Why not call an ambulance?
Posted by Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit | AskABrit | View on Reddit | 436 comments
I'm reading a book that takes place in London. A woman's toddler is incredibly sick (104ºF fever) and her worthless husband is out with the car and carseat. She waits a while, then calls a neighbor to take them to the hospital. I thought ambulances were free over there... why wouldn't she call for one? (I'm American and know why WE wouldn't call for one...)
bluejackmovedagain@reddit
An ambulance is for when you need care so urgently that you can't wait to get to the hospital. For example, if the child was having a fit you might call an ambulance.
Although, if the book gave the temperature in fahrenheit then the answer might be that it was written by an American.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
I was thinking the same about the book maybe not being written by a Brit.
As for ambulances, I called 111 once for advice with excruciating stomach pain and insane amounts of vomiting. I was expecting them to send an out of hours doctor (was 10pm) or something but instead 5 mins after I hung up the call an ambulance appeared outside the house. I was mortified.
Magic_mousie@reddit
111 love sending ambulances. I called them about severe nausea after an operation and I had to solemnly swear that I refused an ambulance and that I understood the risks.
Got a taxi to A&E instead, not wasting an ambulance on something which isn't getting acutely worse, it can wait a few minutes.
Which I think also answers OP, most people understand triage and priority and are decent people. Not all, people do waste their time, but most try not to.
Quik_Brown_Fox@reddit
111 is useless, every time I’ve rung it they just tell me to go to A&E anyway. What’s the point?
Big_Virge@reddit
It's a very inefficient system. I understand that they err on the side of caution (especially given that operators don't necessarily have the training or information to rule out something urgent) but I'm sure it leads to slower response times for genuine emergencies.
Magic_mousie@reddit
Their operators are following a script is half the issue. Rang about my Mum once, she was just in a mess of symptoms ultimately we find out due to an infection. It was making her a bit delirious so as soon as I mentioned confused on the phone they very obviously started going down the stroke symptoms. Like, okay, that is serious and I know you have to rule it out, but the answers are no, no, no, no and no, now can we please move on and speak with a real doctor please?
Left_Web_4558@reddit
111 used to be staffed fully by clinicians who could use their discretion. They mostly replaced the clinicians with operators who follow an algorithm, supposedly to save money. Except you aren't saving money when you're sending people to A&E because they have the sniffles and even slight uncertainty requires input from a clinician anyway.
Magic_mousie@reddit
Absolutely right, what a shame.
Cantdecide1207@reddit
You would think. I work for a gp surgery. And when I read some of the ambulance reports .... actually most of them it infuriates me. Most people seem to call an ambulance because they don't have transportation and don't want to pay for a taxi.... not because they need immediate assistance.
Magic_mousie@reddit
It's funny, because the treatment is "free", having an expensive taxi ride to the hospital does feel like a real punishment! I know I was grumbling about it!
To an American, a £20 taxi fare being the most expensive part of a 2 week hospital stay would sound insane but to us it's like 20????? I would have caught the bus if it hadn't been late at night 😆
Something that would be good to have in place is more hospital transport that's not an ambulance. I know I struggled when I was discharged cos they wouldn't let me have a taxi alone so I had to drag my parents from 80 miles away to get me out. What I'll do when they pass, idk, massive shrug from the hospital staff.
nixtracer@reddit
That could be a rupture. Emergency, so you were prioritized. I had similar embarrassment with stunningly intense heart pain in Sep 2020 after my first COVID bout: paramedics arrived in about ten minutes. It turned out to be COVID gunge in my left lung, right under the heart... but apparently not easy to distinguish from an actual heart attack. Still felt guilty for wasting ambulance time in a pandemic.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
Yeah. I wasn’t very worried about that as I’d had the pain before but not as strong and with a lot less vomiting (I ended up with 9 times in 2 hours that time) so that hadn’t occurred to me really.
In the end they did the bare minimum in the hospital - blood test (there was inflammation) and checked I wasn’t pregnant. I made the mistake of mentioning I’d been camping a few days before so as soon as the dr heard that he just looked at me, told me gastroenteritis and discharged me - even though I said it wasn’t the first time, just the most severe. I was still in agony, trying not to faint, severely dehydrated and trying not or vomit at that point. I didn’t even get sent home with any sort of medication - just a prescription for antiemetics I couldn’t get filled. Thankfully over the course of the next day the pain eased but I was ill for 2 months after and couldn’t eat because of extreme nausea. After a bunch of pestering my GP sent me for an ultrasound and they discovered my gallbladder was full of gallstones. Saw a consultant a few weeks later and he was horrified they didn’t do an ultrasound in a&e and nobody had listened to me as every symptom I had was classic gallstones problems. I had surgery less than a week later.
IcedWarlock@reddit
Similar happened with me. Except they kept saying I was clearly a drunk looking for meds. I don't drink like at all for a start.
I was in agony. By the time they decided to do a scan I had a message within 20 mins of leaving saying come back that needs to be out now.
My gallbladder ended up fusing to my pancreas because it was always inflamed. So that few hours surgery took 12 as they had to laser the two apart.
Ok the plus side the surgeon was happy because it wasn't something he'd seen before so he got to do a written paper about it.
wilsonthehuman@reddit
I never bother with A&E these days. They di absolutely fuck all and then I get told some bullshit after not being listened to and sent on my way. I went back and forth to both my GP surgery and A&E for 7 years with pain like you described. It was agonising. Eventually, the pain was there all the time, and I was utterly miserable. I was reliant on morphine just to cope through it. I barely ate anything because I felt sick constantly or eating brought on the pain. I was sent away from A&E countless times with 'diagnosis' of back pain (they did not explain how back pain presents in specifically upper right quadrant abdominal pain) gastroenteritis, constipation, indigestion, etc etc. I was even accused of drug seeking. They had no answer when I asked why I would go to all the effort of going to the hospital and waiting for 14 hours when I literally had morphine in my house freely accessible to me.
In 2021, an ultrasound found a polyp in my gallbladder. I thought at last we had an answer. Nope. They insisted that polyps 'don't cause pain' and continued ignoring the worsening symptoms. By 2024, I was grey all the time, had lost 3 stone, was depressed, and on the verge of giving up. After pestering the GP, he referred me to general surgery, telling me he didn't think the surgeon was going to tell me anything different than what I had been told in 2021. Thankfully, he was wrong. That surgeon took one look at me, felt my abdomen (I burst into tears as soon as he touched me because it was so painful) and he agreed that the pain I was in was gallbladder and as the polyp had grown from 2.5mm to 6.5mm, it needed to go. I had it removed in May this year. They found that it was so severely inflamed for so long that it was STUCK ON THE LIVER BY SCARRING. On top of that, the polyp had started to dilate and partially occlude the bile duct. The walls of my gallbladder had become paper thin and ready to split open at any moment. It was also full of sludge and small sand like stones. The surgeon actually apologised to me that it had been left to get like that because it was clear I'd been in intense agony 24/7 for years.
The worst part is that it is the 4th time I've been ignored and failed so badly. I nearly died in 2016 of an ovarian torsion because a dermoid cyst was missed and grew to be 14 cm. I was sent home from A&E 4 times in 5 days with appendicitis. No one had bothered to touch me, and when a doctor finally did I screamed fuck so loud I'm sure the whole hospital heard it. When they went in, it was at the point of bursting. And I had 3 ovarian cysts that had ruptured as well. Then, I developed bouts of severe abdominal pain out of nowhere that would floor me. It wasn't investigated bar a few ultrasounds. I was put on the pill, and they called it a day. Eventually, I had had enough and ended up in A&E suicidal because I just couldn't cope any longer. One of the doctors listened finally after 18 months of hell and asked a gynaecologist to see me. He recognised it was probably ovarian cysts, scheduled a surgery for a few months from them, and removed a huge mass of scar tissue and cysts that was once the remnants of the ovary damaged by the torsion. Now, it's happening again. I've developed terrible liver pain and have had blood results come back abnormal, but the GP is insisting that it's fine and nothing is wrong. I've badgered him into referring me to the liver specialist, though, and I am not backing down. I just got my life back after they failed me for 7 years on top of all the other stuff happening from 2016 to 2018, and will not let them gaslight me into spending any more time dealing with pain unnecessarily. I have had all of this happen in the space of a decade with some cases overlapping each other in tine spent dealing with symptoms. This time, it's not an organ I can afford to lose. They have the audacity to try to refer me to therapy when I stated that I don't trust them anymore. They have let me down repeatedly and not even had the decency to apologise, with the exception of the surgeon that did my gallbladder removal. I am 100% sure that when I eventually die, it will be because doctors didn't take me seriously. Sorry for the essay, but it boils my piss to hear of others having the same thing happening to them, and I hope that by sharing my story, it helps people feel not so alone. It wasn't just you. This is happening to people constantly, and it's no surprise it's mostly young women who get treated this way.
nixtracer@reddit
God, that's horrifying. I do wonder why when this happens it's almost always to women and it usually seems to be male doctors...
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
I've had some absolutely dire female doctors; especially gynaes. It's the luck of the draw I think.
Lopsided_Soup_3533@reddit
A female doctor who was doing myhysterosalpingogram made me cry. My body kept pushing the scope out and she shouted at me like I was deliberately letting my pelvic floor muscles push it out. No it was the fact it was incredibly painful and I didn't like it. It was so distressing especially as my husband wasn't allowed in with me (why he couldn't wear a lead apron like the techs do, it's not like he's unfamiliar with that area of my body) that I disengaged from any other fertility investigations.
I'm now 49, disabled and peri- menopausal so children are not happening and that's devastated.
So yeah whilst I think women are 100% not listened to by medical professionals (and nowhere near enough research is done on health issues affecting women) I don't think female medical professionals is always the answer
Dramatic-Bad-616@reddit
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Proper-Blueberry-812@reddit
Happy cake day!
ArmadilloFront1087@reddit
I am sure that a lot of them just want you off their books, so if you accept what they tell you and go away for a few months they’re happy.
I had a similar experience for a number of years with my prolapsed discs. Until I actually needed an ambulance. And even then they were just going to try and dose me up and send me home. I had to tell them I wasn’t going anywhere
RNEngHyp@reddit
Bradford A&E and my GP gaslit me so many times in 2000 over my 15 litre ovarian cyst with torsion that I ended up in hospital for a month and I'm still traumatised. They didn't even diagnose me in the end. I though I was going fucking nuts and went to the coast for the day and collapsed. 25 years later I dont trust any doctors now. I expect all of them to gaslight me. Especially ones that dont know me. And ESPECIALLY men. Because it's ALWAYS fucking men!
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
I'm so sorry you went through that. I've been avoiding A&E myself due to past horrific experiences, but I've had to use it very recently because I was in so much pain and had some scary symptoms. I very grudgingly went in.
I can't fault the service I received. Firstly, I didn't get dismissive treatment or treated like I was only there for drugs, which was my normal experience before. Rather, Iwas treated like I was there for drugs, because I obviously needed them.
The tests were thorough, staff were genuinely lovely. I feel like it's bad that I'm shocked by this.
It doesn't seem to be an anomaly at my local one either, one of my offspring needed them a couple of months back and it's only their decent experience that made me go in for my injury.
Both female presenting. One young adult, one middle aged.
I'm by no means defending all A&Es, but something seems to have changed locally in the last two years or so.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
Oh wow. That’s horrifying what you’ve been through. I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for you - especially having to keep finding the strength to fight when you’re physically and mentally drained and nobody seems to listen.
I’ve had a few other things but nothing like you. I remember going backwards and forwards to the Dr a while ago because I just felt so bad all the time and like I was barely moving through treacle. I got fobbed off over and over as I have hypothyroidism and they were like “it’s just that and your depression (I have bipolar so it gets really bad)”. Eventually got a doctor who ran a different set of blood tests and was told everything came back fine. Being the nosy person I am because I’m used to doctors not listening, I checked my own blood test results and found one had actually come back as not being tested successfully - the B12. So I called and asked about it and a Dr called me back and proceeded to tell how all my bloods were fine etc etc and wouldn’t even look at things in more details until I insisted he check that one. Once he saw it hadn’t been tested it was an “oh” moment and I was booked in later that day for another blood test. The following morning I got an urgent call from the doctors telling me I needed to book in for a loading dose of B12 injections asap as my B12 was incredibly low. I think the lower limit for acceptable is about 180 on the scale they use - I was at 48. I’d been partly writing off symptoms as side effects of my bipolar meds until it got really bad. I still have a bunch of issues I don’t know if are medication related or effects of my b12 being low for so long - from what I can tell it would have taken years to get that low. So now I get an incredibly painful injection every 3 months.
So I’d def say if you feel constantly exhausted make sure they check your b12 as at least in my area it doesn’t seem to be one they routinely test. Because of me my dad and sister got tested as they’d been struggling with energy too and were also both low (although nowhere near my level! They were still over 100). Turns out pernicious anaemia runs in my family. My Grandpop had been getting b12 injections for a long time but no diagnosis of why so I assume he had it too.
