What are you going to do with the China cabinet?
Posted by Eredic@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 360 comments

Growing up, in the US at least, it seemed like every house I went to had a cabinet in the corner filled with ancient dishes that never got used. When the time comes that these get passed down to you, will you add them to your own home, or break the vicious cycle? We already let my folks know that we don't really want the old hutch and it's cool if they sell all of Mom's collection of pink Depression glass.
Uncle-Cake@reddit
Great for displaying your collection of action figures.
ONROSREPUS@reddit
My mothers is full of old collectable beer glasses in one, the other one has the old fast food glasses in it. The cabinets are built in so they will stay with the house.
FarDig9095@reddit
Turn into speaker box
Disaffecteddv@reddit
Boomer here, imagining my adult daughter filling my $400, hand made china display hutch with her Transformer figures collection and my Lladro collection donated to Good will.
Fear_Punk_Planet@reddit
My ex-wife kept it.
It took 3 men who were over 200 pounds. To even move it empty.
Munchkin531@reddit
I told my mom as the eldest daughter I want first dibs on her China cabinet. I want to use that shit! I have an amazing house and I want to actually use the fancy china. I don't want it to just sit there collecting dust. I also need more room to display my uranium glass.
Munchkin531@reddit
It all glows!
agentmkultra666@reddit
This is the reason I want a china cabinet.
Munchkin531@reddit
You can find some for a steal at estate sales on the last day. Sellers just want them gone! I've got a skinny one in my library area that holds my teacups.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
Are you a physicist, or is this just a hobby that you picked up?
Munchkin531@reddit
Physicist? Lol nope just a fun hobby. My husband saw some TikToks of UG glass and I was hooked. I find pieces mostly at estate sales and antique stores. I've got at least 100 pieces but I've only been collecting 3 years.
Some resellers ask ridiculous 🙄 prices on mediocre pieces. Others don't know what they have and sell cheap. My aunt has a collection of plates and cups. I told her to think of me if/when she wants to downsize. I highly doubt her sons will appreciate them like I do!
AvramBelinsky@reddit
My 11 year old son starting collecting uranium glass this summer and we've set up a shelf for him in his room with pieces we find at local consignment shops and antique malls. It's been fun for both of us, especially when we find a jar of old marbles that we can hunt through for the glowy ones.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
Very cool. That glass in the front would be a great stand for a replica Demon Core. 😄 Good luck with your aunt's bequest!
Munchkin531@reddit
Very cool! Someone in r/uranium made uranium spheres that are very cool. I think my prized possessions are a syrup holder that belonged to my grandmother and a tall lamp.
Bubbly-Main2016@reddit
I have my vintage toys in one, and we have two in the shop for tools and such. All free picked up on big trash day and great for storage and will not mind leaving here if and when we sell.
Polybrene@reddit
Convert it to a plant cabinet.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
Holy 1980's cabinet Batman!
Excellent repurposing though. Plants fit that way better than dishes ever did.
Polybrene@reddit
Thank you! Yes its a vintage Henredon cabinet I got for a song at a salvage shop. Drilled a hole in the back for the cable and installed LED grow lights myself.
agentmkultra666@reddit
It’s beautiful!
WeWander_@reddit
That was my first thought! I have 3 ikea cabinets I've converted to greenhouses
RadTimeWizard@reddit
That's really cool.
Sufficient_Turn_9209@reddit
This is exactly what I wanted to do to an antique armoire my mom gave me. Seal the wood, convert the side and lower front panels to glass, etc. Her mother was horrified that she put a hole in the back and used it as a TV cabinet in their bedroom, but when I told her I was going to turn it into a plant cabinet she panicked and lost her mind thinking I'd already started. Apparently it's an authentic Gillows and something or other. I was about to convert 10k wardrobe to display my plants. 🤣 I found a cheap thrift store china hutch instead.
Polybrene@reddit
Well apparently my plant cabinet is worth thousands and I drilled a hole in the back. I wish I could find a mate for it but I got mine at a salvage store for $250.
https://www.chairish.com/product/26416838/henredon-black-lacquer-and-brass-display-cabinetsvitrines-a-pair
Sufficient_Turn_9209@reddit
That one was destined to be a plant cabinet. It turned out beautifully perfect!
orangepaperlantern@reddit
This is what I would do with one!
CrazyWork2940@reddit
Planet arium. I have a speech disorder i cannot say the word planet arium
SLyndon4@reddit
OOH, what a fantastic idea!!!
skite456@reddit
That is so fucking cool
childoftheuniverse88@reddit
This is the way.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
I would have a plant coffin.
EscapeSolution@reddit
It holds all my chemistry lab equipment
punksmurph@reddit
Gunpla Display, already have a spot picked out for it.
OutlawJuicyWhales@reddit
The moment my mother dies, every piece of silver and crystal she has ever gifted me is getting sold or pawned, as will be the case with anything similar of hers she leaves to me. Worthless rubbish. Too fragile, and too much of a PITA to keep clean.
Gym_Rat222@reddit
Fill it with Lego
Jokierre@reddit
It’s on the clock
CustomCarNerd@reddit
CustomCarNerd@reddit
I have several that I have repurposed to hold my hot wheels
FloatingFreeMe@reddit
More important, what do I do with the china in the cabinet? Or the Toby Jugs in the other one?
Mr_Shizer@reddit
I wanna get one.
Scott_R_1701@reddit
3d printed Pokemon going in there
Sleep_Champion@reddit
Bongs. Lots of Bongs.
icanhaztuthless@reddit
Don’t want any part of it, or any part of birthgivers’ junk. Everything that we want/need, I get for us. All that ancient stuff belongs in a museum or something, not collecting dust in the corner of some room or boxed up in the garage/attic/basement.
b1gd4ddychubb5@reddit
My mom has 2 that are completely stuffed with things that she's never touched, used, or looked at since it all got put in there. It's so full it's not even nice to look at. She has the semi-circle ones with the glass shelves and the mirror back, and wooden claw feet.
Eredic@reddit (OP)
That's exactly the one we were maybe gonna get. Thankfully, my aunt wanted it, so now my cousins can deal with it.
Robby777777@reddit
Repurpose it: The one in the pic would make a very cool place to store your liquor collection. Put some LED lights in there and leave it lit.
