Do you find yourself (or others) emotionally invested in the company you work for?
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KikiCorwin@reddit
Hell no. I care about the company about as much as they care about me.
Subject_Stand_7901@reddit
Me? No. I'm on a team of about 30 and maybe 1-2 of us are True Believers. The rest are just there to make a check and not get fired. Not that we're slackers, but we definitely didn't drink the Kool aid.
TammyEastEnd@reddit
The people but not the job.
Imaginary_Train_8056@reddit
I’ll add on: the people we serve. I work at an academic autism and neurodevelopment center - we do evaluations, medical visits through the lifetime, training for neurodivergent individuals and the community, behavioral health, and research. Our patients drive us every day.
The_Bjorn_Ultimatum@reddit
I can't believe you are one of the only ones saying this. I agree.
elunabee@reddit
Yes, because I work for a cultural non-profit so my interests, passion, and work responsibiliites are inextricable. It's a recipe for burn out to be honest because you can never turn off. You can shut your phone down at 5 pm and hold hard boundaries that way, and there's certain flexibilities and opportunities I would not get working a corporate job I do not care about, but my brain is never not thinking about things related to work and it kind of sucks! Especially in 2025 with the state of the world. My coworkers are all in the same boat, too.
I feel I would be emotionally invested if I ever found myself working at a for-profit business, like a garden center or backpacking company, but again, I guess I only imagine myself working jobs where I already have an existing emotional investment in the field and the production of that labor.
SpaceCadetBoneSpurs@reddit
I work for a federal agency, and yes. I believe in the mission and I joined to support it.
When I worked in the private sector — absolutely not. The company could have shut down in a day, and basically no one other than its owners and employees would have cared.
Content-Dealers@reddit
Is anger and disappointment an emotional investment? Apparently people used to really like this company but it isn't amazing nowdays.
LoudCrickets72@reddit
Anger and disappointment is the end stage of emotional investment in corporate America. If you were never emotionally invested to begin with, you'd have nothing to be angry or disappointed about.
Content-Dealers@reddit
Yup, that's the truth with a lot of these guys. They remember when this place was apparently a well oiled machine with insanely good pay and benefits. The pay is still good, the benefits are alright, but the place has gone downhill since it changed owners.
LoudCrickets72@reddit
Seems to be the case across most industries and companies. It all can be traced back to corporate greed which results in massive cost cutting and piss poor working conditions for just about everyone as a result. And it isn’t even just an American thing. Many societal problems can all be traced back to greed, those in the top one percent are practically bottomless pits.
And then people wonder why those in the working class are disenchanted and no longer give a shit, as if it’s a big fat mystery.
tehbar0@reddit
Hoo boy have I been there
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
It's not quite what I was expecting but sure
Content-Dealers@reddit
Then yes.
sgtm7@reddit
I haven't been emotionally invested in a job, since I retired from the Army. In my civilian career, it was always about the money.
AcidReign25@reddit
I would say so. I have worked for the same company for 30 years (huge multinational company). Could have made more by going to competitors. But I like what we do, I enjoy my job and like the people I work with. We are a promote from within company so you get to know people pretty well too. I am a Director level. I have known our VP’s and SVP for years from previous roles.
rendeld@reddit
From 2012-20223 I worked for a 2200 employee global company that I loved and treated us like it was the 1980s. Great pay, great insurance, allowed us traveling employees to stay in nice accomodations and take more convenient flights despite the costs, conferences were held at a resort in Santa Barbara, company paid vacations to Bali, Thailand, etc. for anyone that simply met goals. I was incredibly invested in that company. Them the owner died and his wife sold it to a PE company and I got let go because I made too much money. I was incredibly emotionally invested in that company. When partners that I worked with would try to fuck us over I would get personally offended. I knew it was a great place to work and I knew it wouldn't last unfortunately. Greatest job I'll ever have
DrJamsHolyLand@reddit
And I bet it was a successful, profitable company on top of being a great place to work…until PE came in, made the employees miserable and ran the company into the ground…am I right?
rendeld@reddit
Well, it depends on what you mean by successful, we had $300,000,000 in annual revenue when I started working there, and by the time I left a decade later.... We had $300,000,000 in annual revenue. The owner was perfectly happy to just stay where we were, it was profitable, and he took care of the employees. In that way, it was very successful because he wanted what was best for all of the employees. He was loyal to a fault to bad employees and management, but it created a good atmosphere in the company. Since the sale a few years ago the employees are far less happy, there are far fewer of them, but the annual revenue is at $500,000,000 now. The company was not without it's problems but I think the owner was more concerned with improving the lives of the 2200 employees than and focusing on small gains in profit margins vs aggressive growth. It was essentially a husband (CEO) and wife (president) owned company and after he passed she had no desire to keep running the company, so I don't blame her for selling to PE, every employee had stock in the company through profit sharing so we all made bank on the sale too. PE made some necessary changes to fix systemic company wide issues that the owner could never have made because of his loyalty to the employees, it was like the last company that didn't try to squeeze profits from cost cutting.
