurant / city
omnixe-13c@reddit
Sort of? It was definitely informal but ya, there were nights that a Dennyâs or the parking lot of a specific place were taken over my teenagers.
Someone else mentioned it and I just remembered teen clubs! What idiocracy. I was 21 & once with my friends who were 20. There were so many underage kids pretending to be on drugs. Hilarious.
Top-Opportunity1280@reddit
I graduated from HS in 1975. We had a pool/foosball place that people frequented to socialize, score some weed, find out where the party was. It was exactly like the one in Dazed and Confused. It was called Rock A Rolla
Top-Opportunity1280@reddit
I guess Iâm a boomer but still young at heart. When I turned 18 in â75 the drinking age changed from 21 to 18. That same year they stopped the draft for the Vietnam War. So I had a lot to celebrate.
nerdorama@reddit
Not for me.
anotherpredditor@reddit
Denny's. You could smoke and sit with a single cup of coffee all afternoon with friends. Also the various skate shops would always have a large group just hanging around.
S_A_R_K@reddit
You could also go there at 4am when you started to come down from the 2 tabs of mad hatter you dropped and order a carafe of orange juice
JuicyCactus85@reddit
And then everyone would dine and dash and you bet my ass was the fastest once I saw two people get methodically get up.
And lol on the orange juice enhancing the tripÂ
Futant55@reddit
Why did we think orange juice enhanced the trip.
carlitospig@reddit
Were you in CA? I literally just shared the same memory. Maybe that OK story was just Big OJ tryna make a buck.
It worked.
Futant55@reddit
No, Texas. It must have gotten around
carlitospig@reddit
Man, we were gullible. But at least we didnât have scurvy? Lol
S_A_R_K@reddit
Because we were tripping our balls off
stevendub86@reddit
Legit have no idea what that is. Acid?
S_A_R_K@reddit
Yes
carlitospig@reddit
What were the tiny blue ones? They were at a beastie boys concert and dear god I was melting like at least 14 hours.
Lupiefighter@reddit
I was the Diner DD for those kind of trips. You know, the one that was too âgood girlâ to partake in any chemical enhancements, but I was still high on life with yaâll in the moment (even if it turned into babysitting once or twice, lol).
supergooduser@reddit
Yeah I'm thinking about the question and the biggest limiting factor was not having money. Mostly it was driving around or hanging out at the mall/friends houses.
We'd get kids meals at fast food places, or the unlimited cup of coffee was another. There was a $1 matinee theater near me that we'd go to just to be jackasses.
Every_Instruction775@reddit
I had multiple jobs so I had some money to spend especially once I could drive myself. Saved every last penny to buy POS first car but it was totally worth it and gas was less than $1/gallon then.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
Sigh... my parents gave me a Ford focus. Nothing special but reliable. 5 bucks would get my like half a tank and would last me for the week.Â
Every_Instruction775@reddit
I never appreciated the savings bonds my grandparents gave me as gifts growing up until it was time to buy a car. Those plus every cent I had out in my âpassbook junior savings accountâ was just enough to get a car that got me safely from point A to point B. Nothing flashy but I was happy to have the freedom especially since I grew up in the boonies so no public transportation and nothing was even really within walking distance.
Ok-Potato-4774@reddit
I miss $1 theaters that showed older movies, often in a double feature you could just pay for once and watch until closing. I miss discount theaters in general. Around the early '90s we had one in our area that we went to at least once a month. We saw tons of movies for cheap.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
We had where I went to uni. It was like 3 bucks and it was the stuff from like 3 months ago, but this was before there was constant media all the time spoiling everything.Â
Ok-Potato-4774@reddit
There's too much choice now. If I don't have a specific movie or show in mind to watch when I turn my TV on, I end up mindlessly watching YouTube.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
Yeah, my teen self would be appalled that I'm on my phone constantly with YT or tv in the background and barely paying attention to what I'm watching.
LazarusDark@reddit
To a degree, it might have been legit for teens in LA where many shows were written, teens that had nice allowances from rich parents. Then again, once I got a part time job, as long as you don't have to pay for a car or insurance, it didn't take much to have decent spending money in the 90s. I worked Saturday for ten hours at like 5.25 an hour at a dry cleaners. I don't remember exactly why, but I didn't have to pay all the ss or tax or something (it was a small business, maybe they were doing something illegal, lol, who knows), so I made like $50 a week doing that. That was more than enough spending money to do a LOT of spending in the late 90s while still saving up to buy my own cheap-but-runs car after a year of saving, instead of borrowing my mom's car forever.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
Yeah, I bussed tables at a sports bar when I was 17 in the like 03 or something. I probably made 350-400 a month counting tips and I felt rich. Almost none of my friends worked and I'd suggest we go out to eat and no one else could afford it. Yeah, I was being cheeky đš
anotherpredditor@reddit
Pooling together $5 to get an order of fries because we were all broke. A good chunk of us has season passes to our local Six Flags and had somewhat designated meetup spots we would cruise and pickup late arrivals. Looking back we had to be super obnoxious but we werent on the streets and in a walled garden.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
Definitely didn't have that, but I'll never forget 3-4 teens all splitting the cost of a movie rental for barely 3 dollars. We'd go on a Friday night, 2 of 3 of us, and go to a friend's house who had space and a big tv.Â
ridelikeagurl@reddit
We weren't fancy as Six Flags but we ALL had passes to the local community indoor/outdoor pool next to a public golf course. It had an tiny arcade, gym, indoor track, and two order-at-the counter restaurants. It was open all year, I spent FAR too much time there before turning 16 and starting driving/part time job part of my life.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's what stands out to me in movies and TV shows. They portray these teenagers as basically adults paying their own way.
AcadianTraverse@reddit
Thinking on Saved By The Bell, they all had jobs at some point I believe (though I think Lisa's were very temporary). I know when I had part time jobs as a teenager, I spent much more time in social situations, but I don't recall third places specifically geared towards teens besides the skate park.
MartyMcFlyAsFudge@reddit
I know my first part time job was at the age of 14 and I babysat from at least the age of 12... I know a lot of people my age with a similar work experience.
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Yeah same here. Started doing yard work around the neighborhood when I was 11 and got my first paycheck part time job when I was 15, and my parents had to sign paperwork that I was allowed to work part time in high school. This just made me realize that I've been working for 34 years đ
MartyMcFlyAsFudge@reddit
hugs
I remember needing special permission too and there were weird rules at 14 like you could only work three hours on a school day, etc. I also remember having to pay in taxes for the "privilege to work" during college because my dad claimed me for years lol.
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Oh man that's some BS that your dad claimed you during those years and you had to pay those taxes during that time. Like kids and young adults back then didn't already get screwed over and it's worse now. My son recently turned 23, got his bachelor's and is working part time until he can get into his field (HRIS) and he is having a rough go at it. My wife and I paid what we could towards his college and he had to take loans for the rest. My parents couldn't afford to fund any college for me and I went part time and worked full time and I just couldn't make it work out, and then I lost my best friend when I was 20 and couldn't focus much after his death (long story) so I pretty much left college after that semester and didn't look back. I'm ok now but that was the hardest time in my life and I didn't forgive myself and beat myself up for years, thinking that if I stayed for 5 more minutes where we were all hanging out, he'd still be around. Truth is there's nothing I could have done to prevent what I had no idea would happen, had to accept the fact and forgive myself. Today's kids with the cost of everything have it bad especially if they have a crappy family and try and make it on their own. Our son is welcome here until he wants to leave and is building a career for himself. If he falls on hard times after the fact, he's got a place to come back to with us.
MartyMcFlyAsFudge@reddit
You sound like a great dad âĄ
carlitospig@reddit
I could only work until 9pm, if I recall. So closing at Orange Julius was basically at lightning speed every shift.
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Yeah I too had limited working hours. Had to skiddadle out of work before 9pm on weekdays and 10pm on weekends.
carlitospig@reddit
Yep, first legit job at 14.5. Iâm exhausted.
Beneficial_Potato_85@reddit
I had my first real job at McDonald's at 14, first full time summer job at 15 and have worked ever since. My younger half sister and brother are 9 and 13 years younger respectively and neither one worked until after high school. My brother is now 28 and still at home doing door dash part time. It's sad.
carlitospig@reddit
I had movies, Dennyâs, a college town with shops and restaurants, corn fields to get stoned in, loads of parks and outdoor hockey, and then if we had cars we basically had the world available to us including skating behind the Target warehouse (they had the cleanest edges), literal roller rinks when we wanted to be ironic, and horses because it was also kind of the boonies.
Damn, I really enjoyed my childhood. đĽş
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I remember in high school thinking I wanted a job. Looking back, that wasn't realistic.
winnowingwinds@reddit
I think they were (and are) often either supposed to have money, or written by people not factoring in money.
nostyleguide@reddit
I mean, I worked every summer through high school to get pocket money for the school year. It didn't last, but it supplemented my allowance and let me go to more movies, buy a few more CDs, put a little more gas in my car.
Some of what they show you is metaphorical, kind of. Like, adults were often also in the spaces we occupied, but we ignored them and they ignored us. So if you're making a TV show about the kids, why bother putting the adults in? There were places with no/few adults because they were aimed at teens or just occupied by teens, but probably less than the TV shows indicate.
Also, there used to be all-ages venues and clubs, and unless the band was a big deal they weren't cool for people over 21.
carlitospig@reddit
We also spent an absurd amount of time window shopping. That was when you could basically spend all day book shopping without the stink eye.
altiuscitiusfortius@reddit
I went out on the town with my own money doing whatever I wanted from age 8 on. Me and my brother would decide to take the bus to the mall, split some fries at a cafe, play in the arcade, then walk home 9 miles because we spent our bus fare. All without informing our parents. This was the 80s.
AdComprehensive7939@reddit
It was something like that, though. Maybe not as much as on TV like 90210 or this is regional but I worked from age 14 on and recall most of my friends doing the same. We were not supervised, had independent income and definitely had our own little worlds. My friends and I could buy alcohol and cigs by the our junior year of high scuool (not legally but through specific stores and/or adults.) I definitely partied harder in highschool than my 20s.
Me_Too_Iguana@reddit
Elder millennial here. Older teenagers (16/17) were definitely treated and seen more as being almost adults than as being still children like they are today.
KillBosby@reddit
That's probably part of this television magic - it's just poor writing by adults from the perspective of adults so it made this fictionalized amalgamation of half-teen half-middle-aged-middle-manager.
This allowed the cast to get anywhere (including Hawaiian Style) without parents and without tracking expenses.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Pretty much. It's funny watching these movie and tv shows from today's perspective.
_buffy_summers@reddit
I obviously can't speak for everyone, but I started working when I was sixteen. Anything I wanted or needed after that was my own responsibility. I remember the office assistant giving me a weird look when I paid my own book rental fees as a senior. I didn't understand why she thought it was weird until I got older.
ThermionicMho@reddit
We were treated like little adults because that was the prevailing attitude towards parenting back then. Give the kids a ton of responsibility and free range early, so parents AND children could pursue their careers and lives themselves. And at certain times, many places seemed like they were for youths. There were always some adults around, but they were usually odd retired folks, or a coach with a team at DQ or something or the actual manager of the spot. I don't think they could have run on kid money alone, they needed their normal rushes of adults at adult times.
So... Often we were. Often we were left with older siblings who were just as latchkey, who were doing the same. I was lucky that I had neighborhood jobs so I usually had a few bucks but times were different. I couldn't do that now as all my neighbors have lawn mowing services, ironically the biggest one is owned by a childhood friend. He literally just kept doing his childhood.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's an interesting perspective. And I guess in a day where the internet wasn't around, it seemed a lot more localized in being able to do that.
acireisericabackward@reddit
This definitely how I was brought up. My mom is a nurse and in her younger years had a much more demanding position so she was gone a lot for work. Step dad was pretty much in the same position. Once I was old enough I did my own laundry etc. Then I started to drive, I was given a crappy car and told to get a job but I still had to stay in school and get good grades so by the time I was in my senior year I was an honor student that worked as full time hostess at the Olive Garden in the next town. It wasn't uncommon for me to have to leave school early just so I could get to work. Other than that my friends and I pretty much had free range to do what we needed and wanted to do.
impliedapathy@reddit
I had a part time job as a kid so I always had money because I also didnât have bills. Most of my friends in the mid 90s worked somewhere. Half went in savings and the other half was for whatever I wanted. Mostly, it involved buying gas and fast food before hitting up a movie, the bowling alley, an arcade, or a pool hall. Money was only a limiting factor if you made it one.
Sudden_Associate7566@reddit
This was always what stood out to me more than teen-only diners or clubs or whatever. How did they have the money to always be at diner or place with an entry fee?? It wasnât even unrealistic, it felt like an alternate dimension.
Teens on tv are almost always meeting up at some fast-casual place while a trip to McDonaldâs would have been a special treat for my group.
dontdoxmenow@reddit
I have been employed nonstop since I was 15 and was working odd jobs in the neighborhood for money before that. By my senior year of high school I was working about 30 hours a week in a union job (that still was the best job I ever had, hands down).
marypants1977@reddit
We watched the Mighty Morphin Power Rangers movie more than ten times at the $1 theater in the summer of 1995, pretty much for air conditioning and a place to be.
It was hilariously awful. We had jokes for almost everything. We'd yell the dialogue along with the characters.
We were absolute jackasses.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
The theater at our dirt mall had $2 Tuesdays. I legitimately met William Sadler there once, he was apparently visiting family and went to the cheap theater. It was strange.
tcpukl@reddit
No money but had a car and petrol?
Royal_Hedgehog_3572@reddit
We definitely hung out at coffee shops, specifically ones that sold cigarettes to teens and allowed us loiter around smoking them over a cup of coffee. Nothing as wholesome as the Max.
twolfhawk@reddit
Dennys, ihop, perkins, and some friendlys were my hangouts after high-school.
In college it was between perkins and a diner because they were 24hr
WinterYak1933@reddit
WHAT THE FUCK'S UP, DENNY'S?!?! đ¤
https://youtu.be/pwjoolflFzE?si=uxeDq0NVEfv_6krF
BilliousN@reddit
This is my new favorite video
WinterYak1933@reddit
It's old, but GOLD!
Jd11347@reddit
Every goth kid knows about Denny's. It's tradition. 2 am coffee at Dennys.
WinterYak1933@reddit
We had Waffle House in the South, but yes!
WinterYak1933@reddit
Chunklob@reddit
I was going to say Perkin's.
carlitospig@reddit
Thatâs like Dennyâs right?
briman2021@reddit
Yeah, same sort of diner/restaurant
carlitospig@reddit
I feel like we may have had one in town when I was a kid but it didnât last past the 80âs. I just remembering me and my mom meeting my grandmother there and her smoking like a chimney (who wasnât?).
briman2021@reddit
This is what I was going to say as well. I had a couple friends that smoked underage, but a Perkins waitress wasnât gonna card anyone so it was like a sanctuary of nicotine and unlimited refills of coffee/pop.
OhYayItsPretzelDay@reddit
Yep. Perkins, the skating rink, and the mall.
Oraistesu@reddit
Perkins and Eat n' Park for us, yeah. We'd spend hours there multiple days per week.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
Growing up in NY State, just north of the City, these were our diners. We actually did have a Danny's, but no one went there. The diners were 24hrs, we could smoke cigs, we'd order a plate of cheese fries (or disco fries) for like 6 of us. We'd each get a $1 coffee or soda (refills!) and just sit and bullshit for hours.
gyrlonfilm6@reddit
Dennys was big with the drama kids at my high school.
Piccoloshis_Island@reddit
I instantly thought of Denny's, too. Cigarettes, coffee, and if you were a high roller, a Grand Slam for $1.99. Also, we had a ton of 24 hour diners in my area so you could take your pick. Remember when things stayed open late on the regular? I really miss that.
carlitospig@reddit
We always went for the OJ carafes which we would each order our own while we waited for the acid to kick in. đľâđŤ
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Me too. Brings back memories.
amopdx@reddit
This was ihop for us⌠99cent never ending coffee, weâd take over the smoking section
BananaPants430@reddit
For us it was Friendly's. It was maybe a 5 minute walk from the high school and for a buck or two you could sit for hours over a soda and shared order of fries - like $5 would buy an actual meal (includiing tip).
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Came here to say that Dennys was our spot from the time I was 15 to 19. Back then they had a smoking section (yeah I'm old lol) and we'd hang out for a few hours, eat, smoke, and just talk about things.
AdoptedBySmurfs@reddit
Fucking DENNYâS! But you had a choice usually. You go to the good Dennyâs, or the shitty Dennyâs, or gay Dennyâs, or book Dennyâs, etc. if you stay late enough they start bringing you left over stuff and charge you minimally for it, if at all, because theyâre going to throw it out anyway. I miss the 90s/2000s flip.
jackytheripper1@reddit
This is what my town had, also Friendly's in my college town
beachluvr13@reddit
We hung out at Dennyâs because it was 24 hours too and you could smoke, along with diners, VFW because they were able to serve until 4 and did not card, A LOT of houses and shore houses and I mean A LOT, food court at the mall, after I turned 21, we had our favorite bars were everyone would know us.
It was such a different time and looking back really special. We were free in so many ways.
Randall_Hickey@reddit
For me Perkins but yes
southernfirm@reddit
Waffle House down here.
deepee45@reddit
Yep, Dennys was definitely it in my area. On weekend nights, it was completely packed with teens. Always felt so bad for the workers there.
Chance-Night3198@reddit
Yeah, we alternated between Denny's and Village Inn for "studying". Both were on the main drag that we cruised up and down like we were living in American Graffiti. Last time I was back home I noticed they closed both of them down and the mall is super sad now. There's no where in my hometown for kids to spend endless hours doing nothing.
endrid@reddit
Yep that was my friend and I. All drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes all day and it was always a blast
stickoff@reddit
Shari's was our 24 diner hangout. The Dennys was to far away.
Eikthyrnir13@reddit
This was my place. Underage smoking at 2 in the morning with my friends from drama class. Ah, the best of times.
BillyOcean8Words@reddit
When the no smoking in bars legislation went through in CA, it was a sad day for us Dennyâs lovers.
malledtodeath@reddit
droves and droves of teens hung out in the smoking section of the IHOP where I lived. Weâd take horrible advantage of bottomless coffee, and make pyramids out of little creamer cups. I swear to god my best friend and I would ride our bikes around singing dead beat club by the b52s on our way home.
ennuiismymiddlename@reddit
For us it was Perkins, open 24 hours. We would sit for hours and drink coffee and just order a muffin or something.
grostequoteque@reddit
Yep, in my hometown it was absolutely Dennyâs. 24 hours, you could smoke and drink cheap coffee. Everyone was there.
zombiezambonidriver@reddit
My friends and I used to hit up Dennys almost every Friday or Saturday at like 1 am.