Dry-Astronaut-8640@reddit
Neither my brother or I are interested in the china sets that are accumulating. My mother has her own set and both sets of grandparents had their own too. If it wasn’t for the probability that they are painted with heavy metal based paints and enamels, I’d use them as daily dishes.
No thanks. Off to the estate sales it will go.
LetJesusFuckU@reddit
DrMushroomStamp@reddit
Nice. My buddy had the same cabinet just decked out with all his masters of the universe figures.
Free-Cherry-4254@reddit
I have friends that would do GI Joe, horror figures, Transformers or Power Rangers.
DDChristi@reddit
We have the avenger tower surrounded by Star Wars. 😂
SunFlwrPwr@reddit
We have Legos in ours too!!
Oubastet@reddit
Same, but trasformers, Voltron, TMNT, and some M.A S.C. if there's room. ;)
Pheeline@reddit
While we don't have one and idk if we'll inherit one, this is exactly the sort of thing we'd do too-- my spouse has a bunch of little Star Trek ships, we have various nerdy Funko Pops, etc. It'd become a shrine to our mutual geekery.
LetJesusFuckU@reddit
Mine come from estate sales, I have several . I have cats, so everything must be behind glass.
Eredic@reddit (OP)
I feel like I'm way in the minority with cats who leave my Lego alone..
frooootloops@reddit
This is the way.
Elle3786@reddit
Ya know, I never would’ve thought of this, but it’s probably what I’m doing with my ancient china cabinet, one day
fuelvolts@reddit
"Daily Bugie"?
LetJesusFuckU@reddit
I still let the kids play.
fuelvolts@reddit
Gorkymalorki@reddit
Those Lego sets are worth more than the china they are supposed to hold.
jkpublic@reddit
Awesome collection -- and a hell of a username!
evolutionxtinct@reddit
You beat me to it! I have two china hutches 1 with Star Wars one with LEGO
Free-Cherry-4254@reddit
I have a couple friends, aged 42 and 49, who are toy collectors, and I can see them staging some of their figures in different scenes on each shelf
Intelligent-Elk8625@reddit
Straight to the transfer station along with all the crap in it.
TwilightStranger@reddit
Convert it to a liquor cabinet.
SensitiveArtist@reddit
I've already told my mom just to have an estate sale before they downsize because neither my siblings nor I want 95% of the stuff in their house.
mofroman@reddit
Nobody wants the garbage our boomer parents have been accumulating for 50 years. In many cases you can't even give this stuff away, almost all of it is ending up in landfills.
Dirtycurta@reddit
What's crazy though - my boomer parents didn't want the mid century crap my grandparents had accumulated - now some of it is highly sought after.
SensitiveArtist@reddit
I wish my grandparents had had that stuff, but they were all born before the Depression and my parents were born right after the mid-century boom died down so I missed out on it.
Dark_Shroud@reddit
I'm in that same situation. No cool mid-century stuff in my family because of timing.
Dirtycurta@reddit
My grandparents were born in the 1920s and bought their stuff in the 1950s and 60s, most of it went into their basement rooms or cabin, and my parents didn't like it because it really clashed with the 80s stuff they had. We're talking McCobb, Eames, Scandinavian modern and atomic age crap that would go for 1000s today but probably wound up in a landfill somewhere. I've tried hard to replicate the "grandparents basement" aesthetic for myself and it's EXPENSIVE now!
fuelvolts@reddit
Same for our Ikea-level garbage furniture we have when we get old and pass.
mofroman@reddit
I'm talking more about collections of shit nobody will ever want. A short read on what I mean, I fear for the day I need to clean out my mother's house full of old figurines and collectables and various knick knacks. A short read on what I mean:
https://archive.ph/5HLUh (originally a paywalled article from business insider on the topic)
Pearl-2017@reddit
I was at Goodwill the other day & one whole top shelf was filled with these bears. All the same bear in different outfits & activities. It was pretty obvious grandma died & no one wanted her collection.
Dark_Shroud@reddit
I go into multiple thrift shops and I'll see boxes of those various figurine collections and stacks of dolls.
Grandma either died or went into assisted living and no one wanted that shit.
akela9@reddit
I love the kitsch. 🥹
KingdomOfFawg@reddit
You can have all my mom’s shit then.
Lauren_sue@reddit
I like that stuff though.
APFernweh@reddit
When my ex’s grandmother passed, his dad ended up with FOUR trailers full of her stuff in their backyard. Every time she downsized she didn’t want to throw anything away, so she stuck it in storage. We spent days and days going through everything. The thing is, she was rich. You may find an Hermes scarf in a box from her bedroom closet. A $50 bill in the side pocket of a purse. So we had to really go through everything. A lot of expensive clothes that none of us wanted went to consignment. The art - there was so much art. We created a spreadsheet and had all the family members mark what they wanted. So much furniture. Half of it is still sitting in my ex’s parents’ garage. It was a Herculean task. But I did end up with a few really nice things!
fuelvolts@reddit
It’s why I don’t collect anything. I don’t really have much. When I die my kids can throw everything I own personally in the bin and move on.
SufficientlyRested@reddit
When you build an ikea thing, put wood glue in th holes. It will be much stronger and last longer.
Original_Telephone_2@reddit
Lol that stuff won't last till then anyway
fuelvolts@reddit
SensitiveArtist@reddit
My parents have at least 2 full sets of China that I can't ever recall using.
DrierFish@reddit
They've for when the Queen visits.
SensitiveArtist@reddit
Considering my family is Scotch-Irish, I doubt they'd receive her.
DrierFish@reddit
It might be best receive her. Do you know what happens when you cross a ghost?
SensitiveArtist@reddit
HauteKarl@reddit
I dunno, that kind of stuff tends to be cyclical in desirability.
Our grandkids might think it's worth collecting and give it a resurgence.
cpt_jerkface@reddit
My folks divorced a few years ago and ended up selling the house and everything in it. I didn't take the china cabinet, but I did keep just one of the teacups in it that had belonged to my grandmother.
Eredic@reddit (OP)
I did something similar and kept one small pink Depression glass salt holder.
Dark_Shroud@reddit
I have my grand mother's Depression glass salt & pepper shaker set with carrying stand.
