What's the worst thing about being British?
Posted by OkWhile8478@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 797 comments
I hate the instinctive apology when there is any unexpected colliision but I'm powerless to do otherwise.
Darkgreenbirdofprey@reddit
Being automatically held to higher standards, and thus, hated, for doing things that other nationalities are notoriously worse for.
Everyone hates the Brits. Despite us being famously polite, accepting, and we stand up to bullies/always support the underdog.
If we wave our own flag we're racist. Drink abroad - we're hooligans. Compete at nearly every sport - we're the baddies.
thejonathanpalmer@reddit
The way some behave abroad - the sense of entitlement and arrogance is disgusting to see at times, and makes me feel ashamed to be British.
Agitated-Koala6991@reddit
That's what happens when you colonise half of the world
Evening_Cup_3319@reddit
You flatter us, it was only a quarter.
RegularStrength4850@reddit
I try to learn eg a dozen token phrases. Sometimes it goes a long way. Italy/Spain/Poland loves you for it. Not much experience of other countries but France just replies to you in English.
I'd love to "blend in" but it's impossible. As quiet as I am, I'd spot me from a mile away (dressing like a Brit trying to cope with the temperature while the locals are in flannel shirt and jeans)
_robertmccor_@reddit
in France they’ll reply in English they just will pretend they can’t. I remember being in DisneyLand Paris back in 2020 and I was trying to buy a Pepsi. The person manning the stall was French but replied to me in Perfect English “I don’t know what you’re trying to say I don’t know English” it’s like I’m trying to buy a Pepsi let’s pretend for a second you can’t speak perfect English I’m sure you could infer what I mean when I say Pepsi at a stall where you are exclusively selling drinks.
jessicafletcher1971@reddit
I've lived in France for almost 8 years and I've just had been saying awkward conversation about weather to the french bloke who has an office just round corner.My husband told me he speaks English as my husband went to him for some tech issue tried to explain in french what was wrong with it and he just said would it be easier to talk English
I've have a lot of medical appointments due to Huntingtons and most staff will talk in English and they apologies to me.
LitmusVest@reddit
I asked for a Cheeseburger in a Maccies in Paris years ago, or at least I think I did. Said 'un Cheeseburger, sil-vous-plait'. Blank face, something about not understanding. I pointed to the menu behind him and said in my least Northern, most neutral, slowest voice... 'Cheeseburger?'
Nothing. He went and talked to some people and came out of the back with presumably someone who could speak better English than my French, and I repeated my first phrase.
'Aaaah, sheesbairrgairr'. It was almost an everybody fucking clapped moment - much merriment behind the counter, loads of probably piss-taking I couldn't understand, I stopped holding the queue up, and I finally got my sheesbairrgairr.
BillOrmePersonal@reddit
Same thing happens with water in the US. Took me ages to realise you have to ask for wadda
ElektroSam@reddit
I asked for an orange juice and lemonade in Canada... I was given a dirty look and was presented with orange cordial and 7up.
Tasted like piss
WynterRayne@reddit
Waddurr. With emphasis on the the rr.
LitmusVest@reddit
I had that in California when I asked (Northern accent again) for 'butter' in an IHOP. Had 3 tries then went for... 'er..... badda?' Yep, there it is.
Physical_Orchid3616@reddit
Do you know how many blank faces I get because of my American accent (in the UK). It's as if I'm not speaking english at all.
WynterRayne@reddit
Well if you're sitting on your fanny while talking, people are wondering what's with the odd position
AccomplishedGreen904@reddit
Low-Confidence-1401@reddit
I've had multiple times in the past where I've tried to speak French to the locals, and they look at me as if I've just spoken to them in swahili or something. I would say I'm fairly good at languages (not fluent, but I can get by in Spanish and French), and I've had full conversations with some other French people where they've not only understood what I've said, but have been very friendly and chatty with me once they realised I can somewhat understand, so I know it's not me!
I think its because they EXPECT English people to not be able to speak French. We had one instance where I was eating out with my cousins (who are English but lived in France from about 9 and 11 years old), and the waiting staff were being incredibly rude about us in French. They were very embarrassed when half of the party turned out to be fluent in French...
Danielharris1260@reddit
I’m surprised about disneyland paris I would’ve thought all the customer facing staff would have to know english since they get so many tourists from all over Europe.
MammothAccomplished7@reddit
Having been to Disneyland in Florida and then Disneyland Paris with college a couple of years later the difference in customer service was massive to say the least. No idea why they thought Paris was a great idea, Rome would have been better or Madrid with Spanish and Italians being generally friendlier.
_robertmccor_@reddit
As did I! My mates were calling me an asshole for it too they were saying I can’t expect them to know English. Um we’re in DisneyLand, they get tourists from all over the globe especially Europe and especially the UK.
ZakFellows@reddit
I travel a lot and I always try to learn the common courtesy phrases so I can at least start on that.
But then everywhere you go, they treat English as the go to language and initiate the conversation with English so you find yourself unable to actually use the stuff you learn.
Japan is the big one. Learnt a few things but then the people took one look at me (A Pale non Asian man) and just speak English
TeHNeutral@reddit
Funnily enough Japan is absolutely crap at English despite studying it rn masse, it was in the news recently.
ZakFellows@reddit
You wouldn’t know it by talking to them
TeHNeutral@reddit
You definitely would if you go somewhere like Fukuoka though confidence is probably the biggest issue. They spend a lot of time studying it and very little time speaking it.
This is not just anecdotal.
https://www.nippon.com/en/japan-data/h02199/
Leeskiramm@reddit
Germans are 50/50 with fluent English or not a word of English, but chances are they'll reply in great English even when I try to speak German to them
Sad_Cardiologist5388@reddit
I got that so much in Berlin. I'd be trying out my German in a coffee shop or subway or something that they'd just pretend it didn't happen and speak perfect English.
I suppose in the long run I probably wouldn't have understood any reply other than " ok".
More_Sense6447@reddit
It’s because everyone wants to practice their English on you
Silver_SnakeNZ@reddit
I've been lucky enough to travel a bit and I have to say I genuinely think the average Brit is actually among the better behaved tourists. They tend to be polite and respectful on average, at least in the places I've visited, and generally try to learn the local language and engage with the local customs.
However the worst ~10% of the British tourists are absolutely awful, probably the worst in the world and really a national embarrassment for most Brits I've met. Easy to find this lot in the South of Spain or any cheap destination in Europe.
Admirable-One3888@reddit
I'd say you/they are all very polite until the drinks start
Whit3Pudding@reddit
The thing is UK is the third most traveled nationality in the world behind USA and Germany (but much higher than them per capita). So obviously there will bad apples, but at least they make themselves easily detectible by the England flag/name on back tattoo.
ComprehensiveHead913@reddit
Very few people complain about German tourists though?
Whit3Pudding@reddit
Just yesterday I saw a post about a German store being vandalised in Mallorca. You’re right though, proportionally Brits definitely get more hate. No idea why, more working class traveling perhaps?
Ok_Aardvark_1203@reddit
How can Americans be the most travelled when they're renowned for not leaving their own country? It's a whole thing that they're ridiculed for. What are the criteria? What the data source?
Whit3Pudding@reddit
Tbh I wondered that too. Admittedly they was ChatGPT so data could be off. But I’m not committed enough to go do actual research.
hallerz87@reddit
American is a big country. Huge amount of domestic travel by plane + vacations to Mexico, Caribbean, etc. Then you add the international travel to Europe, etc. on top and the numbers will be huge.
DadVanSouthampton@reddit
I fully understand why the Spanish are kicking off against tourism. They took every London gammon wanker that exists.
springheeledjack69@reddit
In Thailand, most are just whiny old men.
They're big spenders, and watching them lose their shit when their team loses is good comedy, so they're all good here.
absbabs1@reddit
The worst of the British tourists stay in the country and go to butlins and places like that. I’ve never been to butlins or a place like it and a Middle aged, fat bold man who has had one too many ciders hasn’t started a fight.
thejonathanpalmer@reddit
Absolutely, totally agree. Most are fine, but (as ever) the minority give us a horrendous reputation abroad.
irish_horse_thief@reddit
Like England ?
zeviea@reddit
Agreed
ailsacraigg@reddit
I believe this to be more of an English centred problem rather than British. I’m Scottish and when travelling we’re always welcomed with excited enthusiasm and a lot of chat about how beautiful our country is. We’ve never been tarred with the arrogant British tourist brush
ElektroSam@reddit
You will only find this in the cheaper, typical locations and targeted Brits places. Packaged holidays by TUI / Jet2 etc will typically give you the "salmon" you are referring too.
Corfu, Benidorm, Alicante, some areas in Turkey and Croatia etc (you know what I mean).
There are two types of Brits abroad, one who enjoys travelling, experiencing culture and food, and those who just want to feel like they're a king / queen and just want the heat and pool (beige).
😅
springheeledjack69@reddit
Depends, if you ask Spaniards, they'd probably say Brits are the worst.
In Southeast Asia, most are just old men yelling at clouds
The_Nunnster@reddit
In a weird contrast, apart from drunken misbehaviour, I find us to be quite courteous abroad. You can always tell Brits by our knack to queueing and giving way to people, and I know we can quite reliably tip abroad when it is not normalised over here. Our main issues are language proficiency, drinking habits, and lack of ability to learn the road laws abroad (jaywalking etc.).
NorthenLeigonare@reddit
Went on a holiday with my parents, and there was this family who were obnoxious on the plane. They then got on the same coach as us. Parents were like, "Oh okay, well we won't see them again after getting off."
And then they got off with us and were at the same bloody hotel.
I remember standing at the literal entrance inside the hotel with my mum and sister, far away from the reception desk where this family was, as a way to demonstrate we weren't with them.
My parents try to stay away from a lot of tourist areas, and I basically try to do the same when I've been abroad, with the exception of staying in Paris for my mates first holiday abroad.
WillJM89@reddit
My wife is Malaysian Chinese and I have came across extremely rude China Chinese in KL airport and other places. It's not just English that are rude abroad. I also noticed rude russians in Bali. That is a common complaint from the locals there too
BungadinRidesAgain@reddit
I almost feel like apologising for my compatriots sometimes, and reassuring the locals that I'm not a scumbag lout. But they probably wouldn't believe me!
U2fangirl@reddit
Imagine being American. I feel the need to apologize everywhere I go. I tried my hardest to be a good traveler.
CeriseMarmot@reddit
Unlike the boatmen pitching up daily for a free holiday
bozzyyy03@reddit
I think this is just a tourist thing. In my experience travelling. All tourists can be like this, in-fact, was speaking to a man who owned the place we were eating at when I was in Greece and he was very eager to have only British tourists (over locals even, apparently) into his restaurant because he reckoned they were overwhelmingly polite to their staff, and less likely to try and ‘scam’ them. whatever that entails.
NoAvocadoMeSad@reddit
Yeah I know we have some tourists that go abroad and behave awfully but this isn't a uniquely British problem and the vast majority are well behaved when abroad.
I really don't know where this idea that we are the worst of the bunch comes from.
NoAvocadoMeSad@reddit
This is the worst thing to you? Considering we aren't much worse if any at all than plenty of other countries you must really love living here given that's the worst
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
The amount of "Little Britain" you see in Spain is quite something
AndreasDasos@reddit
I’ve found we’re not that bad in the majority of the world… just don’t go to certain hotspots that attract our worst, like most of Andalusia, Sunny Beach in Bulgaria…
Foreign-Mess-4190@reddit
Im from scarborough and tourists mainly english are the same . Leave the town a crap hole .
Jayandnightasmr@reddit
Yeah, once the yobs get some booze they become a menace to locals
Chrolan1988@reddit
Everything that you have listed and our now tainted flags (heavily linked to racist ideology) are really the only things I don’t like about being British
Bobajobbob@reddit
Being called British when you identify more as English.
Having to scroll through Country drop down menus trying to figure out whether your country is listed as :
England Great Britain United Kingdom
Glittering_Vast938@reddit
No longer being in the EU.
Typical_Fondant_9412@reddit
Housing and paying for the entire third world.
PieEater1649@reddit
We're the biggest self harmers going.
Recent-Pay9005@reddit
FARAGE AND REFORM!
Top_Tonight_319@reddit
Knowing your dad is your uncle 😭😭
_Sad_Ken_@reddit
That many people revel in their small-mindedness
XDVRUK@reddit
Do wonder if the whole it's great to be borderline medically retarded is a Govt scheme.
UnacceptableUse@reddit
!dick
burnerouchhot@reddit
Being associated with the rest of you cunts
Foddley@reddit
The state of our roads. The road surfaces and the litter. It's embarrassing.
Cak556@reddit
I’ve travelled a little bit, and I have to be honest and say that litter and road wise, our country is one of the better ones.
Drammeister@reddit
Fly tipping has become awful. I don’t know what can be done about it realistically
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
Never been to Delhi?
tinytink05@reddit
The need to complain about everything.
MrMoobz@reddit
Living in a country full of racists
Killybug@reddit
That’s strange. Compare the ethnic diversity of London to almost every other major city on the planet. Doesn’t really bode well for the ‘everyone’s a racist’ nonsense now does it? Why would people risk their lives to come to such a place?
Glass-Evidence-7296@reddit
Montreal, The San francisco area, Vancouver, Miami, have you ever even travelled abroad except a shitty southern Spain holiday?
Killybug@reddit
Only multiple trips to 17 different countries (not including my home country) with 36 trips in 16 years. You?
Glass-Evidence-7296@reddit
sure mate
Killybug@reddit
Sure did. Where’s your smartassed retort listing your extensive travel experiences as you tried in vain to in degrade me with an uninformed perception of me?
Let me guess.. still living at home after a failure to launch?
Glass-Evidence-7296@reddit
NYC, LA, Toronto ?
London is also pretty different from the rest of the country mate
Apprehensive-Ear5722@reddit
Benefits
grosvenorave@reddit
London's obviously not racist, but the entire country hates London - one of the reasons for that is London's not racist.
richbun@reddit
You've not been abroad. We are one of the least racist Countries around! Doesn't excuse the amount here still, but we are amateurs.
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
Every country is full of racists. We're better than most at tolerance.
AnonymousTimewaster@reddit
I think we're about to see that change pretty quickly I'm about 5 years.
AlpacamyLlama@reddit
"everyone in this country has a negative characteristic"
Hmmm
Internal-Apricot-750@reddit
Just no.
