What I have learned in 5 1/2 years of prepping
Posted by Academic_1989@reddit | preppers | View on Reddit | 59 comments
Warning, long post: I have always been a planner and a person who prepared for potential emergencies as long as my budget allowed. In the very early covid days, I saw the potential issues and I stocked up on N95 masks long before recommended, as well as some canned goods and a fully stocked freezer. But, once the shelves were bare and then a few months later we had the Texas deep freeze, I became a much more serious prepper. Now we have had the Texas floods, a freak situation where the best prep would have been extreme watchfulness once is started raining, and readiness to head out before it was terrible - like one person staying up all night or taking turns. Here is what I have learned so far:
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There will always be things you don't anticipate - who would have thought that the stores would run out of toilet paper and paper towels, yeast, and gluten free flours? And who would have thought that the Texas freeze would be so bad that not only would power go down, but natural gas line valves would freeze. I expanded my "what if" scenarios and bought a generator and a couple of room sized indoor propane heaters.
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We eat a lot of rice and not as many beans, and beans need spice. I pay much closer attention to what and how much food we actually eat and what it needs that is shelf stable for preparation. I also prep socks and underwear because I am super picky. I have celiac so I prep gluten free flour. I wear masks a lot - allergies, air quality issues, smoke, dust, and sneezing/coughing people in Costco. I feel much safer if I have a stockpile.
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Cars and small/medium electronics and systems break. Have spare parts on hand. One thing we were bad at was generator maintenance. We had a dual fuel and used gas instead of propane, resulting in carburetor issues - mostly because we did not learn more about generators before using one.
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Be careful not to let prepping turn into an obsession. If you can afford it, and view it as a hobby, or if it is something that helps you cope with the anxiety of life today and won't bankrupt you, then go for it as long as your family is on the same page. If not, try to understand why no. I cook every meal we eat - this frees up money for things like battery packs, lanterns, life straws, etc., so no one complains. I found early on that I became consumed with buying new stuff, because there is NEVER enough. So now, I pick one thing a month if I'm spending over $100 dollars for an item. For example, this month I bought two new backpacks (cheapish ones) for my husband and two water bladders.
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Backpacks are very uncomfortable and it is hard to walk with a weighted pack. I am currently using a weighted pack for neighborhood walks. Be judicious in what you put in the pack if you plan to walk. We all think we will "bug in", but watching what happened in Kerville tells me be prepared to evacuate quickly with some essentials, and be fit enough to carry it and yourself out. (hence the new packs and water bladders). I try to learn from observing events.
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Cheap stuff I do - we purchase distilled water in gallon containers. After they are empty, I fill them with tap water for use on washing dishes, etc. We could drink it in an emergency. Every time I order groceries, I add about $10 in long term food. I do not do the mylar bag thing, but I fortunately can afford to buy a couple of Auguson Farms $10 cans each month. I also don't do the "store what you eat, eat what you store" thing. This is because our diet consists of fresh fruit and vegetables and because we don't each much canned or dried. I do store what we will eat in a crisis. When the canned goods get close to expiring, I either cook them or donate them. I buy a package of some kind of batteries once a month. I am now vigilant about watching sales.
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Growing food is really f-ing HARD. This year we have had a lot of rain, but usually we have dry, exceptionally hot summers with very bright sum. I have practice for 5 years. I had one good year. I am not giving up. This year, I put in a small fruit orchard in the front yard. I haven't killed anything this year tree-wise, but we lost several last year. If we are lucky, late freezes and/or drought will not kill every fruit crop on every tree. The tomatoes I am harvesting have a net cost of about $25 each so far this year, so I don't have this figured out, but it is a fun hobby.
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Meds and health are a problem. My daughter and husband have significant mobility issues. I have preprepared with walkers, knee braces, etc., in the even that they have to walk longer distances than planned. I have stockpiled antibiotics from Jase. I have secured as much extra thyroid and blood pressure medicine as possible. It is still a concern. In a scenario where they can't get out of a dangerous situation, do I save myself for the other family members, or stay with them for whatever. I do not know the answer. We are investing in monthly injections so that they can lose weight, which will make things easier. It's pretty expensive but worth it for a lot of reasons.
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Pets are also a problem. The dogs will eat what we eat. The tortoise will eat grass and weeds. I guess the cats are mostly on their own? And the bunny can eat greens as well. But I will need them should SHTF or even a minor short term issue occur.