YourGuyK@reddit
Denny's is just a place kids could hang out. It wasn't aimed at kids, which is what they are asking about.
Ynot2_day@reddit
I came to say the same thing!!!
wynonnaspooltable@reddit
Dennyâs crew represent!
bambulance@reddit
In my case on the weekends, we got there in the afternoon and stayed until the sun
Stormy261@reddit
That was where we went after the rink closed. The smoking section was always freezing!
ranaldo20@reddit
Huddle House (kind of like Waffle House) in my hometown. Diner foodl and lots of coffee!
graveybrains@reddit
My personal record for hanging out a a Denny's was 6 or 7 hours with a constantly rotating group at my table, most of whom I didn't even know. The only reason I stayed so long was because I'd actually intended to eat. I'd ordered at least three times with three different waitresses, but no food was forthcoming.
I did get to see an entire wedding party dine and dash and make their escape in limousines, though.
three-one-seven@reddit
Steak n' Shake where I grew up but yeah, that place was nothing but teenagers pretty much every evening and especially on Friday and Saturday nights.
Super_Fa_Q@reddit
That was ours too!
cartoonchris1@reddit
Yes, it was called the Teen Center and had pool tables and a few arcade machines and a very limited diner. It was only open on Fridays and Saturdays.
cityfireguy@reddit
They really were nothing like tv. That was done for dramatic purpose.
Maybe you could hang out at a restaurant, sure. But tv always had like Teen Nightclubs that basically operated like they were regular clubs. That was not a thing. Maybe sometimes a club would have teen night, but they quickly learned selling soda to rowdy kids wasn't a great profit model compared to selling booze to adults you didn't need to take special care with.
17Girl4Life@reddit
Houston had teen night clubs. They were lame, but they existed
Icy-Finance5042@reddit
We had one that was a dry club only for 16 to 20 year olds. The owners also owned another one that was split. Had to be 21 to get into bar area but they could be in the 16 to 20 area. I was a regular at the dry one because it was only open on Friday and Saturdays. The split one was only half dry on Wednesday and Sunday. So could only go when there was no school and after graduating high-school.
I was also going to regular bars with my mom during high-school because I live in Wisconsin.
pieohmi@reddit
We had a teen nightclub in our town. It was really popular in the late 80âs.
whyisthissticky@reddit
It was a thing in some areas. Chicago Suburbs Area: Zero Gravity, Mission, Paladome, Medusa, Galaxy Club, Energy, Club Static. That was on top of the raves that you had to chase clues sent out in pager codes and voicemail boxes (no cell phones)
JohnsonSmithDoe@reddit
A nearby town definitely had a teen nightclub. It was open 6pm-11pm they charged a cover every night. Most nights were dance nights with a shitty DJ, occasionally there were teen bands playing. That place was open for several years in the middle of a long strip of dingy dive bars. Served coffee, soda and pizza and you could smoke inside.
My own town had a very popular coffee shop that catered to teens. Live music most days of the week and it was always busy. I think they might have also sold cigarettes.
Every year someone would try opening another venue catering to teens with video games or pool tables but those never lasted.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's what I figured. I saw one in a movie the other day and thought there's no way these places existed in real life.
17Girl4Life@reddit
Yeah, we had Mr Taco, except the C fell off the sign, so it was Mr Tao. Super cheap food and a Dig Dug game. And in the afternoon, we took over The Pickle Barrel to have burgers, shoot pool, and play music on the awesome jukebox. Adults went there at night, but the afternoon was ours
Practical-Plenty907@reddit
We all had jobs, we all had a little money, we were little adults. We did and went where everyone else was. Most of us knew someone with a (probably old) car even if we didnât have one ourselves. We carried responsibility well and thus had plenty of freedom. Honestly not sure which came first, the freedom or the responsibility, but most of us had a great deal of both starting at a very young age. Back then, being the eldest or a girl meant you were basically born with responsibilities.
bmaayhem@reddit
Corner convenience store even though they had a sign that said âonly two teens allowed at a time â
PeorgieT75@reddit
We mostly hung out at malls in the 70's, although there was a place that had foosball and air hockey tables in a strip center that drew a good crowd.
ShitFireSavedMatches@reddit
I think it depends on location and business owners. We had a pool hall with a really cool owner who didn't mind a bunch of teens smoking cigarettes and playing pool as long as we were actually putting the coins in and playing.
He saw it as a safe place for us to go. We weren't drinking or doing anything outrageous so most of the parents were cool with it too.
There was a small diner across the street we would frequent as well. Same deal, as long as we were ordering and paying for food they put up with us.
Looking back I'm super grateful for those patient adults. We had plenty of unsupervised house parties where bad shit went down.
Si_Titran@reddit
We had our own club, and yes we'd take over a pizza shop and diner.
testmonkeyalpha@reddit
In the late 90s, the hang out spot for one of the high schools near me was the Kroger parking lot.
EastTXJosh@reddit
âTeen clubsâ were popular in the early 90âs when I was a young teen. I lived in a town of less than 10,000 and the little town where I lived converted the skating rink into a teen club. It was basically a dance club where they served mocktails. Local radio stations from neighboring larger cities would come and broadcast from the teen club and we thought it was so cool they would come to our little town.
When I got a little older, we always hung out at a Dennyâs like diner on the edge that was the only place in town open 24 hours. We would sit there and drink coffee, smoke cigarettes, and people watch as the nearby bars closed and the people made the short trip from the bar to the restaurant.
LeRoyShow@reddit
BINGO! Same here. We had a dance club like this next to a bowling alley. Your comment caught my eye with the Daisy Dukes mention as the strip club in my hometown was called Daisy Dukes!
Aside from the teen club, where more of the "cool kids" hung out, we also had a pool hall where alot of teens hung out. But they had a strict 9pm rule. 9pm kids left as thats when it started to get a little sketchy in there. They definitely sold cigarettes to kids underage, the right kids could alcohol in there, but full send, 9pm. Kids were gone. No discussion, no argument.
consort_oflady_vader@reddit
We had a roller rink but we just skated, had snacks and played arcade games. Wouldn't call it a club, but was peak teen experience in my town if you were like 6-14 years old.Â
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess that's more realistic that places of business would have certain times during the week that would be dedicated for teenagers, but were otherwise regular places of business outside of those times.
Anynamethatworks@reddit
Our small town bowling alley had Country Bowl on Friday nights and Rock n' Bowl on Saturday nights. Enough people came to actually bowl a game or two that they didn't mind all the extra people hanging out. It was more the place to meet up and find out what was going on for the night. If nothing was happening, we'd hang out there most of the night.
SaltyAir-StarrySkies@reddit
When I was a teen there were a few bars in my small city that each had a different teen night, especially during summer and school breaks. There was one particular bar that lost it's liquor license for serving minors (not on teen night) so it became entirely a teen club for a while lol. Interestingly, that place employed people to sit in the bathrooms to make sure no one was doing drugs inside. They seemed pretty serious about not further damaging their reputation.
I had so much fun at those places. I wish my own kids had somewhere fun to go.
Swimminginthestorm@reddit
Even without dedicated time for teens, I barely ever saw an adult at my local skating rink. And the drama that went on there was peak teen stuff.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
Love hearing how many people my age bummed around diners late night smoking cigarettes and drinking coffee! Fucking kids these days have no idea.
sawshuh@reddit
I grew up in NE Ohio and definitely went to a 13-18? (I hope not 20?) club in the early 90s. Eventually, my parents decided it was kinda weird that their 13 year old was clubbing, so they stopped taking me. I won a 13â tv with a VCR on my last night, though.
moonbunnychan@reddit
My parents forbade me from going... although I still snuck there with friends on a handful of occasions. I think teens NEED places like these, to be honest.
zombiezambonidriver@reddit
The Cosmopolitan aka "the coz"?
mscatamaran@reddit
OMG THE COZ!!! 1986 Millennial here. Wow.
sawshuh@reddit
The Silver Dollar in the Youngstown area.
carlitospig@reddit
Memory unlocked. I forgot that we would go to all ages shows. How could I forget them? Honestly they were pretty boring since none of us had a fake ID.
adumant@reddit
Iâm going to throw this out there and see who picks up on it: Zero Gravity
pmgrn8@reddit
I recall a place in south Jersey called the milk bar or some shit like that. Even back then just the concept felt skeevy and that says a lot considering how much was normalized back then. In my head I always pictured it being like that one commercial they made in detroiters. https://youtu.be/K-6CZV4B47g?si=j4BBcLIJg4x8hgID
CliffGif@reddit
That sounds creepy AF
471b32@reddit
Was that the town that Chris Farley was an honorary mayor of? Because I went to one that was very similar.Â
Indubitalist@reddit
Thatâs nuts that they were hosting wet T-shirt contests for teenagers. Thatâs basically an âexpose your titsâ contest without violating local nudity laws. Iâm astounded that was allowed at a licensed business.Â
EastTXJosh@reddit
Looking back, it was creepy as hell, especially since they usually had adults as judges.
azazel-13@reddit
Yeah, we had a Teen Center in my town that was like a G rated club we would hang out at. It was fun. They had local amateur DJs come in and play music. We'd drink/smoke outside then come in to dance.
whywires@reddit
Similar situation for me. I grew up in a small town and there was one club that did under-21 Saturdays. We also had a 24-hour diner on the outskirts of town where everyone smoked cigarettes and drank coffee through the night.
That club is now a veterinary office and the diner hasn't been 24 hours since 2020.
AcanthisittaOver1968@reddit
the Steak 'n shake down the street was this for me and my friends in HS. It was open 24 hours and you could smoke inside.
Lucky_Louch@reddit
Growing up in Vail CO we had a "teen center" that had a bunch of pool tables TV's and videogame systems. It was awesome and a great place to hang out as a latchkey kid in the 90's.
brickbaterang@reddit
Where I'm from we mostly just hung at the mall food court but McDonald's etc was fair game too. Not a whole lotta "peach pit" type places in upstate ny but as all these shows are from Cali i suspect things may be different there
MetalNew2284@reddit
Yum yum soup, cheap Pizza, loud music, billiard and tablesoccer. Yes. We did that. And some grown ups you could talk to if you where in trouble..
simpler times..
madoneforever@reddit
Donât forget timing. School is out at 3:30. Adults are working until 5:30. So there was a window of time where it was mostly kids everywhere.
CityofPhear@reddit
While I didn't really start going until the end of high school and when I'd come home for break from college, there were a bunch of small coffee shops in my area that were places that a lot of teens would go and hang out. They were essentially like under age bars, usually had open mic nights, shows, what have you. There were some adults that would hang out at the spots too, but it was mostly older teenagers. This was in South Jersey.
jasonrubik@reddit
I either stayed home or just went to my best friend's house. Basically, I lived at both houses
Wyldawen@reddit
In the city I lived in as a teen in the 90s, there was a particular mom and pop cafe run by people who were probably late teens/20s and it's where every trenchcoat in town hung out all night long nearly every night and every weekend it was overflowing throughout the sidewalk and parking lot. Very good times.
BigPoppaStrahd@reddit
Is âtrenchcoatâ a term to describe teens? Â Iâve never heard that before, Â what region is that from?
Wyldawen@reddit
In the 90s, goth/industrial and stuff like The Matrix and Vampire the Masquerade was exploding, so a lot of teens formed groups of wearing black clothes and trenchcoats, hence "trenchcoat mafia."
Infamous-Thought-765@reddit
Didn't it become part of the public consciousness with Columbine when people wanted to point fingers?
Wyldawen@reddit
Yes. I'm that exact age from that subculture so remember this well. Thankfully, we all graduated right after that so I don't know what happened with the school atmosphere after The Incident. All I know is it was fun while it lasted.
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Yeah I graduated from high school a year before that tragedy happened. I wore a trench coat. Still have the same trench coat but had to replace it a few weeks ago because it's pretty beat up now (although very warm in the winter, so I'm keeping it as a shoveling / working outside coat). It lasted 28 years and survived a car accident and my cat at the time peeing on it, so I'm happy it had a long life.
Wyldawen@reddit
I didn't have the trenchcoat, I was in all black with doc martins but my jacket was a leather biker coat that I found at a vintage shop instead. I kept it pretty long but later when I got married the man eventually insisted that I toss it. I'll never stop digging around in obscure goth music though. At the time I was obsessed with the album Karma by Delirium, still break it out sometimes. Were people around you really into The Undertaker from WWE? I remember a lot of Undertaker fanboying and fangirling.
FirehawkLS1@reddit
Some of those vintage biker jackets are pretty cool. I knew a few Undertaker fans at the time. That era of WWE (back when it was still WWF) was pretty interesting. I still listen to a lot of the same music from that era and still discover music that is really good that I had no idea was out there.
Wyldawen@reddit
Ah, yeah... it was WWF you're right. Used to go to this woman's apartment named "Azrael" to get drunk and she'd always have wrestling on to watch Undertaker. Actually had a record player from a thrift shop and gathered up some Smiths and Depeche Mode on vinyl, all of which is gone now. We were really into listening to "Rough Sex" by Lords of Acid at parties. So much nostalgia.
free-toe-pie@reddit
Iâm similar in age to the Columbine murderers and trench coats were banned from our high school right after it happened. We also couldnât carry backpacks from class to class. We had to carry our heavy ass books in our arms.
Infamous-Thought-765@reddit
I was a sophomore, and I remember there being a lot of buzz about school procedures changing all around the country, but I don't remember any changes to my school. I remember being scared for a minute. There weren't any targeted groups at my school that I know of. We were considered very cliquey, but more that we had our own groups of friends. Nothing to do with special interests. Very small school. Kids grew up together.
Wyldawen@reddit
I'm from a trippy part of California so my schools probably stayed fine anyway. Someone actually signed my yearbook with "trenchcoat mafia" along with all the pentagrams and anarchy symbols. *nostalgia*
gnomequeen2020@reddit
I graduated the year before Columbine, and we had a ton of kids wearing trench coats and other bits of goth/industrial style stuff. I bet the school banned the hell out of that afterwards.
mtron32@reddit
My mother called when I was at college asking if I was in the trench coat mafia. Who made that shit up? Sure I thought about bringing a tool to school but I also thought of consequences
Swimminginthestorm@reddit
Yeah. My school banned trench coats. Sometimes it was enforced. Sometimes they had to take the coats off till after school.
whyisthissticky@reddit
Yeah, they banned the âtrenchcoat mafiaâ from wearing those coats at my high school in 2000. The burnouts and juggalos were upset.
BigPoppaStrahd@reddit
Shit, now I feel really stupid because in 99 I had my Blade/Matrix leather trenchcoat, even knew the term âtrenchcoat mafiaâ, and joked about being able to fit a shotgun in my jacket. Â I donât know why I couldnât make that connection with your original comment.Â
Wyldawen@reddit
I remember Psalm 69 album from Ministry, that album was VERY IMPORTANT for the era. I remember many Friday nights hanging out in the downtown parking lot with Vampire the Masquerade roleplayers playing with their katana collection lol.
garnett21mn@reddit
Typically dorky edgelords
Swimminginthestorm@reddit
I wasnât exactly one of them, but a portion of the group I hung out with were those people. Theyâd play their games all night at Dennys, which was like our home base for the night. I would usually spend some time smoking cigarettes & drinking coffee, go out with a few friends to do something stupid in the middle of the night, and come back to Dennys for a snack and more coffee & cigarettes.
Wyldawen@reddit
It was fun! Good times. For peak content of that subculture, look up Johnny the Homicidal Maniac. I still have my little stack.
Beccalotta@reddit
We called them "trenchers" in my Pacifc Northwest town
Rendakor@reddit
Trenchcoat mafia is also a term popularized by the Columbine school shooters.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
But I mean places that were specifically designed for teenagers and only teenagers to hang out at.
Happy_Confection90@reddit
Boomers designing places catering to GenX and Millennials? Ha, no.
Wyldawen@reddit
Nah, there weren't a lot of rules going on. That's what I like about the era, less rules.
iaurp@reddit
For things that can be counted (like rules) the rule is you should use "fewer" instead of "less."
/s
Prestigious_Egg_6207@reddit
How is this sarcastic?
iaurp@reddit
I'm only pointing out the rule because he was expressing a distaste for rules. It's more ironic than sarcastic, I suppose, but "/i" isn't a "thing."
Wyldawen@reddit
Humbug.
NonCorporealEntity@reddit
Yes and no. The places existed but never lasted because highschool kids don't have a lot of extra cash.
The idea was more of a 50s thing where kids would hang out at diners.
NicolasNaranja@reddit
Yes, I did growing up. There was a teen night at a Boys and Girls club that a lot of us went to. I got my first kiss on the lips at the skating rink. The movies were a popular hangout for a while. There was a small music venue that had live local bands on Friday and Saturday. Sometimes we would meet up at the park. Past age 16 there were keggers out by the powerlines.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Teen nights are one thing. Some of these establishments in movies and TV shows look as if they cater only to teens.
NicolasNaranja@reddit
My older brother says there was a teen night club in the 80s
hemibearcuda@reddit
Yep
Ours was the local McDonald's. Actually the bank parking lot next to McDonald's.
We would congregate and talk up street races. I was there from about 1988 to 1994.
Dangerous-Macaron230@reddit
We used to go to a skate rink that had a billiards hall next door. Skate for awhile and then go shoot pool and load the juke box up with our favorite songs.
AlwaysTakenAback@reddit
We had a diner in my town that we would hang at from the age of 14-17. We would order coffee, sometimes food, and smoke cigs. Iâm amazed that they tolerated us, and we werenât the only ones. This was 1994-97. The diner is still there. Adults were around as well, but I donât remember anyone giving us much of a hard time. And honestly some of my friends were rude little assholes. I still have scars on my hand from one of my friends burning me on the hand with a fork that he held a lighter under. I couldnât imagine the stuff we used to do happening in todayâs world. There was also an arcade that kids would hang out during the winter. I lived by the beach in New Jersey. Still do. A lot of what was around when I was younger is gone. But man we had a great time as kids.
Muffin-sangria-@reddit
The local cafe was the spot to be any time between 6-12
PoisonMind@reddit
We did have a community center just for teenagers at one of the military bases I grew up on.