Dry_Pick_304@reddit
That's not exclusive to the UK, unfortunately.
BettySwollocks45@reddit
🙄
Jack-Rabbit-002@reddit
I wouldn't say the UK is that bad compared to some places man! Though to be fair I haven't really experienced much being White like I've heard stories from friends and family but very rarely
Smashcannons@reddit
Trying to find my country on an internet drop-down list.
wot_a_carry_on@reddit
I recently tried to buy something and the only option in the drop down was British Armed Forces! I thought it was a glitch or something so shut everything down and tried again. Still armed forces! I've never come across that before and actually, what does it even mean???
CatchaRainbow@reddit
Yes! Is it going to be GB or UK !
Smashcannons@reddit
Sometimes it's England. Recently it was Great Britain, but right at the bottom of the list. How does that work?
HighlandsBen@reddit
This is fiendish. I think sometimes the list is sorted by an invisible country code for the UK, but for whatever reason, the display text chosen is GB.
Nipso@reddit
A similar thing puts AFC Wimbledon at the top of the BBC's pre season league table despite being displayed as just Wimbledon:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/league-one/table
Jimoiseau@reddit
Or sometimes sorted in a different language, but then translated to English and not re-sorted.
Zal_17@reddit
Get to fuck with your Royaume Uni!
MACintoshBETH@reddit
Or you preemptively begin scrolling down to U, to find they’ve stuck it up at the start like some kind of favourites list
TheNinjahippy@reddit
Because that's where we are in the world ranking these days. /s
Coffeeisforclosers_@reddit
United Kingdom
Funky_monkey2026@reddit
It was recently added to that particular database's dictionary, and was probably Great Britain before.
Lost-Actuary-2395@reddit
I always wondered what does people from the channel islands/Gibraltar chooses if they're only given the option of England/Scotland/Wales/NI
NFTArtist@reddit
or worse English (US)
EUskeptik@reddit
It’s evidence of Britain slipping further down the world rankings.
USA is usually first despite starting with a U.
BrawDev@reddit
Most developers import a standard list of countries IE: https://github.com/umpirsky/country-list
Which for the most part is following an international standard.
But then you get some devs, that for whatever reason, personal, professional or just plain didn't realize this stuff has been solved by now. Do it themselves or use worse packages.
And if you don't have the understanding of how the union works, then well you're probably not gonna understand anything else.
Especially when people struggle to point out where France is on a map, they've no chance of knowing where Northern Ireland is, and where the North of Ireland is.
Also, a weird amount of people simply call the UK England. I'm sure it's an American thing. Which is pretty weird considering they have a similar union type to us, devolved government (federal, we have WM) but they do place a lot of emphasis on states I suppose.
I could honestly ramble about this for decades.
justhisguy-youknow@reddit
Let alone if that is a list. https://youtu.be/3nB688xBYdY
CaptainZippi@reddit
I upvote you for many reasons.
oojiflip@reddit
For me it's always either UK or United Kingdom, except it might be right at the start of the list or under U
Phil1889Blades@reddit
Do you have different and seemingly set lists compared to the rest of us?
Grand-Impact-4069@reddit
Wales enter the chat
Spellbind3er@reddit
I have also had to suffer Royaume Uni
astidad@reddit
And I have to deal with Storbritannia
Quiet_paddler@reddit
Sounds infectious - I'd get that checked out.
CrumpetDestroyer@reddit
I've seen it under T before
The United Kingdom
Thrilltwo@reddit
It is very strange that "United States" is apparently the first country alphabetically. I don't remember learning that in school.
Top-Spite-1288@reddit
Prolly because they consider themselves "American" ... the only Americans there are! To them Mexican or Canadians ain't American, no matter the continent their countries are on (not to mention South America). Also most other nationalities on that continent only refer to USA as American, because nobody wants to get lumped together with them guys.
Huge-Promotion-7998@reddit
K-o-R@reddit
I do find a lot of sites put their primary market(s) first, overriding whatever order, and then everywhere else in order.
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
The yanks learn the ABC as "USA, A, B"
arfur-sixpence@reddit
Presumably - America (United States of) :-)
IrishShee@reddit
America is still not the first country alphabetically!
Huge-Promotion-7998@reddit
Accidentally choosing United Arab Emirates too many times.
pelicanradishmuncher@reddit
Vietnam too
Stupid Richmond sausage fingers
MilkMyCats@reddit
Uganda for me.
No_Minimum5904@reddit
Instinctively typing U and being taken to UAE and then wondering why the UK isn't there before realising the UK is at the very top of the list.
K-o-R@reddit
It's fun if the list is sorted by country TLD because that puts the UAE almost at the top (.ae).
mellotronworker@reddit
United Kingdom, British Isles, Great Britain, Albion...
K-o-R@reddit
"Perfidious"
mellotronworker@reddit
'West Bromwich'
Flowergirl_0x@reddit
Nobody speaks about this enough
badmother@reddit
Waiting for some arse of a web designer to list it as "The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland", you know, as it's written on a passport. So that would be under 'T'
Cinn4monSynonym@reddit
Not being able to choose England/Scotland/Wales, yet you can select some other non-sovereign territory like American Samoa or Mayotte...
bootherizer5942@reddit
Oof Spain is also crazy for this one because they often put it under E (for España) even when the list is in English, it’s insanity
pingu_nootnoot@reddit
Happens with Germany too, have to look in the Ds to find it pretty often.
I think this is probably a fairly common one, except of course for France 😀
diesto_cresta@reddit
"What's your nationality"
"Well i'm Engl..."
Bzzzerk - DOES NOT EXIST!
"Ok, then, lets try Brit...."
Bzzzerk -DOES NOT EXIST
"Hmm surely not United Kindgom"
YOU ARE UNITED KINGDOM - YOU MAY PASS
turbo_dude@reddit
Great Kingdom
Tamar-sj@reddit
Or nationality.
Am I British? English? UK? Who knows
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
If you're my (racist) dad, English
And yet was in the British Army....
Cathcart1138@reddit
Try living in Jersey!
CrumpetDestroyer@reddit
No thanks
sobrique@reddit
Also a language picker.
Foshiznik23@reddit
Oh I hate it when you scroll all the way down to U for United Kingdom and it turns out they put that as the first option on the drop down and the other countries alphabetically!
Phaaedrus@reddit
Yes this ⬆️😄
Ok_Pangolin1908@reddit
Pound Stirling too
DampFlange@reddit
Great British Pound English Pound Pound Stirling Stirling GBP UK Pound
I think I’ve seen all of these at least once
MJLDat@reddit
The early days of internet were wild with the number of possibilities.
wot_a_carry_on@reddit
I recently tried to buy something and the only option in the drop down was British Armed Forces! I thought it was a glitch or something so shut everything down and tried again. Still armed forces! I've never come across that before and actually, what does it even mean???
wot_a_carry_on@reddit
I recently tried to buy something and the only option in the drop down was British Armed Forces! I thought it was a glitch or something so shut everything down and tried again. Still armed forces! I've never come across that before and actually, what does it even mean???
sandystar21@reddit
Losing mine and my children’s freedom of movement whilst my polish colleague has a superior passport to me opening opportunities for him and his children to work or settle anywhere in Europe. Thanks to the meat headed gammons for taking away our opportunities because they were sold a lie based on nostalgia.
No-Beyond-4054@reddit
Why do you people pretend like you would have moved? If you have the skills actually needed, it’s still incredibly easy to move to another European country. If you don’t have the skills, you’re only going to leech and be a hindrance and European countries will not allow it. Funnily enough, you only have issue when it’s the UK not wanting unskilled migration.
Deep-Owl-8670@reddit
You can always move to Europe and become a citizen elsewhere.
sandystar21@reddit
How? It’s not so simple these days. Hence why few people buy properties now they are limited to 90 days in 180. Sure if you are rich you can qualify for extended visas by meeting the income requirements but if you have to find work you need to prove an eu citizen cannot do the job you are applying for.
Left-Talk6358@reddit
Skilled visas then citizenship, it's quite easy.
Cantdecide1207@reddit
It's really not that easy, there is a lot of bureaucracy and red tape. And some countries, Italy, for example are making it even harder.
Left-Talk6358@reddit
I suppose we have different perspectives in that case. I'm a chemical engineer and I've looked at where I can and can't go in Europe and following some language work (which to get proficient for me I think would take up to 2 years) I would be able to make most Euro countries happen (some don't even need native language due to some industries being English slant or bilingual). When our parents pass (in many many years God willing), we're lined up to move to Austria for instance but timing may take this away, we'll see.
ICanDanceIfIWantToo@reddit
Ah well if it's not easy I'd just not bother
NoAvocadoMeSad@reddit
"opportunities"
The reality is if you didn't have a skill other countries want, you were unlikely to be able to move there and have a comfortable life.
If you do have a skill these countries want, you can still move there.
This was the big problem with "freedom of movement" it was one sided. You couldn't just turn up in Germany or Spain and get a job in a warehouse, yet they could do here.
ICanDanceIfIWantToo@reddit
I always find it interesting that the people who think they care and often the first to throw stupid things like that about
jeru31@reddit
Colonization, enslavement and all the other horrible traits that come with it
drjimbillybob@reddit
Having a monarchy. Royalists are also the creepiest bastards I've ever known. Even North Koreans would tell them to rein it in a bit.
ArmyAutomatic7618@reddit
I wish everyone would shut up about the weather for just 5 minutes
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
Have to listen to all the morons blaming us for all the evils in the world.
Glass-Evidence-7296@reddit
not all the evils, some of it was French too!
Dexav@reddit
How willing the British to be stepped over by their government without even a hint of resistance, other than complaining on social media and signing useless petitions.
thejonathanpalmer@reddit
UK governments are all elected democratically, however
Financial_Way1925@reddit
Not exactly free or fair though is it
thejonathanpalmer@reddit
How is not free or fair?
Confuseduseroo@reddit
Unfortunately for us the democratic system was never conceived to be gamed on social media and is now creaking at the seams.
cybertonto72@reddit
House of lords is not elected at all
Dexav@reddit
With FPTP though, so not exactly a shining example of electoral representation.
LoquaciousLascivious@reddit
Yep, we just roll over and take it like an old wh*re.
EmuSea4963@reddit
But if it gets 10000 signatures they have to discuss it in parliament...
PARLIAMENT!!!
Fjordi_Cruyff@reddit
We should take a leaf out of the French book and start an uprising whenever we don't like something. I have much respect for the French because of their unwillingness to accept, pretty much anything.
Except. I'm a bit of a wuss, can you do it?
AnyOlUsername@reddit
People are resisting but the government decided non violent resistance is on par with terrorism.
adamjeff@reddit
The point is that if they tried that somewhere like France then they'd be burning tyres in the streets again. Look what happens when they try and increase pension age over there Vs here.
irish_horse_thief@reddit
Yes
Britain should take on board the same Revolutionary Spirit the French adopt.
And just When will this sham government get around to banning Zero hours contracts and taxing landlords the same as PAYE ?
LieIcy8915@reddit
Shh U givin them ideas
irish_horse_thief@reddit
They operate on Read Only Memory. Hard wired in Israel.
Internal-Apricot-750@reddit
People sh*tting on us daily…
P2P-BSH@reddit
Shitting?
Internal-Apricot-750@reddit
No Sh*t
P2P-BSH@reddit
If you're scared of swearing don't use the word.
Internal-Apricot-750@reddit
Scared 🤨
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
Shotting
nikkirun7@reddit
Try being American
original12345678910@reddit
Christ no
Stay on your containment continent
Internal-Apricot-750@reddit
Or both 🤯
BungadinRidesAgain@reddit
Nah I'm alright thanks
turbo_dude@reddit
The apathy, my god the apathy.
Vive la sit down et avez une nice cup du tea, that’ll take votre mind off it, canard
NFTArtist@reddit
If you don't do anything wrong you have nothing to hide
/s
CapitalMelodic58@reddit
We’re spineless.
stevebucky_1234@reddit
Have you seen the American shit show recently??
Cold94DFA@reddit
Google whataboutism. And shutup.
binxyb00@reddit
Yup, our government!
jonviper123@reddit
Some of the biggest simps and cucks on the planet here
culturerush@reddit
I really dislike the weather
Like I know it's a trope, but countries where it's warm or cold all year round build their infrastructure around it and everything is accustomed to it
Australia has BBQs in parks and on beaches you can use, a culture of doing sports because you know the weather's probably going to be good whatever day, their buildings are setup for the heat
Canada has massive snow plows, chains for most vehicles, houses that retain heat, activities that accommodate the cold
Here we have houses that are too warm in summer and too cold in winter. The fields opposite my house are used 30-40% of the year because the rest of the time it's raining. When it's sunny you feel bad for not getting out in it because another sunny day is not guaranteed. The roads flood, snow shuts everything down and when it's hot it's stupid hot.
We are the school PE kit of the world, too hot in summer too cold in winter
ICanDanceIfIWantToo@reddit
Yeah, no problems with the weather in Australia
nine4oneam@reddit
I literally live in Tasmania which has the same climate as the U.K., and thus the same lifestyle. It’s absolutely not always sunshine down under.
Revolutionary-Tie-77@reddit
I as a Brit currently living through an Australian winter the houses are built for heat but certainly not for the cold. Yes it does get cold here!
I’ve gone to bed in a beanie and sweatpants here. Double glazing and insulation doesn’t exist here
Any_Listen_7306@reddit
Yes, I think these countries are fitter and healthier as a result too.
Elegant_Librarian881@reddit
Definitely not. Those countries are bigger, everyone drives everywhere, its not exactly supportive of healthy living.
Flat_News_2000@reddit
Those countries have actual nature you can hike in and the weather won't be awful everytime.
Elegant_Librarian881@reddit
Spoken like someone who has never been to those places. Getting to nature in North America often involves a 3 hour car ride to get somewhere "local" (partly because theres very little public lands and most of it is far from populated areas). If you want to get to one of those stunning vistas you see in the movies, you better buckle up for an 8 hour journey from the nearest major airport.
Yes, there are some stunning places, but very few people have easy access to beautiful hikes, so it doesn't exactly have a widespread positive impact on health.