RadTimeWizard@reddit
"But what about the china?"
-literally every mom
geekgirlwww@reddit
My brother in law and his mom have been dealing with his grandmothers house of stuff it’s been a massive process. She wasn’t a hoarder but 60+ years in the same house and never purging it’s a lot.
Anytime someone mentions they need something for the home (I needed a bed frame when I moved home) he always asks “do you want me to check grandmas house and send what I have”. We call it a very exclusive boutique thrift store. His mother inherited the house and at the moment she’s in a position where it doesn’t need to sell right away so they’ve been able to dig through it as they’re able. A luxury most people don’t have.
SensitiveArtist@reddit
My dad and I went through a similar situation when emptying his mother's house. Luckily, there were plenty of cousins and grandkids to take stuff.
After_Preference_885@reddit
My partners grandparents left his parents a house like that, we're nearly 50 and still get things from there from time to time
Oubastet@reddit
Yea, I don't want most of my parents things and thankfully they've been heavily giving away or trashing a lot so it's not a burden. It's considerate but a bit depressing. :(
One nice thing is they're going through all of their keepsakes from when I was a kid and they give me a bit more every time I see them. Old "art" I drew as a kid, my cub scout uniform, pictures they took of me. It's sweet and we get to reminisce.
Bitey_the_Squirrel@reddit
Right? I already have my own stuff, I don’t need yours on top of it.
skinflakesasconfetti@reddit
I have my Mom's hutch, it's still full of all the same china and glass, but we use it when we feel like it, because honestly, what's the point in having it if it's never used?
My sibling acts like I got left a grand inheritance because I have it, when in reality it's a 1970's hutch filled a mix of thrift store pretties and a Acme plate of the week fine china set.
XBXNinjaMunky@reddit
Cannabar
Dagonus@reddit
I don't recall many in corners. My parents is a hutch in the middle of a wall. Mine is a hutch in the middle of a wall. Got mine for free to fill a space in the house. Had to fix it up some. I have things in it. Not super crazy things. Some extra sometimes second pieces, but 95%of what I have is dishwasher safe. Also it's where my alcohol lives. And my pint glasses and wine glasses. And some random decor. Overall it's handy storage.
I expect when my parents' is to be inherited, my brother and I will sell half of it, keep a few things inside it and then decide if one of us wants the hutch itself. We could probably try to sell it, but I don't think old school hutches sell for much. Mine was free after all even if it did/does need some care. There's a fair chance my mother just sells the actual china in it before she goes though. My mother has gotten keen on having less stuff. She always had been but she's been real gungho lately. Sometimes that means handing me stuff from middle school. Sometimes they means she just throws things out. Sometimes there's a box of stuff sitting out at their house and my mother says "take that stuff if you want it or I'm throwing it out after you leave". My father is the real life saver though since my mother will come to me with my old things from middle school 12 minutes before I leave and be like "these are yours" and I then have no time to look at it. My father will tell me "there's 3 boxes in this location. Look at them while you are here. Your mother will give them all to you if you don't look. If you want things great. If not, I'll throw them out, but I don't want you to have to try to fit 3 extra boxes in the cart at the last minute if you don't want to. You re here for 3 days, take a half hour and look through so you don't get caught out later. "
Heyoka888@reddit
send back to China
Coolbreeze1989@reddit
Lego display
Dark_Shroud@reddit
This is what I'm going to do with one.
I still have my cool 80s vintage Lego set.
Coolbreeze1989@reddit
Nice!! I don’t have any childhood Legos but I’ve re-started Lego as an adult and am having an expensive blast!
RadTimeWizard@reddit
This is where I'd put my D&D minis... If I had any.
One-Earth9294@reddit
LOL literally my answer. I love our generation.
Gunfighter9@reddit
That's a curio cabinet, not a China cabinet
JaimePfe17@reddit
Mine is filled with my kid's Lego project
What_Next69@reddit
We inherited my grandparents’ hutch and china. Passed the lead test. Use it on holidays when the family is here.
I also store my weed grinding stuff in it because I use my great grandmother’s pink crystal cranberry sauce server as my spill tray. Love you, Nana.❤️😶🌫️
Glendronachh@reddit
You mean the whisky hutch?
cacecil1@reddit
If we had a cool corner one like this, I'd keep it and put collectibles in it, like my My Little Ponies or some such. But we have the traditional kind that just takes up half a wall and I'm getting rid of it.
dude_mctavish@reddit
Nothing, since I’m not allowed to touch it
gimmeslack12@reddit
Don't even think about removing the plastic from the couch!
Checked_Out_6@reddit
Omg, my mom put in these plastic carpet protectors that looked like shit because she had a white carpet. It was for the high traffic areas. She didn’t remove them even for family parties. Once she finally took them out the carpet underneath was bright white and everything else was a dingy grey. It looked so much like shit she got vinyl floors. She never even enjoyed the carpet!
Original_Telephone_2@reddit
White carpet just makes you look like a high level drug dealer or something.
CharZero@reddit
Went to a very rich, smarmy lawyer’s party once. Acres of white carpet. They proceeded to hand my three year old an open cup of grape juice. Wtf.
ChannelConscious5393@reddit
That is how the other half lives. Opulent luxury.
Original_Telephone_2@reddit
I audibly gasped
RadTimeWizard@reddit
That's exactly why I let it go in the estate sale.
javaper@reddit
The only appropriate response.
skite456@reddit
This is the only answer. My grandma has a beautiful china cabinet that was already an antique when she purchased it in the 1950’s to fill with her wedding china my grandfather brought back from the Korean War. I’ve only ever once in my life seen a piece of it out of the cabinet and we definitely didn’t use it to eat on. The china is lovely old style with hand painted rose sprays. I’m afraid that whoever gets it when she passes will open that cabinet and everything inside will instantly turn to dust from being finally exposed to air.
Glitter_Sparkle@reddit
I’m not either and also have to tell myself I’m allowed to sit in their lounge room without being given permission now that i’m a middle aged homeowner that lives in a different state.
JiggyJax2222@reddit
Lego! I’ve taken four large ones and a small one from my in-laws and they are stuffed with Lego. The worst part is they have such old wiring for the lighting it’s tough to find good replacements.