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Bugs and rodents can be an unexpected problem. In our area, the cockroaches are thick outdoors. I'm considering chickens, which sound like a lot of work to me, to help control the outdoor bug population. But I suggest including something like Home Defense spray in your stockpile. We are screwed if they stop selling it. One year while on vacation, rats chewed through one of the doors, and ate all the food. So we battled them for a month, and I redid my stored supplies, putting them in large sealed glass jars. Fortunately no recent issues.. Maybe also buy some animal traps, including large rat traps, with bait (found out they love beer)
Thanks for reading!
kalitarios@reddit
I remember reading this here and I still keep this in mind; Every ounce is a pound and every pound pain
gadget767@reddit
You say in one place that “backpacks are very uncomfortable” but in another that you recently bought “two cheapish ones”. Cheap backpacks are almost guaranteed to be without proper hip straps for load support. You need to go to a quality outdoor store like REI and get fitted for a quality pack of whatever size you are looking for. The other individuals in your family should also do the same. Backpacks are one area where you really can’t cut corners on price.
Chefrabbitfoot@reddit
I got into multi-day hiking back in 2023 after being a day hiker and rucker for years. When I started I used the bags I had: MilSurp rucks from across the eras, cheapo Jansport style day bags, etc. When I was finally gearing up for my longest trip to date, I decided it was time to get properly fitted and use a proper hiking bag.
Hooo boy what a difference! Firstly, getting fitted to a bag it amazing in and of itself, and I thought that baby was dialed in, but when we got to Mountain Crossings a few days into the AT I had them fit me again, this time with all my gear in it. Not that I encourage it to anyone at all, but I can easily throw 40# into that thing and barely notice I've got weight on my back.
Brudegan@reddit
She also talked about the health problems of her family. While I agree with what youre saying i doubt it really matters since you have to be able to walk without one before the fitting of a backpack matters. Im "only" old and overweight but would also have problems.
I have several backpacks with internal frame but use an ultralight one without frame (with a foam sleeping pad in the back of it) because its nearly 2kg lighter and fits good enough compared to my other ones. And its smaller so it doesnt scream "I have a lot of stuff and cant even outwalk you" (running is not an option for my knees).
iwantmy-2dollars@reddit
Just got my 3 and 5yo fitted with Tarn 18s and bladders from REI and it’s a whole different world. We went on a short hike where they carried their own water and snacks. Having everything in the right place, starting with the hip straps, is key. Previous hikes my husband and I were carrying everything and coming up short on water. Now everyone is more independent and working towards being better prepared for Tuesday.
Don_Q_Jote@reddit
I think this is another key point. Buy good quality backpack, but also make sure it's a proper fit and any adjustments are done perfectly.
iwantmy-2dollars@reddit
Absolutely, and what I didn’t know before was that they have handy dandy weights at REI they use to help fit the backpack. It also helped me understand how much they can comfortably carry.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
I also have an osprey - it also is uncomfortable. I'm not fat, but I'm not super skinny and I have a short upper body. Think they just done feel good no matter how much money.
gadget767@reddit
I would suggest that you try getting fitted for a pack. Osprey is s a quality brand, but no good for you if it just doesn’t fit you.
Palavras@reddit
Agreed, there’s a reason “backpackers” use a different kind of backpack than kids going to school. They make a huge difference.
Why_You_Mad_@reddit
Backpacks that are made to hold 30-50lb are not cheap, but they will allow you to carry a significant weight for a long time relatively comfortably (as comfortable as carrying 40 extra pounds can be).
That said, if you can get the same use from a lighter pack, you should do so for sure.
RaisinBranKing@reddit
In his book Build The Perfect Bug Out Bag, Creek Stewart recommends getting a backpacking style backpack with hip straps. He says that that’s basically mandatory for carrying any kind of weight. And you want a backpack as opposed to a duffel bag so that your hands are free
In his book Concrete Jungle, Clay Martin says that you should train carrying a pack on a regular basis (rucking) and build up to what you need to. He said that carrying any more than 25% of you body weight is nuts (iirc) and that he did that in the army occasionally and paid the price. So you likely want it much much lighter than that
RaisinBranKing@reddit
In his book Build The Perfect Bug Out Bag, Creek Stewart recommends getting a backpacking-style backpack with hip straps. He says that that’s basically mandatory for carrying any kind of weight. And you want a backpack as opposed to a duffel bag so that your hands are free
In his book Concrete Jungle, Clay Martin says that you should train carrying a pack on a regular basis (rucking) and build up to what you need to. He said that carrying any more than 25% of you body weight is nuts (iirc) and that he did that in the army occasionally and paid the price. So you likely want it much much lighter than that
iridescent-shimmer@reddit
There's also a whole community of ultra lightweight packing community of hikers/campers. Lots of product recs that reduce ounces.
