What movie did you watch without your parents' permission that they wouldn't otherwise have let you see?
Posted by Linzcro@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 716 comments
Question inspired by an interview I heard with Jenna Bush saying that her dad flipped out when someone showed them A Fish Called Wanda. It got me recollecting the times when I watched something I wasn't supposed to and got caught LOL My parents were pretty conservative and didn't like me watching sex scenes/rated R movies as a child.
I have two answers myself.
My mom was PISSED because one of my friend's moms let me watch Mermaids. I recently read the book and I get that there is a lot of sex in it, but can't remember exactly what their problem was so I might have to watch it again. I'll be sure to text my mom to let her know :)
Once I said I was going to some PG movie when they dropped me off at the movies but instead went to see Ghost. I can't remember how they found out but they did and weren't happy. It bit me in the ass though because the demons that drag the bad people to Hell still scares me LOL
I've always let my teen pretty much watch whatever because I figure she'd whether I like it or not, especially these days.
Trinikas@reddit
The only time my parents ever rented a movie that they didn't watch with us was Silence of the Lambs. I'd seen violent action movies before then but I was I think in 2nd grade so it was probably a good call. There's a big difference between a movie like Die Hard or Commando where it's just goodguys and badguys with guns versus the horror of that film.
I actually admitted to my mom a few years back that all the times I'd told her one of my childhood friends' mother had signed off on him watching R-rated movies at our house were a total lie. In our defense she refused to let him watch some stuff that was even appropriate for our age, the show "are you afraid of the dark" was considered "inappropriate" by his mom, but ironically she had no problems with us playing Doom on his dad's PC.
ElectrOPurist@reddit
Prestigious_Secret61@reddit
Along with the last channel button was staring at a scrambled station hoping to catch a brief glimpse of something naughty when it unscrambled for just a second.
Comfortable_Ninja842@reddit
Porkeys
toomuchtv987@reddit
My mom was really permissive with movies as long as there wasn’t too much violence or terrible graphic sex. I honestly can’t remember her forbidding any movies.
Which is weird because she did NOT want me watching Beavis and Butthead. 🤣 I had to watch it with the volume super low with my thumb on the “last channel” button.
stilesg57@reddit
Ha, Beavis and Butthead Do America was the first time I snuck into a movie in theaters that my parents did NOT want me to see
TopicPretend4161@reddit
I used to do that with the blurry Spice channel 😂
Always-just-a-friend@reddit
Me too. I could watch damn near whatever I wanted, except Beavis & Butthead. She hated that show. But I was a latch key kid so I could watch whatever anyway.
KCRoyalsFan402@reddit
"Thumb on the 'last channel' button" unlocked a core memory.
Haunting-Cranberry92@reddit
Same! “Me, watching The Simpson’s? Oh no, clearly I have been watching the News as you can see from the current channel…” 🤫
z12345z6789@reddit
You gotta set that last channel to something believable- plausible deniability.
My mom also initially hated me watching the Simpsons.
Budgiejen@reddit
I remember my parents didn’t want us watching the Simpsons. Then my older half-sister made a random visit to wreak havoc on our lives for a couple weeks, and she brought us all this merch. And watched it. So suddenly we were allowed to watch it.
Chuckpgh@reddit
Yep. Hurry and flip back to the Discovery channel.
Novel_Towel6125@reddit
I feel like every parent has that one thing that they irrationally hate.
My parents were also permissive. We were basically allowed to watch anything and everything except...The People's Court.
toomuchtv987@reddit
HA!!! Of all shows!!!
VincentVanGTFO@reddit
My mom set it up so I could rent R rated movies from the video rental store I would bike over to and rent from... and ended up working at for a decade, lol.
Still when I brought home "From Dusk til Dawn" I watched it with my finger on the pause button of the VHS player I'd saved my allowance for a year to buy from Sears for $130... and ended up being glad for my due diligence when my mom opened mu bedroom door to call me for dinner.
(I am old).
OkAdagio9622@reddit
I'm sorry to hear that.
I remember my mom dropping me and my brother off to see that movie. I think it was the first movie we watched in a theater, without some kind of supervision
round_is_funny@reddit
"Last Channel" - where is that tee-shirt? Nickelodeon (27) on channel, MTV (25) on the other.
einTier@reddit
You had to click “last channel” then change the station. It gave you plausible deniability of channel surfing and not “you changed the channel just as I walked in, what were you watching?” Plus, now last just went back to Nickelodeon or whatever.
PhilDemptee@reddit
Only on some remotes.
Some you could click once for last, click twice for two back, but then of course that reset the hierarchy so you'd have to hit two back twice to get back to where u were when you hit it once.
Princess_BoujeeBling@reddit
Me too!!! I was forbidden from MTV and I would watch every time I was home alone and loved it
toomuchtv987@reddit
EXACTLY.
justpassingby_thanks@reddit
Same. Diehard ok, Simpsons not ok. Yippee Kay ay futherfucker.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL My parents weren't wild about Beavis and Butthead and didn't like shows like "Married with Children". But when I tell you the number of times I walked in on my mom watching it and laughing is very high. "Fine for me but not for thee" and all that I guess.
elphaba00@reddit
I laughed so hard when they went to the Lululemon and Beavis got leggings.
MungoJennie@reddit
I had no idea this was a thing. What channel? streaming service? app? (Wtf do you say anymore?) is it on?
elphaba00@reddit
Paramount Plus
MungoJennie@reddit
Thank you!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
The newish movie they did “Beavis and Butthead Do the Universe” is pretty funny too. You’ll like it!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I did too! I also like the one where they think they “freaky Fridayed” because they thought they were looking into a mirror instead of a freezer door!
PercentageRoutine310@reddit
Mike Judge’s Beavis and Butt-Head (2022) is superior to the 90s one and the 2011 comeback on Comedy Central. Yes, they’re very funny. Better than the last 20 seasons of Family Guy.
grandma_millennial@reddit
I miss the music videos though. Discovered so many great bands that way
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's a hot take but I might agree with you. I love that they mock YouTube videos. I love the episodes where they are old (aka our age LOL). "Look, it's the Buttheads".
Have you seen the new King of the Hills? They are pretty good too.
toomuchtv987@reddit
She didn’t love Married With Children, either, but we still watched it. So arbitrary. 🤣
I have!! I also found videos on YouTube of the old music video breaks. Hilarious but also SO STUPID. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
So, so stupid. But it hits the spot after a stressful day!
Both-Condition2553@reddit
I watched basically any movie I wanted (including things like Trainspotting and The Commitments, where the most common word is the f-word), but my mom did NOT let me watch The Simpsons, because Bart was “fresh.” TO THIS DAY, I have never seen an episode.
toomuchtv987@reddit
Not fresh! 🤣
elphaba00@reddit
My cousin didn’t have cable at his house so he’d go to our grandma’s place to watch Beavis and Butthead, except she couldn’t say it right and called it Buttkiss and Dickhead. She didn’t realize what she was saying. Grandma had all sorts of unintended phrases
toomuchtv987@reddit
That’s a much better name!!
GeorgeLCostanza251@reddit
Will never forget I was at my grandmas watching some "naughty" stuff on MTV in the back bedroom. Obviously I had the back button set for Nickelodeon. It was the summer so it was probably a rocket power marathon on. Anyways she comes barging in. I go to smash the back button and turn around to say hello. I was laying on the bed facing the tv with my back to the door. This is important because I had to turn my head completely from the tv to greet her. Well her face was startled to put it mildly. She sort of winced and made up an excuse and left. When I turned back to the TV I realized the error of my ways. Rather than "back" I'd hit the "up channel" button. It was now on BET and playing some music video that was just straight up big bootied black women bouncing their asses. I'm white my grandma is an old white southern lady born in the 30's in rural Alabama. She never brought it up again. 🫡
toomuchtv987@reddit
DECEASED.
To this day I don’t like having my TV or computer screen set up so my back is to the door.
GeorgeLCostanza251@reddit
Dude SAME. This convo helped bring out that trauma and show its source.
Gorkymalorki@reddit
Same here, except somehow I watched Porky's with my older brothers one time when my parents weren't home. They got really mad at my older brothers.
toomuchtv987@reddit
NOT PORKY’S!!!! 🤣
svu_fan@reddit
Hahaha, my dad was like that. Let me watch Fast Times at Ridgemont High when I was 10(!!!!!!!), which is VERY DECIDEDLY inappropriate for a 10yo to see, yet didn’t want me watching Married With Children.
Explain that 90s parenting logic to me. 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
redheadedfury@reddit
god bless that “last channel” button!!! saved me many a time as a teen
PuzzleheadedStage426@reddit
What if the graphic sex was superb quality?
toomuchtv987@reddit
I mean…I saw plenty of sex scenes! And nudity, too! I’m not sure what her threshold was for “graphic”, frankly. 🤣
shlomitisfeisty@reddit
My niece and I are both Gen X. For me it was The Exorcist. For her it was Crocodile Dundee!
Organic-Log4081@reddit
Ordinary People
zoezephyr@reddit
I get nightmares.
HistoricalTowel1127@reddit
Blue lagoon with Brooke shields.
Gettingoffonit@reddit
I remember sneaking at the top of the stairs late at night to watch Beavis and Butthead while my dad was watching it on TV. Back then I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t allowed to watch I it. Now I can’t understand why my dad wanted to.
ilikethepole@reddit
Showgirls. Age 12 or 13. But it’s appropriate. I’m gay. Lol
HojonPark4077@reddit
Porkies
Effective-Suit1544@reddit
My parents never knew what movies I watch when I was babysitting back in the ‘70’s. I watched a lot of movies, but they would mostly be edited or censored on TV.
patrikbrth@reddit
X-files series - the intro of that was the final warning to go to bed when I as like 11-12 years old on Sundays at 10:30 pm😂
JeremyBake@reddit
Fun story from growing up. Divorce parents, coming home from dad's weekend, my mom said "I just saw the most horrific movie. there was this semi with a goblin face on it..." Me and both my brothers pipe up, "Oh yeah. Maximum Overdrive. we love that. Watch it all the time at dad's" The horror on her face. For reference we would have been around 13, 10, and 7 roughly.
So half my parents were mad.
Reasonable-Coconut15@reddit
The only movie I wasn't allowed to watch was Fast Times at Ridgemont High, and my parents are both too old to remember why they wouldnt let me. I have never figured it out. There was nothing in that movie that I hadn't seen in another movie, but I had to sneak to see that one.
thisplateoffood@reddit
They played 9 1/2 weeks on network television in like 1991. I was maybe 11? It was scrubbed but still nuts.
I grew up close enough to Canada that sometimes I’d see the art films they play at 3:00am and I miss that mysterious feeling
Sapiophile23@reddit
White Men Can't Jump. I was 12. I don't remember which movie I said I was going to and she never followed up more than "did you have fun?"
MajorlyCynical@reddit
I remember watching Nightmare on Elm st when I was 8. I thought it was hilarious.
BarbFinch@reddit
When my step sister and I were about 11-12 we snuck into a double feature of The Doors and Madonna’s Truth or Dare.
_probably_a_bird_@reddit
I stood behind the bathroom door and watched Mars Attacks through the crack. Not that they wouldn't ever let me see it, but it was way past my bedtime and they definitely told me no.
Putrid-Catch-3755@reddit
Toxic avenger, Kentucky fried movie and flesh Gordon and the cosmic cheerleader
DefendTheStar88x@reddit
Red shoe diaries iykyk
ClownMeat1@reddit
Nomads. Pierce Brosnan, 1986, I think. I was 9 years old and found the VHS rental and watched it. The sex scene inspired me for years.
Jokierre@reddit
The Gate. It absolutely didn’t warrant the concern, either.
Expert_Ad_1189@reddit
Definitely saw that very young. The concept was terrifying to me, but the movie itself is just goofy.
neodraykl@reddit
I actually just decided to rewatch this. It more tame than I remembered.
Jokierre@reddit
Right?? It’s laughable.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I had to look that one up because I don't know it. Maybe they were just worried it would scare you. My parents weren't as worried about scary stuff and in fact showed me tons of Alfred Hitchcock's movies before I was 10 LOL
Jokierre@reddit
I missed out on all the good horror movies due to that fact. By the time I was old enough in their eyes, Elm Street was considered tame and its scares were mostly lost on me.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
It's easy to get desensitized to some of that stuff. Thanks for answering!
HappyGimp@reddit
Trilogy of Terror, it was on late at night and I managed to watch the whole movie without waking my parents. Much to my regret.
BluciferBdayParty@reddit
Story time.
My sister and I chose Mermaids on VHS for our weekend movie. We were allowed to watch G, PG, and PG-13. No rated R.
Mermaids, even though it’s PG-13, has so much sex in it. My mom got PISSED and banned PG-13 movies based on that movie alone.
Secret_Elevator17@reddit
1990, ABC had a miniseries of Stephen King's It, the Tim Curry version.
I was 6. Still don't like clowns or spiders or sewers.
Maia_Azure@reddit
I watched a Stephen king movie too young. Nightmares for a long time. I could not tell my mom why I was so scared because then she’d know I put in the Stephen king VHS
BlackPhoenix1981@reddit
I've always read that our generation's problem was we all read or watched Stephen King movies or books way too early in life. That's why we are the way we are.
Maia_Azure@reddit
Ha as well as scary stories and Christopher pike books
CrouchingDomo@reddit
Oooooh which movie, was it “Cat’s Eye”?
Maia_Azure@reddit
Sometimes they come back and pet semetary
pineapples_are_evil@reddit
Oh fuck. Pet Semetary... yeah. That'll do it. That or freaking TommyKnockers
FooFightingManiac@reddit
My wife tells me about this one. I never watched it or It but she scarred me for life with her explanations
Just_another_Lab_Rat@reddit
Similar experience. 1991, a friend’s house, RoboCop 2 on LaserDisc. I was 9. Still don’t like privatized cops, corporate propaganda, strike-breaking unions, or cyborgs stuffed full of PR-friendly directives.
Flipps85@reddit
When I was in 6th grade they put it on for the whole middle school over the TV system on Halloween because a kid brought it in. Not cool
AllyLB@reddit
I watched that WITH my parents. I was 8. It was the whole family (mom, dad and two older brothers).
Rygaaar@reddit
That shit was utterly terrifying.
TangledUpPuppeteer@reddit
Omg, thank you for finally explaining why I hate spiders and sewers! I never made the connection… but yeah, ditto. I was older but still not old enough to handle… that!
smokiechick@reddit
I used to curl up with my gram and watch TV with her in her bed. Dallas or Matlock or whatever... One night she turned on It. We watched with the covers pulled up over our noses so we could pull them all the way up when it was scary. All I could remember was Pennywise's face. So when I read it at 14... That was when I started drinking coffee.