CaptainLilacBeard@reddit
No such thing as awful weather, just the wrong clothes
Foreskin_Ad9356@reddit
this is only true in the cold. you can only undress so much
Flat_News_2000@reddit
What a very british response. The stiffest of upper lips to you sir
Any_Listen_7306@reddit
Maybe I'm just going by my own relatives and friends - they're super-involved in sport. Also, in Australia I think it'd be much easier to go about your day and get stuff done when the sun is shining!
Super_Plastic5069@reddit
I watched a documentary some 15/20 years ago, that stated the United Kingdom is located underneath a weather battleground, and that’s why our weather behaves the way it does 😂😂
fiofo@reddit
But we have also built our infrastructure around the weather? Our weather just happens to (usually) be mild, which is what we've built for. I'm sure Canada and Australia experience their own discomfort when their weather swings to the opposite extreme!
RegularStrength4850@reddit
Yeah I like the variety of ours too tbf. During a 6° day I make sure I enjoy it, brisk walk etc. Beats a heat wave for me but again, I try and lean into that too if possible
aurora_ethereallight@reddit
See this is what I love most though 🥰 we have that variety... it provides the right balance of weather for our landscapes and it makes us hardy beings 🤭😂.
I say this while acknowledging that the weekend just gone, hubs and I spent 10 hours in the car feeling the heat (and a very numb bum) which was constantly 'too hot - hit the aircon' 2 minutes later 'friggin' freezing in here - turn the aircon off' 😂 Resulting in hubs coming home from work 2 days later complaining of a sore throat "Darlin' I feel like I've deep-throated a cactus." 🤭😂
What's not to love there... I mean really.. 😂
Moppo_@reddit
I love it on the evening of a hot day when there's all kinda of cooking smells outside, but we rarely get that here. Though there was a nice garlicky smell coming from a nearby takeaway last night, so I guess there's that.
Visual_Addendum_577@reddit
I live near a biscuit factory. Love the smell, until it gets too much haha
bowak@reddit
I used to work at Fox's & McVitie's and it took about a year after leaving to start liking the smell again as it wafted over town.
Elegant_Librarian881@reddit
See, I'm from Florida and live in England. People here constantly look at me as if I have 3 heads when they find out."But why would you want to move here?!? The weather is terrible!"
No, not being able to leave your house 4 months out of the year because it's over 35°, with 100% humidity, and a sun index so high that you turn into a lobster in 20 minutes is terrible. Thunderstorms every afternoon that are so regular you can use them to tell the time is terrible. Hurricanes are terrible. Weather that can kill you is terrible.
The weather here is "aggressively mild". Insulate your house, invest in a good raincoat and wellies, and enjoy the sun when it's out.
discontent_creator@reddit
Hmm... when bad or cold weather hits in Canada,it's not as if it's idyllic and everyone in every area is prepared or everyone enjoys it. For example, I live car free in a larger city and would say there's a lack of infrastructure designed for city dwellers to continue daily activities in the cold. Likewise, if roads aren't plowed quickly or if there's freezing rain, even if you have a vehicle/chains on your tires, it's still dangerous and unpleasant. Dual citizen that unfortunately cannot afford to relocate to weather more similar to you in Vancouver - 11/10 would take a UK climate over the climate in my area and most areas of Canada.
Single-Position-4194@reddit
True but Canada's started to get hot in summer too because of global warming. There was a heatwave there a couple of years ago where the temperature in a town in British Columbia topped 120\^F, and there was a massive fire there as a result in which the town burned down.
Hungarian_menace@reddit
GCSEs for those who don't know it's exams we take when where 16 too much pressure is put on 16 year olds and they are told it is the most important thing even though it is not that important. I moved here at 14 so I had to go through that.
Weak-Translator209@reddit
How we have to ‘accept’ everyone even if they aren’t good or have morals
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
What are morals? Americans called 17-year-olds children.
FirmDingo8@reddit
The British public
Ok_Plankton4763@reddit
I just hate the general public
Diddleymaz@reddit
Explaining that Wales 🏴 is not in England 🏴 to (usually) Americans.
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
I'm Scottish and Wales does seem to be part of England.
Diddleymaz@reddit
How dare you!! So your northern England are you? I am sure Edward I would have conquered you if he’d gone north before he came west!! It’s only because Ed II was crap you stayed out of the enforcement of island one kingdom 🤣
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
My family are from Wales. Obviously I see it as a country, I just see statistics presented as England and Wales.
Diddleymaz@reddit
Thanks to Henry VIII, he didn’t just mess up wives. 😡
GrapefruitHuge6732@reddit
I hate that we’re not proud enough of ourselves for what we ought to be proud of, and not embarrassed and remorseful enough about what we have to be ashamed of. I hate that whatever historic privilege has been generationally squandered to make us a completely mediocre and horrendously unequal “world power”.
agirlingreece@reddit
Not having freedom of movement in Europe.
MJLDat@reddit
Pretty sure we do.
zeviea@reddit
They're referring to the ability to live, work, and study in any EU country.
MJLDat@reddit
Ah, in that case, yeah, I’m wrong.
CursedTo@reddit
You are wrong then
Cantdecide1207@reddit
I am in no way Racist and acknowledge we are a very multicultural society. And in the current climate it is very necessary for the workforce. However the fact that we get shamed for actually being British in our own country. And that we bend over backwards to support other cultures. And get zero respect or gratitude for it. Correct me if I'm wrong. But I'm sure they wouldn't be building catholic or CofE churches in countries where the religion is mainly for example Hindu or Muslim etc. My local town one year made a big celebration for Diwali (fair enough that's nice of them) but then couldn't afford to do Christmas lights/celebrations because they had used the budget to celebrate Diwali. The same council this year put posters up for Easter.... but refused to call it Easter because they didn't want to offend non Christians. Just generally people having to find offence with everything. If you don't like us celebrating Christian holidays then I'm sorry, but that is our heritage. We've been doing it a long time. I personally would never move to another country (and I have done the expat thing, as have the majority of my family) and expect them to change anything about their culture.
Adept_Deer_5976@reddit
November is fucking grim
DifficultyDismal1967@reddit
Whilst you look down on the rest of the world, they look down on you. Hilarious Irony is that most of you haven't and will not ever catch on to this fact.
FixMiserable520@reddit
Example given: our participation in Eurovision
NeoFury84@reddit
Dental care costs a ridiculous fortune.
FixMiserable520@reddit
For the amalgam too, like that’s before you get the ridiculous fortune rate to not fill your face full of metal
FixMiserable520@reddit
I’ve got to add one from today (well, two maybe, both to do with train travel)
No contingency infrastructure to deal with extreme weather conditions (eg heatwaves). It’s ridiculous to me that if there’s a heatwave, our train travel dies on its arse and it’s just chaos for people trying to get anywhere. Like we had a heatwave in 2021 as well, two heatwaves in a decade (and I believe two significant cold snaps in winter too) should give the people who plan these things a clue that it’s pretty fucking important to have alternative infrastructure in place to keep things running.
Train delays and cancellations due to “a shortage of available train crew”. Why?? Why aren’t there contingency staff that can be called upon if people are unwell or miss their connecting trains from delays or similar things beyond their control? And indeed if the shortage is because the crew members just haven’t showed up - why haven’t those crew members been fired?
OK_Cake05@reddit
The race to the bottom, everyone must suffer, no aspiration attitude
zeviea@reddit
Tall poppy syndrome
scarby2@reddit
And when you actually succeed and make something of yourself a lot of people actually dislike you for it.
Honest-Ad4964@reddit
I dislike people complaining about 6 figure salaries and not being able to spend 500+ on lunches a month.
I dont care if someone is a millionaire as long as they don't act as if just because they did it anyone else can if they worked a little bit harder.
OK_Cake05@reddit
It don’t think that’s what the poster was referring too, more than if someone’s does because successful the public opinion on them changes, or like if someone is talented and confident in themselves and abilities they get called arrogant
scarby2@reddit
I completely agree, it's shitty to essentially rub things in people's faces. You have to know your audience when you're complaining and I think that's a bit of a lost skill.
This is a shitty behavior as well
I was more on about the very fact that I've heard a bunch of people moaning about people just doing things that they're able to do now they're no longer poor.
And I'm not even talking about rich people, I'm talking about people who grew up working class, studied hard and now make 6 figures. Sadly there are a group of people who treat lack of education and poverty as a badge of honor.
LungHeadZ@reddit
Being blamed or judged for our historic conquests.
MarcoPolo_91@reddit
This. I was at Acadia National Park recently and some yank told me, after asking if I was English, to give Ireland back to the Irish because he was 1/4 Irish. My response - only if you’re giving the Natives back theirs. That shut the fucker up.
zeviea@reddit
Americans say this to me. They say "I have Irish great grandparents!"
Somehow they're more Irish than me, a Brit with Irish grandparents. Some Americans underestimate how many English people have Irish ancestry too. I just don't use that to speak on behalf of Irish people 😅
absbabs1@reddit
Wow, 25% we should send him a blade of grass and a speck of soil.
I wholeheartedly agree with your response.
MACintoshBETH@reddit
I mean, it’s like they expect you to have a direct connection to the government on speed dial sometimes
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
What a cretin. You're from wherever you're born. He's not 1/4 Irish, he's just American.
turbo_dude@reddit
And yet the British go on and on about the Germans and ww2. How is this any different?
shokalion@reddit
Do we?
Lazy_Composer6990@reddit
Hypocrites can still bring up valid points. What you're doing is attacking the person, rather than the argument.
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
So you did the thing you complained about?
Honest-Ad4964@reddit
It was a sarcastic retort to show how stupid the argument is. Not a genuine want.
JBupthebor0@reddit
r/DHOTY
Grumpyoldgit1958@reddit
Great answer ! Used to get the same shit from septics in the 70/80’s over S Africa / Rhodesia. Always said, not quite the same situation, but we’re waiting on your lead of giving the USA back to the Native Americans. Instant change of conversation.
Warsaw44@reddit
The worst thing? Seriously?
Grow a pair.
International-Wear57@reddit
😂😂 meanwhile dozens of countries in the world are still suffering from the consequences of colonization. But oh no 🥺😣 we can’t bring it up to British people 😔🤚🏾it’s a sensitive topic for them💔
Warsaw44@reddit
The poor little shnookums have to hear about it.
Confuseduseroo@reddit
This. The simple fact is that many of the territories which the British ruled did a great deal better under British rule than they did under other rulers before or since, including self-rule. We hear a lot of angst about the devilish crimes we committed in India but nothing about the Mughals who came before us and put entire cities to the sword. Under present self-rule there is heavy corruption and near zero justice.
TequanSimba@reddit
This is a seriously misguided & a gross oversimplification of what happened. You could literally say that about conquest or takeover in the world. The rulers before were shit. We actually helped steal all their money & resources as they didn’t know what to do with them, killed millions of their people just because they opposed us & then now look how badly they govern themselves once we divided them up & placed corrupt leaders at the helm the stupid fucks. Being good at Colonialism doesn’t excuse the incredible vast injustices that this nation inflicted upon others & in return seriously & financially gained from. India was thriving before the British arrived. India was a major player in global trade, particularly in textiles and agriculture, and was one of the wealthiest regions in the world. The British East India Company and later the British government drained India's wealth through taxation, trade policies, and the suppression of local industries. The Indian textile industries were deliberately crushed to promote British goods. India's share of global GDP plummeted under British rule, and famines became more frequent and severe. Yes Railways, roads, and telegraphs were built but mainly just to move troops and extract resources efficiently. By 1700, India accounted for about 24% of global GDP (compared to Britain’s ~3%). By 1947, India’s share of global GDP had shrunk to just 3%. India before the British was doing just fine, they weren’t perfect but they were prosperous, culturally rich & politically autonomous before Britain literally systematically drastically weakened the economy & disrupted & distorted social structures. Don’t you dare change the narrative because you’ve read in an old colonial textbook that the rest of the world savages before the British “saved them”
Confuseduseroo@reddit
Your response is a mish mash of half-truths and pure fantasy, India didn't even exist as a coherent entity before British rule. The subcontinent was pillaged violently for centuries by raiders and invaders from the north before the British brought peace and relative unity to the region. and when it wasn't being raided there was constant warring between neighbouring tribes. The maharajahs had their hands in the pockets of their subjects long before we came along. Sorry, but your rant doesn't sway me one jot.
TequanSimba@reddit
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/worst-atrocities-british-empire-amritsar-boer-war-concentration-camp-mau-mau-a7612176.html
https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/opinions/2022/12/2/how-british-colonial-policy-killed-100-million-indians
https://www.reddit.com/r/interesting/s/xjaDPfDX2d
Facts don’t change people’s minds.. whatever helps you sleep at night mate. Your response is a mish mash of baseless propaganda fed to idiots so they actually believe colonial powers actually did good for natives. Divide & conquer is literally the oldest trick in the book. Divide power , make a rival less powerful , take their resources, feed poor saps like you some propaganda that pretends we actually did them good & then repeat the process. Deny it all you want. The truth doesn’t lie! No matter how misinformed you are
douggieball1312@reddit
This is why (for example) the Irish blanket-blaming historical grievances like the potato famine on the English as a whole (rather than the government of the day) doesn't make sense. Some of my own ancestors were potato famine migrants. Wouldn't they have suffered even more from the famine than the people who stayed behind in Ireland?
Sweet-Geologist9168@reddit
Ok but it wasn’t just the potato famine but hundreds of years of brutal rule. Destruction of culture etc. the Irish language is virtually dead and Northern Ireland was a direct consequence of all that. Potato famine wise it was absolutely catastrophic. Whether they’re entitled to still be aggrieved by it is a different question but when is the cut off point?
rubbersoul199@reddit
I think its more a point of the Irish should be annoyed at the British Ruling Classes, rather than your every day British person who had nothing to do with it.
RichardPascoe@reddit
I think this article may interest you:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_and_Tans
The recent attempts at peace are really the result of the second world war and the end of the British Empire.
Zsythgrfl@reddit
Especially since a great bulk of modern brits have irish ancestors that moved to britain over the last 170 years. A lot of them to escape the famine itself.
didndonoffin@reddit
Easier said than done, and once this has been achieved we can work on the black Americans who hate their redneck trailer park brethren cos their great great great grand daddy owned someone and will sue him for the solitary tooth in their head
DurhamOx@reddit
English has been spoken in Ireland since the 12th Century. At what point does English become part of Ireland's culture?
ICanDanceIfIWantToo@reddit
Of course they aren't.
