ULPT: how to ruin a chronic narcissist life ?
Posted by 00idontknow@reddit | UnethicalLifeProTips | View on Reddit | 33 comments
A previous relationship destroyed me mentally as well as other girls The guy was most likely a narcissist, a liar and a manipulator and a fck danger for women in general.
I tried multiple times to sort of make him pay or at least make people realized he’s an awful human being : ethical ways such as talking to his friends, organizations and all, some girl even tried to press charges on him but quickly realized it was pointless, and i was really thinking about sending some people beat him up.
He’s in his 20s, student in a great school, doing music and stuff, social butterfly and really egocentric. Never got his karma back (and do not tell me that him being a horrible person is his karma), and i would really like him to feel what he made me and others feel.
BigDKane@reddit
If you live in the US report him for threats against the US Congress, the President, or a Justice. Anonymous tips to the FBI. Photoshop some Xeets, FB posts, or text messages.
Or, report him to the people who caught that guy who killed those cats.
MrsFrondi@reddit
Don’t forget he also ate his boyfriends butt with a fork and knife after murdering him.
Ok_Work7396@reddit
Piss discs. Milk injections.
JustImperius@reddit
Explain...
JustImperius@reddit
People out here giving OP advice like they didn't ask for shady advice on ULPT. 😂 A classic would be to write his number in every roadside garage you pass. The trashier the better. Get creative with those messages as well. He will probably end up getting a new number because truckers are calling him at 2am making fart noises.
WerhmatsWormhat@reddit
That’s been this sub in a nutshell recently. So many answers that are just “don’t do this” or “file a police report that will be thrown into a pile and never looked into.”
JustImperius@reddit
If you want real adult advice, call mom and dad 😂 if you want a good story, ask the Internet 😂
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
fr morality and purity police like it’s not a shady advices sub, thanks for the tips
notsmartwater@reddit
A student you said?
If you know the class schedule or better, exam schedule, I guess it would really sucks if the internet disconnect or car randomly have weird issue at the exam day.
Or have random girls wait outside of the classroom and make huge fuss so people avoid him for group work.
fcukumicrosoft@reddit
Start reading other posts in this sub. Go back as far as you can. I've gathered many great ideas from this sub that I won't regurgitate and put in writing anywhere on this account for obvious reasons.
There will always be the morality lectures and people telling you that living your best life is the best revenge. Meh, fuck those posts. Karma sometimes needs help to get off her ass.
portlandstreet2@reddit
Getting over it like everyone else has to is also an option
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
I want advice for what i asked for, I don't need strangers to moralise me on the internet I think you don't know me enough for that. If you don’t have anything interesting to say don’t bother responding
bookybookbook@reddit
And just like that, we’re all thinking maybe he’s ok and you’re the asshole. Well done.
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
1- why should i care about what some people are thinking about my on some anonymous app 2- i know what he did because i have to live with it everyday, not you 3- you all act like i didn’t asked for advices on ULPT
Personal-Feeling1404@reddit
If you don't care what people think why are you asking
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
because i am on this sub made for ULPT, looking for ULPT, not a therapy session or moralization ?
portlandstreet2@reddit
So.. just stuck with your original plan and tell him youre pregnant
portlandstreet2@reddit
You dont need encouragement to do stupid shit either.
Mature, grow up amd get over it.
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
the subreddit is literally dedicated to giving shady advices ?? if i wanted a therapy session i would have asked somewhere else + i already did a lot of worked on myself if i am being honest considering how miserable i used to be. I don’t need you to patronize me you don’t know me + you don’t know my reasons, and if can find a way to keep him away from hurting a new girl like he already did multiple times, i will.
and i don’t care about growing up or maturing shitty type of advices rn and you’re edgy way how trying to tell me « life is hard for everyone, get over it », i know that already, again you are on the wrong sub
Various-Astronaut-74@reddit
Do you know what subreddit you are on?
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
the subreddit is literally dedicated to giving shady advices ?? if i wanted a therapy session i would have asked somewhere else + i already did a lot of worked on myself if i am being honest considering how miserable i used to be. I don’t need you to patronize me you don’t know me + you don’t know my reasons, and if can find a way to keep him away from hurting a new girl like he already did multiple times, i will.
and i don’t care about growing up or maturing shitty type of advices rn and you’re edgy way how trying to tell me « life is hard for everyone, get over it », i know that already, again you are on the wrong sub
flearhcp97@reddit
ignore them
Dickhertzer@reddit
If you know him , you know how to hurt him. If you’re looking for ideas out of your wheelhouse, be more descriptive.
x_Hyperstyrion_x@reddit
Sign him up to scientology
D-ouble-D-utch@reddit
Make a fake account on every gay dating/hookup app with his real contact info. Same with any websites/forums.
how-arent-you@reddit
Dang, people really failing to be unethical here. While generally I think moving on is a good suggestion (been in a very similar situation, got revenge, and it really just made me feel even more shitty), who am I to stop you from exerting your female rage?
Make a bunch of posters with his face on them, with a big WARNING sign, list a couple of the worst things he’s done on it, and leave them all over the campus of his school. Do it under the cover of night wearing a mask so you can’t be recognized, or see if you can hire someone off taskrabbit to do it. Make sure the things you write are fully true. Even if he “clears things up,” word will still get around and people who don’t know him that well will likely start avoiding him
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
tbh i know it will not necessarily make me feel better, but i will have to see that asshole for two more years walking around living his life like nothing happened and i am not mentally strong enough for that and it’s always about giving abuser what they deserve until you actually wanna do it, the you get called a bad person thank you for the tips btw, will think about that, someone in my city already did that, worked pretty well
liebling-@reddit
make sure to wear a good Halloween mask when you do whatever. i like to use dog shit in keyholes and mailbox slots. ive painted an entire front porch area with dog shit before. i like paint too. if possible hang out with him and smoke meth with him then report to his employer. i like bricks thru windows too. or just put a restraining order full of lies on him.
Jolly_Ad9677@reddit
No advice, but if you could find someone to beat the crap out of him and not get caught, that would be awesome.
balltongueee@reddit
He won't because he literally cannot IF he actually is a narcissist.
00idontknow@reddit (OP)
it’s gonna sound edgy but already almost did it with the charges story, never saw him panicking like that until he understood it’s was bluff
balltongueee@reddit
He is still not going to feel what you and others who suffered at his hands did. He simply does not have those emotions.
You need to decide how much more will this person cost you because going down some "scorched earth" path is not without consequences.
I would just move on.
egyszeruen_1xu@reddit
You can't. Heal your hurts. Your inner child's sense of justice motivates you. Heal her.
Move on