Scott_R_1701@reddit
I'm an elder millennial as well (82) and malls, movie theaters, local gaming/comic shop were all teen hangouts.
sujihime@reddit
In my town, there is a Dunkin within walking distance of a elementary, middle, and high school. When middle school gets out, that place is swarming with kids. Itâs def a hangout place. Itâs part of the school culture to go afterschool sometimes.
NotBadSinger514@reddit
Yes, 100% yes and we had multiple. Sometimes a park, sometimes a field, sometimes a spot in the forest. Sometimes a parking lot or behind some building...
impliedapathy@reddit
Cruising around in one of our cars for fast food before hitting up the mall, a movie, the bowling alley, an arcade, or a pool hall was pretty common. Most of those places were pretty accessible for teens en masse back in the mid to late 90s. Saturday night cosmic bowling was a huge draw for teens.
Consistent-Camp5359@reddit
My husband is GenX and he says they did exist. My only reference is Saved By The Bell too.
Skywren7@reddit
We had a coffee shop that was for teens. It turned out to be cultish. Think the very special episode or Boy Meets World. It was like that. But it was free cigarettes and video games. So we put up with the culty crap haha
Hippy_Lynne@reddit
When I was a teenager they had full-on "nightclubs" for teenagers. They obviously didn't sell any alcohol but they had a DJ and dance floor, they sold soft drinks and snacks and charged an entry fee. I believe they had an upper age limit of like 20 or 22 as well. They were pretty much only open on Friday and Saturday nights though, it wasn't some place you would go hang out after school.
Human_Type001@reddit
When I was in high school (86-90) there was a teen night club. 18 and under called "The Library." I don't know if they had 18+ nights but they must have to stay in business. It was just a dance club, selling soda. Â
ADMINlSTRAT0R@reddit
Steak n Shake definitely was a teen hangout spot.
NotaMillenialatAll@reddit
Yes! They were like fast food hangouts with a touch of soda fountains and there were no adults in sight. Same for most malls.
erino3120@reddit
We hung out at a video store, a diner, a pool hall.
CompletedDream@reddit
I think it was more the case that teenagers âownedâ certain restaurants during specific hours, say 3:00-5:00 on weekdays and late night on Fridays and Saturdays. At my high school, it was Taco Bell (the closest place to the school), Waffle House, and Steak and Shake.
RedditAntiHero@reddit
I was big into skateboarding in high school and we had a Dunkin Donuts where you could go after school or the weekend and find someone to skate or hangout with.
If it was after 9pm-12am on a weekend you could always go to Waffle House and find someone to hangout with.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Definitely seemed like specific times of the day in real life, when they were otherwise regular places of business any other time.
Misanthropebutnot@reddit
When I was in high school in NYC in the late 80s/early 90s, teens went clubbing at adult clubs. There were 24 hour pool halls all over the city that teens hung out at. After all the bars and clubs closed, we all went to diners. I donât remember it being teen only but almost all young people at these diners at 4 am.
Other-Squirrel-2038@reddit
My mom said there were spots like for teens more so arcades and also kind of like the place in dazed and confused they go and like roller rinks were really popular and the mall in the 80s so
Mall was still popular when I was a teen, rinks were in middle school and there weren't really any arcades of those like hangout halls anymore
SlackerDS5@reddit
It was usually the mall, especially the arcade area near the food court. We had a skating rink. There was an a & w with the old school car dining. People hang out there. But not much in small town.
YoshiandAims@reddit
We had a place like that in my town
Dangerous-Target-323@reddit
my hang out was the local comic shop that also hosted RPG games like Shadowrun
EuphoricPop3232@reddit
It was a combo of less helicopter parenting, kids not being on devices and wanting to go out together somewhere (the pool, the mall, a diner etc) and I think while kids were always loud and obnoxious - they were generally better behaved, in that they tended to shut up real quick if told. So, we were often welcomed/allowed in public and retail places more without adults. But I don't remember any specific "teen hang out place." We just created them ourselves.
Middle_Earthling9@reddit
I went to 24 hour diners and casino restaurants in the late 90s and they were packed with teenagers in the weekends. There were some adults there, but we would flood places after parties.
Enough-Persimmon3921@reddit
There was once a place in the 90s we used to hang out with an arcade and pool tables. It has a stage for bands to play and was free to enter. It was called Beaver's Resort. Today, it is a nudist colony. The name has changed oddly enough.
not-hardly@reddit
I have sat in a room with soooo many dudes, in a big circle. It's real. Lol
MaddoxGoodwin@reddit
Im my city their was a bowling alley/movie theater/islands/baskin Robins that were right next to each other and shared a parking lot.
Tons of hanging out and weed smoking went on around there.
The mall too was a hangout spot.
Ahhh the good old days
_Internet_Hugs_@reddit
We had different places we'd go, kind of an informal rotation. The mall, Denny's, different kids' houses, the local pizza place. The basement from That 70s Show was pretty authentic in my experience, one kid who had a rec room where parents didn't bother you was a solid place to hang out. We would also have some outdoors places too.
We'd get kicked out of one place and move to another. The kid with the rec room's parents would say it was time for dinner so we'd have to go. So we'd wander down the street to the park. The sun goes down there so we'd have to leave before the cops chased us off. If we had money we'd go to a movie or go get food. Or somebody else would volunteer their house. When it got late enough we'd start walking everybody home, lingering in driveways and sidewalks chatting until parents or neighbors came out or somebody else's curfew got close. My parents would start flashing the porch light on and off if we loitering too long in front of my house.
When we were old enough to drive more avenues opened up, and we would also spend more time at school, clubs and projects. I spent a lot of time in the Performing Arts building because I was a drama geek. The teacher stayed in her office unless we were doing serious rehearsals, and we often broke into groups and messed around. Yearbook too, that classroom stayed open late. There were always kids from yearbook and the newspaper in and out. Some kids coming in to work, some waiting for the kids working, and some just killing time.
The places we hung out also had to do with if the staff was dating one of the group, or in the group, or someone had a crush on them. My friend had a crush on a guy from another school who worked at his family's restaurant. We ate there a ton for two months until he broke her heart. Then, of course, we could never eat there again. I saw a bunch of movies when my other friend's boyfriend worked at a theater. That one was cool because he got us free popcorn.
Dsxm41780@reddit
Yeah I mean Iâm from New Jersey and maybe we didnât have one singular burger joint that was full of teenagers on a regular basis like the Max but we would hang out at diners, sandwich shops, independent coffee houses when they were a thing, pizzerias, Dunkin Donuts, hot dog joints, ice cream stores, basically anywhere that had cheap food and drinks and where you could hang with your friends.
It might not have been a daily thing but on weekend nights or after a school dance or event, and once you and your own car or you knew someone with a car, you got out and hung out as much as you could.
pikapalooza@reddit
My town had a mall. There were a few lcs that my brother and I would go to as well. He'd play magic and I'd look through their bulk. Then we'd play bustamove or mvc and then go home. It was a good time. Rip treasure island.
Wooden_Trifle8559@reddit
I remember where I lived in my high school years, they tried to have places for teens to hang out. Skating rink, laser tag, arcade, etc. They all went out of business. Most of the teens who had friends to do things with preferred to go out to the desert and party. đ¤ˇđźââď¸
ginger-inside-007@reddit
Where I grew up, we had the skating rink, strip mall with a coffee shop that was pretty much for Magic games and a movie theater next to it, Dennys or really most diners around, and the beach. We had the mall, too.
Ah, and the times after school events/games, groups would go to bigger family restaurant chains and pretty much take over most of the place.
Now the rink is gone, the strip mall redone and none of the same stores/coffee shops/theater, the big restaurants went bankrupt, and the beach tightened up areas. Mall is mall. Dennys seems to be forever.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
So I guess in movies what you see is kind of an idealized version of places that would just happen to get taken over by teens at certain times of the day.
ginger-inside-007@reddit
I would say there were places you could walk into and find your friends. Like Cheers. Except we drank in the parking lot lol. Then went where we wanted. It's not like The Max in Saved By The Bell. Remember, those were Cali rich kids on TV. We just had some places they let kids be kids for Magic and hanging out. Skating was also huge, so skate parks were another place and skate rinks were drop kids and come back 8-10 hours later for pick up.
Oh, and movie rental places that sold cards, POGS, PokĂŠmon, games, and other stuff. It depends where you lived. Dairy Queen was another hang out in my neighborhood. Great getting free ice cream occasionally.
And some places gave you stuff for your report card grades. Free games and food. Can't pass that up!
ApprehensiveGur6842@reddit
We had clubs in the late 90s. Pool, snacks, concessions, and lots of grinding on each other
ilovelukewells@reddit
We also had Club Soda in Regina Sk Canada so fun drinking pop all night
ilovelukewells@reddit
Golf 'n Stuff!
C1sko@reddit
Not at all. All kickbacks were word of mouth.
CaliHoboTechBro@reddit
The movie kids comes to mind
Robosl0b@reddit
There was a forested area near my high school that hosted weekend bush parties.
soiled_laundry@reddit
We had a small town. The ice cream stand was always popular, the owner had a deal like 50c for a 3 scoop cone for students. The rail road bridge, was a hang out for early teens. When we got cars bonfires at the power tower (forest road up to power line tower).
Adept-Target5407@reddit
We had pool halls where we could go play pool, smoke cigarettes, buy weed, and try to pick up girls.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
I'm just all over this thread, but yeah, I also spent a good amount of time in pool halls with friends who were probably way too old for me smoking cigarettes and drinking when I was like 17.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Sounds more like Clerks.
ddiknosaj@reddit
We hung out in a parking lot at night during high school. Kinda the same
scotttydosentknow@reddit
Growing up in Seattle there was an under 21 night club called DV8 that we used to go to all the time. I remember several places that were also evening hang outs for under 21 with pool tables, food and other things to do. I remember them being open pretty late, 11:00pm maybe? There was a burger place in the town I grew up in as well that was generally 90% kids eating in there. This was like 1994-1999
iridescentrae@reddit
itâs usually the spots closest to the high school and college where there are guaranteed people hanging out in the afternoon
RealSinnSage@reddit
i had a hangout spot for sure but it was in my friends upstairs barn he had built into a full on living room (later in life he made it a whole apartment w a bathroom and everything). we did all the drugs up there and it was just THE spot, since his mom was in the house and never ever came to check on us or anything, full autonomy such good times.
gyrlonfilm6@reddit
There was a diner that the popular kids hung out at Friday and sat nights.
ThumpinGlassDrops@reddit
Friday and Sat nights all the HS kids in my town would gather at the gas station parking lot in town to hang for a few hrs while we figured out where the party was going to be. Usually a field or a somewhere in the woods, down an old logging trail.
LooksLikeAWookie@reddit
We had dimly lit, musty nickle arcades
danbob411@reddit
I had a buddy in HS that was an assistant manager (or the like) at our nickel arcade. We would always hang out there and get free games while he was âworkingâ. He also sold weed out the back, and there was a gas station down the block that was known to sell beer to minors. So that was our hang out space most of junior & senior year.
S_A_R_K@reddit
I miss nickel arcades
carlitospig@reddit
Yes. The 90âs were just all of us hanging out together outside the house so we could be as far from parents as possible. Skate rinks, indoor hockey, ice skating, malls, you name it. If there was a way to make a dollar off of kids flirting and being stupid, there was a spot.
amopdx@reddit
I mean we would take over the whole back section a nearby IHOP in the mid-late 90s (Portland,or). Whole groups of kids skipping school smoking cigarettes and drinking the 99 cent never ending coffee, god we must have been obnoxious.
theelephantupstream@reddit
Where I grew up in the Hudson Valley we had several of these placesâthe pool hall, the pizza place across from my high school, a bowling alley, one particular Dunkin Donuts, and the worldâs grimiest movie theater. Itâs not that no adults ever went there, we just overran them and outnumbered other age groups. Few of these places went out of business eventuallyâwe were rowdy and broke as a rule so ehh, not really desired clientele lol.
gatesaj85@reddit
Im from Renton Washington (Just south of Seattle). In the late 90s/Early There used to be a dance club called Dakota's that was for minors. I never went inside, but the first time I ate ecstasy was in their parking lot.
big_ringer@reddit
My hometown movie theater; only 3 screens, 2nd run movies at best, but tickets were $1,50, so if you had nothing to do on a Saturday night and you had $3 to spare, you caught a double-feature.
21stNow@reddit
I'm not familiar with The Max. I can think of three places when I was growing up that were only for teens: Sharon's Showcase (club), Graffiti's (club in Six Flags over Georgia), and the Youth Activity Center (basically a game room, not arcade games, though) on the military base.
Hefty_Macaroni6288@reddit
I imagine at certain times/days places were overrun with teens. I heard tale of a coffee shop in a neighboring city that was super popular with teens (like a Starbucks coffee shop, not a diner coffee shopâŚRIP 90s coffee shops!) Me and mine regularly hung out at TGIFridays as it was the only place open late (2am!) that wasnât solely a bar.
edie_the_egg_lady@reddit
My first boyfriend's dad owned a comic book shop and he'd would work there in the summers. We would go and hang out all day, and everyone knew that that's where people would be (pre-cell phone), so all day friends would be stopping by. You could tell who was coming up by either the sound of their skateboard or the jangle of their keys/wallet chains, which were unique to each person. It was next to a Jack in the Box, and we'd pool our money to get Oreo cookie milkshakes, and 30 years later whenever I taste one it brings me right back to that one amazing summer, being young and in love, having a cool group of friends and weird adventures. You never knew what the day would bring, anything was possible.
Halladay_lights_77@reddit
I was a teen in the suburbs of Chicago early-mid 90's. For the tweens & teens, we went to the roller rink on Fri or Sat. night and once a month for the all-nighter "lock-ins" (Unlimited skating, video games, & bumper cars from 12am - 6am). Once anyone outgrew roller skating and got drivers license, there were a few dance clubs specifically geared towards older teens and under 21 crowd on weekends.
SoFlaBarbie00@reddit
I grew up in the suburbs but went to high school in the city. On an average weekend, weâd be out at coffee houses and diners in Lincoln Park. Every once in a while though, my city friends would come out west and weâd drive out to Palatine for a night at Palindrome. Growing up in Chicago during the Jordan eraâŚnothing like it.
Halladay_lights_77@reddit
Yep! Palindrome and Zero Gravity were the two I went to periodically from 94-96ish
rhoswhen@reddit
We used to go the the Ashbary Coffee House in... Woodridge? God that place was amazing. I loved driving there because the route I took (often at night) was curvy and covered in trees, and then you'd turn the corner and it looked like an old house.
Yeah that was good.
Every_Instruction775@reddit
We all went to a local diner once we could drive. They were open until like 2am. I lived in an area with out public transportation so unless you had a friend or older sibling who could drive it wasnât really an option until junior/senior year but yes there was a local diner we all went to in the 90s
altiuscitiusfortius@reddit
Yes in California. Or cities of 3 million people.
Not in small towns
PlantedinCA@reddit
We had an under 21 night club! It hosted concerts too from real acts. I saw Backstreet Boys and SWV there. It had a soda fountian, arcade games, and a magician.
carradio81@reddit
Yes in a way - we all hung out "up town" which consisted of a CVS, Papa Ginos (that had a juke box - total score), some benches and curbs that kids would skate off of. We also had the late night place of Bickfords - breakfast 24-7 - along with an insane amount of cigarette smoke.....
Successful-Account70@reddit
Yes
NEED_A_NEW_UN@reddit
My friends and I would all hang at the local video store. My best friends older brother worked there with all of his friends and then we inherited the jobs. Every Friday and Saturday night weâd be there just hanging out
Zealousideal-Web5346@reddit
Yes. As everyone always says yes
natator99@reddit
Echelon Mall in South Jersey had a dedicated area for the teen center. You could find us mallrats hanging out there when we weren't congregating IN the mall.
triggityrex@reddit
My band in high school thrived because of these places. Used to play at least one show a weekend at a teen club or one we paid for to be teen only. Usually had 250-500 people there depending on the weekends.
Being in a rock band with a built in audience made me way more confident about the prospect of being a professional touring band than I should have been.
The same town hasn't had a teen only place for a few years which is terrible for the kids there. But a new one is opening soon so hopefully the trend is starting again.
rojoshow13@reddit
In some places. Where I grew up there wasn't really anywhere that was specifically aimed at kids. But I did visit places where there was roller skating rinks with arcade games. And my hometown did have a bowling alley that had 1 night a week for kids.
Funny_Equivalent7056@reddit
Absolutely. My junior high school had a place called âThe Teen Centerâ. Kids in bands played there, but it was mainly just a place to go make out with each other đ
Frankfusion@reddit
Borders for me and my friend.
I_AM_DEATH-INCARNATE@reddit
Upstate NY here. We didn't have teen specific places, but there were a couple restaurants/pizza places by the high school that looked exactly like The Max because all the students would go there after school. But you could go there at 6:00 and it was just a normal pizza place with adults and everything. Same for Denny's at 1AM, just high school and college kids and a very stressed wait staff.
There was one place by a local college called 'Campus Inn' that had the same type of vibe as the Max, but it never got as busy.Â
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I could see that. A place where teens hang out in at certain times of the day but becomes a normal place of business by the evening. In some of these movies and tv shows though it seems like these places were designed specifically and only for teenagers.
Farm-Alternative@reddit
There were definitely some places designed just for teens. I don't know about restaurants but we had a roller skating place that had arcade games, pool tables, and roller skating disco nights. It was 100% designed as a space for teens and we would hang out there quite a lot. We also had a teen recreation centre but it was run by the school staff and local police so nobody really hung out there.
Tbh though, those sort of spaces specifically designed for teens were never really authentic so we'd spend more time at places like the skate park, local shopping centre (the Mall for you Americans), the arcade, or just riding around the neighborhood on our bikes and hanging out at friends houses playing video games.
Probably the reason why teen spaces are not popular anymore is because adults trying to make something just for teens usually is pretty cringe.
9for9@reddit
Yeah, this is more similar to my experience. There were hours of service that appealed to teens and then places might have specials tied to that especially if they were near a school.
malibuklw@reddit
Iâm also from upstate New York and had similar experiences. We had places where kids hung out, but not places specifically for kids. Perkins, Dennyâs, the pool hall, Spot Coffee when we were old enough to drive somewhere
Shaydee_plantz@reddit
100%. Dennyâs. We could smoke cigarettes and be under age. No one batted an eye. Ahhh, those were the days.
headlessbill-1@reddit
Sexually active band geeks a la mean girls...or...that one time at band camp. That was pretty accurate. All I'll say.