XDVRUK@reddit
Yeah but the points stands - why is that an us problem now? We didn't do it therefore we have no culpability.
the_gwyd@reddit
Yeah like it's worth reflecting on the fact that large amounts of wealth in this country can be tracked back to exploitation, colonisation, slavery, and industrial scale suffering across the globe. That relationship with the world allowed us to build up much of the foundations of the country we live in today. But I wasn't there! I'm sorry that a bloke born in my country 200 murdered lots of people born in your country 200 years ago, instigating centuries of inequality and poverty, it's horrible and unjust, it really is, and I wouldn't have very much liked it if I was alive. But I wasn't. And even if I was, I doubt I would have had the power to do anything about it.
Limp_Guidance_5357@reddit
What do you mean by they have suffered even more than the people who stayed in Ireland ?
douggieball1312@reddit
You're right, I didn't express myself properly there. By definition the people who suffered the very most were those who had to bury their loved ones or didn't survive to leave any descendants around today.
Puripuri_Purizona@reddit
People really upvoted this comment and completely ignored his final sentence. It is beyond ignorant and gravely lacking compassion.
SilentCatPaws@reddit
Saw a documentary about the potato famine, I didn't realise that the surviving crop of potatoes that they did have, the Irish sold/exported it abroad rather than keep it in Ireland and that there was actually a fair bit of money given to the Irish at the time (can't remember if it was a charity donation or UK government)
Also see Irish people constantly bring up 800 years of English oppression they quote "they are only now starting to heal from"
I'm like seriously!! The UK hasn't been involved in Ireland since the 1920's and the more recent "troubles" are what have set Ireland back
jpepsred@reddit
In the late 19th century, the Irish language was banned from schools, as were Irish sports. The language went from over a million speakers in the 19th century, including monolingual speakers, to a few tens of thousands today, with a very slow recovery rate. That’s one way in which Ireland has only just started to recover from the occupation.
cybertonto72@reddit
The Welsh language would like a word.
SilentCatPaws@reddit
That's a good point thanks for reminding me of this
Limp_Guidance_5357@reddit
What do you mean by set Ireland back. The Republic and the north are vastly different places from where they were even in the 90s. The Republic was on of the poorest regions in Europe when it joined the EEC.
original12345678910@reddit
one of the stupidest things I've read in a while. thanks for sharing
Limp_Guidance_5357@reddit
How can you say the Uk isn’t involved in Ireland in one sentence and then in the next say the troubles set Ireland back.
Any_Listen_7306@reddit
They had no choice but to sell the corn; the English forced them to export it.
tareegon@reddit
This is kinda of tricky one given how entitled and proud some Brits are of their ‘eritage. Like all the glory but none of the blame
twoLegsJimmy@reddit
I got shit from "Irish" Americans in Chicago. People hearing my accent and immediately saying up the IRA and stuff. One woman in Starbucks serving the people behind me in the queue because "Brits have to wait until last".
scarby2@reddit
And those Irish Americans have probably never been to Ireland.
Zsythgrfl@reddit
and probably have more British ancestry that Irish.
herefromthere@reddit
or at least less Irish ancestry than the Brit.
rayofgreenlight@reddit
Wow that's blatant racism from the woman in Starbucks.
How did the experience make you feel? I'd never so brazenly say to a customer "I will delay serving you because of your nationality".
twoLegsJimmy@reddit
I was pretty annoyed, but tbh I kind of knew she was a prick. I'd been going there every day for the time I was in the city, and I'd already noticed she wasn't polite. She also used to dance constantly while making drinks and serving people, like she thought she was in coyote ugly or something.
I found the IRA comments worse because of the violent undertones, and they happened in a couple of separate incidents. One by a guy who then said he was only joking and followed us down the street trying to be friendly, but then tried to lead us into an alley way saying there was a great bar there he'd take us to. Yeah no thanks mate, we'll go back to the hotel.
I actually met loads of arseholes in Chicago, which really surprised me; for some reason I expected people there to be friendly, not sure why.
Dry_Interaction5722@reddit
Maybe she was doing him a favour since we love queuing so much.
Yorkshire_Roast@reddit
I would have honestly filed a complaint against her for racism. What a vile, ignorant woman!
I also have Irish ancestry, but it doesn't give me carte blanche to be a muppet.
Lazy_Composer6990@reddit
So long as you don't simultaneously try to claim pride for other aspects of history you had nothing to do with, this isn't a controversial take.
Yorkshire_Roast@reddit
Beyond all else, the average person on the street has had very little say in government policy.
Slavery and annexing other countries are abhorrent, but yelling at some random British person over what the British government were doing several decades ago won't undo any of what's already happened. We need to tackle all forms of discrimination and inequality in the here and now. That starts with not prejudging someone because of their country of origin.
balloonfish@reddit
Funnily enough, the first thing that came to mind was our complete national ignorance and willingness to engage with anything negative in our past!
aurora_ethereallight@reddit
Absolutely this. We have a massive history... some great things and some terrible things.... I'd like to think we have shown we are different now but for some thepain other past is still there and we can only acknowledge and apologise even though we weren't personally responsible.
Hollskipollski@reddit
Yeah, I get peeved at US citizens who do this, like they have any moral high ground whatsoever to stand on.
wotitdo222@reddit
Wouldn't be as annoying if the people that go on about it understood or educated themselves on the fact literally every empire and country have done the exact same things and worse.
ABChow000@reddit
No, literally nobody judges US for it. When a muppet says “ go back to your country” , thats when someone will say “ you ravaged and destabilised our country, which is why we are all here “ etc etc.
AnonymousTimewaster@reddit
That's really the worst thing for you?
Motor-Idea-7306@reddit
I'm a British Born East Asian, so I exist in the space where I was culturally brought up British and culturally brought up East Asian, but I'm considered not British by many. It's not like the USA, where the whole country's population is consisted of immigrants, including Europeans, so people often have more of a reason to say I'm not British unfortunately. I speak English as my most fluent language, I absolutely adore the UK since I grew up here all my life and etc.
Personally, I'm very proud of being British AND East Asian. Hence, I always say I'm British East Asian. Proud of my nationality, proud of my ethnicity. But sadly a lot of people, European OR East Asian, deny my nationality even though I was raised here my whole life. :P
Sensitive_Pound7131@reddit
It’s current politicians and economy.
LoquaciousLascivious@reddit
I find myself annoyed by the kind of patriotic Brit that embarrasses themselves and by extension (willful or not) us.
I really cannot stand the kind of snobby Brit who seemingly sneers at everyone else bar themselves, as displayed by a small number in here and out there too.
I would say overall that the rote qualities of Brits that people mention are so overplayed. I do not personally find out hospitality to be beyond the support you'll encounter in other countries in Europe, and more to the point I've seen too many examples of people in freakin third world countries helping the likes of us; sharing their food and even their rooves with us. That to me is overwhelmingly touching. So not to bash my own people, but I don't find that aspect to be outstanding or extraordinary on our parts. Another is our humour and umm... Look at comedians today and tell me Brits are actually that hysterical. One of the wittiest people I ever came across was a German girl. Make of that what you will.
People are just people in every country and at any part of the country too. (There's a little additional one for ya)
Electrical-Media5319@reddit
The way everyone assumes that means being English and disregard the Scots and Welsh.
Intelligent-Fix7498@reddit
The size of the island
ubiquitousuk@reddit
Living in a country full of unproductive people who think they are still the god-given inheritors of a glorious and wealthy empire and then base their voting on that world view, forcing the rest of us to pick up the pieces.
Or living in a country full of criminals and chavs who are the absolute antithesis of what is commonly understood by Britishness.
Or living in a country with a bunch of ex Etonian wankers who think they're better than everyone else just because mummy and daddy own the golf club.
Or living in a country full of boomer pensioners who think everyone should pay for their free healthcare and triple locked pension, just because they paid the lowest taxes in living memory and already frittered away the oil revenues and privatisation windfall.
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Basically, the worst thing about being British is having to share the island with 21st century British people.
Electrical-Curve6898@reddit
Or living in a country full of stupid bigots who constantly scream "cultural enrichment!!" and "diversity!!" like they both ruined the nation and always wanting the country to return to being what it was before 1997...
Electrical-Curve6898@reddit
All the stupid middle aged bigots on social media wanting the country to be something it's not.
Electrical-Curve6898@reddit
Crabs in a bucket mentality
RustyChuck@reddit
The lack of a service culture. You notice it most in restaurants and cafes but to be honest it’s absolutely everywhere: nobody wants to serve you and you, the customer, do not matter.
secret_willy@reddit
We have undoubtedly had a huge influx of mass immigration of the last 20-30 years. The worse thing about being British is not being allowed to point out that is a problem and the majority of us aren’t happy about it
Metal2018@reddit
That anyone can claim to be British.
BettySwollocks45@reddit
We're too polite.
daphuqijusee@reddit
Pahahaha!!
I moved here from Canada about 20 years ago and noticed how rude people here are and let me tell you - it's been absolutely freeing to not have to be as polite (by Canadian standards).
That's not to say I 'lead' with rudeness, but if someone is impolite to me first - I consider that fair game to let loose on them as if I was a New Yorker.
PenelopeJenelope@reddit
UK polite a slightly different brand than Canadian politeness. I must say the brits will go out of their way to hold a door. And the thing they do if someone finds a lost mitten and they leave it on the nearest fence for safekeeping to the person finds it is also high class adorable.
But then there's the politeness which is actually passive aggressiveness, and that's less adorable.
RustyChuck@reddit
Then you’ve got the local teens who would steal the mitten or set it on fire and put it through your letterbox 🤷🏻♂️
ABChow000@reddit
Up north its different. Lets say Lancashire, Yorkshire territories, everyone gets along and strangers can talk and have a quit chat in the short time you walk past eachother on the street.
In a restaurant or coffee shop randomly talking to someone. Everyone feels like a family
MJLDat@reddit
Sorry about that.
Split-Lost@reddit
This, I wish I had some of the inbuilt American fuckery in me. But I just don’t.
I have noticed the older I get the more IDGAF so I’m trying to channel that into said American fuckery.
Let’s see how it goes.
ConstantCrazy1407@reddit
We're afraid to speak up.
E.g. if a carriage seems full but people could move down we won't say anything. Just wait for the next one and be late for work. That's preferable to being seen as impolite.
Crazy people and crackhead types are more vocal. We could learn from them!
RustyChuck@reddit
Really? When I’m on a packed train stopped at a station, there’s always an entitled English voice calling out “can you move down please!” – when there’s literally not even an inch of space left.
astralladybug@reddit
I noticed this also happens in workplaces. Instead of voicing their opinions and saying when things are wrong, people often keep to themselves and complain to other people who have no power over the said issues.
sjr0754@reddit
Every workplace I've had has had a retributive culture, complain about something, and you'll find a disciplinary hearing heading your way.
astralladybug@reddit
That's insane!
docju@reddit
We have a hot desk system at work. It’s annoying when someone chances their arm by coming in and sitting at a desk they haven’t booked and then the person who’s actually booked the desk won’t kick them off because they don’t want to cause a fuss. Stand up for yourself!
ConstantCrazy1407@reddit
Haha yes, they would rather work in the kitchen all day!
Boglikeinit@reddit
The government
mattiedeemattiedee@reddit
The worst thing about being British is people asking negative questions and people being negative about an amazing country that has done a great deal of good over the course of history. It's dragging us all down...
douggieball1312@reddit
The reputation of our tourists and football fans abroad. I avoid places popular with other British tourists when I go abroad as I feel like the locals are silently judging me.
TraditionalCorgi6912@reddit
Ye the English bring this rep.
DurhamOx@reddit
It feels like there's rarely a season that goes by without an English fan being stabbed in Italy. These incidents have been occurring for the 20 years I've been following the game. Unprovoked attacks on English supporters before, during and after matches, everywhere from bars and restaurants to the stands themselves. It's happened in Turin, Naples, Milan, Rome, Bergamo.
thejuanwelove@reddit
everybody loves spaniards in Europe, yet when the Betis fans came to manchester they were the most misbehaved of all the european fans, spitting and attacking children and women. then when united had to go to spain, the police and their fans ganged again on kids and women, yet the ones with the bad reputation are the english fans and the scummish betis fans get only plaudits
Beer-Wolf1991@reddit
Football fans from other countries are a hell of a lot worse. See the carnage in Paris after PSG won the Champions League for example.
wotitdo222@reddit
Its crazy how well the police put a stop to football hooliganism in England but i guess that counts for nothing when people just want to see us in a certain way.
douggieball1312@reddit
True, but it really grabs the global headlines when the English are involved because it plays into the stereotypes about us. See also how when the Scottish fans do the same, they're just 'nice crazy lads having a good time'.
GingerPrince72@reddit
Fiction
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
If it's any consolation the Barmy Army are generally well liked in Australia.
Alternative_Week_117@reddit
Being an Island. We are easily fed a diet of foreign places being terrible. Whereas if the country could just walk over an invisible border they could see what a shit hole we live in compared to others.
GIJ@reddit
Over 86% of us have passports.. we are easily one of the most widely travelled populations in the world. Sure the UK could be better in many ways, but when you've lived in other countries you'll realise that every country has challenges.
Alternative_Week_117@reddit
I’m not counting Benidorm.
GIJ@reddit
I travel a lot, and wherever you are in the world- every corner of Europe, East Asia, Latin America, India - Brits, along with Aussies, Germans, French, Dutch, are EVERYWHERE.
Alternative_Week_117@reddit
Prove that they are everywhere.
GIJ@reddit
You must be joking? We are a rich country, our native tongue is the world's Lingua Franca, we get minimum 5 weeks annual leave each year, we have a diverse population with lots of global connections, we live on a small island with crap weather which is a 2hr flight from ~30 other countries and less than 8hrs from the other 3 most populous continents. Our capital is the busiest city in the world for air travel by a wide margin.
We have more means, reasons and opportunity to travel than basically any other country in the world, and we do, by and large:
https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/11012-british-people-far-more-well-travelled-americans 44% of us have been to North America, 30% to Africa, 14% to Australia and 12% to South America.
Alternative_Week_117@reddit
Well our gdp suggests we aren’t a rich country and we’ll be unable to pay the state pension in twenty years. You seriously believe that 44% of all adults have been to the states? I’m calling bullshit on that for a start.