About being treated differently as a woman though, my dad also ended up with gallstones. He was moderately ill (pain but never to the point of vomiting) and got diagnosed super quickly with no hospital trips needed. He had to wait 8 weeks for his surgery which was fine as 95% of the time he had no problem (I was rushed in to the first available cancellation). After surgery he was sent him with morphine and a few other things and was walking around reasonably ok a few days later. When I was sent home I was given paracetamol and I think partly as I’d been ill so long in the lead up I could barely move for 2 weeks - much to the annoyance of the district nurse who had to come out and check my wounds. She made it very clear she wasn’t happy she had to come to me as I should have been going to the surgery to see her. My Dad? No such issues. He only needed paracetamol for a few days and never went near the morphine when I had to send someone to the pharmacy to get me co-codamol. He was also prescribed morphine after a shoulder surgery. I had surgery on my wrist (after having to rely on codeine and dihydrocodeine just to get through the day for years) and was sent home with paracetamol and ibuprofen. He didn’t need the morphine and I had to go get my GP to prescribe codeine. The pharmacy then took the mick by putting the tablets in a childproof bottle. I did ask them how the hell they thought I was going to get in when I only had 1 hand and refused to even crack it open so I could unscrew the rest of the way and take one. Instead, I had to sit in pain all day until my sister got to me and could open them.
I won’t start on when I asked for help with depression and was told “what do you expect me to do? Just walk more” while my mum was dying (it took me 8 years and a severe mental health crisis to go ask for help again and that led to the bipolar diagnosis) or the years of trying to find out why I have horrific periods and being fobbed off with “it’s normal to have some pain”.
Bit of an essay back so I’m sorry but I seriously hope you manage to get some help and answers. Nobody should have to go for that.
Dapper_Steak_6712@reddit
You are lucky you got an ambulance for that, when I phoned 999 with vomiting, fever, shivers and pain in my chest and abdomen radiating down my arms I got told it would be a minimum of 4 hours for an ambulance or I could get someone to take me to A&E. Ended up with my sister taking me in her car and dropping me off in A&E.
Sat in A&E for 8 hours before anyone looked at me and then gave me pain killers and hooked me up to a drip for the dehydration and I had to lay on the floor rather than the trolley to get a larger drop to push the fluids in faster.
Then send to a day ward and sat in a chair where I had surgical and medical consultants look over me and send me for X-rays, MRI, Ultrasound testing over the next 48 hours all on nil by mouth as they thought they would need to operate.
Final result was gallstones and my gallbladder was full of them but one had moved and had become stuck in a vessel in the liver, but due to the time it had taken for all the checks it had dislodged so I ended up with being sent home with medicine for the vomiting and painkillers and told to change my diet and reduce fat and fried food intake but if it happened again they would operate. That was about 3 years ago and so far I have managed to avoid another attack!
Rudahn@reddit
A suspected heart attack (even if it turns out not to be!) is absolutely not a waste of ambulance time. Any self-respecting paramedic would rather you be seen and checked over than risk mission something potentially life-threatening.
IdioticMutterings@reddit
I went to my GP with chest pains after mowing the lawn. The receptionist offered me an appointment in 6 weeks time.
Fortunately a GP was in the reception area, collecting some paperwork, and overheard. Sent her away into the office for a talk with the practice manager, and took me through to his office.
After an ECG he asked me not to move, and called in the paramedics. I really was having a heart attack. No thanks to the dumbass receptionist, but thanks to the GP and the Paramedics (and later the hospital), I made a good recovery.
nixtracer@reddit
I know, but that doesn't stop me feeling guilty. Pandemic!
Salty-Value8837@reddit
The covid shot probably caused it, l personally know 3 young healthy men that had heart problems after thier shots.
Outraged_Chihuahua@reddit
Yes, it's a vaccine injury three months before the COVID vaccine was available in the UK. Those preemptive vaccine problems are so pesky!
nixtracer@reddit
Nine months before I got vaccinated too. The vaccine did clear up my post-covid symptoms. Should I be angry about that?
Outraged_Chihuahua@reddit
Absolutely, you should write to the press immediately!
Bright_Ices@reddit
And I personally know two who died of a heart attack from Covid before the vaccine was available.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
I mean, it was about 10 years ago so……
LeTrolleur@reddit
My wife called 999 while miscarrying in heavy pain, they told her there was nothing they could do and to make her own way to A&E, despite being told her husband was out of the country.
Safe to say I now don't trust the emergency services to get anyone anywhere to the hospital quickly, if at all.
Glad you at least got through to someone who cared.
Nice_Back_9977@reddit
As hard as that must have been for her that was an appropriate response. Paramedics aren’t for transport, they are for people who need emergency treatment on site and en route to the hospital.
LeTrolleur@reddit
She was hemorrhaging blood, and once she did get to the hospital, she was rushed to a room and kept in while they gave her emergency clotting agents.
So tell me again, was it an appropriate response?
Forgive me if I forget certain details, possibly the worst time of our lives and don't enjoy reliving it.
Penjing2493@reddit
She made it to hospital safely, without collapsing - so yes, it sounds like an appropriate response.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
ZebraCrosser@reddit
Someone surviving something doesn't necessarily determine whether it should've been judged as safe beforehand.
Penjing2493@reddit
Not only survived - had no adverse event at all - made it to hospital entirely safely.
I would suggest that in the absence of an adverse event having occurred, or OP being a medical professional with expertise in the design of triage algorithms then they're probably not in a position to claim the triage was inappropriate.
In fact it would arguably have been unnecessary to dispatch an ambulance given that OP's partner got to hospital with no adverse event occurring - thus demonstrating in this case that the triage algorithm out-performed some randoms on the internet.
Nice_Back_9977@reddit
I'm sorry for your loss
ViSaph@reddit
My mum called with an extremely high fever and while really out of it with no way of safely getting to the hospital and an 8 & 4 yo in the house. The woman said she was going to talk to someone and call back. When she did she was told the ambulance service had refused to come out and it was only when mum said it meant she wasn't going to be able get checked out at all that the lady on the line personally arranged a taxi for mum. She barely managed to get to it, really freaking the driver out, then collapsed getting out of it. The poor taxi driver had to run for help. Turned out to be sepsis from infected tonsillitis, she was tachycardic with a heart rate in the 170s. She'd also apparently been hallucinating being on a boat with a Chinese lady. She nearly died and she would have died if she'd not gone into hospital.
LeTrolleur@reddit
So sorry to hear this, I'm glad your mum survived!
There seem to be a lot of people on here with a funny idea regarding what constitutes an emergency.
limakilo87@reddit
As horrendous as this is, ambulances must be for acute emergency care. It is a finite resource. If you have ever waited for an ambulance with somebody who is rapidly becoming dead from catastrophic injuries, it can make it more clear cut for you.
I would say, more widespread use of non-emergency ambulances would be a good idea. First aider/driver, and does multiple pick ups on one run.
The key to an ambulance are paramedics and life saving equipment. Costs a lot of money and uses precious resources.
sadiesaid2023@reddit
Is sending out of hours doctors still a thing?
Trippynet@reddit
It can happen, yes. When my sister herniated a disc in her back and was in extreme pain (and couldn't physically get into our car), they sent a "G-med doctor" at about 1am to give her an injection of morphine for the pain. This was then followed with Oromorph (liquid morphine) and an MRI scan some time later to assess the damage.
sadiesaid2023@reddit
Oh wow, when was this? Last I remember if the call out doctor I was about 14, I’m almost 40. I always thought it was bad they stopped it as I never hear of it any more.
Trippynet@reddit
This was last year. It's worth noting I live in Scotland (not sure if the same exists in England) and the doctor was sent out off the back of a 999 call where the paramedics chose the morphine injection over hospital admission, so may not be available from your normal GP.
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
Very rarely, yes.
baildodger@reddit
Yes.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
No clue. This was about 10 years ago.
Timely_Egg_6827@reddit
Occasionally but you usually get a nurse practioner which is fine. Had for my Dad when he was dying.
RhinoRhys@reddit
They were likely sat in a lay-by somewhere waiting for a call.
TheBikerMidwife@reddit
They’re sat outside the hospital trying to find a bed to hand their last patient into.
RhinoRhys@reddit
Not if they were at their house in 5 minutes. Turns out there is a substation 5 mins from their house so they were there stocking up and having a tea break.
TheGeordieGal@reddit
There’s an ambulance station 5 mins down the road from me so if they’d just been on break or something I was right there lol
RhinoRhys@reddit
Yeah there's one near me in office park. Always see them topping up their supplies when I go for a maccies haha. Just an unassuming office block with about 12 ambulances parked outside.
Dunno why I've been down voted so much lol. It's literally what they do when they're not busy to decrease response times in areas a bit farther from the stations. It's not always balls to the wall busy.
Necessary_Umpire_139@reddit
I work for 111, for you to get a cat 1 for abdo pain you must've been very ill ie chest pains or they've miss clicked. 111 is a great tool and obviously I think we do great stuff but surely they explained they were gonna send ambulance?
TheGeordieGal@reddit
Honestly, everything hurt at that point - my stomach, abdomen, back, chest - everything. I felt like I was being stabbed and crushed and torn apart at the same time - I wouldn't wish that pain on my worst enemy. I recall getting to the hospital and asking a nurse to end me as I couldn't deal with the pain any more (and they only gave me a few paracetamol before sending me home). I remember the paramedics did my blood sugar, did my pulse and o2 and told me I looked seriously grey and unwell and just bundled me onto the seat (sad I didn't get the bed lol) in the ambulance with the gas and air and a sick bag and we left. I didn't get lights or anything on the way to the hospital at least but it's super quiet that time of day anyway.
And nope. They didn't say. They just said they'd get back in touch then the ambulance turned up a few mins later. When it first turned into the street I thought it was for someone else initially until it stopped outside my house.
YardKooky6346@reddit
How British to be mortified by an ambulance turning up and potentially drawing the attention of your neighbours 🤣
TheGeordieGal@reddit
It was more the fact it hadn’t occurred to me they’d send one haha. They said they’d speak to someone and call me back and then the ambulance arrived with blue lights. At least they didn’t have the siren on! I live in a cul de sac so everyone knew. I was out the house in the ambulance in under 5 mins on my way to hospital and before I’d even left the street my sister had a text from one of the neighbours. An hour later I got a message from a friend whose parents live in my street as well so news spread. I think several other neighbours caught my sister the next day and asked her what happened.
To be fair, they may be on the nosy side at times but at least if someone needs help we all help each other.
BikerScowt@reddit
I had a trapped nerve in my left shoulder, called to hopefully get an appointment at the minor injuries hospital.
'Do you have any pain in your left arm?'
Yeah, trapped nerve in my left shoulder. 'Pain in left arm, ok. Do you have any asprin in the house?'
Hold up, I'm not having a heart attack 'Your symptoms say you may be, I'm sending an ambulance now' Sigh, at least tell them they don't need the lights and siren...
2 ambulances turned up within 5 minutes rushed in looking for their patient but totally understood why the handler had sent them and i wasn't taking the piss. They have a checklist, any ticks in the right box means emergency response.
honkytonkwoman1984@reddit
Must have been 20 by years ago because no ambulance is showing up that quickly now
Elegant_Sinkhole@reddit
"No Englishman would dream of dying in someone else's house!"
Barn_Brat@reddit
As a Brit, if my sons temperature was that high and I couldn’t get him to hospital, I’d be calling an ambulance 😭
midlifecrisisAJM@reddit
Unless the book was old. I was born in 1967. My childhood illnesses were all measured in Farenheit.
manicpixidreamgirl04@reddit
Or it's a localized 'translation'.
notacanuckskibum@reddit
Or the book was written (or set) pre-1970.
neverendum@reddit
I think most English people thought about temperatures in Fahrenheit until way later than 1970 even if that was when we officially transitioned. The weather on TV still showed Fahrenheit alongside Celsius until the early 90s.
Weekly_Beautiful_603@reddit
My boomer parents still insist on Fahrenheit. As a result, I can generally do both for most things. Weather in Fahrenheit just feels silly, though.
winebookscats@reddit
I'm of that in-between generation (born in 1970) where the weather in my childhood was always in Fahrenheit, so was weight, height, temperature. Even though we were supposed to be metric for everything. I've totally adjusted to the weather being Celsius, but would still say I'm 5'6" rather than 168cm tall. As for weight, if someone announces the birth of their baby and it weighs 3.5kg, I'd have to grab my phone to convert it to lbs and ounces before I'd have any clue. Temperature? I have a vague understanding that somewhere around 36-37°C is OK? Even my teens still use feet and inches for their height, although they weigh themselves in kg. It's a conundrum 🤣
Weekly_Beautiful_603@reddit
I’m the same (born in 1980, but my parents were born in the ‘40s). I’ve been in Japan for over a decade, though, and I’ve mostly adapted to metric. As I don’t drive and I’m seldom in a car, I still find km/h pretty meaningless.
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
There's 5 years between myself and my husband and when our offspring was ill as a child, I had to translate temperatures for the husband. I understand them in centigrade, he in Fahrenheit. We seem to have been born around the changeover. Or it's that he's got much older parents than mine. I dunno.
fitzy0612@reddit
It was published earlier this year by Lisa Jewell, who's from London (if it's the book I think it is)
I actually think it's just to give opportunity to introduce the friend that weighs in on the wife's situation and puts her marriage into perspective, which then sets the cogs turning and progresses the story.
PurplePlodder1945@reddit
I’m 55 and it doesn’t seem that long ago (80s/90s?) that we used Fahrenheit for temperature, especially when it was high. If it hit 100 then you were really sick versus ‘a bit under the weather’
-Intrepid-Path-@reddit
A temperature of 37.8 is considered really sick?
