The idea that a 16yo can't wholly consent to boning a 22yo is completely asinine. How old are the pornstars they're cranking to? If they'd crank to 'em it's a good goddamn chance they'd bone 'em too.
Lost my virginity to my almost 19yr old neighbor when I was about to be 14. Looking back it seems she had a thing for younger inexperienced guys. While it sounds fucked she spun it as showing me the ropes and she sure as fuck did. I came out of that with so much confidence as a teen and when I got my first gf less than a year later it went better then I could have ever imagined. Those "lessons" were a big help and she gave me some legitimate advice. This went on for like two months til she left state to start college.
Prior to that the concept of meeting a girl I liked and possibly being trash at sex the first time gave me a bit of anxiety. With my neighbor it was kind of a zero pressure environment and I got to see what worked. Before that my only reference to sex was HBO softcore and discussions with friends.
10/10 would do again and to this day I look back fondly on that experience. While it's technically "wrong", its not like I was unwilling or forced into it. Only downside is she seared a fetish for older women into my brain.
It's all perspective. She was young when looking back at it as at my current age, but at that age she was older and felt way older than me. You gonna sit here and pretend you didn't see 18yr+ girls as adults when you were a young teen? They felt like they were a lifetime apart.
It's not like I developed that preference a year ago. I gravitated towards it right after our physical relationship ended as older woman reminded me of that experience relevant to my age at the time.
They say sexual preferences are usually developed by early sexual experiences in men and I lean towards agreeing with it. Regardless it doesn't matter now as I've been married for many years and the only milf I'm hunting is my wife.
In Germany the legal system thinks at 14 you are able to make decisions about your sexual life.
Not every country has this 18 year backward thinking.
And even with 18 your brain is not completely developed but you cannot be bubble wrapped until 30.
No, its lower because of a loose definition of rape. If you apply the same definition that modern 1st world countries have the statistics would be scary, which is why they don't adopt the modern definition.
Looking at your post history and i only see videogames and other crap. So either you're a child yourself or you're a loser. In both scenarios your opinion is worthless.
My older uncle paid me a prostitute when i was like 15 or 16. Im not scarred by that, specially because by the time i said "HELL YEAH! I REALLY WANT THAT!" and i was in a age to consent. Im not saying this is a morally correct thing, but if the teenager want it, he is grown enough already to consent.
I think once the kids are ready they will figure stuff out amongst themselves and they mostly need to know how to read and respect boundaries and also how to read and respond to the signs.
sex is a big deal, otherwise everybody wouldn't be having it (and those who don't get to have it wouldn't be hurting so much). it's like going up to a starving kid and saying "eating food isn't a big deal, i eat food all the time and i think it kind of sucks bro."
My dad actually hooked me up with a woman when I was 16 so ti not be a virgin. I enjoyed it and even though I am messed up in some aspects I truly don't believe that has been the reason for any issues.
About 100 years ago, that's the way things were done. Usually it was an uncle or other older male that took the young men there so that the boys wouldn't see their fathers involved. The understanding was that if you gotta, do it here and leave the local girls alone until you want to get married. Low mileage women make better wives.
It's kind of different. One is someone using their own hand to get off to a video of sex. The other is taking their reproductive organ and shoving it in another person to get off.
Also we have to look at the risk aspect. Both porn and sex have addiction risks. Sex comes along with the risk of both pregnancy and STDs. Yes, both can be mitigated with protection, but it's still there.
In the prostitute case it's not like this is some random older woman they slept with. It was a woman whose literal job is to getting cock rammed in them for money. There may be some psychological implications on the teen like "why bother to find a gf and deal with a relationship for sex. That time with the prostitute was awesome so I'll just hire one when I want to ge laid".
Look bud, I canât enact my one world government if we donât have a healthy supply of school shooters to get that pesky 2nd amendment repealed. Legal prostitution would reduce that supply and make my job harder.
They are American it's legal in part of the US, why are they whining?
Sure it's not going to be allowed for anyone under 18 but that's because being a pedo is fucking disgusting and should always be shamed. I hope pedos go to jail and get a broom impaled into their ass.
There's loads of places (in america) you can marry your first cousin, and have sex with animals, does that make it ok, accepted, or moral? No. Its fucked up, and makes you a monster.
Sex with animals is indeed fucked up. The cousin marriage thing ehh, I think people can get away with it unless it's a repeated offense.
Reddit itself has had tons of iAmA's about siblings who were separated at birth or through some fucked father issue and married each other and even had normal kids.
Morally correct nah, it's also not morally correct to be hiring prostitues but those are the morals I live by and believe me when I say you wouldn't agree with all my morals just like I wouldn't agree with all of yours.
planning a family road trip, or more realistically, boarding a flight, so your son can legally bang a hooker is psychotic. it sounds like a bad comedy movie.
