Have I been ripped off?

Posted by ParamedicSouthern842@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 33 comments

So I have a massive fear of dentists and so I havnt been many times, and I haven't been in many years. Obviously, my teeth are bad by this point and last week I was biting into some food when a bit of peppercorn cracked my wisdom tooth. This happened in the evening and I was in such agony I couldn't sleep all night. Once the morning came I had resigned myself to booking in an extraction with a dentist, I looked on Google and found one just a minute walk away so I called them.

I explained I needed a wisdom tooth extracted and explained my situation, and they booked me in to come in in two days time, taking £50 deposit for the appointment, but warned me that if it was infected I would need to do a course of antibiotics first. This was all fine by me, I just needed my tooth out.

When I went to the appointment though, I was sat in the chair, the dentist took a quick look, wholeheartedly agreed with me that it needed to come out ASAP, but then told me they don't do that kind of extraction at this dentists and he called up a specialist and arranged an appointment for me with them. Then he marched me to the desk and made sure I was booked in for the following month for some aftercare work and to "start the real work of getting my mouth in shape" I was then charged a further £150 for the appointment.

The specialist I had been referred to then called me later that day to inform me they had my X rays sent over from first dentist but they need to do their own consultation appointment with me and so I needed to pay £120 over the phone for that appointment. At this point I'm still very much in pain and needing treatment so I agree and pay, then they tell me that it's going to be £470 for the extraction I need.

The next day, I wake up and the pain has finally subsided and I can think clearly again for the first time in a few days, at this point I pour over my financial situation and realise that there is absolutely no way I can pay out a further £470 and still be able to pay bills and feed my kids this month, so I am forced to cancel my appointment with the specialist. They offer no refund.

So at this point I'm £320 down, it's been over a week and I have received zero treatment. What I'm feeling upset about is the first dentist I saw though, I feel like if they don't offer wisdom tooth removal they should have told me when I called instead of inviting me in for treatment. As it stands I payed them £200 so they could book me in with another dentist, something I could have done myself and saved a lot of time, time which I spent in constant pain. Im not at all used to dentists and how they work though, is this all normal practice?

Im not upset about paying people for their time, it's more that I feel by accepting me as a patient they wasted both our time. And that £200 is quite significant to me, without that expense I would have had enough funds to covet the treatment I need had I gone straight to a dentist that provided that service.

If for example I had booked an appointment with a hair stylist saying I wanted a mohawk, and they accepted and invited me in for a session just to tell me they don't do mohawks there but they know someone who does and charged me for the privilege of letting them book the appointment for me with someone else, that would clearly be ripping me off and that's how I'm feeling about this dentist. Would I be justified in complaining to them, or is this normal practice?