BrucetheFerrisWheel@reddit
I still like that one better than the new one. Tim Currys IT is freaky af. Nostalgia I guess.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh no. I HATE the part where the dead kid's picture winks. I am currently reading the book but it's kind of hard to get through because it is so long.
Effective_Cable6547@reddit
Same! His voice comes over the radio and screams at Bill in the book. That part bothered me into early adulthood because I used to keep the radio playing when I first moved into my own place and things felt too eerily quiet.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh I forgot about that part. Now I am scared haha
BrattyTwilis@reddit
Yeah. I was about the same age when it came on TV, and my parents were like, "Nope, it'll give you nightmares!" and had me go play in my bedroom when it came on. They let me watch it a few years later when I was like 10 or 11
firewifegirlmom0124@reddit
This! I was 10 when I watched the miniseries but only 7 when I read the book. I wasn’t allowed to read flowers in the attic as a preteen but Stephen King at 7 was ok????
beanstone2180@reddit
Growing up my dad would rent movies every weekend and we watched what he watched. If we didn't like it or weren't interested we could go to our rooms. Mom and dad figured I was home watching it with them so it was fine, whatever it was. We watched it all, except for porn which he kept for himself...
DarkenL1ght@reddit
In Kindergarten or the 1st grade, as a reward at the end of the school year, the teachers let us watch TMNT. However I was not allowed to watch because my teachers knew how strict my parents were, and knew that the movie said "Damn!". A couple of years later my Dad let me rent "Arachnophobia" not having a clue what it was. Scared the ever living piss out of me.
Skitzafranik@reddit
Nightmare on Elm Street or any horror movie of that era, Porkys , Revenge of the Nerds
Economy-Mango7875@reddit
Pulp fiction when it came out on VHS. My buddy had an older brother. We stole it and watched it. I was 11 or 12. Nobody move! This is a robbery! Amazing movie. Next was full metal jacket the the warriors
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
My husband let our daughter watch Pulp Fiction at 8!! She liked it so much that she got a movie poster and it's still hanging up 9 years later. Her grandparents were not pleased of course but I gotta admit she's got good taste.
Economy-Mango7875@reddit
My dad took me at 13 to see event horizon at the movie theater. I've been a horror fan ever since. Not the best movie but it holds a good spot in my heart
One_Improvement_6729@reddit
Player's Club
PjWulfman@reddit
Your parents paid attention to what you read amd watched? As long as they couldn't see or hear me I could ingest anything i wanted to. One of the perks of having parents who couldn't care if i was alive or dead.
SlackerDS5@reddit
More like what movie didn’t I watch without their permission?
We never had cable until I was almost in high school. But Skinemax and HBO would have free viewing weekends. My older brother and 7 year old me watched everything.
ckuhn84@reddit
Natural Born Killers
SuperVillainPresiden@reddit
USA Up All Night with Joe Bob Briggs. Watched a bunch of random movies hoping to see boobs. Had about a 33% success rate.
evila_elf@reddit
Se7en. It was the one movie my mom forbid me to watch. So I rented it when I went to a friends house and we were both looking up the seven deadly sins to figure out who would bite the dust next.
International_Act966@reddit
My father took me to see Pretty Woman and Schindlers List in the theater. I was 8.
Velvet_Samurai@reddit
All of the Friday the 13th movies. At first they thought were just too scary. Then when they realized they had boobs and sex and people getting killed while having sex it became more about that.
keeksmann@reddit
Mommy Dearest when I was around 7 or 8.
HowToNotMakeMoney@reddit
Interview with the vampire. Yep. I’m old.
MirthRock@reddit
Stand By Me, sleeping over a friend's house in 3rd grade.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
You know they didn't want me watching this one either. I watched it for the first time fairly recently and I don't really understand why aside from maybe some cussing and boys just being little shits.
MirthRock@reddit
I think maybe it was the whole finding a body thing for my parents, but I agree. It does seem pretty tame now.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That’s true! Some folks don’t appreciate the macabre.
Mundane-Shape-1948@reddit
Kids and Boogie Nights
PrincessSarahHippo@reddit
I was chilling watching Boogie Nights and my dad walked into the room right as Marky Marky is giving his giant plastic dick a motivational speech. My mind went blank, the only thing I could think to say was, 'It's fake you know."
Budgiejen@reddit
I thought they didn’t show his schlong til the last scene.
PrincessSarahHippo@reddit
I believe so and that's what made his timing so bad. It's been eons, but I remember it was at the end of the movie and he was having trouble performing. I think he was standing in front of a mirror?
I would have been in my later teens and but my parents could be pretty conservative- Southern Baptist and everything. I think my dad just walked away from this one.
grandma_millennial@reddit
That totally makes it ok then, right?! 😂
ProjectMomager@reddit
These were my two as well!
Parking-Till1121@reddit
Was just gonna say Kids. We all watched it at the house with the “cool parents”. I was in middle school at the time.
toomuchtv987@reddit
Kids is legit traumatizing.
nounthennumbers@reddit
I had nightmares for years
Ch4rlie_G@reddit
Which parts?
nounthennumbers@reddit
I had nightmares that I was diagnosed with HIV. Of course that was compounded by the AIDS epidemic.
Jokierre@reddit
Kids teaches more about safe sex in its final minutes than any parent could.
thisismeritehere@reddit
…. During the rape? I think you might have missed a lesson there
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Really good point.
dndhdhdjdjd382737383@reddit
Those two movies are in two completely different categories, like oh my gosh
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I still haven't seen Boogie Nights and I watched Kids in my 20s. It freaked me out but was so good!
AltairStarlight@reddit
First Blood
larryb78@reddit
For me it wasn’t a movie but rather Married With Children. Had to sneak it in whenever possible so I could be in the conversation at the bus stop the next morning
Atrocity108@reddit
Full Metal Jacket
I got grounded for a month
bruisevwillis@reddit
When I was 5, some friends of my parents babysat me. They had twin girls, and these twin girls were 7. The twins put on Child's Play. I watched it from behind the couch.
motherofguineapigz@reddit
Jaws. We didn't really get it. My dad was really defensive of animals and was in the mindset that Bruce was misunderstood.
Ex-PFC_WintergreenV4@reddit
My best friend’s dad took us all to see The Silence of the Lambs for his 10th birthday party.
bruisevwillis@reddit
Silence of the Lambs was my parent's first date. My Mom was 18 and from a very sheltered family in a small town. My Dad was 30 and had already been to a million countries. The relationship was doomed to fail.
silveroxide@reddit
I watched it accidentally. I expected baby sheep. And there was a butterfly on the poster. O_o
LabRatGardener@reddit
I attended a sleepover where someone got the bright idea to put on The Silence of the Lambs at midnight. It ended with a bunch of traumatized 12 year olds.
addymermaid@reddit
Not a movie, but I used to sneak downstairs to watch Tales from the Crypt. I got in trouble a few times, but I loved the show!
Flipps85@reddit
Old School came out when I was in 8th grade. My brothers rented it and watched it with my parents. The next day, 2 of my friends and I took it and watched it. Absolutely amazing
guilen@reddit
Nightmare on Elm Street pt. 3. My first boobs (that I can remember lol)
lanakickstail@reddit
Lord probably all of them. We had cable and all the premium movie channels growing up, so I was exposed to stuff far too early. My love of horror movies started way too young. The earliest horror movie I remember watching was Fright Night at 5 years old WITH my dad, sitting with him in his big brown recliner chair. And it definitely wasn’t the first time watching it either. Saw way too many Skinemax movies when young too.
Tapingdrywallsucks@reddit
My parents weren't particularly happy when I saw Star Wars without their permission. I don't know if it was the movie, or that it was my first movie going with only friends, one of whom drove.
ChanceTheGardenerrr@reddit
Risky Business 🫨
OkFeedback9127@reddit
Risky Business
ladyzowy@reddit
Barbarella and Flesh Gordon. It was always on late night TV here in Canada on a Friday night blue to red run.
Barbarella is still one of my favs.
Ziggity_Zac@reddit
The Last Cowboy. I was in 6th grade. My buddy and I snuck in. Wild ride for an 11 year old.
Ok_Equal7311@reddit
Beavis and Butthead do America when it was in theaters
Petraaki@reddit
I stayed up late to watch Platoon with my brother on network tv without my parents knowing. I think I was 12? I didn't sleep the rest of the night. I'm sure it was an edited version, but the story is incredibly bleak even without gore or sex
Hovertical@reddit
I didn't have any restrictions from any age at what movies I was allowed to watch so this is a totally foreign concept to me. I have a 14yr old nephew who isn't allowed to watch anything that's above PG unless it's Star Wars or Fast and the Furious series (because his parents are obsessed with those). Dude came to me wanting to see the Nolan Batman films because his friend at school told him they were so good and his mom said nope when asked. Instead she selected that awful Nic Cage Ghostrider movie (PG-13) for him as a "special treat" provided his dad, grandfather, and myself were also present to watch it with him.
emski72@reddit
I dunno - our first VCR hire movie was The Elephant Man 😂 seriously who thinks an 8 y.o would enjoy that. We pretty much watched whatever we wanted as long as it wasn't X rated in the 80's.
elroyonline@reddit
I saw the American edit of Fukkatsu no Hi (AKA Virus) when I was about 6 or 7. It was just randomly on TV and I watched the whole thing. I can still remember being freaked out by it. There’s a scene at the end where the only survivor is telling the story of everything that has happened to a skeleton. The scene hammered home the sense of isolation and loneliness that the dude must have been feeling - it still haunts me to this day. A few years back I tracked down the original Japanese version of the film - and man, what a corker of a movie it is. So much better than the US edit.
-threefeetoffun-@reddit
Holy crap I just realized I can watch "The Book of Love" now!
Goudinho99@reddit
I distinctly t'emmener renting C.H.U.D from the video van one summer whilst my parents were working.
That van let us rent anything!
Anyway, huge mistake. Was terrified to the core.
Former_Balance8473@reddit
I had a TV in my room from when I was six... and we lived next to a drive-in theatre and saw everything they showed for like 10 years.
Apprehensive-Fig3223@reddit
American History X
Illustrious_Tap3171@reddit
Fun story: super religious parents, I was allowed to watch select Disney movies, other select movies (homeward bound and other movies that traumatized us), and veggietales. The only exposure to pbs and weekend cartoons were the times at my grans house.
Then in 4th grade I got removed from my parents house and placed with my grandmas house for the first time, she taught me what my mom’s PIN code was and how to bypass parental controls. She wanted me to have an average life. She then brought my cousin who has always been my favorite or one of them, who wasn’t raised in SDA over and handed him the remote and said “she needs education on movies and music, we have at least the entire weekend.” That weekend I got introduced to Costco hot dogs, bacon, and a ton of movies.
Every time when CPS would place me with gran, she’d bring over a cousin and do the same thing until I ran away a month or so after my 17 birthday.
banality_of_ervil@reddit
I was explicitly told not to watch The Cable Guy because my crazy conservative mom read a review that triggered her. My friends and I devised a plan to trick her about which movie we went to, but being the psycho that she is, she followed us to the theater and busted me when I went home. I got grounded for watching The Cable Guy
passivezealot@reddit
Beavis and Butthead do America
Difficult-Mountain36@reddit
Porkys…
thatsalliknow@reddit
Nightmare on Elm Street at a friend’s sleepover. My parents’ rule was PG only. Watched it anyway. I was terrified. Sometimes your folks know better when you’re 9.😂
One_Maize1836@reddit
My parents let me watch basically anything except porn. I watched Poltergeist at 6 and Dirty Dancing at 10.
El_Hefe_Ese@reddit
Well, the poltergeist was rated PG (!!!). Imagine getting that passed today. Scariest movie ever made
thatsalliknow@reddit
In our house we call that “1980s PG” As in: Should we let our 4 year old watch Gremlins? Of course not! But isn’t it PG…? Yeah, but it’s 1980s PG. 😂
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's right! I recently learned that. How bizarre.
sk3tchy_D@reddit
PG-13 didn't exist yet (this movie likely helped bring it about) and the creators fought to keep it from getting R.
Expensive-Signal8623@reddit
Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom pushed us into PG13 territory. It was the big movie that started it
Budgiejen@reddit
That and Short Circuit. That’s should’ve been PG-13
svu_fan@reddit
And even after PG-13 was introduced (1984), the criteria on what made a movie PG-13 was sketchy for the first decade.
Gremlins (1984) and The Goonies (1985) are both PG, and so is Roger Rabbit (1988), all movies that should very much be PG-13. 😅
Illustrated-skies@reddit
Wow, that’s crazy! And the Breakfast Club is rated R!
HurryLocal1006@reddit
I watched Dirty Dancing at 10 too, my dad would toss us up over his arms like Baby. Lol we did those dances for my 5th grade end of year class dance.
antifrenzy@reddit
omg that’s so cute for the 5th grade end of year dance! the girls in my school did a 6th grade end of year dance and we did the dance from Priscilla Queen of the Desert 😂
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That makes me feel better considering we let my daughter watch Pulp Fiction at like 8. :) Of course her grandparents did NOT like that LOL
grandma_millennial@reddit
I saw Pulp Fiction WITH my mom at age 11. She never cared what I watched but did cover my eyes at the gimp scene!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I still cover my eyes during that scene 🤣
antifrenzy@reddit
lol same!
hypothetician@reddit
Lot of awkward questions about anal rape and gimps and heroin abuse and whatnot after that one I imagine.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL I'll say! I will say she's a good kid and I'll also say that she still has the movie poster on her wall all these years later. Must have resonated with her!
She also has the soundtrack on vinyl. It's definitely a supreme one.
Budgiejen@reddit
I totally didn’t get dirty dancing. Like the ab*rtion plot.
PrincessSarahHippo@reddit
I watched Poltergeist at 7 but that was because of a babysitter who never got hired again. My mom still brings it up occasionally so I am pretty sure there were nightmares.
EyelandBaby@reddit
SAME!! Except I don’t know if my parents ever found out. I STILL don’t like looking in the bathroom mirror alone at night.
ResurgentClusterfuck@reddit
My little sister must have watched Dirty Dancing 900000 times, trying to master the dance moves
DariosDentist@reddit
This is me. It was like ET at 4, Star Wars at the age of 5. Terminator at the age of 6. The whole Friday the 13th series at the age of 7. Where do you go from there?
Moofabulousss@reddit
Dirty dancing was my favorite movie when I was 5-7. It’s still a favorite! I also watched poltergeist way too young.
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
Same, probably about how old I was when I saw Poltergeist.
And not much older when they were out of the house and we found the porn, too... magazines and VHS, and condoms, and the dildo...
toomuchtv987@reddit
SAME!!!! OMG SAME!!! I used to give her so much shit for it, too, as an adult. She would just laugh and say I turned out fine.