So to answer your question it was a bit of a mixed bag as far as success goes depending on what your measure is, I work for a partner now and when I meet with the people that stayed we always reminisce about the good times and how good we had it. The owner (who knew me by name because that's the kind of person he was) would be incredibly happy to know that we look fondly on the time he ran the company. RIP Karl
Cheap_Coffee@reddit
My god, this is outright communism! In Capitalist America all financial graphs will go up and to the right.
/s
mdp300@reddit
It reminds me of one quarter where Apple didn't beat the pr3cious quarter, a d Wall Street freaked out.
They still made billions, it just wasn't more billions that the last quarter. Oh no.
ursulawinchester@reddit
Greed is good but growth is great 🙄 like not everything has to be bigger.
baalroo@reddit
The moment we heard that the last company I worked for "was going public" I turned to my colleagues and told them to start working on their resumes.
Once there are "shareholders" treating investment in the company like cryptocurrency instead of ownership of a service, the demand for perpetual growth will almost always lead to an eventual race to the bottom for employee happiness and retention.
That company got worse and worse to work for until it sold or laid almost everyone off as it collapsed.
Deolater@reddit
Kinda unsatisfying how there isn't a bad guy in your story
ursulawinchester@reddit
Different beginning, same ending for my story. I don’t love the term “emotionally invested” - I have always tried to compartmentalize my work life from my personal - but I suppose I was. I’ve always wanted a career I can be proud of not just because I can have a decent lifestyle, but because my work makes a positive impact in the world. And for the first few years it was great: generous benefits, strong values, collaborative environment with lots of growth opportunities, approachable leaders, and making a difference to top it all off…
Then it was sold to private equity. One by one all the old leaders left and the new bunch all had consulting backgrounds - but no industry experience between them (it’s a pretty niche industry). They never talk about the mission, only about utilization and profit but somehow we’re not profitable anymore? Austerity measures, layoffs, mergers and acquisitions. It’s become a toxic, paranoid, siloed culture. And the worst part is that they gaslight employees into acting like nothing has changed.
I’m planning to take a week of vacation later this year not to travel anywhere, just to apply for jobs. I’m so miserable. I’d love to be emotionally invested in a job, it made me better at the work.
neronga@reddit
I work on videogames and it’s always nice to see when they get a positive reception on release :) but I wouldn’t say I’m too invested bc I get paid the same if the games do well or not and if it’s something I’m not interested in I don’t even check the reviews
Beautiful_Tap5942@reddit
Life lesson I learned from a supervisor. You dont do work for a company, you do work for your resume. At the end of the day you can be fired or let go. The only thing that will matter is what you did at the company. Unless you are an equal partner, you owe no loyalty to them.
Both_Painter_9186@reddit
I work for the US Government. Most of us are emotionally invested. So when Trump, Musk, DOGE, or your dumb drunk uncle who assumes we’re just a bunch of lazy DMV employees go after us- we take it kinda personally.
LoudCrickets72@reddit
I'm sure most people who join the government are the kind who actually want to make a difference and be a positive force in society. But on top of all of the red tape and bureaucracy making your job a nightmare (as always), now you have an administration that has given you all the middle finger. Now the government is no longer considered a "safe and stable" option for a career.
You're not in it for the money and yet you get screwed.
When the government becomes a place where the best and brightest don't want to work, we will see the quality of our government get worse and worse.
Wobbly_Wobbegong@reddit
Yeah I think this question is super industry and context dependent. I can’t speak for others outside the biomedical research field but generally people take significant pay cuts to work in government or in academia (at a university). Funding is always up in the air, you’re writing grants and money is tight. Working for a biotech company, researchers are paid much better and don’t worry as much about funding but have more constraints.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
Yeah I can see why you might get emotionally invested in your government
Persis-@reddit
I’m sorry you have to deal with all the current nonsense.
LoudCrickets72@reddit
Unfortunately, yes. It's in my nature to actually give a shit about what I do and the quality of work I perform. However, I have fallen into the trap of caring way too much. If you get emotionally invested and really go "above and beyond" at work, you're just going to burn yourself out.
