Did anyone else’s high school have the “3 bathroom breaks a semester” rule?
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I graduated in 2023, so this is fairly recent. My high school’s rule was you could go to the bathroom 3 times in a period/block/class per semester, and the teachers would keep track of how many times you went in their class and stop allowing you to go after 3. Is this a common thing?
yourlittlebirdie@reddit
No and this sounds absolutely insane.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Insane is needing to piss in the same class period more than 3 times in 1 semester.
ronshasta@reddit
Three times during half of the school year? The fuck are you on about dude
smartfbrankings@reddit
Per class. Yes. Do they not have breaks between classes anymore? No lunch breaks either?
MadScientist235@reddit
Not sure how it is now, but when I was in high school (15 years ago) our breaks between classes were only 5 minutes. Given how crowded the halls were, it could take those whole 5 minutes to just to get to the next class.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Only 5 minutes to walk across... A building. Sure maybe at extremes but most the time it is not that extreme.
KikiCorwin@reddit
Across a campus of multiple buildings. Crowded halls and cutting across the lawns was highly discouraged because it was too easy to cut class that way. Add in inconveniently located bathrooms with too few stalls and needing to get to a locker that may not be enroute as well. We regularly had teachers late to class.
smartfbrankings@reddit
I too went to high school.
Beneficial-Basket-42@reddit
A building??? lol. Not sure what your high school was like, but mine was spread among at least a dozen buildings, some with 3 or more floors, and that doesn’t even include all of the “portables” which were basically trailer classroom cities with a maze of deck walkways between them
MadScientist235@reddit
When you have 2500 students trying to work their way through 2 chokepoints in a horribly designed building, yes it is. You could usually make it class, but diverting to a restroom would almost certainly make you tardy.
smartfbrankings@reddit
I too went to high school. It's not hard.
mangoman39@reddit
It's also not hard to not be an asshole with no empathy or critical thinking skills, yet here you are
ronshasta@reddit
You’re fucked in the head of you think subjecting children to prison style accommodations is okay
SithisDreadLord420@reddit
Man I usually use the bathroom at the same time every day… I’d be fucked
smartfbrankings@reddit
Are you unable to hold it more than 15 minutes after feeling a slight urge to pee?
SithisDreadLord420@reddit
I’m not talking about the peeps I’m talking about the poops
smartfbrankings@reddit
This is why 3 times seems reasonable. If more than that, see a doctor.
SithisDreadLord420@reddit
Ok so 9 periods in a day. You are allowed to use the bathroom in school 27 times in a semester??
smartfbrankings@reddit
During class, yes. Otherwise during breaks, before school, after school.
>This disregards the fact that you are forcing yourself to go first period or holding it all day to go 9th. That is very unreasonable lol
Most schools get lunch breaks. If they don't get one, and have 0 breaks between classes, I agree this is unreasonable.
SithisDreadLord420@reddit
What’s a break to you? The 4 min passing period where you have to swap books and get to class or risk detention? You must take really quick poops.
danny_ish@reddit
Yea, adhd. If i got to pee, it’s within the next 15 min or so. We get the signal earlier then others, too. Fun chemistry of the brain
AlaskanBiologist@reddit
You must be a guy. People dont only go to the bathroom to piss.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Sure, they go to the bathroom to vape and use their phones, which is why this policy is in place.
AlaskanBiologist@reddit
Well women and girls have periods and some people have IBS, so if anybody were to challenge this "policy" (which is against ADA regulations) the school cant do shit. If it were my kids id tell them to get up and go whenever they want. Fuck that school.
smartfbrankings@reddit
If someone has a medical issue, I'm sure they can get exemptions.
>which is against ADA regulations
Another internet lawyer. Absolutely false here. And anyone with a disability will get reasonable accommodations.
I'm aware of what periods are. I'm married, I have a daughter. They are not that complex. This policy has ample grace to allow for such situations. You get THREE chances to handle it in a 4 month period. Since I am aware of how periods work, there are only FOUR opportunities (maybe five if irregular) for this to happen. You are in a specific class <5 hours per week. Assuming your period starts at a random time of day, any given class has a 3% chance of being when your period starts. The odds of it happening in the same class more than 3 times is 0.000081%.
> If it were my kids id tell them to get up and go whenever they want. Fuck that school.
And this is why the policy exists, because shithead parents who think their kids can do no wrong and are above the rules.
AlaskanBiologist@reddit
I didnt read this because I knew it would be stupid.
thatsad_guy@reddit
Smart
eides-of-march@reddit
This is likely a violation of the ADA. People with IBS and other bowel diseases will definitely need the bathroom more than three times a semester
ctcaa90@reddit
If they are ADA, they will have an official excuse that will allow them.
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
Lmao. People forget that teachers have zero actual power. Just stand up, and exit the class, and go piss. Who cares what teacher says.
DJKrool@reddit
Until they call the resource officer.
Goats_for_president@reddit
They can only enforce laws, since going to the restroom isnt breaking a law they can’t do much. back when I was in school when they wanted to take my phone up I said no (I was on it at lunch in the cafeteria)
DJKrool@reddit
Resource officers at my school were aggressive. Im just kinda used to them making shit up
CountessofDarkness@reddit
We didn't even have "resource officers". Nor does my daughters school now. No clue what they are.
DJKrool@reddit
In school cops. Most are unarmed. My school they were armed. I went to high school in the greater philadephia area.
ParryLimeade@reddit
My school they were armed and a kid stole his gun and shot at him and almost started a school shooting.
DJKrool@reddit
Jfc. This is just another reason not to have armed SROs
ParryLimeade@reddit
Well the kid also brought pipe bombs so the shooting triggered an alarm and then they evacuated us when the kid was detained. Not sure what would have happened if the gun wasnt there. The resource officer was hit but only slightly hurt
CountessofDarkness@reddit
Ok. Idk. I didn't grow up in the best area or live in one now. Still didn't have one, kids school doesn't have one either. Haven't known anyone with them.
Goats_for_president@reddit
Cops are usually aggressive. School teaches you for life and dealing with aggressive lying cops will be part of your life.
DJKrool@reddit
Unintended but very valuable lesson.
AlaskanBiologist@reddit
And?
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
Respurce officer can eat a dick, he isnt an on-duty cop and me going to the bathroom is absolutely not breaking a law.
DJKrool@reddit
Yeah, doesnt mean they won't find some way to escalate issues.
Mtrina@reddit
Not sure why people are downvoting, you're absolutely correct. cop adjacent jobs do shit like this and are always power trippin
DJKrool@reddit
They know why they can tell SROs to fuck off and why I can't. So they rather just try to hide my comment.
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
Escalate? Im going to the bathroom, if you touch me you are gonna find out thay you are in fact a disposable employee.
CountessofDarkness@reddit
Right? My parents would've been like wtf if they had even tried calling them over this nonsense.
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
Depends on how it went, if they had put a hand on me for going to the restroom there would have been a lawsuit filed though.
CountessofDarkness@reddit
That just never would've happened where I'm from. This thread is wild
DilbertHigh@reddit
Thankfully not all schools have some common cop working in them.
DJKrool@reddit
General fear student it seemed. Heard teachers talk about "really scary fights." Just seemed like my classmates were and I were just black
DilbertHigh@reddit
Unfortunately that is not an uncommon attitude at some schools. I don't go for all of that, no need for common cops over kids fighting 99% of the time.
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
In American schools behavior staff IS cops.
DilbertHigh@reddit
Not in all. And even the schools that have cops also have normal behavior staff. Unfortunately having cops causes many school behavior issues to become criminal issues when they don't need to be. I am glad the district I work for got rid of them a few years ago. They are super expensive and cause more harm than good in schools.
CountessofDarkness@reddit
Don't even know what this is. I would've laughed so hard at any teacher telling me not to use the bathroom.
ASMills85@reddit
To do what exactly?
DJKrool@reddit
Escalate the situation.
Murderhornet212@reddit
Anyone with a heavy period will as well. It’s sexist af.
ConvivialKat@reddit
Not to mention girls who are menstruating.
RemonterLeTemps@reddit
Thank you! My periods were heavy, and if I hadn't been allowed to go when I needed to, everyone would've soon been aware of the situation.
ConvivialKat@reddit
Same here.
kgxv@reddit
Insane is thinking this is insane lmao. Get a grip.
Cheezewiz239@reddit
Like someone else said you're more likely to go to the restroom during the same classes right after lunch.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Pee after lunch, problem solved. Pee after that class before your next class, problem solved. Hold pee 45 minutes, problem solved.
cherrycokeicee@reddit
and what if it's a period?
smartfbrankings@reddit
How many periods you getting a semester?
cherrycokeicee@reddit
in a 4 month semester, the average high school girl will probably have 4 periods.
smartfbrankings@reddit
So what are the odds the period starts at the exact same time of day each time and not on a weekend?
cherrycokeicee@reddit
it can start during class, or your pad or tampon can fail during class.
it takes some time, effort, trial, and error to figure out what works for you period-wise.
girls that age are learning how to deal with periods, which are often unpredictable. they can stop, so you think they're over, and start again. they can be fading, and come back with full force. and the consequences of a leak are pretty dire - staining your clothes in a way everyone can see. leaking onto seats. it's embarrassing and unsanitary.
limiting bathroom breaks this much sounds like something that would only sound like a good idea to someone who hasn't considered the reality of a menstrual cycle.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Yes let's instead let kids unlimited access to skip class.
danny_ish@reddit
Yes, that is 100%, unironically correct.
You should also let them have cell phones. If they pass, great. If they fail, oh well.
99% of the time it’s admin who is afraid of that mindset, so it trickles to teachers. Let admin actually do their job, let teachers teach and let young people be people
_TheLoneRangers@reddit
so you think "no, sorry you peed a month ago so you can't now" is reasonable ?
smartfbrankings@reddit
Well, given it takes 4 times in one semester, no, it's not reasonable. Use your break times to pee.
TopperMadeline@reddit
It’s too bad bladders and bowels don’t work on a time schedule.
smartfbrankings@reddit
If you cant hold it 20 minutes wear a diaper.
_TheLoneRangers@reddit
this is like one of those work rules where they hold the worst possible scenario against everyone ahead of time instead of just dealing with the issue with someone gets out of line with it
smartfbrankings@reddit
So how do you track when someone is out of line without tracking it?
_TheLoneRangers@reddit
the teacher has eyes and a brain and they would think “that person leaves way more often than the average person does to the point I think it’s an issue” i don’t think they need spreadsheets for this purpose
smartfbrankings@reddit
Teachers have 200 students per day. Sometimes different students each day too.
danny_ish@reddit
And they remember all of their names and faces. And habits, too. Stop selling teachers short. They are smart people, they can recognize trends and outliers
_TheLoneRangers@reddit
ok so how does this even work, does the teacher need to stop and verify each time that the student is in compliance before they can leave ?
smartfbrankings@reddit
Duh
thatsad_guy@reddit
how are you so against kids taking a piss?
smartfbrankings@reddit
Because here's the fun part, they aren't taking a piss.
thatsad_guy@reddit
1: you can't possibly know that
2: Why do you care?
smartfbrankings@reddit
When the bathroom smells like vape
When they miss massive portions of class.
Because my tax money goes to find these deliquents.
thatsad_guy@reddit
sounds like a parent issue and not yours
smartfbrankings@reddit
Parents don't attend schools, and teachers are in loco parentis.
thatsad_guy@reddit
So tell the parents if its an issue and then mind you own business. the kids are only hurting themselves. If the parents don't want to deal with their kids, that's on them.
Rare-Set1461@reddit
Just take the L, you’re getting so much worse.
danny_ish@reddit
Wait a minute. I’m an adult. I eat at the same time m-f. I therefore go to the bathroom at the same time m-f.
Is that not the same for you?? I thought this was normal. For example, most days im something like: Eat lunch at 12-1, need to pee at 1, again around 1:30 and poop at 2:30. Similar delays for breakfast and dinner.
pinksprouts@reddit
Idk about everyone else but I use the bathroom on a fairly regular schedule. I find myself having to pee at the same time of day on a daily basis.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Then go before or after that class.
wormbreath@reddit
Why haven’t you responded to the multiple comments talking about how this would affect menstruating girls?
smartfbrankings@reddit
Because the odds that sudden menstruation occurs during the same period in school 3 times in a semester is astronomical.
wormbreath@reddit
This is just r/badwomensanatomy at this point. Yikes.