Selmarris@reddit
Freecycle. My MIL has FIVE. She keeps telling us how she wants us to keep her ashes in one of them. The minute she's dead they're going straight to the dump. She's DEAD she doesn't get a say in my interior decorating anymore.
SirStocksAlott@reddit
You shall do NOTHING with it. Do not touch it, open it, anything. It will only ever be opened for dusting by your parents.
Flat-While2521@reddit
And when they dead?
Dark_Shroud@reddit
Their souls are now trapped in the cabinet as guardian spirits.
Just waiting to smite the poor fool who dares to open the door and touch a plate or saucer.
cbih@reddit
It's part of the house now, like light fixtures
DrierFish@reddit
That's my plan, it's part of the house now... are other people actually going to remove them?
illwill79@reddit
You heard him
Flat-While2521@reddit
I heard his parents, sure
SunFlwrPwr@reddit
My life was threatened. "It was brought over from England by your grandma's grandma from England." You break it you die. Yup. Im terrified of that thing.
The look on my daughters face when I tell her it gets passed down to her when I die. 😉😁 I told her she is haunted by all my relatives if she gets rid of it.
flipnitch@reddit
Man I wish I had that one. Ive actually been looking, lol. I am going to put my whiskey in it at the very least..
floofyragdollcat@reddit
Ooh, liquor is a good idea!
Dark_Shroud@reddit
I'm seeing a lot of guys using the old China hutches for their liquor collections.
I not being in liquor will have to settle with using one for my vintage 80s Lego collection. If only I still had the boxes.
flipnitch@reddit
Right? I’ve been on the EstateSales.net app all summer looking to score a deal on one but people are good at knowing what they have and price accordingly or if not they’re gone within minutes of sale open..
crazycatlady331@reddit
Check Habitat Restore if you have one near you.
AvramBelinsky@reddit
Habitate for Humanity ReStore is a great resource for affordable china/display cabinets if you have one near you.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
Look at online estate sales and auction sites. These things sell for $1 all the time
flipnitch@reddit
Yeah I should start bidding in the online ones now that summer is almost over for sure. It’s been fun just going to the locations and hitting all the nostalgia though..even got a few dates out of it.
jasonrubik@reddit
You put it in. I take it out
Objective-Ad5620@reddit
My baby Baby Boomer parents know I don’t want random ass knick knacks; my mom has already gotten rid of the china cabinet. She’s offered me some handmade raggedy Ann and Andy dolls her grandmother made and a chair from my grandma’s estate. She knows I want practical and personally sentimental items.
Dark_Shroud@reddit
Keep my mother's China in it. My own kids can figure out what to do with it when I'm gone. It will be one of the few things they'll have to deal with.
Excellent_Speech_901@reddit
It's a pretty impressive antique that I have no place for and good china that I also have no use for.
Proper_Mention_7165@reddit
Straight to the dump
stilettopanda@reddit
Uranium glass
RadTimeWizard@reddit
Spicy.
mountednoble99@reddit
Why were our parents so obsessed with stuff like this?
RadTimeWizard@reddit
Because of their own parents. They were taught that it'd be a form of generational wealth.
OkPie8905@reddit
Because China was destroying its cultural relics, so anything from China was becoming a rare antique quickly. It became a antique store hunting phenomenon that people forgot why
mountednoble99@reddit
I lived in China for most of my thirties. I brought up the concept of china to Chinese people and they thought it was weird!
After_Preference_885@reddit
My mom thought it was a good investment
iwasnotarobot@reddit
Stuff used to be expensive. Housing was cheap.
My how the turns have tabled.
Head-Technology-4031@reddit
Turned the whole thing into a liquor cabinet
Wine Shelf Bourbon Shelf Glasses, pourers, shot glasses shelf Assorted Liquors Shelf
rg4rg@reddit
I put my warhammer 40k minis into it.
RadTimeWizard@reddit
Brilliant.
orangepaperlantern@reddit
“Now I’m painting your silver pants blue!”
imadork1970@reddit
Media centre
Careful-Use-4913@reddit
If I’m ever blessed with an actual dining room to put a hutch in, I will put my China in it (inherited from my husband’s grandmother as her wedding gift to us with much excitement from me), and hopefully serve dinner on it once a week.
McRando42@reddit
They're really cheap now. I've got a couple and they hold dishes and booze and expensive booze dishes.
_hi_plains_drifter_@reddit
I use mine as a bookshelf.
Feisty_Crops@reddit
I got rid of them
Neat_Pineapple_7240@reddit
I told my mom I’m not taking that shit.
thepatientwaiting@reddit
My mom got rid of hers (which was my grandmother's/her MIL). She is actually doing a great job of leaving me nothing but the few things I want and her ashes. Very proud of her efforts to scale down.
I bought a more modern Ikea display for Lego and other knickknacks. My partner has one that he put his awards and family photos in.
earthforce_1@reddit
Would make one hell of a server rack
LordLaz1985@reddit
Probably use it to display my BJDs.
Dimplefrom-YA@reddit
you want my dad to give me a can of whoop ass?
QuoVadimusDana@reddit
I had it in my home for many years. I moved it 1,000 miles with the rest of my stuff and then finally got rid of it. I kind of wish I still had it, but it wasn't practical to keep moving it around.
Dogrel@reddit
Into the trash it goes, all of it. And nothing of value will be lost.
When I see stuff like this, I become like Socrates in the markets of Athens: “Look at all of these things that I don’t need!”
Betelgeuse3fold@reddit
For a little while, it held booze, a drinking horn, and a few nerdy tchochkes. Then it went to the dump. Now a little play kitchen occupies its former spot
Turbulent_Ad9508@reddit
The beauty is, put whatever you like in it.
Mine is showcases my unique colorful collection of glass buttplugs. The kids get embrassed when their friends join is for dinner.
Sharpshooter188@reddit
I always wondered about these as a kid. My mom daid the plates and glasses in there were for special occasions. That special occasion never came. Like what are we waiting for? The friggen pope to stop by?
willeminadafriend@reddit
We had one in Australia, I think it's a middle class thing
One-Earth9294@reddit
LEGO display case?
IdioticPrototype@reddit
I'm going drink the booze and sell the rest on FB marketplace.