Competitive-Safe-452@reddit
Not really. Maybe the mall or Dennyâs.
YakiVegas@reddit
I lived in a town of like 5k people and there was a teen hangout for awhile
Express_Area_8359@reddit
I was
Before it.
The 90s early hangout
ahabneck@reddit
You mean, like the P(a)LACE? Â
Oliviasfool@reddit
Yes and preteen. In home gaming and computing kinda fucked it all up.
Ashamed_Froyo_8724@reddit
The mall
FrankiesKnuckles@reddit
There was a lot of cafes and coffee shops where people would buy a coffee and sit and smoke for 3 hrs. Not sure if they would be considered teen specific but 90% of their clientele was this
Ezlkill@reddit
In my town, there was a coffee shop and it was right before the smoking indoors ban took effect (late 98) so teenagers naturally would go there smoke cigarettes inside and bullshit and then of course there were diners as well which we would frequent at night because they were open late you could get food And just sit and talk and they didnât care as long as you kept buying coffee or beverages then of course it was the mall and the movie theaters for kids would go see the movies after hanging out for hours in the mall and we did have pool halls in my area as well, but they were a little bit more of a drive
basahahn1@reddit
Yeah, it was the mall.
Every Friday and Saturday. It was really just a place to meet up with everyone before you figured out what you were going to get into after it closed at 9:00
blameitonthewayne@reddit
Parking lots. In the 80s teenager used to park together in lots of stores that were already closed. Primarily Friday and Saturday night it was a big meetup.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I mean places like the diners you see in movies that seem to only ever have teenagers in them.
blameitonthewayne@reddit
Not that I remember. Closest thing I remember to that was hanging out at the âCantinaâ (it was really just a snack bar) during summer camp. Kids everywhere, lots of fun
katharsister@reddit
In the mid 90s we would go see a movie and then walk around and loiter in plaza parking lots smoking cigarettes all evening. Good times.
9fingerjeff@reddit
We had an underage dance club in our town and it was pretty popular. It was nothing like the sitcoms though.
maggie320@reddit
The mall. We had a huge mall and I couldnât spend all day there.
Optimistiqueone@reddit
Came here to say this.
Back when the mall had an arcade, movie theater, teen stores, a food court, and events that drew crowds.
brazilliandanny@reddit
Yes it was a donut shop that had a cigarette machine (so we could by smokes underage)
Incidentally it was featured in the film Kick Ass (where kick ass gets his ass kicked) and it got turned into a condos. R.I.P. dip n sip.
brazilliandanny@reddit
Yes it was a donut shop that had a cigarette machine (so we could by smokes underage)
Incidentally it was featured in the film Kick Ass (where kick ass gets his ass kicked) and it got turned into a condos. R.I.P. dip n sip.
AnonUser3216@reddit
Are mall had a 16-20yo club. It was freaking awesome until we turned 18 and headed to Canada to drink at a nasty dive bar.
Miami_Mice2087@reddit
you mean an 18 and under club. Where I live the police set up teen centers as an anti-drug and deliquency measure. It's like an after school or all day summer camp but for teenagers, with homework help, viddy games, dinner, movies, arts and crafts, etc. My aunt used to run one, she was the most generous, self-less woman you'd ever meet, she put so much of herself into that place.
doublesimoniz@reddit
We used to hangout and drink coffee and smoke cigarettes at a hotel coffee shop in my city when I was like 16-17. Â Nobody cared about us smoking underage at all. Â We just drank endless coffee for like $1.25 and smoked for hours.Â
Dense-Wing-4398@reddit
Im my hometown it was the skating rink, teen center, jack in the box, taco bell, Jeds(local restaurant)
Dense-Wing-4398@reddit
BTW It was normal for kids to walk/ ride bikes around town
Letsgogehls@reddit
Never had any teen oriented hang outs. A bunch of us âalterna-teensâ would go to Dennys,take over some poor servers section, smoke cigarettes , and order basically nothing. But of course there were all age demographics at a Dennys
antisocialnetwork77@reddit
My senior year of high school (1998) there was a great pool parlor that was pretty much for teens, they didnât serve alcohol or anything. Great jukebox, a few arcade games. Me and my friends were there three or four times a week. Great memories!
littlebunnydoot@reddit
skating rink, wafflehouse, dennys, the woods outside the mall, the movie theater my friend worked at.
Meetzorp@reddit
In my hometown there was no actual teen rec center but it was accepted that the high schoolers would take over the bowling alley on Friday nights. Wednesday was Ladies League and there was some other tournament thing on Saturday but Friday was unofficially teen night. People would go to hang out, snack, hog the jukebox, and heckle even if they didn't bowl.
Canuckr82@reddit
As a Canadian i was shocked to find out American high school and college sports have huge crowds at the games like movies/shows, up in Canada our teen sports will have the parents at most watching the games like football/basketball. But in America they have 100s to 1000s from the community show up.. like there's people there that don't even have kids that come support it, and they televised it too?
Suzesaur@reddit
Yeah my town had a small mall, thatâs where we would hang out. We would roam around, most hung out in the food court or the sidewalk just outside the main entrance. We would go to the FYE and listen to cds for a while a lot tooâŚother hangs included: a bowling alley/pool hall combo, the benches outside Publix to enjoy the mandatory pub sub for lunch break, and each others houses (usually the kid with the coolest parent would have everyone over).
Addamall@reddit
I too am an older millennial and yes of course the olâ soda fountain trope is a lay over from black and white sitcom days for the most part. HOWEVER my HS did have a university right next door with an establishment called âthe caveâ that many people hung out at. It was a pool parlor with concessions that pretty busy before a football game, or any weekday afternoon since that had the least college students then.
AdComprehensive7939@reddit
My hometown had a teen club for a bit, it closed around 97 maybe? I'm not sure when it started, it wasn't open every day but like weekends only. I went once and just remember a lot of making out and hand stuff happening w the older kids in the booths đÂ
As another poster mentioned, Dennys was my haunt for a half a decade, Waffle House or the Flying J restaurant in a pinch.
NorthsideB@reddit
There was an arcade and a pool hall in a strip mall near my house in Chicago. There was lots of gang activity at both places, but if you were friendly with the gangbangers then it didn't matter. The arcade used to get beta copies of Midway games, including Mortal Kombat. I had the opportunity to play an early copy of Mortal Kombat 3 when it was only 1-player, because they hadn't finished programming the 2-player mode yet.
Lake2two@reddit
So many - parks, bowling alleys, movie rental places, hidden spots in the woods, beaches, lakes, abandoned or half-built houses, or our various place of business (that were run by teenagers and maybe a stoner college student who also wanted to hang).
Objective-Ad5620@reddit
Wait, you never spent hours with a group of teens at Dennyâs or TGI Fridayâs or the local coffee shop? Iâm not even an Xennial but that was the norm when I was a teen in the 2000s. We also hung out at the mall. We generally didnât have money, so we were definitely just loitering. Places were friendlier to teens wasting time back then.
Traumagatchi@reddit
Back in the 90s, Moe's diner, arcades, the mall, the skate park....they were for us. There was a drop in center for teens so we didn't get up to more trouble, always had food, games and friends there. We were also involved with helping the homeless through the drop in, we did food in the park and set up donations. There's nothing left for teens anymore it seems like. And then people get mad when they get into trouble.
Stunning_Radio3160@reddit
Iâve gotta say, that a place where only teens go sounds like absolute hell to me. But Iâm also in my 40s lol. No these did not exist growing up. Maybe a mall ??
Jd11347@reddit
The one that bothered me the most was the club from the movie Hackers. That place was so fake. Kids running round on in line skates with an indoor track and video games hooked up to wall panel big screen TV's. I'm sorry but IRL, nothing like that ever existed in my world.
hittindirt@reddit
Yes
textposts_only@reddit
In Germany you can start drinking beer and wine at 16.
So in my little town of 15k people we had several pubs. One of them catered to teens. as in sold us cigs and beer without really looking at our IDs.
It was amazing. Every weekend we knew that there was this place to go. Free from parents. With cheap beer and lax authority.
I really miss it
Khorre@reddit
I lived in a small country town, we had a diner called the feedlot that had a hangout spot for teenagers and a dining room for adults,
JoeSpic01@reddit
For me it was coffee houses in the late 90s. We would sit there for hours talking, doing homework etc. And while kids still do this now, I feel at least in the midwest that adults werenât also "hanging out" at coffee shops it was just teens who stayed there after ordering so it felt like what you are describing. Different friend groups would come and go at different times so it felt pretty happening.
BramblesCrash@reddit
We had a community center where you could go swim and play racketball or lift weights and a lot of kids hung out there. We had a couple diners that we hung out at, though we didn't make up the majority of their clientele but there'd be a couple large tables of teens at any given moment. So we kinda had that. And a roller rink. In rural Utah from 1995-2000.
Jd11347@reddit
Kind of. I grew up in small towns and cities. The size of the area that you live in matters. The smallest town that I grew up in started out with a small market, a video store and a small restaurant in a 3 window strip mall with one row of parking spots. As it grew, it got a pizza place with a few arcade games and since there was nothing to do in that town, that's where you would find all of the kids from school. When I moved to a small city, that was only slightly less boring for kids, One of the 6 movie theaters, or adjacent arcades were hang out spots. There was also a local coffee shop by the time that I got to high school that was pretty close to how The Max was on Saved By The Bell. Everyone there was a teenager, they didn't care if you went out back to smoke and came in wreaking of bud. They had a pool table and a juke box with modern music.
Even that coffee shop wasn't popping off with every kid from school every day like these TV hang out spots. Either I would meet people there for a few rounds of pool, or just show up there to kill time and run into people that I knew. They would have local acoustic musicians play shows there at night once in a while and the place was packed. I miss that place TBH. That town's idea of entertainment was: "Hey, let's build an 8th and 9th movie theater, and run the 3rd and 5th out of business, leaving their strip mall a deserted wasteland. Even though nobody is using it for anything at all, you sure as hell better not skate there. We will give you a ticket!"
djmagicio@reddit
There was this burger shack in a small town not too far from where I lived and it would always just be staffed by two teenagers. So weâd hang out there while we ate (as would other teens - but just random families from town too), but it wasnât the same thing as youâre talking about. Closest I could think of though.
rinky79@reddit
The mall was HUGE. We'd get dropped off at the mall on a Saturday and spend the next 6 hours there.
A northwest 24-hr chain restaurant called Shari's was big (something between Denny's and Red Robin).
And my friend group had a couple of slightly-better-off families, who had pools/hot tubs, or big basements with a pool table & bigscreen TV, or a sport court, etc, and parents who didn't mind middle- & highschoolers over all the time. So we spent a lot of time at those houses.
teganking@reddit
yes it was called The Mall
chesstercheetah@reddit
When I was in high school there wasnât anywhere for teens to really hang out besides the movies and the bowling alley â and the gas station we all called âthe yellowâ where we literally just stood around the parking lot waiting for whoever to show up.
skipearth@reddit
In NY yeah
Separate-Relative-83@reddit
My friend had a small local coffee shop close to the high school. We always went there to ditch school. We played cards, drank coffee and smoked. It was pretty good.
monsterdaddy4@reddit
We had Flipper McCoy's. Local arcade that was attached to a pizza and sub shop.
enobrev@reddit
There were a couple fast food places behind my high school, where we all spent a couple hours after school was out. We were generally in a parking lot smoking and hanging out and we'd pop in and out of the fast food spots for hot dogs, italian beefs, italian ice, pizza puffs and fries. The owners knew a lot of us by name. As long as one of us bought something they didn't mind us taking up the tables for some time.
ursamajr@reddit
GenX here I had a few in my town. The two big ones were the local 24/7 diner that was always packed with teens from our school and the neighboring school and a pool hall.
Grayfoxy1138@reddit
I was born in 1990. Graduated in 2009. From podunk Appalachian Ohio of all places. Yes, teen gang out places existed. Our mall and flea market were two major ones. Then there was the skate park and a fuck load of âtraveling hangoutsâ like battle of the bands and local rock shows at the American Legion or VFW halls.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
You're not asking about the local rock-climbing gym or the gaming/hobby store are you? đ
Arcades were probably the closest to a dedicated "teen hangout" type location. But I rarely sought those out.
Malls were a default hangout spot for a couple of decades. Before the dark times. Before the ~~empire~~ amazon.
scotchislife903@reddit
Where Iâm from, our city had 2 âteen clubsâ. This was mid-90s. I was a licensed driver with a car by 15, so Friday and Saturday nights thatâs where we were. Oh and, they had the bright idea of serving liquor, if you were 18 and over they gave you a wristband, 18 and under no wristband. If I remember correctly drinking age hadnât been upped to 21 at that point. Could have been only 21 and older, memory is fuzzy on that one. Nothing could go wrong with that right? I had a friend get stabbed in the face with a fork in a fight there. Good times.
Less-Cap6996@reddit
Everyone ended up at the diner at some point. Friendlies was also popular. We were punks, and rolled in 10-20 person packs after shows. The older kids taught us to "fucking behave and tip well. These people are at work."
Automatic_Phone8959@reddit
The Mall. Suburban SoCal. Everyone would just show up.
LukeMayeshothand@reddit
If in town we would hit up the Subway, and the local video store. Local kids worked there and we would hang out for a little bit. But usually it was just long enough to plan where we were going to party and who with.
mohaveghosts@reddit
Yes
BadAtExisting@reddit
Roller skate rink, mall, movie theater, arcade. We had a park where everyone would jump in their/someoneâs car and cruise after high school football and basketball games
TacoDestroyer420@reddit
I wished for a fun place like wherever Barth worked on You Can't Do That On Television.
LastCallKillIt@reddit
When I was in High School all the goth kids would just stand around and hang out in front of Barnes & Noble next to the AMC for some reason. It was pretty funny.
Rob_LeMatic@reddit
literacy, maybe? I know all of my friends were readers. Books and eyeliner, all day erry day
LastCallKillIt@reddit
Definitely not these ones lol. I remember them. They were just degens, I was also a degen but in to punk instead lol
southernfirm@reddit
Oh yeah. Where I grew up there was a derelict arcade and mall that we mobbed on the weekends. They had a game called Whirly Ball, which will take some explaining.
Lanky_Buy1010@reddit
Yes. There was an ice cream shop, a sandwich shop, and a late night arcade that existed in my tiny rural town in 00s. Otherwise people had house parties or hung out in the woods or fields.Â
PinkFloydDeadhead@reddit
We used to hang out and smoke cigarettes at Roy Roger's before it got turned into a McDonald's. That's where I was when we found out Kurt Cobain and John Candy had died.
deepee45@reddit
We had a mini golf/arcade place that was the hang out spot. You pretty much rotate between, six flags, the mall, mini golf, and then finish at Dennys.
LilyWhitehouse@reddit
We had a few spots near my HS- a hero shop, and a pizza place. If you had late arrival or early dismissal in HS thatâs where youâd go. There was also a place called âMustardâsâ that was a huge hangout. They had food and games, but I was not enough of a rebel to go there. They catered to a very specific crowd.
We often had teen night at nightclubs in the area too.
I think kids still do this today. My kid and her teen friends will all go to Starbucks after school and stay for a LONG time. From 3-5 pm Starbucks is packed out with teenagers from the neighborhood.
doocurly@reddit
The Mall had it all. The roller skating rink was adult-free. The movie theater was in the mall. We were unaccounted for gods.
lothartheunkind@reddit
My small town had a youth music venue organized by a nondenominational church. There wasnât any churching or praying, just a place for youth in the town to perform with their band or see their friends or just hang out. Soooooo much underage smoking took place lol
symonym7@reddit
In central CT everyone went to Goldroc, where the barrier between the smoking and non-smoking sections was your imagination.
Apparently it turned into an IHOP in '21. SHAAAAME
MaddyKet@reddit
That reminds me of the Bickfordâs I used to go to in Massachusetts. Except for the smoke, that place was awesome. You could roll in at 4am for some amazing potato skins. They even had prisoner waiters on work release. lol
The one my friend went to, it was like a haze of smoke and he went so often he just walked over and served himself coffee. I thought that location was a little groudy. đš
OkNewspaper8714@reddit
Yes! We had one in the town I grew up in. It was called Grafittiâs, and it was kind of a joke for the most part. But when we were about 12-14 it was somewhere to kind of go. They had pool tables, and arcade games, air hockey, and a dance floor and they hosted DJ nights on Friday nights. It was VERY Saved By The Bell influenced.
IanDetroit@reddit
Yes, absolutely. Some in public places like a Dennyâs, outside a 7/11, or I remember a bowling alley and other times we just found places in parks or on school playgrounds or even outside randos houses. I hear friends talk about parenting now and it definitely feels different today than it was then.
yeahipostedthat@reddit
IHOP on the weekends late at night was full of stoned teenagers in my day.
Drcornelius1983@reddit
We had a concert venue owned by the city. Local high school bands could book shows. There even were social groups and lbtq+ and plflag groups.
drunkadvice@reddit
You mean like The Max on saved by the bell? I figure that was a stand in for the mall food court.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's what I'm gathering was the basis for it.
drunkadvice@reddit
I think it works. because thatâs where all the teens would hang out, but the show didnât need to maintain and populate extras for a large set like that. They could always location scout a mall if the script needed it, but they had The (much smaller) Max as a stand in.
ScreamThyLastScream@reddit
Bowling Alleys were probably the closest I can think of, but TV did not often depict real hangouts, which seemed to usually involve infrastructure you could use for some activity. Whether it be skaters or ravers.
wheresripp@reddit
Idealized? Absolutely! But they did l exist. My friends and I had tons of forts in the woods. We would always have a main base where we met up and hung out after school and on weekends. We would raid the nearby junkyard for supplies to build stuff like zip lines. Then in high school my friend got an N64 and the outdoors chapter of my life abruptly ended. I was hooked.
TollyVonTheDruth@reddit
Yes. It was called the mall and more specifically, Aladin's Castle arcade inside the mall.
Another common hangout was parking in various places on the main street where racing, picking up girls, and fights would happen on the weekend. It would usually lead to an invite to someone's party â if you were "cool" enough.
Other than that, in my city, there were no other hangout spots. Now, make out spots, that's another story.
MaddyKet@reddit
I completely forgot that Aladdinâs Castle used to be a thing, but now I can picture it next to the food court. đš
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess malls would have provided the best infrastructure for this kind of thing.
moke51@reddit
Dennyâs and the local diner. We didnât have the whole Dennyâs to ourselves, but Friday nights theyâd sit all the teens together and we had special rules to follow so we wouldnât bother the other customers (like stay in your seat). I donât remember the rules working really well.