Lithl@reddit
Not really, no. I don't think you know how women work.
smartfbrankings@reddit
I know how math works.
pinksprouts@reddit
Because he doesn't care about women.
Bombastic_tekken@reddit
do you not drink water? I'll piss every hour on the hour if I have a good intake.
smartfbrankings@reddit
I would suggest seeing a doctor.
Bombastic_tekken@reddit
I'm good, I work in 130° F environments, and at my last check up I was in the peak of health. I would suggest you get your hydration gains up
smartfbrankings@reddit
I wasn't aware of any schools that are in 130F heat.
Bombastic_tekken@reddit
I wasn't aware I had to be in school to reply to your comment, I know you must be on Reddit a lot, there is this crazy thing, it's called a J-O-B, it's when you work in exchange for money, crazy stuff dude.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Well your experience isn't really relevant to the bathroom habits of kids in school.
Bombastic_tekken@reddit
And your experience of not pissing more than 3 times a semester is?
Let the kids piss in peace man, it doesn't hurt anybody at all
I did a lot worse in highschool then going pee too often.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Three times per class per semester.
Dull-Geologist-8204@reddit
They don't give you enough time to get between classes much less stop to use the bathroom 20 other students are also trying to use.
I had 7 minutes in-between classes all f high school back when we had lockers we had to use. 7 minutes was hard enough if my class was on one side of the building to the other. It was even wore when I went to a high school that was two different buildings. I won't tell you what school but I left one building and walk down a long path, then had to walk up hill, then another shorter but still long path to get to my class on time.
That was fun because it left me n time to stop by the lockers so anytime I had classes between the two buildings I had to have all my books with me. I don't know how old you are but our yet boss were really heavy. One by itself was heavy so imagine carrying 3 or 4 of them at a time.
All of that while also being disabled because I had back surgery when I was 14 just so I didn't get detention.
I just waited to ask to go to the bathroom during class so I didn't get detention for being late.
Imagine not asking more than 3 times in a semester.
smartfbrankings@reddit
Per class per semester.
TopperMadeline@reddit
You need to re-read the question. This is per semester, not pure class.
smartfbrankings@reddit
> 3 times in a period/block/class
Literally says that.
XANDERtheSHEEPDOG@reddit
There are many other reasons to need a bathroom.
smartfbrankings@reddit
I mean there's one more I can think of if you are a female but that gets you only 4 times in a semester.
yourlittlebirdie@reddit
I take it you’re not familiar with the concept of “female bodies” and “menstruation”?
ctcaa90@reddit
We always went between classes. That didn’t make a difference.
cherrycokeicee@reddit
I went to a small private school & even I had to walk in crowded hallways to different buildings to get to my next class. I had a class I had to basically jog to or else I'd be late.
also, sometimes you start your period in the middle of class. sometimes (bc you're a teen girl still figuring out your body), you think your pad or tampon will cut it, and it doesn't. this is a ridiculous rule that particularly disadvantages girls.
SarevokAnchevBhaal@reddit
Lmao we had 6 minute passing periods and a school with over 3000 kids. It took that whole 6 minutes to go from one end of the school to the other. There was absolutely not time.
gothicuhcuh@reddit
Sounds like you need more fiber if you don’t have a schedule built into your bodily functions. I shit every day at 5:30.
chrisinator9393@reddit
You think it's insane a kid might need to piss 3 times within 100 days of schooling at 10 am?
😂 ok bud
_Diggus_Bickus_@reddit
It's a crazy rule but this is high school, you have a chance between classes every 45-90 minutes depending on schedule
steviehatillo@reddit
In my high school class changes were 4 minutes max. Now imagine you have to get books from your locker, walk to the bathroom, and then walk to the other end of the building for your next class. It’s not that simple to go in between.
kgrimmburn@reddit
We had 5 minutes. And seven buildings, two of which were three stories...
chrisinator9393@reddit
No, you don't. When I went to HS passing periods were 10 minutes.
Walking from one end of the building to the other took the entire time.
Nowadays passing periods are even shorter from what I've heard.
Dorianscale@reddit
My high school only gave you 3 or 4 minutes to get to class. I also went to a fairly large school, it was a little under half a mile from one end of the school to the opposite side. There were like 5k students I think? So imagine the bell ringing, getting your stuff ready, pushing past a bunch of people to walk 1/3 of a mile. Then adding a bathroom break to all that?
You’d maybe have time if your class was across the hall. But I don’t see why a kid stepping out during heads down time or even during a lecture is a big deal.
catymogo@reddit
We didn’t even have time to stop at our lockers never mind he’s the bathroom
yourlittlebirdie@reddit
How long is the time between classes? When I was in high school, it was barely long enough to rush from one classroom to the other, and it was definitely not long enough to use the bathroom especially as a girl.
ConvivialKat@reddit
Only a boy would say this. Women can't control their menstruation. It's an involuntary bodily function. When I was in HS, my period was very heavy and required a visit to the bathroom every hour (imagine how much fun that was at night).
wormbreath@reddit
More reasons to need a bathroom than to pee. Teenage me would have been bleeding through my pants if I wasn’t allowed to use the restroom during class. And the 5 minute passing period was not enough to go get to my locker, get stuff for next class, go to the bathroom, change pad/tampon, wash hands and walk to another class.
thatsad_guy@reddit
You sound like a teacher that cares about the wrong things
pm_me_ur_bread_bowl@reddit
Sounds like you need to drink more water…
CaptainAwesome06@reddit
3 times in one class period, sure. But 3 times in a semester? That doesn't sound like a lot, especially if the class is right after lunch or something.
EskimoPrisoner@reddit
I hear those mad lads across town went to the bathroom 5 times one semester!
Electrical_Iron_1161@reddit
We had a sub in 3rd or 4th grade because our teacher had to be off for a while and the sub was probably in his 70s a student would ask to use the bathroom and he'd say no every time finally everyone in the class went to the principal and he was replaced with a different sub
MintyPastures@reddit
Its not just insane. Its illegal.
Elegant_Bluebird_460@reddit
No, that's ridiculous. I can't imagine being asked to track my student's bathroom habits. So much (extra creepy) work.
jvc1011@reddit
Less creepy when you’re in a district where several students od’d in the bathrooms last year.
That’s the sort of thing these policies are designed to curb - not bodily functions. But it’s far more reasonable to let teachers use their discretion; like most, I’ll ask if they can wait a few minutes and go from there. Common sense doesn’t need to be reduced to a hard fast rule for everyone.
greggo39@reddit
My high school Spanish class had the rule in the 90,s. I informed the teacher that I would simply get up and go to the bathroom whenever I needed to.
IHaveBoxerDogs@reddit
No. My kid's school would be sued almost immediately if this happened.
rainbowbrite3111@reddit
What in the Handmaid’s Tale is this??
elunabee@reddit
I mean I graduated in 2005 but...what? What the fuck? what?
Boomstickninja87@reddit
I graduated in 2005 in Texas and my teachers never let us go to the bathroom. I got in trouble because I said I needed to go throw up and one teacher didn't believe me. When I came back to the classroom she sent me to the principal's office and I just told them if they didn't believe me they could go look in the bathroom because I didn't flush it so I'd have proof. It was like that at every school I went to throughout my time in school.
WeLiveByX39@reddit
It's a rule that's unenforceable. They're just hoping you follow it. Go to the bathroom when you need to, if they try and deny you a bathroom break entirely (not like "wait a few minutes" "finish the test first" etc.) Then absolutely force their hand to either let you go or try and punish you academically for it.
MageDA6@reddit
I remember my high school tried doing that because bathrooms kept getting messed up. After a week the policy was removed after a parent threatened to sue the school district after his daughter had gotten her period and wasn’t allowed to go to the bathroom.
Jops817@reddit
No, this was never a thing. And besides, someone may have a health condition that makes them have to go more frequently, so I could see lawsuits galore over this.
smartfbrankings@reddit
You don't think someone with a legitimate medical condition would not have exceptions?
Jops817@reddit
I mean if that's a problem address it with the student, don't punish everyone.
smartfbrankings@reddit
No one is being punished. Just the people who abuse the system.
When you deal with small number of people, just casually making note of it and addressing can be done. When you deal with large numbers of people, you need uniform policies and enforcement. Otherwise its "why am I getting in trouble but Johnny did it last week, unfair!" Then the helicopter parents come in to defend their perfect angel delinquent, and the principal backs down and backs the parents 100% of the time. It only works with uniform enforcement and tracking.
And what also happens is kids will just in general push limits. It starts out casual and not a major problem, but others catch on, and they escalate, and it keeps escalating until it becomes an issue. And likely that's exactly what happened here, a lot of people started abusing the system, and then a blanket policy came into play.
Now we can debate about if the number should be 3 or 5 or 10, but we are dealing with children and adolescents who are not adults, who cannot be trusted on their own to just be reasonable, so you need a policy that allows for some grace but not abuse.
Jops817@reddit
I and most people in this thread went to high school, never had this rule, and it was never even considered. Did a few kids abuse it? Sure, probably, but not enough to institute laws about how often you can piss.
cdb03b@reddit
No. But if you started being excessive, such as going every time you had the class, you would need a doctors note to explain why or start facing punishments.
dangleicious13@reddit
No. That kind of sounds illegal.
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
It may or may not violate any specific statute, but I guarantee it could result in a lawsuit if enforced. It's also incredibly stupid.
flamableozone@reddit
It's probably a violation of the ADA, among other things
smartfbrankings@reddit
Lots of Internet Lawyers out today.
CryptoSlovakian@reddit
Imagine you’re in court and your attorney gets up in front of the judge and says, “Your honor, this treatment of my client maybe probably violates some statute, I don’t know.”
smartfbrankings@reddit
"It ought to be against the law!"
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
The policy itself may not be. If it's enforced in a manner that is prejudicial to a member of a protected class it would be a violation of the ADA.
eerie_lake_@reddit
At my school this policy could be waived with a doctor’s note, this fulfilling the ADA requirements.
flamableozone@reddit
For most things, there is no need to prove a medical necessity for the ADA to kick in - it's enough for it to be a reasonable necessity to have it be required.
SummertimeThrowaway2@reddit
TIL my school was breaking ADA laws
eerie_lake_@reddit
¯_(ツ)_/¯ That’s just how it was explained to me when I was a student.
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
That makes sense. It's still an incredibly stupid policy.
BananerRammer@reddit
I don't know. This doesn't seem unreasonable to me. We're talking about high schoolers here, not children. Classes are short, 40-50 minutes, with breaks in between. Unless you have some kind of medical issue, teenagers should be able to figure out a reasonable bathroom schedule that allows them to sit through a 40 minute class.
Yeah. I understand emergencies happen, and apparently so does this school, hence the 3 per period, per semester rule. With a 9 period day, that's 81 "emergency" bathroom breaks allowed per semester.
T_Rey1799@reddit
Classes do not have breaks in between. They have a short “passing period” but that’s at most 5 minutes.
CountessofDarkness@reddit
Exactly. Our campus was large as well so depending on where your class was, 5 minutes might not even be long enough to get from one class to another unless you really hustled.
T_Rey1799@reddit
Oh I loved it in 10th grade I had a class in the east wing third floor, and next class was 1st floor in the west wing. And as you know, high schoolers never walk faster than a snails pace, I was late by few minutes almost every day
AddingAnOtter@reddit
How do you figure the 81 emergencies? My school had 8 periods, not 9 so we would have gotten 24 per semester, but this school would only get 27. And depending on the passing time, menstrual issues, and school size that could be adequate or could be completely unreasonable.
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
And all of that assumes you can control the "emergencies" so they happen equally in each of your classes throughout the year.
AddingAnOtter@reddit
Right! And if bet that the periods after lunch are more likely to have bathroom needs for everyone! It's not an equal skew!