Fappy_as_a_Clam@reddit
No you won't, no one wants it.
You'll just be hungover when you take it to goodwill
IdioticPrototype@reddit
🤣
NathanTheKlutz@reddit
I’d fill it with cool stuff, like fossils or mineral specimens.
Loop22one@reddit
I have more random tchotchkes than they ever did TBH, so won’t be an issue filling it…..
Wendy-Windbag@reddit
Same! I am in need of a corner curio cabinet for all of my little figurines and decorative glass dust collectors. Hitting up antique malls is one of my favorite hobbies. I think it skips generations.
Eclectic_Paradox@reddit
This is first time in my life I've ever seen the word tchotckes spelled out.
michaelHIJINX@reddit
You mean Whiskey cabinet?
ouchmouse666@reddit
Fill it with mineral specimens
Impossible_Turn_7627@reddit
Had the talk with my parent. I don't want it. They were depressed and felt a little betrayed 🤷♀️🤷♀️
DirtRight9309@reddit
i don’t blame them
Impossible_Turn_7627@reddit
I'm not responsible to maintain their furniture when they die (or while they live). My house is a home, not a dead relative museum.
I'm sorry my previous comment struck you in such an uncomfortable way. I genuinely hope you enjoy your heirlooms in a way that's meaningful to you and their original owners.
DirtRight9309@reddit
heard and my point was more that i don’t really care about heirlooms, i care about the people. the rest can be dealt with and it’s just not something i personally worry about.
johnklapak@reddit
Keep Moet & Chandon in it.
Hammerhandle@reddit
Hopefully my ex wife comes and gets the fucking thing soon...
oriaven@reddit
Free on craigslist
FeralGinger@reddit
Lots of jars- some full of oddities, some that just look cool, and a whole bunch full of cannabis. Maybe ill invest in a cool bong to highlight
mommiecubed@reddit
My mom is going to give it away.
6thBornSOB@reddit
It’s full of Warhammer models 🤘
_ficklelilpickle@reddit
I’ve refused them (there’s two) after several house moves. The bargaining has now been reduced to “a couple of things” from inside. Considering where we started I can live with that.
BingBong_Tacoma@reddit
Fill it with action figures! What the else would I use it for? Storing China that I'll never use?
kellyasksthings@reddit
These things are actually fantastic for anything you want to display that you don’t want to dust all the time. Love me a glass front cabinet.
Anathama@reddit
Warhammer display.
RogueHarpie@reddit
I just inherited 2! But I'm an old soul that loves old glass. One of them I'm putting black lights in for my uranium glass. I'm hoping that since it glows my kids might like to inherit it after me. If not then oh well, maybe they can get some cash for it.
jarjar_smoov@reddit
Fill it with Star Wars toys
mechanical_marten@reddit
Donate everything to an anger room
DirtRight9309@reddit
just enjoying the time i have left with my folks, not really too worried about their stuff. do you guys just really not like your parents or what? i couldn’t imagine telling mine “listen, when you kick the bucket i’m getting rid of all your shit!” ofc i am but i recognize they’re humans and that probably doesn’t feel too good to hear.
Jasmirris@reddit
My parents and I enjoy the time we are together but they realize they dont want us to be saddled with the stuff they have as they have gone through it with their parents and other relatives. They have brought it up with us. We have joked about it. Yeah its difficult to talk about but truthfully, it makes the topic easier when they are the ones starting it.
SplakyD@reddit
I was just having this very conversation with my wife this morning because we now live in my grandparents' old house so we've inherited one of these.
Alis79@reddit
I use it to display my handbags. I don't have room in my life for dishes and cutlery that can't go in the dishwasher
JeffTS@reddit
I have a small cabinet in the corner in my living room. Nothing as extravagant as your photo. It has rocks, minerals, and Star Wars figures.
Darmok47@reddit
My friends husband collects whiskies and turned his parents chinq cabinet into a liquor cabinet
BlakRobOneTime@reddit
Bong cabinet
Lucky_Louch@reddit
Man I would love this thing to display my Garbage Pail kids cards/memorabilia collection. I hate having to dust them all the time and my cats are dicks so I have to barricade it from them. My mom had a prized antique hutch but never a china cabinet, no idea where it went after she died, I didn't get anything but half the ashes.
cyberllama@reddit
I inherited it and then, after a few years, I accidentally left it behind when I moved house.
Correct-Body9590@reddit
Nothing because my parents done have one…surprisingly. And yes they are boomers but young ones.
SookieCat26@reddit
I actually want the china cabinet. These kitchens don’t have nearly enough storage. I won’t display stuff, maybe cookbooks?
RealityOk9823@reddit
My MIL keeps trying to give us one. At first I was like "Well, OK, we can store stuff in it. Put in some cool things. Sure." but then I found out there's a whole set of dishes to go with it. Hell no. To top it off, it's not a family heirloom, it's something she bought because we're just "supposed" to have one.
LarryGoldwater@reddit
That is called a Booze Cabinet in Xennial. We got them cheap of Craigslist in our 20s, bought loads of fancy and not so fancy liquor, and eventually got rid of it all.
nononononooooo@reddit
I'll put my bongs in it. I think I need to customize the cabinet, though.
kyle-the-brown@reddit
My wife and I filled ours with fancy China and fancy custom ceramic coffee mugs
slinger301@reddit
It'll be great for my collection of participation trophies.
frustratedComments@reddit
Consignment. I don’t want this shit in my house that I have to fucking move again when my marriage falls apart.
DHammer79@reddit
I'd keep my parents' China cabinet if my sister doesn't want it and I had room. It was my Oma's. It has curved glass and nice detailing on it. I am going to lament the day we have to get rid of it.
CharZero@reddit
My parents are already getting rid of all this type of thing. For which I am deeply, massively grateful.
rharper38@reddit
I married a China cabinet, so it's here.
The ones at my parents are family heirlooms
KingdomOfFawg@reddit
My wife got all of her grandma’s crap. I told her when she got it, she wasn’t allowed to freak out if something breaks. Something broke, and she almost broke not freaking out.
RamenRoy@reddit
Sex toys.
arcxjo@reddit
Rpd840@reddit
Filling it with baseball cards!
Consistent_Stick_463@reddit
3 pounds of tannerite should take care of it.