It sounds stupid but sex tourism is huge. There is a whole sub dedicated to white guys "serving" a tour in different countries for the purpose of having sex and finding a "old-school" wife aka someone who believes they are lesser aka they want a slave who acts like it's normal.
Also do you remember the movie Hangover and Hangover 2. The whole sex tourism thing reminds me of those two movies. Weird times.
Human biologists need to question the fundamentals of human reproduction. I suggest they are missing several things, that nature has tried to compensate for.
1) Only a fraction of people need to reproduce to maintain human population. These are the genetically best for this purpose. Others shouldn't reproduce, but need social mechanisms to make up for it.
2) There needs to be a LOT of non-breeding people. Infertile, too old, prostitutes, many homosexuals, etc.
3) The non-breeders need to be kept away from the breeders.
Fucking prostitutes is definitely extremely desperate and pathetic lmao. Imagine wanting to pay for something some other slimy/nasty mf who probably didnât bath paid for as well.
wtf, I do think there's a difference between legal and illegal prostitution, granted I think in both cases it's not a recreational activity for minors...
but since this is the internet on reddit and the internet on reddit is american, you guys would wildly benefit from legalising that shit. (especially since strip clubs already exist)
As someone who lost my virginity with a prostitute my older cousin paid me, i agree with OP. When i finished, i was just like "yeah, sex is actually just overrated af."
cocoelgato@reddit
Im adopting the term judeocapitalism when it comes to sex
ConsciousStretch1028@reddit
OP couldn't resist bringing it back to the Jews somehow
FarisG@reddit
I don't understand why you're pissed? I mean, that's 4chan. It's sort of the norm there to talk negatively about those people.
encrustingXacro@reddit
The đ§ use Capitalism to cause the decay of traditional culture after all
ASKS_REAL_QUESTIONS@reddit
>You should legally be allowed to have your kid molested
phoncible@reddit
The idea that a 16yo can't wholly consent to boning a 22yo is completely asinine. How old are the pornstars they're cranking to? If they'd crank to 'em it's a good goddamn chance they'd bone 'em too.
ArmedWithBars@reddit
Lost my virginity to my almost 19yr old neighbor when I was about to be 14. Looking back it seems she had a thing for younger inexperienced guys. While it sounds fucked she spun it as showing me the ropes and she sure as fuck did. I came out of that with so much confidence as a teen and when I got my first gf less than a year later it went better then I could have ever imagined. Those "lessons" were a big help and she gave me some legitimate advice. This went on for like two months til she left state to start college.
Prior to that the concept of meeting a girl I liked and possibly being trash at sex the first time gave me a bit of anxiety. With my neighbor it was kind of a zero pressure environment and I got to see what worked. Before that my only reference to sex was HBO softcore and discussions with friends.
10/10 would do again and to this day I look back fondly on that experience. While it's technically "wrong", its not like I was unwilling or forced into it. Only downside is she seared a fetish for older women into my brain.
echetus90@reddit
Funny though the concept that shagging a teenager would give you a fetish for older women
ArmedWithBars@reddit
What? No, my first experiences with an older woman gave me a thing for older women.
echetus90@reddit
Yes, and that older woman was 18 years old.
ArmedWithBars@reddit
It's all perspective. She was young when looking back at it as at my current age, but at that age she was older and felt way older than me. You gonna sit here and pretend you didn't see 18yr+ girls as adults when you were a young teen? They felt like they were a lifetime apart.
It's not like I developed that preference a year ago. I gravitated towards it right after our physical relationship ended as older woman reminded me of that experience relevant to my age at the time.
They say sexual preferences are usually developed by early sexual experiences in men and I lean towards agreeing with it. Regardless it doesn't matter now as I've been married for many years and the only milf I'm hunting is my wife.
rkoy1234@reddit
damn, dream come true. happy for you
AdeptnessUnhappy7895@reddit
That's amazing
rockerode@reddit
Brother what if I told you porn should be 25+
Cool_soy_uncle@reddit
Incomprehensible to the average gooner
ASKS_REAL_QUESTIONS@reddit
Porn has truly destroyed your brain.
Shmaynus@reddit
"kid" "molested"
ASKS_REAL_QUESTIONS@reddit
Check this guys computer ASAP ^
Shmaynus@reddit
>anyone who disagrees with me should be checked by the police
ASKS_REAL_QUESTIONS@reddit
Anyone who thinks a 15 year old isn't a child should absolutely have their computer checked. Finnish hospital ASAP.
CodSoggy7238@reddit
In Germany the legal system thinks at 14 you are able to make decisions about your sexual life. Not every country has this 18 year backward thinking. And even with 18 your brain is not completely developed but you cannot be bubble wrapped until 30.
