Is It OK To Knock On My Childhood Home And Ask For A Look Around?

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I grew up in the next street to where I live now. I spent the first 25 years of my life in that house, then moved out 19 years ago. Today I walked past with my son to show him where I grew up, and I really wanted to knock on the door and ask if I could have a look around. Do you think that’s OK to do? What would you think if someone did that to you? It made me a bit sad seeing the house. The drive and garage are still the same, and it brought back so many memories. I was remembering playing out in the street in the 80s and 90s—whole summers of football and cricket, BMX jumps over mates lying on the ground, and all of us staying out until about 10 pm when it finally got dark. I could picture my mum, who’s passed now, sat on our wall chatting with neighbours. It makes me really want to relive it. Funny thing is, my parents always said “remember these days, they’ll be the best times of your life” and of course you think “what are they talking about?” but now I say the same thing to my son. Nostalgia’s awful—it really hurts when those flashbacks of childhood hit you.