ChiCityTechNerd@reddit
In our area, we had under-21 dance clubs like âZero Gravityâ and âGalaxyâ. I suppose people over 21 could go there but they catered to an audience of teenagers up to 21. You could get into the same hijinx you see in movies and television, including sex and drugs in the bathroom, but they did not sell alcohol. They had to abide by curfew laws and the police were frequently called.
New_Complex_1278@reddit
We had a Dairy Queen and a burger restaurant beside it with a huge gazebo. A lot of the kids worked there and everyone went after football games. We also did hang out at the mall a good bit. We did hang out at the skating rink.
lil_grey_alien@reddit
Xennial from NJ- the hub was always the diner. You could smoke, order coffee or disco fries and it was 24/7. You could post up there and at some point meet with friends.
Ok_Employee8855@reddit
Mid 90âs skating rinks Friday and Saturday nights from 7-11 pm had skating that was mostly 14-18 year olds (no adults or young kids really) in my suburb. Was mostly the degenerate kids from all around (myself included), lots of fights, making out and smoking in the parking lot. Was like a nightclub for kids, good times
kippismn@reddit
We had multiple hang out spots depending on what season it was and if we had weed to smoke.
misterrandom1@reddit
Every Saturday night until midnight or so. Free food, video games, pool tables, open gym. Lots of stuff to do. Sponsored by the local police department and local businesses.
LexDoctor24@reddit
They had a teen center In my town.
Applewave22@reddit
As an elder millennial - graduated 1999 - when I was in high school, there was a teen club all the kids would hang out. We also had a hang out that we made at a bar down the street from our high school. Hanging out with other teens seemed like normal.
elkniodaphs@reddit
The stand-alone arcade, the arcade in the mall, the mall just in general, the video rental store, the other video rental store, or the comic book shop. My friend group would hang out at Waldenbooks, Barnie's, and Babbage's. And I do mean hang out, we weren't just shopping in these places. There was also the pool hall that had Mortal Kombat, or the bowling alley that had Mr. Do. There was the rec center with basketball and hip hop. You could also crash the school after hours and hit up the AV room, or play D&D in the science lab. There was a time where my friend group had access to a beach house, so we would play Korn or Sepultura (or whatever) on the deck and teens would congregate on the beach behind the house. I could probably make this post three times as long if I wanted to, there were tons of places for teens to hang out.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Thanks for that. A lot of people are mentioning places that happened to be taken over by teens at certain times. I was specifically referring to places that seemed designed for and catered only to teens the way you see in movies and TV shows. As somebody who came of age in the late 90s/early 2000s, there weren't any of those. So I wondered if those only existed in movies, or if they were an actual reflection of real life.
elkniodaphs@reddit
I think what you're describing is very distinct. We had a snow cone shop which I think was intended as a hangout spot for teens but the only people that ever went there were me and my friends after tennis. The owner was definitely trying to channel that maltshop energy from his youth, and we appreciated the effort.
Yeah, a lot of my answers above are kind of in a gray area, but proprietors partitioning space for teens was the thread I decided to pull. You've been very kind in these comments toward people who must have missed your specific ask, but hey, there is no knowledge that is not power and that goes for unprompted data as well.
Any_Ring_3818@reddit
Me and my friends went to McDonald's after school and smoked cigarettes, played with our zippos, and ate shitty food and drank soda.
MountainisCalling@reddit
Iâm an older Xennial (â77). We would go to Eat n Park (Western PA staple) and Dennyâs for after shows and bonfires/field parties. There were two different venues within 20 minutes that exclusively hosted live local bands and musicians on Friday and Saturday nights. A couple of under-21 ânightclubsâ as well. Two malls. My wife and often talk about how adults love to hate on âkids these daysâ living online, but thereâs no âthird-spaceâ for them. Other than home and school, it seems like there are no fun options to hangout that are either free or super cheap, and arenât organized by adults as an athletic or educational event.
Portlander@reddit
My high school group kept the coffee shop open. The only people who drank coffee in the shop was us teenagers. We convinced him to change the hours from the morning till after school ended.
He bought us a pool table and huge loungers. Jesus and Star, you made the best coffee and thank you for giving us a place to hang out that was safe. I still miss the gigantic blue fuzzy chair that I used to sip my coffee in
CombatDeffective@reddit
They did, but not enough people won skiing competitions to save them for them to still be around today.
Murky-Perceptions@reddit
Oh yeah, we had a MOM & POP style CD/ record store that sold merch etc. They even had a little chill area where we could hang or just loiter around.
We also would do bonfires at the river, Hang in orchards etc.
Lameladyy@reddit
My hometown had a place called The Rec. It served fast food, was full of pinball machines and all the teenagers hung out there. It was a small town, metal late 80s
JudgeJuryEx78@reddit
Nothing that was specifically geared toward teens, but places where a lot of teens hung out. There was a place that played shows by local and iirc didn't serve alcohol and seemed like mostly teens. I think there were some over 21 people hanging out there though.
ah-mazia@reddit
Not restaurants that Iâm aware of but there were definitely under 18 dance clubs pretty much everywhere for a short but glorious period of time. Theyâd only open on the weekend evenings but i vividly remember seeing a group of dudes turned away at the door for being âoverageâ lol
originalmosh@reddit
The arcade and skating rink is what we had for kid only hangouts.
Mind-of-Jaxon@reddit
Yes society was more accommodating to kids back in the day. Now itâs all about work and business and every piece of lands needs to turn a profit
Visual-Fig-4763@reddit
Near my high school was an all age pool hall, a coffee shop that was definitely a teen space on Friday and Saturday nights, a discount movie theater that was a teen space in the evenings with Rocky horror every Friday night, and an arcade in the same shopping center as the theater. We also often just went to the mall or there was an abandoned house on a hill that was a party spot. That house was actually from a pretty well now horror movie and was later moved and restored but it was a pretty popular spot to go smoke and drink.
auramaelstrom@reddit
There was a youth centre in our town that had pool tables and couches etc. They would occasionally host battles of the bands and other events. I think there's one in the town I live in now as well. Pretty common in our area.
We mostly just hung out at a coffee shop that wouldn't hassle us for smoking under age and gave us free food if we took out their garbage.
Upset_Culture_83@reddit
McDonalds in my town.
Defiant-Fix2870@reddit
Yeah back then all coffee shops were private and mostly teenagers inside. I was friends with musicians and we would perform there a lot. I miss when the world was less corporate. Diners were another place with mostly teens, at times.
tc_cad@reddit
I used to go to a pool lounge after school. It was mostly old men and us teens.
mzshowers@reddit
We lived out in the country (US Midwest), so we congregated at different houses and just cruised, running the roads and listening to music a lot of the time. We did go to pool halls sometimes and hang there.
I was still a teen when I moved to an East Coast seaside town. We still gathered at various homes, but also enjoyed meeting up at Dennyâs!
sweetassassin@reddit
The mall food court is the place to be at to see and be seen.
The best would be a food court that also opened into an arcade and a movie theater.
tadamhicks@reddit
Born in 80. We had a coffee shop downtown that was like a more gothy/punk rocky version of Maxâs. Definitely not where the clean cut crowd hung out. They had board games and was right in the middle of downtown so it was where we frequently met up.
boreddissident@reddit
I think the answer to your question is "no."
The kind of places in movies and TV shows where it's like a normal business adults might go to but it's entirely high school aged kids were not a thing. There were plenty of places that wound up with a good chunk of teenage clientele and leaned in, but I don't think that's what you're asking.
We had an all-ages music venue, but even then, if a band older people cared about was playing, it wasn't an exclusive teenage space at all.
Love_003@reddit
Yup, fast food places, diners, shopping malls. If someone had a car we would just drive around, cruising.Â
FoppyDidNothingWrong@reddit
Driving around for fun and no plan was a thing.
FoppyDidNothingWrong@reddit
Not in my town, and for a pretty big town with nothing to do that was unusual.
TheVexingRose@reddit
I'm a cusper. Instead of calling myself an older millennial, I call myself a Xennial. It definitely existed for me. The town was closer to a ghost town back then, so we didn't have the flashier businesses to congregate at. We had a gas station next to a music store, then an old train yard behind that. You get your snacks, you might buy or trade a CD at the store, then the place to hang was in one of the train cars. Cops came around if we got too rowdy, but for the most part we were safe there so they looked the other way. We were definitely more of a Bill and Ted crowd than we were a Saved By The Bell group.
Bajovane@reddit
Iâm trying to think about my home town. We had Perkins Restaurant and it was a major hangout for teens and young adults. You could have coffee/soda and sit and smoke for hours. The bowling alley was next door - easy hangout there too. Of course if we acted out, we would be kicked out, so we behaved. The restaurant was the first job for a few of us.
The bowling alley still exists, but the restaurant was closed years ago (and it was just torn down in the last year or so after being empty for so long) As far as I know, there really arenât any hangouts as there were. Kids are so scheduled these days.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I keep seeing Perkins mentioned. I've never heard of it.
Bajovane@reddit
Really? I think it was mostly in the East? It was very similar to Dennyâs. Same principle. You have the counter, and you have the booths. All day breakfast (my favorite) and pots of coffee.
I miss it.
I think there are still Perkins restaurants in the Great Plains. Nebraska, Iowa, Kansas, Minnesota, and probably Colorado. Just a handful of restaurants where they were all over before.
https://www.perkinsrestaurants.com/
lickmybrian@reddit
The bleachers across the street from my high-school was the spot during school hours then we just wandered around the neighbourhood for the rest of it
kmill0202@reddit
I grew up in a small town and it seems like places like this would pop up, stick around for a couple of years, and then go out of business. They were usually just small, cheap places that sold pizza, burgers, and fried food and would have a couple of arcade machines or foosball tables. Idk if they were deliberately trying to attract only teenagers or what. But I'm guessing the profit margins were never high enough to make them successful in the long term. Kind of hard to make a lot of money when most of your customers are on an allowance.
Self-MadeRmry@reddit
There were two go-to places when I was a teenager in my small hometown. There was a parking lot on âthe nobâ if you wanted to go show off your car, and McDonaldâs if you got hungry. If you were looking to hang out with people, youâd check these two places
blove135@reddit
I think it was more common for the generations right before us. At least where I grew up gang violence which was fueled by the crack epidemic was getting out of control by the early 90s. That kind of ruined it for our age group. Anytime someone tried to create a legit business that was a hangout for teens the gangs would start to invade and inevitably there would be lots of fights and then a shooting that would eventually shut it down. If they let some teens in they had to let all in and that meant the dumbass gangbangers that would always ruin everything. That doesn't mean we didn't find ways to hang out in groups. Usually a public park, some abandoned building or abandoned property somewhere or just a friends garage or basement. No gang bangers invited.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I do get the sense that kids and teenagers were even more free range in the 80s and early 90s. By the late 90s you couldn't really do that.
blove135@reddit
We were all still pretty free range in the late 90s especially since most of my generation was in their teens and driving everywhere by then. It was just my memory that whenever something official got going specifically for teens 21 and younger it got ruined by the gangs. We just didn't have fully officially sanctioned hang outs. We made our own hang outs that wasn't really open to the general public. We might have 20 or 30 kids hanging out in an old abandoned building.
OriganolK@reddit
From so cal, born mid-80âs. Weâd hang at the mall, or one of those fun zone spots with roller rink, arcade, mini golf. Didnât need to pay to get in just to do what you want. I donât think hanging in a restaurant is really viable as no one likes table campers.
I think itâs easy for shows to put people in restaurants cause they can interact with food & dialogue. Canât easily film a sitcom on a roller rink and shows are focused on the dialogue.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess malls were the spot.
OriganolK@reddit
I just canât see a successful restaurant that caters to broke high school kids only. I mean I got a job at 14 had to get a work permit and could only work like 3 hours a day until I turned 16. Making cones at marble slab creamery. Most of my friends did not so we hung at the places that were free. Another great spot was Warehouse music. They would setup game consoles and we could go play basically anything for free. Man that was such a cool spot after school
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's what gets me when I see them in movies now. There's no way a business like that could make it in real life.
TaylorMade9322@reddit
Yes there used to be 3rd spaces. Since 2010 its been in decline⌠thats a big problem socio-emotionally.
MuffinMatrix@reddit
I think mostly just seen in movies/tv cause its an easy way to show teens hanging out after school, and when so many gather in a place, it makes more sense when they randomly run into each other. Harder to make believable when couple friends go to the diner at the edge of town, yet still run into the school bully.
A lot of movies also make it seem like its always very small towns, where everyone knows each other and theres only a few places to go, and people live nearby.
When I was in HS, we just randomly went to Taco Bell or Checkers or whatever else. There was no place where 1/2 the school gathered. People lived all over a busy town.
Also was in a sprawling busy suburb... no random woods to get lost in. Just more houses and stores and busy streets.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I'm sure places had establishments that teenagers hung out in. But it seems like these places in movies and tv shows were specific only for teenagers.
Aurora_Twinstar@reddit
Would it have added or subtracted to the plot to have shown adults? Would it have distracted from the main characters? Would it have made budgetary sense to add more bodies simply to make it more realistic? I understand where your headspace is at for sure, but filming and story telling require some specificity to the environment the characters are in.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Fair enough.
MuffinMatrix@reddit
There was this 1 nightclub that was just for teens. I never went though.
The mall was always big though. (there were a few within an easy drive)
But can't think of anything else that was more hangout for lots of teens.
haus11@reddit
I feel like if you made someplace specifically to cater to teens there is no way they's come it was all about basically taking over places.
In my town we had 3 pool halls, they'd be nothing but teenagers and maybe 1 really old guy, like probably in his 60s but looked about 110. Probably because those places didn't care if you smoked. The largest of the 3 would sometimes have bands playing and often got so smoky that you couldnt see the balls across the table. We'd drive to a different pool hall like 30 minutes away when we really wanted to play because they also had darts and it was never as smoky.
We'd then all meet up at Denny's ("not that one, the good one") and just have coffee and cigarettes and maybe some food. We always tipped ridiculously well, like if we were there for a while it wasn't uncommon to drop $20 just for coffee or a pop, so the waitresses would keep the managers from asking us to leave.
jimbopalooza@reddit
In my hometown it was an arcade in the 80âs and early 90âs. Also I worked at a mom n pop pizza place that was basically all teens after 8pm on Friday and Saturday nights it was before cell phones so itâs where ppl met up to find out what was going on that particular night or create something to do or somewhere else to go. It was fun.
needsomeair13@reddit
Life was different before cell phones and beepers. We definitely had hang outs at the mall the movies Main Street sides. Kids donât do that anymore?
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I don't think they can. It's a different world. Imagine a kid streaming at one of those places.
i_am_randy@reddit
I lived in a small town in east Texas and around 1992 to 1995 we had a pool hall called Chaunceyâs. They offered non-alcoholic drinks, and even had warehouse space in the back with a stage set up so bands could come play. Alcohol was explicitly banned from the establishment, as were drugs and cigarettes. (And by stage set up I mean an elevated area of the floor that was about 2â higher than the rest of the floor.) He also had some board games and some over stuffed couches to hang out on and play games at.
Chaunceyâs had several things going against it though. 1. It was a pool hall. That made it off limits to a lot of kids because their parents didnât want them hanging out at a pool hall. 2. Kids got up to things right outside the building. Parents could drive by and see kids 100 feet away from the entrance standing in a group and smoking. The biggest thing Chaunceyâs had against it was the owner was black. This town had incredibly racist roots, and sad to say, even to this day, it has not moved real far from those roots.
It was a sad day when he closed down.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I'm sure there were always the sketchy kids doing sketchy things at these places as well. Movies and tv shows always make them seem so wholesome.
scaryclown148@reddit
Everyday from sophomore to senior year, the same friend group went to one of our houses and watched the Simpsonâs and futurama after school before going home for dinner. Iâve been searching for something like this ever since
cerialthriller@reddit
I graduated highschool in 2000. We definitely had places like this where a whole Bunch of teenagers hung out that was similar to how it was on tv shows / movies. There were multiple diners that we hang out spots, an arcade, the pool hall, bowling alley, and the mall. Then there were the baseball / soccer fields people would hang out together at night or spots in the woods where weâd drink and make camp fires
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Must have been really cool being in high school in the late 90s. Old enough to experience modern times before everything went to downhill.
artfully_dejected@reddit
Our 24 hour family restaurant was Omega, but same basic premise.
Lopsided_Impact1444@reddit
Definitely not in my small hometown, but maybe in larger city's?
In my town, high school kids would meet up and park sometimes car loads of kids in certain parking lots that were known to be hang out spots, and they would literally just roll their windows down or hang out by their cars for hours.. Even as a teen that seemed pretty lame to me
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Seem like they were a thing mostly in small towns.
CliffGif@reddit
Epstein island
Lunar-Havoc@reddit
They were around in the 90s. The Mall, Arcades, Skateland, there was a pool hall that let High Schoolers in. We would hang out and smoke in the alley. Maybe you just went invited. Lol
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Malls, arcades, and skating rinks definitely seemed to form the basis for what you see in the movies.
Bushwazi@reddit
Hell yes. A key component is one of your fellow teens holding down a job a said establishment. So anywhere the homies worked, weâd hang. Except in kitchens. Kitchens never had room for the homies.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's very true. And the friend group would come visit them during their shift.
Hamburger_Helper1988@reddit
In the late 90s we hung out at this ice skating rink. Every Friday night it was THE place to be and basically only teenagers. In high school our mall built a whole extra outdoor area that connected to the movie theater and we took that over. I mean there were other people there but it was a loooooooooot of teens.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That sounds pretty cool.
ThaDawg359@reddit
Yes those places did exist. They were called McDonald's, Jake's Pizza, and Red Robin.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Fair enough.
BlueProcess@reddit
There was a particular place that my friends and I used to hang out at during the night because it was open 24 hours. We'd get Cappuccinos and Donuts and have a good time. We were almost always the only ones there.
Then they hired a guy just out of prison that couldn't stand us and was such a difficult person to deal with that we stopped going.
A month or two later they stopped being open 24 hours, and a little while after that they closed.
Now there is no way our business was the deciding factor, but I always wonder if that guy ran off all the other business too.
Velvet_Samurai@reddit
My town tried this 3 or 4 times during my youth. They were always really mediocre and all failed very quickly. The kids want what the kids want, and it's never what some old dude decided they should like.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I imagine the ones in movies and tv shows are very idealized versions of anything that happened in real life.