I've learned the hard way that a corporation sees you as a number, they don't care about you. And getting emotionally invested in problems that you didn't create, and have been made so convoluted to the point of being lost causes, is not worth your sanity.
crafty_j4@reddit
I’ve only worked for smaller to medium family owned/operated companies. I was only emotionally invested in the first one, but they paid me like crap. Months after I left, they threatened to sue for going to work for a competitor, which I told them I was doing before I left. Never again.
El_gato_picante@reddit
emotionally invested?
elvensnowfae@reddit
I was. I had a job where my coworkers truly felt like a work family. We all got along and respected each other. Traded shifts often and shared lunches. My manager was the kindest worker I’ve ever met. Every time I asked for a raise he'd give me one and even gave me employee of the month for working so hard. He'd buy us sodas and have cookouts all the time for us. Even get us a goodbye cake when employees would leave.
10/10 boss who I respect and miss. I hope he's doing well and his new store is succeeding well. They deserve it.
Dazzling-Climate-318@reddit
No, not at all and neither did my coworkers or supervisors. We were professionals, passionate about the work we did and proud of it, but that’s about it. People came, people left, promotions occurred and while there were by the end when I retired there were some old timers, but only a handful.
I remember in High School one of my classmates who was a cheerleader commenting about the cheerleader s from another school she met and how weird she thought they were because they took their roles seriously and cared about the football game. The other cheerleaders in our class agreed it was weird and some of the football players agreed it was the same with other schools players and coaches. Our school had a hard time filling out its roster as few wanted to play. Those that did generally played stoned as opposing players were typically bigger, stronger and faster. And why didn’t my classmates care about a sport they were involved with, why was it just a casual past time, because it didn’t mean anything, academics and college meant something, getting out and to someplace not dying and having a good life was what was important. My classmates were tough kids who didn’t put up with much of anything and even the dumb ones were smart enough to not buy into someone elses dreams.
My coworkers were the same way. If they got hired, a difficult process as we always had more applicants than they would hire because my employer paid better and had better benefits than competing employers, they had a full year as probationary employees and the work was demanding, so demanding people quit during training and during probation, but they also would up and quit because they couldn’t take their work any longer. I had a coworker who quit without a new job after 14 years. We also had a lot of employees die, so much that when we moved into a new building we asked about having a wall of remembrance and were told no, it would scare off new hires and hurt our retention. And why was it so hard, no overtime, work expectations which could not be met typically within 40 hours, no one covering one’s workload unless it was an Emergency and the barely doing so, limited Supervisory assistance, etc. They were a high quality employer, they hired competent people and worked them hard. People who didn’t put leave sometimes came back and it wasn’t unusual for their coworkers to not notice they were gone, sometimes for several years.
So, no loyalty to the organization. They paid us well, we worked hard. For some it was a stepping stone, for none a refuge, and it was common knowledge that if a person was willing to relocate to a different city or state and they could get a better job they would be gone after putting in their notice. As I said I knew a couple that came back after having relocated because the new employer didn’t pay well enough. And we had a lot of overqualified employees as well, at least one who had been a practicing attorney another with a Ph.D. and a long history of upper level management. Many had Masters degrees, including MBAs, To get new employees my employer partnered with a National University to have paid internships of some of their Masters level students; if they did well enough they would be offered positions, not all were. My employer also hired veterans, former cops, teachers and a variety of people with professional experience. And never anyone without at least a year experience in the field and preferably more, plus written professional references were required.
Basically my employer hired smart capable people who had never been significantly unemployed in their lives and who instead could and did pick and chose where they worked and who they worked for.
Rubycon_@reddit
No. I try to do enough so they'll keep me around. I really don't give a shit
gdubh@reddit
Others more so than I. But I fake it well enough.
MetalEnthusiast83@reddit
lol Jesus no.
If they closed tomorrow, I would be moderately annoyed because job hunting stinks, but I would just get a new job.
MossiestSloth@reddit
I'm a school janitor, I'm not ad invested as the teachers are. But that's why I wouldn't be cut out to be a teacher.
seattlemh@reddit
Lol, no. I'm there for money.
Kooky_Possibility_43@reddit
A little. But hear me out.
I moved 600 miles three years ago to take a job with a large multinational. I won't use their name, but you probably have products from this company in your house (but nothing I made personally, as my division does not make consumer products).
About six months ago, it was announced that my division would be spun off to form a new, smaller company, and will not be part of the large corp anymore.