GIJ@reddit
You definitely lack global perspective if you think the UK is not a rich country... and lots of countries with a state pension equivalent face the same issue - the problem in countries like Germany is far more dire because few people have private pensions.
UK residents make up the largest number of foreign visitors to the states. Pretty much everyone I know has visited the US, so yeah 44% overall is believable to me. Won't be the case in the future though, with the political situation and growing gap in wages/prices.
Alternative_Week_117@reddit
You definitely don't understand economics and appear to think you know 30 million people who have all been to the US, or have said they have for a pole...
You have stated things as facts but can't prove anything, I wont read anything else you write to me, but I'm glad you have read this as Ive had the last word, which is something I think is important to you.
GIJ@reddit
....I have a master's degree in economics mate
TraditionalCorgi6912@reddit
That people often know little about your actual country, unless you're English.
Adventurous_Put_9068@reddit
The weather
StarmersReckoning@reddit
Consistently poor governance for decades. No future planning. Politics is gamified and purely based on soundbites and headlines. Public antipathy to demonstration leads to it getting worse.
GuaranteeCareless@reddit
Agreed and perhaps controversially, have a lot of admiration for Chinese governance in this respect. Forward planning for many decades ahead whilst our various governments about turn like a drunken soldier
ArcticAmoeba56@reddit
Its amazing what long term planning you can do when you know youre guaranteed to be in power for a very long time regardless of the public's wishes.
But yes, they have mastered the long game. Our lot can barely see past the next budget let alone the next election.
Honest-Ad4964@reddit
As soon as there were is any person in power that doesn't want to do good then you're in the shitter. Because they have power and we don't. Any meaningful demand for change will be met with manipulation, sabotage and eventually bullets. You can't do anything against a system with supreme power over you and its fucked up human nature that makes it corrupt. The disregard for people and investment and public services is just the start
JalasKelm@reddit
This wouldn't happen if we had a Strong and Stable Government :p
Mortma@reddit
This is the post 👆🏼
Grand-Caregiver9997@reddit
The extreme cost of living while having very low wages
creator929@reddit
A lack of beans with breakfast apparently
MannyEm22@reddit
The dumb racists. We don’t claim these British people.
Henegunt@reddit
Also people who just claim everything is racist z
David-Cassette-alt@reddit
lack of working class representation in the media and the massive amount of general casual classism.
Henegunt@reddit
There's loads of working class people on TV, this is always such a nonsense thing people say
Patchali@reddit
Gingen hair and transparent skin
SecTeff@reddit
I think the negativity and moaning culture. It would be nice to be around more optimistic people who had a ‘can do’ attitude
JagoHazzard@reddit
What bugs me is when people moan about something that’s good.
Like, to give an example from my field of interest, every time there’s a new development in public transport, there’s twenty people complaining that it’s not going to work, it costs too much, it’s not as good as something else, it took too long, it’s not where they live or a hundred other whines. I just don’t understand the mentality that seemingly wants to be miserable.
SecTeff@reddit
Yea moaning about new things or change is particular annoying.
Like where I live the Council built a new library and people went nuts that some old shitty 1970s building was going to be destroyed to build something state of the art.
Also people who complain about things like solar. Like yea how terrible we get very low pollution energy from the sun
One reason we don’t get good new infrastructure or stuff in this country is we are obsessed about preserving things as they are
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
Solar panels are made of coal.
FuckingVeet@reddit
They're mostly glass and metal no?
EmuSea4963@reddit
No it wouldn't! Everything is hopeless and we might as well just accept it!
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
I don't mind people moaning about genuine misfortunes (a horrible childhood, other trauma) and how this made them who they are. Moaning about trivial things grates on me, especially when inaction is their course of choice
XDVRUK@reddit
There's a difference between lazy vs complaining about things that need fixing. A lot of managers are too stupid to know the difference and expect magic.
SecTeff@reddit
Complaining about something then making an effort to try and solve the issue yourself is fine.
Saying Polticans, councils and everyone else is crap but then never lifting a finger for your community or society yet moaning about it all is what gets me
So yea the lazy complainers and moaners who just want to have a whinge
XDVRUK@reddit
There's a certain level of not knowing how to push back and fix things. And it's deeply frowned upon setting all the problems on fire
NoAvocadoMeSad@reddit
Definitely, I tried to remove negative people from my life (with the exception of family) and just found they were only replaced with more negative people.
Optimise is few and far between on our little island and what annoys me the most is it's literally a decision we all for some reason chose to make.
SecTeff@reddit
Yes we can all try and be positive and help spread that to others at least. I don’t want to moan Too much about negativity (the irony).
I struggle as my mother is probably the most negative and pessimistic person I know. I try and put up what I call my ‘negativity shield’ where I don’t let their negative takes impact my Own positive reality.
Yes of course there are still problems and difficulties but I try and focus what I can do positively to change them and see them as challenges
NoAvocadoMeSad@reddit
Lol exactly the same here, my mum is incredibly negative, literally to the point I don't think I've heard a word come out of her mouth that isn't complaining or just being generally negative in years!
It's much harder when it comes to family to deal with these issues
It is what it is though, I notice being around her can put me in a negative frame of mind so I just try to be aware of that after the fact lol
SecTeff@reddit
I sympathise. The best for me was when I was younger and got a 2.1 in my degree and her response was “I never thought you could do that well”.
A day trip out could involve a long period of complaining about how much the parking cost, how a traffic delay kind of spoilt the day. That our food at the restaurant didn’t come out at the same time.
I spend all day like “we’ll nevermind let’s have fun and enjoy it now”
But think it’s taught me the need to be optimistic and try and spread good vibes with people
Biscuitman82@reddit
Yeah, it's cute when someone is just moaning about the weather or something, but when it's about things that they could actually control it's just irritating and draining
miniangelgirl@reddit
Exactly this. I don't want to hear it.
wotitdo222@reddit
Cant stand this especially constant shitting on the UK as if we dont have it better than 99% of the world yet people make out we are living in hell its so boring at the point.
gemunicornvr@reddit
Being Scottish and having to remind everyone Britain isn't just England
MacGroo@reddit
Not being allowed to not be British
AlarmedBarracuda7733@reddit
The foreigners.
Living_the_Limit@reddit
Potholes on the local roads all over the place.
wizious@reddit
The constant PR blaming the state of the country on immigrants and not politicians
HahaLady1@reddit
Gammon
bouncer-1@reddit
Absolutely nothing
Margaet_moon@reddit
The force of need we get and can’t break when it’s comes to forming a queue.
Siliconshaman1337@reddit
There's not one damn country that we haven't invaded or been at war with at some point in history, and they all seem to hold a grudge about it still. At least enough to make you feel guilty about the fact.
notcomingback15@reddit
Out of control Immigration destroying this once great country.
No-Television-9862@reddit
We don’t respect our innovative introduction of a world class healthcare system enough that it’s on the brink of failure
BoogerSantos@reddit
It's not that people don't respect it, it's that is GROSSLY mismanaged and uses an outdated model of care.
No-Television-9862@reddit
If you look at the stats of a&e attendances compared to other countries our number is too high for non urgent, this includes money spent on 999 calls, if it was used as intended our NHS would work - also 1 in 4 NHS staff has experienced some form of harassment/insults which means that staff aren’t respected
BoogerSantos@reddit
If it was used as intended, the NHS would still be reliant on the completely outdated reactive care model, which is half the reason you get so many people going to A&E in the first place.
No-Television-9862@reddit
Apologies, can you elaborate on the outdated model? No doubt we need to invest in out of hours and more GP appointment slots, it’s important to remember that the NHS was created at a time when our country was rife with diseases poor healthcare, if you had diabetes, cancer etc and from a poorer areas you would just die
BoogerSantos@reddit
Yeah, and the problem is that the way the NHS handles healthcare (especially with reactive care) keeps it stuck in those times. People were dying of those diseases and we knew how to treat them but diagnostic science was so far behind where it is now that we really just had to address those issues as they became emergent. We can now catch all those conditions you mention early, and treat them effectively, even just through semi-regular blood and urine testing. Instead we're waiting until people become noticeably symptomatic, relying on the patients to identify those symptoms, and then to get a (hard-to-get, as you mention) GP appointment to address the issue.
Look at America; the entire model is preventative, and it works. The motive, of course, is to protect private profits by reducing the insurance companies payouts, but there's no reason we shouldn't be doing the same thing in order for the NHS and National Insurance to function more efficiently, and for the population to be healthier.
No-Television-9862@reddit
If you’re otherwise fit and healthy how are GP’s supposed to suspect potentially fatal diseases unless you attend at least once a year?
BoogerSantos@reddit
Yes, that's the idea of preventative medicine. It doesn't even have to be a GP appointment.
No-Television-9862@reddit
The American healthcare model famously doesn’t work, imagine being diabetic in a system where you have to pay to stay alive for insulin and in debt when you can’t, imagine needing an ambulance/scan and having to pay for it, the British take our nhs for granted and using the American healthcare as an example just shows
BoogerSantos@reddit
American healthcare has it's problems, but it works significantly better than the NHS. It's the American insurance system that's broken.
No-Television-9862@reddit
Please don’t believe what you have been told, it is not true, any healthcare that prioritises money does not have your best interest in heart
BoogerSantos@reddit
I don't need to believe what I've been told. I grew up in the US and the care itself is generally far better. Besides, the NHS prioritises money too.
No-Television-9862@reddit
If you grew up surely you can understand the huge difference between our healthcare? In uk we can identify areas where a huge amount of our money is spent but we can’t necessarily control it
BoogerSantos@reddit
>we can identify areas where a huge amount of our money is spent but we can’t necessarily control it
Why don't you think about this statement again in light of the fact that the doctors are about to go on strike.
No-Television-9862@reddit
Consultants and registrars aren’t striking, only the juniors/sho/fy1 who need their ego stroked
scarby2@reddit
I've mentioned preventative healthcare to people and the response is often "but we don't have the doctors or nurses for that" which is actually kinda true because they're all too busy reacting to things to have time for prevention. Although this also assumes we can't actually get more doctor and nurses (but that's a separate discussion)
Believe it or not I check in with my doctor every month, discuss any health concerns figure out how my medication is working, run my labs every 6 months etc.
BoogerSantos@reddit
>they're all too busy reacting to things to have time for prevention
Yes, this is exactly true. The UK is (at least historically) pretty bad with healthcare behaviours too: we eat too much sugar, drink WAY too much, and are pretty sedentary. This is the kind of population that would really see a lot of benefit from preventative care.
This_Charmless_Man@reddit
God, my biggest irritation with our healthcare system is when the GP or physio asks "what do you want us to do?" Well I don't bloody know, I'm not a medical professional. You tell me what I need because you studied for this. The mechanic tells you what needs to be done to fix your car, tell me what I need to fix me!
BoogerSantos@reddit
Literally just happened to me a couple days ago. In my experience private doctors don't do this, but people really shouldn't have to pay extra for the privilege of having a doctor that can make a professional recomendation for a course of action.
ryunista@reddit
A product of the combination between lack of GP access and, let's be honest, people who don't contribute as much taking a disproportionate amount of resource, largely because they have more time and partly because it is still based on a 5 day, 9-5 week.
Also temp staff, agencies and consultants absolutely RINSING the UK Taxpayer. They should be named and shamed.
ryunista@reddit
Indeed. The idea was brilliant but the corruption and incompetence is insurpassable now.
Talk to anyone with a chronic condition about the self management required, intervention and lack of ownership taken at every.single.level. and you will understand better.
The vfm is an absolute disgrace.
ploopitus@reddit
Yeah, this is the case unfortunately — I have friends in the NHS as well sincerely left-wing friends, all of whom are highly critical of the NHS these days but because of the way it is grossly mismanaged, not its existence or whatever.
Personally, I've got nothing but adoration for it as every experience I've had with it has been positive.
BoogerSantos@reddit
>as well as sincerely left-wing friends
Yeah, this is important to point out. The second you suggest the NHS make changes, people act like the only alternative is an American style fully private system, and you're more neoliberal than Milton Friedman for simply pointing out the NHS could be improved.
KingEnglish8@reddit
the soul crushing echo of colonialism
Evening_Common2824@reddit
Having to eat peas with the back of a fork.
Atlantree19@reddit
Assuming you mean English people when you say Brits.
I would say having a shitty government that mainly caters for foreigners than its own people.
Look at all the homeless people on the streets, about 90% of them are English.
Better_Ad_3631@reddit
they mainly cater to their millionare billionare pals not your fellow common man
CooStick@reddit
FPTP
ShinHayato@reddit
Being associated with brexiters
DavieODaBanks@reddit
All the moaning fuckers on this wretched sub has to be up there. Except for you, obviously. You're fine. But the others are just dreadful.
blueyonderbear@reddit
Today, Greg Wallace.
ohlordgodmakeitstop@reddit
Britain
DrFuzzald@reddit
So many people not realising how privileged they are and how they always find something to complain about
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
The lack of available public housing. People with severe psychological difficulties ending up in completely unsuitable house share situations at the mercy of landlords. Communal housing is becoming increasingly common as rental prices increase. There are even children in these communal housing situations living as a family in each bedroom.
Strange-Belt-916@reddit
Only having gardening and death to look forward to.
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
I love gardening
Maleficent_Laugh_125@reddit
Knowing your ancestors didn't steal enough bread to get free trip to Australia
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
I wouldn't want to go to Australia. I feel like some animal or insect would kill me off within a short space of time.
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
Mine did
TheOldHouse89@reddit
The belief that posh people are inherently better/more deserving of ruling the country
Radiant-Jackfruit305@reddit
No-one thinks this. Most people hate the posh people.
lizzie_noor@reddit
The history
Previous_Kale_4508@reddit
Having to stop everything when the siren goes off each afternoon to make tea. Sometimes I just don't feel like tea.
CharlieTecho@reddit
The media and the disdain for successful people.
KellytheWorrier@reddit
It doesn't even have to be a collision. Just a floor... that you dropped something onto.
Uvers_@reddit
Being British
man_onion_@reddit
The refusal to accept that the climate is changing.
Whenever there's a heatwave warning, inevitably some fossil will chime in that it was 40°C in Manchester for a week in, say, 1947. Like OK sure, but they conveniently don't mention that it wasn't 40°C in Manchester again until say, 1989, but it's got to 40°C every summer for the last 5 years. Obviously not exact figures/dates but you get what I mean.