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
Or you could just let teenagers be responsible for managing their own lives enough to trust them to go to the bathroom when they need to without placing arbitrary and utterly pointless barriers on this basic biological need?
CrownStarr@reddit
Thank you, I feel like I’m losing my mind reading this thread.
Sorry-Analysis8628@reddit
Right? WTF is the point of something like this? If the concern is that some kids will abuse an "open door" bathroom policy to skip class... let them; and let their dumb decisions impact their grades. They're old enough to own their choices.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
You don’t know anything about how this school schedules classes. In many districts, 40-50 minute classes are relics of the past: 70-90 minutes is more typical.
Anyone who thinks this policy is ok is a sadist.
ThatGirl_Tasha@reddit
I don't think this takes into account half the school bleeding for a week a month.
And for teenagers it can especially random. It takes a few years to know your body and for your cycles to normalize like they fo later in life.
I think that rule could easily challenged
DegenerateCrocodile@reddit
Sounds like a way to make kids piss in the corner of the classroom to me.
QuinceDaPence@reddit
"fine I'll just shit in the trash can" (yes, actually happened, teacher called his bluff, he was not bluffing, he remains a local legend)
DegenerateCrocodile@reddit
That kid’s going places.
Likely not good places, but he’ll be popular.
GroundedSatellite@reddit
Oh, he went some place.
CryptoSlovakian@reddit
I’m thinking of three places (jail/asylum/morgue) and none of them are good.
furiana@reddit
"He was not bluffing" Oh nooooo 😆
BygoneHearse@reddit
We had a kid piss in his seat, and a girl just bled all over her desk later that year. That rule was lifted.
DegenerateCrocodile@reddit
Glad we didn’t have this rule when I was in school. We were encouraged to use the passing periods, but an emergency still needs to be addressed.
BygoneHearse@reddit
Our school of 1200 students had 2 bathrooms, one on each side of the school. Each bathroom had either 5 stalls (womens) or 3 stalls and 2 urinals (mens). We simply ddint have the time to use thdm in the 2 minutes we were alloted between classes, especially due to the fact that bags got banned. Everyone straight up ignored the banned bag rule after about a week though, school couldnt give us all detention.
Btw thsi was all my first year of high school, we had a new principal the rest of high school and they were much better.
BananerRammer@reddit
How in the hell is that code legal?
BygoneHearse@reddit
Its a 110 year old building thats got grandfathered in
According-Couple2744@reddit
I’m fairly certain that if this happened in my local school district every mother would have their child in the doctor’s office demanding a note. If the doctor’s note didn’t work, they would simply move on to their attorney. This seems quite unhealthy. It could also lead to extreme embarrassment if girls were not allowed to go to the bathroom when they are on their period. Could you imagine having to bleed all over your clothes and chair because your teacher wouldn’t allow you to go to the bathroom to change your tampon?
BygoneHearse@reddit
They were adding an annex to the building, but it wasnt finished when i graduated, supposedly it has 4 more bathrooms
AddingAnOtter@reddit
We had three buildings with 3000 students. The main building had 2 sets of bathrooms, the gym had the locker room and a smaller set of bathrooms, and the arts. building had a set of 5 stall bathrooms. Aside from the logistics of going from one side of campus to the other in 7 minutes there is no way even a fraction of 3000 kids we're going to the bathroom in that time.
Phyrnosoma@reddit
We had teachers that refused bathroom passes which really pissed me off. 5 minute passing periods and a 4 story school that had been retrofitted and renovated so many times you had to exit the building to get to the 4th story...you didn't have goddamn TIME
Lost_My_Brilliance@reddit
how the heck are you supposed to cross campus AND go to the bathroom in 4 or 5 minutes 😭
BygoneHearse@reddit
4 or 5? Dude i got 2.
Lost_My_Brilliance@reddit
that’s great
DegenerateCrocodile@reddit
Most didn’t. Truthfully, I tried to simply not use the restroom while I was at school.
Double_Strike2704@reddit
I'm thinking about the times I would have bled out in class if they hadn't let me go to the bathroom...
chameleonsEverywhere@reddit
It isn't. They'll change the policy if enough parents kick up a stink but there's no laws about guaranteed bathroom breaks at school. Children don't have the same human rights protections that adults in the workforce have
VirtualMatter2@reddit
In Germany it's actually illegal and counts as harassment. Teachers can get into serious trouble if a parent decides to sue. I guess this would be possible in the US with enough of push from parents, but I guess there was no need so far.
randomly-what@reddit
It’s not. We had it too.
You’re expected to go between classes and hold it for the 50 minutes you’re in each class. The 3 breaks per class is to limit it to emergencies only so you don’t miss instruction.
Lithl@reddit
The fact that your school had a similar policy doesn't mean the policy is legal.
randomly-what@reddit
I later taught in schools with the same policy.
School districts have lawyers that have the job of making sure shit is legal. This is very much legal.
It’s just like at a job where you sometimes have to time your bathroom breaks.
I even taught at a school where the students could only take bathroom breaks with the teacher. So 3 scheduled bathroom breaks a day. Still legal (that was ridiculous though and I moved from that school after 1 year).
Lithl@reddit
Because nobody with a lawyer has ever done something illegal?
randomly-what@reddit
You didn’t do well in school, did you?
It’s legal.
arsonall@reddit
But in practice, there are several litigations that have been lost by the school for this.
randomly-what@reddit
Any note from a doctor gets the kid more bathroom breaks. It doesn’t hold up in court - one kid’s crazy ass mom tried (even after he was given unlimited bathroom breaks in private staff restrooms).
cleanuprequired1970@reddit
exactly. A Dr's note for this would violate HIPPA in some form. as it's sharing personal medical information with the school staff and once the other student's got wind there was a doctors note for exemption they'd know too.
CrownStarr@reddit
HIPAA is so people don’t disclose your health information without your consent. Getting a note from a doctor to show the school is you consenting to sharing your health information. That bathroom policy is insane but HIPAA doesn’t really have anything to do with this.
randomly-what@reddit
That doesn’t violate hipaa. It happens all the time for schools. Like literally daily in thousands of schools in the US.
“John needs unlimited access to the bathroom. Signed, Dr. Smith”. Done. No medical information shared.
bmadisonthrowaway@reddit
Most "between classes" time is like 3-5 minutes. If every student is using that time for bathroom breaks, 1, it will result in a lot of tardiness, and 2, there will be bathroom lines that result in almost no one being able to use the bathroom in under 5 minutes and the entire system breaking down anyway.
Additionally, a lot of the interruption to instruction is with students having to broker a deal with the teacher every time they have to go to the bathroom. If students are empowered to simply politely exit the room and go to the restroom, and then return in a timely manner, they won't meaningfully lose instruction time at all. The real problem with students and restroom use is it derailing the class from off the lesson plan, not the \~3 minutes it takes to use the facilities.
LakeWorldly6568@reddit
My school had 90-minute classes, 5 minutes passing time, and these dumbass restrictions.
randomly-what@reddit
7 minutes was the time change where this was relevant.
anc6@reddit
We had it as well, this was in the early 2000s. You got a one page pass with lines on it and had to have a teacher sign and date every time you went to the bathroom. It worked out to about 1-2 times per day. Once you were out of lines or if you lost your sheet then you couldn’t go to the bathroom any more for the year. Most teachers made copies and kept spares in their desks for kids to use because they weren’t psychopaths like admin.
DoublePostedBroski@reddit
It’s quite common
Carinyosa99@reddit
some states have laws in place and others don't
smartfbrankings@reddit
Sounds illegal is not how law works.
culturedrobot@reddit
Wow what pointed insight.
dangleicious13@reddit
I never said that is how the law works. I don't know what the law says. Restricting the number of times a minor can go to the restroom just sounds like it should be breaking some law.
eac555@reddit
But they would change it if you started shitting in the classroom.
morganalefaye125@reddit
I graduated in 1997. Some teachers would allow you to go once per class period (you had to have a hall pass), and some teachers wouldn't allow bathroom breaks at all. They'd say you needed to take care of it between classes
NewPointOfView@reddit
Never experienced it but it’s bizarre to me that everyone in the comments is acting like that is unheard of
ReadTheReddit69@reddit
We got three paper passes per class per quarter. I graduated in 2013. Some teachers didn't really enforce this and would give you extra passes (hall monitors were very strict).
PghSubie@reddit
Wha ?!?
One_Humor1307@reddit
This is the American way. You have 1 or 2 people that did something wrong when they left class to go to the bathroom during class a few years ago so you punish the everyone in school forever going forward.
gunshaver@reddit
The way kids get treated in school is insane. I'm so glad I only had a year of traditional high school and I got to take community college classes after that, I hated all of the bullshit of high school
primordialpaunch@reddit
Yes, but it was "up to three", so teachers could enforce zero bathroom breaks if they so chose. I had chronic UTIs and ruined so many clothes with period blood stains.
N00dlemonk3y@reddit
No. Ours was need a "hall pass" which was the student handbook that we got at the beginning of the semester. Later, it became "just raise your hand".
SinfullySinless@reddit
As a teacher:
The problem is 20+ years ago administrators could basically tell bad students and bad families to fuck off and not send your kid to school anymore. There was very little state oversight for attendance.
Now there is an insane amount of state oversight for attendance and it’s nearly impossible to give OSS anymore. I have students who smoke weed in the bathroom and they just get lunch detention in the ISS room which is essentially just a party room.
Grades are now the problems of teachers, alongside state test scores that have been the problem of teachers since NCLB. The state laws are trying to “help” teachers so that students go to class and learn but ultimately now I got classes of 30 minimum and bad students are now not allowed to be kicked out. They get to rule the classroom.
The bathroom policy- admin basically pushes most teachers to create some policy. I give 1/week. I originally didn’t have any system because no one becomes a teacher to be the bathroom tsar. But since admin can’t punish bad students by state law, they will punish me/teachers.
RHS1959@reddit
Sure, because teachers have nothing better to do than keep a potty log for each student for a whole semester.
FormicaDinette33@reddit
No way. That is unacceptable.
Sanguine_Aspirant@reddit
I graduated a long time ago but my hs had some dumb bathroom rule. My mom just had the Dr write me a note saying I medically couldn't be restricted from using the bathroom.
CountChoculasGhost@reddit
No. That’s crazy.
And is also crazy how many people in the comments seem to think it’s a reasonable policy.
If you have to go to the bathroom, you have to go. There’s no questions to be asked.
When I was in high school we had 7 minutes between classes and weren’t allowed carry backpacks.
You really think every person can leave their class, go to their locker, go to the bathroom, and make it to their next class in under 7 minutes?
LikelyNotSober@reddit
I think we had 3 minutes and 30 seconds.
Ok-Bus1716@reddit
No. If my children had that rule I'd explain what a UTI is and if my children get one what I'm going to do to the a-hole who made that stupid rule.
mostlygray@reddit
We had no rules, but we also got 7 minutes between periods. We had plenty of time. Prior to that school, we had 3 minutes. We had zero bathroom breaks allowed. We had to get in trouble for being late to class if we wanted to take a piss. Shitting was not an option.
At my kid's school, they lock the bathrooms so no kids can relieve themselves effectively ever. They are terrified of kids vaping. I literally don't know how my daughters get a chance to piss or change their pads. I'm guessing they talk to the counselor.
Fuck schools. I went to a good school from 8th-12th. I had a good time. Every other school I went to prior was garbage. Why the fuck do you monitor pissing? Is it a fetish?
As a grown ass man, in a meeting with the CEO and I'm running the meeting, I can excuse myself to take a piss. No-one cares. Screw schools and their piss monitoring.
LikelyNotSober@reddit
Locking the bathrooms is insane. They should be terrified of a lawsuit for denying kids a basic right.
Soundwave-1976@reddit
No, I teach and I know like the class after lunch is going to be bathroom heavy.
Got to be honest if my school made a rule like that I probably wouldn't follow or enforce it.
LikelyNotSober@reddit
What goes in must come out.
Most of my teachers in high school had the policy of one kid out at a time, but didn’t make us ask permission to use the bathroom.
