Update #2
Posted by RepulsiveSea2174@reddit | studentloandefaulters | View on Reddit | 24 comments
I am keeping updates for people in the same position as me. I stopped paying about two months ago. I just got notice that my credit score dropped. Currently 699 since Sallie Mae reported. I was 730 before. They call once a day which I have the number blocked and they have sent letters regarding non payment. For reference I have about 80K worth of Sallie Mae private loans. Stay tuned as this journey continues. No assets. Car is not in my name and I live with parents. Not married. Any other questions leave below. Thanks!
Gingerandthesea@reddit
Get to know your state’s consumer protection laws like the back of your hands so you know what your rights are when it comes to this private student debt. Know your statute of limitations for your state as well. They will try to bully and harass you to get you to slip up so you have to know what your rights are what they can and cannot do. It’s not like federal student loans. I have to follow debt protection laws in order to collect and file with the courts.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Hello there I have a question
Gingerandthesea@reddit
What is your question?
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Like this student loan defaulter reddit are there others like this one?
Gingerandthesea@reddit
There are some I believe like Student loan support.
However the main student loan sub is not supportive of default of any kind or other types of forgiveness.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
This place is so quiet....
Gingerandthesea@reddit
It is
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Do you want to be friends?
Gingerandthesea@reddit
No.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
I'm sorry for the weird question, just feel alone in this situation that everyone is in.
Gingerandthesea@reddit
No worries. You are not alone at all in this well oiled system that is set up to keep you in debt for your entire life. It’s designed this way on purpose and it’s designed to isolate you and make you feel alone by shaming people for having debt all because you wanted to go to college to better yourself.
Add that top of the propaganda that has been pushed out for the last 4 decades that the only way you will achieve the American dream is by taking “on good debt”. Yet folks have been deceived and defrauded because the system is unchecked and everyone makes money off our misery. I see it every day when I help people file for Borrower Defense to Repayment (BDTR) because they were victimized by a shady for profit college. Look at SLABS.
It’s wild tbh but talking about it in the open is one way to know you are not alone.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Oh okay just wish there is a discord group from this reddit group.
Gingerandthesea@reddit
Go create one. Folks will join if they see it’s a safe space.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Oh do you want to help me?
Gingerandthesea@reddit
Ha! Well thanks for the offer. If I had the bandwidth I would totally help you. I don’t though. I created the Borrower Defense sub here on Reddit and admin the FB BDTR subs. It’s close to 60k members. I created the Reddit sub because like you, I noticed a huge gap for folks on this platform for borrower defense people so I just did it.
If you get it up and running, I will promote it through the other groups for ya!
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Oh, do you have your group link, and I wish there were a way to make a GoFundMe-like fundraiser to help us burrowers. Oh, can I DM you? It seems your profile does not have one.
Gingerandthesea@reddit
Group for which ones? You search Reddit and find the BDTR sub
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
I can't find it.
Putrid_Factor_2660@reddit
Oh, I know, just wondering if there group like this one. Or on other social media or Discord, Telegram. I wish we could make a go fund me like to help us out.
Gingerandthesea@reddit
I don’t play on either of this sites. I know FB groups are out there for private student loans but I only know of the one that overlaps with borrower defense.
RepulsiveSea2174@reddit (OP)
I’m in Texas if that helps? I went to school in Ohio. Where the loans were taken out. However, I live in Texas.
Gingerandthesea@reddit
You should do some research on this, ask a lawyer or maybe a CPA about this. I would suspect it’s in the state where you reside at but I don’t know for sure.
There is a Facebook group about private student loans that folks join to talk about this as some strategically default after they file or approve for borrower defense for their federal loans. That may have additional information for you.
RepulsiveSea2174@reddit (OP)
Thanks so much!! Will do that!
Revolutionary-Scar71@reddit
Long reply:
I chose to default my private loan after the last 4 years of them playing games for my Disabled Veteran discharge. They sent my account to a law firm in Miami and I just sent my Debt Validation Letter last week certified return receipt. I am waiting on the reply for the next step. Once I defaulted (Feb-Mar) they seemed to move quickly for a legal firm for collection. My original amount was $18k and I tried to negotiate Income based repayment but at that time they said I don’t make enough money but would be willing to setup 2 years of direct checking withdrawal and I declined. At the time I was struggling and if they hit the account Chase would send funds, overdraft me with a fee and if I didn’t correct it they have extended overdraft fees and lock the account out.
I went back to school for a year and got it deferred. I applied multiple times since 2020 I would send my VA paperwork and then it goes to Minnesota Life Insurance (last year I think they changed to another company) and then they say they require the Physician paperwork. During Covid the VA was closed, no non-emergency appointments and remember in 2020 everyone. Was scared to death over covid, the VA didn’t even have Telehealth in place. SLM and MLI didn’t care, denied claim closed. The Veteran discharge explicitly states we are not required to send a Physicians statement. But they would deny, close the claim and NEVER answer me why I was denied, and they said since they use 3rd party they have no control over requiring the physician statement.
So last year off to the VA I got the statement letter filled out, applied again went through the process and was placed in 90 day forbearance no payment due. 30days they went ahead and hit my credit reports as delinquent. Then 60 days delinquent while I spent weeks calling demanding escalation and passed around and around until ultimately I went to CFPB and BBB and had it reversed. Then they closed my claim again after sending me a portal link to upload my Physician statement. Filed complaints again, uploaded my letter and was denied but finally got a reason. Failed to prove worsening conditions or along those lines. I am 100% and designated permanent and total. Worsening would be death. So at a loss I login to check payment options after the account reset from forbearance and the payment was double! I couldn’t afford the original payment now I really can’t afford it. I got so sick of the games I decided to default and hope for settlement payments of a reduced debt. I’ll go to court if required, I have no assets and pay child support. They can’t touch my VA Disability. I went to work during this time otherwise I would be homeless so I may be subject to partial garnishment with a judgement but it won’t be much after the child support payments. Those are current no arrears. I don’t care much about my credit score I have been paying off and fixing it since covid when I went through a divorce and to avoid alimony I took debt accounts. They all settled low and I paid them off so with no fear of credit reporting I am willing to settle this, but I can’t make a large payment it has to be monthly. Over 4 years they have been jerking me around and nothing like being told I don’t make enough for income based repayments!?