OutlawCaliber@reddit
Every time I read this I think of the heavy packs we had to carry on rucks. I can still carry heavy packs far longer than most people. You can condition yourself for extra weight. You should probably do that in easy times though.
oros3030@reddit
The main thing is practice. I've climbed up peaks with a 50lb+ backpack so 🤷.
wishinforfishin@reddit
If your backpack is too heavy, you have too much stuff (or need to work up to that weight.)
If your backpack is uncomfortable, you have the wrong pack.
A good pack that fits well can be comfortable even overloaded. I had to do a 4-mile hike carrying 30% of my bodyweight, up a cliff, as a novice. I thought my heart was going to explode and my lungs collapse, but my pack was not uncomfortable.
Guessing from how you have worded your post, OP, that you are also a female. Get to REI or the like and get properly fitted. I ended up with a youth backpack because my torso is shorter than any adult pack would fit. But it's 65 liters so it hold everything I need for a week.
(Someone will tell me that's too big. Yes, it probably is, but I live in a cold area and winter warmth is bulky even if it's not heavy, hence the giant size pack. I like camping at 30° but I also like sleeping warm.)
kalitarios@reddit
I think you meant to reply to the OP not my reply?
wishinforfishin@reddit
Just building on your comment.
kalitarios@reddit
Right on
BonnieErinaYA@reddit
Gardening is hard.
MyOtherAcoountIsGone@reddit
Sure but if you do your research and put in the time, you will gain enough experience to feed yourself, even if it's just 20 or 35% of your diet. Better than nothing -- that's coming from a non-prepper.
gonyere@reddit
Yes. Anyone who thinks they can just put up some seeds and be set, is delusional. I've been gardening for 15-20+ years, and my parents here for the 20-30+ years before then. Some years are amazing. Many are not. It rains too much, or not enough. A couple of my corn plantings were all but washed away - out of 4, 25' rows I have maybe 5-10 plants. The plantings before that, and hopefully the last couple too, are full.
Disastrous_Crazy8049@reddit
So excited to see another Celiac. I've been experimenting with different flours and combinations of flours. Testing what I can make out of what I can find. I've figured out which alternative pastas we like and sourcing supplies. Ours is still a new diagnosis (and it's from my toddler) so just getting our feet. I'm curious if you have any suggestions for the Celiac side especially.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
Message me anytime - it's such a steep learning curve. Prepping is much more difficult and expensive when you have to be gluten free because of celiac. Several Augason farms products are gluten free as are some Mountain house meals.
Any other food allergies? If not, here are some of my favorite brands and lessons learned after over a decade of experimentation:
- Pamela's products, particularly their pancake mix. My grandkids like my pancakes better than wheat based ones. I also use if for muffins and quick breads, similar to bisquick but much better. Their cake mixes and cornbread mix also rock but are expensive. The pancake mix is 100% worth the cost. Pillsbury does a decent cake mix for less, and Walmart carries Jiffy gluten free cornbread mix.
- If you are in Texas by any chance, HEB pasta is the best for gluten free pasta, hands down. After that, Barilla. Rice and quinoa pastas are really bad about falling apart. Plan to cook gluten free pasta longer than wheat, and it works best when there is a corn and rice mix used for the pasta noodles. Also better to combine with the sauce and cheese and bake for just a few minutes, as gluten free pastas don't absorb flavors quite as easily as wheat, so the baking in the sauce for a few minutes is critical.
- I think Udi's has the best bagels. And hamburger buns - they hold up well. Schar bread and rolls are great (ciabatta rolls are super good) and they have a good room temperature shelf life because they are packages and sealed in nitrogen gas. They also have good club crackers, graham crackers, etc. Mostly al their stuff is yummy. Campbells makes a great gluten free cream of chicken soup. Mission has great gluten free flour tortillas, only ones that don't fall apart.