By the time you’re in high school you should be able to quietly leave class, use the bathroom, and return without any incident.
Robot_Alchemist@reddit
That cannot be real
SirCharlito44@reddit
That is completely insane. I hope someone took a dump on their desk after the teacher said no.
tsukuyomidreams@reddit
That's insane. I literally would have shit my pants in class as protest. I'm not joking.
Afromolukker_98@reddit
I would just walk out to use the restroom if this was a rule at my school. I wouldn't care
CartoonChibiBlogger@reddit
No but my high school banned hair appliances and hair products after one girl left her curling iron plugged into one of the girl’s bathrooms. It almost set the bathroom on fire.
elvensnowfae@reddit
Thats awful. No ours never had that. Just the usual raise your hand and ask to go to the bathroom and then you go. (No hall passes at our school, we just went to the bathroom whenever or to the hall whenever)
DawaLhamo@reddit
No. I graduated in 2001 and I've never heard of such a thing.
max_m0use@reddit
We had hall passes that had 3 slots per class period, and we got a new one each quarter (I think). I think if you filled it up before the quarter was over, you could just get a new one.
PremeTeamTX@reddit
That doesn't sound legal lol
izlude7027@reddit
No, we weren't treated like small children in high school. Anyone not abusing hall pass privileges didn't have to worry about bathroom breaks being policed this way.
ALoungerAtTheClubs@reddit
Thankfully, I never experienced this.
I have to think this policy would be extra hard on girls.
CinemaSideBySides@reddit
Yeah, especially at that age where you may still be figuring out your cycle and flow. I feel like a bloody chair or two would be inevitable if you're limiting people's bathroom breaks.
Beneficial-Basket-42@reddit
Yes still traumatized from this happening to me when I was like 14/15. I didn’t even want to get out of the chair because then everyone would know.
SpreadsheetSiren@reddit
Never mind those that have an irregular cycle for life. Mine could show up any time within a 14 day range well into my 40s.
When the hell are people going to learn that draconian measures rarely, if ever, correct “undesired” behavior?
crownjewel82@reddit
In 1998, my school tried to give you only fifteen passes for the entire school year for any reason, not just the bathroom. It backfired spectacularly because they forgot about all the gifted kids who were allowed to leave classes.
devilbunny@reddit
For what? I missed class for sports, for academic competitions, and yes, for the bathroom. But I couldn’t just walk out for no reason.
crownjewel82@reddit
It's a special education program called Talented and Gifted for kids who are high performing but unintentionally disruptive. At the teachers discretion we were allowed to leave class and go to the TAG classroom for the rest of the period where we could do whatever until the next class.
Most of us went once or twice a week so we'd go through 15 passes before fall midterms.
devilbunny@reddit
Damn. Must have been nice.
I just did my homework when the class was too boring. I rarely actually had homework to do at home. If laptops had been affordable (late 80s/early 90s, so about 35 years ago - they existed, but they were not cheap) I would probably have had almost none, but I wasn't going to write a paper by hand unless it was an exam.
crownjewel82@reddit
Yeah back then people hardly had home computers. Where I went to school, teachers weren't allowed to require typed assignments unless they gave you computer lab time.
moraango@reddit
At my state we were considered under IEPs, so we could leave whenever and go to the gifted room. It was abused
DoublePostedBroski@reddit
I was in high school over 20 years ago and literally this was the policy.
BoltActionRifleman@reddit
The obsession schools have with their student’s bathroom usage is creepy. When I was in school the teachers had full control over whether or not we could go to the bathroom, it’s almost as if they enjoyed it.
Fun-Bake-9580@reddit
Nope. But I graduated in the early 2000s. And I had teachers that would break bathroom rules if they knew you weren’t a kid that just went to mess around. I had a bladder infection once and my history teacher let me out about 10 times in the one hour class period.
tutti_frutti_dutti@reddit
I had similar rules (class of 2020) but it was generally only enforced when teachers felt you actually were abusing restroom breaks.
1d0n1kn0@reddit
When I was in high school i asked, but if they said no or made me wait more than like 7 minutes then i just left. I dont know if my mom ever got called but she had told me if they dont let me go to piss on the desk or tell them to pick their least favorite corner. So if she was ever called i doubt it was more than once.
The schools I went to always had half the stalls lacking locks and like 2 in gaps in the doors, one had the door so high you could litterly see the ass of someone sitting in the pot. Thankfully it was mutually respected to wait in the corner and not have staring contests through the cracks, and usually verbally asking if someone's in a stall rather than pushing or looking to check.
Zaidswith@reddit
No
dingus1383@reddit
I think most people would be shocked at how much time kids waste “going to the bathroom.” They go every period, walk to the furthest bathroom possible, stop to drink water, talk to other students in the hall… They have enough time to go during passing period, during break, during lunch, during PE (locker room). Oh and then they go in there to vape sometimes, so that’s fun.
Head_Razzmatazz7174@reddit
No, If we had to go we just asked our teacher. The few times we didn't ask it obvious it was an emergency of some sort. Our teachers would send someone down to check on us if we didn't come back after 10 minutes.
Sowf_Paw@reddit
What? I have never heard of this.
sleepygrumpydoc@reddit
When I was in school and even for my kids now and the high school its a if you have to go potty you get to go. If you abuse it then you get privileges taken away but normally its the kids smoking in the bathroom or having sex in the bathroom or creating tiktoks.
satansfloorbuffer@reddit
In the early grades, we had scheduled breaks, where they marched the entire class in and out of the bathroom three times a day. If you didn’t go during one break, you had to wait for the next one- roughly two hours later. I think kids with emergencies were escorted to and from by older students. In the middle grades, it was up to the individual teachers, and there was no time to go between classes unless they were right next to each other. This is when I learned that I have an abnormally large bladder because I just held it all day instead of trying to remember seven or eight different sets of rules.
kreativegaming@reddit
It was in the rule book at my charter school but we qui fly learned which teachers care and which didn't. Some years we could go as much as we want others it was brutal.
Robglobgubob@reddit
No that's retarded. It doesn't work that way as an adult and neither should it in school.
banbait69@reddit
No, they would try to give me shit but one day I really had to go and I just said "it's either in the toilet or on the floor, your choice" and didn't even wait and ran out lol
Communal-Lipstick@reddit
Absolutely not. We pee whenever we have to.
Sea-Kitchen3779@reddit
No, we had hall passes. Some of them were just small laminated cards, other were more... inspired, like a shoe, a yard stick, or a 5lb dumbbell. It depended on how "cool" the teacher was.
notyogrannysgrandkid@reddit
No. Most teachers would let you go anytime as long as you were being reasonable, not “getting lost,” and only one student at a time could leave the classroom.
I had a math teacher who always spent the first half of class teaching new material, then gave us the second half of class to work on that day’s assignment with the benefit of being able to ask him questions while working, work with a friend, etc. he gave 4 bathroom passes to each student at the beginning of each semester. He only charged you for one if you needed to use it during his lecture time. If you waited till assignment time, you didn’t lose one. Any remaining passes at the end of the semester could be redeemed for a skipped question on the final.
uraniumstingray@reddit
No I had 3 passes A DAY for locker/bathroom/nurse to use during a class. Graduated in 2014.
Bluemonogi@reddit
I graduated high school in 1992. I don’t recall any rule like that or teachers keeping track of student’s bathroom visits. Some teachers had embarrassingly large bathroom passes you had to carry and of course you had to ask permission. I don’t think people were leaving class to use the restroom very much.
PotentialAcadia460@reddit
As a student? In middle school, yes, High School, no. What I remember was that we got four bathroom passes for the quarter with our names on them, color coded by quarter, to ensure no one abused the system. The idea was so that you only went when you truly had to go rather than as a way to get out of class.
As a teacher, people who don't work in schools vastly underestimate how many middle and high school students go to the restroom to vape, chitchat, sell or buy drugs, put on makeup, play or text on their phone, talk to friends, wander the school, and so on; some students will "go to the restroom" to do just about anything other than actually use the restroom. It's not necessarily equally bad at every school, but it has been a problem at every school I have worked in. Even back when I was a High School student at a place decently regarded for its academics, we had a bathroom more known as the home of the stoners than as a place people did number 1 and number 2. At my current school, I can see the entrance to the Men's room from my classroom, and you'd be surprised at how many times I can see someone go into the bathroom during passing period and then ask me to go again, five minutes later, once class has started. Before we got an electronic sign-out system, it was very easy for kids to abuse the system, and even with restroom passes written into agenda books, people would just grab their friend's agenda books once they were past the daily pass limit, or they'd lose them (or "lose them" as the case may be) and have a teacher write them a pass, with the teacher not knowing whether they had tried the same tactic every period of the day or not. Even now, it's not perfect, and the official bathroom passes we've been issued have been known to disappear, some genuinely lost but many opportunistically snatched.
The reason schools have bathroom policies like this is that, surprise, some kids abuse the heck out of the system if left to their own devices. Thus, most schools have a limitation on daily (usually) bathroom passes. Of course, kids that have a legitimate medical need to use the restroom frequently are exempt from those limitations, and as a teacher it's typically pretty obvious if it's a legitimate bathroom emergency and exceptions should be made. But a few bad apples can very much affect these policies for everyone, as with anything else.
terryaugiesaws@reddit
I graduated in 2013 and all the teachers had huge stacks of bathroom passes in their desks. They would write one out no questions asked. They were little pieces of paper the about the size of two post-it notes.
Western_Nebula9624@reddit
I think my kids' school had that rule for maybe one year. Parents did not like it and so it went away. I do think that it was possible to get an exemption with a doctor's note.
DoublePostedBroski@reddit
ITT: Gen Z who didn’t grow up with this policy.
30 years ago this was the norm.
Vachic09@reddit
No. It sounds ridiculous.
Homosexual_god@reddit
I graduated a year after you. My high school didn't have this policy, but my middle school had it. We had bathroom pass forms that had x number of slots per class period. Thank God I didn't develop my period until high school because I typically have to change my stuff at the same time every (applicable) day.
Five-StarLoser@reddit
My school had this too! We had a little section in the back of our planners that a teacher had to fill out for any reason you left the classroom. A lot of teachers didn’t even bother with it, or had “decoy” pages in case yours were already used up in case an administrator found you. Those teachers were hella cool.
Ok-Big2807@reddit
Yes. I completely ignored it. Always made an honest effort to let them know I was going to the restroom though. My parent’s response to the policy was basically a polite middle finger and “what exactly do you think you’re going to do?” When approached about it.
sexwitch31@reddit
Ummmm what?!
JonnyBox@reddit
If some dumbass teacher/admin/whoever told my kid he couldn't go to the bathroom I would go absolutely nuclear.
High school age kids know when they need to piss.
EloquentRacer92@reddit
Current middle schooler but that rule doesn’t exist in any of my classes. If it did I’d be even more doomed because I have the same teacher for 3 periods.
CuriosThinker@reddit
No.
Vulpix_lover@reddit
Some of my classes had a 3 bathroom breaks a week policy for certain students who would skip class all the time by going to the bathroom
Murderhornet212@reddit
No, that’s insane. I also have always had really bad heavy periods. There would be blood everywhere.
redditsuckspokey1@reddit
My hs and other grades as well, required a hall pass and there was a limit to how many you could get the whole year. Something like a dozen. I tried not to have to go at school.
In 7/8 grade the restroom sink was this round thing with a foot lever you had to step on to turn the water on. I only found out how to use it after.....
Top-Comfortable-4789@reddit
Mine had a policy where you could only go to the bathroom once per class. You also had to sign out on a laptop and write down what bathroom and the time. Shit felt like a prison I’m so glad I’m not in high school anymore.
SerPounceALot78@reddit
yeah and they gave extra credit for not using them
Libertas_@reddit
What the hell? Did you go to school in a jail?
anonymouse278@reddit
No, this sounds crazy. Most of my teachers had a "bathroom pass"- some kind of semi-bulky object that you had to take with you, to limit it to one person in the bathroom at a time, since kids going to the bathroom together was vastly more likely to be an excuse to start trouble. It was also something you could show to security or other teachers to prove you were authorized to be wandering the halls. One teacher's was a hubcap- we found it in the park and told him we were buying him a car in installments.