Zealousideal_Pop3121@reddit
Yes I’m 42 and remember my temperature being taken in F as a small child in the 80s/90s
viimoo@reddit
This is very interesting to me. I’m also 42 and I don’t use Fahrenheit (though I remember using the basic calculation to convert it), whereas a friend of mine who is 54 uses it exclusively. I’ve always wondered why that is, when my parents in their 70s use Celsius too. I wonder if there was just a short time in the 80s/90s when it was more popular here 🤔
Helithe@reddit
Ha yes! If it's really hot you use Fahrenheit because a bigger number sounds more impressive, but if it's cold you use Celsius because the lower, or even minus number, makes it sound colder.
c_dug@reddit
I'm mid 30s and the only thing in life I measure in Farenheit is a fever!
Our baby thermometer measures in °c and I end up converting it to F to see if we've gone over 100 or not.
shelleypiper@reddit
Yeah I was gonna say. Why is the temperature in American?
Eden1117_98@reddit
plenty of people in England use Fahrenheit for human body temperature
RedditWishIHadnt@reddit
Anyone over 70 in the UK will still default to Fahrenheit (metric is a relatively recent thing). I have been advised to drive a child to hospital myself rather than wait for an ambulance. They can run a red light, but fundamentally can’t break the laws of physics.
UncleArfur@reddit
Or a Daily Mail reader!
jonesnori@reddit
Or that it was old, and therefore pre-NHS.
JohnnySchoolman@reddit
The NHS was founded in 1948 but only started decimalisation in 1971, although not including weights and measures at first, and it was common for people to use Fahrenheit until the late 80s/early 90s.
maceion@reddit
In our house we still use Fahrenheit. It is only system all 3 generations are familiar with.
PassiveTheme@reddit
Depending on the ages involved, I don't think the system in your house is the norm. I'm 30 and fahrenheit means nothing to me. I have only ever heard my parents give temperatures in Celsius. My grandparents were certainly more comfortable with Fahrenheit, but towards the end, even my grandad was talking about it being "over 20 degrees outside".
blinky84@reddit
If the car seat matters, it's definitely not pre NHS. But it's not unusual to measure body temp in Fahrenheit.
TheDarkestStjarna@reddit
It is in the UK.
blinky84@reddit
It's not unusual among the older contingent; Fahrenheit stuck around for a while in terms of medical thermometers and such. When I was a kid in the 90s, my granny was definitely working in Fahrenheit when we weren't well.
MolassesInevitable53@reddit
That was thirty years ago.
I am late 60s. I have been using centigrade for a long time now.
LiqdPT@reddit
And do we know when the book was written?
therealdrewder@reddit
30 isn't particularly old
MolassesInevitable53@reddit
Did you misread?
We are not talking about someone being 30 years old (that's young). We are talking about what things were like 30 years ago.
For people, 30 is young. For whether we do things differently now, 30 years sees a lot of change.
blinky84@reddit
My dad is your age and he definitely still only thinks in Fahrenheit for body temp. I just asked him 🤷🏻♀️
blinky84@reddit
But what you're saying is, you didn't used to?
MolassesInevitable53@reddit
In the 70s, when even doctors and weather forecasters used Fahrenheit, no, of course I didn't use Centigrade.
ElegantOliver@reddit
Thanks - I am not the older generation but grew up with parents measuring body temp in Fahrenheit so that's what I know today. Bloody modern thermometers (and a European wife) insisting on this new fangled Celcius thing...
nixtracer@reddit
At least he's not insisting on Celsius's original scale, which had boiling point at 0 and freezing at 100. I do wonder what on earth he was thinking.
blinky84@reddit
I know, right? I actually texted my dad cos I was sure I had to translate our temps to Fahrenheit for his advice when we got COVID last. He says body temp is always Fahrenheit for him, everything else is Celsius 🤷🏻♀️
FustianRiddle@reddit
Could be, could also be localized.
Salty-Value8837@reddit
No other countries that l'm aware of use fahrenheit.
OpheliaDrone@reddit
A 104° temperature in Fahrenheit or Celsius is incredibly high and in need of emergency care. For humans of all ages. Doesn’t matter who wrote it, that is an emergency temperature regardless of temperature measurement.
WelshEngineer@reddit
A 40°C fever in a toddler is urgent but not an emergency unless they are having febrile seizures.
A 40°C fever in a very young baby though is an emergency and an ambulance would be sent for that.
Hamsternoir@reddit
Just because they're free (I know they aren't ultimately) doesn't mean we use them like a taxi?
annaoze94@reddit
People don't use their brains. Although I remember seeing a British show about how cities in the UK have response teams for specific things. I think there was one specifically for suicidal people, cardiac events, and then in police situations you call an armed team only for certain types of calls. (Obviously the last one wouldn't work here because everyone and their brother has a gun and that's why cops always carry guns) But yeah calling a bunch of paramedics and firefighters for someone who's having a stroke, isn't the best use of a fire engine.
I wish we had that (and we may have in some places)
Sasspishus@reddit
Why would anyone call the fire brigade for someone having a stroke? What do you mean?
johnwcowan@reddit
In a lot of places in the U.S., fire and emergency medical response is a unified service and many people are cross-trained. Who and what gets dispatched depends on the overall situation.
The other day I fell (slipped) out of my bed. I have a cast on my leg, so I couldn't get back up on the bed. This has happened before, so when my daughter got up I asked her to call 911. She did, and they gave me the old heave-ho and I was on my feet, so they walked me back to bed. I was fine after that. I'm not even sure if the three guys who came were firefighters or EMTs. No charge, no problem.
Sasspishus@reddit
It's not like that in the UK. When you call 999 you state which service you need, and you can ask for more than one service and they'll judge which ones to send. The fire brigade are sent out for more than just fires, they do car crashes and chemical spills and things too, but they don't get sent out as paramedics.
Zealousideal_Heat330@reddit
If immediate medical attention is needed and a fire crew can get there soon and ambulance would be delayed they will sometimes send fire brigade. I discovered this after a cluster of seizures when I came round surrounded by firemen that stayed until the paramedics got there
johnwcowan@reddit
The story in the U.S. depends on where you are. Paramedics have a higher skill level than EMTs and can do more. In NYC (which I'm most familiar with) all firefighters are now trained as EMTs. At least one paramedic is sent on all fire calls, as they can administer IVs for pain or infection, intubate, deliver babies, etc. Firehouses are everywhere, so ambulances can be dispatched from a shorter distance, and there aren't that many pure fire calls any more: most are complex emergencies.
Oldsoldierbear@reddit
here (part of the U.K.) we have a “falls team” in Social Services who will come out specifically to assist folk (mainly elderly) who have fallen. They also offer support and advice.
johnwcowan@reddit
I really could have used them one day a few years ago when I fell down 4 times walking home from my doctor's office (only 4 short blocks). The first three times passers-by helped me up, though I could not convince them I wasn't drunk. The 4th time I fell down in the street in front of my house. A cop drove by and helped me up, and I asked him to get me inside my house, which he did.
It turned out that I was delirious from a serious toe infection, and the toe needed to be amputated, though otherwise i was not injured at all. It turned out that after it healed I could walk fine with only 9 toes.
Oldsoldierbear@reddit
I’m glad you are OK now.
BreqsCousin@reddit
You've said "here" but we don't know where "here" is for you
RhinoRhys@reddit
It's America
nixtracer@reddit
Going by the gun, it could only be the USA.
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
A very young child with a temperature that high would be considered an emergency.
Front-Pomelo-4367@reddit
My grandma had a fall last week and hit her head, and even that was going to be over an hour wait because she didn't lose consciousness/didn't vomit/didn't show signs of brain or skull injury. In the end it was about an hour to drive through awful traffic to get to A&E anyway, but at least she was in a car that whole time and not sat on the pavement in the rain waiting for an ambulance
johnwcowan@reddit
Head wounds notoriously bleed, out of all proportion to their actual seriousness.
Front-Pomelo-4367@reddit
She needed stitches and there was a lot of blood, but nothing broken. Although urgent care refused to see her and redirected us to A&E because they said they weren't equipped to handle it
johnwcowan@reddit
I had a doctor's appointment one morning, and when i got there the nurse did a routine finger-stick and got a blood sugar reading of 300 mg/dL (17 mmol/L, about three times normal). They sent me straight to the ER, where I explained that I had forgotten to take my meds that morning.
They re-measured my blood sugar and told me "If your sugar is less than 1000, don't come back here." I walked home, took my meds, and remade the appointment.
Evening-Situation-38@reddit
If she wasn't on the floor outside it would be a C3 for a non-urgent ambulance, which is a waste as she needs to visit an UTC with someone driving her.
You called 999 when you needed 111, please stop wasting resources
Timely_Egg_6827@reddit
Urgent care treatment centres are fantastic but they can be quite limited in what they treat. I was quite surprised to be sent after waiting 2 hours from the one at Guy's to A&E at Thomas' for an animal bite. Chance IV antibiotics needed and fact Guys' had no tetanus in stock made it an emergency. Thankfully just needed strong oral ABs, flushing as very deep and tetanus and was in and out in an hour. Nurse at Guy's told me to get dinner on way to Thomas as wait times usually horrendous.
Front-Pomelo-4367@reddit
I didn't call shit. The people who picked an 88yo woman up off the floor, covered in blood, called someone and I don't know whether it was 999 or 111 because she was alone when she fell.
alltheparentssuck@reddit
I hope she's OK.
Turbulent-Watch-1889@reddit
104°C !!?!?!? They'd be on fire...
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
I mean I literally said °F…. Yes it’s a British author, yes they make American “translations”
Turbulent-Watch-1889@reddit
Just kidding 🤣
Elegant_wordsmith@reddit
Because it wouldn’t be priority so you’d end up waiting eighty billion hours to get one to come. Elderly people with broken hips get left in the cold waiting for hours. Our health service is a mess.
ilikecocktails@reddit
Are you reading Don’t Let Him In?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Yep!
ilikecocktails@reddit
I just finished it yesterday I really enjoyed it, hope you’re enjoying it too!
Gloomy_Mushroom_1715@reddit
Ambulances aren't taxis. If you have time to wait you don't need one!
Interesting-Bit725@reddit
They’re free, not freely available.
Nannyhirer@reddit
Brit here. We politely assess our place in the ‘queue’ Even if kids are sick. Husband and I never drink at home at the same time in case there was an emergency and one of us had to drive to A&E I have a horrible greedy acquaintance and learned she called an ambulance recently as wanted to skip the queue and not pay for petrol so yeah, the greedy takers are ruining it for everyone as per.
RareBrit@reddit
A 40C temperature by itself is not a medical emergency. Context is important.
40C, reactive to light, and not happy about having their neck moved. You'd better believe they're being seen.
40C, flu going round the family, temperature responds to Calpol. Keep an eye on them and get them to drink plenty. Kindly do not bring your germ factory into a public waiting room.
No-Parsnip563@reddit
You are supposed to get medical help at 40°C, especially if it’s a kid, just because it’s a very dangerous temperature to remain at.
Setting3768@reddit
For just a 40C temperature? No. The NHS guidance on this doesn't agree with you: https://www.nhs.uk/symptoms/fever-in-children/.
Salty_Horse_8467@reddit
'get medical help' does not translate into needing to go to ED.
Also this is just not true, I am a doctor. It's very normal to have a fever with a cold or flu. If the child is uncomfortable then take calpol.
Sea-Possession-1208@reddit
Hence the "responds to calpol" bit.
Once a child is above 6months old a fever alone, even 40ºC isn't the issue - it is how the child or adult is in themselves. (Under 6m please seek medical attention for a fever above 39 and under 3m old for a fever above 38, unless they have just had their immunisations that day)
Hot and happy - the fever is the immune system doing its job. Few are hot and happy at 40. But lots are at 39.5. And a dose of calpol (or supermarket's own brand) does wonders to bring back the happy.
seklas1@reddit
Because ambulances are only for 70+. If you’re a younger person, they don’t have any available for you so the quicker way is driving/uber to hospital.
seklas1@reddit
Because ambulances are only for 70+. If you’re a younger person, they don’t have any available for you so the quicker way is driving/uber to hospital.
bethelns@reddit
A 40c temp in a child needs to be seen by a doctor but isnt an emergency. You'd give calpol (kids liquid acetaminophen/paracetamol) then check the temp is going down but its not an emergency and theres nothing an ambulance can do other than drive you to a&e. You're probably going to get there quicker using a taxi or a friend to drive you.
My 2yo got a 40c temp on christmas day of all days. It came down a little after calpol but enough lethargy and still over 38c so we called the non emergency line (111) and she was then seen by the out of hours GP for an antibiotics prescription.
PatchyWhiskers@reddit
Ambulances are free but British people are educated to only call when the fast response and life support is necessary, because of social feelings that vital healthcare resources should be reserved for those in most need. If the baby had been having seizures or stopped breathing the woman would likely have called.
Skylon77@reddit
I wish that was true.
As an A&E Consultant, I can tell you that at least 50-60% of ambulance call-outs are entirely unnecessary.
nixtracer@reddit
And half the rest are alcohol.
I actually got thanked by ambulance staff once for being a legit callout that wasn't just drunkenness yet again. (It was still embarrassingly stupid. Walking to a lecture at the Li Ka Shing Cancer Centre in, uh, Addenbrookes' Hospital, I visually misparsed a row of low bollards as a paved path, tripped, and damn nearly tore my nose off on impact. Blood everywhere. You get really fast transport to A&E if you tear big holes in yourself in a major hospital.)
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
I got thanked too last time I needed one. New years eve. They came out for monitoring after epi pen use.