- Just know that once you switch to GF, it takes some time to acclimate to the different texture from wheat. Also the preprepared foods and snacks have more sugar. Add more baking powder to your baking than wheat recipes call for. I find bean flours to have a bad taste and to be too crumbly. Nut/rice flours are better. Too much xanthum gum can irritate a sensitive stomach as it heals, as can psyllium, often used in gluten free baking. Use an extra egg instead at first.
- I have tried homemade bread so many times. Pamela's mix is ok, but I think Schar's loaves are better and the cost is similar. I gave up on homemade bread.
- nuts.com has bulk gluten free nuts, fiesta/bolner has great mail order Mexican spices, mostly all gluten free, beware of the "gluten friendly" label, it is not tested. Anecdotally I have heard the Cheerios mechanical separation process is not reliable and I'm really sensitive, so I stick with rice and corn Chex. Costco carries a great gluten free sprouted oats, the only one I can eat. Bob's red mill and arrowhead mills carry a wide variety of flours, an egg substitute that is better than eggs for baking, and a lot of beans - not all are gluten free but they label the ones that are - I order a lost of this stuff with Vitacost, they have good sales. Arrowhead has one of the only gluten free lentils on the market - be careful with lentils and oats, they are frequently cross-contaminated. Cheaper products and even some expensive ones use barley as a flavor enhancer, and it is not legally required to disclose it as an allergen like wheat. Feel free to ask anything else, it is a difficult road to adjust, but.your cooking can adapt and I now cook meals that are almost indistinguishable from ones with gluten (except for the bread).
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AWintergarten@reddit
I used to take the day CoD released off and the following days until the weekend. Then I realized the developers didn’t care about the CoD veterans so I moved over to Apex.
nakedonmygoat@reddit
#1: Living in a food desert, I always had extra stuff on hand and could even share in 2020. In 2021, most of my hurricane prep translated nicely to the Texas freeze. Unfortunately, I had used my mylar emergency blankets for decorations at the office Halloween party (disco theme). Dummy me forgot to replace them. 🙄 I was set otherwise though, and had recently bought some self-heating patches for shoulder tension. I pasted those suckers all over me!
#2: Have you considered lentils? They cook a lot faster than beans, store just as easily, and a good Indian daal is amazing! Yes, you'll need spices, but they last a long time.
#7: Yep. Not only do I have a terrible yard for gardening, thanks to a huge and very beautiful live oak, but even when I tried to grow things in my front yard, it was a disaster. Even my father and next door neighbor, both consummate gardeners, couldn't possibly grow enough to feed themselves. Out in a rural area with plenty of land and water, maybe. Folks who haven't practiced need to.
#9: I would hate to turn my kitty outside to fend for herself, but she was doing okay when my neighbors caught her as a stray kitten and brought her to me because they couldn't keep her. Healthy cats spend every day practicing for their true mission in life. Most experts agree that they're the only pet that is only partially domesticated.
Mostly though, I feel like knowing your area and thinking outside the box is key. In 2020, had I run out of TP, I would've gone to my office and swiped some, with the intention of replacing it later. After all, everyone had been sent home, so there was no one there to need it. I had some napkins I used to replace paper towels, and I saw napkins on the shelves, too. I also realized that pet stain remover contains the same sanitizing ingredient as ordinary disinfecting wipes, but no one was buying it!
Being urban affords me some advantages. I monitor the weather as if it were my religion, and I can load up and move into a parking garage if there's a flood risk. There are research universities nearby. They have their own power plants and don't lose power in a weather emergency. I know where every outdoor power outlet and vending machine is. I have my own generator, solar panels and power stations, but one university has a hotel and restaurant, which is where I go during a long term power outage when I want to pretend for a couple hours that life is normal.
A huge component to any prep is morale. Cards, board games, and picture books full of big glossy photos of nice places help. Hobby supplies. Favorite old books that always make you smile. I also have a dedicated DVD player with a screen and a couple of box sets of old sitcoms. Battery life is 6 hours and I can recharge it anytime. Why go to bed unhappy? Treats and things that bring you joy are what get you through the tough times. Beans and rice will save your body, but to save your mind, you need the things that make you laugh.
Cygnerose@reddit
What a great post. I too live in TX. My husband and I trek to South TX twice a year to stock up on meds in MX. We have a myriad of antibiotics and other monthly medications since we do not have health insurance. We even get our teeth cleaned for $35. PM me if you need info on where we go. We have been going for 11 years (2x's a year) now and it is safe.