I'm in my mid-20s and I know that summers weren't this hot when I was a kid. I remember it used to snow in December, not be 10 degrees on Christmas Day and then -10 in March. I remember it used to be a novelty to get a named storm, not get 4 back-to-back every winter. The weather patterns in this country are not what they used to be and I don't even want to argue about what's causing that, I just want people, particularly the older generations, to fucking acknowledge it.
Our architecture is still designed for mild weather year-round because that's what we used to have, and now when you complain about being warm in your solid-brick, insulated to high heavens house without AC when it's been upwards of 30°C outside for a straight month, you get treated like some sort of wimpy vampire who thinks the sun was invented last Tuesday.
Previous_Kale_4508@reddit
TIL: the sun was invented last Tuesday. 😁
_FreddieLovesDelilah@reddit
Dunno how specifically British this is but I hate the small talk like at work etc.
sloefen@reddit
Knowing that I share DNA with Torygraph and Daily Heil readers
ouch-n3wsho3s@reddit
Having to put up with our pathetic media and politicians
TurnLooseTheKitties@reddit
Believing folk with titles, wealth and power are better than ourselves.
charlotteypants@reddit
The incessant moaning, both by myself and others
StiffAssedBrit@reddit
The cost! Honestly it's exhausting!
Emotional_Butterf1y@reddit
Having a poor selection of political parties to elect.
R-Mutt1@reddit
Self-loathing Brits
HMSWarspite03@reddit
Yep. We see this same question dragged up, possibly slightly changed, but essentially the same, not only is it really boring, but it's just karma farming drivel.
If yoy hate this country so much, leave??
MammothAccomplished7@reddit
If you have left, can you happily be a self-loathing Brit?
HMSWarspite03@reddit
I'm not leaving, I'm not the one constantly whining about this country, I like living here, for all its faults, this is still one of the safest and best places to live.
Apprehensive-Ear5722@reddit
I'm leaving. And couldn't be happier. Enjoy the caliphate
Human-Document-3880@reddit
5% of the UK is Muslim you massive soy encrusted vagina.
HMSWarspite03@reddit
🪶
ICanDanceIfIWantToo@reddit
Where are you heading?
Apprehensive-Ear5722@reddit
Romania
medevil_hillbillyMF@reddit
Living under the worst government we've ever witnessed.
denislad77@reddit
Poverty
mryouknowwho1878@reddit
Considering how wealthy we are as a comparison to most countries in the world, we fall miserably behind on a multitude of different statistics.
Everything is done so slow, projects that could take a year take 10 years or never happen.
Also, the NHS really isn’t a good healthcare system, we rank about 20th or 21st in Europe despite spending a large portion of our GDP on healthcare. Change is needed from the top down but people are too scared to allow change due to fear of privatisation. Waiting lists for over a year for specialist appointments whilst people in Switzerland get seen within a week.
dpr60@reddit
If you take out the uk wealth that counts towards the richest country figures but is actually hidden away in tax havens, we’re 20th richest or something like that. And falling. The uk is a country that’s been asset stripped by the wealthy.
ProfessionalChain724@reddit
England.
wotitdo222@reddit
Having to hear jealous Irish/Scottish/Welsh constantly throw one sided hate at England as an excuse for their sad little lives.
ProfessionalChain724@reddit
For context I’m an Englishman from London.
I’ll grant it that I’ll change it to London.
Big-Advertising-5366@reddit
Having to deal with the fact that everybody else is inferior 🙄
TalkingDonkey07@reddit
I give in..... What is it?
Gadgie2023@reddit
Being Empire - Shamed events generations ago.
thepoliteknight@reddit
Generations of the upper classes at that. Most of our empire era families didn't benefit from imperial conquest. To this day we still operation a soft caste system in this country, so even now we don't benefit from the empire.
Ashamed_Fig4922@reddit
Everyone did benefit in some way. Where do you think all the money for welfare and infastructure came from? Not to mention all the institutions and companies which benefitted from colonial spoliation and that gave work also to average Jane and Joe.
thepoliteknight@reddit
The same could be said for the colonised. Sure they had wealth taken from their land, but they were given infrastructure, industry, employment and institutions for decades to come. They were no better or worse of than the destitute that lived in Britain at the time, although arguably they had better weather.
Confuseduseroo@reddit
Many good men and women devoted their lives to the wellbeing of territories and peoples that Britain ruled. Apparently counts for nothing.
Necessary_Tour_5222@reddit
They devoted their lives to maintaining the status quo for the benefit of imperialists not for any higher good
Confuseduseroo@reddit
That is a gross misjudgement. It's not widely realised today that pre-1857 it was common for the British in India to speak local languages fluently and even to inter-marry. 25% of the entire British population would die from disease in any given year. Many cared passionately about the local populace, and went to enormous lengths to improve their lot. It was mostly after 1857 that the "them and us" attitude began to set in - the so-called "War of Indian Independence" was an attempt to put the Mughals back in charge, invaders from the north who were far more brutal than the British ever were.
MammothAccomplished7@reddit
Barbadians amongst others trying to chisel reparations off the British state which will predominantly effect the working class who didnt get the fruits of empire, often dying to maintain it or being thrown on the scrapheap after serving their purpose, no pension or retirement home.
thepoliteknight@reddit
And many of which will have physically paid money towards the debt incurred when the empire sought to abolish slavery.
NFTArtist@reddit
If being empire shamed is a significant issue in your life maybe you should take a break from social media
Whit3Pudding@reddit
Yeah lol, how terrible it must be
svadas@reddit
Being shamed about an imperial history that affected and still affects people directly today is worse than the actual imperialism? Lol
PerkeNdencen@reddit
There's a class system in the UK - the first place Britain colonized was itself. So yeah, being lectured about imperialism as when your family was among its first victims, combined with the fact it still affects us directly today but people who don't know better think we're benefiting from it. No, the Duke of Westminster is benefitting from it. Do I look like the Duke of Westminster to you?
svadas@reddit
Ergo, the imperialism remains worse than being shamed for it.
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
TBF that isn't what the OP asked. Even if imperialism is worse than being scammed for it (and it probably is) isn't relevant because that isn't what is being compared.
The question was what is the worst thing about being British.
So we are comparing, for example, the terrible weather with being shamed for imperialism, rather than comparing the effects of imperialism with being shamed for imperialism..
PerkeNdencen@reddit
I think I'm saying that the imperialism and the being shamed for it are in this specific example inseparable elements of one and the same experience.
DrDetergent@reddit
That assumes that anyone being shamed had anything to do with the empire in the first place.
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
Aussie here. Unpopular opinion perhaps, but I'm pleased that the British Empire existed.
NorthenLeigonare@reddit
Your mum, yeah!
DecMateee@reddit
Seeing a slow decline in British culture as we adopt others so willingly.
CognitiveIlluminati@reddit
Endless clouds. Clouds, clouds and more grey sky. Then when the sun does shine I’m too hot.
ryunista@reddit
My teeth
Queasy-Chipmunk-8088@reddit
Finding an NHS dentist.
sprinterdd@reddit
Trying to find some where to live
Neat_Magician_4563@reddit
Other British people
jonnieggg@reddit
That royal welfare family that costs you a fortune.
soupalex@reddit
how you can't even say you're english, these days, without being arrested and thrown in jail
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
Who did that happen to, please?
soupalex@reddit
people, these days. they got arrested and thrown in jail. just for saying they're english!
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
Oh, of course. Silly me.
AEHBlandalorian@reddit
Yeah, these days.
Mysterious_Bug_8407@reddit
Everyone hates us for the empire. More so than any other empire. Being told we are arrogant or still have an imperial mindset
CandyCorn7@reddit
It’s because we had the biggest empire ever recorded at its peak and thus people ignored other colonisers like the Dutch, French Empire to an extent, Austria/Austria-Hungary, Ottomans, America (yes they were colonisers), Japan, the list goes on.
michaelwnkr@reddit
Having to listen to all the haters. It’s a pretty decent place to live, beautiful countryside, loads of history, and probably better than anywhere else, tbh
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
YES.
Mysterious_Bug_8407@reddit
The English being blamed for the empire and the Scottish getting a free pass while also blaming England for the Empire
CandyCorn7@reddit
Yet Scotland attempted colonisation itself in the Americas
MikaCuoco@reddit
That I can’t celebrate my own countries holidays or beliefs as it might offend others
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
Try being Pagan and honouring the Sabbats, you can add ridicule to the list.
melijoray@reddit
Non Brits thinking, because Britain is small, we're all the same eg. British accent.
CandyCorn7@reddit
Ngl it’s mainly Americans so I don’t take it seriously
seventhcatbounce@reddit
How quickly the summer goes from sunny to freezing in the space of a couple of weeks once the nights start drawing in the whole country feels like it goes into a mini recession (might be worse because I live in a tourist dependent area) . Boomers moaning about too many immigrants whilst the care and nhs would collapse without them. Apart from that it’s a lot better than most people would give it credit for.
pixelface01@reddit
Knowing you are innately superior to every other human being on the planet just by virtue of being British,it’s a heavy burden.
CandyCorn7@reddit
This made me laugh lol
FixMiserable520@reddit
^ people who say this bullshit like it’s still the turn of the 20th century and we have an empire.
We don’t.
onebodyonelife@reddit
Knowing what Britain was like 50 years ago.
Honest-Ad4964@reddit
Worse?
Atlantree19@reddit
When you say Brits, which country are you referring too?
wotitdo222@reddit
I would assume the British ones...
CandyCorn7@reddit
People tend to assume that being British means just English and it’s annoying
Blue_Ostrich_43@reddit
Not being able to handle heat
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
I think I might have actually melted.
Happy_fairy89@reddit
Whenever I go abroad I always wish I was invisible. A lot of brits have gone abroad and given us a bad name, and I’m always very respectful but scared of upsetting other cultures.
CountIndividual65@reddit
Naivety and woke’ism
engineerogthings@reddit
The fact England doesn’t have a parliament,every other country in the union has one but the one is Westminster is for the entire UK,
Turbulent_Phrase_727@reddit
Just reverse devolution.
SilverellaUK@reddit
This needs to change. Things affecting the whole of the UK could be done by video conferencing.
Rasples1998@reddit
Everyone in the world has an irrational and prejudiced hatred towards you.
Grand_Chip_9572@reddit
Nothing I'm quite content with it 😂
BillOrmePersonal@reddit
That it looks like our “special relationship” with our transatlantic cousins has put us on the wrong side of history
Foreskin_Ad9356@reddit
the weather
rayna_ives@reddit
The fact that Scotland comes under it
Lord_of_Snark@reddit
That Scotland isn’t allowed to be independent and managed itself freely because England NEEDS Scotland for its own survival.
Wild-Individual6876@reddit
Having to live here
SparkySpastic@reddit
What’s stopping you from leaving?
vcsl14@reddit
Probably a myriad of reasons? That doesn’t invalidate the fact that the UK is generally shit these days.
SparkySpastic@reddit
Is it though? We’re one of the most diverse and accepting countries on Earth, the weathers moderate, in all consideration and healthcare is a given. Seems there’s a lot of whiney people who fixate on one issue, of which blankets and nullifies the numerous positive ones. And when I ask, what’s stopping you from leaving, I get downvoted for asking a genuine, no hate intended question 😂 They’ll say they hate it here/ don’t want to live here but do absolutely nothing to change it.
vcsl14@reddit
Don’t get me wrong, there are positives about UK life, but for the masses, quality of life here is pretty low compared to a lot of places around the world. Food, transport, property prices all fall shockingly behind a lot of Europe and South East Asia.
SparkySpastic@reddit
I disagree. It might be crap for some stuff but in those places you’ve named, there will be something else that someone will moan about, thinking we in the uk have it better. The fact is, you can be anyone here, love who you want and live freely.
SparkySpastic@reddit
Appreciate the reply and not being condescending in your answer. Not enough of that on here 🫡
Wild-Individual6876@reddit
Family I guess
Sharp_Hovercraft2015@reddit
That it's called great Britain but its actually a shithole Same can be said about weston super mare nothing super about it at all
thisismyuaernamr@reddit
The cost of housing now to what it was. I wouldn’t mind if everybody got ripped off but seeing some smug twat 60yr old getting what I get for 30% of the price pisses me off
RepeatButler@reddit
Knowing the country's best days are behind us and that we're on the downhill slope whilst our politicians and public servants try to delude us otherwise.
Apprehensive-Ear5722@reddit
Diversity is strength though. Look at other multicultural countries like the USA, Brazil, South Africa. That's the bar to aim for! 😁😁😁😁
RepeatButler@reddit
I have no problem with diversity because its good for the country. My issue is with the under investment in the NHS, the railways and buildings / roads with weeds and plant life growing out of them.
Objective-Ad-585@reddit
It’s not underfunding, it’s mismanagement. The funding is fine. It’s allowing private companies in to exploit our critical systems.
RepeatButler@reddit
That's more accurate than what I was saying.
palacethat@reddit
Having to endure Chewsday type jokes from windowlicking yanks on the Internet
UnlikelyChemistry949@reddit
Not being able to be honest about how you are feeling as the expectation is always to keep that private
_a_nice_egg_@reddit
My upper lip being so stiff all the time.
casual-chatterbox@reddit
People
IshamaelSunSoar@reddit
Having a foreskin.
TalosAnthena@reddit
I agree with yours.
I still haven’t worked out how to respond to the apology of somebody just walking by? They say sorry but if I say ok it’s fine then that means I think they should have apologised. But I don’t think they should have, so I just say nothing, which is bad?
I’ve felt like before calling them out on it. Like saying what’re you actually sorry for?
Rough_Champion7852@reddit
When the hope hits
ShanghaiGoat@reddit
The other British
Any-Talk-2307@reddit
How, like, 20% of the country have terrible teeth but the whole world thinks that’s what we’re all like.
Similarly, how people behave when they go on holiday. We aren’t all like that bro.
DazzlingClassic185@reddit
Our latitude makes for stupidly short nights in summer
MattLaidlow@reddit
House insulation in summer
ginger-tiger108@reddit
Ha ha our government
trustmeimweird@reddit
Watching the country turn to shit slowly. Aging infrastructure, offshoring of our institutions, mental health crisis, youth unemployment, the whole housing market.
Either that, or (being Scottish), midges.
Plumb121@reddit
Americans claiming the won WW2 single handed
Flat_News_2000@reddit
What does that have to do with being british?