We have assisted drinking of alcohol at 14 lol
coolest834@reddit
What's your rape rate again?
WWWYZZERDDDD@reddit
Run those numbers excluding native/ethnic Germans.
DrKoofBratomMD@reddit
Iâm pretty sure itâs lower than Swedenâs, which proves that brown people have been the real monsters all along
prontoon@reddit
No, its lower because of a loose definition of rape. If you apply the same definition that modern 1st world countries have the statistics would be scary, which is why they don't adopt the modern definition.
DrKoofBratomMD@reddit
Isnât that mostly only a problem again because of the browns
easterner1848@reddit
Oh yeah Iâm SURE brown people rape more than white people. Okay dude but youâre sounding pretty racist.Â
Mekosaurus_Rexus@reddit
Looking at your post history and i only see videogames and other crap. So either you're a child yourself or you're a loser. In both scenarios your opinion is worthless.
vlad_kushner@reddit
My older uncle paid me a prostitute when i was like 15 or 16. Im not scarred by that, specially because by the time i said "HELL YEAH! I REALLY WANT THAT!" and i was in a age to consent. Im not saying this is a morally correct thing, but if the teenager want it, he is grown enough already to consent.
cosplay-degenerate@reddit
I think once the kids are ready they will figure stuff out amongst themselves and they mostly need to know how to read and respect boundaries and also how to read and respond to the signs.
BigBadZweihander@reddit
Based honestly
BigEmoGothteddies@reddit
Guaranteed this guy watches interacial cuck porn.
VovaViliReddit@reddit
I guarantee you that the kid was unbelievably happy about this.
Jack-of-Hearts-7@reddit
Another day, another schizo psyop crayon drawing on the Tibetan Shadow Puppet Forums.
le_sossurotta@reddit
sex is a big deal, otherwise everybody wouldn't be having it (and those who don't get to have it wouldn't be hurting so much). it's like going up to a starving kid and saying "eating food isn't a big deal, i eat food all the time and i think it kind of sucks bro."
drebengolem@reddit
My dad actually hooked me up with a woman when I was 16 so ti not be a virgin. I enjoyed it and even though I am messed up in some aspects I truly don't believe that has been the reason for any issues.
aIhamdullilah@reddit
There's no legal solution to this problemÂ
Most people who suggest alternate "solution" will be a whole lotta of therapy talk and impractical bullshit.Â
Shagroon@reddit
Eh, look at Australia, they kind of nailed it.
DJThomas07@reddit
Sex before marriage is a sin kiddos, dont get that shit twisted! Abstinence is the best-inence!
EchosThroughHistory@reddit
This but unironically.Â
PM_NUDES_4_DOG_PICS@reddit
Peak virgin cope.
DJThomas07@reddit
It was a joke. That should be obvious. Retard.
Ozok123@reddit
I would rather make out with a shotgun
mischling2543@reddit
If it's that important wait until the kid is 18 and take him to Amsterdam. Still weird as hell to do that with your son though.
One-Pressure1615@reddit
Nah, just take him to Thailand, cheaper, and the rates of trafficking are both the same.Â
mischling2543@reddit
Amsterdam is only âŹ50 for 20 minutes and they aren't all Asian
urielrocks5676@reddit
And you can choose if they have a dick or not
sargrvb@reddit
Replace the word 'weird' with 'pedophilic' and I agree with you.
areyouhungryforapple@reddit
Surely you had a wonderful social life as a late teen
IHateThisDamnWebsite@reddit
Young white men biggest victims of judeocapitalism because girls donât like them.
Bane-o-foolishness@reddit
About 100 years ago, that's the way things were done. Usually it was an uncle or other older male that took the young men there so that the boys wouldn't see their fathers involved. The understanding was that if you gotta, do it here and leave the local girls alone until you want to get married. Low mileage women make better wives.
Far-Pause5890@reddit
Thinking parents should consent for minors is some predator shit
bronzewillis@reddit
I mean I once need my parents consent for like a school trip to the zoo
Chadwig315@reddit
Sorry you had to go through that, man. Hope you're doing alright now.
bronzewillis@reddit
Yup I can still remember the shit smell from the hippos
LDAR_Enthusiast@reddit
Please explain this to me:
How is porn okay while prostitution is not?
Porn - you touch yourself watching another man have sex with a woman on camera. The woman's face and body are exposed to millions of people.
Prostitution - you have sex with a woman in private. The woman's actions are private and behind closed doors.
Explain that to me. I never got it. Don't say "sex trafficking!" as it's extremely rampant in porn.
I have never been understood how one is okay and the other isn't.
One-Pressure1615@reddit
Neither are okay.Â
ArmedWithBars@reddit
It's kind of different. One is someone using their own hand to get off to a video of sex. The other is taking their reproductive organ and shoving it in another person to get off.