I accepted this job based on branding, and size of company, among other factors. That size afforded many benefits, which may or may not translate over to the new company. So I feel a little betrayed. We are talking about my ability to provide for my family here.
gothiclg@reddit
I worked for a restaurant because I really liked the man who would one day inherit the business. When he died of Covid before that inheritance happened I quit.
kamakazi339@reddit
I couldn't care less for the mega corporation I work for as long as they pay me. They are moronic
Comediorologist@reddit
I work for the government, and many of my colleagues earned a Masters or Doctorate to do what I do. So yes.
Several_Bee_1625@reddit
I’d like not to be, but I have to admit that I am.
YoshiandAims@reddit
I have with some, not with others. I think it came down to a lot of little factors that left me feeling connected to the work, or the people I worked closely with, even the community. Most people I know have similar experiences nothing too extreme... generally.
But, I've also known people that literally took vacation to see " corperate headquarters" in another state...
weeziefield1982@reddit
I am invested in the fact I want to keep my job. It’s a good company and I like the people.
Oceanbreeze871@reddit
I’m invested in getting a good paycheck. I don’t even fully understand what my company does. lol.
whats_a_handle@reddit
I could not care less about my mega companies success. If anything happens I will go work for another mega company. What matters to me is the things at work that impact me and my reports daily lives
Hollow-Official@reddit
Absolutely not. Work is a means to an end, and nothing more. I am occasionally invested in my coworkers, but only if they’re particularly interesting.
ca77ywumpus@reddit
I used to be. I worked for a public library, so I was pretty invested in the mission of bringing media & literacy to everyone. But passion can't pay the bills, and the management made us feel like we should be thanking them for continuing to pay us, even as we filed for SNAP benefits and Medicaid.
Now I just have a job. I show up, do my job and I'm polite and professional to my colleagues. But I'm just here for the money. The moment I clock out, I stop thinking about it.
KrazySunshine@reddit
I was emotionally invested in my friends at work, not the company
59chevyguy@reddit
I do. It’s my company.
DontBuyAHorse@reddit
I work for a large company so I don't have a major sense of loyalty or emotional attachment to it. I have good benefits, pay, and I like my flexibility, so I have a sense of mutualism in that I'll do a good job because I appreciate that I am provided for.
However, I have a great small organization where my entire line of leadership started as my peers and I do feel a strong sense of camaraderie. I will say that there is a bit of emotional investment in that. We thrive by being really dependable to each other and I just like the people I work with. It legitimately bums me out when anyone on my team changes organizations or goes to another job.
cryptoengineer@reddit
I always worked for big corporations, as a SW engineer.
No, not emotionally invested. I worked for a paycheck. I'd have done better if I'd changed jobs more frequently, but that's a lot of work.
MastiffArmy@reddit
Not at all! But I tend to work for giant corporate beasts. I am literally only in it for the paycheck, benefits, travel perks and somewhat interesting job duties. The end. I don’t care about the company on an emotional level.
One-Warthog3063@reddit
No, never have, never will. My employer will discard me in a heartbeat if I screw up or become redundant, so I view them the same way.
jessper17@reddit
When I was younger I did but, in the last 10 years, that hasn’t been a thing for me.
qu33nof5pad35@reddit
Absolutely not
shabamon@reddit
I worked for a startup mobile app for about a year and a half and though the hours and work were intensive it was the most personally fulfilling job I've ever held trying to get something new off the ground.
I'm a government contractor now and mostly work from home. I like being mostly left alone to my deadlines by both the government and employer side. No BS "culture" expected to buy into or corporate social events I'm obligated to attend. As a hyper introvert I tend to resist those kinds of scenes.
Distinct_Chair3047@reddit
Hell no. We're treated as disposable equipment and yet we have a problem with finding people to hire.
Clean_Old_Man@reddit
I was more invested in my coworkers than I was the company.
BreakfastBeerz@reddit
I spend almost 25% of my adult life there and it is the only significant contributor to my financial health and well being. I don't see how I couldn't have an emotional investment into it.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
That's an interesting perspective.
Of course my employment sustains my life on a financial level altho I guess I consider it as primarily transactional
BreakfastBeerz@reddit
I'm going to spend 25% of my life working....I'm not going to waste that by falling into the trap of perceiving it as transactional. It really is a choice you can make....take pride in your work and strive for the success of what your labor yields. There's no other way to get any fulfillment out of it and I refuse to to not get any fullfillment out of my work. And yes, sometimes that requires some psychological gymnastics.
Years ago (probably 2002 or so) my company went through a major buy out and we all knew things were going to change. We didn't know if it was going to be for the worst or for the better, but we knew it would change. My manager gave us all a copy of a book called, "Fish: A proven way to boost morale and improve results". The book follows a staff of fishmongers in the Seattle market strip. The author observed how dirty and grueling of a job they had....it was gross, dirty, people shouting and yelling at them from all angles, they had to duck as fish were thrown from counter to counter.....despite this, all of the fish mongers seemed happy and enjoying their job.