No-Ask7525@reddit
This is a great list, so many good reminders on here! I have a quick Q about #6….Do you rotate around and reorganize each time you add a food prep or get additional batteries? Also, do you keep a written log of your preps/amount/locations/etc? I need to do this to make sure everyone in my family knows what we have and where it is, I just haven’t found the right method yet. Thanks again for the helpful post!
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
I keep a photo log and I am kind of OCD so I check expiration a lot. I don't rotate each time because I still feel the need to continue stocking up. Don't know if you caught the press conference today where the ag sec said deportations of farm workers will continue and they will be replaced with automation and medicaid recipients who aren't currently working. I am doubling down on stocking up additional food
No-Ask7525@reddit
Thank you for the response and no, I didn’t see that! I’m going to re-prioritize food and water preps. Your post was motivating for sure!
Virtual-Feature-9747@reddit
It's true that one cannot anticipate every event. This is why it's better to prep for conditions, not events. A hurricane or a blizzard is an event. A power outage is a condition. Job loss or personal injury is an event. No income is a condition. Don't get focused on events, instead prep for conditions: no power, no water, no heat, no stores, no medical services... and especially a condition where it's unsafe to go outside or leave your home. Doesn't matter why - could be a pandemic, or civil war, or nuclear fallout or six feet of snow.
And for f*** sake don't debate how UNLIKELY something is. Every disaster event is unusual and unlikely within a given time frame. But it IS likely that *something* disastrous will happen *sometime* in the next few years.
Cyber_Suki@reddit
Great feedback on your experience! Thanks. One question: you mentioned investing in the shot. Assuming you mean a GLP 1 type thing. What is the plan for when this is no longer available? I have family invested in this treatment and often think about what happens when they lose access.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
Well, and the cost is not insignificant - $500 per month. So unless insurance starts to pay or he becomes diabetic, we will not be able to cover this for life. He is working very hard on taking advantage of the lack of appetite to really try to retrain what is "normal" in eating. I am helping with this with things like "no don't have a sandwich, have a salad with steak bites", or "no don't have three eggs, try two first and then you can always make more if you need to". But you are correct, it is a concern.
Cyber_Suki@reddit
Thanks for the response. Yeah its an opportunity to learn new habits for sure!
EnvironmentalDust779@reddit
I buy Aviation gas at the local airport for all my small engines. It is more expensive but it has a long shelf life. What I am saving in carburetor repairs etc makes the Av gas a bargain. Everything starts well even after sitting over the winter.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
great suggestion, thanks!
Trick_Temperature_60@reddit
Yea my adhd makes me start hyper fixating on prep. And on many of occasions I’ve blown way to much money when I could’ve spread it out. I’m also young (21) and a solo preppy for my family. So for no reason at all, I feel pressured to get more sooner. I’m slowly coming to my senses though.
In regard to pets, I love my dogs but they come with a lot of issues. I’d like to say I’d eat them but it’d take dire circumstances or them to be dying. But generally the “go plan” includes maybe our three cats to help keep people calm. The other 7 inside the main house. Will be left with a door or window open with free range. For their best odds.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
I recommend sort of preplanning for one monthly expense that is big-ish and one that is small. For example, I will have "bean and pasta" month, where I add dried beans and pasta to the order. One month I did "canned protein" month and purchased extra cans and packets of salmon, tuna, and chicken. Then I usually allow myself one larger purchase a month. Last month it was a new battery charger. This helps me to control the impulse.
cognovi@reddit
Thank you for a great summary. One thing I learned recently with a near-evacuation due to fire is have your evac materials next to your transportation so you can literally load the vehicle or go.
We are fortunate to have more than one vehicle and have half of our evac stuff in our van which we rarely use (except for camping.)
Also - I saw one woman who survived the Texas floods who grabbed a life vest before leaving her home. Very smart.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
Yes! wanted to add this but my post was already too long. I moved the evacuation stuff to the back door in two totes to grab quick. I also no longer feel silly that my RV contains an inflatable kayak for 2 and life jackets on every trip. Now what I haven't done in the past that I will do now, is carry a bug out bag in the RV. We have the same stuff but it is distributed throughout the camper and not in an easy grab and go bag like it is at home, and I don't always take it in the RV because I always thought - I'm already mobile, why would I need that?
cognovi@reddit
Your post was not too long! I’ll take as much good info as possible :)
The other thing we are doing is duplicating key documents on paper and thumb drive (bug out fire proof mini-safe) and on the cloud.