Piranha_Vortex@reddit
Lived in a 3k population town. A local opened a gaming room next to the grocery store. Billiard tables, darts, upright consoles and a big 30 inch TV with some retro consoles. It was fun and a popular hangout for the 5 years it was open... then he was robbed and the place was destroyed.
Perps were caught but the cost to replace everything was too high. Sadly, it is very difficult to keep places like this open without bad actors messing with good people.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's true. There's no way a place like that could exist today.
YoureABoneMachine@reddit
I didn't know it at the time, but I was very lucky to grow up in a city with an alt Teen club. It was open 9-2am, had a dancefloor, a DJ, and an attached record shop. They played Joy Division, Beastie Boys, Archers of Loaf, and all sorts of good music. We all danced, solo (like, not grinding on people or couples dancing). It was fucking cool as shit. No alcohol, but there was a beach a block away where we'd go to burn one. Every cool kid in the city went there, and alt kids in my city were even known by a name that referenced the name of this club. It was a golden era for me.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Dang that sounds pretty cool.
PuppyJakeKhakiCollar@reddit
We did have one particular restaurant that was as close to this as you are going to get. It wasn't specifically for teens but after a certain time on Friday and Saturday nights, the clientele was all high school kids. Even most of the wait staff was kids from the local schools. But if you went during other times, people of all ages were there.
getdownmakelooove@reddit
You mean a place like The Max on Saved by the Bell, The Bronze on Buffy, or The Peach Pit from 90210.
Nope. I grew up in a small town and I remember a few arcades opening up bit not lasting very long.
At one point, a city about 30 miles away had something called Friday Night Live. It was basically a lock in at a community center on Friday nights with a dance floor and DJ. Parents could drop their teens at, and it was only for ages 13-17. It wasn't affiliated with a church or school. I never went though.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
So definitely these places were idealized in movies and TV shows but never actually existed in real life.
sarithe@reddit
The only place we ever had like that in my area was the "youth center" at this church in town. They even named it Purgatory to try to sound edgy and appeal to 90s teens. It was meant to be like a "club" for teens and youth to keep them "out of the streets."
Unfortunately, because it was attached to the church, they basically didn't let us do anything fun. We couldn't play any video games with any violence, so we were limited to sports games like NBA Live or Madden. We couldn't listen to secular music, so a lot of popular music at the time was not available to us. We had to listen to like DC Talk or early Skillet if we wanted to listen to anything "heavy." I got them to let me host a christian metal night thing once and was playing legit christian bands like Blindside, Strongarm, Eso-Charis, and Rod Laver, but they quickly killed it off because any music with screaming was automatically "devil music" to them.
It lasted like 3 months before they dropped all the club aspects and just turned it into another building for church sponsored events only.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess youth centers are another inspiration for these places.
geezorious@reddit
Teens: Dave & Busters, or any arcade hall with mini games (basketball shot hoop, air hockey table, etc)
Tweens: Chuck E Cheese, or roller skating rinks.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's a good break down of them.
civiltribe@reddit
we hung out in town but we'd get on the train and we could be at Toys r us, the movies, often we were at Taco Bell, blockbuster, local pizza place. a huge hangout spot in particular was the woods or the pond for fishing. or if you had a friend with parents who didn't care as much, you went to that person's house to hang out.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I miss Blockbuster and talking film with people on a Friday or Saturday evening.
471b32@reddit
There were a few under age clubs that lasted a few years in southwest Wisconsin. It was a shit show. Albeit a fun shit show at the time. The one I went to was out in the middle of nowhere in some small town.Â
DorkChatDuncan@reddit
Depended on where you lived. Higher-density suburban and inner city areas definately evolved places like that for kids to hang out, especially in above the median income areas where the kids often had a little spending cash. Food courts at Malls were big for that, diners like Dennys and Waffle House and IHOP were common, McDonalds and the like as well. To the point I remember in the early 2000s some of those places putting up signs noting a time limit and no groups of more than 6 or minors needing to be accompanied by adults, etc.
The economic downturn after 9/11 really hurt that entire cultural concept, and a lot of kids ended up hanging around gas stations (which is where stoners used to be), which led to the rise of super gas stations like Sheetz, Wawa and Buckee's becoming more than just convience stores and evolving into teen hangout spots. Now its not uncommon to see teenagers wearing t-shirts of gas stations, which would have been unthinkable (except maybe 7-11?) in the late 90s.
I moved around A LOT, and lower income areas tended not to have congregative spaces be businesses (some field somewhere or abandoned buildings or some other place where we could get into some trouble) were common instead. When we moved into more affulent suburbs, there were malls and strip malls and restaurants that were common hangout spots (and often served as the first job for a lot of the kids too).
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
From what it sounds like, the places you see in movies and tv shows were idealized versions of things that happened at places that weren't necessarily only for teens.
DorkChatDuncan@reddit
Pretty much. Movies always idealize things because it creates a structure for them to tell a story and everyone kind of understands.
KnucklesG-Roy@reddit
Iâve learned better than to speak for everyone, but my experience of being a free range teen is that no establishment was ever fully occupied by teens the way you would have seen it on SBTB, or more recent tween shows my kids watch, like the Thundermans. There were always adults and small children sprinkled around the mall food court, or late night at Dennyâs. HOWEVER, Houston did have an 18+ club that served alcohol (for 21+) called Numbers, which was mostly occupied by 18-20 year olds. It definitely wasnât for the preppy high schoolers. It was an industrial/goth club mostly. NIN famously performed there. Tangent - sorry.
Your question: no not like on TV.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's what it sounds like. Just certain spots or times of day at places in real life being the basis for the ones you see in movies and TV shows.
KevinStoley@reddit
Nothing for me that I recall that is like what you are describing. I never remember any places that were specifically designed around or oriented towards catering specifically to teens or younger people.
There were certainly regular places that happened to end up as spots where teens an younger people would hang out. But they also had varied demographics, including adults.
Like someone else commented Denny's. Where I grew up it was Perkins, I remember often seeing groups of teens or younger adults hanging out there in groups, but there was also plenty of families, adults, elderly people, etc. I also remember a lot of teens often going to Ci-Ci's pizza as well.
But there was never anything like The Max from SBTB that seemed to specifically be oriented towards young folks, I think this is more of a TV trope.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I think so too.
tragiccosmicaccident@reddit
I grew up in Grand Rapids. Coffee shop culture was huge there and mostly teens and young adults.
chicahhh@reddit
There were a few places that did a weekly teen dance we went to. Called âTeen Sceneâ or something like that.
Held at community centres, dark with music/smoke machines, people smoking outside, girls sneaking in vodka in mini hairspray bottles. 14-15 year olds. lol
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I remember those in the late 90s/early 2000s.
EnvironmentalSound25@reddit
I recall there were certain locations that were hot spots to meet up at, but almost exclusively at certain times. So, for example in the mornings there was a donut shop that from 7-8 would just be mobbed with teens on our way to school. After school there was a nearby pizza slice place that we would takeover for a few hours. In middle school on early days pretty much everyone would migrate over to the closest McDonalds. The local diner practically had separate hours for different generations: from 4-6 it would be all old folks, dinner hours would be families and after hours the youth took over (especially after certain extracurriculars â dances, games, plays, etc). After us i bet the bar flies would stumble in.
These were all places that definitely could be used by adults but i honestly do not remember seeing any and as an adult now i would definitely avoid it myself lol.
WarpTroll@reddit
Our mall has the peanut shack, Aladdin's castle (arcade) and the bowling alley with whatever their full restaurant was called all right next to each other. So we had snacks, arcade, bowling and food and it was mostly kids that hung out all day. And of course the rest of the mall.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess malls would be the most similar to what you seen in movies and tv shows.
BinjaNinja1@reddit
Iâm Gen x so I donât normally comment here but I do lurk as I had my son young and he is a millennial so there is so much overlap and I relate to many posts about things here.
We had two teen night clubs in my city that we were hanging out at on a regular basis. It was like going to a regular club but we had to pre game or sneak booze into the bathrooms. It was a lot of great fun dancing hanging out with your friends, big groups of people. I was sad when they closed down, luckily there was no picture ID back then and I passed as of age from the time I was 14.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Mall food courts definitely seem like they were the basis for these places.
sawshuh@reddit
I never took it to mean that The Max or The Peach Pit were exclusively for teens. They just happened to be near the school, so the kids frequented them. If they were shown during lunch hour or after school, of course it would seem like only teens went there. Given that the âteensâ were often played by actors far older than that, itâs also possible youâre seeing people over the age of 18 in a scene and thinking theyâre also teens.
I think a better example would be TRIC nightclub in One Tree Hill. That was definitely an all-ages club. The club in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Bronze, that seemed exclusively for teens - but also hundred year old vampires - is another example. Basically, anything on the WB/CW. While I definitely went to a teen club in the past, I think in teen shows they were just vehicles for featuring indie bands.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
The late 90s tv shows and movies certainly had a different vibe. But there were a lot of diner settings in the generation before that seemed to cater only to teens.
B_Reele@reddit
We hung out at a local youth community center. They had a SNES and Genesis set up along with a pool table and board games. Once a month they would have a dance party with soda and chips. We had a lot of fun and no drama.
My friend and I would do the Denny's thing once in a while. Usually late at night sneaking out of our houses.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That sounds pretty cool and similar to what you see in the movies.
Stimpisaurus@reddit
Xennial here, in the early to mid 90s they weren't common, but my area had a few. Specifically, there was a restaurant across the street to my highschool that catered directly to students. It had hot and ready means that student could grab on the way into school for breakfast and also had bag lunches that would be good for a few hours in a locker.
They also had a dine in area, where students could hang out and grab a bite to eat. There were also malls, and Specifically arcades in said malls that were largely catered towards younger crowds. The arcade in our mall was directly next to the food court and lent itself nicely to hanging out for a long time.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Sounds like malls and food courts were the basis for the diners you see in movies and tv shows.
Acceptable_Result488@reddit
I'm late Gen X , but we had an awesome old 1970s style Dairy Queen downtown that would be packed with middle and high schoolers. The Friendlys was also jammed packed after school and on weekends. A few towns away it was the Pizza Hut. We also had a diner a town over people referred to as the peach pit because it did resemble the pit to an extent. None of these places were over the top like Saved by the bell but they were similar to 90210 vibes. The Chipotle by me loaded with teens but they aren't really interacting as much , Dairy Queen was mayhem
graveybrains@reddit
The arcade next to my high school, the Chinese place across the street from my high school, and the strip mall that shared a parking lot with my high school (although those people were not okay with it). Other than that there was Denny's, and this all-ages club my friend used to like to hang out at. In retrospect that place shouldn't have ever existed.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Arcades are certainly places that teens would congregate. And in a way were meant for that. But I was thinking about more of the diner type places you see in movies and tv shows.
Mlc5015@reddit
In my area there were a few all ages clubs that were full of teens and straight edge types, pool tables l, a stage for bands or DJs, some couches and lounge furniture. That was great as a music playing 16 year old. There were always some creepy guys in their 20s trying to sell shit weed or trying to give underage girls booze. Ahh, memories.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
What a different time that was where a business like that could exist. Imagine what a hell hole it would turn into today.
Ralinor@reddit
Middle school - no. High school for me was the mall. Mallrats did a great job of capturing the vibe (obviously it was never that over the top). College - Dennys but between midnight and 5 range. Bars and clubs closed at 2
WishieWashie12@reddit
We had the arcade at the roller rink, slick Willie's pool hall, teen dance clubs or would take over the pizza hut on a Friday night.
_buffy_summers@reddit
I am 5-9 years older than my younger siblings, so when they were in high school, I had been done with it for a while. They were all getting ready to go out to a local 'under 21' club one night, in our town. I turned to my best friend, who had only lived a block away from me for most of high school, and said, "I wish we'd had a club like that when we were in high school." And my best friend said, "We did. I went there all the time."
The thing is, she was a year younger than me, and when I was a senior, she was a junior. A friend of mine had her birthday party, during my senior year, at the place that I still maintain was not a club yet. I don't think they would have rented it out to one less-than-wealthy family on a Saturday night, when they could have made a lot more money by keeping it open. So maybe it was a club when she was a senior, but there was no way she was going there every weekend while we were in high school together.
Anyway, the dumbass never did understand why I looked at her like she had rocks in her head.
elgarraz@reddit
There was a coffee shop that was around when I was 14-16 that was almost entirely frequented by highschoolers. Arcades were still a thing, and there was also a Christian dance club that was the only place that admitted anybody under the age of 18. Malls were big hangout spots, of course.
Businesses that target that demographic don't tend to do well, because those kids mostly don't have their own money.
Aliceduwonderland25@reddit
We had a few under 18 dance clubs. I don't recall if there was a minimum age.
Dimplefrom-YA@reddit
I dunno.. we had a local arcade we went to.
ratpH1nk@reddit
We partied and hung out in my friend Mike's basement from like 10th grade until our early 20s in the mid/later 90s
Even-Fan7692@reddit
i grew up in a college town - there were spots HS kids hung out like a pizza place (if you watched Girls, the episode where Hannah went home is really accurate) - there were coffee shops too. Also had an actual arcade where kids went too.
gnomequeen2020@reddit
We had a couple of officially sanctioned teen hangouts. One catered to the skater/band crowd. They had a building at the park that was open for a few hours after school and on weekend evenings. They had movie nights, and the budding garage bands would sometimes practice or perform. The unsanctioned place was a pool hall in the back of a pizza shop where we could smoke, play the jukebox, and act like assholes.
mcjon77@reddit
We had one at my high school. My high school was next to a university and there was a coffee shop that catered to both of us.
-LeoKnowz-@reddit
Perkins
fiestybox246@reddit
My town had a juice bar for about a year. You had to be 13-17 to get in. Other than that, it was the skating rink, bowling alley, wal-mart parking lot, McDonaldâs, or cruising.
MikeRoykosGhost@reddit
They were definitely a thing in Chicago:
https://www.chicagotribune.com/1986/10/19/at-juice-bars-for-teenagers-only-the-hair-is-spiked/
https://thetriibe.com/2025/05/teen-third-spaces-were-once-the-epicenter-of-chicagos-music-and-dance-trends-what-happened/
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's cool there's an actual source for this.
Happy-Freedom6835@reddit
Grew up just outside of Memphis. In the late 90s/early 2000s. We had a couple of places. One was an afterschool pool hall that catered to teens, selling only sodas, candy, and chips. I have a random distinct memory of playing pool and listening to the radio. Every time I hear Long December it takes me back to that moment for some reasonâŚ
There was also a night club in Memphis called Denim and diamonds that would do an all ages night once a month.
Curious-Soul222@reddit
We hung out at the pizza parlor down the street. In the woods or at the mall.
Between3-2o@reddit
There was a spot in a wooded area that was the neighborhood hangout for teenagers. It was pretty private and had a fire pit and lawn chairs, etc. it was a neighborhood secret. Like a year after high school, me and some friends stopped by for old time sake and it was populated by the next generation of teens.
mnbvcxz1052@reddit
Yes! And I miss that so much. We just hung out wherever we wouldnât get kicked outâŚ.
Shariâs
Dennyâs
Zumiez (had a friend who worked there so we used to loiter for hours and try on every stupid shoe)
QuikStop parking lot
Snaps (pool hall)
Sunrise mall food court
Birdcage Mall (was an outdoor mall with $2 movies)
Gaming arcade
Capitol Park
Red Bridge
Blockbuster Video parking lot
there was always one friend whoâs parents were never home, so that kidâs house / garage
My friend group used to have picnics on the football field during the summer, or in the middle of the track
Scandia: mini golf and arcade fun center, but too broke to play games or do the bumper cars so just loitering
Round Table Pizza
The public library
Prestigious-Place-16@reddit
My friends and I had a regular booth at our local diner. All the staff knew our names. We would just go for hours and drink unlimited coffee, sometimes cheese fries with gravy. Oh and my one friend was a smoker so we sat in the smoking section.
zignut66@reddit
When I was a teenager in the 90s in Seattle, our favorite cafes and diners werenât exclusively teens but they were super popular with teens. And they were a hell of a lot more divey and fun than the hangouts on Saved by the Bell, haha.
OnlyGuestsMusic@reddit
We had our own bars in Brooklyn. Lol full of -20s, most nights.
ohnoohnoohyeah@reddit
We had two coffee shops that catered to teens. You could get food and drinks--hang out late and pretend to be sophisticated. They were cool with you sneaking a smoke. No alcohol involved. The adults never wanted caffeine that late so it was just the under-21 crowd after 7 or 8.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
That was the roller rink when I was a kid. Roller skating, music, arcade, snack bar, and a smoking section.
bananaHammockMonkey@reddit
Dude, you could stand in a parking lot all by yourself, slowly over time, like an hour, there will be a whole group having a good time.
Upbeat_Tear3549@reddit
The skating rink was the cheesy one.
For my group, the real hangout spots were rodeo arenas and ag barns. One friend had a rodeo aren at his house. Weâd have parties and ride wild donkeys when his folks were away at their own rodeos.
I loved to the city and live a completely different life now. My daughter just graduate. I was able to provide her some interesting experiences abroad, but she has nothing comparable to what we all had in high school. I feel bad for her generation.
Trill_McNeal@reddit
There was a sub shop that was right past the property line of my high school. It wasnât exactly specifically meant for teens, but after school it was always packed with students. It was called âthe great American heroâ and a common thing youâd hear when people were beefing was, âdo you wanna meet at the hero after school?â Then everyone would show up waiting for a fight but usually one or both of the participants would bail. The few times it would go down the cops would come and then students wouldnât be allowed to hang out there after school for a couple weeks. So Iâm not really sure why we were all excited for a fight since it meant we couldnât hang out there for a while, I guess we were just dumb kids after all
Echo-Azure@reddit
I never knew of such a place when I was a kid. If one existed, it was for kids with spending money, and cars with which to get there.
Prestigious-Emu5277@reddit
Yes.
ArdenElle24@reddit
My hometown had a building called "The Warriors Club."
It was a small building that was a lounge only for high school kids.
Our town was a very walkabout kid centric community with tons of activities and events always going on.
I miss the 80s and 90s.
Anarch-ish@reddit
Older Millennial here... yes, they existed back when there were a lot more small-owned businesses but the 50s-80s were really THE time for diner/arcade/mallrats era.
Even as a high school kid in the early 2000s, the drama freaks (hi. me.) would regularly take over a Denny's anytime between noon and 3 AM for several hours depending on the day's activities.