DaughterofJan@reddit
I think I saw Robocop for the first time when I was six or seven. I don't think that I had my mother's permission, or if I did, she didn't know what kind of film it was.
I fucking loved it, though, and we rented it a bunch of times.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
Man the scene where the robot turns dude into hamburger still haunts me to this day. I literally haven’t watched Robocop again bc of this scene
DaughterofJan@reddit
Somehow I thought the scene where Bob Morton watches the video and the hand grenade is on the table the most chilling.
The goriest for me was when one of the bad guys gets covered in acid and melts.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Funny you mentioned that because there were times where my parents didn't know a movie so I could get away with it. The ones they explicitly forbid were ones they'd seen already and deemed inappropriate.
DaughterofJan@reddit
But once I'd already seen it, it was like "oh well" and I remember renting it at least another dozen times. She wasn't that strict with that kind of content to begin with.
We watched Twin Peaks together when I was 11. The nightmares Bob gave me. Oh boy.
SuccessfulBenefit972@reddit
Night of the living dead aged 9, followed up with Silence of the lambs aged 10! At a friends who had SUPER relaxed parents. Nice people. Also, it was a sleep over and we camped out in a tent. In the rain. With a tiny tv leading all the way from the house (plugged in) into the drippy wet tent 😅 Glad I’m still around to tell the tale tbh
2cstars@reddit
In middle school my Sunday school class teachers took is to the movies. We picked To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything! Julie Newmar. Totally didn't get why most of the parents had a problem with it until way later. Still think it's great and would recommend.
Content_Talk_6581@reddit
TangledUpPuppeteer@reddit
The old lady that befriends Noxie is the librarian in ghostbusters.
OkAdagio9622@reddit
I remember, as a kid, being curious about the movie. Even back then RuPaul was all over the place, so it wasn't weird to see a drag queen
I still haven't seen it, but I guess I should
Budgiejen@reddit
That was very popular with my high school friends because it was filmed here.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
I’ve still never seen this
strippersandcocaine@reddit
Oh you must! I’m off to see if it’s streaming anywhere now!
a_solid_6@reddit
This is still one of my favorite movies lol
"Little Latin boy in drag, WHY are you crying?"
Mission_Tip7003@reddit
Maybe he found out Menudo broke up
TirNannyOgg@reddit
Same here lol. So good! The basketball scene with Noxeema always kills me.
cat_at_the_keyboard@reddit
I love both this movie and The Birdcage
Mission_Tip7003@reddit
There’s something you need to know about Vita.
She works out.
Yeah, a lot.
Ch4rlie_G@reddit
Birdcage is one of my favorite movies ever made
Hotspiceteahoneybee@reddit
Oh I can see why a church group might have concerns, lol! I ADORE this movie and couldn't wait to share it with my kids too. My daughter is 21 now and it's still one of her faves.
Moneymovescash@reddit
That's iconic!!!
2cstars@reddit
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
He's still foxy even in that get up :D
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
OMG I loved this one :D That was another one that I got away with watching at a friends house.
Beneficial_Potato_85@reddit
Terminator 2 baby! Thanks Aunt Lynn!
anOvenofWitches@reddit
First one was “Ruthless People”—dragged along to a mom work house party and they had it on tape plus VCR, and mom was sufficiently distracted. I really should go back and rewatch it as I remember loving it.
SoCalChrisW@reddit
Came here for this. We had it on betamax. I still love this movie.
Pinkleton@reddit
This was the first R-rated movie that my dad bought when we got our first vcr! I remember it was the only non-Disney movie in a hard case. I still have never seen it. But we also had Revenge of the Nerds and Spaceballs which I've watched hundreds of times.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I don't think I've seen that one. Might have to check it out!
anOvenofWitches@reddit
Bette Midler is outstanding in it! I think the draw for us kids was Helen Slater. It must have been right around when “Supergirl” came out
MrFluff120427@reddit
Pet Cemetery for me. My older cousins were watching it and I hid under a small table and watched when I was 7.
Longjumping-Bill-958@reddit
The Craft. My dad sent me and my sister (12 and 10 yo at the time) down to the corner store to rent a couple movies for the weekend. He flipped and said absolutely not. Went off about demonic presences and inviting things like that into your life. Which was wild because my father was adamantly anti-religion.
But anyway, we set my watch alarm for 4am and got up and watched it before anyone else woke up, rewound the tape and put it back. He never knew.
PeanutbutterDaydream@reddit
I had a similar incident with that movie and was 13 when it came out on DVD. I stayed over at a friend's house one night and her parents had rented and already watched it, so we went, what the hell, and started it up for ourselves. Her mom came in her room about halfway through the movie and freaked out that we would get "ideas about trying horrible things". Uhhhh, ok lady...
That year at Christmas, I asked for a DVD player for my bedroom and a list of movies, The Craft being one of them. My parents just said, "whatever, you're the one that chose it".
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
"We are the weirdos" Good movie.
CallidoraBlack@reddit
My dad dropped us off to see 8mm when none of us was old enough to watch it. The theater didn't really care. It was awkward when we found out what it was really about. We said nothing because we never would have been allowed to go alone again.
Hazeyjohn2@reddit
Every single Hammer House of Horror episode
Beetso@reddit
How old were you when you went to see Ghost? I mean it was just a PG-13, so it's not like you snuck into an R-rated movie. Definitely not worth getting super pissed about!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I wouldn’t say that they were SUPER pissed. I would have been 10. I’d lied and they were really conservative so they were peeved. I’m still paying for it by my own accord like I said because while it’s funny (thank you Whoopee) it’s also scary.
Beetso@reddit
LOL. I just thought the all caps of the word pissed denoted a high level of pissed-offdom.
EverythingIsCreepy@reddit
Platoon
jackfaire@reddit
The Granny 1995 horror movie I saw on late night TV
PomegranateFickle745@reddit
I watched “My Girl” when I was 9 and cried uncontrollably for at least an hour or at least that’s what it felt like). I knew I wasn’t allowed to watch it so when the adults questioned me, I didn’t answer and just said I was really sad so they circled me and started praying for me. It’s hilarious when I think about it now
Affectionate-Song230@reddit
Wayne’s World was the first specific movie I can remember. We were forbidden from anything PG-13 being young Mormon kids. I watched that and Ace Ventura and thought they were the funniest movies ever. I showed them to my kids when they were probably much too young for it.
jpzygnerski@reddit
When I was 8 or so I was at day camp and they decided to show us a movie because it was raining. They sent someone out to the video store and that person brought back the Breakfast Club and put it on for a group of 6-10 year olds. My mother got upset when I told her. All we kids knew was that the movie was really boring. They turned it off after 10 minutes because we all complained. To this day I've never actually seen the whole movie.
wastelandtx@reddit
Showgirls
monty08@reddit
Evil Dead 2 when I was a kid like maybe 7-8.
BIG MISTAKE
That scene of his dead wife digging herself out of the grave still traumatizes me.
londongas@reddit
Probably when me cousins and I found our uncle's porn stash. We were like 4-7y probably
RonIsIZe_13@reddit
When I was about 8 I was at a party with my family, kids and all. It started getting late and the tv had been left on so I started watching a movie. I was already not really controlled in what movies I'd be allowed to watch, w.g I'd seen kindergarten cop, the crow, terminator 2. And this film was just incredible, the quiet eeriness, the spaceship with its old style tech, the tension, the stupid cat. A few nights later I woke up and swore I saw a Xenomorph walk past my door... Then it was onto robocop, mad Max etc etc. my parents were od the opinion of it was a good film I could watch it.
Diseman81@reddit
Outside of porn I can’t think of anything my parents wouldn’t let me watch. If there was nudity/sex they’d just tell me to close my eyes which I never did.
tom_tofurkey@reddit
I’m convinced that seeing Purple Rain at age 7 negatively affected my intimate partner relationships in early adulthood.
horsenamedmayo@reddit
Seven.
I wasn’t allowed but my aunt gifted it to me for Christmas. She hid it in a gift box under pajamas and underwear. She didn’t want to be busted in case my mom pulled a “hold it up, show everyone what you got!” moment. She knew I wouldn’t be asked to hold up underwear.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
What a cool aunt!
sonsofthedesert@reddit
Porkys
sully213@reddit
Without permission...not many. But watched it with them were titles like Porky's, Up the Creek, Hardbodies, Revenge of the Nerds....all the old raunchy 80's comedies. Probably explains a lot 🤣
Capital_Pin_3553@reddit
My parents let me watch The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas when I was 3, still one of my very favorite movies to this day. There really was no limit to what I could watch.
Tia_Baggs@reddit
My friends and I went to Interview with the Vampire when we were in middle school instead of whatever movie we were supposed to see. I don’t know if my mom would have cared since she took me along with her to Pulp Fiction that same weekend because she didn’t want to go to the movies alone. (This is the same woman who was fine with me watching Silence of the Lambs with her and laughed when I ended up running from the room). R rated movies were apparently no big deal but I caught hell for all of my cassettes with the parental advisory stickers and for reading my dad’s Stephen King books.
PnutButrSnickrDoodle@reddit
Scream. I also was raised by conservatives who didn’t let us watch rated R movies.
GooseNYC@reddit
Lipstick on HBO c. 1977 or 1978, probably when I was 9 or 10.
basicallyme_247@reddit
I was 12 and my friend had the South Park movie on DVD so we watched it at his house (I'd never really watched the show and my parents like all others at the time thought it was "toilet humor TV")
When my mom asked what movie we watched at his house I panicked and said "Scarface" because that was the first thing I thought of for some reason and she commended me for taking an interest in the "cinematic arts".
I just smiled and nodded when she asked how I felt about "the chainsaw scene with the friend in the bathroom". To this day I still haven't actually seen Scarface lol
AncientHorror3034@reddit
Nothing. My parents said I could watch anything as long as I didn’t have nightmares.
I had a few nightmares but didn’t tell them. Didn’t want my horror movie permission revoked. Nothing was barred.
One night, my mom let me rent “Faces of Death” from Blockbuster, we watched it together. We ended up stopping as a mutual decision.
Since there was no restriction, I often witnessed sex scenes in horror movies. My parents absolutely would have restricted soft core porn or just flat out porn. But ewwwww, no one would ever watch that, near or around their parents.
To this day, I absolutely love horror movies!
lonely_nipple@reddit
Poltergeist. I don't remember why, now, but I was by myself around 13yo at my grandmother's house one afternoon, so I was watching TV and it beats hell out of me how I found it, but I did.
By the time it was about 2/3 through it had gotten dark out, but I was curled up on the opposite end of the sofa from the closest lamp. Damn near pissed myself when the phone rang.
Goldenwing1995@reddit
For Keeps. I got in so much trouble for watching that. 😂😂
Significant_Dog412@reddit
My parents could be maddeningly inconsistent with what I was and wasn't allowed to watch, but they kind of had the acceptance that whatever I happened to watch at my Grandparents or a friends house was not their business.
My Grandparents would let me rent anything that wasn't obvious porn, and when they got satellite TV (which my parents always refused), it opened a whole new world of forbidden TV to teenage me.
splatgoestheblobfish@reddit
My mom was the same way. She was okay with me watching a bunch of R rated movies, but I wasn't allowed to watch The Simpsons, because Bart was a bad influence. It never made sense to me at the time, but I think my mom just didn't want me watching things that focused on kids being disrespectful or that had too much dirty language.
My dad didn't care at all. If he was watching something, he wasn't going to turn it off just because I came into the room. So before I was 10, I got to see movies like Die Hard, Fatal Attraction, and a few Monty Python films.
LazarusDark@reddit
Whoa, first time I've seen someone with a similar experience, identical even. My mom would let me rent or watch about anything, Aliens, Predator, Nightmare on Elm Street. I was Freddy Krueger for Halloween when I was like 6 cause I thought he was cool. But one day when I was like 10 she walked in and saw me watching the Simpsons and said I should turn it off because it wasn't good for me. I very distinctly remember just being so confused I stared at her with no response for several seconds, I was genuinely baffled, stunned even, because it made zero sense that she would suddenly have an issue with the Simpsons. I still don't get it to this day honestly.
Budgiejen@reddit
My parents were super inconsistent too. Like horror was ok but sex was not. Unless it was in Dirty Dancing.
triplee711@reddit
Thinking back, renting Beetlejuice on my own to watch at my grandparents' house at 10 y.o. was wild. They weren't cool per se but they were way better than my overbearing mom.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Grandparents are the real MVPs :)
SweetCosmicPope@reddit
Okay, so funny story:
My cousin and I would go to the video store on nights that my dad and uncle (and at the time his girlfriend) would go out to the club. My cousin had been over 6 feet tall since around the 4th grade. So he was able to sneakily go into the XXX room and nobody questioned him when he'd rent a movie.
He got a dirty movie called Twins and then got a late fee on it. Later on when his dad's girlfriend got stuck paying the late fee, she asked what this was all about and we pretended that we had rented the movie starring Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny Devito. lol
The same lady flipped out at us because she sent us to get a movie for the whole family to watch (she had young kids) and told us to get PG or lower, and we came home with Crooklyn. lol
antifrenzy@reddit
Crooklyn lol I’m crying
Genghis_John@reddit
My parents put a limitation on our account at the video store that I couldn’t rent anything rated PG-13, R, or X. But they forgot about unrated movies. Loophole!
Budgiejen@reddit
My mom worked down the strip mall from the video rental joint. I couldn’t get away with anything. But sometimes I’d see them re-boxing “Sex trek: the next penetration.”
superluminal@reddit
My family was geared up to watch "Flash Gordon" one Friday night. We got the big-ass 2-pizza box from Little Caesar's and stopped by Mad Man Video to rent the movie. Got home, everyone's finally settling in to watch the movie, my dad gets it in the VCR and it starts playing and the title screen says "FLESH GORDON" instead of Flash.
The family joke is that my parents were like, "WELP! Family movie night is over! Too bad!" and sent us to bed.
danbob411@reddit
Haha. My dad had a copy Flesh Gordon on VHS that I found in middle school. It was more of a cheesy comedy with boobs than a proper porn.
ThePillThePatch@reddit
Did they stay up and finish the film?
whambamthankyoumam79@reddit
LOL my mom loves Crooklyn and makes people watch when they come over since she has the dvd
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL @ Crooklyn. That's so funny that the movie's name was Twins. Perfect cover using the Arnold one. ;)
TangledUpPuppeteer@reddit
I was a good kid. I didn’t break the rules intentionally. But I always managed to find them anyway.
I can’t watch IT, but I can read it, and was scared out of my ever loving mind for ages; ended up with nightmares for months because my cousins (older) showed me the kid in the window in three men and a baby, complete with a ghost story; cat watch the first 15-ish minutes of Ghost, but somehow did without realizing it was ghost.