The book, which is a very quick read, goes on to some interviews and some self-realizations which ultimately fall back on the simple principal that you are in charge of your own attitude. It doesn't matter how much things may suck....you can choose to find a way to make it positive or you can sit back and sulk. That book has stuck with me through my 25 year career and I've provided it to all of the people that have reported to me over the years. "Choose your attitude".
Long story short....take pride in what you do, be emotionally connected to your work, and find a good way to thrive off of it. There's no need to just walk in, punch a clock, work, punch a clock, and go home. Make that time worth something to you.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
I think you can take pride in your work without an emotional investment in the company.
I make sure I deliver decent quality work and I'm not actively trying to screw over the company or anything
But the company I work for is clearly an inhuman machine of sorts and I don't see how I could be emotionally connected to it. Any and all communication from the top about mission or whatever feels insanely hollow
I guess some people clearly can here, anyone I've interacted with from the US teams are really emotionally invested
Akito_900@reddit
Yes, I work for a fortune 50 company and am way too emotionally attached. Driving home just yesterday I was telling myself that anything I think about work needs to stay there when I go home, but it doesn't matter.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
Do you dislike your attachment? Do you find it getting in the way of your home/social life?
Akito_900@reddit
I'm just a single guy with a small friend circle, so it's kind of my "only thing" which is part of the problem
Pleasant_Studio9690@reddit
No. I work at a large American conglomerate.
captainstormy@reddit
Nah. I'm basically a mercenary. I write software and administer systems for money. Much like a mercenary in a war, I'll switch sides in a heartbeat for a better compensation package (which isn't just money, but money is the biggest part).
I have zero emotional investment in corporations.
Weightmonster@reddit
Company no, work yes.
Weknowwhyiamhere69@reddit
No. They are one of the reasons the U.S. is the way it is with the shit medical system.
Learningstuff247@reddit
When I worked for big corporations no. When I worked for smaller companies that treated me well yes.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
For these smaller companies would you say any emotional investment was an extension of investment in individual people at the company?
Learningstuff247@reddit
Yes, but also the mission of the company aligned with my personal ideals more
callmeKiKi1@reddit
Speaking as a person who has worked for 30 years at a small family-owed store, yes, you become emotionally invested in both the company and the others there. You basically know everything about everyone, and are at least slightly invested in what goes on with them. There are always those few people who come and go quickly who you never connect with, and there are a few who make it clear that they don’t have any emotional investment with anyone, despite being there years.
SumpCrab@reddit
If you're at a small or even medium-sized company, you kinda need to be. If the business starts slowing down, that means your job is in real jeopardy. So, if you find yourself in a position where you are treated fairly, you have to be invested one way or another.
TheButtDog@reddit
I was emotionally invested until I realized I was surrounded by people who weren't
xczechr@reddit
Nope, and I've been here for decades.
BunnyBree22@reddit
Very smart they tried to get rid of my mom 2x despite her winning best sales in the region more than once. I’ll never understand the criteria when companies try to get rid of people. Make sure your resume is always ready to go.
BunnyBree22@reddit
Absolutely not because I know even a company that is great and treats me well would push me off the boat and beat me over the head with the life boat. Companies love getting rid of people no matter how hard they work, their loyalty, specialty, any helpful suggestions etc. I am invested in my loved ones and my hobbies.
Noobitron12@reddit
I Work at an Aerospace Company, We manufacture Aircraft turbines for commercial and military, and even SpaceX. We are surrounded by fast food and Walmart, and there isnt much else in the town. Alot of small local businesses
Surrounding areas have the big Steel Mills, Im making a comparable income to the Steel Mills. but without the health hazards,
But Still Fuck this place and their upper management. Im there for me and a paycheck, Zero Emotional investment. But it doesnt effect my performance. Im still good at what I do.
Big_oof_energy__@reddit
I’m a teacher and I’d say we’re all emotionally invested. Some to an unhealthy extent. You have to be to survive in this career.
papercranium@reddit
Kind of? I think we make good products overall that I stand by, and I think we're less evil on average than a lot of companies. It's still part of the capitalist hellscape though.
I'm literally invested as well, my company stock way outperforms my 401k interest rates.
baalroo@reddit
Not really, no.
At my last employer a lot of people were, and it was a very unhealthy and volatile work environment (and the company nearly imploded) because of it.
Work is work. You should take it seriously, have respect, empathy, compassion, and consideration for your fellow employees, and generally do your best to help row the boat towards a shared vision of success. But you shouldn't become emotionally invested in the work. That rarely leads to anything positive long-term IMO.
