Not including everyone’s opinion for the sake of progress?
Posted by aLifeOfPi@reddit | ExperiencedDevs | View on Reddit | 49 comments
Imagine a multi-application codebase built mostly by people in their first professional role. That’s the situation I was hired into as a senior, being asked to help "fix" what had been built.
**The issue:**
the team runs as a flat org where everyone’s opinion is weighted equally. There’s no strong technical leader involved in day-to-day work, and middle managers ironically seem content to let this happen.
**How I’ve been approaching it:**
Say I want to push a FE technical change, I’ll gather 3–4 of the FE-focused engineers, walk them through the idea, provide POCs/docs, and we move forward.
This works. We make progress.
But inevitably, other engineers, who weren’t in the room, hear about it and complain that they didn’t get a say.
**Why I don’t bring everyone in?**
If I try to include the whole team, one of two things happens:
1. The decision takes 2x as long or stalls out completely.
2. The idea gets "voted down" because people with no context/skillset in that area don’t want the change.
So I intentionally go with small, relevant groups. Yes, partially to push *my ideas* through, but that’s literally why I was hired: to improve things.
**TLDR:*
"am i the asshole?"
Sometimes i get caught up in "doing the right thing", i.e. involve everyone, ask everyone's opinion, take a vote, consider I could be wrong, take an L, etc... but this job I've basically said "f&%k all that, im here to help. thats my job. if things aren't improving, im not doing my job"
I guess idk what to say to Bob when Bob asks “hey why wasn’t I included in that?”
Because the truth would hurt Bobs feelings.
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