Would you date someone who has no friends?

You’re not tied down by a job location or any relationships. Why not relocate? See a different part of the country, or even the world! It’s the _perfect_ excuse to have no friends! People often ‘find their identity’ a bit at uni. They get to start fresh, reinvent/ be true to themselves, and “find their people.” People are **way** more likely to open up their social circle to the ‘new guy who just moved here’ than ‘the guy who just has no friends.’ Sounds like you desperately need to get out of your comfort zone, and throw yourself into the deep end. You seem comfortable dating, so this is something you could definitely do, whether you relocate or not. Join some groups based around stuff you like, be proactive. You’re only 32 ffs! ——————- Ignore anything Reddit says about men only having friends in their 20s. Reddit is not an accurate representation of most people. A lot of us are socially awkward/ neurodivergent etc. That’s why we communicate with strangers anonymously on the internet! Many men in small towns who marry in their 20s end up pretty dull and friendless in their 30s, but remember there are tons of people out there who don’t settle down this early. I get really bad social anxiety too, especially before and after social events. But during them, I can be super extroverted. You need to find the people who simultaneously make you feel comfortable, but also challenge you. My friends are much more outgoing and often smarter than me. It pushes me to be better. Occasionally someone new becomes a part of the group. This happens organically. Just put yourself out there, and be proactive without being clingy. Things will get much harder in your 40s because more people will be married/ have kids etc. But many folks in their 30s have really healthy social lives, and would welcome you in a heartbeat if your vibe is a good match. Go and find your people!