There's been a large push to destroy the concept of the "third place" in America for several decades now. First place is home, second is work, and third is/was communal spaces. You should check out "third place theory" for a sad trip down what was and could have been.
Ok-Rock2345@reddit
Where o grew up as a teen, there was no such thing. The closest thing was video arcades, malls, and of course some clandestine places, like makeshift skate ramps or whatnot. Teens were considered a nuisance, and peoplendid did not want us hanging around.
WiscoBrewDude@reddit
In the early to mid 90s my friends and I would go to a close town that had a coffee shop and had things like phosphate drinks and some snacks which was a huge teen hangout. On the weekends they had local bands, and we would go down. Great times and some really good bands. Our three favorite were Hob Nob, Ladybeard or Lady Beard, and Fuzzdolly.
For any Wisconsinites this was in Steven's Point at the Mission coffee house.
RedditModsSuckTaints@reddit
Not where I grew up. But we found a house party every Friday and Saturday. Just hung at each others houses every day.
AggressiveCommand739@reddit
Any diner type restaurant. Opened late, good specials, cheap menu items. Those places were the most popular in my area. You'd see mobs of teenagers at any of these locations on Fri or Sat nights.
Difficult-Way-9563@reddit
We didnât but only mall was unofficial one, just a lot of kids went to to do stuff.
There was one that my friends found. A 24/7 truck stop. When it was late and we want affordable, okay food at 1am we went there
77tassells@reddit
All the kids hung out at friendlys and the mall.
GrungeCheap56119@reddit
I mean, yeah. We grew up with diners and definitely hung out there. But it would be $10 or $15 max, and only if we were eating. Maybe $5 or less if you only got coffee. Half the time we were eating dessert only.
kattrup@reddit
Mostly Denny's but there was a "Strange and Unusual Bookstore" in my city with couches and chairs where we hung out a lot.
ScubaTela@reddit
We had a teen center in my home town. It was a converted fire station. They would hold parties but I remember them being rather lame.
JaredUnzipped@reddit
Absolutely, they existed. This is why so many folks our age decry the vanishing of third spaces within our culture.
Heavy72@reddit
Whataburger, the overlook down by the lake, the tree in the park, hastings...
crapballsfacefuck@reddit
No. We either hung out in the woods, at a local park in a shelter, or in front of a convenient store. If it wasnât one of those we drove around all night.
the-great-crocodile@reddit
Driving around and cruising through Sonic is a rite of passage in most of middle of America.
addicted-to-spuds@reddit
We had a few places. There was an underage dance club, that I never went to, and a couple of coffee shops/cafes that tended to be filled with teens/young adults. Dennys and Village Inn were where weâd go after late night stage crew sessions.
PlanetLandon@reddit
I can only speak to my own experience, but in my small town in the mid 90s there was a pizza place that was pretty much only frequented by teenagers
ReedPhillips@reddit
It's all going to depend on the community you live in. I've lived in areas where they did have a "club" per se for teenagers. And that was well after the turn of the century.
Umberlee168@reddit
I am technically young Gen X (1979), but we definitely had a couple 18 and up clubs as well as we used to regularly have raves at various bars or locations like the skating rink which were 18 plus. Kind of surprising because my city is fairly small, and was much smaller then.
We had a laser tag / pool table / arcade center literally two blocks from the high school and you can guess how many kids used to hang out there during the day.
We also used to have a coffee hangout that wasn't a chain location. It was called "The Kettle" and had a cigarette vending machines. Tons of kids used to hang out there.
We also had a smoking area at the "alternative" high school where everyone would congregate during our two longest breaks for a cigarette đ
verba_saltus@reddit
Yes, those spaces definitely existed for me. By me it was the movie theatre, the muffin shop, the coffee shop - they were definitely almost entirely teenagers (which was something that adults complained about). And you didn't need to have much money to hang around for hours - one, things were a lot cheaper; and two, the cops get called on loitering teens a lot faster now.
bgva@reddit
After school we usually hit the BK or Wendy's across the street, or if someone had a car we'd go to the mall since it was down the street.
At night it was IHOP or Waffle House.
Complete_Entry@reddit
Teen centers were absolutely a thing.
WritingNerdy@reddit
It was a coffee shop for my group in highschool, so yeah itâs a real thing.
HopelessMagic@reddit
Absolutely. We would hang out at the bowling alley and skate rink until closing at 2am. Those were the days!
Deletedmyotheracct@reddit
Mostly depended on the time of day or time of year. Like my local bowling alley with crappy arcade and food spot was overrun with nothing but teens but only if leagues weren't currently going/not Saturday morning (birthdays). Wendy's around the corner from me in the summer during work hours- all teens. Food courts at the malls a lot of teens. Local diners after like 10pm on a weekend but before the bar crowd- all teens. Movie theater arcade- again a lot of teens.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
But this was still parents dropping them off and picking them up. The places in movies and TV shows never show that. And portray them as these places that teens would hang out in as if they were adults themselves.
Deletedmyotheracct@reddit
I'm born 84. I was never picked up or dropped off at any of these type of places and there was way more than I mentioned. Either bussed/subway, biked, or drove once old enough. My parents took me fuck all starting from like 6th grade on lol. There was also one burger joint- Johnny Rocket or something that was basically exclusively HS kids as the clientele if you could call us that. There was also a bunch of outdoor malls we would hangout at. There was also a neighborhood comic/card shop that had a few pinball machines and arcades and again it was only pot smoking teens in and around that store owned by an old stoner called Casey.
Specialist_Power_266@reddit
When I was a kid we had a skating rink, pool hall, and several bowling alleys in a town of 5000, and they were always busy with teenagers after school and on weekends. Â Thatâs not even mentioning all the restaurants in town that were geared towards kids.
Then Facebook convinced a bunch of parents that there are pedophiles and serial killers everywhere, even though violent crime has decreased at a very steady rate since the 80âs. Â Kids stop being able to go to these places after school, so they shut down.Â
beccadahhhling@reddit
Back before Walmart was a super center, it had an in store diner called Radio Grille. You could get all sorts of cheap snack there: chicken strips, fries, nachos, corn dogs, hot dogs, burgers, etc. I never saw anyone except store employees or teenagers in there.
unseeliefae_@reddit
In my town the hangout spots were the skating ring and the mall.Â
BadConscious1358@reddit
We had a place like that in my hometown called pizzas and cream. It was a pizza place that also served ice cream, and had the latest arcade games. Our parents would just drop us off there and return sometime later, or we would walk home.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
You never see that in movies and TV shows, parents dropping them off and picking them up.
BadConscious1358@reddit
yeah, sometimes we walked. i lived outside the neighborhood so i had to get a ride if i wasn't staying the night somewhere.
Oryx1300@reddit
I grew up in Southern Ontario, Canada and some kids who went to my sister's high school got some kind of a government grant to open a coffee shop in an empty city-owned building. Basically, they just sold coffee and canned sodas and we all went their to smoke, take drugs and hang out. It was so awesome while it lasted!
CrowandSeagull@reddit
There was a pizza place in the tiny town I went to high school in. Across the street from the school that was always full of teenagers. There was a sign in the window that said if you got an A that would give you a free slice!
RawnTheReaver@reddit
I'm an older millennial and this stuff absolutely existed in the late 90s when I was a teen.
Appropriate-Food1757@reddit
Round Table pizza was it where Iâm from, Fridays only.
FabiusBill@reddit
The mall, skating rink, bowling alley, movie theater, diners, Denny's, we hung out at all of them for hours on end during the mid-90s.
EmmalouEsq@reddit
We didn't have that at all. I grew up in a small town in South Dakota, though, so there wasn't much to do for anyone.
FestivusRestOfUs@reddit
Dennys, Perkins, local coffee diners, mall arcades
keto_and_me@reddit
I always dreamed of having a place like The Bronze from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Like have it be a teen place from 4-8 and then open up the bar and be a regular club from 9-close. Iâm sure there are all kinds of legalities that would be in the way, but I imagine it would be popular in the right location.
AlwaysSleepingBeauty@reddit
Iâm from a small town Jack in the Box and Wal Mart were our hangouts.
whyisthissticky@reddit
I mentioned the teen dance clubs that were around, it reminded me of Galaxy World. It was an arcade + bowling alley + mini indoor amusement park + billiards. Weâd usually end up there at the end of the night if nothing else was going on.
SheBrokeHerCoccyx@reddit
There was a coffee shop that had open mic nights and lots of seating. Popular meeting point for us teens.
iwantmy-2dollars@reddit
Lyons for the California kids. Like Dennys. One order of nachos, 10 cups of water and a bowl of lemons to make lemonade.
ComeFromTheWater@reddit
We had a local gaming store. 30 years later and Iâm still friends with some of the people.
Square_Huckleberry53@reddit
Yes, I was born in 80, and throughout my teens there were pool halls and arcades to hang out at. Our favourite spot sold single cigarettes for 35 cents, or a colt cigar for 75 cents. We spent lots of days drinking slushes, smoking cigarettes and playing pool or card games like rummy 500 after school.
macklin_sob@reddit
We had a pool hall/arcade in town that was a very popular teen hangout. I feel like there was a snack bar too.
HicJacetMelilla@reddit
We had a DQ next to our high school (until 2000ish upperclassmen were allowed to walk over for lunch) and people would hang there after school sometimes. You went to the Shell station to see fights. When we finally got a McDonaldâs some people would gather over there after school. Youâd drive over to the not nice part of town to hang at the 24hr Dennyâs or Steak n Shake after 10. And itâs not like anyone had money so youâd just get a plate of fries for the table and camp lol.
The other thing that idek if kids do anymore, is a lot of freshman getting rides from older kids. I joined band and met a lot of upperclassmen fast, then had the funnest summer ever riding around with random new friends and going to these hangout spots.
RetroDadOnReddit@reddit
They did, and it was glorious.
RavenousAutobot@reddit
Oh, this question makes me sad thinking about all the young folks sitting alone in their rooms, wondering if interpersonal connection is a real thing.
Dustteas@reddit
Yes, we even had goth/industrial clubs for teens here in Utah in the 90s. It was awesome and scary (so many drugs)!
SunshineInDetroit@reddit
there used to be teen nightclubs which were creepy.
there are places even now that are just packed with teens after school but it depends on the region. usually a boba or mochi place nowadays.
spazzyattack@reddit
We had nonalcoholic billiards halls with some arcade machines and other games like foosball. They didnât close until 1am, so it was a lot like hanging out at a bar. There were 2 on my side of the city we frequented most weekends and weeknights during summer. This would have been â96-â98
Jerkrollatex@reddit
Coffee shops before Starbucks sanitized the concept were more like bars that you didn't have to be 21 to get into. That and diners are where we hung out a lot. My husband liked Denny's but I preferred Village inn they had free pie on Wednesday and brought the coffee out in thermoses. Book stores were big with my crowd too.
Electronic_World_894@reddit
Roller rink. Yep there was one near me. Saturday evening was all teens. Saturday daytime had parents & younger kids though, so I guess it didnât meet the definition of âall teens all the time.â
No-Acanthisitta7930@reddit
Oh heck yeah, they sure did! We had several actually. This was in DC and MD back in the 90s. There was a place (not there anymore) that even sold beer to us lol. The 90s were different.
drksolrsing@reddit
We had a little teen bar in tiny Zwolle, LA. They had a little snack bar, some arcade and pinball machines, music going, and video game systems to play. The only adults were the staff. It was pretty nice to have.
imtooldforthishison@reddit
Yes. Perkins. That one house. The park. The pool. The courtyard. The stairs.
MotorcicleMpTNess@reddit
Yes.
We had, in my boring ass suburb of Denver:
2 pool halls that let people under 21 in. An arcade. A slot car racing place Three all night diners (Denny's, Perkins, IHOP) A large, generally busy mall A smattering of music and book stores A teen friendly coffee house and metaphysical bookstore A skateboard park
It was both often boring and a lot of fun.
The stuff all just disappeared steadily in the 2000's.
By 2010, the pool halls, arcade, coffeeshop, and slot car place were gone. The all night diners were no longer cool with people hanging out there. The mall was almost dead, only one of the music/book stores were still hanging on, the skateboard park was in complete disrepair and about to be demolished, and nothing had come along to replace any of it.
BreakDue2000@reddit
Coffee houses were just coming out in my city. We'd also hang out at the skating rink or just chill outside at our special rock/boulder (that sounds so ridiculous now).
r2k398@reddit
The mall, the movies, and the skating rink.
Odd_Ingenuity8918@reddit
Sonic Drive-In
littleyellowbike@reddit
The pizza place in my hometown was basically that on Friday nights, especially after home football games.
OnehappyOwl44@reddit
Growing up in Montreal we had teen/underage dance clubs that served pop and mocktails and allowed us to go dancing in a safe environment. Sometimes regular clubs would let you in between 7- 11 with a braclet so the bartenders knew not to seve you. Of course everyone just found a friend to buy for them so that didn't really work out.
SeanWoold@reddit
If you mean a place like on Saved by the Bell where the same group of high schoolers came in and ordered lunch daily, no. Very few high schoolers in any era could afford that and it would make no sense for a business to cater to a crowd that broke. If you are talking about places that didn't mind that you all finished your cokes 2 hours ago and are still hanging out, then yes, Steak n Shake, Waffle House, and numerous coffee shops were around for that.
ToughOk4114@reddit
We had a diner similar to Dennyâs where you could smoke and drink coffee at any hour. Also, had an all ages music venue near that diner so you could mosh and party and then head to the diner. For a small town it wasnât so bad!
cheap_snark_bait@reddit
Wendyâs next to the movie theater. Get $10 from your parents for âthe movies,â kick in with friends for some booze & still have a few bucks for the $1 menu.
nancy_drew_98@reddit
I hung out with a group of boys, sort of like an honorary sister, at the pizza parlor where they all worked. Other than occasional folks coming to pick up an order, I think the oldest person I ever saw in there was the 20-year-old manager. Good times, man, good times!
SpiritedSet6472@reddit
I was a teen in the 90's. There was a roller skating rink that was the biggest spot. All teens all the time in the evenings. Daytime was mostly kids birthday parties. There were two clubs that had "teen night". No alcohol was served just really lame mocktails we thought were the height of sophistication. We had two pool halls, one seemed designated for adult low life's but the second was a teen hangout spot. We had two designated places in the forest for hangouts or parties. One used to be a bridge but the bridge was gone. It was just a huge platform in the sky. There was no stairs or ladder, you had to climb up the side. One of the parks was "ours". The grocery store parking lot with the DQ across the street is often where we hung out after we had cars but were too broke to buy anything. There was a Ponderosa (my generations golden corral for any not familiar) where it was all you can eat for 5 dollars and you could sit there all day.
We were very busy.
UpsetBar@reddit
We had an arcade/pool hall that was mostly teens. They didnât serve booze so it didnât get a lot of the older crowd. Always kept up with the latest games as well so we hung out there a bunch. There was also a music venue that was always all ages and didnât serve booze that a lot of local bands would always play at.
itsallokallday@reddit
We had an arcade in town in the 80âs that was somewhat like this, but it wasnât teens so much as pre-teen aged kids. But there were always birthday parties there, so adults were around. But it wasnât uncommon to get dropped off for a few hours and see a bunch of your friends.
Wak3upHicks@reddit
We all hung out at the pool hall. We could smoke and had a decent jukebox selection
nnulll@reddit
Yes and they still do lolol
Switchbladekitten@reddit
There was a cafe where I used to live and adults almost never went there. It was awesome. Just a bunch of us weird, artsy, chain-smoking teens, reading classic lit and working on our sketchbooks.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That sounds pretty cool. Those times are long gone now.
Switchbladekitten@reddit
Yeah they are đ
Rhianna83@reddit
Caveat to my message: Grew up in the East Bay of the SF Bay Area.
Iâm â83 and I absolutely had teen hangouts. We even had a coffee shop open until 10 that had live poetry, music, etc., at night. Someone else said Dennyâs and absolutely right - smoked my cigs and drank my coffee. The MALL! Oh the mall. So many memories.
Outside shops â we used to hang out in front of a donut shop and never got hassled.
Thereâs others but I canât think of them now.
WinterYak1933@reddit
This was definitely a thing where I grew up. We hung out behind a gas station that had some picnic tables, but never for too long, or the cops or the gas station employees might run us off.
ccroy2001@reddit
I have an older brother, he just turned 80! He met his wife when they were HS age (they went to different schools) at club for teens that held dances.
Now that I think about it, my parents met as teens at a dance.
I was awkward as a teen and my friends weren't really mainstream, so the only place I know we went was the bowling alley b/c they had pinball and video games 1980.
LaFantasmita@reddit
Bowling alleys. My old hometown bulldozed one (it was successful but the landlord decided to raze the whole strip mall) to put in a circuit city, which promptly closed. Kinda wrecked the whole town's vibe, now I don't see people out and about when I visit.
Liljoker30@reddit
There were usually certain spots in our part of the city that you would go too if you were looking to find a party or just hangout. There was jack in the box or an in and out. Even if there were no parties at a house, fast food was inexpensive and you hung with a bunch of people inside or in the parking lot for a few hours. The fun part was there were multiple high schools that would hangout at these spots and it was fun trying to hit on girls from other schools. You would usually drink or get high before showing up. Never wanted to get caught with alcohol as police would pop by now and then to make sure things were kosher.
If you didn't go somewhere you were sitting at home alone. We didn't have devices to just chat and aol/aim were in their infancy.
Intelligent-Search88@reddit
Hung out at the golf course
SteveEcks@reddit
Fazoli's, Pizza Hut, and I think there was a coffee shop open late on Wednesdays for us. Either marching band kids or after church with group.
But, undeniably, yes. Usually local businesses that were busy enough to stay in business even if free loading teenagers took up a lot of space and spent no money, or fast serve restaurant chains that had open seating.
ranaldo20@reddit
Fazoli's! I could go for some cheap pasta and endless breadsticks right now...
Shannegans@reddit
When I was in highschool we had a local pool hall that was for teens only. You could play pool and darts and they had an espresso machine and Italian sodas. It was great and I have so many fond memories hanging out there and playing 25¢ pool games.