Plumb121@reddit
Are you for real or on a wind up ?
SwiftJedi77@reddit
Why is that one of the worst things about being British? How does Americans being ignorant of history really affect your life?
wotitdo222@reddit
Americans claiming they won their independence not knowing it was the French, Spain, Dutch that made the fight not worthwhile for the British any longer.
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
And don't forget WWI.
CrustyMonk-minis@reddit
Or every war according to Hollywood
EvolvingEachDay@reddit
Corruption being so pervasive and blatant.
FixMiserable520@reddit
Crabs in a bucket mentality. Like the minute people try and use their voice to help out other people, in come the “who do you think you are?” type ad hominem attacks.
We stymie our own progress as a society when we shoot down people for trying to do things differently, or at least to promote that.
Ashamed_Fig4922@reddit
As a foreigner who often travels to the UK, I appreciate you wrote this.
I think also the abundance of anti-social behaviour, mental health issues and drugs/alcohol abuse is a consequence of what you call 'crabs in a bucket mentality'.
FixMiserable520@reddit
I think that’s a really astute observation, I couldn’t agree more.
Peer pressure to act out and sell ourselves short, or to keep the impostor syndrome fires burning, is a real one for us.
FordZodiac@reddit
I can;t say what I think without the risk of the police coming around.
ritualcutting@reddit
It's a country that is consistently trying to take from you, at all times, from all angles. Taxes are deep, complex, often you're taxed multiple times on something. Companies make record profits during times of public financial burden (recessions, austerity, COVID) and we are simply ..paralysed in thought and action. Income tax has remained the same for decades, whilst a fiver could get you by on a night out 20 years ago, you'd be just off with 100 now. Fines are non means tested, despite many of them being equivalent to an entire days work at the first stage for the vast majority of the country, and yet handed out with eager aplomb, without any thought to efficiency, ethics, cohesion or common sense. Fines are everywhere. Institutions that rely on your custom will charge you for the privilege of parking on their property. Price grifting in shops. Added fees to everything, hidden costs everywhere. The mentality of taking as much as possible, in small or bureaucratic increments, as often as possible, filters it's way through every section of society, and outside of the clandestine drain on finances, it makes the place feel so fucking mechanical and hostile if you think about it for more than a few seconds.
Britain has quite largely gone from a high trust to a moderate-to-low trust society in a couple generations. People sure do love blaming brown people and maybe less than optimal cultural importation and integration schemes. But as the grandchild of an immigrant myself, I feel like there are so many bizarre, inhuman, hostile undercurrents to British society we think are normal that quietly erode our sense of belonging and trust in surroundings. This is definitely one of them that I rarely hear spoken about.
Apprehensive-Ear5722@reddit
The fact that being British means nothing anymore. If some criminal who turns up on a dingy is British then I do not want to be considered British anymore.
One_Carrot_121@reddit
Rain
glh2009@reddit
Other British people. But it could be worse, they could be Americans.
Hobbit_Hardcase@reddit
Being scorned for being White-British.
No_Assistance_14@reddit
Having to explain when abroad that the UK wasn’t always like this
RddWdd@reddit
The worst thing? Probably everything, sorry about that.
Opening-Tea-257@reddit
The increasing lack of pubs
jenny_quest@reddit
Miserable people who want others to be miserable and don't want to change things for the better. 'I had to work hard and suffer so everyone else for the rest of time should'. Any sign of progress, whether waiving tuition fees or making it easier to get on the property ladder, is met by people moaning that they had it so hard.
Familiar-Woodpecker5@reddit
British people
Cool-Employee-109@reddit
The British, they ruined Britain
adreddit298@reddit
The constant need to apologise for our colonial past. It does need apologising for, but I don't see the same requirement of any other nation. Possibly that's my cultural bias, but still.
We did bad shit; we're better now. It needs to stop being dragged up in every conversation.
clockworkrobotic@reddit
It sucks how hard it is to learn a second language. Academically we don't have good language education and there are so few opportunities to learn through immersion. I hate the expectation that people in other countries should be able to speak English and I hate that that leads to a attitude that we shouldn't try to learn anything else.
LordHogchild@reddit
Having to wear a bowler hat in the bath
Correct-Goat4121@reddit
The government
thehoneybadger1223@reddit
Everyone assuming it's London. Like people outside dont even recognise thst we have an entire country outside of London. If it isnt Buckingham Palace, big Ben or stone henge, they're not interested.
Any_Listen_7306@reddit
Stonehenge isn't actually in London...
thehoneybadger1223@reddit
I'm well aware of that, it's in Wilthsire, but it seems to be the only other place people talk about when they mention the UK. They never mention Hadrians wall, or the lake district or Barnard castle, or even Alnwick castle where scenes from some of the Harry Potter movies were filmed. If it's not Stone Henge withbits mysterious origins and mystical conspiracies, or somewhere in the heart of London then people dont want to know
Mysterious_Bug_8407@reddit
Drunken English holidaymakers embarrassing the more well behaved tourists
Pen_dragons_pizza@reddit
The fact we do not match what the rest of the world think we are.
Leader of arts/creativity, politeness, clean and order etc. These things are long gone from a combination of extreme under funding, greed and even immigration has a part to play in watering down the values we used to have.
Adventurous_Two424@reddit
Fake politeness
yoloswaggins92@reddit
The genocidal history isn't great
ToiletPaperSlingshot@reddit
The only country ever to do that right 🙄
yoloswaggins92@reddit
Nope, but that doesn't make me any prouder of it personally.
Blk-04@reddit
your shame should lie in being human then, not being British for this particular thing…
yoloswaggins92@reddit
The fact that so many people are pushing back on this just proves my point.
Blk-04@reddit
Not, really but sure…
yoloswaggins92@reddit
I can only assume the only history books you've read were provided to you in a British school.
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
Is that not just human history? Belgium did horrific things in Africa. As far as I can see, Britain were just good at sinking ships.
yoloswaggins92@reddit
The people of Ireland and India may contest that point a little
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
I'm from the Highlands and the English committed terrible crimes after the Battle of Culloden (the last war on British soil).
Do I, as a Highlander, resent the English because of what they did to my ancestors? No, because we are all human beings and hatred achieves nothing.
NoFewSatan@reddit
We'll just forget The Troubles.
yoloswaggins92@reddit
I didn't say you did.
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
Ok
Limp_Guidance_5357@reddit
So because Belgium did horrific things as well that makes it ok so
Moppo_@reddit
Except Spanish ones. Turns out we were actually just good at late-medieval propaganda.
grosvenorave@reddit
Britain were just good at sinking ships in the way that Germany was good at helping people into concentrate into certain locations.
yoloswaggins92@reddit
The downvoters definitely victims of the British education system
Simbooptendo@reddit
Being hated by other nations for our colonial history
BigTitBitch_92@reddit
Illegal boat crossings.
JimmyHalo@reddit
Our politicians and the parasite royal family.
Abyssal-Starr@reddit
The government.
But also people saying you can’t have an opinion on X because our ancestors were colonists and such.
Like yea but I can’t even afford to travel to another country let alone have the power to conquer it.
Also if your dad’s an ass doesn’t mean you are too? Let’s not harass people over things they didn’t do, this goes for pretty much any context
Dread_queen23@reddit
When on holiday, especially in Europe, getting tarred with the same brush as other brits that are disrespectful and loud and drunk.
Its embarrassing
Ok-Duck-5127@reddit
Try being an Australian in Bali sometime.
chlo_gilligan@reddit
Affording to live not sure if it’s this expensive anywhere else but bills/ mortgages are a joke at this point
FenianBastard847@reddit
Royal hang-ups, deference, the unfairness that keeps normal people in their place.
Affectionate_Mango79@reddit
The shift to the right.
yubnubster@reddit
Everyone on Reddit loathes us, including ourselves.
Far-Conference-8484@reddit
Having the worst healthcare system in Western Europe and seeing your compatriots deify it.
Darri_oakenbear@reddit
It's shite being British! We're the lowest of the low! The scum of the fucking Earth! The most wretched, miserable, servile, pathetic trash, that was shat into civilisation! Some people hate the Yanks, don't! They're just wankers! We, on the other hand, are colonised by wankers! Can't even find a decent culture to be colonised by! We're ruled by effete assholes! It's a shite state of affairs to be in no amount of reddit posts, and all the fresh air in the world won't make any fucking difference
Split-Lost@reddit
I think we’re still living in the 90s socially, economically and culturally. We believe we’re still a rich powerful country so expect to have world class public services and high wages.
The reality is if you go into any town out of the south east the majority of jobs are low income (healthcare, social care, retail etc.). Whilst these jobs are vital, they don’t support a high income society as entry levels are low.
Running through this all is classism is still alive and rife. I didn’t know how big inequality was until I moved to London and saw life on six figures + and spoke to people with generational cash/ saw how they lived their lives. Sadly, the disconnect is only growing.
Mortma@reddit
I agree it would be like judging America on New York and Los Angeles alone. There is a lot of people left behind whatever the thing is we are doing in the South. All the smart people will like it or not more than likely be replaced on the whole by Ai.
Only then will we realise as a whole our country didn’t have a plan all along. It feels like we are in Ben Elton novel. Where they are distracting us with the Russians, we are all worried about America and we are clutching our pearls over a genocide which we supply arms for. We have useful idiots in charge who are only interested in keeping their noses in the trough while they peddle a politics of envy with no real way for young people to work out of it. And we wonder why they get p*ssed on holiday and don’t know how to act. If the only experience you had of Germans was War films and football you would too.
scarby2@reddit
As someone working in the AI field it's more likely that the smart people will use AI to become massively more productive and it will probably increase wealth inequality.
Unless we make some major breakthroughs it's unlikely LLMs will actually be good enough to do critical things without human oversight as while they fake sentience they have no real understanding of anything .However it's often faster for me to ask the model to do something then check its output.
We also might be in a situation where AI will kill AI, getting accurate training data is getting harder and harder because there's so much bad data generated by LLMs now.
Front_Bar9138@reddit
the lack of actual action to try make our lives better, the deadlock that right wing media has on influencing the voter base.
maikroplastik@reddit
It doesn't even ever be raised as a question of policy when it should be whole job of everyone in the government to improve the lives of it's citizens year over year.
Dangerous-Use7343@reddit
Summer is too hot, winter is too cold. It rains all the time. The need to constantly complain about the weather or listen to others complain about the weather.
ABChow000@reddit
Either having to deal with bald dicks with the IQ of a peanut, or always having to pick between a kids movie or the most patriotic possible american movies about a war they single handedly saved a country and its people from by assaninating a terrorist
berkleysquare@reddit
Trying to explain to an American that you're not from London.
ConflictOfEvidence@reddit
Intelligence is something to mock not to revere.
Poke35136@reddit
The constant chant of "Brit Bias" about the refs whenever a sportsman does well.
rogermuffin69@reddit
Taxes
Youbunchoftwats@reddit
Stupidity is now worn as a badge of honour.
People are tired of experts.
shitpunmate@reddit
The cost of it.
Pizzagoessplat@reddit
Brits abroad.
Its embarrassing
Palaceviking@reddit
Antipathy & servility being so commonplace
Evening-Tomatillo-47@reddit
Other British people?
Don-Cipote@reddit
Tea-yellowed crooked teeth
Mothmanrmj@reddit
99% of people from other countries hating me because I'm British.
UKS1977@reddit
Not being honest due to politeness. And foreigners not understanding that
OkBodybuilder2255@reddit
That stupid fucking face we have to pull at each other when your out on a walk. Walking through town don't say nowt to no cunt, get in countryside gotta say hello to everyone you see
Nyrex@reddit
Hearing people preach how you should correctly plate up a full English breakfast… just put it on the plate, it all goes the same way in the end.
O_D84@reddit
Our reputation abroad.
Chris260364@reddit
I would say the ever increasing cost and availability of housing , especially in London.
greens1117@reddit
This was my first thought Ha!
RavenBoyyy@reddit
Being so close to fr*nce
Gabble_Rachet1973@reddit
Involuntary sarcasm.
Necessary_Tour_5222@reddit
The narcissism. I haven’t had a British female friend who wasn’t a terrible person once I got to really know them
SparkleDust0@reddit
Sorry, could you repeat that please? Thank you
Ok_Profile9400@reddit
Being abandoned and quarantined by the rest of Europe when the rage virus spread.
SnooFloofs1868@reddit
That it’s socially acceptable to tell men their opinions are irrelevant then put no funding into preventing their suicides. Instead blaming men for not being more open with their feelings.
But hey… equality…. Yay?
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
Upvoted as I think needs discussion.
LuckyAstronaut8448@reddit
And yet you made this post l, to help them feel better?
Sea-Hour-6063@reddit
Being able to understand Americans when they talk.
cuntybunty73@reddit
You can't understand all yanks ffs
BungadinRidesAgain@reddit
And them looking at you like you're an alien if you happen to have a regional accent.
OkGrapefruit7174@reddit
“OMG I LOVE YOUR ACCENT” - said every minute by an american that doesn’t understand that EVERYONE has an accent to each other.
HechicerosOrb@reddit
To be fair, when I lived in the uk (born in us) a fair many Brit’s would do a shitty John Wayne impression back at me after I said anything.
MammothAccomplished7@reddit
On principle I usually do an Alf out of Home & Away impression to most Australians I come across.
Unhappy_Jaguar7960@reddit
Friend of mine was once told by an American (in America) that he "spoke really great English"
RESFire@reddit
Whenever an American hears my Mancunian accent I either get that response or "what did you just say"
BungadinRidesAgain@reddit
TBH that wouldn't be so bad, usually they just look at me like I'm speaking another language. I don't even have a really thick accent, just standard southern / cockney.
Also, some Americans I've encountered don't seem to realise that the world isn't USA centric by default, and we don't necessarily serve their food or use the same terminology as them. Which can be confusing for them!
TomVonServo@reddit
That doesn’t mean they don’t understand everyone has an accent. It means they like yours. What a humourless pain you must be.
MT_Promises@reddit
We returned Cheryl Cole because no one could understand her.
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
The British obsession with Americans is pathetic. It's incredible how all of you allow the entire country to live rent free in your heads. It must be so exhausting.
jurrassic_no@reddit
Yet you all come here and desperately tey to convince us you too are British, and you are a direct descendent of William Wallace, even though there is no record of him having children.