But they didn't even make us ask to go- if the bathroom pass was there, you could take it and go. This was late nineties-aughts.
AdStrange2167@reddit
Lol you swiped some homeless dudes loot
ehs06702@reddit
Yeah, that was my experience in the aughts as well. As long as you weren't making trouble or trying to ditch, you were allowed to have access to the pass as available.
Kinda weird to see how restricted these kids are.
bmadisonthrowaway@reddit
It's wild that so many kids are incels or getting radicalized into the authoritarian right these days. It sounds like they're just paying forward how they were treated in school.
Professional_Cry_840@reddit
Had the same thing in school, with the exception of 1 teacher in hs that announced first class that only girls have emergencies. To this day I think on how ridiculous a rule it was. She was otherwise a great teacher, just had that 1 weird rule
asoep44@reddit
I feel like this is an ADA violation
hominyhummus@reddit
Not school-wide, but every semester I would have multiple teachers with 3/semester rules.
Most would hand out passes done up on a paper color we didn't have access to.
ngshafer@reddit
No, I did attend high school in a totalitarian state.
mrlolloran@reddit
Wtf?
My highschool was old and a collection of buildings. There were multiple bathrooms and we had bathroom monitors that were teachers basically on break nearby the door (not too close) who were supposed to make you sign in. They also only had certain bathrooms open at certain times so those teachers didn’t have to walk to the other side of the school from their classroom.
The thing is you could get away with not signing and I’m pretty sure they were never checked by anybody.
By senior year I was “going to the bathroom” 5/7 periods a day but I was really just going for walks during classes I found boring because the open bathroom was usually halfway across campus or if I was lucky, all the way in the other side. I did ok I’m school, probably wouldn’t have done any better if I didn’t go for those walks.
dmb129@reddit
My middle school went to a bathroom policy because kids kept getting into fights in them (girl smashed another girls’ head into the mirror was the final straw). So we were walked to each class by the teacher and had to line up and use the bathroom with teacher in hallway. Typically these things happen in schools with major behavior problems. But as an ex-high school teacher, it just creates more problems because teens don’t like being told what to do and being treated as younger than they are. It is a lose-lose situation.
Delta1225@reddit
I graduated in 2000, never had this. I have kids in high school currently, and haven't heard of this, but if it was a thing, I'd be raising hell.
Thelonius16@reddit
That seems like too much paperwork.
snarkyshooter09@reddit
20 years ago my school tried something similar. One bathroom pass per class each semester. It failed because most of the teachers didn't care and said it was stupid. The next year they got rid of that and gave us 15-20 passes to use each semester. That too failed for much of the same reasons.
Avasia1717@reddit
never heard of it before
BanalCausality@reddit
I had to walk about a 1/8 mile between each of my classes in halls packed tighter than O’Hare International Airport. They could mop behind me if they wanted to enforce a rule like this.
eerie_lake_@reddit
Yeah, my middle school did a whole thing with getting your planner signed and after three signatures, you were done.
carrotcakegrandma@reddit
I’m surprised at the number of people saying they have never heard of this! I definitely had this intermittently throughout my schooling. By high school, it was really only certain teachers who would do that (especially my Spanish teachers for some reason?)
FoxtrotSierraTango@reddit
Yep, I graduated in the '90s and it was very much a thing. The expectation was that we use the restroom, drink some water, and grab any books you needed from your locker during the break between classes. It was easily manageable unless your social status demanded excessive socializing and/or public displays of affection with your significant other.
Dull-Geologist-8204@reddit
No but we did have to ask permission. I was told no one time and it actually happened to be the one time it was an emergency and I just left class anyways. Nothing happened to me.
Comfortable_Cow3186@reddit
Noo this sounds insane!! Most of our teachers were lenient with bathroom breaks. I don't know what it was like in the regular classes, but in my advanced classes we covered a ton of information per class so nobody wanted to miss more than they had to, so nobody abused the bathroom. Our teachers knew that and I don't think they've ever denied someone the bathroom when they asked. We definitely didn't have enough time in between classes if our classes were on opposite ends of campus, it would've been cruel.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
Americans (and to be clear, I am one) are total asshole-idiots about bathroom access and bathroom usage, and it goes way beyond high school. Unless you are travelling on an interstate highway, there’s basically no such thing as public restrooms. You have to rely on business owners to provide them, and they often (who can blame them?) try to limit access to paying customers.
I can’t tell you how many times I have heard Americans express shock and dismay at paying for public bathroom use in Europe, and I always say that I can’t even count the number of times I would have gladly paid a dollar to have easy access to a clean public bathroom here in the US.
Double_Strike2704@reddit
What in the holy hell???
Ok_Depth_6476@reddit
We had no set rule when I was in high school, but the teacher could choose to not let you go. I remember my Spanish teacher would make someone struggle to ask in Spanish and then smile and say "Lo siento, pero no". But maybe it wasn't as much of an issue back then, because we weren't allowed to drink, either.
Courwes@reddit
No you went between classes and if you had to go during class you just asked and got a hall pass and went.
But then again we did not have TikTok morons influencing students to vandalize our bathrooms.
Lugbor@reddit
That sounds borderline illegal, honestly. Stopping a child from accessing the bathroom is needlessly cruel, and it's a lawsuit just waiting to happen.
BananerRammer@reddit
They're not stopping anyone. They are limiting abuse. These are teenagers we're talking about, not children. They should be able to figure out a bathroom schedule that allows them to go between periods, and not disrupt their classes.
Yeah, emergencies happen, hence the 3 allowances, per period, per semester. That's 81 "emergencies" per semester. Is that really unreasonable?
AddingAnOtter@reddit
Again where is 81 coming from? That's at least 3x the accurate number.
jonasshoop@reddit
It's not illegal. The student can still use the bathroom, but they will get reprimanded for it if they don't have some sort of exemption. High school students without medical exemptions should have no issue only having 3 bathroom breaks per semester since they can use the bathroom before school, between classes, and during lunch.
Alpacatastic@reddit
I actually got a doctor's note because my highschool had a similar policy to OP's and I ended up having a UTI. I still didn't go in school outside of lunch because as a nervous teenage having to be all "I have a doctor's note to be allowed to go to the bathroom" in front of the whole class seemed awful.
If they gave us 15, or even 10 minutes between classes it wouldn't have been a problem but we were expected to use the bathroom in the five minutes between classes while getting to the next class or getting stuff from locker which is just impossible without being late to class.
Phyrnosoma@reddit
It's been 20+ years but we only had 5 minutes between classes and (IIRC) 25 for lunch. With a 4 story building where you'd be potentially going up or down 2-3 flights of stairs between classes you just didn't have time.
Tack on an hour+ bus ride and yeah...it was a goddamn disaster when they tried something similar
bmadisonthrowaway@reddit
But what is the reprimand for? It just feels like a giant waste of everyone's time. Especially because once you leave high school, you can mostly go to the bathroom whenever. There are a few jobs with carefully budgeted restroom breaks, but it's not by any means the norm.
Weirdly, teachers are one of the few positions where restroom use is strictly proscribed. All of this feels extremely Freudian, if you ask me.
Jorost@reddit
Weirdly, it appears not to be illegal. At least at a federal level. Maybe individual states have their own rules.
cruzweb@reddit
Some states do, but I've seen schools do weird and heinous stuff around bathroom policies. Like only granting X number of bathroom passes per semester, but also rewarding students who turn them in at the end of the semester for extra credit.
Lost_My_Brilliance@reddit
the calc teacher at my school does that, you get 3 points added to the midterm or final if you don’t use your passes
Jorost@reddit
That's bizarre! It sounds like the type of policy that schools implement until a parent gets upset by it, and then it ends. Usually in an ugly manner!
hayterade@reddit
My son in 2nd grade said that his teacher sometimes won't let him go to the bathroom, even if he really has to. I told him if you REALLY REALLY REALLY need to go to the bathroom just go.
HairyDadBear@reddit
Nope but we had a thing where we only get two passes a week by using out assignment book. Thankfully a lot of teachers just ignored that.
gcsouthpaw@reddit
No. But even if it was, I would advise all the kids you know to ignore that rule. Guarding the bathroom like that is insane. If you have to piss and the teacher tells you no, go anyway. It's not up to the teacher to tell you to ignore your bathroom urges.
Also, like this is REALLY fucked up too for the girls. If they're on their period and they need to use the facilities, they NEED to use the facilities.
kobayashi_maru_fail@reddit
“Just hold your period girls. This is an important biology lesson you’d be missing if you went to the restroom!”
Alpacatastic@reddit
Ultra jumbo pad time everyone!
8amteetime@reddit
No. Call the school district offices and raise holy hell about this. Remind them the superintendent is an elected official.
More_Possession_519@reddit
No, I think in middle school st one point we did have a paper handed out for a set number of bathroom breaks and water breaks.
It was supposed to be a deterrent but if you used your passes up the teacher would be like “oookay. I’ll let you go this time!” And maybe remind us to use our breaks to pee.
Unpopularwaffle@reddit
I graduated in 2003 and some teachers had their own wacky rules about how many hall passes you could have per semester,but it wasn't a rule that the entire school had or anything
pippintook24@reddit
no, and it is absolutely reportable.
Alpacatastic@reddit
Yes. You are expected to go to the bathroom during the five minutes you get to get between classes (impossible without being late really, especially for girls) or once a day at lunch or if you have gym class then twice a day since you can go when you change. I just relied on not drinking anything in highschool. I got a UTI.
dystopiadattopia@reddit
No. We just went when we had to go.
Vegetable-Star-5833@reddit
Pretty sure that’s not allowed legally. If they try and stop you get up and go
jeff1074@reddit
I’d didn’t even have to ask to go the bathroom in my highscool. It was so small that if you ended up doing something stupid you WOULD get caught. So if I needed to pee I would just get up go to the bathroom and come back. No one even cares.
DiggerDan9227@reddit
Not American but holy f??? Only 3?? I have 88 days a semester roughly. I’d be going at least 40 times in a period over that time and then not at all in the others just because ima scheduled kinda guy.
Fun-Yellow-6576@reddit
Never heard of this. At my school you had to have a hall pass to leave the classroom, one of my teachers painted a metal bed pan the school colors and added his room#, young’s to carry the bedpan to the bathroom. Good times!
Caseytracey@reddit
Once you find out the school has no power over the kids, their petty rules go out the door
messibessi22@reddit
Some classes yeah but those were honestly insane to me and people would just get up and leave half the time. One teacher had a if you are gone more than x number of minutes you will be marked absent from class rule
cleanuprequired1970@reddit
Never heard of this. And I can't believe any public school could get away with this. Stupid rule is a lawsuit risk for sure. There is no shortage of medical conditions and medicines that cause someone to have to go to the bathroom often. Even with a Dr.'s note to excuse the student from the rule, now you're sharing personal medical information with teachers and other students.
_Smedette_@reddit
No, but I was in high school over 25 years ago. This sounds insane to me.
8Bit_Cat@reddit
If this was the case at my school I would ignore it. If they tried to enforce it I'd ask if they'd rather I piss in the classroom.
ronshasta@reddit
That’s child abuse dawg lol I used the bathroom multiple times a day all four years
Longjumping_Event_59@reddit
“You can control my mind, but you’ll never control my bladder.”
Longjumping_Event_59@reddit
Unhinged.
funny_bunny33@reddit
Not in 2007
_pamelab@reddit
Class of 1998. The only hard rule about using the bathroom pass was that we had to ask in French/Spanish/German if we were in one of those classes.
The restrictions they're putting on kids these days are ridiculous.
Weekly_March@reddit
That sounds insane. I've never heard of that
chabadgirl770@reddit
We had this in middle school with some teachers, but it was per teacher not overall
canipayinpuns@reddit
At my school (early 2010s, NJ), we had a pass for the month that had about 30 blank spots where a teacher would fill out what class/period you were leaving and why (bathroom, locker, nurse, etc). Once you ran out of spots, you couldn't leave class without disciplinary actions until the new mo tb when you got a new pass. The passes were fully blank when we got them, so a number of kids at my school made some decent money by selling their totally blank passes halfway through the month.
seanx40@reddit
I don't think I ever had a bathroom break during class in high school. Between classes. Sure. But during class. Never
MyExIsANutBag@reddit
We always had 2 per class per semester in high school... but that was like 20+ years ago.