Slumunistmanifisto@reddit
Godzilla collection 🧑🏼🌾
OkPie8905@reddit
Check if it’s real China. Mao destroyed most cultural pieces from the cultural revolution and the 4 olds. If it’s older than the 1960s and from China it’s worth something
RickHuf@reddit
I'm going to drag it into the front yard and light it on fire
It's fucking huge and taken up half the dining room. They're convinced it's worth thousands of dollars but the problem is that no.one wants one, so it's not worth anything.
It's full of crystal that's never used that will be right behind it.
-E-Cross@reddit
Remove glass, smash to pieces, fire pit
CombatDeffective@reddit
Put Lego in it.
AlmostScott82@reddit
Ha! Actually bought one at an estate sale a couple years ago and turned it into a pretty nice liquor cabinet.
HYThrowaway1980@reddit
Mercifully fuck all, since my parents had enough taste never to own one.
horrormetal@reddit
Apparently, drop it on move out, and break it all to damn pieces.
Patient_Character730@reddit
It holds my China in it. 😀
BigHobbit@reddit
I was very worried about inheriting and/or moving or just dealing with my parents shit. My mom and dad both inherited the bulk of their parents shit and at one point they used 5 mini storages full of stuff.
I got my mom hooked on selling shit on eBay/marketplace years ago after she retired. Selling all her old shit has become a hobby for her and my folks use the extra $$ for vacations.
It's been 10 years now and they're basically out of junk to sell, nothing in storage, both cars in the garage, basically no clutter.
After_Preference_885@reddit
My mom is deeply hurt we don't want her multiple hutches and collections. They're pretty but none of us want cabinets and cabinets full of glass things. Even her massive jewelry collection (both real and vintage costume) is useless to us since we don't wear jewelry or go anywhere or would be acceptable. They aren't even pieces she wore so there's nothing sentimental about them.
We will probably each keep some small pieces and everything else will go to an estate sale. We've tried to convince her to sell them now (or help us sell them) because she's knowledgeable about what everything is actually worth (or thinks she is) but she can't be without her things.
Happy-Freedom6835@reddit
We use ours (my wife’s passed down to her from her great grandmother) as a whiskey cabinet lol
ms_sid_d@reddit
Sell it.
The most useless piece of furniture.
My aunt kept porcelain dolls in hers - WTF?! CREEPY. GTFOH
Fun-Preparation-4253@reddit
Legos
Razorshroud@reddit
Fine gardening glass for special occasions and guests
pdx_via_dtw@reddit
we still have these? god, i hope we don't still have these.
Kingstoncr8tivearts@reddit
Leaving it on the curb like everyone else at my apartment.
SydNorth@reddit
Legos
BoltsGuy02@reddit
I’ve burned a few of these, gawd they looked dumb
bakedveldtland@reddit
Plants, gems, fossils, ceramics, and art I buy during my travels.
Triette@reddit
Tiki mugs, and barware
Fabulous_Night_1164@reddit
I love my China cabinet! I don't have any China though.
I use it for storing my alcohol collection. I have bottles from all over the world where I traveled.
Other touristy items as well inside. It's a conversation starter and it looks nice.
Aurora_Twinstar@reddit
I’m currently living this as I’m finally dealing with my dead grandmother’s knick knack collection and cannot find a way to get rid of them without donating them to thrift stores. It’s a little sad because they all meant a lot to her, but family members don’t have the same interest and/or don’t want useless stuff cluttering up their houses. The curio cabinet is long gone, we got rid of that when she moved into assisted living in the late 00s. Honestly, it saves me time. I wouldn’t have kept it.
drhman1971@reddit
Fill it full of Funko Pops
DockEllis@reddit
We turned ours into a cabinet of curiosities.
ButteredCopPorn@reddit
I moved into a house with two china cabinets built onto the wall. I decided to use them to display some trinkets, my rock/crystal collection, and books, like nice-looking hard covers and art books. My mother-in-law-- who never even visited and saw the china cabinets in person-- absolutely balked at the idea of books in the china cabinet instead of fancy untouchable dishes.
lordskulldragon@reddit
I tossed both of them when my mother passed 3 years ago.
blooobolt@reddit
Curb alert.
finding_thriving@reddit
Mine is filled with DND Minis!
dc1999@reddit
I tossed all my parents shit. Dad was a borderline hoarder. 50-70 years in a dumpster.
conace21@reddit
My Dad was a borderline hoarder, but about a decade ago, he listened when I told him that if there was so much stuff, it was going to be really difficult to parse through it when he was gone, and pick out what to keep.
With help, he sold a fair amount of stuff on Ebay..his ranch house wasn't empty when he died, but it was much easier to clear out than it would have been a decade earlier.
bigred1702@reddit
I’ll be doing the same thing. Not to generalize but what is it with this cohort leaving messes for others to clean up.
potential_wasted@reddit
Firewood
Bitey_the_Squirrel@reddit
r/marvellegends
Delta-IX@reddit
Booze, legos, or guns
DBPanterA@reddit
Garage sale.
doremimi82@reddit
Kids’ art and my grandma’s depression glass
draperyfallz@reddit
It holds my beer and wine glasses
Cael_NaMaor@reddit
Toss it & all the shit in it... or put it & all the shit in it up for sell...
UnrealizedLosses@reddit
Sell what I can, donate the rest.
greyshem@reddit
My wife and I store our board games and TTRPG games in ours.
ApexTrader616@reddit
put it on the inclusion/exclusion form as "included" with the sale of my house
MadamInsta@reddit
Fasten the cabinet to the wall, maybe the top with L brackets, so it's considered "a fixture" and stays with the house.
Similar to a "built in"
fuelvolts@reddit
My parents have an old pool table. When they pass and I end up selling the house (they will never leave that house), it's going on the "included" list as well. No way I'm paying someone to remove that.
GelflingMama@reddit
Burn it in ritual fire… j/k thank goddess my boomers don’t have one somehow.
skite456@reddit
I’m an anomaly as I really want a china cabinet for my fiestaware collection. I also live in an ca 1821 Creole Cottate in Louisiana so it just sort of goes with the decor here
Merad@reddit
My mom kept a formal living and dining room, most of that stuff sold at the estate sale when dad had to go to assisted living. I was actually surprised that it sold, I've heard that shops are becoming overwhelmed with nice furniture they can't sell as boomers started to pass and people under 50 aren't very interested in it.