I did get told off for doing something stupid though; eating something I know I'm allergic to because I was somehow under the impression that I was making up my allergy and would be totally fine. I have no idea why I thought I was making it up, or how I managed to gaslight myself into thinking I was ok.
Turns out that I absolutely didn't make it up, I was not totally fine and I messed up my family's new year's eve... With a pear.
The pear was delicious, a very good one to end my relationship with parts with, but I wouldn't say it was worth potentially dying over. It also wasn't worth scaring the moobs off my husband by asking him "do you think I should use my pen?" when it turns out I already had slightly blue lips and was wheezing. "Get somewhere comfy, woman. You're getting stabbed.".
BoleynRose@reddit
My boss (we're teachers) told me a few years ago she had an 11 year old decide to listen to his friends and use his epipen without needing it. She had to call an ambulance.
He got a lot of lectures that day...
nixtracer@reddit
I do the making up thing almost every year. Surely my hay fever isn't as bad as all that, I feel fine, catastrophic explosion. Thank goodness for iqair... not needed paramedic support for outright anaphylaxis since I stopped commuting (trains are basically pollen rams).
TheSecretIsMarmite@reddit
No better place to have an accident like that than at Addenbrookes either
nixtracer@reddit
By next year they'd relaid that path. I wasn't the only person to have had a bad fall on it...
TheSecretIsMarmite@reddit
Facilities management probably got a bollocking
nixtracer@reddit
It had only just been built. I suspect they had words with the architects...
pollrobots@reddit
I wonder if part of what drives that is the perception (right or wrong) that you get seen more quickly if you arrive by ambulance.
j1mb0b@reddit
It definitely is widely believed but it's also definitely doesn't put you to the front of the queue. This point (and how ambulances are generally used as taxis) is covered in the books of Tom Reynolds...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Reynolds_%28EMT%29
Efficient-Lab@reddit
Shhh he might hear us /u/Brian_Kellett
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
There's so many signs up in my local hospital that says you'll be booked in quicker by reception to free up the crews, but you may not necessarily be triaged or seen any quicker depending on your issue.
snowandrocks2@reddit
Surely there's got to be a better triage system in place? Same with A+E time wasters, why are they even allowed to join the queue.
PatchyWhiskers@reddit
Self-triage is always going to be inaccurate. A panic attack can feel exactly like a heart attack if you are not familiar with it.
Kcufasu@reddit
Usually those implementating the clue are not qualified medically enough to decide to reiect someone - imagine the outrage if they turned someone away and then they collapsed on the way home etc, better to have them sitting in a&e all night waiting where if they do deteriorate they're in the right place than take the risk
snowandrocks2@reddit
They're almost certainly more qualified than the general public who the consultant above seems to be blaming for unnecessary A+E visits.
Several years ago I visited A+E on a Saturday afternoon with what turned out to be a broken foot. When I finally got taken through just after midnight, the doctor in charge made a series of passive aggressive comments insinuating that it wasn't an emergency at all and that I should have waited until the Monday.
He might have been right, but it was their receptionist that told me to wait - he wasn't overly amused when I called him out on how rude he was being.
This_Instruction_206@reddit
The system depends on people to be honest and accurate. Intentionally or otherwise if someone gives the wrong information they will get the wrong priority.
This_Instruction_206@reddit
The system depends on people to be honest and accurate. Intentionally or otherwise if someone gives the wrong information they will get the wrong priority.
char11eg@reddit
I mean, yes, but we’re talking about different subsets of the public.
The people making spurious 999 calls aren’t also the people who are so self conscious about wasting public resources that they’re getting a friend to drive their possibly critically ill child to the hospital.
brill37@reddit
Plus, if it's not a proper emergency, they can literally take hours to turn up depending on what else is going on for them. Quicker to just go in the car.
No-Parsnip563@reddit
Even in a proper emergency, it can take forever. Someone in a nearby village to me died because the ambulance took half an hour to arrive when he had a heart attack.
brill37@reddit
Yeah absolutely. The system is so overworked, so underfunded 😢
FourEyedTroll@reddit
To be fair, where I live, the villages are at least half an hour away from any hospital or ambulance depot, so that would be expected. Overworked and underfunded, yes, but also people sometimes just live in the arse-end of nowhere.
brill37@reddit
Yeah there's also that! My experiences are of the London Boroughs, but yes lots of factors at play!
PatchyWhiskers@reddit
In the USA or Australia rural people can live several HOURS from a hospital, half an hour away is basically the suburbs for them.
Normal-Height-8577@reddit
In London, though?!
brill37@reddit
Yeah, can be hours. The service is deeply underfunded.
justinhammerpants@reddit
Yes, in London. During the second covid lockdown I was roller skating and fell, right on my tailbone. I was on my own, in an incredible amount of pain, and could not get up on my own. I called 999 because I was very concerned (as one should be with potential spinal injuries). They said the wait time would be 6 hours, and if I could make it to a&e on my own, that would be much better.
Ended up flagging a random person down who helped me change out of my skates, get my shoes on, and helped me crawl to the side of the road so I could get an uber.
Thankfully the hospital was only about 10 minutes away.
Familiar_Radish_6273@reddit
I live in London and each time I've called an ambulance a paramedic car has arrived within 5 minutes, with an ambulance team not far behind, but I was in anaphylaxis. My mum had to wait about three hours with a broken hip. If it's immediately life threatening they're much quicker, obviously.
Timely_Egg_6827@reddit
10 hours was the estimated time for the 1 hour non-urgent response in North Lanarkshire. London won't be that much quicker. Problem is capacity - A&E handover could take 2 hours and that is an ambulance out of action. Also more and more they treat on scene. So on an emergency call out, they wete outside house 3 hours while doing heart monitoring. More resource effective overall than taking into hospital but I don't see as effective use of ambulance service.
Normal-Height-8577@reddit
True. It's funny, I still think of ambulances as being pretty fast to respond, but they really haven't been that fast in a lot of places since the pandemic.
Timely_Egg_6827@reddit
The 1 hour response and batshit get there ASAP can still be fast. But a lot of their time is spent couriering non-mobile patients with non-emergency but needing hospital treatment. Like my Dad needed IV transfusions so not going wouldn't kill him in a day but he needed them soon and we couldn't get to hospital safely as totally non-mobile. 10 hour waits not unusual - you just hoped to get to a) local hospital and b) to get there before surgical teams clocked off.
annaoze94@reddit
Are they free for foreign visitors? I assume the NHS wouldn't apply to us. What would an ambulance ride or A&E visit typically cost a non British tourist?
Osterbeast1955@reddit
Emergency treatment including ambulance transport is free for anyone.
The free emergency treatment is, generally, confined to within the A&E department only. If admitted to a ward then charges will apply for tourists.
Kiss_It_Goodbyeee@reddit
The NHS is always free "at point of care". Depending on the treatment received a tourist or other visitor may be given a bill if they have insurance.
Foreign residents need to pay an annual NHS surcharge.
stevekeiretsu@reddit
NHS will treat you 'for free' if you need it but you're supposed to have travel insurance they can charge after the fact and/or be from a country with a reciprocal agreement with your own national health service, where applicable
Bossco1881@reddit
An ambulance ride or A&E treatment is free for everyone, UK national, tourist, immigrant, everyone. No one should worry about paying in an emergency.
If you have non urgent treatment, there may be a fee.
GeordieAl@reddit
Plus air ambulance, mountain rescue, and coastguard, all free.
RiskyBiscuits150@reddit
Foreign visitors would still get emergency treatment at A&E for free, I believe. Anything non-urgent and you'd likely have to pay and/or utilise travel insurance. That depends somewhat on where you're travelling from though.
PatchyWhiskers@reddit
I think emergency treatment is free, but if you need anything more they would charge you.
SillyStallion@reddit
Its literally a book they are reading - written by an American.
Cool_Finding_6066@reddit
Oh my sweet summer child
Cool_Finding_6066@reddit
This is nonsense. Some British people are so reckless with the ambulance service and treat it more like a taxi service. So much so that other British people know that as a result, the ambulance service is so horrifically stretched that if the patient is still breathing, it's quicker and easier to take them to A&E themselves.
Source: British person who works in healthcare.
Rico1983@reddit
Either:
Probably both.
Equal-Row-554@reddit
Or the author is American (OP uses Fahrenheit), or simply because it wasn't an emergency.
Inucroft@reddit
People still used Fahrenheit for body temp regularly into the 90s in the UK.
We only officially swapped to Celsius in 1971
skipskedaddle@reddit
Not if the car seat was an issue. Those were the days of it being ok to get a lift home in the boot!
bethelns@reddit
You can still take an infant in a car unrestrained in England and wales (Scots law might be different) in the case of emergency, so heading to hospital would be fine of they were stopped by the police.
showgirl__@reddit
Don't we still use Fahrenheit for this? Last time I went to the doctor that's what they used. It's more reliable than measuring in Celsius.
TheSecretIsMarmite@reddit
No? I can't remember the last time I heard a medical professional use Fahrenheit and I was born in the 70s
Major-Scratch-1082@reddit
No doctors don’t typically use Fahrenheit. It also cannot be “more reliable” than measuring in Celsius as both are just a unit of measurement, if I used two properly calibrated thermometers one in F and one in C I would have the same result in two different scales.
YchYFi@reddit
It was probably a translated to local dialect version.
Ok_Heart_7193@reddit
Several options:
The mother is one of those wet tissue people who doesn’t want to make a fuss.
The author is from the US and thought that situation was normal.
The author needed a stressful situation to throw two people together.
The character isn’t from the UK and didn’t know about 999 or 111.
811545b2-4ff7-4041@reddit
Free ambulance that takes 4 hours to arrive vs car ride that's instant?
104 F (40 C) is a rather high fever though.
Phantom_Crush@reddit
I'm guessing that this is a pivotal plot moment so that's why it happened. Don't read too much into it (hah!)
Either_Reality3687@reddit
I was reading a book that claimed they buried a boy without someone confirming it was the bot in question apparently the writer wrote that the mortician said the boy's body was in such a bad state that they told his mother not to look. I'm sorry but no they need someone to identify the body.
If someone doesn't know the culture and tries to write from that perspective they get things wrong.
We use ⁰C for temp and we'd call 111 first they can send an ambulance if its an emergency.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
It’s a British author, Lisa Jewell. They do “translations” for American audiences
Johny_boii2@reddit
Im not sure why a book based in London would use Fahrenheit, im assuming the author doesn't know either
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
“Translation” for American audience.
saem16@reddit
Don’t let him in? I’m reading that at the moment and thought the same thing! (I’m in England) I guessed it would have been quicker to get the baby to the hospital by asking her friend
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
lol yeah!! :)
HalfAgony-HalfHope@reddit
A fever isnt an emergency. Its a sign that your body is fighting an infection, its different for babies, but usually you'd only seek medical attention for a toddler or kid if its persistent or they have a seizure or something.
An ambulance is for when you have an urgent medical need.
loserbaby_@reddit
I have only called an ambulance once in my life when my kid was younger and had a bad case of bronchiolitis, she went downhill very quickly and all of a sudden she couldn’t stay awake no matter what I tried. I absolutely did not feel comfortable driving to A&E at that point because I needed to watch her like a hawk and make sure she was still breathing.
Other than things like that, we almost always go to A&E. A lot of the time for things that aren’t genuine emergencies that need urgent and immediate attention, A&E is faster anyway, and it’s not like it’s first come first served either, they will prioritise people based on their condition at the time.
All that said, it’s also a book, and I would imagine this was maybe just part of a plot point lol
Silver-Appointment77@reddit
You might not ring 999 but you would 111 who if you need an ambulance will stay on the phone till one gets there, as I know by experience. Some of them are good and can give you good advice or make appointments with urgent care, so youre not waiting in A&E all night.
Even by the temperature its wrong. High in the uk would be over 39-40c. Not in farenheit. Im guessing the author is American, as they dont seeem to know anything about 111.
L-Space_Orangutan@reddit
Usually not the case in wales at least might different in england, if 111 have transferred your call to 999 once the pt is confirmed to be able to hear the 999 call handler the 111 call handler is gone to their next call as the patient has been properly transferred through
if there was a interpreter on the line the 111 call handler stays on in case there's a disconnection to get them back on but otherwise bam they're gone
Silver-Appointment77@reddit
Ah right. I just thought it was normal as the 111 operater stayed on line with me, giving me information on what to do until an ambulance arrived when my husband had an Anaphylactic shock through some new medication he was given.
Although thinking back I think they said they couldnt get through to the emergency line. So they couldnt pass me through to them.
Crabstick65@reddit
Timeliness, sometimes they take literally hours because deliberately understaffed by the previous Government, plus they triage calls, if your gonna die soon then you get priority.
Relevant_Cause_4755@reddit
If you need to get to A&E really quickly call a taxi (for the younger generation, the thing that Uber replaced).
lockdown_warrior@reddit
Or just call a taxi. If people called an ambulance every time a kid got a temperature, the system would utterly collapse. Degree of temperature does not correlate to extent of sickness.
If the kid’s properly unwell (seizing, difficulty breathing, reduced consciousness) then absolutely do call an ambulance.
Cultural-Meaning5172@reddit
Why is he worthless for being somewhere rude?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
I mean, there’s obviously there more to it than just that…
good-SWAWDDy@reddit
We tend to take ambulances seriously, if you can get there in a car it's a preferable option.
clivehorse@reddit
When I was a kid in the 90s, I fell of a horse and broke my arm in two places. It was Friday night rush hour, dispatch told my parents that the paramedics weren't going to save my life, so it was quicker for them to drive me than sending the ambulance both ways through traffic. If you don't need medical care IN TRANSIT, it is very common/preferred for you to get yourself to A&E.
wilkied@reddit
It’s often quicker to drive - our ambos are pretty busy, an hour wait isn’t that uncommon at peak times because they’re all either busy with patients or busy queuing for A&E (ER) so it’s often quicker to drive.