Sigbac@reddit
They put it on the syllabus every year for parents to sign and agree too and every year my mom crossed that part out and ammended it to say we would go when we need.
It was never a problem, nor did we abuse it
ProfessorExcellence@reddit
Not that I know of, but by long before high school I knew how to use a restroom between class so never needed to leave during class. Don’t remember anyone who did. Guess if someone has a medical condition, but I would think that would be taken care of with the school before it became an issue.
TheNerdofLife@reddit
No, but I do know that it's crazy, because it sounds like it.
Vixter4@reddit
Nope. If that was a rule, I'd straight up just go anyway. Please, try and stop me.
hwc@reddit
that sounds awful. some kids have legitimate medical issues.
MunchAClock@reddit
My didn’t, my school was pretty chill for the most part. You couldn’t leave campus for lunch, but that’s more of a safety thing
noicecream101@reddit
A few of the teachers everyone hated had that in their classrooms. It was definitely not the school’s policy and that nonsense was one of many power trip things they had. This was in the late 00s
CharacterAbalone7031@reddit
My school had teachers that would do this but also teachers that would just let you use the restroom. 3 breaks a semester was genuinely insane tho, I remember strategically planning when to use mine as to not waste them.
Amockdfw89@reddit
Yea but the teachers gave up and the system usually collapsed after a while
420forworldpeace@reddit
not school wide, but yes, many a teachers in my HS (graduated in ‘22) got a kick out of being the peepee gestapo. sure issues occurred in the bathroom, but absolutely nothing that would’ve been or was quelled by the “only 3 times a semester” rule.
Most-Silver-4365@reddit
We did for a year, it was the mid 90's and we had physical bathroom passes printed on an uncommon cardstock. The passes had each period of the day listed with 3 or 4 spots per period so, each semester a new set of cards were issued in a new color. A friend and myself found the cardstock and used one of the few available copy machines in the area to make unlimited passes.
thepoptartkid47@reddit
I graduated in 2012. Ours was teacher discretion. One or two didn’t care as long as only one person was out of the room at a time. Most limited it to three times a semester. We also had quite a few asshole teachers who wouldn’t let you go at all unless it was a nurse’s-office-level emergency.
brain_over_body@reddit
My school was this way and I graduated in 2006. You had a calendar agenda book and teachers signed your bathroom pass so they all knew when you went and when you were out. Only 3 minutes between classes, which spanned 2 buildings, 4 floors in each. I spent 2 years in a wheelchair and almost got detention for not having a valid pass. So I threw up on her shoes from my wheelchair. No one bothered me after that. Also, teachers would lock bathrooms randomly for themselves. You're in building A and have to pee? Locked. Go down 2 floors or over to the B building.
AARose24@reddit (OP)
My school also had staff locking the bathrooms, which made going between classes even more difficult.
Other-Educator-9399@reddit
No, and if any high school did, I hope they enjoyed cleaning up piss shit, vomit, and blood and watching the corpses pile up from UTIs that lead to septic shock.
throwawaytheist@reddit
Was this a result of the TikTok trend of high school kids destroying school bathrooms?
AARose24@reddit (OP)
No, it was policy before I got there and that trend didn’t start until my junior year.
Sudden_Breakfast_374@reddit
no but when i taught middle school sped, the gened kids could only go so many times per day due to vaping and fights.
BobsleddingToMyGrave@reddit
They tried. I had one male teacher that stated we had plenty of time to get from classroom to classroom and also use the restroom in the 5 minutes allotted.
It didn't work after one girl stated very bluntly that she had her period and he would either let her use the restroom or she would have to change her pad in the classroom.
The_crazy_bird_lady@reddit
I never had that, but recently my teenagers' school or at least some teachers seem to be doing this.
machagogo@reddit
No.
Sounds like classic zero tollerance, zero thought administration.
This is draconian.
Misstucson@reddit
I had a couple teachers give us two tickets a semester. Each one was worth 5% extra credit. So if we never used them we had 10% extra credit at the end of the quarter. If we did use them then nothing. I never went to the bathroom in those classes.
Historical-Badger259@reddit
Yikes that’s discriminatory. If you have a health issue or are someone who has a period, you don’t get the extra credit? They’re lucky they didn’t get sued.
Misstucson@reddit
Maybe, they never prevented us from going to the bathroom, so I don’t see it holding up in court. It also never put our grades in the negative.
Standard-Bed5811@reddit
I forgot about this! It was nice extra credit.
foundtuna@reddit
No. Is that legal? Wouldn’t have bothered me but can see it being an issue for plenty.
HoidsApprentice1121@reddit
Yup, and we got extra credit if we didn’t use any of them. This was more common in middle school, but I had a few teachers do it in high school too.
chameleonsEverywhere@reddit
I graduated a decade before you and we got 4 passes per semester per class in middle school. Even more egregious, if you dont use all your passes you could turn the unused passes in for extra credit (blatant ableism and sexism right there). I bled through my pants multiple times. Evil shit.
jerrycan-cola@reddit
My middle school did, but when I got to high school, they stopped. They did close all bathrooms at one point because of vandalism, but got in trouble for doing that
DeepBlue_8@reddit
No, that's the dumbest thing I've ever head
LakeWorldly6568@reddit
Graduated '08 we had it. Also, we had 90-minute classes.
jgeoghegan89@reddit
Not at my school. I graduated in 2007 so I don't know what they do now
hereforthebump@reddit
Having worked in many schools, this seems to be a thing in schools with a lot of behavior issues. Ive worked in schools where kids are hanging in the bathroom the entire period vaping, doing hair/makeup, playing with their phone, etc, or roaming the halls, going off campus, etc.
Avtamatic@reddit
This is like when my first HS shut down all the bathrooms except for the 2 (1 M 1 F) in the lunch room, and 2 by the auditorium. AND they limited it to 1 student at a time.
At first, all the bathrooms were open, you just had to sign in, leave the time you went in, the time you went out and maybe give a reason you had to go. And it was limited to 1 student at a time. They actually had staff monitoring the bathrooms and would go in and check after everytime someone used it.
Then they shut down ALL bathrooms except the 2 I mentioned. So naturally, there was always a line around the corner of the hall to the Lunch bathrooms, since the entire school had to use them.
One day, they had the elementary schoolers come over to do a rehearsal of their play. So for the whole day, even after they left, they shut down the auditorium bathrooms except for the elementary schoolers. Again, the kids left after the morning. So no one was using that bathroom.
The line out of the bathroom that day was so bad, that I actually just went to that auditorium bathroom, again, after all the kids had left. And there was some Karen from the school who saw me and started yelling "HEY. YOU CANT GO IN THERE-" I came out and suddenly she didn't care.
All of this was started because some dipshits got together and decided it would be really cool if they formed a 'gang'. And they went into the bathroom and literally just smashed the toilets, ripped the urinals out of the walls, and kicked over all the stalls.
AvengedKalas@reddit
Nah. I graduated in 2012 from a metro Atlanta high school. There were a couple of teachers that had their own individual rules (like I remember one teacher had a 6 minute rule), but for the most part most didn't care.
SnooPineapples280@reddit
No lol that sounds awful
emr830@reddit
No, and that sounds insane, and like it’s asking for a lawsuit. I could’ve gone 3+ times a day if I felt like it.
Giant_Homunculus@reddit
Sounds insane. I went to HS mid to late 2000s and when we were quite into our booger sugar phase we’d probably take a bathroom break each period every single day.
And this was at a fairly strict, tightly run private school 😂
DOMSdeluise@reddit
Never heard of this in my life. But I also graduated high school 20 years ago and my interaction with high school students has been pretty limited since then.
Randomfella3@reddit
Yeah this sure ain't normal coming from a 16 year old in highschool.
hazmatclean@reddit
My HS had 15 mins between classes. We didn't even need to ask to use the restroom. You simply got up and went
hazmatclean@reddit
This is totally bonkers. Location of this travesty?
jtfjtf@reddit
No, looking back I had a very chill high school experience. Could use the bathroom whenever I wanted. Teachers didn’t care if kids were in the lunch room or other areas all time of the day because different people had different periods off. I could go to my art class room when there was no class to do art. I could leave campus if I wanted to.
K1tsunea@reddit
My school does it, and yes, it’s dumb
Not all my teachers strictly enforce it, but still
BookLuvr7@reddit
No, and this is ridiculous. Some people get stomach bugs or have IBS. Some people have to go multiple times after they have a meal.
The only reason I can see this being necessary is if someone was hiding out in the bathroom to avoid tests or some such thing. In which case they need help with the subject or their anxiety of it. Punishing everyone for needing to pee is ridiculous.
I'd be tempted to make whoever made this policy laxative coffee or something.
Automatic_Mousse6873@reddit
I don't know much about my school districts teaching rules but can confidently say none of the schools I worked at did this and infact there seemed to be no rules outside 1 having a hall pass rule which being a sub I never checked
jeophys152@reddit
No, that sounds dumb. I’m guessing your school must have had some problem in the past and never got rid of the rule once those kids were gone. I would start a Pee My Pants Union if I went to your school
survivorfan95@reddit
You could also form the group People Opposing Oppressive Policies Of Odor (Elimination): POOPOO for short
lezzerlee@reddit
This goes against basic biological routine. A lot of people go through the bathroom at the same time each day. Being regular is a good thing. Why in the world are children treated this way?
MeanTelevision@reddit
Just asking kids (regardless of grade or middle or high school) to embarrass themselves by having to raise a hand, and/or ask, and gain permission in front of the other kids, to go, is bad enough.
But then to limit or forbid them if they had to go?
Lost_My_Brilliance@reddit
1-3 in most classes, but some teachers were sane and basically let you go once a class (if you went every time for a long time they’d tell you no though)
Ok-Equivalent8260@reddit
No, that’s weird
Independent-Cow-4070@reddit
I hope school admin enjoys cleaning piss and shit off the floors, because if I gotta go, I still gotta go, and I know the teachers aren’t going to
liamstrain@reddit
As a person with digestive issues - that sounds like a recipe for a lawsuit.
C5H2A7@reddit
No and fuck that
EmberDragon240@reddit
we have 5 per period, per semester
MeanTelevision@reddit
Can't see why this type of thing should be regimented.
Not only is it a natural function but it's not completely predictable either. Not always and especially not for children.
Some workplaces are almost this bad, with people having to ask permission or be limited to a total of minutes per day or being told to only 'go' on official breaks (when everyone else is trying also.)
Re another comment: Telling kids to go between classes -- there's no way, not enough time and everyone else would be lining up at the same time.
Sufficient_Syrup_366@reddit
When I was in high school, it was really up to thr teachers District didnt have a policy, really. That being said, only i think a couple of my teachers ever had a limit, and they removed it after a couple of months anyway
MagicalPizza21@reddit
I never had this, that's insane
quizzicalturnip@reddit
That’s illegal
doodynutz@reddit
I graduated in 2010 and we had a rule similar to this back then. It was 2-3 per semester, depending on the teachers individual rules. We also couldn’t go to the bathroom during the first 5 and last 5 minutes of class or lunch. Bathrooms were locked while class was in session so they would have to call security for you to go during class. We also had rules around tardies and absences in regard to prom. More than 10 unexcused tardies or absences barred you from prom.