A paper copy of my passport saved me once during a trip.
hoardac@reddit
For the gluten free issue I suggest getting a grinder to make flour out of rice, lentils, corn/cornmeal etc. It works pretty good. A little bit of a pain but worth the security in my opinion.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
Do you have a hand grinder? I have been wanting to try this but it sounds really hard. And do you add the gums and other additives that make it more "flour-like"?
Ok_Cartographer4626@reddit
Thank you for writing this! One thing about the cats— unless your cats have been taught to eat the food they catch by their mothers, they will starve without food provided. All cats have an instinct to hunt, but they have to be taught how to eat what they catch.
I live in a city with a lot of feral cats and sometimes people will release their domesticated cat into the neighborhood because they see feral cats everywhere and figure they’ll be fine. But the housecats end up starving unless they’re caught.
Dry food for cats is fairly cheap and very calorie dense, so I just seal it in the 5 gallon buckets the litter comes in! And my car guards the food from mice and bugs because she’s always hanging around the bucket lol
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
We have a lot stored, just probably won't last too long if it can't be replaced.
Eurogal2023@reddit
Just want to chime in on the glass storage: rats can chew through some thinnet metals and even partly chew through cement, but putting dry food in big jam glasses or earthenware containers is rodent safe.
Also old fridges and freezers can work as rodent safe storage for dry food.
Academic_1989@reddit (OP)
Hoping to god this doesn't happen again, it was awful. We don't live in an area that typically has rats, but the restaurant closures during Covid send them into the residential areas in my town. None of us were prepared for that!
PrisonerV@reddit
Just a note that I use commercial grade insecticides around my house (outside) as a barrier spray. I buy Demand CS (yes, I've tried the cheaper generic) and it works like a miracle for up to a month.
I also use a bulb duster to distribute food grade diatomaceous earth around on the inside of my house in walls and ceilings and such.
For ants, which have been a problem this year, I use 1 part borax to 1 part cheap maple syrup and put it in a container where they can get at it but pets/kids can't. This really does work very well.
kellyasksthings@reddit
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EverVigilant1@reddit
Great post. I like this.
Some things I learned over about 2 years of prepping:
-prepping must be tailored to your situation and needs.
-do a threat assessment and prep against the threats. In my locale, the most common threats to prep against are (1) weather events causing power outages or rendering travel difficult or impossible; (2) Supply shortages; (3) job loss/economic hardship. Also, in my locale, you need a vehicle, so your car has to be prepped.
--prep a certain amount of food and water, and then stop. Around 6 months to a year is sufficient for most people.
--there's a difference between prepping; and survivalism and homesteading. Know the difference.
pitfighter69@reddit
Lol. Your comment reminds me of a score rating at the end of every Doomsday Preppers!
kkinnison@reddit
My Preps really focus on making our home a bug in shelter. Not enough land to be self sufficient. But i figure if we need to spend a year sheltering and using our Preps it might not be worth trying to live longer.
PrincessMurderMitten@reddit
For my cats and dog, I have the gasketed plastic bins made for pet food. I have 2 50lb dog food ones and 3 20lb cat ones. I rotate them, so I always have at least a 3 month supply.
The gasket keeps the insects out, and I store them in the house, so rodents are not a problem.
DirectorBiggs@reddit
5.5 years, lol ur still a prep toddler!!
Been at it since pre-y2k and they called us survivalists.
ResponsibleBank1387@reddit
If you bugging out on foot with a pack, grab a shopping cart. Or grab one now and retrofit with bike tires.
mygirlwednesday7@reddit
Get yourself some basil and marigolds for your tomatoes. They are natural pest control. The basil is tasty as well. Pick stems or leaves in the morning . Harvest before flowering or deadhead regularly. Never harvest more than 1/3 of your plant.
GlitterLight@reddit
Such a great post, thank you for sharing. I think you pick up on an important point in number 4 about the balance between being prepared for different eventualities, and it being symptomatic of a deeper mental health problem. It’s a fine balance to maintain.
candlecup@reddit
Thank you for sharing this. I always like hearing everyone’s perspectives, especially since it helps me consider things I hadn’t thought about