ParkMan73@reddit
I work hard at my job and certainly try to have an impact. I'll work evenings, weekends, and so on when there is important work to do. So I'm a sense, yes I'm invested and want to contribute.
That said - I'm not emotionally invested in the company. I don't wear clothes with the logo. I don't talk up my company with friends and family. Some day when I leave I won't really miss the company.
Meilingcrusader@reddit
Lol no I hope they go bankrupt
moonwillow60606@reddit
Yes. But I’m picky about where I work and part of my job centers on having an emotional connection to the company and coworkers.
I’ve had an emotional connection to coworkers just about everywhere I’ve worked
The worst place I’ve ever worked was in a family business. Most evil, unethical people I’ve known.
Valuable-Election402@reddit
I work in education so I think almost everyone is emotionally invested but I try to be more invested in the work itself than the company. sometimes it's hard, I was raised under the idea that being loyal to a company will pay off but that's not true anymore.
Aggravating-Shark-69@reddit
Well, considering I own the company, yes
JamesAtWork2@reddit
I used to work for a big corporation that was founded and HQed in my city. I wont lie, I got somewhat invested. It helps that it was a great job, and they were always sponsoring local things so their name was everywhere. Additionally, my dad worked for the same company when I was a kid and I had super fond memories of going to to work with him.
iconsumemyown@reddit
Not at all.
justkeepitkindaclean@reddit
No. Even smaller companies inevitably go bad and do horrible shit to their employees.
Befriend your coworkers who are good people and put in the absolute minimum at your job to maintain your lifestyle.
Cheap_Coffee@reddit
In my industry (software) people switch jobs every 2-3 years. That doesn't breed emotional investment.
xialateek@reddit
Yes because it’s an arts nonprofit and the first time I’ve been able to work full time in years without my mental health hitting a breaking point. I would still like to have a job in six months but thanks to federal cuts and a general culture of apathy if not outright disdain for the arts we’ll fuckin’ see!!! I’m sure we’ll get labeled a terrorist org at some point for bringing in diverse artists from around the world.
ThrowawayMod1989@reddit
While I’m at work sure. I don’t think about it on my off time though. Good balance. I maintain a golf course with three other guys. It’s hard not to be at least a little emotionally invested in it, we take better care of course property than we do our own homes. I’m in before the sun every day, rain or shine. I love to see people enjoying the place we work hard to make playable.
But god help you if I catch you damaging one of my greens. I will be as mad as a hornet. I will be hot.
dorv@reddit
To a certain extent. I like what I do, and I want to do it well.
El_Polio_Loco@reddit
My current company, no, not in the least.
But I've had jobs where I felt invested. Usually when the company closely aligns with my personal hobbies or values, especially when I've worked in defense.
But I always keep myself at a little distance, I know it's a transactional relationship at the heart of it.
crippling_altacct@reddit
I think I'm emotionally invested because of the people running my company. I work for a small subsidiary of a major corporation. Its the best of both worlds to me. I get the security and benefits of a big company but the freedom and flexibility of a small one. I get a lot of leeway to pick and choose my projects and have gotten to do some pretty cool things that have positively changed the direction of our company.
It is kind of hard to not get emotionally invested. I'm having fun doing this stuff and have built up a lot of credibility with the executive leadership team. They rely on me and I rely on them to keep the bonuses rolling
Watcher0011@reddit
No, it’s just a paycheck
DOMSdeluise@reddit
only insofar as I worry about my job when the company is doing poorly.
DrMindbendersMonocle@reddit
Well, I hope they do well enough that I don't have to worry about job stability.
terryaugiesaws@reddit
I work for Coca Cola. I am not emotionally invested in the company, but definitely financially invested in it.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
Coca cola has truly ingrained itself into society lol
penguin_0618@reddit
I don’t work for a company I work for a school. I am emotionally invested in my students and some of my coworkers, so yes. But I don’t care about admin.
bobbster574@reddit (OP)
Would you say you're invested in the institution itself? Or primarily the students?
Ok_Solution_1282@reddit
Not where I work. The turnover here is high. Most people are underpaid due to cheap ownership. Expected to work overtime or afterhours.
You're not really permitted nor allowed to advance beyond your department. I was always forced to either grow within the department or move on.
Have been here for 17 years. I am 37 now. Was promoted to Director at the beginning of the year. The transportation industry is demanding and rough at times.
I just don't see this company running optimally much longer though if ownership continues to be El Cheapo. We continue to lose long standing people with a vast degree of knowledge.