My favorite one was when my dad told me to “never watch anything with George Carlin unless you get permission.” Ok. I didn’t know who George Carlin was, I was a literal child. I was like 9, and my dad came in red as hell and yelling at me… like red faces yelling about George Carlin and I can never watch tv again. Huh?? That was the day I found out that George Carlin was cast as the conductor in Thomas. To my dad’s credit, he read my face and knew I was in no way breaking a rule intentionally, and he was like “what is this???” I told him it was Thomas. “That’s a lie! That’s Ringo, and we both know it!” “Ringo left. This is the new Ringo!”
He just wouldn’t believe me and was convince Di was lying. I ran to my mom and I was like “who is the conductor on Thomas?” She said “the new one? his name is George Carlin.”
My dad said “you knew about this??”
“Of course. I know everything they watch. Even when they sneak around with their cousins and watch what they aren’t supposed to…”
Oh hell. She was going to calm him down and then scream at me too. Wonderful.
Still don’t know how that episode ended. Five minutes from the end. My dad’s calling card.
But suddenly, once my dad knew George Carlin hosted a children’s show, it was ok for me to watch him. That’s totally unfair to all children who were too old to watch Thomas or too young to care! also, you don’t know about this until you started yelling. No one knew this was going to happen. What kind of random bonus round is this?? Dude showing up unexpectedly in a kids show means that kid is now old enough to watch this thing that just had them yelled at??
I wish anyone could make sense of my parents for me 😂
crane1901@reddit
Slapshot. Thanks to my uncle for buying me a VHS copy. I’m not sure if he realized that it wasn’t intended for a 10-year-old or not.
nostyleguide@reddit
Like...all of them. I watched every R movie I could in the 90s. It was actually easier to see them in the theater than to rent them. I vividly remember seeing Pulp Fiction in the theater, I think I was 12 or 13.
Lightsabermetrics@reddit
A Clockwork Orange
Reasonable_Leg_4664@reddit
My buddy and I were 12 and rented “Stag Party”, it was unrated and we used it as a loophole. The guy renting the VHS didn’t want to rent it to us but we told him he had to since it was unrated. lol. It’s basically a filmed bachelor party with strippers.
Oomlotte99@reddit
This just reminded me of the time I was at a sleepover and the host showed us porn she found of her dad’s, I guess. We were all like, “ew, whatever…” and moved on … well, one girl was super religious and I guess she was violently ill for days afterward until the parents got it out of her. She thought she’d sinned and was going to hell. The parents told all of our parents what happened. My parents, who didn’t really police what I watched and would just ask me if I was ok/provide context or guidance if they thought I needed it, were like, “that’s weird she got so upset…but it’s not classy to show porn at sleepovers.” Lol.
Now I’m kind of wondering what was up there because I’m remembering she also once showed me this diary her mom kept of sex with the dad… 😬
moissan2nite@reddit
It seems like both those girls were growing up in not-great environments. Poor kids.
Oomlotte99@reddit
It’s interesting to look back on stuff from childhood with adult eyes and realize, huh, something was up there.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I feel like I had a similar experience. Poor girl but damnit for the tattling.
Oh no, that is weird. Hopefully they weren't too exposed and were just sneaky.
NewAccountNumberSix@reddit
I watched Poltergeist at my baby sitter's house - was afraid of static on the TV for years.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I’m still afraid of that haha
cellrdoor2@reddit
This is probably an uncommon one. We were not allowed to watch Steel Magnolias and were not given any reason for it. I watched it year later when I was in college after my Mom had died from diabetes related heath issues and finally understood the household ban.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I hadn’t even thought about this concept. I distinctly remember my mom telling me that it was way too sad for me to watch. She did the same thing with My Girl and Beaches. Of course I found a way to watch them all :)
Eureka05@reddit
My parents let us watch Beverly Hills Cop at what was likely too young of an age.
I thought the main character's name was "AssHole" not "Axel". Lol
OkAdagio9622@reddit
I remember my uncle watching 48 Hours, while I was in the room. I was probably too young for that, but looking back it was probably the censored version, on TBS, or something like that
ResurgentClusterfuck@reddit
My mom had Eddie Murphy records. I remember a song about putting everything in your butt
Dashcamkitty@reddit
Yes I was watching it aged about 7.
5up3rj@reddit
That's my cousin, detective AssHole
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LMAO
Abraxas-Lucifera17@reddit
Eh, never really had that problem. My parents were 19/21 when I was born, and they were what some people call "heshers", what they just called metalheads or thrashers, and bikers (non-affiliated, but I did grow up with a pic of my mom hanging out with Sonny Barger in my living room and my dad owned a conspicuous amount of local Boozefighters shirts), so the only media they really kept me from consuming was overly sexual content and what they called "n----r music". Once I got into Hiphop in spite of their insistence, I had to have censored albums from Walmart until I was 13, but we watched the entire Friday The 13th and Nightmare On Elm St. franchises every year between September and October, and I knew every word to the Elvira movies, even though I didn't understand half of it.
On top of that, we lived around the block from Captain Video so once I was ten I'd ride my bike there all the time, and the guy who ran it thought that pretty much anything I wanted to rent besides porn was ultimately good for me as an aspiring film buff, so I saw rented KIDS when I was 12, for example. Some of my favorites around that time were Kids In The Hall's Hard Candy, Blade, Up In Smoke, Ralph Bakshie's movies particularly Coonskin and Fritz The Cat, Friday, Freeway (FUCKED UP ass movie with Reese Witherspoon as the daughter of a crackwhore and sexually abusive stepdad who runs off to get out of jail/foster care and ends up beating the shit out of someone who turns out to be a highway killer), Cube, Joe's Apartment... I could go on forever, they had a 555 deal like Hollywood Video (5 movies 5 days $5) so I'd rent five new things every week plus some Genesis games (Virtual Bart ftw 🤘) - Loads of the movies I saw I'm confident they wouldn't have wanted me to see by any stretch of the imagination, but my grandfather gave me the money for the movies and I watched them in my room. I imagine they just figured I was watching Nickelodeon or MTV.
Long story short, I never had a chance of being normal and my parents only realized they fucked up when I went full-on mall goth juggalo and wearing fake nails and putting Elmer's glue in my hair 🤷
bloodectomy@reddit
Oh god all kinds of shit
Evil Dead (1, 2, and Army of Darkness), Don't Be A Menace, Rocky Horror, Alien, Dark City, The Crow. There's more but those ones are the first that came to mind.
I was raised in an evangelical household so i got a full dose of satanic panic from my mom. My childhood was pretty boring. Fortunately my friends had sane parents who understood the difference between fantasy and reality, which is how I got to see cool shit that I otherwise never would have known about
ClimbingUpTheWalls23@reddit
My parents explicitly said I should not see Terminator 2. So I ended up going with a friend of mine and her father.
My parents were right that I shouldn’t have seen that when it came out. It fucked me up good. It is still what I reference when I get into my distrust of AI (beyond all of the other ethical reasons to be against it)
AtmosphereHot8414@reddit
Dirty dancing and Bachelor Party
unbalancedcentrifuge@reddit
The Lost Boys and Pet Sematary....worth the later punishment!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I’ve always loved Stephen King books but only recently watched Pet Sematary. Scared the bejeezus out of me!
SadLocal8314@reddit
I got grounded for going to see Pam Grier movies instead of whatever the parents thought appropriate. I was "mouthy" and told them that Pam Grier wasn't the girlfriend or mother and she got to kick ass successfully. Still got grounded.
KindRaspberry8720@reddit
Thirteen
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I forgot all about that movie until just now. Might have to rewatch!
ms_sid_d@reddit
I don't understand this question?
We're latchkey kids. There was no supervision for 80s babies/90s kids.
SO glad I wasn't sheltered.
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
It’s weird because at home or at the theater I could watch pretty much whatever- I saw mermaids in the theater at 10. But I always felt scandalous watching r rated movies at sleepovers. I don’t recall any of them making a big impact, and I was constantly watching Dirty Dancing, Bull Durham and Pretty Woman at home 🤷♀️ I guess my parents never watched a lot of horror movies so maybe they were trying to prevent that.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Ooh I forgot about Pretty Woman. They didn't want me watching that either but later they bought the VHS so I didn't hesitate to pop it in first chance I got. BIG mistake, HUGE! ;)
Budgiejen@reddit
I wasn’t allowed to watch Pretty Woman. So I watched Dirty Dancing
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Little rebel! :)
Ok-Sign5678@reddit
Ha, the first time I saw Pretty Woman was at my youth minister’s house when I was in 6th grade maybe? They had the youth group over and it was on the tv like no big deal.
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
Yeah by age 10 we had basically a separate family room area upstairs where my parents only came to yell at us or whatever. I could press pause when I heard them coming. But also they only pretended to care (in like ‘a good parent says something but I don’t care if you actually listen’ kind of way).
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh yes my parents added on a second floor when I was about 12. Their bedroom was on the complete other side of the house so I got away with sneaking up and watching VHS tapes a time or two ;)
weeziefield1982@reddit
I saw Scream way too young
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
By the time that came out I was 15 or 16 and went to see it with their permission with a friend. The friend got so scared after they strung Drew up that she walked out. I sat there and watched it alone LOL
My daughter is a fan of it now so I've seen a few times since.
weeziefield1982@reddit
I think I was 12 and had never seen a slasher like that. I loved it but it scared the crap out of me. I have seen every Scream since including the short lived TV show. The first one is still the best.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I saw the latest one from a couple years ago with my girl and was hiding my eyes in anticipation half the time lol
Beck316@reddit
For the first year or so, my mother didn't want us watching the Simpsons because bart was disrespectful to his parents. I also was not allowed to watch 90210 but that might have been more of a "there's only 1 TV in the house and no one else is interested" situation.
JiGoD@reddit
I watched The Devil's Advocate in a theater next to my mom.
Remember that scene where Charlize Theron is nude covered in cuts? My mom was staring at me staring at the screen until her laser eyes physically pained me. It still hurts.
I was 14 tops =/
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I’m not sure I could watch that movie with my parents comfortably but that is such a good movie. I especially like the scene in the subway car with the Puerto Rican guys. Supreme acting!
noonesaidityet@reddit
The Kindred is one I remember for sure. I had cousins who were like 10 years older than me, and they basically took me everywhere they went, and I spent every second with them when we'd visit them for Christmas and other vacations. It was when I was like 5 up till I was 8 or so. As soon as I'd walk in the door, they'd be like "You're with us", and I was for the rest of the vacation. The scene in Kindred where the tentacle thing comes out in the car and strangles the driver has never left my brain, and I remember them making jokes about it so I wouldn't be scared. Anything we'd watch, my girl cousin would be covering my eyes if there was nudity or sex, but we'd all be laughing during the gory stuff. I remember watching Night Of The Creeps with them, too. They were the fucking coolest, and they always made me feel cool, too. My mom would have flipped if she knew what all we watched in their wood-paneled basement. The best times.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I’ve never seen that one and now I’m a little afraid to. Terrifying!
Whittles85@reddit
It and tales from the crypt
Avg_Sun_Enjoyer69@reddit
I watched pretty much any action or horror movie by the time I was 6 or 7.
That said, I wasn't allowed to go see Batman (1989) with my mom and her friends. "It's too violent," was her reasoning. I realized later she probably just wanted to leave me at home for a change.
curious-curiouser86@reddit
Undressed. Not a movie, but a show on MTV later in the night. On my little white TV in my bedroom.
This_Fkn_Guy_@reddit
My cousin showed us porkys and revenge of the Nerd I snuck into robocop as a 9 year old
Budgiejen@reddit
I forgot. I loved revenge of the nerds ii. I was probably 8 or 10
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL I forgot all about those. Might be time for a rewatch ;)
AdelleDeWitt@reddit
Interview with a vampire. I wasn't allowed to see it because of the scene where Brad Pitt kisses Kirsten dunst. We bought tickets to something else and snuck in.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oldest trick in the book ;) In that case they might have been in the right considering how young she was.
AdelleDeWitt@reddit
Oh yeah that was the reason. She had heard there was pedophilia in it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Good on them for that!
Emergency-Pack-5497@reddit
Kids
Budgiejen@reddit
I picked that up lately, but have yet to watch it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
So scary and sad. Like another commentor said though it teaches about the importance of safe sex more than a parent could.
shewholaughslasts@reddit
Doesn't exactly fit but I'll never forget how awkward it was watching Monty Python's The Meaning of Life ... with my grandma when she was babysitting.
My friend had suggested watching it but I did NOT know what we were in for. And she was my 'cool' grandma so I don't remember negative repercussions, just embarrassment. I miss you grandma. Glad you didn't get chased off a cliff.
Carpinus_Christine@reddit
Boys in the Hood
Fit_One_3888@reddit
A Clockwork Orange
donutseason@reddit
Dirty Dancing was the first. Then we saw Alive in theaters and it fucked me up. What even year was that? 🥲 was not ready for the moral dilemma of die or eat your friends that Wednesday afternoon
derpjutsu@reddit
Friend and I rented Back to School around 12 years old. Too young for the topless scene and they weren’t happy 😆
SandwichNeat9528@reddit
Peter Sellers Pink Panther movies.
Minute_Expert1653@reddit
Army of Darkness. My brother let me watch it when I was like, 7.
NLMillion@reddit
Hellraiser. That movie scared the hell out of me
Stormy261@reddit
I turned on the TV and VCR to finish the movie we had been watching the night before. They forgot to remove the porn they watched later and put the movie we were watching back in. I didn't keep watching, but I'd say it qualifies. 🤣
troggle19@reddit
Hot Dog: The Movie.
lizeee@reddit
We didn’t have MTV, so I loved watching it at my BFF’s house. She didn’t want me to watch “Beetlejuice”, but her friend let me watch it! Anything scary. I didn’t see “The Shining” until I was 16. As an adult I adore horror.
insomniacandsun@reddit
Aliens
Open_Confidence_9349@reddit
Trick or Treat - not my mom though, my friend’s neglectful dad. That man was never around, left her alone for days, would swing by in the middle of the night and leave a $20 on the table so she could walk to the party store to get food or order a pizza. Anyway, we wanted to go to the movies and my mom was going to take us, but he offered and my mom took him up on it. He didn’t drop us at the movies like he did anywhere else (library, Kmart, mall), not that he gave us rides all that often. Nope, he walked us up to the window and purchased our tickets for us. I have no idea what movie he bought tickets for because we didn’t see it. We waited for him to pull out of the lot, and then because we were chickenshits, we got back in line and bought tickets for Trick or Treat. I find it funny now that we didn’t even think that they wouldn’t sell rated R tickets to two 14 year olds, but we were terrified we’d get caught changing theaters.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
Child’s play. Jaws. Some other scary movie I don’t know the name of because I was too young to remember but I still have flashes of what I saw.