And if it’s not life threatening, for the reasons above, if you drive it means that the ambulance that would have had to convey you is free for a life threatening job instead.
Icy-Direction-852@reddit
An ambulance wouldn't be used unless it's life threatening in the moment or there's another reason like stuck on a hill with no way of getting down even with friends/family help. Unfortunately the NHS is on its knees due to being intentionally drained of money to bring in a US style insurance based market so ambulance waits are scarily long. I've heard people being told to bring a loved one who's had a stroke to hospital themselves because it's too long to wait to get critical medicine to prevent damage. When funded the NHS is an amazing system but unfortunately like always corruption is ruining it.
sedgley80@reddit
Maybe the writer isn’t British
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
She is. Lisa Jewell.
UKTim24530@reddit
Just because something is free, it doesn't mean it should be used at every opportunity.
I mean, if your doctor was free, would you go to see them with a cold just because you could?
(Most) People in Britain realise that an ambulance is for REAL emergencies, like when someone is going to die if the bleeding isn't stopped, or you need their equipment and expertise to move someone without doing more damage.
People will pretty much do whatever they can, not to waste the time of the ambulance service because someone else may need them more.
Thats-me-that-is@reddit
There is another Ambulance worthy situation, when the injury / medical incident occurs in a "duty of care" type situation say a school residential trip or similar. If you're a group leader and have a sick group member who can't get to the doctor's or hospital on their own or the required chaperone would cause problems for the group then an ambulance gets called.
UKTim24530@reddit
True. I didn't mean my examples to be an exhaustive list.
Peachk1n@reddit
If you need paramedics, dressings, emergency medication asap then you need an ambulance. If you need a lift to the hospital then you need a friend or family member or taxi. I sat on the floor with an 85 year old with a clearly broken hip for 4 hours one bank holiday Monday because every ambulance got diverted to other calls. Fortunately I’m a nurse so was happy to sit with her but if a first responder had turned up with some morphine I’d have kissed them.
gowaz123@reddit
Because brits don’t use it as a mode of transport, they know not to use it unless it’s a life threatening emergency so people that actually need it can use it. If you can wait 10-15 mins for the neighbour then, yes, most educated people would do that. I can imagine Americans calling it to get a life to chipotle if it was free!
cakesforever@reddit
You would pick the neighbours and getting to hospital sooner than waiting hours and hours for an ambulance to become available. Some people do just ring 999 or 111 and say they need an ambulance because they think it gets them seen faster. But it doesn't and the time you've wasted at home could have been at hospital on the system waiting to be seen.
gowaz123@reddit
Absolutely! The general guidance on the NHS is to get immediate medical attention by calling NHS24 or your GP. Normally if you call NHS24 and the child is very young, they will either send and ambulance if they think it’s serious or they will tell you to come in to be seen straight away. My uncle had a heart attack throughout the night. In the morning, he told his DIL that he feels unwell and his breathing got very erratic. She called 999 and they said it seems as though he’s having a heart attack but we don’t have an available ambulance as there’s a wait and to bring him in as soon as possible and they’ll be waiting for him. She called her husband and a taxi and she would have taken the one that got there sooner. Unfortunately by the time he was taken to hospital, he suffered a cardiac arrest and died in the hospital. Im not saying he was more deserving of an ambulance over others but if ambulances get sent out to people who are very sick and need immediate medical attention but can make their own way then they should. It means people like my uncle would have possibly had a better chance.
cakesforever@reddit
Sorry for your loss. We are incredibly lucky to have the NHS, but there are flaws and people misuse of ambulances makes things harder.
gowaz123@reddit
Thank you and, yes, you are absolutely correct!
Kitsune9_Tails@reddit
The NHS is garbage. You can’t wait anywhere between twenty minutes and twenty hours for an ambulance to arrive when your baby is that sick. If you can’t get to a hospital faster than they will come to pick you up do so.
Oh gods, I could go on such a massive rant about everything wrong with the NHS broadly, but I’m going to limit it to the above because it’s actually relevant
46Vixen@reddit
The NHS is incredible. It's being used incorrectly ( A&E isn't a GP), it's underfunded and overused. We are fortunate to have the NHS and need to understand what urgent, emergency and life threatening are.
Kitsune9_Tails@reddit
Yes, we’re so fortunate that something as important as healthcare has been effectively monopolized by the state.
No amount of money thrown at them will solve the baked in communication, calculation, prediction, and resource management problems. All corporations face these problems, but at least the ones paid by their customers rather than with stolen money have at least some idea of what people want or need.
Don’t get me wrong, the American system has a lot of problems too. In fact, it’s a lot of the same problems, and they come from the same place.
Actually, let’s talk about the similarities. We both have both private and public healthcare, but the attention is always on British public and American private. The publics are both “free” (not actually free), with the issues I outlined above and waittimes that lead to, for example, people ripping out their own teeth due to the pain, people dying in waiting rooms, laws that say you can only be in a waiting room for x amount of time and if the paramedics think you’ll be longer than that they leave you in the ambulance which is now out of use for the foreseeable.
Next, private. Oh, you’ll get to see someone but it’ll cost you an arm and a leg because everything is over regulated, with not enough competition to bring down the price through market forces. There’s state imposed limits on how many doctors and hospitals can even be active in a region, new hospitals need permission from their competition to be able to open, and there’s arbitrarily inflated training times. There’s patents (monopolies) on who can or can’t produce certain drugs, which is why exactly one group makes insulin and it’s absurdly expensive.
What do all of these issues, both public and private, on both sides of the Atlantic have in common? The state.
HeftyCup7349@reddit
In my experience, you can be waiting up to 8 hours for the ambulance to show. Unfortunately a fever is low on the priority list…
Complex_Box_7254@reddit
You call an ambulance for an absolute emergency. If you're not a priority ie stroke, heart attack, serious accident then you can wait hours for an ambulance. So many people would just make their own way to the hospital. They quite rightly prioritise the people who might actually die.
PipBin@reddit
Free yes, but it can often be quicker to take someone to hospital directly.
Nubian_hurricane7@reddit
But also depends on location and seriousness of injury. Unfortunately if you are in the south east, you are most likely to get seen to a lot quicker
CrazyPlatypusLady@reddit
*laughs in a 90 minute wait for someone suffering heart attack symptoms in Essex in 2022"
GroovingPenguin@reddit
I see your laughter and raise you this,180 minute wait for stroke symptoms..also in Essex
showgirl__@reddit
My dad was attacked with a machete that almost took his arm off, He managed to run back home and call for an ambulance. It took 3 hours for one to arrive. Had he not been a first aid training himself he would have likely bled to death.
umognog@reddit
Dial 999 for a life threatening emergency, otherwise dial 111 for a non emergency, state what is happening. This is what would happen in this instance in the book.
For a fever, they would direct you to make your way to an out of hours GP service, arrange for the out of hours to make a home visit.
In the instance of my niece who started to have fever induced convulsions, they arranged an ambulance to arrive to take them to hospital. By doing it this way, they ambulance will arrive on a non-blue light response, which is safer for everyone.
They can also redirect non emergency call outs if needed, so you can be waiting a few hours, in which case you also need to be conscious that you should call 111 or 999 back if you feel the situation changes.
PutridForce1559@reddit
Emergency services (999) will ask about difficulty breathing and being unconscious/unable to arouse the patient when you call in order to prioritise. We have a 111 phone line who can advise (and do out of hours emergency prescriptions) and online services like “ask my GP” where you can ask non urgent questions (is my mole ok, what are we doing about my test results) for same day answers.
New_Vegetable_3173@reddit
TLDR : an emergency then British people would pretty much always call ambulance because there is no reason not to
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Written by a Brit (Lisa Jewell), modern day. Mom was freaking the hell out, so while it may not have been life threatening, that’s why it made me wonder about ambulances. :)
New_Vegetable_3173@reddit
I can only conclude Lisa banged her head earlier in the day prior to writing that scene
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
lol!
SillyStallion@reddit
Temp is wrong - sounds like it was written by an American
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
They make American versions of books…. It was written by Lisa Jewell
cakesforever@reddit
I said to another person it was either an American author or was changed for an American audience. I used to love her books but not read any for years.
deusxm@reddit
Several reasons:
Most people in the UK recognise that an ambulance isn't a taxi to get you to hospital. An ambulance is a sort of temporary mobile hospital, for when you might actually die in minutes or are too incapacitated to be transported without medical supervision. So to ask for an ambulance is to basically concede that you are in big, big trouble, which isn't what most people want to think.
Particularly with babies, many parents will want to feel a sense of agency while also bearing in mind point 1. Many parents would probably prefer to take their baby to A&E themselves as it keeps them in control and psychologically helps stave off the 'my baby's about to die' feeling. It is also worth noting that it may genuinely be quicker to head over yourself as otherwise you're waiting for an ambulance to travel from the hospital, get to you, and then travel back. So it's potentially double the wait time (obviously could be less as an ambulance can cut through traffic etc.)
There's a finite number of available ambulances, whether you pay for them or not. In a private system, ambulances are allocated according to who has the most money. In the UK, ambulances are allocated based on priority of need, and most people would be aware of point 1 ie. If it's straightforward enough to get to A&E yourself, most people have a moral compass to think 'save the ambulance for the people who really need it' - which means quite a few people make their own way into hospital when really they should have had an ambulance instead.
cakesforever@reddit
I've heard of people laying on the floor for 8 hours before because they weren't urgent enough for an ambulance. Along with the relevant equipment needed not being available.
wscottwatson@reddit
Most of us will try to avoid putting extra load on the ambulance service. It won't get you through a&e any faster.
PS. The child's temperature was probably 40⁰ c. Too many people still use units of measure from the dark ages but the last people I knew who I knew who used Fahrenheit were my grandparents, born before and during WWI!
cakesforever@reddit
It must have been an American author or changed for an American audience because we don't use that here like you said.
cakesforever@reddit
Because if you're able to get there yourself and not in need of emergency treatment at home you shouldn't ring for an ambulance. They're not a taxi service.
cari-strat@reddit
I live five minutes from the local hospital. On the one occasion I rang 999 (after finding my teen unconscious from an overdose), they told us an ambulance would be 'several hours.'
Essentially if you're moveable and we have a driver free, I'm not bothering to call an ambulance, I'm throwing you in the car and getting there.
fitzy0612@reddit
Don't let him in?
shelleypiper@reddit
They would be more likely to call 111 than 999 (ambulance) for this kind of thing
Vivid_Direction_5780@reddit
My friend had a stroke. Took 50 mins for the ambulance to arrive on Monday early morning.
I am not waiting for no fucking ambulance if I can help it!
Excellent-Egg484@reddit
Free at point of use and in very high demand. Some areas some people wait hours and hours for an ambulance.
There was a recent story about a girl injured on a football field a 15 year old and she was left on the wet grass injured waiting for an ambulance for 5 hours.
Pure-Kaleidoscope207@reddit
And yet the once I needed to dial 999, I had an ambulance crew walking in my door in under 2 minutes with more right behind them.
Excellent-Egg484@reddit
I did say some areas. The very few times members of my family have needed them we have been told it’s faster to take them if they can be put in a car like there’s no possible neck or back injury
Pure-Kaleidoscope207@reddit
If someone is safe and stable to travel by car to the hospital then that makes sense to do that?
Ambulances are advanced life support systems on wheels and should really be reserved for situations where such resources are needed.
Excellent-Egg484@reddit
Doesn’t mean they are stable, just means ambulances aren’t going to get to you faster, in some cases you need to get them help fast.
Suspect heart attacks you need help fast, if a car is faster you go in the car but I think most people would phone for help and advice from 999 to find this out
GeminiCheese@reddit
I once stayed with a woman in her 70s who had fallen and hit the back of her head on a kerb. It was about 2 degrees C and felt colder with the windchill. The blood flow from the back of her head was like nothing I had ever seen.
She fell at 11pm on a Saturday night (she had just left the local social club) and the ambulance arrived at 2.40.
Unfortunate timing I am sure, what with them being tied up with the usual Saturday night A&E crowd, and us being in a relatively rural area, but it was very disconcerting. I thought I lost her a couple of times.
gimmesuandchocolate@reddit
I was once in a similar situation in central London literally 1.5 blocks from a major hospital. A very elderly frail lady on the ground in the middle of a cold winter day - she'd fallen quite badly about an hour before I walked there. A lady who saw it called an ambulance, people from houses on that street were trying to help, but the 999 dispatcher explicitly forbade anyone to move the lady (so even those who offered to drive her to the hospital were told not to). People brought her blankets, it was really cold. No clue when an ambulance finally showed up. You could actually see the hospital from where she was laying in the ground, still no ambulance.
Sea_Refrigerator4451@reddit
Are you reading Don't Let Him In by any chance? 😂
Londongirl7@reddit
I too have read this
distracteddddd@reddit
She shouldn’t go to hospital at all. She should have called 111.
WelcometotheZhongguo@reddit
Just because it’s free doesn’t mean the average British person would consider wasting the time of the NHS unless it’s an absolute emergency.
Also, you have to make a phone call to speak to the operator. That’d put the average Redditor right off.