Everyone is of course replaceable. However, the question should be, "How long will it take to replace the knowledge you're losing per significant departure?".
I estimate years. Not days, weeks or months. Actual years. We're a three legged dog in my opinion. Cannot afford to lose anybody else in key positions in vital departments. Just can't.
Seeing two Directors and one Manager put their two weeks in over the past four weeks is concerning. Have also seen four other standard representatives leave since the beginning of the year.
We. Have. A. Problem.
OrdinarySubstance491@reddit
Working for small companies, yes.
Lunar_M1nds@reddit
I see a lot of ppl pretend to care bc now jobs want us to be even bigger boot lickers but nobody actually cares bc no company would give af even if we dropped dead on the job site. There is no worth our value in us besides being a cog in a machine so idc about my employer in any sense outside of me getting my paycheck. If I worked in some small mom and pop shop where the bottom line is community and not pushing credit cards then I’d probably feel differently
aceholeman@reddit
Nope, its just a job, you want me to sweep the floor, fine. You want me to sale a product great. You want me hang out after work. He'll no. Im not here to be your friend.
From time to time, I think maybe things are changing for the better.
Then im reminded Nope, a bunch of fucking Yes men.
I have a dipshit for a second line supervisor, and it gets worse from there.
I now decline evey meeting -
I set up rules in outlook that auto junk mail - his boss and above.
My emotional involvement is 0% to the company, I dont allow it.
Why do i stay? Im financially invested. Im paid pretty fucking well, to put up with it.
virtual_human@reddit
Not really, why would I?
ThePurityPixel@reddit
When I worked for other people, I didn't find myself naturally emotionally invested, and I was even surprised coworkers wanted to hang out with each other outside of work. To me, that still felt like work, and didn't enable me to wind down between shifts.
DepressoExpresso98@reddit
I work for local government so not technically a company, but also not NOT a company. I’m emotionally invested in the wellbeing of the city and citizens, but not terribly invested in my particular branch.
I would say my coworkers are split half and half. Some really believe in the mission of our branch and are totally invested (going to extracurricular events on free time, donating through raffles, volunteering, buying merch) and the other half are there to make their salaries and leave.
pantsuitaficionado@reddit
I’m a junior-ish partner in a large law firm. I’d say it’s complicated. I’m definitely emotionally invested in my clients. I’m emotionally invested in my firm, but I’ve had to create boundaries there. It’s been a struggle to transition from being everyone’s go-to associate to being a partner. If I spend all my time working on everyone else’s clients then I have no time to get my own clients. Which means I’ll never advance or have much control over my schedule.
Any large organization will take take take. And they’ll call you a bad team player for not letting them do it. It’s a delicate balance to avoid pissing people off while giving yourself enough breathing room to live the life you want and deserve.
Hot_Rock_9729@reddit
Ya kinda
ThePurityPixel@reddit
We kinda what?
Helo227@reddit
It really depends. People who work for small private companies that treat their employees well will be invested in the company. People who work for large publicly traded corporations who treat employees like property will bot give a shit about their company.
Persis-@reddit
Completely. I donate my time and even my money willingly.
I work for a small, non profit preschool. Ever since my children attended the school 15+ years ago, I wanted to work there.
I was hired 5 years ago. I love my job. I’ve gone in to take care of some things and not logged my time. I’ve purchased supplies for different art projects over the years.
I literally do not want to work anywhere else.
CaptSkinny@reddit
I'm typically invested in my work and the products that I help design and build, yes. And as an indicator of their success, I am pleased when sales increase or the products receive good press.
Hour-Watercress-3865@reddit
I'm emotionally invested in my company insofar as if it's doing well, I get to keep my job, and if it's not, I don't. A growing company that's doing well and making money means a more stable career and higher chance I get to keep working there. A failing company that is losing money and stagnating means they might "downsize" and I lose my job.
GhostOfJamesStrang@reddit
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.
CuriousExpression876@reddit
My first job after college taught me the lesson not to trust a company for anything. After watching the large family owned company in a rural area lay off people that worked there 20-30 years, I lost all investment in every company I have worked for since, including that one.
Many of people who were laid off had become so specialized in their roles that it took them years to find jobs, many ended up taking jobs well outside their skill set just to have income. They didn’t lay off people who were openly friendly with the owning family despite the fact that it was well known most of them underperformed at their jobs.
The people they laid off had been there for the company through thick and thin, helping them grow, working through their own family stuff but always being there for the company. At the end of the day they were laid off so the company could save some $$. It taught me that at the end of the day companies will always choose money over loyalty and the people that help build the company.
titianwasp@reddit
Incredibly so. I consider it a character flaw, because at the end of the day, we are all replaceable and this is an unreliable thing to emotional invest in.