Also we have to look at the risk aspect. Both porn and sex have addiction risks. Sex comes along with the risk of both pregnancy and STDs. Yes, both can be mitigated with protection, but it's still there.
In the prostitute case it's not like this is some random older woman they slept with. It was a woman whose literal job is to getting cock rammed in them for money. There may be some psychological implications on the teen like "why bother to find a gf and deal with a relationship for sex. That time with the prostitute was awesome so I'll just hire one when I want to ge laid".
nikoll-toma@reddit
jews
RedditIsAboutToDie@reddit
Look bud, I canât enact my one world government if we donât have a healthy supply of school shooters to get that pesky 2nd amendment repealed. Legal prostitution would reduce that supply and make my job harder.
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LDAR_Enthusiast@reddit
Genuinely, 80% of my problems would be fixed if I had:
MaskedAnathema@reddit
No woman can act that well.
Linaxu@reddit
They are American it's legal in part of the US, why are they whining?
Sure it's not going to be allowed for anyone under 18 but that's because being a pedo is fucking disgusting and should always be shamed. I hope pedos go to jail and get a broom impaled into their ass.
prontoon@reddit
Legal â morally correct.
There's loads of places (in america) you can marry your first cousin, and have sex with animals, does that make it ok, accepted, or moral? No. Its fucked up, and makes you a monster.
Linaxu@reddit
Sex with animals is indeed fucked up. The cousin marriage thing ehh, I think people can get away with it unless it's a repeated offense.
Reddit itself has had tons of iAmA's about siblings who were separated at birth or through some fucked father issue and married each other and even had normal kids.
Morally correct nah, it's also not morally correct to be hiring prostitues but those are the morals I live by and believe me when I say you wouldn't agree with all my morals just like I wouldn't agree with all of yours.
Brussel_Rand@reddit
What are you talking about? It's only legal in ten counties in one state.
b3rn13mac@reddit
planning a family road trip, or more realistically, boarding a flight, so your son can legally bang a hooker is psychotic. it sounds like a bad comedy movie.
Linaxu@reddit
It sounds stupid but sex tourism is huge. There is a whole sub dedicated to white guys "serving" a tour in different countries for the purpose of having sex and finding a "old-school" wife aka someone who believes they are lesser aka they want a slave who acts like it's normal.
Also do you remember the movie Hangover and Hangover 2. The whole sex tourism thing reminds me of those two movies. Weird times.
TheIronGnat@reddit
Judeao-Capitalism
philmarcracken@reddit
the long lost abrahamic P/E ratio
ArmedWithBars@reddit
I've heard if you smear the blood of bulls over your door it will keep away margin calls on your shorts.
Jack-of-Hearts-7@reddit
Another day, another schizo psyop crayon drawing on the Tibetan Shadow Puppet Forums.
turret-punner@reddit
I'm gonna have to start collecting these, this is the best one I've seen yet.
pVom@reddit
Or, you know, teach them how to talk to and respect women. I lost my virginity to my gf at 15đ¤ˇ
CantGankTheCrank@reddit
Exactly. If you're 15 and gotta pay a prostitute to get laid your problems not just gonna stop there lol
Comfytendy@reddit
You know society is doomed when 300 pound âwomenâ think they are a prize
WendyLRogers3@reddit
Human biologists need to question the fundamentals of human reproduction. I suggest they are missing several things, that nature has tried to compensate for.
1) Only a fraction of people need to reproduce to maintain human population. These are the genetically best for this purpose. Others shouldn't reproduce, but need social mechanisms to make up for it.
2) There needs to be a LOT of non-breeding people. Infertile, too old, prostitutes, many homosexuals, etc.
3) The non-breeders need to be kept away from the breeders.
11freebird@reddit
So true bro, we definitely are at good fertility rates, diminishing that even more with eugenics will make that even better
NevGuy@reddit
Well I'm still impregnating your mom fucking nerd
M474D0R@reddit
bottom right nails it
kuzivamuunganis@reddit
Fucking prostitutes is definitely extremely desperate and pathetic lmao. Imagine wanting to pay for something some other slimy/nasty mf who probably didnât bath paid for as well.
MetalGearXerox@reddit
wtf, I do think there's a difference between legal and illegal prostitution, granted I think in both cases it's not a recreational activity for minors...
but since this is the internet on reddit and the internet on reddit is american, you guys would wildly benefit from legalising that shit. (especially since strip clubs already exist)
throw-away-8040@reddit
Why are you americans such puritans. No 15yo is gonna think that they were molested from having consexual sex with a hooker lol
vlad_kushner@reddit
As someone who lost my virginity with a prostitute my older cousin paid me, i agree with OP. When i finished, i was just like "yeah, sex is actually just overrated af."
LowOwl4312@reddit
TwpMun@reddit
He should move to the UK