IdioticMutterings@reddit
Ambulances are not Taxis.
Ambulances are for emergency situations where getting to the hospital as soon as possible, with medical treatment on route is a matter of life and death.
While a fever CAN fit that, they generally don't. Most fevers aren't even worthy of a hospital visit, just go to your GP.
TheCarnivorishCook@reddit
I was having a stroke (bleed not clot), an ambulance was 2 hours, an uber was 2 minutes.
I'd be dead if I waited for the ambulance
CapnSeabass@reddit
Unless my baby was in active danger or unresponsive, I don’t think I’d bother calling then waiting for an ambulance. I’d prob drive him to hospital myself or, like the character, ask for a lift. But we live quite far from a hospital so an ambulance coming from god knows where to pick us up and drive 40 min to hospital seems silly if he doesn’t need immediate life-saving attention. Faster to just drive.
We have free ambulances, but most of us try not to use them willy-nilly.
86rj@reddit
I'm going to guess you're reading Don't Let Him in?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Haha yep! :)
tunaman808@reddit
Cost aside, don't most Americans keep ambulances for actual, "life or death" emergencies?
I've only been to the ER once, after a heart attack, and my wife drove me there, because we didn't see the need to take up an ambulance someone might really need now that my condition had stabilized.
I have a friend who lived in the Netherlands for almost a decade and who broke his arm (badly) while over there. And he called his wife to come pick him up and take him to the hospital rather than call an ambulance (which would have been free, or at worst less than $100).
AlwaysRedNeverBlue@reddit
Its quicker in such circumstances to get yourself to hospital instead of waiting for an ambulance. They are sent to calls in order of seriousness, high temp isnt so serious on its own but they’d be seen fairly quickly with it being a child.
Airportsnacks@reddit
Someone had a mental break in the toilet where I work. Police wouldn't attend because, although they were threatening to kill people with a knife, the person was in the bathroom and we couldn't see if they had a knife. Ambulance was a 17 hour wait. They also wanted a staff member to go into the bathroom and talk to the person. Luckily they left on their own.
CandyPink69@reddit
Our local police already have arrangement in place that they will not attend MH incidents unless their is an absolute threat to life or disruption to the wider public e.g someone threatening to throw themselves off a bridge and they need to have the road shut down. This actually happened on a busy dual carriageway a while ago and the person who it was ended up being charged with causing a public nuisance.
Airportsnacks@reddit
Yeah, I understand it as it isn't really the place of police, but we had no idea what to do as we were closing in two hours. If you have someone threatening to kill people in a locked bathroom and an ambulance won't come for 16 hours, do you just lock up and leave them in there?
EquivalentBag23@reddit
Ambulances are free at the point of use, but they are expensive (in cost to the NHS and therefore tax payer). Nobody's calling 999 for a fever is isolation, and if they did, they might not even dispatch an ambulance- options could include them making you an urgent OOH (out of hours doctor) appointment, asking you to make your own way to A+E, or sending a lone paramedic out to assess at the scene. Even if an ambulance is needed, a low priority call-out could have a very long wait.
TL;DR- make your own way if possible, it's normally faster.
Osterbeast1955@reddit
Costs to the NHS are as follows:-
Call to 999 - £7
Ambulance callout:- £252
A&E Visit (basic cost before any specialist treatment):- £419
(obviously average costs as every case is different but these are the notional costs)
EquivalentBag23@reddit
And that is just bare minimum before you get into any drugs or treatment/supplied given on the ambulance/in ED I guess. Adds up fast.
Osterbeast1955@reddit
Absolutely …… I’ve been on jobs where we’ve spent over two hours at a patients house.
Sonarthebat@reddit
Irl, wait times. It doesn't make much sense in this case though.
Valherudragonlords@reddit
Rheres two main reasons:
If you can get to the hospital yourself you dont call an ambulance. This is because we all pay National Health Insurance, so we see it as a collective responsibility to not make the health service more expensive.
Ambulances are prioritised in order of need. It is not first come first served, it's based on who is closer to death. If a baby or old person is in hospital with a fever they will ne seen before a 25 year old with a fever even if they arrived later.
What this means is that if you call an ambulance when you dont really need one, or you are not at risk of dying within hours, you will be waiting a long time so it's quicker to drive.
followrule1@reddit
It's faster. That simple really, if you don't have to wait for an ambulance to get to you then driving or getting a taxi is quicker. Ambulances are free but a fever isn't a massive priority compared to breathing issues or heart problems.
Penjing2493@reddit
An ambulance is for when you need immediate life-saving medical attention before and on the way to hospital, or when you're so unwell/injured that travelling via an alternative method is simply impossible.
You shouldn't be going to an ED with a febrile, but otherwise well child anyway (111 / GP much more appropriate). Ambulances aren't a free taxi service to hospital. A 999 call for this would at best wait a long time, and at worst would have a clinician call-back and the call cancelled.
rheasilva@reddit
The temperature being in Fahrenheit & not calling an ambulance makes me think the author is American & didn't do their research.
slappy_mcslapenstein@reddit
Why wouldn't you just give the kid Tylenol? It's the first thing we do in the hospital.
vctrmldrw@reddit
Importing American branded drugs would take a long time.
slappy_mcslapenstein@reddit
Then use paracetamol. It's basically the same thing.
ERTCF53@reddit
It has been known to get an answerphone when calling for an ambulance in London.
Witty_Ad_2098@reddit
Because she would have at least a 6 hour wait. The NHS is broken.
IainMCool@reddit
I think a lot of people would avoid using an emergency ambulance if it's not an emergency. A lot of the time, driving to the hospital can be quicker. If it's busy then ambulances will be sent out on a priority basis. Someone having a heart attack will have one in 7 minutes. A sprained ankle might be 8 hours
m1bnk@reddit
The very British thing of not wanting to bother people or be a burden on public services. Like my Dad when he had a (mild) heart attack and drove himself to hospital, then apologised to every doctor and nurse for bothering them while they were so busy
bofh000@reddit
Because they needed conflict in that book by a non-British author.
notmyusername1986@reddit
A temp of 104° in a toddler is considered extremely high and in need of immediate medical intervention. She absolutely should, and most likely would call an ambulance. It's one thing for adults to underestimate things in relation to their own health, but a child- especially one so young- would have a much more urgent reaction.
She might call the non-emergency line first (111), but they would almost certainly directly dispatch an ambulance in this situation.
And yes ambulances are free.
I have heard both Celsius and Fahrenheit used quite equally in the UK and Ireland with regard to body temperature.
Zusi99@reddit
My waters broke during the early hours of a Saturday morning. My husband doesn't drive, and we had a toddler at that time. I called my family (2 hours away) to let them know and bring my sister over to babysit. I called numerous taxi companies, but as nightclubs were closing, they didn't have any drivers to spare. I ended up driving myself while my husband stayed at home and prepped food for my sister to feed our toddler. Talking to friends later, one asked, "Why didn't you call an ambulance?" I just replied, "It wasn't an emergency." My contractions weren't very close together. Antenatal judyst wanted me in for monitoring. Baby wasn't going to arrive within minutes. Baby arrived about 36 hours later.
CHB-x@reddit
Are you reading ‘don’t let him in’ by Lisa Jewell by any chance?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Haha yep! :)
CHB-x@reddit
Hahaha I knew it! I just read it too. I know this is ‘AskABrit’ thread but keen to hear your thoughts once you’ve finished the book
Outrageous_Shirt_737@reddit
Because there’s a good chance you’ll get to hospital quicker if you drive. You shouldn’t call an ambulance unless you really need one i.e, if you are having a medical emergency and need treatment started by the paramedics, heart attack, anaphylaxis etc, or you need rescuing e.g, you’ve fallen and can’t get up, been in an accident etc. It’s not a taxi service to the hospital.
bidgebodge@reddit
Was it Lisa Jewell book?! Cos that irritated me. Ambulance have criteria but lady… taxi!
I love her books but various stuff doesn’t make sense. Writers license and that
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
It IS! 🤣
bidgebodge@reddit
Also… the point your boyfriend turns his phone off for a week (excluding military) dump him!
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Right?! Come on!
Semele5183@reddit
Ha, also recognised it and was going to ask if no one else had!
No_Sugar8791@reddit
Apart from other answers, who is the author and where are they from?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Lisa Jewell, born and lives in London :)
YchYFi@reddit
What book?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Don’t Let Him In
Alfredthegiraffe20@reddit
I read a book a while back and it was about an American couple moving to the UK. It was full of stuff like Brighton's sandy beach and sitting out on the fire escape etc etc Obviously written by an American who didn't even attempt to research the UK, they just assumed and wrote an absolutely rubbish book that no Brit would ever read without losing their temper. I'd say this was the same thing.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Nope Lisa Jewell. :)
End6509@reddit
Calm down love, that worthless husband could be taking one of his other kids from his mistress out for an ice cream, that was a bit uncalled for
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Oh he definitely was hanging out with the mistress, but her kid is older and on to him. 😆
Ok_Lecture_8886@reddit
Have you ever tried getting an ambulance in the UK?
I got a head injury and was fading fast, Sleepy, sick, fading into unconsciousness, pulse rate out of control etc. Had to convince ambulance control, I needed to get to hospital NOW! Suspected stroke, could not even get through 111, never mind get an ambulance.
Child injured in rugby. Cold, getting dark, lying on cold ground, for dislocated ankle which if not fixed soon, would mean he loses his foot, 6 hour wait.
Neighbour had suspected heart attack, they got a paramedic to them quickly, but had to wait an hour for an ambulance to take them to hospital.
And so on.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Well to answer your question… no. That’s why I’m asking. 😅 free is great but def sounds like your healthcare has its own issues!!
Hairy_Ad5141@reddit
Unfortunately, too many people call 999 for ingrowing toe nails, splinters in fingers, etc.
In truth an ambulance cannot just deliver a patient to hospital and go. Too many sit at the hospital waiting for the patient to be admitted during busy times, when they should be back out.
Low-Support-7090@reddit
Yeah they’re free, but when I almost died back end of Jan it took 14 hours to get here. Which is a 15 min drive
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Jesus I’m sorry!
TwpMun@reddit
They triage ambulances by level of need. They would come to transport you to hospital if requested for something they consider a non emergency, but they'd put you at the bottom of the list and you could be waiting for hours.
ProfessionalTree7@reddit
Why would you call an ambulance for a 40C fever? It’s not a medical emergency.
mralistair@reddit
don't want to waste people's time.
also if you aren't deadly ill an ambulance can take a while as they will always go to the most urgent cases.
becpuss@reddit
Sometimes it simply faster to get in the car and drive to the hospital then wait for an ambulance. The person in the story could’ve also called a taxi.
Willywonka5725@reddit
Simple.
Because that's what is written in the book...
paradoxthecat@reddit
Assuming the book wasn't written by an American, and it was set in the current day, ambulances can take hours to arrive depending on how busy they are and how much they prioritise your needs. Getting a neighbour to drive you to the hospital if you are not currently unconscious/ bleeding out can often be a better option.
Out of interest, you don't call an ambulance directly, you call 999 with a medical emergency and they decide whether to send an ambulance, a paramedic in a car, or advise you to get to the hospital or your GP yourself. This is handled by the call centre, not the ambulance drivers themselves. Emergency services prefer that you call if you are not sure if you need an ambulance, than die of embarrassment thinking you would be wasting their time.
Physical_Orchid3616@reddit
it's only a book, isn't it? relax. and yes, ambulances are free here.
cxmari@reddit
An ambulance for a fever? Wow!
RiskyBiscuits150@reddit
My toddler literally had a fever of 40c (104f) yesterday and I absolutely did not call an ambulance. I gave him Calpol.
cxmari@reddit
Exactly! Why wait for an “pay” or use the council resources for an ambulance when a car can take you to the hospital faster. It boggles the mind. I hope your toddler is doing well today. ❤️
RiskyBiscuits150@reddit
Thank you, he's bounced back.
Sxn747Strangers@reddit
I don’t know about the book so I don’t know; but as for ambulances, they tend to be later than double decker buses, except you don’t get three of them turn up at once.
AubergineParm@reddit
A) Written by an American, B) Our health service is so broken that in some areas it’s almost impossible to get an ambulance and the waiting times are extremely long. When I had my my heart attack, it was an 80 minute wait in the street for an ambulance while two police officers worked on me.
loveshot123@reddit
Because ambulances are for emergencies whereby you still find yourself waiting between 5 and 10 hours for one to turn up. That should tell you all you need to know about British emergency services.
flyingredwolves@reddit
It's possible that they wanted to get there so fast they didn't bother with an ambulance.
Although, if they gave the temperature in Fahrenheit, there's a good chance the author is American and is applying a USA way of thinking to it. Another give away is if they call it a cellphone.
Gold-Collection2636@reddit
My husband is a call handler for the NHS, he said in that situation if you called for an ambulance they would recommend you call 111 instead as it's a concern rather than an emergency
Claret-and-gold@reddit
If you call an ambulance you can be waiting a very long time. My friend slipped outside our hotel and broke her hip. We managed to get her into the lobby. She was going into shock. There was (luckily) a medic who was particularly worried because her limb was going cold and she was concerned there could be spinal damage. We waited a little over 2 hours for the ambulance to arrive - that was pretty quick. A friend of mine her elderly father was on the floor for almost 5 hours when he fell and broke his. You don’t ring for an ambulance unless there’s no alternative and you cannot get to hospital yourself by taxi or another means.
No-Parsnip563@reddit
Will you die on the way to hospital? If no, you drive.