MungoJennie@reddit
Animal House. I’m still not sure if she was more pissed at my brother’s friend for bringing a bootleg copy over, my brother for letting me watch it, or me for not telling. (My sister squealed.)
MitchMcConnellsJowls@reddit
Eddie Murphy: Raw
InvisibleTacoSnack@reddit
I was 10, Leo got pounded in the ass for H
RockShowSparky@reddit
Everything I stayed up and watched Skinemax for that couple of years we had cable and got those free weekends.
CafeConCajeta@reddit
My best friend and I were young teens when we snuck into a showing of Single White Female, lol. We weren't even dying to see it, but we didn't want to see whatever cheesy, age-appropriate movie we were actually there to see.
FistoftheSouthStar@reddit
Kids
TheLeathal13@reddit
Natural Born Killers We had a party when my parents were away so we could watch it.
Tylerdurden389@reddit
Grew up on r-rated action movies but couldn't watch "Martin" on Sunday nights after The Simpsons. Go figure lol. Now, as for movies I watched knowing my parents wouldn't approve of it, mostly porn-esque stuff but still technically mainstream film. So I saw Color of Night and Body Double when I was around 12. I still like them to this day, cheese and all. I think i first saw Porky's when I was 15.
LikeTotallyZero@reddit
I saw Pretty Woman when I was like 8. I have to agree now that was not cool. I also saw Blue Lagoon when I was 12 and my mom was not thrilled about that either.
Chuckpgh@reddit
I remember telling my second grade teacher how I watched a movie with my family that I liked and she asked, "what movie?" I still remember her look when I said Pretty Woman.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I love Pretty Woman but it definitely glamorizes prostitution. I doubt that it's EVER like that lol
buddhamanjpb@reddit
This is so cliche, but me and my friend snagged his Dad's VHS tape of Basic Instinct.
Specialist-Jello7544@reddit
I’m going to flip this on its head.
I was helping my parents move, packing stuff, donating stuff, or throwing stuff away. At the end of the day we ordered pizza and rented a video (this was ages ago). After we ate, we watched the movie – it was Bull Durham. When we got to the bathtub scene, oh my God, my Mom and Dad were laughing so hard they were roaring! And I was so totally embarrassed, maybe because I felt like Mom and Dad shouldn’t be watching sex scenes… I was in my thirties, I still felt I was too young to watch, in the presence of my parents. Mom loved to bring this up years later, and watch me squirm. To this day I laugh to myself about Bull Durham.
When I was a kid, there weren’t many movies I was allowed to watch, because Mom knew what I could and couldn’t handle: violence, gore and horror (I’d get nightmares), stupid humor and slap stick (I’d get embarrassed for the actors). I still haven’t got around to watching the Godfather movies, and I guess I don’t have to.
Waste-Reflection-235@reddit
My parents were watching movies in our living room without an thought. If my brother and I were in the room which was pretty often, they would fast forward sex scenes.
minneapocalypse@reddit
My dad told me not to watch the movie he rented … Candyman…the original. I should have heeded his warning. It scarred me. I was probably 12.
Breeezy0@reddit
Point Break. I was 9, it was rated R...but we watched it anyway at a friend's house because her mom said it was ok. My mom was...not pleased.
mondomiketron@reddit
Faces of death
r1ddl3d@reddit
Kids. My older sister got a copy and let me watch it with her and her friends when our mom was out
Noisechild@reddit
I went to go see Basic Instinct with my mom when I was in grade school. She was very lenient with my movie watching. She made us leave.
burgundyblue@reddit
They didn’t care for the longest time. As time went on, mom got more religious and decided to try and care. It was too late. She lost any control she thought she had. We were too far gone watching slasher horror movies and whatnot.
carolyn42069@reddit
Beatle juice (too scary) or dirty dancing (too sexy)
Enygma0710@reddit
My parents didn’t ban movies, my mom would just yell “cover your eyes” if a sex scene popped up & her hand would smash against your face.
But they wouldn’t let us watch “Married with Children” but “In Living Color” was family tv time lol.
Common_Ad_7610@reddit
The Lost Boys. It became my favorite. I would watch it every chance I got. It's still a favorite. Best movie Joel Schumacher ever made.
maddiejake@reddit
Faces of Death
Clear-Journalist3095@reddit
Blair witch project. I regretted that decision.
ElayneGriffithAuthor@reddit
I was 16 when that came out. Scared the shit outta me. Haven’t seen it since but I wonder if it’d just be goofy now 😆
Clear-Journalist3095@reddit
I don't watch horror movies, as a rule, not even now as a middle-aged grown up. That one, I watched at a birthday party when I was 13, the summer between seventh and eighth grade. My mom was very unhappy about it when I got home and refused to sleep in my own bed for three days, because I was too scared...
ElayneGriffithAuthor@reddit
Lol. I was scared of camping for years afterwards 😂 I’m not much into horror either, but I like the occasional well done scary movie (which are very rare) or grimdark fantasy/scifi. And zombies. For some reason I have a morbid fascination with zombies.
Clear-Journalist3095@reddit
I read a lot of horror books, but for whatever reason, movies are a no-go. I'm a Stephen King fan and was excited in theory about the Long Walk movie, but I've seen the trailers and I'm like 😳 I don't know if I'm going to be able to watch it.
ElayneGriffithAuthor@reddit
Oh funny. Love King too, especially Dark Tower. The OG Shining was a great film, but overall it seems like they can’t give his books justice. I once made the mistake of listening to pet cemetery while camping 👀
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I was in college by that point so I got to go to that one LOL
I remember getting very nauseous with the camera movement.
My grown ass husband gets mad when I mention the ending of that film where the guy is standing in the corner. He's like "STOP IT STOP IT" while covering his ears.
Psychedelicidal@reddit
Heavy Metal
ShivvyMcFly@reddit
Child's Play 3
grandma_millennial@reddit
I had the opposite experience. My parents used to drag me along to adult get-togethers where they would watch R rated movies thinking I wouldn’t remember. The one that freaked me out the most had to be The Wall. Nightmares about kids in meat grinders!
ValancyNeverReadsit@reddit
I saw Dirty Dancing at a kindergarten sleepover. Most of the themes went right over my head, but to this day I can tell you songs that played in it
thevaginalist@reddit
Porkys 2
I could watch the most violent gory shit but god forbid there was sex or nudity.
I watched this when my older cousin watched it while they were babysitting me
tipseymcstagger@reddit
My parents never cared about movies. They took me to see Kindergarden Cop when I was 5 and my mom dropped me and my friends off to see the first Scream movie when I was 11.
For some reason, the only thing I wasn’t allowed to watch was Beavis and Butthead. I don’t know why.
So of course, I was sure to sneak and watch to see why it was so taboo. I remember being disappointed it wasn’t as “bad” as I thought it was going to be 😆
elkniodaphs@reddit
This wasn't really a thing in my house. I guess my mom's thought was, if I saw something I didn't want to see, my revulsion to it would govern my future disinterest.
grandma_millennial@reddit
Hell my parents once punished me by making me go see the blob with them at the drive in because I didn’t want to hang out with my bossy cousin. Terrified me for years!
Shoddy-Feedback1257@reddit
Same thing at my house. I'm not sure they ever said anything to me about what I watched. They were letting me watch horror movies with them as far back as I can remember. (which definitely was not how I did things later, with my own kid.)
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That can do the trick sometimes!
EyelandBaby@reddit
Pulp Fiction, in the theater, age 15. What a revelation
Historical-Cable-833@reddit
Pulp Fiction bro
elphaba00@reddit
My parents were pretty open about what they allowed me to watch, but my mom flipped when I went to see Pulp Fiction. My mom: “That’s rated R. They shouldn’t have allowed you in without someone 17 or older.” Here’s the thing - and I pointed it out - I went with my boyfriend. He was 17
When I was a preteen, I had a sleepover with a friend, and her mom flipped because we had rented Pretty Woman. She gave us a speech about how they shouldn’t have rented that to us. She then took it and “hid” it. My friend said not to worry. She always used the same hiding spot. We just had to wait her out. And we did.
applesauceporkchop@reddit
Robocop
hi984390@reddit
Ahhh I’m not a person to dwell on coincidences that much but that would freak me out too! Well I’m glad you guys survived and made it through 😆😊
jebinabox@reddit
Bram Stoker's Dracula. I saw it at a sleepover and remember my mom ranting about it to my aunt. "There are WOMEN having SEX with BEASTS!!!" Meanwhile, my aunt just shrugged and was like, "Yeah, it's a good movie."
dos_passenger58@reddit
8th grade TV production, we found a copy of Clockwork Orange that someone had donated in a box of old Betamax tapes. We watched it right there in the school studio
aspbergerinparadise@reddit
my parents were cool, but I remember my 2nd grade teacher got in trouble for letting us watch The Princess Bride
woohhaa@reddit
My dad put on Pulp Fiction when it first came out on VHS. We got five minutes in and the term “Holliest of Holies” was used he stopped it and put it in his top drawer. The next day while he was at work my sister and I finished it. He came home and looked to see the tape in his drawer was all the way done, not where it was when he put it away. He acted mad then asked if it was any good. We then watched it again with him.
earfeater13@reddit
Total Recall. It was rated X so obviously we had to see it.
Not_Neighborhood_122@reddit
Nightmare on Elm Street 3
Calm-Drag-9809@reddit
The Program
A_lunch_lady@reddit
Natural Born Killers 😬
aldora36@reddit
The Benny Hill show.
hardlurker123@reddit
We rented menace to society and mom took it out of the vcr during the opening scene with Samuel L Jackson and hid it in her room for the night. My brother snuck in, in the night and found it and we watched it. We also watched tons of other stuff too young, but that one really stands out.
the_kid1234@reddit
I had one friend who would have sleepovers and his parents didn’t care what the kids watched. We saw the nightmare on elm streets, Friday the 13ths, Police academy’s, Seagal movies, van damme movies, etc. between 8-11.
Meanwhile at home i have no idea the first time i saw an R movie.
Iamoldsowhat@reddit
"nightmare on elm street". parents were right. I did not sleep for weeks. lol
ModularMansion@reddit
When I was about nine my brother and I found our parents copy of porkys on vhs. They weren’t too happy when they found out
TransportationOk657@reddit
My parents were very lax and non-traditional. They didn't really monitor what I watched nor prevented me from anything. They most likely wouldn't have allowed me to watch rated X movies. We never had any in the house anyway. We didn't have cable, either, so there was no chance for me to watch skin-a-max flicks or other soft core porn.
As for rated R movies, I had free rein to watch anything. Even at a young age.
Clockburn@reddit
I went to see White Men Can’t Jump in the theatre with a friend and his dad. I was in 4th or 5th grade and wasn’t allowed to watch R rated movies.
207Menace@reddit
Rocky Horror Picture Show. 14 😏
Lanky-Lavishness-299@reddit
Event horizon and it scared the absolute shit out of me
cohuman@reddit
Neglectful parents so pretty much nothing because they didn’t care enough to check what was being watched. Bevis and Butthead only because my sister and I would impersonate them and it annoyed the womb donor.
isqueezed@reddit
I know it's been said already but KIDS. And if you can find it online, the documentary about it "We Were Once Kids" is horrifying to see as an adult. But the soundtrack to KIDS is still so good.
DG04511@reddit
When I was 13, I snuck into Sliver after buying a ticket to Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story.
eannaj@reddit
I was obsessed with Anthony Hopkins and my parents had already denied me Silence of the Lambs (which as a now adult, holy shit I understand).
Some time later, a bunch of my friends suggested we could buy PG movie tickets to whatever and then sneak into Dracula, so we did. Incredible movie, zero regrets.
Sudden_Airport_7469@reddit
Movie? Ha! Too many to name.
Bulky-Painting3803@reddit
Drop Dead Fred, it was pg13 but probably deserved a higher rating. They were super upset up honestly I don’t even remember the movie at this point and never watched it again.
svu_fan@reddit
DDF is my childhood fave and holds a special place in my heart since they filmed the movie in the Twin Cities. ♥️ oh yeah, and can’t forget Carrie Fisher as Liz’s (real life) friend.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I vaguely remember that one. He was just like an obnoxious guy in my memory but that's about all I remember.
Funny_Collection8362@reddit
Rik Mayall, God rest him, was a very talented actor and extremely funny comedian.
StarQuill01@reddit
Team Sanity!!!
williewoodwhale@reddit
Team Fred, all day!
round_is_funny@reddit
This is a movie I watch now as an adult woman and connect with on a very deep level. As a kid I just thought it was cool she was reconnecting with her childhood invisible friend. And I was a tad jealous because I never had one.
tehdamonkey@reddit
That movie was so bad and annoying ...and in instant cult classic....
pixienightingale@reddit
I watched the second half of IT.
generalcanoli00@reddit
Basic instinct. Snuck the VHS tape up to my room when I was about 11 I think.
Then I guess it was about a year later I went to the movies with a friend to see Sliver without my parents knowing about that either.
Btt3r_blu3@reddit
Rambo
lovemypennydog@reddit
Sleeping with the Enemy with Julia Roberts
knowledgeispowrr@reddit
Yep. At my friend with absentee parents' house.
Chay_Charles@reddit
I'm Gen-X. Our parents didn't care. I watched the original Don't Be Afraid of the Dark on the late, late show as a little kid and had nightmares.
begayallday@reddit
Braveheart. I did not enjoy it.
kileme77@reddit
Porky's
Mission_Tip7003@reddit
Married with Children
BornTry5923@reddit
Pulp Fiction 😬
Dazzling-Hornet-7764@reddit
Dirty Dancing. My jaw dropped when I watched it again as a young adult and realized exactly why Penny was so sick!
fendaar@reddit
Eddie Murphy Delirious
CottaBird@reddit
My parents followed the MPAA guidelines. When we finally got satellite cable, they then set a code for rated R and above, which we did not receive until we turned 17. I’d say 99% of the rated R movies I saw were at friends’ houses, and because I lived so far away relative to everyone else, it didn’t happen too often, so there are a lot of classic rated R films I’ve still never seen.
amerioca@reddit
Everything
Hossflex@reddit
Aliens.
Hotspiceteahoneybee@reddit
Y'all. My dad TOOK me to a double feature the night Aliens premiered when I was EIGHT YEARS OLD and we watched Alien and Aliens back to back. Terrifying and still two of my favorite movies.