Subvet98@reddit
Nope. Thats crazy
lamemayhem@reddit
Middle school did. After that, no.
gatanongrata@reddit
Yes, it wasn't a schoolwide rule but a few of my teachers decided to do this. They gave us 3 paper bathroom passes to use for the semester. Never knew anyone who used all 3, so not sure if they would have actually enforced it.
reflectorvest@reddit
I work in a high school and that is fucked up
CaptainMalForever@reddit
No, because we were treated like people mostly.
absenteequota@reddit
no, i graduated in the nineties- before adults started managing every microsecond of kids lives.
ca77ywumpus@reddit
This is insane. A teacher could deny a bathroom pass if they felt you were abusing the privilege but generally the hallways were so crowded that even teachers had a hard time only using the bathroom during passing periods. Most of my teachers actively resented the idea of having to give a 17 year old written permission to use the restroom. One of them had laminated hall passes that said "The carrier of this pass is a big boy/girl and can use the potty by him/herself." Complete with pictures from the toddler book "Everybody Poops."
RewardFluid7316@reddit
No. If that was enforced I wouldn't give a shit and still go if I actually need to.
Ok-Race-1677@reddit
If you weren’t a special kid that had to be wrangled and weren’t a jerk to the teacher they didn’t care
Rhyslikespizza@reddit
Dude what the fuck?
ctcaa90@reddit
They go by the bathroom between classes like we all did. They are not saying they can’t go to the bathroom at all.
FancyPickle37@reddit
Never heard of this but I graduated in 2010. I remember having some issues when I first started my menstrual cycle and my mom told me “Don’t ask them to go to the bathroom, tell them you ARE going to the bathroom and they can call me if they have an issue with it”. I appreciated that so much because some of my teachers were weird about giving bathroom breaks, and I understand a lot of students abused that “privilege” but like, if ya gotta go ya gotta go!
Katskit89@reddit
No. This is absolutely insane.
ctcaa90@reddit
I mean, rarely did I go to the bathroom during class. I always went between bells. So few times, I have no memories at all of going to the bathroom during class, but we also never carried around water bottles. I guess if you have a small bladder, you better empty out between bells.
RainInTheWoods@reddit
No
Elixabef@reddit
It wasn’t a school policy, but I did have a couple of teachers in high school who would only let us have two bathroom breaks per semester. They were clearly on a power trip. I graduated in 2025.
gothicuhcuh@reddit
No but in 6th grade my glasses broke and math was after lunch. Teacher wouldn’t let anyone use the bathroom. “Should have gone during lunch” I never had to go during lunch I had to go 45 minutes after lunch in the middle of class. My body had a schedule. Teacher also wouldn’t move me to the front so I could see the board. Then would chastise me for failing math. I don’t remember her name but I know she married a cop. I hope she’s miserable.
Glittersparkles7@reddit
WTAF 🤨 No your school is run by whack jobs.
Aev_ACNH@reddit
Teacher said “You just go if you need to go. Don’t ask me. If you NEED it, don’t waste time trying to get my attention/permission. Just go”
Obviously that was….an urgent situation that day but hell yes I appreciated that
languagelover17@reddit
No, that’s a stupid rule. But for the love of God, go to the bathroom at the beginning or end of class. I HATE IT when kids raise their hand in the middle of a lesson and ask to go. NO. If I have wait 15 more minutes, so can you.
-sincerely, a high school teacher who is 37 weeks pregnant.
Ky3031@reddit
Wow apparently I’m one of the few that remember this. Even up into high school I was cutting out my three bathroom tickets. Honestly, they were forgetting about after a few weeks and I’m pretty sure they were just there to stop kids from going to the bathroom to ditch class and be on their phones.
mothwhimsy@reddit
Not common. I don't understand why schools and/or teachers think it's okay to police bodily functions
cocolishus@reddit
Schools and districts often try to do this kind of thing, but if someone takes it to court, they usually lose and either have to get rid of the rule or make so many exceptions that it becomes unenforceable.
And most teachers hate rules like this because it only adds to all the other--and far more important--paperwork they have to keep track of.
stillnotelf@reddit
Mine had no doors in the bathrooms for a while
ballrus_walsack@reddit
Sounds like a red state thing. They’re all about control.
Tree_Weasel@reddit
I went to high school in the 90s. And if that was a rule, I would have shit my pants in class in protest.
Nachoughue@reddit
yes, also 2023 graduate. had been a thing since middle school for me. 3-6 breaks per semester per class. go during lunch or the 3-5 min passing periods or don't go. it was very dumb. and you needed special medical permission to override the limit.
i watched people piss in sinks and fake plants and right in their seats just because fuck you very many times. or walk out anyways and get escorted by security to the principals office and then piss in the principals office because fuck you too. all valid crashouts.
helpitgrow@reddit
My highschool had around 6000 students and was way more concerned with stopping weapons being brought on campus than students’ bathroom habits.
Friendly-Horror-777@reddit
Lolwut?
MegaAscension@reddit
My Middle School had a policy of 20 times per year. Class changes were only three minutes long. So you’d have a line of students waiting 20 minutes at lunch for a bathroom with two stalls and three urinals.
DizzyLead@reddit
No. (High school for me was 1988-1992). As far as I remember, students rarely ever asked to go to bathroom in the middle of class; I wouldn’t say it never happened, but I reckon it didn’t happen often enough to have to ration the number of times a student could go to the restroom. I don’t recall ever doing so myself even once.
After all, there were passing periods and the mid-morning (“Nutrition” in my neck of the woods) and Lunch breaks to do one’s business in.
UglySpiral@reddit
I’m amazed everyone is saying no, our school had this. We had planners given to us at the beginning of the year and it had passes in the back that could be torn out and turned in for a bathroom pass. Maybe it was more than 3 but not by much. I graduated in Florida in 2016 and it was alive and well in my school at least
burrito_butt_fucker@reddit
In 2nd grade a classmate asked to use the restroom. He was told no. Poor kid pissed himself and went home. I don't think anyone made fun of him or bullied him for it. We all heard him ask to go and heard him get denied. The teacher didn't tell anyone no after that.
In highschool we did have those rules but they weren't really enforced. How are you going to tell someone that's almost an adult they can't take a piss?
Appropriate-Food1757@reddit
Nope. Would have broke it if I had to pee. Pissed my pants multiple times in grade school for shit like that.
azulsonador0309@reddit
Yes, my high school had this rule. Students who didn't use any bathroom passes in a given class were rewarded by their teachers. An acquaintance of mine actually peed himself in English class rather than go because he thought he could hold it until the bell.
Critical_Cup689@reddit
No but we did have to use our agendas as a hall pass and have the teacher sign it. Always thought that was kinda wild
BreezyBill@reddit
Kids today drink too much water.
SameStatistician5423@reddit
We had to go in between class it was disruptive to go during class.
L8dTigress@reddit
No, that's ableist and illegal.
techieman33@reddit
We technically had that rule, but it was never really enforced unless someone was obviously abusing it and trying to go nearly every day.
for_dishonor@reddit
I had many "official" bathroom policies from different teachers. They all lasted for about a month until the teachers figured out who the problems were.
In four years, never was I not allowed to go when I needed to.
SaltandLillacs@reddit
Yeah, although people kept lighting the bathroom on fire
BioDriver@reddit
This is how you end up with kids shitting in the teacher’s trash can
CowboysFTWs@reddit
Nah, just walk out and grab the hall pass. Guys one at a time. Girls, had more leeway, because girls problems.
flootytootybri@reddit
One of my teachers had a once a semester rule. Needless to say, I left my other classes a lot more. But my teachers didn’t really care. Going into being a teacher myself, as long as they aren’t gone for 20 minutes all the time (one of my friends used to vape in the bathroom and our teacher never questioned why she was gone so long) I don’t really care
HotButteredPoptart@reddit
No. That's insane.
tavikravenfrost@reddit
My school didn't have a rule on how many times you could go to the restroom, but they didn't give us much time between classes. They only gave us five minutes, which was usually fine, but it could be a struggle depending upon where you're coming from on campus. They justified the five minutes by telling us that they timed how long it takes to walk from one end of the campus to the other, and they found that it takes a maximum of five minutes. The problem is that they timed it with an empty campus and didn't account for the fact that most teachers wouldn't let you pack your things away until the bell rang. In reality, we were usually delayed in leaving the classroom because we had to pack our shit, and then we had to slowly shuffle through halls that are suddenly clogged up with 1,200 students.
iceph03nix@reddit
no...
Doesn't seem like that would pass ADA muster...
I could see a teacher trying to pull that to discourage random requests, but I don't think you could get away with enforcing it if someone decided to make a stink about it
stroppo@reddit
Good God! Never heard of anything like that. When I was at school, as far as I know, you could go as many times as needed. I was never told I couldn't at any rate.
GradeRevolutionary22@reddit
No, and if they did I wouldn't care. When you have to go you have to go.
deutschdachs@reddit
No, but I think used the bathroom maybe 3 times my entire high school career
IJustWantADragon21@reddit
Never heard of it and that’s completely bonkers
UseMuted5000@reddit
Yes. Where I’m from every school in the area had it as far as I can tell. It wasn’t just total tho. It was usually 3-5 per quarter per class
Anilakay@reddit
I graduated in 2006 and we had the 3 bathroom passes thing, too.
Terra_Icognita_478@reddit
I graduated in small town 2004 and this was definitely a thing back then too, except it quickly ended the moment dudes and girls alike just whipped it out and went wee anyway.
Like, goddamn son, we can't all control our movements. Dumbass teachers fucks.
Lostsock1995@reddit
My school as a whole didn’t have this but I had a few classes for a while that the teacher expected us to follow that rule. Eventually though I guess the parents must have made a fuss because even those teachers ended up having like 3 little passes you could trade in for goodies at the end of the year if you didn’t use them but they couldn’t say you weren’t allowed to to. Thank goodness too because there were many times it wasn’t enough for me and the people I knew
Turdulator@reddit
lol, all it takes is one kid with IBS and it’s lawsuit time!
DrMindbendersMonocle@reddit
No, that is incredibly draconian. Nobody kept track unless it was noticeably excessive
InquisitiveNerd@reddit
No, no it is not. It is also a human violation
whatevendoidoyall@reddit
I graduated in 2010 in Oklahoma and we also had limited bathroom breaks, but was like an individual classroom rule not a school rule.
Danibear285@reddit
No because my school was rational. And parents were very litigious
Colseldra@reddit
I just walked out. 90 minute classes are too long for that
tkecanuck341@reddit
What happens after the third time? You just pee into a bottle in the back of the classroom?
Worst case scenario, if a teacher thought you were abusing it, you'd get detention, but you'd still be allowed to go.
mossryder@reddit
class of 95. this wouldn't have worked, we would have all just intentionally pissed ourselves.
WookieeRoa@reddit
Three a semester?? That’s using the bathroom….. like once a month while at school.
WildlifePolicyChick@reddit
What the what?
No.
Manatee369@reddit
We went to the restroom between classes. Graduated in ‘70.
MrQ1995@reddit
Graduated in 2013, our school had a "passport" system. It was a card that had 10 squares that teachers were to sign and date. If you didn't have any more spots available then you weren't allowed to leave class. Hardly any teachers enforced it fully though, except for students who were always trying to leave class.
They would give out one each semester, but only for a year or two when they realized it didn't really work.
Guardian-Boy@reddit
My school did my freshman year. Then a few people pissed themselves and at least one person shit themselves and they realized maybe they should be treated like human beings.
nigliazzo5626@reddit
No. I’d just walk out and go pee without permission. Children should never have to even ask to begin with
Codee33@reddit
I’ve seen this in schools I’ve taught in. I get the idea being to prevent kids from just leaving class (specifically the same class) all the time to hang out with friends, but it’s a terrible rule.
Inprobus_@reddit
One of the things I was amazed by when I graduated a while ago is just how different high school kids are treated compared to adults. I mean in high school you're practically cattle
FuckYourDownvotes23@reddit
Never heard of this a day in my life
CaptainAwesome06@reddit
No. That definitely doesn't sound like it would be a system-wide policy. Much less a county or state policy.
It sounds ridiculous and I'd expect one accident and a livid parent to change that policy.
With that said, I can empathize with teachers. It seems like when one student needs to use the bathroom, half the class all of a sudden needs to go. But I'm not sure how to stop that without enacting dumb policies like bathroom limits. Maybe make your class more interesting?