I’ve been to A&E a fair bit in my life. As a kid, some of the reasons were: knocked out, sustained high temperature, cracked head open, potentially broken bones (5 times).
The only time an ambulance was called was for an asthma attack, because the ambulance has medication onboard stronger than ventolin.
MINKIN2@reddit
What is the time period that this book set in and where?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Modern day.
MINKIN2@reddit
Okay, there is a hospital no more than 20 minutes drive away from any big city in the UK. In many cases it is just quicker to have someone drive you there, if it is not absolutely life threatening.
Illustrious-Air-7777@reddit
20 minutes in optimal conditions! Want to get to the previously mentioned Addenbrooke’s from Histon at rush hour? Both are a brisk walk from the city centre but that trip took me well over an hour by car a few weeks ago.
Fun_Cheesecake_7684@reddit
They are free, but we have alternative systems too. Why wouldn't she use the out of hours doctors or the walk in centre? Ambulances and ED are for the sickest people who cannot wait.
It's written by an American - the temperature was in farenheit.
Chunkychinchilla94@reddit
Ambulances don't just come like that lol You have to be literally dying and then it's still sometimes a 4 hr wait
Kiss_It_Goodbyeee@reddit
An ambulance isn't a free taxi service to hospital. It's for cases where someone needs treatment or might die before getting to the hospital. A fever isn't a genuine emergency and wouldn't be prioritised.
vctrmldrw@reddit
Because plot points tend to have a narrative purpose, rather than being entirely realistic.
But, if you're interested in what I would do and feel in that situation...
It's just a fever. Toddlers get them all...the...damn... time. Yes, it might be serious this time, but probably not. I don't want to be that parent who calls an ambulance for something trivial. It's a waste of resources and also I'm committing myself to at least half a day of waiting around for an ambulance, then waiting in the hospital while they double and triple check that it definitely isn't serious before sending me home feeling silly.
My first thought would be, they'll be back soon, I'll just wait and see. If it gets worse, I'll definitely call.
vctrmldrw@reddit
Also, I just looked up what 104F means and it's only 40C. That's not a temperature that is considered an emergency by itself.
West-Kaleidoscope129@reddit
They can take a long time to come. They prioritise emergencies first.
About 15yrs ago, Christmas day (evening) a very drunk man knocked on my door. He was after one of my neighbours and got the wrong house. He has a bandage around his head so looked like he had already been to the hospital. But it was covered in blood and was dripping blood everywhere.
I grabbed a towel and told him to hold it where his wound was, left him on my doorstep and called an ambulance... It took more than an hour to arrive... They didn't see it as an emergency.
The towel was dripping with blood by the time they arrived though. No idea what he did but I imagine he got it sorted at the hospital then fell over again and reopened it... I never saw him again or got updates.
vctrmldrw@reddit
I can tell you, they prioritise very young kids too. If there's any hint it might be meningitis, they'll be there in minutes.
Gatodeluna@reddit
I think it’s just an author without adult real-world knowledge of US medical care. Americans do not routinely run to call ambulances for anything that can be handled over the phone or by a visit to Urgent Care or A&E. A temperature of 104 F for a baby or toddler does not mean the same as if that 104 temp was in an adult. Babies get higher temps. Anyone who has HAD a baby knows this. You call your doctor’s office and discuss symptoms. Dr may call in a prescription at the local chemist/drugstore and give several suggestions for comfort care. They will also say if X or Y worsens or if Z happens, THEN take them to Urgent Care or the ER.
From what I have read over time, waiting times in the UK are much worse than they are in the US and in less pleasant or comfortable circumstances. You have to be scary almost-dying to be looked at. That’s part of the British psyche that Americans don’t share. We don’t go for little things. We go when they get scary, or so painful there’s no relief. But we don’t stay home for fear of what our neighbors would think, either.
Healthy-Tap7717@reddit
First of all 'neighbours' is the correct spelling of the word in the English language, but we Brits understand that with American inbreeding you find it difficult to spell and elocute. Secondly, scared to go outside because of what the neighbours would think?? Im honestly baffled.... I mean America is the country that has literally outlawed abortion in some States in order to shame women, right? You literally have religious sectors and Cults inbreded in you society in order to make people feel to ashamed to live life because of what the other soccer mums will think, what the church will say, people living in sin are shunned.... its like some 1600s bullshit In the UK we dont really do that. I mean unless someone has a real mental health issue (and know it dont mean being Gay so you need an excorism) people DGAF we have parents doing the school run in pajamas!!
I will add reading to the above statement. OP is clearly reading a book about the UK, so real-world knowledge of the US medical system is...... just not relevant. That and the fact that you clearly have 0 understanding of how the NHS works in the UK is actually quite hilarious.
Gatodeluna@reddit
While I wouldn’t term your comment ‘hilarious’ exactly, it’s bordering on. You just 1000% reaffirmed for me that the reason this sub exists here on Reddit is for one purpose only - to bash any American they possibly can, any way they possibly can. And your oh-so-condescending ‘the correct spelling of the word in the English language…’ LMAO. I’m going to have a great laugh from now on every time I hear a Brit talk about eating tack-ohs🙄.
Healthy-Tap7717@reddit
Right as opposed to Taahhcoals 🤣🤣
It is interesting how you did ignore your very own stupidity, a book about London, yet the author hadn't had any "adult real-world knowledge of US medical care". We don't want to bash Americans, the fact that you are so dumb yet feel so superior just makes it so easy.... thats all.
Oh and PS.... I hope you do understand as Brits, we fully identify with our misgivings. It is just when you can't even point out actual 'misgivings' when trying to bash us and at the same time writing something as dumb as you did it just has to be called out. If you are going to insult a country of citizens you need to do your homework. Then find a way to twist the knife because just a stab isn't effective we tend to agree on a lot of the problems in the UK (societal ones, political ones nit so much but we dont wear hats, storm the royal palace or have an outright total disregard for democracy. We leave that to the inbreds jn the USofA). So please, I beg of you... next time at least before you try to get on a high horse about how big Pharama companies have got Americans addicted to opiods then cut them off causing widespread addiction to street drugs or how one babies life is worth more than another's depending on how much money you have :- yet abortion is outlawed, I beg of you just please READ THE POST.
Gatodeluna@reddit
As are you, hon. Or maybe just with your teeny..appendage.
Icy_Ear7079@reddit
You are talking out of your arse.
Standard-Display-818@reddit
Sometimes, it's quicker to drive as ambulances can take minutes to hours depending on how busy they are.
Also, in the uk, there's a huge stigma about wasting NHS resources as they are struggling. Some people don't call ambulances out of fear they might be wasting time or they don't believe the situation is urgent enough. I think it's just down to personal opinion. Some people will call an ambulance over a broken toe because they believe its an emergency. Other people could have a metal pole impailing their head and refuse to call one because they feel its not needed.
Or I'm maybe analysing the book to much and the author just wanted the character to drive lol.
eyeball-beesting@reddit
'Don't Let Him' In by Lisa Jewell?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Yep lol!
eyeball-beesting@reddit
I'm reading that at the moment too.
To be honest, the hospital bit was the least frustrating/hard to believe part of this. I find it hard to believe that the type of women he goes for would fall for his shit no matter how lonely they are. They are all savvy business women who have been around for a while. You would think Jewell was a man the way she is writing these women.
prustage@reddit
Ambulances may be free, but if you call one for something like a feverish child then you are using an ambulance that could be needed for a genuine emergency to save someone's life. Its just social responsibility.
My wife was recently in a life or death situation, the ambulance got there in 10 minutes and saved her life. I would have been pretty pissed off if it had taken an hour because it was being used as a taxi service for a kid with the flu.
TeacupCollector2011@reddit
I'm an American. The great majority of Americans do not call ambulances for high fevers and would not do so even if they were free. If it's during the day, you call the doctor first and get their advice. You might take them to the ER in the evening, but you would drive them in your car.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Yeah, I agree, but in the book the character was freaking the hell out about it and I was just wondering why she didn’t
Healthy-Tap7717@reddit
The reality is, is that although we dont have to pay for an ambulance if you live close to a hospital and can transport the patient safely then you are at a much higher chance of getting to the hospital quicker. The ambulance service works on a priority basis based system. Elderly people fall down the stairs and hit theor head but will be laying their for 4hrs waiting for an ambulance of they are breathing and conscious. Life threatening emergencies take president of course.
Imagine a scale from 1-5 that is how they rate there calls. I have had a carer call an ambulance for me and they were so busy they called back to see if I could be triaged by a paramedic over the phone and determine if the ambulance was necessary (im wheelchair bound and my carer could not transport me). I had sepsis and it had spread to my lungs but it took 3hrs for the ambulance. Then you have to consider all the other people they did that too and those who didn't receive emergency treatment (likely with good reason).
Anyway, a mother might freak out about the temperature her child has but a good author would know the system well enough to know that the neighbour was the best bet. I dont know the story in your book but if there were no other symptoms other than a high fever most people would just give tgeir baby sone calpol and check in 30min-1hr before rushing the baby anywhere anyway.
Ok_Advantage_8153@reddit
Because its a book and the way its told moves the plot along.
girl_aboutlondontown@reddit
When I was a kid, if I was really sick (but not life threatening), my parents would take me to the out-of-hours emergency GP. It was quite standard to call the helpline first and then you’d be allocated a spot (or be referred to hospital/an ambulance)
Panda-Head@reddit
The book was probably written by an American. Anything to do with kids is a priority because a high enough fever can cause permanent brain damage.
Breegoose@reddit
Does this by any chance lead to a conversation with the neighbor that propels the plot forward?
365BlobbyGirl@reddit
Chekov’s poorly baby
MiTcH_ArTs@reddit
There tends to be more of a "don't needlessly waste community resources that others might need more" attitude in the U.K, not to mention it can be faster to just go straight to the hospital rather than waiting for an Ambulance to be dispatched, arrive and then head to hospital.
LuKat92@reddit
For a kid with a fever? That ambulance won’t arrive within two hours at least
Sirlacker@reddit
An ambulance is for when you cannot get to the hospital yourself.
A high fever, someone can drive them there. Be it a taxi, yourself, a neighbour, family whatever.
Ambulances serve the purpose of prolonging someone's life long enough to get to the hospital. They come equipped with trained staff and the ability to hopefully stem a life threatening injury or condition, just long enough to get them promptly to a hospital where a specialist can take over.
They are absolutely not for someone who has a small cut that won't stop bleeding or a fever.
If you're unsure whether to ring 999 or the non-emergency line 111, always ring 111 and they will absolutely send an ambulance if what you've told them makes them think one is required.
Serious_Bat3904@reddit
I have health problems I’m admitted to hospital every 6-8 weeks depending on when the vomitting starts I never call an ambulance I will get a taxi or uber.
PlatypusDazzling3727@reddit
Why would a British book use Fahrenheit? None of us know what 104F is
RhubarbAlive7860@reddit
Sometimes publishers change things for different markets. If they changed temps to Fahrenheit, they may have changed spellings to US spellings too (colour/color, kerb/curb, etc.).
RhinoRhys@reddit
Harry Potter and the sorcerers stone. Never understood why they changed that. Do Americans not know what a philosopher is?
Impossible_Theme_148@reddit
I suspect it might have been because they thought it might confuse an American audience because they wouldn't understand why it had anything to do with any philosopher rather than not having heard of the idea
I suspect a lot of UK readers might be a bit hazy about the meanings as well but the publisher's weren't so paranoid about it
For the US the thinking was almost certainly something like "why would someone buy a book that mentions philosophy - it's a book about magic, we need to change that to highlight sorcery
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Lol, maybe they converted the temperatures to Fahrenheit for the American audience. As a science teacher, I agree that our system is stupid.
Normal-Height-8577@reddit
Yeah, someone born and raised here would absolutely call for an ambulance. Also, if they're really in London, there's no way they'd try to take a neighbour's car - the traffic is a nightmare!
Check the author's bio. I wouldn't be at all surprised to find they're American.
PetersMapProject@reddit
Ambulances may be free, but they are not infinite in supply. They are only meant to be for life and limb threatening emergencies where you can't get yourself to hospital.
A friend had a cardiac arrest last year, and called an ambulance when it was just at the chest pains stage. He was told it would be a 1 hour wait for an ambulance. He only survived by the skin of his teeth, after a police officer literally flagged down a passing ambulance shortly before his heart completely stopped.
That sort of thing happens because some people really do misuse the ambulance service for circumstances where they are not really necessary.
I have called an ambulance for a man who couldn't move after a fall, and a nonagenarian who was so unwell that the doctor we phoned was worried about sepsis. But a baby you can pick up and move very reasonably, I would take a taxi for that. I once drove myself to hospital with what turned out to be a badly broken arm.
Ambulances are one of those services where demand will always grow to match supply, so there is very much a sense that we must all use it responsibly.
If you can find a way to watch it, the BBC does a fantastic fly on the wall documentary which is simply called Ambulance. They have an absolutely fantastic service, it's just not an infinite service.
redreadyredress@reddit
I had a cardiac arrest several years ago, I drove myself in during the „panic attack“ style stage- thinking it was one… Code blued the second I stepped foot in the waiting room, adrenaline is one Helllll of a drug.. That really emphasises how we side step using ambulances 😂
PetersMapProject@reddit
And there was me thinking I was doing well driving with a broken arm - you win!
EsotericSnail@reddit
An ambulance isn’t a taxi to the hospital. If you can get the patient to the hospital in the car then that’s probably quicker than waiting for an ambulance to arrive and THEN drive the patient to the hospital.
