Learning new things at 57+
Posted by sjmadmin@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 24 comments
I remember reading an article where Tara VanDerveer, the legendary Stanford Women's basketball coach, learned to play piano. She said it was hard, but it gave her a greater appreciation for the frustrations players have when learning something new. It takes time and dedication, but if they stick at it, they'll pick it up.
During the pandemic, I knew I wanted to do something exciting and challenging. I had time, I mean, we all did. And stuck watching youtube videos. My mother never wanted us to ride motorcycles, and the way drivers were driving during the pandemic was suicidal.
So after watching a lot of videos, I took up the electric unicycle. Out of the "personal electric vehicles", (electric skatebord, OneWheel, electric scooter), I read it was the hardest to learn. But it looked fun. I saw older guys than me riding them down the street. I honestly don't know if I would ever want to try to learn this at 60 or 70 years old, so now is the time.
I bought one and practiced in the backyard. It is heavy than expected. 70 lbs. Standing on it and balancing was hard. I did it five minutes one night. The next, 10 minutes. Just holding the fence and standing on it, trying to balance. Each night, a little longer. Then out on the basketball court. Letting it fall, but determined to learn. My muscles ached. I banged up my shins. Spent more money on protective gear.
Then started down the sidewalk one night. I did this at night as I was too embarrassed to try it during the day. Then eventually around the block. Then through the residential streets around home.
NextDoor immediately was suspicious of this guy, riding this thing at night. Wondering if I was casing their house.
I eventually took it to a trail down the road. I rode out and back. Got a little farther, and then a little farther.
That was two years ago. Now I confidently (and safely . . . Mom. You aren't still hear, but I will forever hear your voice!) ride down quiet streets, or down trails.
Most importantly, when I see people of my generation on their bikes or hiking, I almost always get positive feedback. I always smile and wave when I go past. Partly, because our generation was taught to put on a "do not mess with me" face. But also, because I'm happy riding and vibing on this wonderful thing.
It's the closest thing to flying I'll ever personally feel. I move with my mind. Like walking, but with less effort. I wear full safety gear (helmet, riding jacket, wrist protecting gloves, knee/shin protection, sliding shorts, motorcycle boots). I have had one fall where I caught a speed wobble, but didn't fight the fall and slid safely to a stop. I did get a thorn in my finger. And a sore shoulder days later. But nothing else.
Most importantly, it gives me something to look forward to doing. I'm looking for places and trails to ride (away from cars as much as possible). For me, this has been the most rewarding "pandemic project" I could have picked up.
SergeantBeavis@reddit
I'm 54 and learning Japanese. I'm really overdue since my JAPANESE wife and I are having our 30th anniversary tomorrow. But these days I'm able to travel to Japan more often to visit the In-laws. They barely speak English and it's not fair to have my wife translating all the time.
I've been trying to learn guitar, but I cut off the ring finger of my fretting hand when I was 7yo. The doc put a pin into my finger when they reattached it and now I cannot move the last knuckle of that hand. Fretting a guitar is a bitch.
BTW, side note. After reading several studies, I started taking creatine to help improve cognitive function. It really does help.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
Creatine might be something I need to look into. Others on this forum have mentioned it as well.
Could your finger contribute to a slightly different sound? I know Ringo Starr plays a right-handed drum kit left-handed, which contributes to his unique sound.
SergeantBeavis@reddit
The problem for me is getting my ring finger over the fifth string without touching it. My knuckle won’t bend around that string.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
I wonder if there is a way to lower the 5th string without affecting the tone too much.
SergeantBeavis@reddit
I haven’t given that much thought. I wonder how lowering the action on one string (or raising it on the 6th) will impact the guitar as a whole.
You glorious bastid! You’ve given me something to look into. 👍
OE2KB@reddit
I’m 6’4’ 250. Got a little unicycle. I tried hard, but it was a no-go.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
They have newer ones that can accommodate heavier weights. You can also find lots of older begode wheels on FB marketplace because people are buying the newer Begode wheels.
Affectionate-Map2583@reddit
In the past 5 years, I've taken up dog agility and duckpin bowling. I've also learned some new woodworking skills/machines.
Not really in the learning category, but in the new things category, in the past 18 months, I've had my first ride in a helicopter, first (and second) ride in a very small airplane, and just yesterday, first ride on a racetrack going 120mph. I did actually fly the plane for a few minutes but was really just a passenger for all three.
OE2KB@reddit
Duckpin bowled for the first time last October!!! Fun!!!
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
Great to keep learning new things!
hapster85@reddit
I'm all for learning something new, but no, we didn't all have time for new things during the pandemic. Millions of us continued working right on through it, because we were classified as "essential". We only stayed home when we became infected.
FunnyFarmer5000@reddit
Essential worker here-worked right on through in a hospital for the entire pandemic with some overtime too. But remember, at that time we couldn’t go anywhere outside of work. There was still a ton of time because all the after work stuff was closed. I got so much done at home - had a great garden, cooked a LOT, read books, exercised. I wish I had thought of a learning project for the pandemic! But I’m taking Spanish lessons now - it’s so good for us to learn new things. OP makes me want to try a unicycle!
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
I mean, I worked throughout the pandemic, being an IT guy I still had to drive in to take care of servers and develop new ways to track who visited our offices. My job didnt stop. By all of my downtime meant I got tired of the same old stuff at home.