OneMtnAtATime@reddit
Friendlyâs and the ground round on the weekends and Friday nights after football and basketball were almost all teens. After 11, ground round was nurses post-shift.
livens@reddit
Back in the early 90's we all hung out at Taco Bell on Friday and Saturday nights. There would be at least 20-30 kids just hanging out in the parking lot. Usually no trouble, maybe a little scuffle but nothing crazy ever happened. Someone bringing a gun or shooting was unheard of. Now that same Taco Bell is still there but with no loitering signs. Even with high school aged kids the odds of someone shooting a gun are too high to let them congregate like that. All of our Malls and theaters have strict curfews for under 18's, they're not allowed in after 6pm without a guardian. Society is Cooked.
unlovelyladybartleby@reddit
There was an all ages night club in my city. 80% people 15 to 20 (drinking age here is 18) and 20% guys channeling Wooderson from Dazed and Confused
Also, as mentioned above, Denny's
TuckerCarlsonsOhface@reddit
Yeah, I worked at a coffee shop in the 90s, and pretty much every teen in the area hung out there. It was pretty awesome.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Doubt that could happen today.
TuckerCarlsonsOhface@reddit
Only because teens today all suck
ajrpcv@reddit
The areas around me would discourage it. Teens are loud, obnoxious, and broke. They don't bring in a lot of cash and people with money don't want to hang with them.
jreashville@reddit
We would just go walk around the mall. If you had money you might go to the arcade or get some pizza or something. If not you would just walk around and talk.
Dvvstihn@reddit
Malls, youâre talking about malls .
Reeko_Htown@reddit
The arcade was lit on Friday and Saturday nights
romasexual@reddit
Where we grew up in Norcal a local fella donated a bunch of money to make a teen youth center called Chops(I think thatâs the name) and it had games and activities. It was meant to keep kids off the streets and out of trouble. I believe it was free to kids. Seemed cool but by the time it was built (about 2000ish) I was already a street kid so I only went a time or two. It was more the mall food courts and empty fields and roaming the city for us.
Cooper_Sharpy@reddit
In my town there was a 24/7 diner right next to a pool hall so we dominated that most weekends. Also there was a parking lot where a ton of teens would congregate and the cops just let it go. That all came to an end after planes hit buildings.
Powerful_Leg8519@reddit
Eh there was a Mexican restaurant across the street from my high school and while not catered to teens it was full of them after school.
We got cheap tacos and a place to hang out for a while.
Rememberancy@reddit
Coffee shops / diners / arcades for sure.
I hung out at the mall a lot in my early teens but graduated to places where I could smoke by time I was 16.
jjmawaken@reddit
I went to Chubbies every day... oh wait, that was Boy Meets World.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Chubbies is another one. That's about the latest example I can think of in terms of movies and TV shows.
jjmawaken@reddit
My friends always did Denny's or Applebee's (when they had half price appetizers)
Grand-Try-3772@reddit
We would hang out at the local rebuild wholesale transmission shop. It was beside the 7-11 and had a bench on their front porch.
14ANH2817@reddit
Yes. There were various around me in the suburbs of a midwest third-tier city, with kids often congregating at different restaurants or other public places based on school affiliation, subculture and so on. Shopping malls were often centers that served as congregation spaces by themselves, or had satellite restaurants in walkable distance. When I went to college I learned that in rural appalachia, local gas stations served this role, at crossroads and in small towns. For context of these comments, however, know that not all kids went to these on a regular basis, or even at all.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's another thing. What place had the kind of employees that would serve teenagers all day with a smile?
Dwayne_@reddit
A shocking number of kids from one of the area private schools would hang out in the Wawa parking lot on Fridays and Saturdays in like 98-99. The pizzeria next to said Wawa was mostly teens all the time, and I would sometimes buy weed form/with mall goths that would typically be in either the silver diner of one mall or in the general concourse of a different mall a few blocks away. It was weird that there was like a 27 year old adult man named Rooster hanging out with those mall goths.
Glass-Marionberry321@reddit
Diners, pool halls, underneath a highway
RetroBerner@reddit
We had youth clubs in Germany and they usually had some young adults who were supposed to watch the place, but we'd all just end up getting drunk and smoking weed.
I moved to the US in 94, when I was 14 and I have never seen anything like that here. We'd usually just go to someone's house where the parents weren't home, or didn't give a shit or we'd go hang out in the woods and do our thing.
fakewoke247@reddit
Skateboarding in the Carl's jr parking lot
Late-External3249@reddit
I grew up in a small town and somebody tried to open one. Apparently there were a lot of fights. I would also assume that teens wouldn't have much disposable income which would limit revenue.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's something that stands out to me when I see it in movies and TV shows. How do all these teens have this kind of money to just be going to these places all the time and act like they are adults themselves.
sodapopstar@reddit
I definitely regularly hung out into the night at several diners in my area in my teens with friends, it was a common teen pastime in my area (suburbs of Portland Oregon). The diners werenât only frequented by teens like in SBTB etc though, it was a very mixed clientele demographic of all ages.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
So I guess the ones you see in SBTB didn't really exist.
pmmlordraven@reddit
Yes! There was an Arcade that I don't recall ever seeing adults at except to fix something.
We also went to all night Diner after local shows late at night and it was pretty much only teens a few truckers.
I lived in a rural hellhole so honestly most of the adults were homebodies, so what little downtown existed was mostly teens.
ilikeaffection@reddit
My music nerd friends and I would hang at local guitar shops and annoy the salesppl by playing a lot, being loud and only buying a pick or something. Several of us ended up working at them, eventually.
We also used to busk on the sidewalks of the square downtown and generally make nuisances of ourselves wherever we could, really.
TheB1G_Lebowski@reddit
Pool halls, game rooms, the mall, cruising the strip. It was amazing. I'm sad for my kids they'll never experience a childhood remotely similar to mine. Â
I grew up with tornado drills, they grow up with active shooter drills. Now that's fucking depressing.
Klutzy-Delivery-5792@reddit
Arcades and roller skating rinks. We also had a pool hall that was mostly teens and some of those skeevy older guys like Matthew McConaughey's Dazed and Confused character.Â
ibanezht@reddit
I wasn't cool enough to have friends that wanted me to join them at the "hangout", so although I was around back then, I have no knowledge of these places existing... đ
NoContextCarl@reddit
There was maybe one or two where I grew up; It was glorified after-school child care, but for teens with minimal adult supervision. Basically, if you want a place to hang out for a few hours after school...or work on homework...or Mom doesn't get off work til 4, so you wait there for her.Â
I think they started it basically to bridge the gap with working parents and give teens a brief hangout for a few hours when school is dismissed. Occasionally on Fridays they'd have extended hours and organize activities etc.Â
That was more geared for probably 13 to 16 year olds.Â
Older than that would usually head over to the local diner and drink coffee. It wasn't predominantly kids a la Saved by the Bell but after-school hours generally drew a decent crowd.Â
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
So in real life it was probably lesser idealized versions of what you see in movies and TV shows.
flexcabana21@reddit
Not specifically just for teens but growing up in NJ it was random place your friend(s) work at, the mall, or the closet diner. Now we had teen nights back then but no real place we just to over by numbers. Most of the time it was someoneâs older sibling going to college locally that work at these places. Another one was the bowling alley they also had teen nights.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess movies and TV shows kind of took that concept and turned them into full blown establishments meant only for teenagers.
solomons-marbles@reddit
Iâm a little older graduated early 90s. Most around me had closed by then. My siblings who all graduated in the 80s had a couple of bowling alleys/arcades, they had a couple music spots too that would allow the 18+ (but didnât really care, they walked me in while I was in JRHS) crowd. One burnt down over a union/mob work misunderstanding, the other went into shitty management and closed. But yes, they existed.
Bibblegead1412@reddit
Hell yeah. Our friends worked at a Round Table pizza, and we'd all go hang out there on Thursday's and watch 90210!!
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That sounds cool. But it was still an otherwise regular place of business any other time of the week.
Karrik478@reddit
In the late nineties/early noughties there were loads of pubs that were used by various schools and sixth forms.
Night Clubs were more concerned about you not wearing trainers than having ID. But they were a shit time for guys because all the girls your age thought it was big and clever to bang a 26 year old with a Vauxhall Corsa.
The Inbetweeners pretty much nails it.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
We had a friend whoâs folks turned their downstairs into a place for all of us to hang out. So we were always there.
And if we wanted to go out, once it was dark or if it was too wet, we hit Dennyâs on the south side of town. We were there enough that the owners knew we always paid and we didnât make too much of a scene considering we were a group of teenagers.
My folks TRIED to make our place the hang out. They converted our garage into a place to come and watch tv and play darts etc, but we couldnât get away with anything plus my, well, Iâll call him dad but I donât associate with him anymore was a total pervert so it was not a great spot
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Those always seemed cool in the movies, but I never knew anyone who did that in their homes.
taxilicious@reddit
There was a pool hall catered to the under 21 crowd. Smoking was allowed and they had fun mocktails although that word hadnât been invented yet. I donât believe they served alcohol.
bodhemon@reddit
Yes. My town had one, teenage bands would play there all the time. The electric maid in Takoma Park MD. It was actually sort of a cool place for emo kids and hipsters. Before that was a record store in Wheaton MD that had all ages shows. Fantasmagoria. Mostly punk and metal.
StonedWheatThicc@reddit
There was a specific 24-hour diner my teenage friends and I all would hang out at, and we certainly werenât the only ones. Definitely a higher ratio of teens and young adults there, especially at night.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Maybe it was this concept that tv and movies used to present a place of business as if it was meant only for teenagers.
420medicineman@reddit
We had a local coffee shop that stayed open until midnight and catered to the teens. Would host bands, had a bottomless cup and board/card games to paly.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I knew of a place like that. But it was a regular place of business any other time. Not a place meant only for teens.
ARazorbacks@reddit
Graduated â00. I remember there absolutely being the hangout spots. And the drag that people would drive circles around - Sonic to McDonalds and back.Â
GladosPrime@reddit
The closest thing in reality might have been
Denny's
Glow in the Dark Bowling
Waterslide Parks
Infamous-Thought-765@reddit
The library was our hangout in middle school in 1993. I also seem to remember kids hanging out at the gricery store or gas station. In hs, they tried to set up a place in a local church for teens, but I think it went nowhere. I only remember going once. Â
Ok_Percentage5157@reddit
I grew up in Kansas City, teenager in the early 90s. They existed, but were few and far between. There was an effort by some clubs to create a space for all ages at different places in the city, and we would go dance and hang out, but most of the time they dissolved into chaos.
Most of the time we hung out at restaurants like Denny's or Perkins, movie theaters and malls, and parks and such. Depending on what one was involved in (sports, skating, music) there were times that you hung out at baseball fields, skate parks, or music shops (if they were welcoming).
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's fair. Maybe movies and TV took that concept and just sort of created these ideal looking spaces that were only for teens. But in reality it was just certain of times of the day, week, or year.
trippyhop@reddit
For me, the closest thing was the mall, which was a ten minute bus ride away from school.
VeniceDrumGuy@reddit
Split my teen years between the suburbs of a mid sized city (but the biggest one in our state) and a small rural town. In the city we would hang at the mall and a âclubâ by the mall that was specifically for people under 21. Other than managers, even the staff were all under 21. It had more of a âPeach Pitâ vibe than âThe Maxâ. Despite allowing 19/20 year olds, it was considered very âuncoolâ to be a high school grad hanging out there. We would call those kids the âhas beens.â
When I moved to the rural town, we would either hang at the rec center or church. Every Wednesday and Sunday was youth group and on Fridays after football games different churches would take turns hosting an event called 5th quarter. Both 1st Baptist & 1st Methodist had indoor basketball courts and the Methodists even had a snack bar. Nothing as cool as The Max.
flipnitch@reddit
We had a pool hall exactly like the one in dazed and confused
_ism_@reddit
Definitely not for me. I visited some cafes after school was the only customer in those places but that's not really the same. I don't know if or where teens did hang out though. I was kind of a loner for most of it. I think it was probably whoever had the coolest house by that time in our cultural history. I dunno, wasn't invited.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I know of places where teenagers would congregate. But no places that specifically were meant for them where literally no parents were present either.
Imaginary_Scene2493@reddit
My siblings were born in â76 and â78, and when they were in high school, we had a mini-golf/arcade/go cart place that was a teen hangout, but it closed around the time I was a sophomore, I think.
There were restaurants and a movie theater within walking distance of my high school. Kids would cut class and go to the theater, and kids who were doing extracurriculars after school like marching band practice would go down to the restaurants to get meals or snacks between school and practice. The theater and most of the restaurants closed right after I graduated. There had also been a Putt-Putt mini-golf and arcade in that area during my brotherâs high school days.
Rdubya291@reddit
We had a few places - a poolhall that mostly catered to younger people. Sure some older people would come in, but it was mostly 21 and younger. Hell, it was even BYOB (likely because they lost their license to sell by selling to underage kids).
We also had this weird "all ages" club, that was again, mostly just kids. But for the most part we would just post up at someone's house, front or back yard. Cruise around - find house parties. That sort of thing.
theang@reddit
I donât know, we hung out at Super Kmart because there wasnât really anywhere to go.
MxMicahDeschain@reddit
Our local movie theatre was one. I spent plenty of time there from 97-2000. I don't imagine that teens only was what they had in mind upon construction, but they sure as shit didn't do anything to dissuade that demographic. Two screens. Five dollar movies. Friday and Saturday nights were wall to wall teenagers. Only adults I ever remember seeing were employees. Truly a bastion of teenage debauchery. Pour one out for those days.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I remember that around that time period. I know places had times where a lot of teenagers congregated. But I mean specifically the places you see in movies and tv shows that almost seem designed only for teenagers.
MxMicahDeschain@reddit
I'm sure those must have existed, maybe in more affluent areas? Barring places that were incidentally teenage-centered, I didn't encounter too many. Drug dealer's places, but, again, not quite what you're looking for.đ
mdmommy99@reddit
Im guessing maybe this varies based on where you grew up, but there really weren't those kind of hangouts when I was growing up in a major city. There were places like IHOP that teens tended to go to, but nothing that I can remember being just all teens. There were some occasional teen nights like at the skating rink but no kind of regular spot where all the teens were after school.
SEKI19@reddit
We had a place called the Coffee Shack that everybody from high school would go to. Very few people actually went into the store, we would all hang out in the parking lot. Every night there were at least some people there. Weekends you could have 50 to 100 teenagers hanging in the parking lot. Somebody would drive up saying there was a house party, and everybody would get in their cars and drive over. Once the cops inevitably broke it up, everybody would go back to the shack. It was pretty awesome, always gave you something to do.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's more of a place where teens just happened to congregate. I'm referring to the places you see in movies and TV shows that had exclusively teenagers as the customer base.
Instrument-of-elks@reddit
I grew up in a small town in the south, I remember there was a kind of music venue/hangout place/snack bar that was around for a few years. Believe it was run by a church as they would have Wednesday night church stuff and Christian music on occasion as well.
It kind of looked like the place from Dazed and Confused, just a little more wholesome and obviously without the cigarettes and beer.
It was a fun little hangout place and was important as a meet up spot back before everyone had cell phones.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Those are the kind of places I'm referring to.
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
High school teen mid to late 90s. As far as commercial spaces went, we hung out mostly at Village Inn (like Dennys/ihop), local pizza place; the gym, the coffee/juice place near the gym, and the McDonalds by the gym. Otherwise we hanging out at someoneâs house or at a party somewhere. But as a general rule you could find someone within a few stops in a relatively small radius most nights, even without cell phones or pagers.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I can see that. But I mean places that you see in movies and TV shows that seem designed for and dedicated only to teenagers.
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
Saved by the Bell was a teen show for young kids- itâs as believable as any Disney channel/Nickelodeon show. No one talked to their principal or teachers like that either.
There were teen only events (dance clubs) in my town but I was t allowed to go there because of gang violence and drugs. It wasnât the max.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Fair point. But I see these places in other TV shows and movies as well. Probably just an idealized version of what teenagers wanted that never actually existed in real life.
ArtisanalMoonlight@reddit
I didn't. I lived in a big metro area and we just hung out wherever. There were a couple spots (a downtown coffee shop, for one) that were well known to most people, but there was no particular spot oriented toward teenagers.
whyneedaname77@reddit
In my area dinners are big. During high school you would drink wherever you could. House, park, golf course. And everyone would hop over to the dinner afterwards.
There would various arcades, pool halls, sports complexes that would pop up. Be hot for a year and fade away a year or two later.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I"m sure there were places that teenagers would hang out at. But it seems like movies and TV shows had these places designed and catering only for teens.
CanalOpen@reddit
The oldest person I ever saw at the internet cafe was probably 25. We were all highschoolers.
The McDonalds attached to the community center/library certainly had adult traffic but they didnt hang around for the most part. The only people taking up space were us.
Mall rats were a thing, but at that age you don't look at the older people so you don't recognize that they also exist. Hell, you barely look at people your own age unless you're just being a little bit pervy.
As an answer to your question, Yes, these places existed as primarily teen spaces but they weren't exclusively for teenagers...they just had the time to hang out for hours.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I guess what you see in the movies is based off those places when teens would hang out there. But there were never really places only for teenagers.
AppropriateFan4530@reddit
Perkinâs
Terrapin3641@reddit
All we needed was the green generator.
Significant_Dog412@reddit
Not specifically "teen only" as a hard and fast rule, but arcades tended to be mostly teens. Older adults didn't tend to play videogames and younger kids were generally only there on weekends or school holidays.
Does underage drinking in parks count?
emboldenedvegetables@reddit
We had a pool hall.Â
misterlakatos@reddit
There was a popular coffee shop in my home town where several high school cliques met up. It was mostly the artsy/non-popular crowd but if anyone ever had any feuds, which did happen, things would get awkward.
Also, popular chains like IHOP and the bowling alley. I cannot really think of any other scenarios.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
Nothing like The Max that seemed designed only for teenagers.
misterlakatos@reddit
Yeah I do not recall anything like that.
The mall was a mix of middle school and high school kids, but for the most part by high school we either met up at coffee shops, restaurants, the bowling alley or hung out in someone's basement.
Character_Bend_5824@reddit
Maybe the dining hall at a college or the nearest fast food place to a high school. But the notion of me gelling my hair, donning a fresh sweater, and spending my parents' money at the Peach Pit was not a thing in my world.
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
I saw one in a movie not too long ago and just thought there's no way a business could exist like that that catered exclusively to teenagers.
EvenLettuce6638@reddit
Not in my town, but apparently Bernie Sanders started on in Vermont in the 80s.
https://youtu.be/Qe1VXVABW3o?si=aWOF-WIzKxrWn4Bx&t=331
Imbetterthanthis1138@reddit (OP)
That's funny.