You dial an ambulance when you CAN’T drive the patient to the hospital because eg: * They’ve broken their neck/back/skull and they need to be placed on an immobilisation board before they can be safely moved * They’re bleeding out and they won’t make it to the hospital alive * Their heart has stopped and they need to be resuscitated within minutes * Or some other reason why you need trained paramedics to come and do medical interventions there on the pavement or floor within minutes.
If the patient is well enough to get to hospital without an ambulance, then that’s what you should do. You only call an ambulance if that’s the only option.
People saying “it suits the story” aren’t British. If they’re implying that in real life a British person WOULD phone an ambulance, they’re not British. We know that ambulances aren’t taxis, and most of us don’t use them as such, except for a few plonkers.
nixtracer@reddit
Quite a lot of plonkers, unfortunately. (People living alone I can understand more: there's nobody else there to drive them, and they might be panicking or not thinking clearly.)
redreadyredress@reddit
We wouldn’t call an ambulance for a fever without concerning symptoms: ie rash, malaise, neck/head pain, severe vomiting-dehydration etc. 100f wouldn’t worry us, unless Calpol wasn’t working.
The only time I’ve called an ambulance was when my kid went to bed like normal- spiked a massive temp 42.c (108f) while asleep, got up and passed out with a heart rate of 180+. Ambulance crew couldn’t get their temp down with medication etc, they were having issues regulating heart and respiratory, so they were blue lighted in.
Eskarina_W@reddit
I've called 999 in the UK once for a patella dislocation. Took an hour for the paramedic to come, dose me with gas & air, put my kneecap back to the front of my leg where it's supposed to be and give me morphine. He came alone and in a car, not an ambulance, because my injury was unlikely to be life threatening. I did need to go to hospital to be checked out though. He said if I could make it down the stairs with my partner's assistance he'd call me a taxi. If I needed to be stretchered, he'd call an ambulance but it would likely take a few hours. So I fully believe that if the patient isn't dying and can be moved safely, you are probably going to be seen quicker if you can make your own way to the hospital then if you call for an ambulance.
Super_Ground9690@reddit
Ambulances are for life and death situations. A child with a fever is not that. TBH I’m not even sure that would warrant an A&E visit unless the child also had other symptoms.
VirtualMatter2@reddit
Well, if it was 42, then yes. But a normal high fever like 40, no. I agree.
FinnemoreFan@reddit
If you have a sick toddler and a neighbour willing to drive you to A&E - or indeed your own car - you’d absolutely drive there instead of calling an ambulance. You can then control how fast you get there. Who knows how long it would take an ambulance to arrive at your house? I mean, I understand they strive to be as fast as they can, but most people have either never or only very rarely called out an ambulance. In that situation - sick toddler, worried, car available - you’d trust the known of your own transport over the unknown, and get your child to the hospital under your own steam as soon as possible.
Last year, I had a serious medical emergency. It turned out to be a perforated duodenal ulcer, I suspected it might be a ruptured appendix, I knew very well it was very serious and I needed urgent medical attention. Even so, we called a local taxi rather than an ambulance, after a call to the NHS helpline got us an appointment at the hospital’s emergency department. It didn’t seriously occur to me or my husband to call an ambulance. At the time we lived in a very rural spot that was hard to find, and I think there was a real possibility that I could have died waiting for an ambulance to find our house!
Fortunately we don’t have to think about the cost of an ambulance. There isn’t one. But even so - there’s a social inhibition, a British desire not to make a ‘fuss’.
KatVanWall@reddit
People don’t want to tie up ambulance resources that might be needed for someone who is quite literally dying on the spot.
(Of course the ambulance service does get some time-wasters. But the majority of the public aren’t like that.)
romoladesloups@reddit
It depends when, where, and how urgent the call handler sees it.
MrsValentine@reddit
It’s probably quicker to drive to hospital than it is to wait for an ambulance for a child with a high temperature.
For reference I met a woman and her husband in hospital, he’d had a stroke and she told me that he’d collapsed in the bathroom behind the door so she couldn’t get in. She called an ambulance. It took 4 hours to arrive.
Snoo-74562@reddit
Sometimes people just go directly to the hospital if they think they can get there faster. If it's something that we can't cope with we call an ambulance.
Pizzagoessplat@reddit
A fever and a temperature aren't life-threatening
ljofa@reddit
We don’t do Fahrenheit in the UK. Get with the times.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Trust me, I wish we would. I’m a science teacher in America. I’m always talking about how much better metric is.
ljofa@reddit
The USA signed the 1875 treaty of the metre which requires all signatories to adopt the metric system as soon as is reasonable possible. Whilst I’m aware the uk has its problems, how much f-ing time does the USA need?
Sorry, I’m sorry, don’t meet to rant but it’s an ingrowing hair in the ass thing for me. Get with the frickin’ time. Everyone.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
I like telling my students the only three countries not on metric are the US, Liberia, and Myanmar. It’s an embarrassment. Like a lot of things about our country these days.
ljofa@reddit
You’ve an obligation just like us and we, we have come around in the uk. Yeah, we might like our milk and beer in pints (or 16floz) but that’s it. Imperial is dead. Metric is the future.
spittingparasite@reddit
It's not a taxi service.
seven-cents@reddit
You're reading a book.. fiction vs reality?
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Fiction, but I figured this point is based in reality
seven-cents@reddit
Either way, 104°F is not life threatening unless it's accompanied by other symptoms (stiff neck, rash that doesn't fade when a glass is pressed against it, convulsions/fits, breathing difficulty and any of the other symptoms that any good parent should know about).
We have a 24 hour non-emergency number to call for advice in the UK.
Mikon_Youji@reddit
We don't call an ambulance for every little thing. They're very busy and have limited resources.
RemoveComfortable982@reddit
Ambulances are sent out in order of urgency. This means if you’re having a heart attack and/or not breathing then you get one very quickly. If you break a leg you might be waiting 4-6 hours or much, much longer, as people keep having heart attacks and push you further back the queue.
For a fever unless the child is having convulsions you’re better to drive.
Unstableavo@reddit
I've known someone who's bf was having a cardiac arrest, like dead, the gf performed cpr for 40 minutes till the ambulance came. To me 40 minutes is far too late. He did die unfortunately. Ambulances are free. But they can take 10-12 hours depending on the conditions like say 85 year old Doris fell and probably broke her hip.
Some ambulances sit many hours in A+E.
I think NHS is broken.
Unstableavo@reddit
I've known someone who's bf was having a cardiac arrest, like dead, the gf performed cpr for 40 minutes till the ambulance came. To me 40 minutes is far too late. He did die unfortunately. Ambulances are free. But they can take 10-12 hours depending on the conditions like say 85 year old Doris fell and probably broke her hip.
Some ambulances sit many hours in A+E.
I think NHS is broken.
Choice_Knowledge_356@reddit
We only call an ambulance if we need urgent treatment to prevent death or loss of limb while getting to A&E. They are much more than a taxi to hospital, they are staffed by highly trained and skilled paramedics.
Heart attacks, almost cutting your arm off etc.. are all good reasons to have an ambulance.
douxsoumis@reddit
What's the book and who is the author?
eyeball-beesting@reddit
I am guessing it is 'Don't Let Him' In by Lisa Jewell.
Ok_Concentrate4461@reddit (OP)
Sure is! Good job
Dismal_Fox_22@reddit
Just because you call for an ambulance doesn’t mean you get one. It’s not a taxi, calls are triaged and prioritised and I doubt an ambulance would be attending a temp of 40 unless the toddler was floppy. She’d be advised to make her way to an urgent care centre
TattieMafia@reddit
We always phone a taxi unless it's an emergency. Even if you call 999 they will only send an ambulance if they think it is an emergency. Sometimes it's faster to take a taxi one way than to wait for an ambulance to go both ways.
AWhistlingWoman@reddit
The fever on its own isn’t sufficient to need medical attention, let alone an ambulance. 40°C is hot, but if the child is ok in other ways they don’t necessarily even need to go to hospital.
Present-Swimming-476@reddit
Its a plot thing to get you shouting at the book and hate the character for being an idiot - wait till its on the telly - you'll be shouting at that as well.
Also look out for the pantomime villain - they are in every drama - its the law
Vindscreen_Viper@reddit
Oh no their not.
Inner_West_Ben@reddit
It’s to suit the plot.
pm_me_your_amphibian@reddit
You call them when you need a medical team to get to you, fast, and give you emergency attention on the way to the hospital.
Something that is urgent but not emergent, you will be behind the more serious cases in the queue, so you will actually get to hospital faster by driving rather than waiting your turn in an ambulance.
angels-and-insects@reddit
An ambulance isn't to get you TO the hospital, it's if you need care before / on the way to the hospital.
There's also a strong social conscience about when you call an ambulance and a sense of not using resources that tends to correlate with class. So if the mum was working class, she'd be more likely to ask a neighbour than use community resources. And the middle class cliché would be to call an ambulance when the kid has a runny nose. Upper class cliché would be to call your personal private doctor for a home visit. And then generously ask him to check on the maid dying of scarlet fever in the attic, aren't we generous, cue Downton theme.
These are big clichés not actual people, of course, but the sort of patterns often reflected. The time of the novel makes a big difference too.
Jealous-Action-9151@reddit
If apart from high fever the child would have other dangerous symptoms (the operator would assess it over the phone), an ambulance should arrive quickly..
ginger_lucy@reddit
Simplistically, if I could get myself to the hospital myself, I would. No waiting, no messing about, no taking an ambulance from someone more actively dying.
Ambulances are for people who need treatment before being moved, where it’s too complex to move by an amateur, or who might crash on the way. Then those who really can’t take themselves. But if I can get in a car/taxi I’ll do that.
FancyMigrant@reddit
Presumably the book is fiction...?
Green_Sprout@reddit
As others have said, they are free but won't be sent out for non-life threatening things, what people haven't mentioned is sometimes paramedics will come out in smaller vehicles if the problem can be sorted out on location. But all mobile health workers are over worked, underfunded and in high demand. A high temp baby wouldn't warrant an ambulance but might get an emergency responder if the temp is high enough. In all likelihood it would be faster to get a lift, taxi or even a bus. The NHS is a wonderful thing that is constantly undermined by politicians and groups lobbying for the disgusting system at play in the States.
The other possibility is that the author is either American or has lived outside of the UK long enough to forget how things work.
PurplePlodder1945@reddit
Because the wait for an ambulance can be many hours if there are more urgent cases in front of you. Then just when you think you’re getting an ambulance another more urgent case comes up. People have literally died waiting for an ambulance, such is the poor state of the NHS. If you’re walking wounded or can find a other way to get to a hospital, you take it.
Beautiful_Hour_4744@reddit
We're only meant to call them if its bad enough that we cant wait to get to hospital or its less serious (but still an emergency) and we dont have any other way to get to hospital ie we dont drive/cant get a taxi.
I burnt my hand really badly so couldn't drive and my husband didnt have a licence at the time. The paramedics were a bit confused why we'd called them when the hospital was only a 5 minute drive away til I explained my husband couldn't drive and there was a 30 minute wait for a taxi
Queen_of_London@reddit
Depends where they live - if London most people aren't dependent on cars anyway and I'd wager that for most people it'd be a £20 and 20 minute cab ride at most to their nearest A&E. (Not so for outside London, before anyone jumps on me!) That could be quicker than an ambulance.
A lot of people would call an ambulance, and I think nearly every parent would call either 999 or 111 (the non-emergency medical phone number, which can then transfer you to the emergency services if necessary). A high fever with no other symptoms isn't necessarily incredibly sick, even for a baby (my daughter ran extremely high temps so often as a baby that she was checked out for leukemia), so it might actually be quicker to get to the hospital yourself, because you won't necessarily be seen as the highest need. If the baby has other symptoms - listlessness, not feeding, or definitely a rash or fitting, then you would call an ambulance, or 111 would call am ambulance for you after you told them the symptoms, and that would be the quickest way to get help.
A lot of books, TV shows and movies have people using cars in London far more than they really do. I mean, some people here do own and use cars, but except for some suburbs they aren't the *only* form of transport that people are used to using, even with young kids.
Aggravating-Desk4004@reddit
My 90 year old dad collapsed and was on the floor of his house with a broken hip. The ambulance service told us he wasn't a priority and they could take hours.
Basically our health service is shit. People no longer call ambulances because they don't turn up.
Neddlings55@reddit
Why do so many American TV shows and movies show people gagged with their hands bound at the front, yet the person never simply pulls the gag out? They can easily reach it.
Its fiction. It suits the plot.
Pretend_Office_6101@reddit
Because the wife goes on to have an affair with the neighbour rather than a paramedic?
misskittygirl13@reddit
They are free but can take forever. Sometimes in an emergency it is quicker to make your own way to hospital.
chewmypaws@reddit
Because it is a work of fiction and calling for an ambulance wouldn't fit with the story arc.
Crunchie64@reddit
Presumably because it fits the plot better.
Does the child have a fever because a pandemic is crippling the country?
Is the mother going to run off with or learn a dark secret from the neighbour?
AliceMorgon@reddit
They can take HOURS. I once had a cafe call one after I started having a seizure, fell backwards onto the floor, and whacked my head hard on the tile. They were told it would be ELEVEN HOURS. In the end, one of the staff lay me down across their backseats and drove me themselves.
That_Northern_bloke@reddit
Non urgent and probably not life threatening
qualityvote2@reddit
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