ElayneGriffithAuthor@reddit
I was looking for this comment 😉 Though mine was Alien. My parents left for the night (I think I was 9 or 10), and so I put on the “off limits/not old enough” Alien VHS. Got to the part where he’s looking for the cat, turned it off, turned on all the lights, grabbed my cat & a bat, and hid under my covers upstairs (with the cat and baseball bat) until my parents got home 😂
Finally watched the whole thing when I was 14, and loved it.
Aware_Policy_9174@reddit
I had a friend that had cable and we’d always get blankets and fall asleep watching movies on the living room floor. One time I woke up at some point and it was midway through alien and I was terrified but I couldn’t stop watching it. I was scared of being alone for a while after but I couldn’t tell my parents why and they were very concerned.
Hossflex@reddit
Watched Aliens when I was 9 and thought the chest burst scene was “cool”. Watch again from 14-now and I’m grossed out.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Scary!
RachelPalmer79@reddit
My sister got busted for Single White Female. Between the two of us: Trainspotting and Queen Margot.
Significant-Shoe4081@reddit
Natural Born Killers
My dad specifically told me not to watch the vhs he rented from blockbuster. At that point I had already watched a few R rated movies, so figured they were just overreacting and popped it in the vcr! They were not overreacting…
Aquatichive@reddit
Dirty dancing
Radiant-Mycologist72@reddit
I was about 12 years old and I watched Silence of the Lambs.
My dad worked nights and my mum would sleep in. I used to wake up early and watch tv. We had it on vhs, and I watched it before she woke up and my before my dad got home from work.
She wasn't angry at me for watching it, but she was surprised I wasn't terrified of it. She hadn't had the courage to watch it herself yet. I think a lot of it went over my head.
ArcadesRed@reddit
UFC #1
Chele11713@reddit
Hellraiser
Hotspiceteahoneybee@reddit
Teehee. I was visiting my friend Matt at his house. He was 9 and I was 8 and his parents just got cable. They weren't around - yardwork maybe? So he was like "come in here - we can watch R RATED movies!" And he turned on Terminator. Omg. Violence, language, sex. It had it all and I was ENTRANCED!
clayton_ogre@reddit
My uncle let me watch Robocop on HBO when I was like 4 or 5 lol
Same uncle also showed me Predator and Jaws
Missmunkeypants95@reddit
I was maybe 10 and the TV Guide told me that HBO was going to play star Wars at 11pm. My parents went to bed and I was excited to have no one tell me to go to bed. The TV Guide was wrong and Blue Lagoon came on and I watched it.
tasdron@reddit
I was at a slumber party where we had to call home and ask permission to watch Dirty Dancing. My mom said no so I had to hang out in her mom’s bedroom by myself while everyone else watched it. A year later at a different slumber party the mom just asked if everyone had already seen it so I lied and said I had. I have never been so disappointed in all my life.
tibbletsforever@reddit
Does Real Sex on HBO count? If not, we’ll go with KIDS.
katiw46@reddit
Cruel Intentions. I still wasn't 18 so I had to have my mom buy me tickets to The Rage: Carrie 2, we left that theater and went to see Cruel Intentions instead. There was no way she'd let me see it, but she was fine with Carrie. I still haven't seen that version of Carrie.
sodangshedonger@reddit
Natural Born Killers. My Dad made me write a report on it after I watched it when he had told me it was forbidden.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
It sucks that you got punished but that's actually a smart way of doing it.
sodangshedonger@reddit
I was excited to write the report because I knew what he wanted to hear. He was just a single Dad trying to protect his daughter from the ugliness of the world. I mean , he had a point, I was 13. But he never forbade me from watching anything after that and I honestly think it improved our relationship a bit.
gypsyjacks453@reddit
Flatliners. My parents rented it one summer. I watched it the next day when they went to work. It definitely freaked me out. 😂
mofrappa@reddit
Tricked a babysitter into letting me watch childs play and one of the friday the 13th movies. Told her, "my mom let's us watch anything."
abernathym@reddit
It wasn't until like four years ago that I learned it was not Luis Guzman in Ghost.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I didn't realize that either LOL
abernathym@reddit
Apparently, he gets that all the time, so we are not alone.
rex_virtue@reddit
Eddy Murphy Delirious
Maximumi-Awkward@reddit
Alien 😅
_6siXty6_@reddit
I was allowed to watch pretty much anything with exception of a raunchy sketch show that nobody remembers called Bizzare.
liltinyoranges@reddit
This entire thread is the best thread I’ve ever read
SilentSerel@reddit
Terminator
IsThisLegitTho@reddit
Friday the 13th where he slams the sleeping bag into the tree. Childs play, lawn mower man….
cerialthriller@reddit
I don’t remember any of my friends or me having parents that gave two shit about what we watched or did. Like they just left us at home while they worked what were they gonna do about it anyway
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's similar to my attitude with my daughter. I am definitely overprotective at times but if she wants to watch something she will find a way. I'd rather her see it and then talk to me about it if she gets scared or has any questions.
cerialthriller@reddit
Yeah I don’t know shit was just so lax as a kid, it was just don’t use the oven or play with guns here’s a Nintendo and a vcr, don’t die
Ok_Monitor5890@reddit
T2
Um_swoop@reddit
Heavy Metal. My friend and I were probably 8-10 or so. Found a VHS between his parent’s mattresses. Oh cool a cartoon!
CorkFado@reddit
None. My dad was really into horror and sci fi so I have a lot of fond memories of watching that stuff with him when HBO first dropped.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's fun. They had a big issue with sex scenes but not so much horror. They loved Alfred Hitchcock so I got a lot of oldies but goodies there.
CorkFado@reddit
I remember watching reruns of Alfred Hitchcock Presents when I was little. Definitely saw The Birds young too.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I haven't liked birds ever since I saw that. However, recently I got a cat and put up a bird feeder so that he can pretend like he's stalking his prey and I've come to be fond of watching them. Of course it's a little different when we are talking about cardinals such.
CorkFado@reddit
My grandfather had a wonderful birding setup in his backyard in Massachusetts. Used to love sitting in the kitchen with him and my Nana, eating Irish beef stew with fresh bread and watching the birds come and go.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Lovely memory
KellyAnn3106@reddit
Dirty Dancing.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Patrick Swayze movies are such a recurring theme in these comments. Sex on a stick
KellyAnn3106@reddit
I was 10 so my mom didn't want me to see it. So we watched it at a slumber party at someone else's house.
Same year, my mom didn't allow me to go to the George Michael concert. However, we lived near the outdoor venue where he was playing so she drove me closer and let me listen.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Aww that's kind of wholesome that she drove you so you could hear it at least. As conservative as my parents are, my dad LOVED "I Want Your Sex". Kind of awkward but no denying it's a banger.
okamnioka@reddit
Trading Places.
falconjayhawk@reddit
Terminator
Dimplefrom-YA@reddit
I was a good kid, with parents that beat us. I was way too innocent.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
YourGuyK@reddit
Not really. The beating probably affected you far worse than any movie could have.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
BrilliantTop5012@reddit
Wild!! A Fish Called Wanda was the first R movie I saw. At my best friend’s house, her parents asked if I was allowed to watch R movies and my reply was naturally “yeah it’s ok”. Folks, it was not ok.
Crabbyrob@reddit
Anything my cousin would put on when we went over to visit.
dadofsummer@reddit
Genx here, I doubt I told my parents about it, may have when I was older but, a friends dad rented Pieces and let us watch it, rated X slasher film. Definitely a fuc*ed up movie.
Joboobavich@reddit
I told my parents we were going to see the Mighty Morphin Power Rangers movie and we snuck into Species instead...because boobs.
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
Well besides porn, I watched Carrie. And I regretted that. That movie was horrifying as a 9 year old. And what’s more, my friend’s folks (whose house we watched it at) told us naive, gullible dipshit kids it was a true story.
My friend and I laid in bed that night telling ourselves whatever we had to to get ourselves to sleep.
But I remember that last scene like I watched it yesterday. ☠️
RamboJane@reddit
We didn’t have cable, so we would rent movies every weekend from the grocery store. I always picked r rated horror movies and they didn’t care.
Public-Pound-7411@reddit
I was not allowed to watch Dirty Dancing at 10 but the same parents bought me a copy of Flowers in the Attic at 12 when I asked for it.
So, instead of an abortion plot that would have likely gone over my head, I got “my brother raped me and I kind of liked it.” How’s that for inconsistent parenting?
gaveedraseven@reddit
My parents took me with them to see Born on the Fourth of July because they couldn't be bothered to get a sitter. I was their fourth son. They didn't give a shit what I watched.
Distinct_Pangolin785@reddit
Wow, I specifically remember issues with a fish called Wanda as well. It wasn't my parents, but an aunt that was shocked I had seen it. My parents knew I could handle this stuff, they exposed me to things I probably should have not been exposed to at an early age, and my aunt wasn't really aware of the going s on behind clothes doors (nothing abusive, just a no filter, party all the time atmosphere), and felt the material was too adult for me. The truth is, most of it was over my head. The shock of my aunts reaction was more memorable than the movie itself, 😂 😆 😂
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I can't even remember the plot TBH so I can't remember what was so wrong with that one.
Distinct_Pangolin785@reddit
Just a lot of sexually explicit material, nothing outrageous though, I think it was a comedy around an escort service being used to create a burglary opportunity... but i could be wrong. Again, the reaction was more memorable than the movie, lol.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Yeah, that sounds right. I really like Jamie Lee Curtis so I may have to watch it soon.
Distinct_Pangolin785@reddit
I do too, plus Kevin Kline and the masterful John Cleese... can't really go wrong with a cast like that!
No_repeating_ever@reddit
My dad wouldn’t let me watch Bram Stoker’s Dracula. My parents were divorced so my mom let me get it. I was suitably unimpressed for my age… I can’t remember how old I was, but young enough I still spent some weekends at my moms by the custody agreement. So maybe 12? It was probably fine for my age but my dad is a religious asshat
ResurgentClusterfuck@reddit
As one of my formative memories includes Mel Gibson's barenaked ass in Lethal Weapon I can safely say I wasn't banned from watching anything really
My little sister adored all those cheesy horror movies (Nightmare on Elm Street, etc) but as always I would choose books over movies, even as a kid
BusFew5534@reddit
Showgirls
TheNickelLady@reddit
Porky’s Revenge.
mtron32@reddit
New Jack City
Driz999@reddit
I watched A Nightmare on Elm St when I was 12 at a friend's house. Couldn't sleep properly for a week and Freddy still gave me the creeps until I was into my 20's.
hi984390@reddit
Poltergeist and that made for tv movie about the plane where the roof ripped off. Both at my mom’s friends house when I did a sleepover with her daughter at like 6 years old. Yeah they both scarred me for life. Thanks Debbie! 🙄
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I had to fly the other day which I absolutely hate. I stupidly took an edible since we were going from a legal state to a not so legal state. Huge mistake. I was sure that the planes roof would rip off like that movie. Yikes never again.
hi984390@reddit
Ohhh nooooo. Yeah I could not take one of those then go sit in a tiny box like a plane. I might lose it 😭How did you cope with that?! I prob would’ve had a panic attack. I need everything ‘perfect’ these days to do more than a puff or two.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I didn't cope very well considering every sound that plane made freaked me out. My husband was no help because he was in the same situation. I did order a beer and that seemed to calm me down. What made it worse though is that we were eating before the flight and our tab came out to be $66.60 and the song "Tragedy" by the Bee Gees started playing right then. I know that's not what the song is about but who the hell puts that on an airport playlist?? LOL
Learned my lesson. I will just stick to getting a nice beer buzz before take off because then I stop caring much about what is happening at all haha
McBernes@reddit
Told my dad I was going to see some.movie that I dont even remember the name of when I was 15. I went with an uncle and cousin to see Mad Max Beyond Thunderdome instead.
mobtown_misanthrope@reddit
It was the 80s. My parents didn't give a single solitary shit what I watched.
superthrust123@reddit
We grew up in the day of "hot" cable boxes.
There's nothing I didn't see.
Dangerous_Midnight91@reddit
Stepdad paid the cable guy $50 and we got free HBO and Cinemax (aka Skinrmax). I remember staying up all night to watch every episode of “Real Sex” and Cinemax “After Dark” when I was like 8. What a time to be alive!
osteopathetic1@reddit
So many.
JDRL320@reddit
My parents were on the stricter side & religious. I had just turned 16 and had a little party at my house including a crush I had. Everyone left but the boy and we watched the movie “Sliver” I was a very naive innocent girl so watching this was 😳 To this day I have no idea if he brought it to watch or what. He had to done that. My parents stayed upstairs while we watched it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I'm going to have to look that one up. My parents would have never left me alone with a boy. I'll bet you had a bunch of butterflies in your stomach. I love my husband but miss that feeling.
JDRL320@reddit
Oh believe my parents did little pop ins here and there anytime I had boys over. But I don’t remember doing it that night, unless they did it very discreetly and didn’t pay attention to what movie was on.
Here’s a description of the movie 😳😬
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh yeah that would be interesting watching with a boy :) Maybe they were trying to give you a little space since it was your 16th birthday!
Sad_Anything_3273@reddit
Yes, I saw Sliver too and it was way more graphic than Basic Instinct. It was basically soft porn, with rough sex.
nights_noon_time@reddit
Interview with the Vampire.
Any_A-name67@reddit
When my friend and I were around 12 years old we somehow got into see rated R “The Blue Lagoon” at the theater. We were not allowed and very nervous but proud of our sneakiness. Movie was lame.
tamferrante@reddit
The Exorcist
Ok_Investigator1492@reddit
My parents were pretty permissive as long as it wasn't x-rated so I snuck a look at The Devil in Miss Jones 2 when I was 16.
sator-2D-rotas@reddit
Basic Instinct. It was on Showtime. My mom saw me watching it in the living room when she came home and commented I might be too young for it.
I kust went and turned it on in my bedroom. I think I was 10-11 at the time.
a_solid_6@reddit
Damn, you had movie channels in your bedroom back then? I had a little black and white TV that picked up basic vhf and uhf channels.
sator-2D-rotas@reddit
We stole Showtime by removing some filter on the outer cable box. All the TVs in the house had it.
And my one gift for Christmas 90 or 91 was a color 13’’ TV with remote.
thoughtfractals85@reddit
I saw this far too young as well. I'm pretty sure Sharon Stone was my lesbian awakening.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I'm as straight as they come but it turned me on too lol
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
This is my husband's answer too! The leg crossing scene ;)
Dirt-Track_Pinto@reddit
RoboCop. Way too young. Now scarred for life.
JuneBeatle@reddit
I was the only one in the house that new how to use the timer on the VHS; used to record all the things in the middle of the night I wasn't allowed to watch, then would watch them when parents not home.
Beavis & Butthead, Freddy/Jason movies... the sky was the limit! Used poor through the TV guide at the grocery checkout making notes when we'd go to the store... =D
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Smart kid!