My suspicion is that it’s my upbringing (Old Yankee family). Work becomes the foundation of one’s identity. Any other Protestant New Englanders here struggle with the same?
elvenmal@reddit
Nope. I’ve worked for large and small companies. Big corp and small employee owned. NPO and got profit. They are all just a job. I live in an at will state and know I can be fired for anything.
NPOs made me realize they exploit their labor force by underpaying anyone below c-suite.
healthcare just made me aware of how exploitative people are to sick people.
Big corp made me realize I’m expendable.
And small business tried to sell me the “we are family” which means I’ll guilt you while paying you not a fair share.
Everyone is out for money.
Crankenberry@reddit
Yes, but for the first time in my career which has lasted 20 years. It's a small startup hospice organization and management shares my same values and visions.
Every other company I have been a nurse for (including the so-called nonprofits) can pound sand.
I_Make_Some_Things@reddit
Nope. The only way I feel invested in a company is if I own enough of it to result in "fuck you money" when the company sells or goes public. If I don't have enough of a stake to get rich(ish), a company is just a company.
I very often feel emotionally invested in my team though. I build engineering teams for a living and when I spend a couple years building out a great group of people that absolutely deliver I do feel like I owe them.
MyUsername2459@reddit
Most of the time, no. At big companies, I know I'm just a disposable cog in the machine. . .they don't care about me, they could fire me for no reason and not care, and nothing I do will really affect the company one way or the other and no matter how much I cared about them. . .they'd never care about me.
It's been different in small businesses, and in some government agencies I've worked for where we were all working towards a goal of helping people and making a better world, and most of the employees were all working towards the same goals.
traumahawk88@reddit
I do, now. I switched employers a couple months ago. Finally got a position at a place I've wanted to work at for years. I'm proud of the work they do, and that I do to contibute to it.
Previously, no. I checked out when I clocked out.
Sad_Bridge_3755@reddit
Depends on the job. Are they new in a back breaking industry? Yeah. But they’ll learn.
Do they have a good boss with good benefits and decent pay? Sure.
Do they have a good boss with limited benefits and slightly above standard pay? Congratulations. You found the golden goose who will do the work of 3 for the pay of 1. Just don’t institute any dumb corporate policies intentionally burn them, because once you do, they’ll become like everyone else in the office.
stellalunawitchbaby2@reddit
At my current job, some of the employees are emotionally invested in the company. It’s education related, so idk, that makes sense I guess. I personally am fairly emotionally detached.
At former places, smaller places like cafes or bookstores where I liked the employees and company and product, I found myself more emotionally invested there. Or my last workplace was just a 4 person team hired for small stuff and I felt pretty emotionally invested there.
EffectiveRelief9904@reddit
As long as that direct deposit hits and the Bennie’s get paid, then yes
ParryLimeade@reddit
Yes. I work for a Fortune 500 company but we make stuff that benefits humans. Pay is good, we are well known in our area, benefits are good, good career growth.
killingourbraincells@reddit
Paralegal for a small firm, so yes somewhat. Personal injury defense so I'm not entirely invested in our clients (ins company, local govt). I bill the fuck out of them. We do defend a lot of small business owners though, so it's important to make sure they don't get fucked over.
Quadcrasher66@reddit
When i was a younger yes. But now absolutely not. The second I leave work i stop thinking about it
CPolland12@reddit
Yea because I work for an ESOP.
JimBones31@reddit
Mixed feelings: I'm proud of the part we play in infrastructure. I don't truly believe in the mission of the company and want us to be obsolete, I also appreciate the good benefits and feel comfortable here.
Old-Wolf-1024@reddit
Hell No
JodaMythed@reddit
I'm self employed so that doesn't apply to me but In most jobs you will get a higher raise by switching companies.
Most companies are a lot more slow to promote internally than they are to hire external people for higher positions or same position for higher pay. This obviously doesn't apply universally but does for enough jobs that loyalty to a company shouldn't be a thing, especially ones that have a "don't discuss your pay" in their employee rules even though it's illegal to stop people from doing that.
I can understand job loyalty but it often holds people back money wise.
Rarewear_fan@reddit
No because I’m not a stockholder or real leader.
I am invested in the quality of my work though, and want to make sure whatever I produce is really good and impresses people.
davdev@reddit
Myself? No
Others? Possibly
justwatchingsports@reddit
I have two jobs.
One I part own. I am emotionally invested in that one.
One pays me $20 an hour to bring people tacos. I would gladly bring people tacos somewhere else if that fails