Excellent-Shape-2694@reddit
You must’ve run into some douchey Americans then. Not all Americans think and act this way. You shouldn’t generalize (generalise).
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
I myself have and never would do anything of the sort, and that hardly succeeds in addressing my observation anyway.
Claiming "Well, yanks do this..." does nothing but hammer the point home that you can't construct a sentence without foaming at the mouth about those people.
Everyone would have more respect for you if you'd just admit it rather than attempt to justify it or deflect.
jurrassic_no@reddit
Maybe you should take your own advise, rather than lashing out at someone who you just did the same thing to fish. "Rent free"?
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
That is the expression as she is spoken and written as I understand it.
jurrassic_no@reddit
Looks like we, and myself, live rent free in your head! Oh what a head to live in.
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
Er, no. You lot do love deflection.
jurrassic_no@reddit
"No, you are!" "I'm telling!"
What have you just been doing? Deflection!
terryjuicelawson@reddit
It is an odd one, see the pile-on every time someone uses some apparent "Americanism". Cue 400 comments all bashing Americans, their speech, their sport and everything else. Yet they probably don't think of us, at all.
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
Probably not, but I would imagine they don't suffer from a crippling inferiority complex to the same degree. It's adolescent behaviour to use whataboutism as a valid argument for anything. At least the Aussies are arrogant and hate Americans. The British do it in the hopes that it will make them feel slightly better about themselves. And the Aussies are not compelled to compare - they cite actual observations that don't necessarily correlate to their own lives and culture. That makes their criticisms and complaints infinitely more valid.
Jamericho@reddit
We are obsessed yet American meme subs and Tiktok is filled with daily “british food” posts.
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
More "Well look at what they do!"
Keep these coming, they're priceless.
Jamericho@reddit
Ah, it’s only an obsession when one side does it not the other. Got it.
_HGCenty@reddit
You all should be grateful you found somewhere in London rent free.
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
Whatever that means I suppose.
IllIlIlIlIlIll@reddit
Quite the opposite really isn’t it?
I see you, Mr.American on r/AskUK
Per_Mikkelsen@reddit
I'm Danish and frequent many subreddits. You're not as bad as the Aussies, but close.
Moppo_@reddit
American accents sound almost fake when I hear them in real life. I don't know why.
Doobalicious69@reddit
Americans in general seem fake irl. They're so dramatic about everything.
que_tu_veux@reddit
How many non-tourist Americans have you known?
terryjuicelawson@reddit
We are so used to hearing it on the TV and in film that it always makes my ears prick up in real life.
captaincrunch69420@reddit
When I watch TV shows I sometimes have a hard time telling if they're American or not. But if I hear an American in real life, omg it's immediately noticable
Norman_debris@reddit
Like how sheep irl sound like people doing impressions of sheep.
NathTheChippy@reddit
Absolute fact
hitchaw@reddit
So loud
GhenniePooh@reddit
Ok. Now this is funny.
fojo81@reddit
This God-damn bloody heatwave going on!!! I hate and despise this bloody heatwave!!!
turkishhousefan@reddit
First Past The Post
mmoonbelly@reddit
Probably more of a southern English thing.
*Automatically trying to place someone by accent
It’s so ingrained that I find myself doing it here in France whenever I meet other English people.
It’s ridiculous - even more so as we’re all immigrants this side of the channel moved for many different reasons.
Mean_Objective5030@reddit
Being too hot in the summer for 2 days of heat wave and then too cold in the winter for 2 snow days.
Then, talking about how hot, cold, wet, windy & grey it is for the other 361 days of the year.
Suspicious-Chef6345@reddit
At this time its the lack of reasons to feel patriotic
Baskham@reddit
Being on holiday with people stereotyping you as a classic Brit away in Benidorm. Some of us are civil (sometimes)
Mad_Mark90@reddit
Neolibs gave everyone brainworms
OddPerspective9833@reddit
Being associated with the others
Temporary-Zebra97@reddit
Listening to all the moaning about what our ancestors did to others.
Had some Scottish bloke bang on recently about the highland clearances like I was personally involved.
Upbeat_Ice1921@reddit
It’s just….the acceptance of mediocrity everywhere.
ChristopherHitchens4@reddit
Black women
Cold94DFA@reddit
The older generation 50-60+ are still stuck in the "everyone be polite and if someone isn't, I'll be rude".
The younger generations grew up in transaction "don't talk to me" England.
Look at shops/call centres/customer facing roles for example, staff talk to people like robots, put on a fucking person to deal with the public and it's incredibly obviously insincere.
The people talk to staff like shit because they don't act like real people.
It's a vicious circle and way more factors but this isn't comment.
The point is that older folks struggle to TRANSACT without emotions.
I went into post office and the clerk didn't understand the process, to send a package to EU. I was unamused by their bewilderment of their own services and they claimed I had an attitude. I did not, I was emotionlessly transacting, as taught by growing up in a city in England.
No I don't care about you, I know you don't care about me, I just want to send my package,
mellotronworker@reddit
The utter and complete bovine-level brain-damaged stupidity of the majority of the electorate.
BTZ-25@reddit
Not understanding what it is anymore.
CheaterMcCheat@reddit
Drinking culture
Warsaw44@reddit
The way people wallow in our class system.
cinejam@reddit
Our unlimited exposure to US "culture" because of language. Mainly the shit super processed food , the shit politics and being their shitty little poodle.
Academic_Visual116@reddit
Having to scroll through the drop down right through all the countries to "U" for "United Kingdom" ...
Only to discover on this website it's "G" you are wanting for "Great Britain"
callmelux237@reddit
Everyone one else presuming we have bad teeth
OminOus_PancakeS@reddit
Powerlessness in the face of antisocial behaviour. Almost complete absence of state support to counter it.
YesterdayPlus5587@reddit
All the nons stinking up the joint
fords42@reddit
I hate how everyone outside London and SE England are treated. Every initiative seems to be for London’s benefit first and everywhere else second.
Rhaegar47@reddit
I'm a Londoner who has spent my whole life here in London. Is this a popular feeling for the rest of the country? I've never heard it come up before. Any particular examples?
By the way I'm not arguing and saying you're wrong, I'm genuinely interested.
ExampleApart@reddit
For me it's the ignorance to situation outside of the UK. Very quick to judge something.
Logical-Kick-3901@reddit
Brexiter gammon little islanders. Cannot stand them.
ChaiGreenTea@reddit
The Government
Being made fun of by Americans when gestures to America
Cats_oftheTundra@reddit
I don't know about the rest of Britain, but living in England it's the knowledge that we live in the finest country on earth and everywhere else we go to is by definition inferior. But it's always good to come back.
vcsl14@reddit
I do love satire
ToiletPaperSlingshot@reddit
Being called racist for any sort of patriotism
vcsl14@reddit
Patriotism is a virtue of the vicious.
OkWhile8478@reddit (OP)
Racist!
HighlightAmbitious84@reddit
Property prices in relation to salaries
wyxie@reddit
Honestly, we get harassed constantly online. You can't move on reddit without seeing memes putting quotation marks around "people" to imply we're not human, or the same tired jokes about us conquering the world for spices only to not use any or the "oi i'm bri'ish innit" jokes. People here really violently hate us and the mocking definitely does a number on me. No one wants to be constantly told they're ugly or that the way they talk is stupid. It's gotten to the point where I'm really self conscious and beaten down.
bunglemullet@reddit
We have an American style economy which destroys public services. Higher taxes as in Europe create good Public services good roads schools hospitals etc
BrawDev@reddit
Honestly the lazy sterotypes do get to me. Cause they aren't even true. We're one of the best nations for clean drinkng water, it's all well taken care of with protections for your teeth, and we have some of the best dental care you can get, so much so that people need to flee Britain to other counties like Turkey to get substandard work done at horrific prices.
And yet, despite that one of the Sterotypes is that we've all got rotting teeth, from the Americans. Who think Floruide is turning them into frogs and then gay. Like ?????
Bipolar03@reddit
Our heat is different everywhere else. Wait we complain about everything
vengarlof@reddit
Being surrounded by people who absolutely hate the idea of British-ness
Jumbo_Mills@reddit
The past, nostalgic pining for past glories. Too many are stuck feeling entitled to the "good ol' days" all it does is hold you back. Plus whenever someone says they miss how it used to be I immediately think, what you mean before things like Civil, women and gay rights movements? How exactly was it better and for who?
halfway_crook555@reddit
The crabs in a bucket mentality
TROUTCRANE@reddit
Everything is slightly shitter than it needs to be
Acrobatic-Guess4973@reddit
Being hated by almost every other country in Europe (and several outside Europe)
hyperskeletor@reddit
This bloody heat!
mag_webbist@reddit
Dealing with other British people
UnusualActive3912@reddit
Dreadful weather. And the government that we have now.
GertrudeMcGraw@reddit
Not being Irish for a passport, but being Irish enough to get sunburnt!
Responsible_Dog_9491@reddit
Wearing this bowler hat and carrying a brolly.
20Kudasai@reddit
We never got to enjoy the apparent civilising benefits of colonisation
SuburbanBushwacker@reddit
our servile deference to the elite
DesmondCartes@reddit
Listening to people who are proud to be British 🤢
Scowlin_Munkeh@reddit
The class system, which has held us back for centuries, and created a political system where the vast majority of citizens - working folk, the poor, the vulnerable, are repeatedly shafted by rich grifter elites.
6-foot-under@reddit
Trying to find your nationality on a drop down menu
gregd303@reddit
Fact!
LemonDifficult1@reddit
The fact that when most people say British they mean English and the other countries are an afterthought.
JH1972@reddit
I think that happens in a lot of cultures to say sorry for something that had nothing to do with them...
Biscuitman82@reddit
Just the general negativity of everything
just_some_guy65@reddit
Other British people
gregd303@reddit
Self deprecation
Incandescentmonkey@reddit
The horrible right wing press and a enforced view that taxation is bad.
mazty@reddit
The culture. As in real British culture that no one talks about and isn't prevalent In London due to the cultural hotpot that it is:
Short-State-2017@reddit
Saying sorry 78 times when you try to get past someone in the shops and give them 0.1% inconvenience
smelliepoo@reddit
People using our flag in the name of fascism
Jayandnightasmr@reddit
We complain about Spainish overfishing as we're right behind them in most stats
chaos_jj_3@reddit
I'm just too bloody sexy. I hate it. I just want to live a normal life but I can't because I'm too attractive.
BoogerSantos@reddit
The constant pocket-watching.
GhenniePooh@reddit
What is pocket watching?
SceneDifferent1041@reddit
The French
AnonymousTimewaster@reddit
Sharing my community with a bunch of ill-informed mouth frothing racists.
Ok_Garden_4874@reddit
Top 10 exporter of bad tourists.
Any_Listen_7306@reddit
Not no.1 though...we know who they are!
Sure-Junket-6110@reddit
You get arrested for even thinking the word these days
grosvenorave@reddit
What's the word and who got arrested for thinking it?
Moppo_@reddit
Showaddywaddy.
nigeltheworm@reddit
Morris dancing.
Complex-You-4383@reddit
So many people have such a poor work ethic, or interest in working, or even contributing to the country but will actively go out their way to do the opposite, littering, graffiti, damaging property, theft, basically it’s embarrassing how many people have never or will never work a day in their life but get universal credit…
Prodromodinverno1@reddit
Alcoholism is socially accepted and in some cases (such as uni) even expected
peachypeach13610@reddit
Being more socially awkward than average
Prodromodinverno1@reddit
British people never say things in a direct way for fear of coming across as rude. I once was told someone who was violent and abusing was "not a very nice man". Or that weird way that British people have for saying something is wrong: "this is very good, but you could try and do this other way instead".
JammyWaad@reddit
Gettin worse round ere
svadas@reddit
We invented the guillotine but
AugustineBlackwater@reddit
Football yobs
scandalcraig@reddit
Taxes on EVERYTHING. Even death
PM_ME_VAPORWAVE@reddit
All of it
Competitive-Craft265@reddit
People asking what the worst thing about being British is
Henno212@reddit
‘The be kind’ mentality
No everyone deserves it.
what_up_homes@reddit
I’d like to throw Negativity into the camp fire
TheAviator27@reddit
The UK.
TiredLondonGal@reddit
The stiff upper lip culture and just not complaining about problems. Then going abroad and getting drunk to a crazy degree… then again, maybe just my odd social circles
TheChunkyScale@reddit
Living amongst reform voters... Vile bunch
Fit_Food_8171@reddit
Living amongst illegal immigrants and the ghettos they create...vile bunch
thirtysevengorillas@reddit
The noseyness of some british.
BromleyReject@reddit
People seem to think we're either Terry Thomas from 1957 or neolithic banana peelers
Tdsk1975@reddit
People harking back to a time when ‘Britain was great’. Looking back through history that certainly hasn’t been since WW2…
jack5624@reddit
Sharing mostly the same language as Americans
TheLonelyWolfkin@reddit
Having our language butchered by them.
TomVonServo@reddit
Imagine being so bothered.
Milky_Finger@reddit
Putting people down who are trying to do something good for themselves.
Oli99uk@reddit
The gammons
CosmicQuestions@reddit
Being hated by the rest of the world.
loveswimmingpools@reddit
The right wing mainstream media feeding us a hate filled narrative. Or litter.
Pole_Calmer@reddit
A huge, growing amount of the people that also live here. Illiterate, 1D-minded, slack-jawed simpletons, that aren't even fit for composting.
ForwardAd5837@reddit
You leave 1D out of this, Kiss You was a bop.
zigbeeandchill@reddit
Public transport, its eye opening visiting other countries that have functional and affordable systems
JK_1987@reddit
The British themselves? The snobby ones, The ones that think they still rule the seas and land... Oh and the ex-pats or long term holiday go-ers
Jack-Rabbit-002@reddit
Everywhere outside of Brum! 😀 No I hate this persistence to always blame Johnny Foreigner for all our problems And I feel most Brits are pretty right leaning. And politicians have to appease these fuckers because they want to keep votes and stay in a position of power
I also think the House of Lords and Monarchy are archaic relics of the past and should have died with the Empire But we are a nation that will prop up the super rich first above all else.
Also how American leaning our political elite is and the older generations
Davesplays1505@reddit
The two tier policing going on
vcsl14@reddit
The public transport, food in general, house prices.
Prize-Piano2146@reddit
That they think they're better than anyone else.
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