JuneBeatle@reddit
Maybe not so much since I can't spell apparently (meant to say "Used to pour"). 😂 That's what I get for reddit'ing at work.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I am at work too LOL
FunnyGoose5616@reddit
Se7en. Snuck into the theater with my boyfriend and some friends. We bought tickets for something else, I don’t remember what exactly, and snuck in. I was 14. My mom would’ve grounded me for life if she knew
slidefilm@reddit
I think it was a series on HBO but could have been a movie. Not 100% sure of the name but I think it was The Red Shoe Diaries. I’ve never been a good sleeper so I would wake up in the middle of the night and watch TV for hours. I found it one night when I was maybe 10. I was like wow I probably shouldn’t be watching but I was intrigued. I actually thought the story line was really good so I ended up watching the entire movie/series even though I would fast forward through the sexy scenes.
Dashcamkitty@reddit
Fatal Attraction. None of us in my class were allowed to watch it because of the sex scenes. One day, our school shut early because the heating was broken, so we went to my house where we watched it on video and giggled all the way through.
To this day, I have never properly watched it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I recently watched it and I think it's important as a cautionary tale to not mess with crazies.
jreashville@reddit
Surviving the game. I brought home a bootleg copy of it and my brother put it in while they were home not knowing what it was. He got spanked for it. I always felt guilty about that.
Sparkle8022@reddit
I tried to watch "Carrie" when I was 8 years old but got caught and it was quickly shut off. After I got older and finally saw the rest of it, I understand why.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That ending scene still scares me when I think about it haha
Skywren7@reddit
When I was 10 my mom wouldn't let me watch A Clockwork Orange on HBO. So I looked at the little month long calendar and saw what night it would play again, and I spent the night at my grandma's and stayed up late to watch it. I ended up falling asleep during it.
Sad_Anything_3273@reddit
Schindler's List. Mom wouldn't let me see it, so I bought the book. She got really pissed when she saw it in my room. I eventually saw it at a friend's house. I regret nothing.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I've never seen that but it's one of those that is important to know about I think. I am thinking of showing my daughter American History X for that reason.
jiyoungle@reddit
Robocop. My friend who was supervised way less than I was had somehow rented it and we watched it at his house on a Sunday afternoon. I mean, it's a brilliant movie and one of my absolute favorites now but it took a few months for me to process the insanity that I saw that day.
Murphy's death and Emil after the toxic waste totally traumatized me. And Kurtwood Smith's role in That 70s Show really helped to soften my fear of him.
MapEmergency8907@reddit
Saw Arachnophobia at a sleep over when I was 8. Crippling fear of spiders still hasn’t left me at 45 and I still think of the shower scene whenever i go to shower in a new place…..
LvlHeadThoroughbred@reddit
American Pie
KermitMadMan@reddit
parents permission? lol
melvinmel@reddit
The late night comedy specials of Eddie Murphy and Andrew Dice Clay.
I would lay flat on the ground in the hallway and have a direct sightline to the tv and would watch it "without" my parents knowing...
My mom told me years after my dad passed away that he always knew when I was in the hallway sneaking and watching.
Forward_Progress_83@reddit
At 14, my cousin managed to rent Pulp Fiction when his family was visiting my family. The clerk asked him if he was 18, and he told them he was 17. She let him rent it.
I watched it with him, his brother and my sister.
I was 12.
triplee711@reddit
Dumb and Dumber.
A night out with grandma and grandpa made me bold enough to ask if I could go to my own movie while they went to see I.Q. (the irony haha).
What a blast for a 13 year old who hadn't experienced a lot of personal agency up to that point. And I never told my parents because they would've been PISSED. What happens with the grandparents stays with the grandparents!
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
The irony is so funny!
Sad-Confection7125@reddit
Porkys, I was supposed to be playing video games in the back and my cousins were watching the movie. I walked in and saw boobies flash across the screen…I was 8.
liftkitten@reddit
Mine was Pretty Woman. I watched it when I was nine. I’m still not sure why that one was forbidden but so many others that were equally inappropriate weren’t. I can only guess that my mom didn’t want me to get any ideas about being a sex worker?
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That would be my guess. It glamourizes something that is far from glamourous.
melodyomania@reddit
Kids and real sex on HBO
superluminal@reddit
There's a whole "story" to this, but the sum-up is that when I was newly 16 (and therefore officially allowed to date), my boyfriend wanted to take me to see Speed. I couldn't see R-rated movies so I told my parents I was going with my best friend to see some (probably Disney) movie that was also in theaters. My dumb-ass 16-year-old-self didn't think to check the listings at multiple theaters so I got busted because they saw my car at the theater near my friend's house, where the movie we were supposed to be seeing was NOT playing.
This is a situation I cannot fathom being to accurately explain to my kids when they romanticize growing up in the 90s.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Gosh ain't that the truth. Nowadays they can't get away with anything with phone tracking and doorbell cameras.
djsynrgy@reddit
This is one where I kinda lived two different realities in two different households [because divorce(s).]
The earliest incident I can remember was me inadvertently revealing to Dad that Mom had watched Young Frankenstein with us, when I came home quoting "damn your eyes!" He was.. Not happy.. 😆
But that's the general gist: In terms of media, Mom didn't believe in trying to shelter us at all; Dad, though not actively trying to shelter us, couldn't help but be a bit prudish, and his marriages exacerbated that over time.
There was another incident years later around my 16th birthday, where some friends and I tried to watch Pulp Fiction at my Dad's house, and his wife shut that down real quick. First it was an accusatory "I heard that," following Hunny Bunny's gun-pointing declaration atop the diner table, followed shortly thereafter by a "that's it; shut it off; not in my house," when the conversation between Jules and Vincent got into the subject of feet. We didn't even make it to the Ezekiel speech. 😆
PercentageRoutine310@reddit
Maybe Fatal Attraction (1987) and Dead Calm (1989). My mom covered my eyes when watching it in the theater. But my dad was more lax. He didn’t care if I watched his stash of 80s porn. By 1997, I watched porn with his friends who were also our housemates and he didn’t care.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Fatal Attraction is so good and could be used as a cautionary tale. I recently watched that with my daughter and my mom as we were traveling together and it was what was on.
OneandOnlyBobTom@reddit
Last house on the left but now that I think back I saw porkies way too young.
burnsalot603@reddit
I didn't really have restrictions on what I was allowed to watch because I didnt watch much TV. Where I fucked up was going to a sleepover on a tyson fight night and nit understanding why they didnt get the channel the fight was on. His dad said they didnt order it and I said oh you just have to put it on channel 906 or whatever it was back then. Turns out we had a black box and my dad never explained to me I needed to keep that to myself. Luckily my friends dad was cool and ended up getting their own black box from my dad.
This was also when i finally understood what people were talking about when they said they caught a glimpse of a boob between the squiggly lines. My friend and I had quite an enterprise going in 7th and 8th grade selling 15 min tapes of the playboy channel to kids at school.
liarsandfrogs@reddit
I watched Purple Rain and Poetic Justice at my neighbors house. At home I was pretty much allowed 3 Disney movies, and all the focus on the family and black and white Shirley temple I wanted.
OlDirtyTriple@reddit
I saw uncensored R rated action movies at age 8. Commando, Predator, Rambo II and III. American Ninja.
In hindsight, they were cool and awesome and only made me cooler and more awesome in elementary school.
sanedragon@reddit
Dirty Dancing. I was 6 or 7. Watched it with the neighbor, who was a kindergarten teacher and also my babysitter 😂. Most of it went right over my head, but I loved the dancing scenes
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Killer soundtrack
Mountain-Fox-2123@reddit
I can't think of a movie, but i did watch the tv series Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (1987-1996) in secret because my mother would not let me watch it, so i watched it at friends houses.
To this day i do not understand why i was not allowed to watch it, i have asked and my mother don't even know why she did not let me watch it.
moissan2nite@reddit
Maybe she thought it was going to turn you turtle.
Puzzled_Assist_9244@reddit
After reading through all of these, I think some parents must have just been sick of our shit or had a rough day and just didn't want to spend the extra energy to background check a damn movie and just said no, lol.
kiggitykbomb@reddit
I have a foggy memory of hearing an urban legend, that a group of young kids ended up beating a classmate to death because they were pretending to be ninja turtles and got carried away. I seem to remember my mom being concerned tmnt made kids violent.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's really interesting especially since it's mainly for kids, right? Maybe she thought it was violent.
ospreyguy@reddit
Oh man, I saw Fast Times waaaay too young. I was 7 or 8, during a summer afternoon when Mom was at the store and Dad was working on the far side of the property. It was also that most magical time in a boys life, the free HBO weekend, where they showed movies, like Robocop and War Games, with all the cuss words left in... But Fast Times did a number on that kid. That was a confusing couple of years...
P5ammead@reddit
At the age of 11 we went on a school trip to France, on a coach / ferry. The coach driver played all sorts of stuff, including (memorably) The Terminator uncut - all the violence and sex scenes included. God knows why the teachers let that go but they did; my parents would have gone ballistic if they’d known!
Andi_Lou_Who@reddit
Bound (1996). I had a HUGE crush on Jennifer Tilly. I secretly recorded it too and then hid the vhs tape inside a Disney case lol.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Smart kid!
Conduit-Katie82@reddit
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh they wouldn't have liked this one either LOL
ptblandland@reddit
Total Recall
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
My dad liked Arnold so this one was allowed. Good one!
ptblandland@reddit
I think I was in 4th grade and at a sleep over with some friends and we secretly watched it in the middle of the night
Bubbly-Werewolf9290@reddit
Pretty Women
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Totally get that. Glamourizes prostitution in a way that is 100% unrealistic. I doubt most men that use sex workers look like Richard Gere.
Itsnotbabyyoda389@reddit
Exit to Eden.
Ok_Percentage5157@reddit
Honestly, I cannot recall this being an issue. By the time I was old enough to be places without my parents, this wasn't an issue.
I do remember my Dad telling me not to watch Aliens because "that movie will scare this shit out of you". I was like, 12? Spoiler: He was right.
marcuslattimore21@reddit
Kids
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
So scary and sad
ailish@reddit
When Harry Met Sally.u parents wouldn't let me watch it but I saw it at a friend's house whose parents didn't care. Totally traumatized.🙄
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I'll have what she's having!
sarabaracuda@reddit
My friend's mom rented Cujo for a 9th bday sleepover. My parents were pretty lax about tv and movies but were pissed because the movie gave me nightmares for weeks afterward.
Status_Entrepreneur4@reddit
Faces of Death
leopargodhi@reddit
sneaking into Dangerous Liaisons at 12 yo was my true coming of age moment
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
A right of passage
LocalDesign1313@reddit
My parents were actually pretty progressive around film so that’s probably why to this day I enjoy it way more than watching modern content. My dad took me to see who framed Roger rabbit. All the naked gun movies, Eddie Murphy flicks, space balls, lots of satire.
My teenage best friends mom wouldn’t allow us to rent clerks but mallrats was cool!
pm_me_your_amphibian@reddit
Trainspotting.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I didn't see that until I was an adult but I still get upset thinking about that one scene with the baby
Dean_Proffitt@reddit
My parents were very loose about what we could watch. Though I always remember my mom telling us to close our eyes when Erika Eleniak popped out of the stripper cake topless.
RoscoMD@reddit
Mom and dad shut off Boomerang 5 minutes in because of the sex scene. Watched it years later and was pissed I wasted my time with it.
civiltribe@reddit
I remember the biggest example was my friends uncle took us to see Takes from the Crypt: Bordello of Blood. I didn't understand what bordello meant, so when I got home from seeing it and I told my mom, she was shocked by the title meanwhile I'm like what how'd she know about tits in it. but I also came home to my first cat, I was 11 years old and I kind of spoiled the surprise lol.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
TIL I learned what bordello means LOL I just always used brothel.
Human_Tornada@reddit
Predator. I was 6 and my sitter was super cool.
CompletelyBedWasted@reddit
IT
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
SOO scary
summerlea1@reddit
In 1992 Basic Instinct with Sharon Stone.
CatAnxiety@reddit
Definitely Pulp Fiction. I have no idea how I got my hands on the vhs but I remember secretly watching in my room in middle school and having no idea wtf was happening.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
My husband let our daughter watch that at 8. She loved it and still has the movie poster at 17 lol
Savings-Market4000@reddit
My grandmother let me watch Last House On The Left when I was about 11, because the VHS case looked interesting. Yes, she knew what the movie was about - it was her tape. My parents freaked out when they found out. My grandmother let me watch Mother's Day a few weeks after that, but told me that my parents wouldn't understand so it was best not to tell them we watched it.
paintedwoodpile@reddit
Movies she never cared about. She didn’t like us watching “You Can’t Do That On Television” on Nickelodeon. She didn’t find it as funny as we did.
GreatHuntersFoot@reddit
Scream
kellsbells210@reddit
Rocky horror picture show. I got banned from a friend's house when my parents found out.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
You know I've never actually seen that one, but I don't think my parents would approve ;)
Neat_Guest_00@reddit
Basic Instinct
SkyRadiant1879@reddit
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Which movie is that? I am not familiar :)
SkyRadiant1879@reddit
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
*wolf whistle*
Nayzo@reddit
I think it's Roadhouse
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Ahh yes that would make sense. Patrick Swayze was so hot.
theluzah@reddit
the Last American Virgin I think?
Shoddy-Feedback1257@reddit
I remember watching that one on USA Up All Night! lol
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I hadn't seen that one!
theluzah@reddit
I can't vouch for how well it's aged, so if you wind up watching it might be absolutely horrible lol
Oubastet@reddit
Total Recall!
I was always into Sci Fi and desperately wanted to see it but it was "bad". I did get to see once it came out on video at a friends house though.
My parents were your classic pearl clutching types. Bought into the whole witchcraft and demonic scare and held onto it until I sat them down and "educated" them on fantasy vs reality. Yea. I shouldn't have had to do that.
mosfunky@reddit
We had HBO, Showtime, and Cinemax in the 90s and I saw some shit as a result. The only movie my mom said she didn’t want me to see was Pulp Fiction, so we ordered it on PPV that weekend and recorded it to VHS. We were little shits.
Zealousideal_Ninja75@reddit
The Terminator
Alien
Friday the 13th
Nightmare on Elm St
Halloween
All before the age of 10.
se-dc@reddit
Two Girls and a Guy
Boy, were we disappointed by that talky, shitty nudity-free drama
squarebodynewb@reddit
Revenge of the nerds!
marmot1101@reddit
Ford Fairlane. Mom was piiiiiiiissed at my brother for a while. Dad thought it was funny.