Veronica___Sawyer@reddit
I graduated in 2005. My school was pretty strict about being in the halls during class. We had hall passes, which were cards we got every semester that had (I think?) 20 lines on them. You had to get it signed by a teacher any time you left a classroom during an actual class period, whether it was to go to the bathroom, go to your locker, etc. You wrote in the date/time and where you were going then the teacher signed it. The teacher would also give you their hall pass, which was a plastic paddle-shaped thing that you had to give back to the teacher. You needed to have both your hall pass card and the teacher’s hall pass on you if you were in the hallway during class periods or you might get detention. If the teacher was a hard-ass they’d tell you that you should’ve gone to the bathroom or done whatever else in between classes or before/after lunch.
dino-sour@reddit
We had a log of hall passes at the back of the planners the school gave out at the start of the year. There were TONS back there (like 50 or more). That was your limit for the year.
FullOfShitSoWhat@reddit
No, thankfully, but the middle school I worked at did. I ignored it, but I did keep sign out/in logs to cover my butt. If a kid gets in trouble while on a bathroom pass, that's on them, not me.
manicpixidreamgirl04@reddit
no
WTI240@reddit
I had the same thing, and I graduated almost 20 years ago.
Standard-Bed5811@reddit
Yes, I graduated in 2022! Most of my classes had 3 or 4 times for the semester some kept track and some didn’t care. I just knew which classes to avoid going to the bathroom in lol
voteblue18@reddit
That is insane. Never heard of such a thing.
Redbubble89@reddit
We had that in middle school and it sucked. I know they want to keep track of kids and they want to keep them from socializing but Jesus. High school in mid 00s had a pass but teachers never counted.
Effective_Pear4760@reddit
I think a couple of the teachers in my high school had restrictions. I only remember one specific teacher and I can't remember exactly what the rules were.I remembered threatening one teacher that Id pee on the floor in front of his desk if he didnt let me go. He did.
happyburger25@reddit
Nope.
Jdawn82@reddit
As a teacher, f*ck that. I’d be the one getting written up for letting kids go to the bathroom.
the_real_JFK_killer@reddit
This seems absolutely absurd to me. Some classes the teachers didn't even have us ask, we could just go and use the bathroom when we needed to.
ContributionLatter32@reddit
That is a legal issue
Pizzaface1993@reddit
Yes in 2009. If you are getting up during the same class that often, I'd see that as an issue. You can go before, or after.
SeaworthinessIcy6419@reddit
Eh, it may have been a thing in my high school. But tbf, the 7 minute transition period was usually more than enough time for most bathroom breaks. If you had a particularly long commute to one class you learned to go in a different break.
Also, think of it this way, 6 classes meant you have 18 bathroom breaks total during class time for the semester. You also have time at lunch. And you have 4 other transition times to use the bathroom.
Its a reasonable expectation to not interrupt class time for that regularly because you're supposed to figure out how to build it in between classes.
And no, of course we usually don't police the bathroom in the work world. But workers are adults, with more maturity, as opposed to teenagers who generally don't want to be in class.
waxwitch@reddit
Yikes. No that wasn’t a thing when I was in school (class of 2004). I had IBS (it’s mostly better now) and I usually had the run, at least once a week, around the middle of my first class of the day, so I definitely would have crapped myself.
Fabulous_Hat7460@reddit
that rule would have lasted a day. There would have multiple people peeing in the trash can next to the teachers desk.
GingerMarquis@reddit
Some schools had that. Some schools genuinely hate kids and many of the teachers there should’ve never been teachers.
Sanaridofan@reddit
At my K-12 school its 4 passes(including locker and water) per quarter for each period
bellegroves@reddit
No, and my coworkers had to go talk to HR when they started tracking my bathroom breaks when I was going through a health crisis. Maybe the school administration should go chat with HR.
etchedchampion@reddit
Absolutely not. There was times I went twice in the same class period.
I would never tolerate this. I told my kids that if anyone ever tried to prevent them from going to the bathroom they should go anyway and tell them to take it up with me. I understand kids abuse the abuse bathroom trips to spend time out of class but restricting access to kids who need it is not an acceptable answer to that question.
Appropriate-Fold-485@reddit
No. When I was in school you could go to the bathroom anytime. The question was whether you could stand to use the school bathrooms.
ComprehensiveAd8815@reddit
(Uk- school in the 80s) No because the toilets were so grim and colder than an eskimos tit that nobody wanted to spend any time there, quick piss and you’re done. I have never been as cold in my life as I was in those toilets. Make them all porcelain, floor to ceiling porcelain tiles and no heating, make sure it’s out of the sunlight at the coldest extremity of the building. That’s the way to do it.
Zetin24-55@reddit
Absolutely not. And we were not model students, we lost having mirrors in the bathrooms because students kept breaking and tagging them.
They stuck with a normal bathroom pass.
bhoose19@reddit
Our only bathroom rule was that if there was an exam, only one student could be out of the classroom at a time.
Pitiable-Crescendo@reddit
No. But we weren't supposed to go during classes
Jorost@reddit
I have never heard of this. However, a quick Google search finds that there are no federal laws regarding access to bathrooms for students. That said, such a policy is patently absurd. The first parent with the wherewithal to hire a lawyer would bring an end to it pretty quickly.
CapitalG888@reddit
That's wild. If I had a child in that school I'd go ape shit.
Probably possible to sue.
whtevrnichole@reddit
no but we couldn’t leave the classroom in the first and last 20 minutes of class and the bathrooms would be locked. i graduated in 2017.
AKamDuckie@reddit
Nope. I’m also a 2023 grad and the rule was no one could leave the room during the first and last 10 minutes of class. Beyond that, each teacher had their own rules and methods. I’ve had teachers make us leave our phones on their desk in order to go. Some teachers allowed us to slip out the back whenever we needed to but if it became too much of a pattern or distraction then they shut it down.
Mata187@reddit
My private high school did not have this rule (25 years ago). My brother went to the same high school (15 years ago) and did have this room.
Our baby brother went to public high school and they had a rule you cannot use the bathroom during class time. The school didn’t say you couldn’t use the bathroom period, but not during classroom hours. If it was an emergency, then they had to get an escort (usually an admin staff of the same gender) to walk with them to the bathroom…no joke it happened.
RosyClearwater@reddit
No, we were able to eat in class go to the bathroom when we wanted and had a lot of flexibility and freedom. That said, I was in all honors and AP classes, and that particular student demographic is less likely to be taking advantage of going to the bathroom.That’s not to say that students don’t still do it, but it isn’t a raging issue.
weedtrek@reddit
In my school the teacher set their own rule, but most just had a single hall pass that anyone could use without asking.
Valuable-Shirt-4129@reddit
No.
Fangsong_37@reddit
No. That's inhumane.
gogozrx@reddit
You only have to shit in the trashcan once to get Administration attention to this.
ehs06702@reddit
I graduated in 2006, and the only reason you would get restricted is if you were just leaving class to start problems or just wander the halls.
It's a bit wild to hear how strict new changes can be.
kimmycorn1969@reddit
Nope I graduated in 1987 so been awhile. I did teach for sometime and I let one kid at a time go whenever they needed to it's a bodily function one needs to perform period!! That is a dumb rule I know some kids will abuse it but I would t punish everyone for one foolish kid
burning_man13@reddit
I don't think so, but even if we did - I'm pretty sure we didn't - I would have been exempt from it being a type 1 diabetic that fought his blood sugars throughout puberty. There's no way they could have prevented me from using the restroom if my blood sugars were high.
Js987@reddit
Nope. When I was in HS (\~25 years ago) the only bathroom restriction was that you needed a pass and needed to be back in a reasonable time. We didn’t have enough time between classes to use the bathroom, and had 4-block days, so a 3x a semester rule would only allow 12 bathroom trips a semester which would have been impractical. Even with a more open schedule it seems like a cruel policy.
Some_Orchid917@reddit
Some classes gave bathroom passes that could be exchanged for extra credit at the end of the semester. It wasn’t all classes, so I just didn’t go during those periods. I wanted the extra credit lol
msklovesmath@reddit
Yes its common but of course no teacher will actually hold to it when push comes to shove bc it would cause all sorts of issues for them.
Gatsby1923@reddit
In my high school in the 1990s, you could only go between classes... except the bathrooms were closed between periods, so you had to ask anyways... some teachers were cool about it, and some weren't... also until my Jr year there were no stall doors, the thinking was do they could catch you smoking easier...
Professional-Pungo@reddit
my mom is a teacher and her school does have a similar rule, although it's per class per semester, but it's up to the teacher if they want to enforce it (she doesn't)
Careful-Library-5416@reddit
Graduated a few years ago and went to two high schools, both had 3 per quarter per class. It sucked
DontBuyAHorse@reddit
Never heard of this. My school years were from the mid-80s to mid-90s. Teachers could use a bit of discretion in terms of allowing bathroom breaks, but I never remember any major pushback if I asked to go. Once in middle and high school there were usually enough spaces between classes to hit the restroom so it was rare that anyone even bothered to ask, but if they did, I don't recall objections.
Helo227@reddit
Pretty sure it is considered abuse to restrict bathroom usage… but i’m no legal expert.
BB-56_Washington@reddit
Nope. Sounds stupid.
causeyouresilly@reddit
No. 09 grad - and absolutely not. I would fight this tooth and nail as a parent if my child was told no. In fact I have. My first grader was told no and she pooped her pants in class because - we now have a “even if your teacher says no, go. You’re not asking for permission you are letting them know” Bet your ass I was in the office with the teacher and principle IMMEDIATELY
Longwell2020@reddit
Nope. In my hs, we would have pissed on the walls if a teacher told us we would not go to the restroom.
KaitB2020@reddit
Nope. Never heard of this.
That rule would’ve sucked when I developed diabetes. I was in the bathroom quite a bit with that. Couldn’t get enough water in me either. I was 15 at the time.
notthegoatseguy@reddit
I imagine your school had a lot of bathroom vandalism or other activities going on in bathrooms when your fellow schoolmates were supposed to be in class.
The goal of these rules isn't to specifically restrict good faith individuals, but to prevent those who are abusing it from inflicting further damages. Because if a bunch of kids take massive dumps all over the urinals and toilets or throw stinkbombs into the vents, now the bathroom is closed for cleaning and no one can use it.
just_rambling62@reddit
For us, it depended on the teacher. We had two that would give you detention on the second because it counted as a tardy. The rest didn't care. Thankfully, neither work at that school anymore.
RustBeltLab@reddit
Yeah, nope. American parents are not going to let a public servant powertrip like that.
Cheap_Coffee@reddit
None of my kids schools were that restrictive.
Was there a lot of trouble with your restrooms?
Gunther482@reddit
No we didn’t in high school tho I do remember some middle school teachers keeping track of it.
bmadisonthrowaway@reddit
What? This is psychotic. If all the recent high school grads and current teens pipe in and say this is a thing, STG I will burn it all down.
In middle and early high school we got a lot of lectures about how we should have gone at lunch, or whatever. Junior year I transferred to a school that treated us like adults with bladder control and it was fine to go to the bathroom when you had to go to the bathroom. I think that was slightly outside the norm, but I never experienced the back half of high school in a typical setting so can't weigh in on whether the teachers continued with the lectures about how as humans we should not be allowed bodily functions.
Tommy_Wisseau_burner@reddit
I’m pretty sure a teacher or 2 did. I’ve heard of it before. It’s usually teacher specific
Proud_Calendar_1655@reddit
My high school didn’t have it but my middle school had something similar.
bjanas@reddit
I'm... wondering if that would fly, if challenged for real? Seems unreasonable.
No-Environment6103@reddit
Not for me in NY. Seems like a pretty stupid rule. If I need to use the bathroom I’m going to use it. There shouldn’t be a rule where people have to carefully plan when they can go.
imawhaaaaaaaaaale@reddit
Nope.
I wouldn't abide it though, unless the non janitorial staff are prepared to clean up poop or pee somewhere outside of a bathroom.
Even in the military you are generally allowed to stop working to take a quick bathroom break and nobody bats an eye.
tiger0204@reddit
Never heard of it when I was in school, and my school age children don't have this policy now.
jessper17@reddit
No - none of the schools I went to had rules like that in the 80s and 90s.