I live next to a hospital and a lot of people in my neighborhood work there. So they were working a lot more hours than normal. Lots of travel nurses coming into the area to help fill in all of the sick healthcare workers.
Also my mother was diagnosed with leukemia and passed within the year. It was tough. But working on something new helped a lot.
PhilosphicalZombie@reddit
Right before covid I decided to learn how to shave like my grandfathers did instead of the cartridge type of razor I learned on. Just wanted to learn a simple task my grandfathers did.
So, I bought a safety razor, double edge blades, shave brush, and shave soap. Turned out to be good self-care time. Almost meditative. Now not just a chore for the day and is instead pleasant me time.
Toward the end of covid, I decided to learn how to use an old-fashioned straight razor. I can now do this although the amount of care when using an open blade on one's face is a little less meditative. Still working on the sharpening but that is what I'm doing now.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
What a neat skill! So your grandfather's didnt use a straight razor? My cousin's kid just went through barber school and learned to shave with a straight razor. It sounds like usually people had a barber do the straight razor or you had a servant do it for you.
PhilosphicalZombie@reddit
Both my grandfather's used double edge safety razors, and my father used a combination of disposable safety razors and later cartridges (like Gillette Mach-3).
By the way the pass under the nose with a straight razor? Yeah, it is not easy and a bit scary when starting out.
Straight razors have been around longer than double edge safety razors. The modern version starting around 1680 in Sheffield England. Plenty of people shaved with them at home but yeah, it was a common barbershop service.
The first nearly modern safety razor with a replaceable blade appeared somewhere around 1880 with a US patent. Detachable blades existed before but were not the norm.
Gillette and their version of the double edge razor blade came around 1900 but really took off after being placed in soldiers grooming kits. It was advantageous to not have facial hair to get a good seal on your face mask to survive gas attacks. After the war Gillett's version of the double edge razor blade stuck and it became a fairly standard format. Being easier to use and maintain than a straight razor also helped. So, as far as I know neither of my grandfather's used a straight and instead used the double edge format. Neither had a straight in their personal belongings after passing away.
Although it could be a straight razor It is likely what your cousin's kid is using is probably a Shavette, also known as a barber's razor. It has a straight razor format but allows for a replaceable blade (often an artist club blade or half double edge razor blade / salon blade). These are easier to sanitize (and some states require a removeable blade) and easy to maintain. One of the tests required is removing shave cream off of a balloon without popping it. No way would I pass that.
If you are at all curious about trying any of these methods of shaving here are some reddit threads that would be helpful.
r/Wetshaving
r/wicked_edge
r/straightrazors
Anyway, have a good evening.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
Thanks for the info! You are a righteous dude!
DumpsterDoggie@reddit
Man, I've gotta up my game. Well done, all you constant learners.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
Go learn something you've always wanted to do! I mean, I dont ride roller coasters any more so I needed something thrilling. 😀
bizzylearning@reddit
I love all these stories!!
When I went back to school (blessedly, everything being online during the lockdown made it possible), I committed to taking ONE class each semester that was outside my wheelhouse. I figured it would stimulate other parts of my brain, and keep me from getting complacent or lazy.
Drawing I kicked. my. ass. I have never been SO stressed in a class in my life. But now, five years later, I do have one of my pieces up in the living room. It was an abstract assignment, and I had blisters from throttling the pencil as I worked... I was hunched up and trying to be "non-representative", or at least as close as I could get, when my daughter walked by and said, "Hey, you made a hole! Good job!" I looked, and yes, I had ACTUALLY managed to draw something that had depth. Holy cow, I have no idea how I did it. But there it is, in all it's shaded, black magic glory.
I got an A in the course. I got a bonus second degree in "integrated studies" from all the random courses I tucked in there. And I look at my little "hole" whenever I feel like maybe something is beyond my ability. It might be "for now", but it won't be if I get on it.
Longjumping_Code_649@reddit
Just before COVID I realized that I was trying to teach my adult students to have a growth mindset but I was still saying I can't..... So I took a watercolor painting class. I really love watercolors, even though I don't do much with them. My 3 1/2 year old granddaughter and I paint with watercolors every time we're together, and even though we're not making pictures, we're learning about color combinations and different brush patterns. I don't think I'll ever be a great artist, but I love the relaxation that comes from mixing and blending colors, and I adore sitting with my granddaughter and listening to her describe what we're doing.
soifua@reddit
I remember listening to an NPR interview with Noah Adams back in the day when was in early 50s and was talking about how he had decided to learn to play piano. I remember thinking, fuck that’s old.
Cut to today, I’m 55. Bought a keyboard last cyber Monday. Haven’t started learning but I will. Someday.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/382778.Piano_Lessons
dsclinef@reddit
I'm about to turn 60. During Covid I decided I wanted to learn how to play the drums. 5 years on and I'm still learning and loving it. 10 months ago I started a new career and am working on earning my PE license.
Keeping my brain challenged is the goal. Everything else may make unusual noises, but is i can keep the brain in shape I think everything will turn out alright.
sjmadmin@reddit (OP)
Rock on! I'm still proud of my 4 beats on my right, 3 beats on my left and pattern I learned back in band. Props to you on picking that up! And grats on your new career!