Cma100684@reddit
Barb Wire. I remember watching it at a buddies house who had a TV descrambler.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I hadn't seen that one, but given that the beautiful Pam Anderson was it in I can see why your parents would have been apprehensive :)
Archbuggy@reddit
Pulp Fiction. I told my parents I was going over to my friend’s house to watch Disneys Aristocats. 😆
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL just a little different
Archbuggy@reddit
😅😅😅
TheLoneliestGhost@reddit
There weren’t any logical restrictions on my media growing up. Hell, my mom introduced me to horror before I was even school-aged and I fell in love with it. She and friends’ moms never batted an eye when we rented a stack of horror movies for a sleepover. However, she didn’t want me watching Beavis & Butthead, Ren & Stimpy, or sometimes The Simpsons. Lol.
_WeSellBlankets_@reddit
I was in high school when Forrest Gump came out and my mom didn't want me watching that. I think she wanted me watching Titanic either. And I no she was against Batman as well. A lot of, "you won't understand it." She probably wouldn't have been a fan of me seeing some of the Iron Eagle movies or Bloodsport in late elementary school or middle school.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Forrest Gump is still my favorite. They let me see that but by then I was like 14. Funny about Titanic, I went with my youth group with our youth minister. I have to wonder if he knew about the boob scene before we went or not.
hideNseekKatt@reddit
My folks let us watch basically anything we wanted. I remember watching horror movies at 6 years old. The only rule my mom had was that I could not watch A Clockwork Orange until I was 18. So of course 16 year old me and my friends got a copy of it watched it all the time.
WhoDatLadyBear@reddit
I could watch whatever I wanted lolol I loved scary movies so my mom rented me the exorcist at 10yo. I grew up catholic light so it traumatized me, I literally had nightmares for a year and I can't see her makeup to this day.
wykkedfaery33@reddit
Vampire Hunter D, late 90s. My parents rented it for them to watch together, and wouldn't allow us to watch it. Well, as it happened, my friend's sister had a VHS copy, so I just went to watch it over there.
PokerbushPA@reddit
Cable in the 80s was awesome.
I saw Porky's at 11 (I think). Pretty sure that was the first beaver I ever saw.
You know what they say...
"Once you've seen one, you want to see them all"
gravesisme@reddit
Robocop
deltadawn6@reddit
Speed. I flat out lied to see it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Keanu was so freaking hot in that one
Psychological-View73@reddit
Faces of Death. I rented it in high school, but rented it on parents account and returned it late so there was a late charge. My mom was confused and argued with the store clerk saying “she would NEVER rent a movie like that”. I had to come clean and tell her it was me before she would let it go. At that point my parents had stopped policing what I watched, but my mom was not happy that I rented that movie. To be fair she had a point, it wasn’t just a movie it was real footage of traumatizing and gruesome accidents/murders/suicides.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
My brother had these and would show them to me. Gotta admit they still scare me, fake or not.
Lorindale@reddit
My dad taught film history, so anything short of outright porn was fine. A Fish Called Wanda was actually one of his favorite movies.
thoughtfractals85@reddit
My dad somehow got an unsupervised visit with me back in the day and took me to see Species. I was like 8 or 9. He was a horrible father, but I don't think he actually knew what he was taking me to see. We left quite early. I think he just thought it was scifi.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
The only time I would get away with blatantly watching whatever is when my parents didn't realize what it was.
mrWizzardx3@reddit
Ski Patrol
JadeeDraven@reddit
Dirty Dancing. I think I was 7 and with a friend who's parents weren't being great parentals. My mom found out and was PISSED. The funny thing is the "Penny" scene that may have been one of the things my mom didn't want me seeing, I didn't understand. I thought the guy just came over and stabbed her in the stomach and left. I really didn't know what sex was or how you get pregnant at that point. Most of the movie went right over my head. I watched it again in high school and was like Oooohhhhh. Still one of the greatest soundtracks.
Lonely_Opening3404@reddit
T2
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Good one
Silent_Supermarket70@reddit
Anything Cinemax was showing on a Saturday night
TaylorSwift4Pres@reddit
I tried to rent KIDS at the video store bc I figured the title would throw her off. She read the back. I took my grandma the next day and she let me rent it. 🤣
BulkyRaccoon548@reddit
Managed to convince my baby sitter to let me watch Terminator when I was like 5. I was terrified robots from the future were going to come back in time to murder me for weeks.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Haha instant karma
Crans10@reddit
RoboCop, We convinced the babysitter.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Haha that's the way to do it!
linemanshandset@reddit
It's weird because my parents didn't want me to watch a lot of stuff but then they were often completely oblivious when I was renting R rated movies. So I guess I'd say Terminator and Robocop.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
My dad liked Arnold so he would let me watch his movies at least.
Datsunoffroad@reddit
“ I spit on your grave” original version
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's one I hadn't seen but always see it on lists about the most fucked up movies.
gerardkimblefarthing@reddit
I watched Jaws way too early, and it was discovered after I refused to swim in the river. It was their fault, though, as the reason I was fascinated is they took me to Universal Studios and on the tour... I went on to study sharks through my tween and teen years and can still rattle off shark facts like the annoying kid in Jurassic Park talks about dinosaurs.
mmoonbelly@reddit
My (then 31 year old) dad was on daddy duty when it had its UK TV premiere in 1983. Mum was off doing something else and me and my younger sister didn’t want to go to sleep by the time of the 9pm watershed.
I lasted until they find the first tooth and the dead guy shock moment.
My 3.5 year old sister watched the whole film with my dad.
Mum came back when it was finishing and was a little annoyed with my dad for a month.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh that ride was badass!
Due-Leek-8307@reddit
They rented me Robocop and let me watch it unsupervised because I loved the cartoon.
Furballprotector@reddit
I had crazy religious parents so any movies that had magic or witchcraft or anything were off limits. At a friend's house, I saw the beginning of Labyrinth and wondered for years whatever happened to that stolen baby.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Hey take the power back and go finish it :)
ShiraPiano@reddit
Nothing. My parents let me watch whatever I wanted. My first R rated movie was Nightmare on Elm Street 3: Dream Warriors when I was 5.
sk3pt1c@reddit
Greek here. None, we didn’t have lame filters at my house, i could watch whatever i wanted, we watched lots of movies with my parents too.
LordLaz1985@reddit
Terminator. my bro and I were about 5 and 7, and we found where my parents had taped it.
There was a lot of stuff in it that we weren’t quite ready for, but it didn’t exactly harm us.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I think that's why it confused me that they were so strict on movies. It wouldn't cause permanent damage...as I get scared thinking about the Ghost demons at 44 damn years old. LOL
canterberi@reddit
Misery
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
When I think of that scene my ankles curl up.
kathatter75@reddit
My parents regretted that I sat through the first 3 Nightmare on Elm Street movies in one day. I was an anxious mess that night and ended up sleeping at the house of a family friend who came by looking for my mom after she’d already left to hit the bars for the night.
My parents thought it would be cool to drop 7 year old me with my 4 year old brother and a couple of neighbor kids to see ET at the theater. Good thing I had my quarter for the pay phone…My brother started screaming for Mommy in the scene where Gertie sees ET in the closet and screams.
joshyuaaa@reddit
My mom never questioned anything I watched. I did watch a Jodie foster movie with her one time and she had me look away or leave, I don't recall which, during a rape scene.
I'm sure she wouldn't been thrilled what I watching late at night on cable though lol. Skinemax were the days haha
AddNomAndThem@reddit
Silence of the Lambs
The Lost Boys
Nightmare on Elm Street
Halloween
Fear (Mark Wahlberg)
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Silence of the Lambs was one that they let me watch for some reason and it still affects me when I think about it.
I actually watched Fear the other day with my 17 year old girl as a cautionary tale to get to know men before you date them. Gosh he was sexy back then, even for a bad guy!
farfanseaweevil@reddit
Stand By Me
AncientQueenOfIkana@reddit
My friend at the time and I were 12, and wanted to see this at the movies. My mom immediately said, "YALL AIN'T GONNA SEE NO NEW JACK CITY"! I watched it a few years later on HBO with my sister...😆😆😆
mmoonbelly@reddit
Movie - Runaway. (The one with Tom Selleck and the robot spiders).
Don’t think my parents realised we’d recorded it and were watching it before school.
Its_all_pretty_neat@reddit
Aliens and Bram Stokers Dracula come to kind. Young me may have rewatched certain parts of the dracula vhs more than others.
RadioWavesHello@reddit
Crazy, you people talking about parents or permission.
OvenFriendly1818@reddit
Interview with a vampire
_buffy_summers@reddit
Probably The Craft? I saw it with some friends while I was staying the night at their house; we saw it in the theater. Anything else my parents didn't want me to watch, I didn't really watch. But they didn't put a lot of restrictions on me, in that regard. My lack of interest in horror, in my early teens, was because I had no privacy at all, and three little sisters who would have immediately tattled on me for breathing if they decided it bothered them.
Once we moved and I got my own room, tv, and VCR? I started building a horror movie collection. I still prefer horror from the 1970s to the early aughts; everything since seems to mostly be gorn. I've noticed a trend in directors going back to less gore and more psychological horror lately, and I'm so grateful for it.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh I love The Craft. "We are the weirdos"
ejrhonda79@reddit
Purple rain when it came out on vhs.
a_solid_6@reddit
Besides the scrambled soft porn every Friday night on Cinemax? The People Under the Stairs. My mother was pissed when my friend's mom let us watch it during a sleepover.
IceSmiley@reddit
Porky's
Also more funny I watched Terminator 1 because I watched 2 and my brother and I loved it so my dad said "Terminator 1 is amazing" and he rented it when he came home from work on Friday
Terminator had a 4 minute graphic sex scene and it might not sound long but slowly count to 240 and see how long it feels 💀
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Yeah, I think that would have been too long even as an adult LOL It would have been super cringy watching that with parents.
Specialist_Action_85@reddit
Kids for sure
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Such a sad one.
AlilAwesome81@reddit
I guess Im lucky. My parents let me watch basically any type of movie but were afraid of me watching Cops, WWE, and the 1st season of Real World
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Mine encouraged COPS probably thinking it would deter me from a life of crime. Never mind that my brother has been in and out of prison for most of his life.
Buzzderek@reddit
For me it was poltergeist at the ripe old age of 6. My dad had left the Betamax tape in the player and I watched it the next morning not understanding what I was about to see. Was traumatized for a long time from my recollection.
Aquinasprime@reddit
My parents didn’t want me to see Dirty Dancing. I’m guessing because of the abortion plot line.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Yeah mine wouldn't have liked that either.
grapecityjammer@reddit
When I was in 6th grade or so I rented The Doors. I liked the band, thought the movie would be cool. I started watching it alone. After probably the second part with nudity I self censored myself and turned it off. I assumed my parents wouldn’t approve.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
What a good kid you must have been! I didn't see it until recently. Val Kilmer was soooo hot and looked just like Jim Morrisson.
BotherAffectionate37@reddit
It’s funny, my parents disapproved of sex/nudity/language but I can’t remember a time they outright banned me from watching anything. They didn’t watch that stuff themselves so there was rarely an opportunity for me to see it anywhere except for the censored for tv versions (we lived in the woods so no friends around to sneak off to lol). When I was a teen and did watch stuff they disapproved of they just made disgruntled noises but I never got in trouble.
Pookie-Stinker413@reddit
Eddie Murphy's RAW. New stepmom didn't let her kids watch it so I went to my grandma's and we watched it together and laughed. She also gave me my first romance novel at age 9 or 10. A year later we were finally able to watch it at Dad's and I had pretend that I hadn't seen it already.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Grandmas are the best!
Pookie-Stinker413@reddit
Mine sure was!
kellsbells210@reddit
Rocky horror picture show. I got banned from a friend's house when my parents found out.
wrathofthewhatever2@reddit
Porky’s! I saw the title on the VHS and thought it would be Looney toons and Porky Pig, I was about 5 or 6 years old and in the basement so they didn’t know I watched at all…..I’ve never shoved my junk through a shower wall in my life, mainly because of this movie…..otherwise……
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
LOL @ Porky Pig. I used to think that too but I am not sure I have ever seen it. I sure remember the movie cover though!
Pure_shenanigans_310@reddit
There were no limits growing up..
I just watched whatever my parents did for the most part.
I DO remember gettin busted for sayin "Nice fuckin model!" and grabbin my crotch after watching Beetlejuice lol
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
That's so funny! I guess Back to the Future was tame enough that they allowed it but I did get the word "bastard" from it and called a kid that at recess in the 2nd grade LOL TBF he probably was :)
El_Hefe_Ese@reddit
Many of the 80s action movies. Terminator 1, Commando, Cyborg. My neighbors had HBO (big deal in the 80s!)
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Good ones. My dad liked Arnold so I got to watch those type of movies a little bit, but then I would get kind of scared.
jaywinner@reddit
Don't know if they would have stopped me but Killing Zoe at 10 years old stands out. Saw it at a friend's place and right after the opening nudity the parents walked in and wanted the little brother to watch the movie with us. My friend said it might be a bad idea because it's a "violent" movie. Worked out since the rest of the movie was indeed quite violent.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Saved! I don't know that one but I might look it up :)
Dual_Wield_Donuts@reddit
Religious Right parents forbid Harry Potter. Read every movie and read every book anyway.
tehdamonkey@reddit
Hell Raiser back in 7th grade.... was my first real Horror/Terror movie.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
I don't think I've seen that one. I might have to check it out!
stykface@reddit
Extreme violence or horror was off limits, such as The Exorcist and Nightmare on Elm Street, or Stephen King movies like Cujo and Pet Cemetery, only as a young kid. Once I got about 10-ish, they would let me watch a horror flick. Hit 12-13 then it was fully uncapped for those types of movies.
We could watch movies as kids growing up that had "adult parts" but they would tell us to turn our heads when the scenes with some titties showing would come up. It wasn't until I was 14 until they said okay to nudity scenes, which didn't mean I had a free pass to watch Skinamax soft core shows, but I didn't have to turn my head anymore when a sex scene came on from an A-list movie.
But to answer the direct question, I never really had an opportunity to watch something without their permission, but my cousin who was a few years older than me had all the cable channels and he had no boundary whatsoever so I saw most of my things over there that I shouldn't have, which wasn't much but a decent amount. I knew I was in the wrong each time I did it. But man, the fascination of boobies when you're 10 is something else haha.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Oh I can only imagine! Glad your cousin was able to hook you up with the good stuff :)
Huevo_con_Chorizo88@reddit
Anything that started with “Lady Chatterly”
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Had to google that, I can see why :)
TechnicalEntry@reddit
Ugh, I got in trouble for renting Backdraft. Not even sure why.
Linzcro@reddit (OP)
Really? Interesting. Maybe because it was scary kind of?