A good friend from college did take mom's wedding china, I was happy about that. Idk if she'll actually use it but at least it went to someone who knew mom and appreciates what the china meant to her.
genxshera@reddit
As others have said, Lego. And also some funko. You know, my valuables
thelaceserpent@reddit
I have one on my own and displayed all of my dildos in it. A dickslpay if you will
frooootloops@reddit
Oooh I would turn it into a badass bearded dragon habitat!
broadwayallday@reddit
painted purple = Decepticon sea base that rises out of the ocean in G1 episodes
lsp2005@reddit
I’ve inherited the dining set from my grandmother. I asked to receive it. It is custom made rosewood mid century modern. It was sold in the D and D building in manhattan. I keep my dishes in it and use it frequently. I host the holidays for the family. When it is not a holiday it is in use for board games.
FreddyMercuryFazbear@reddit
Fill it with anime figures and call it the japan cabinet
Dynha42@reddit
I have one that I got from my local buy nothing group. I have pictures and momentos from late family members in it.
EmmalouEsq@reddit
I'm more concerned with the crap from within that I'm dealing with. My aunt (downsizing) gave me a bunch of snow babies. Those things creep me out.
TheGreatGoddlessPan@reddit
My wife wants to put Lego plants in it
Aggravating-Alarm-16@reddit
You put your weeeed in it.
Impossible_Turn_7627@reddit
Haaaaaaaa
Ok_Machine6739@reddit
Make some modifications to the interior and turn it in to vivarium. Nothwithstanding i don't think anybody has one. My stepmother moved in to a very small condo when dad died. Now, i have seen her storage unit, but it's like a an epic game of tetris. Beyond some boxes of books i couldn't tell you what's in there, so i don't know if the chins cabinet is stashed as a hedge against finding a bigger place or not.
Tinkerfan57912@reddit
I have pictures and trinkets I do ‘t want the cat’s to destroy.
Shortbus_Playboy@reddit
My sister gets mom’s china, that’s her situation to deal with.
I get my dad’s guitars instead.
I want something I can ACTUALLY USE, lol
CountGensler@reddit
Hide my drugs and condoms in it since it hasn't been opened since last Christmas.
MukYJ@reddit
Absolutely nothing. My wife’s great great grandmother bought that china set and carried it with her across the Oregon trail. To get rid of it now would be admitting defeat.
fluffy_the_penguin@reddit
Mine is a Warhammer and Gunpla display case.
Forever_Forgotten@reddit
I have my great grandmother’s “China hutch”. It is a solid oak Hoosier-style cabinet with amber glass on the cupboards. I defiled it by screwing cup hooks and a wine glass holder in the hutch part for my wine glasses and Moscow Mule mugs and my Anchor Hocking hot chocolate mugs. The upper cabinet has my dishes. The lower cabinet has my pots and pans and everything that won’t fit in my actual cabinets. The very top has my tea tins.
I hope to be buried with it since I have no children.
angryslothbear@reddit
Toys
jimicus@reddit
I have one, albeit smaller than that.
Right now it holds the remains of two sadly-deceased pets.
I'm not sure I want to create a cat and dog mausoleum, but I'm equally not sure what else I can do. Maybe bury them, but I can't see my wife liking that.
Hillbillygeek1981@reddit
This is the one stereotypical boomer thing that I lament my parents' complete disinterest in. We had a solidly built standalone cupboard that my mother kept all the dishes in and she had zero desire for fancy China or putting it on display, she's a very utilitarian person. If I had one of those stereotypical glass paneled ones left over from my childhood it would be proudly displaying a few decades worth of 40k miniatures now, lol.
ahabneck@reddit
Ours is from the 1890s, New England make, handed down a couple of generations. I love it but...sigh...do not want
Deafcat22@reddit
Nothing a good fire can't fix
Adventurous-Depth984@reddit
Mine is full of little artifacts from my life: a Hockey puck I caught during a game, a couple rocks from a trip to Bermuda. Couple shards of wood from a species of tree that’s extinct.
That kinda stuff
chaotic-wickedness@reddit
I’m 39 and I’ve had a china cabinet since I was 25. We bought the existing 1980s wood dining room table and matching China cabinet/ hutch when moved into our first home. It’s moved states with us, and stores my nicer glassware. I have a similar setup in my bedroom with a metal cabinet that I would like to replace with a nice wooden cabinet. I think they are nice.
enema_wand@reddit
My mother already knows she needs to put it on the curb or I will put it on the curb.
ChromeDestiny@reddit
They've got a decent one that could fit into a narrow space, I'll probably keep that one to store my DVD's, Blu-Ray and the little bit of booze of theirs I hang on to.
Expansion79@reddit
Exactly the same one my parents have basically. I don't know and didn't want to think about this, or the chests, or wall units, etc.
bassgirl_07@reddit
I already "inherited" a sideboard from my husband's Grandma. It is currently being very useful displaying LEGO, Alcohol, and our china (dishwasher safe baby!). I'm just waiting for the day when my parents ask if I want my grandparents china cabinet.... Nope do not want; we are all full. I'm sure it's incredibly well built but it is most certainly heavy AF.
I also inherited the matching table set and the generational trauma of how to care for the dumb table was passed down by two different people. I could feel the judgement of my GrandMIL every time my kids pulled out the Play-Doh. We have been trying to rehab it from decades of Scott's Liquid Gold application. Turns out, the table was naturally a very pretty color.
Kaethor@reddit
It's currently in my older sister's house, so I don't have to think about it at all.
Crash217@reddit
I have one originally made in 1913. My grandmother and mother pulled it out of a chicken coop in the 1950s and restored it.
It’s filled with random liquor bottles/glasses, funeral pamphlets, my dad and dogs ashes etc.
We are apparently getting at least 3 sets of China and another couple of cabinets once my mom and my wife’s parents pass, absolutely no clue what we would ever do with all that.
ModernDayMusetta@reddit
I inherited my husband's grandmother's curio cabinets. They are filled with her collection of owl things, then some of my and my husband's anime shit sprinkled in.
Full-Ball9804@reddit
Left it in the garage of my old house when I moved. I hated that damn ugly thing. I don't need to have cabinets like my parents to store shit I never use. I just don't have the stuff.
effitalll@reddit
I’m so glad my parents are minimalists.
Ketzerfriend@reddit
I'll keep the booze, but remove the porcelain to replace it with retro games and old hardware.
frougle_mcdugal@reddit
Put a bunch of porcelain heads on display.
clutzycook@reddit
We inherited one from my husband's grandmother. I've never had china, obviously, so it holds my cookbooks, our undergraduate and graduate degrees, some photo albums, and various sentimental items.
sdzerog@reddit
I won't have to do anything. There isn't one. One benefit to growing up in a single parent, working class household, is there isn't much to worry about when it comes to material objects.
Allan_Halsey@reddit
Dumpster
jujumber@reddit
Fill it with drones and camera equipment!
Relative-Gas-1721@reddit
There was that episode of Six Feet Under where Nate finally acknowledges Lisa is dead and he just burns all of their shit. I daydream about letting go of stuff like that.
charliefussel@reddit
I would keep the display cabinet and probably put some of my Lego and sports memorabilia in it
actionerror@reddit
Never had one, not gonna get one now
Relative-Gas-1721@reddit
I think about this every time I go to their house
thefuckfacewhisperer@reddit
Straight to the trash
iwasnotarobot@reddit
I wonder how much lead was in those dishes?
Caslon@reddit
Wire it up with UV lighting and start acquiring that uranium glass collection I've been wanting.
AlchemistMustang@reddit
The finely curated, um, glass collection
Polybrene@reddit
I have glass in mine!
dragonfett@reddit
Put dragons in it
Miz_momo82@reddit
Sell most of the contents and the china cabinet in the estate sale 🤣 i have no use for the full set of Noritake china and lladro figurines
ManateeNipples@reddit
My dad's is full of the green uranium glass! It's ugly as hell but my kid has a Geiger counter and it does go off for that stuff so that's pretty cool lol. I really hope he sells it soon while it's trendy and actually worth something, it's so ugly and I really do not want to own it 🥲
XMXP_5@reddit
I'd put my uranium glass in it
Kahnza@reddit
Fill it with Uranium glass, and add some hidden UV lights to make them glow.
FoppyDidNothingWrong@reddit
My brother got it, my super nintendo, and my rare coin/currency collection. All of it got "lost" except the China Cabinet.
neonblackiscool@reddit
Fire wood?
minicpst@reddit
My brother has our mom’s. My dad has his mom’s. I don’t have one and I’m fine with that.
However, my gen z daughter begged for one, so she has her own new one. It literally weighs 500 pounds (I think it’s solid steel and lead or something ridiculous) and she loves it. I told her it was old fashioned and she didn’t care. That’s fine. It’s in her apartment, not my house.
butt_honcho@reddit
My grandpa made the one at Mom's house. Hell yes I'm keeping it.
andy_nony_mouse@reddit
It went to goodwill
Eric848448@reddit
My dad and stepmom recently sold their house and downsized. They had a bunch of stuff like this and a HUGE heavy dining room table. During the showing they stuck price tags on everything, not really thinking it would go anywhere.
The people who bought the house also bought everything! I won’t have to deal with it!
helikophis@reddit
It’s where I keep my fragile/rare books
sureal42@reddit
They are staying with the house... They aren't family pieces or anything, my mom just went out and bought fucking wall sized cabinets for their new house...
They are nice, but God damn are they big
chrisobrien13@reddit
Ours holds liquor and souvenirs from vacations
SlavaSobov@reddit
It'll be a new battleground for the Autobots and Decepticons. 😂
Ahshitbackagain@reddit
I bought one, ran LED's, and turned it into a sweet liquor cabinet.
Ultimate_Driving@reddit
We're going to rent a roll-off, and everything in the house is going to be dumped in there, minus a couple of pieces of antique furniture that would be cool to restore.
Texas-cane@reddit
Trying to talk my wife into getting rid of ours, it was her grandmother’s.
svv1tch@reddit
Dumpster? Some stuff is just old. Facebook marketplace for free first though always check if someone else wants it 👍
throwawayfromPA1701@reddit
It's where the booze is going. Or the games. Or both.
KrayzieBone187@reddit
Eventually try to live in it I figure.
echochilde@reddit
It was the first thing I donated.
LiiilKat@reddit
I bought a large curio cabinet from an estate sale in order to display my sizable anime figure collection.
My great-grandmother’s antique cabinet has been with my mom for my entire life, and has her curios and dishes in it. Chances are, it will go to my sister, but we’ll see. If it comes my way, then it could hold my video games collection with the game-related (anime) figures in it.
DarthPreytor@reddit
Legos.
BeerAandLoathing@reddit
The whiskey cabinet?
this_knee@reddit
Nobody wants to admit it, but eventually it just gets put into a box… then it gets put into storage … then it gets forgotten about … then it ends up being either thrown away or just sold or donated to good will.
_ism_@reddit
My partner's putting his black diamond glass collection in there (goth goblets and stuff)
DrunkShimodaPicard@reddit
Keep it!
radioflea@reddit
Put blown glass in it!
smooth_grooves@reddit
That photo gives me flashbacks of the alcoholics in my family who were always well equipped with booze in their china cabinets.
Character_Bend_5824@reddit
Replace all the halogens to LED, Windex the shelves, and brag about how you "restored" it.
GeetarEnthusiast85@reddit
I have a curio cabinet my mom gave me. I put childhood toys that hold sentimental value in it.
bcentsale@reddit
Our big one that matches our dining room set has our wedding stoneware in it, and then my mother-in-law's Christmas china Nov-Jan. Our smaller, antique one, has my collection of vintage cameras and lenses in it.
LetJesusFuckU@reddit
Lego
LetJesusFuckU@reddit
lil_grey_alien@reddit
When the inevitable time comes I’m going to either throw an estate sale or hire one of those auctioneers to clear out everything, save a few sentimental items
CatsEqualLife@reddit
I’m actually looking for a corner cabinet, but not to store China lol. I need one for books and my kids art supplies, since she does a lot of art in the “dining room.”