We know the story is false because abusive people make up the stupidest goddam bullshit up to justify why their partners are leaving them.
It's always one sided dribble like this but if we had OP's wife posting we'd probably find out the chronic meth habit (well he is a chef), the fucking the waitresses in the alley next to the bin, the gambling, lies and punches (when she gets to mouthy) is probably more likely.
Because in research on abusive partners these sorts of ridiculous stories are in tun a key characteristic, especially how the partner is painted, ie selfish, self-centred, flippant, bordering on abusive.
Very few people take their partners to court to divide the assets simply because they want to travel Europe.
Especially when there are no kids involved.
The other thing is that the split of assets of childless couples is usually along the lines of who's income generated these assets in the first place.
So you don't automatically get 50-50. The split is based on what you had and created during the relationship.
As a social worker yep. Sure it happens like they say sometimes, but more often than not it's always sensational to bury the lead. Like if she was leaving and was done with his behavior he probably found out her next step was going to Europe and living life. Then he created the story of that being the initial reason to leave. It's mental gymnastics and it's almost always bs
Because (I can only speak for germany) they are not secure, as in a judge can pronounce them void if one of the spouses are severely disadvantaged of it, EVEN if both sides agreed to the prenup. Getting married just doesn't make any sense financially. Too big of a financial risk with too little advantages.
Where i live a family judge can and will throw them out if he/she believes any of the points in the contract are not taking into account new developments, meaning if even only a couple years have passed since the marriage and they are now older (less chance of new relationships), or either of them got a promotion/fired/new vehicle/etc since, to not even speak of children, dead family members like a parent of one of the partners (because they would lose support in the event of a separation) also come into play. Sincerely the only times ive seen a prenup even be used in my country has been by local singers, footballers and actors and even with extremely short relationships they rarely get their prenups upheld in court. Im sure there are countries where prenups do something but here they are not even worth the effort to write them. What some rich people with an army of lawyers, accountants, administrators, etc do is create phantom companies belonging to phantom companies belonging to and so goes the rabbit hole, so that in the even of a divorce they only lose a little bit, maybe a car
Marriage contracts solve practically all issues and you still get the benefits (shared bank accounts, tax advantages, more rights in certain countries blabla)
Dude I am not talking against being in a relationship / having a gf, just talking about the concept of marriage itself. All those things you listed, you don't need to get married for. You can have all of that already with a normal relationship.
Lawyers being as they are, surely they’d slather at the prospect of a long drawn out court battle billable at thousands of dollars per hour and encourage her to fight.
Or put it all into crypto to hide it all and then claim yoi have nothing because you gambled it all away. After the divorce finalized, slowly start to unwind the Crypto as to not spike your income.
Wants to “explore life” but can’t do it with her loving husband because what she actually wants is her holes explored by multiple men and possibly farm animals.
What you do is cancel any insurance you have to ensure she doesn't get a payout on anything. Then, burn down the house, burn down the restaurant, and then blow your brains out in front of her. Make sure to get blood on her face as you go.
Likely fake but it is a possibility, with that in mind when this shit can happen why even bother getting married? Even the prenups can get thrown out, and we’ll really on save on taxes.
Like you’re asking me to give someone the power to completely fuck me over and ruin my life, and you want me to just trust them with it? No.
Fr though, running a business is stupid and impossibly hard. Doing that is enough to turn anyone into a miserable fuck, and after 7 years, everyone wants to move on, even spouses.
Restaurants especially. It’s not uncommon that a couple divorces once a restaurant opens. It’s stressful and takes up all your time both physically and emotionally - especially the first 5 years before you start turning a profit (if you make it that far!). Most newer places I’ve worked at in recent years had groups of people going in on the endeavor so they share responsibility and lessen the load, but even then restaurants are not for the faint of heart.
I wish more people new the truth. I own businesses for 8 years now. It's insane. You never sleep. You never pay yourself. Valuation of a business is soul crushing, given the sweat equity you put in. Every problem falls on you and your employees treat you like trash and think your loaded. Its bad. We gotta rework the small business system to make it sustainable for the future. People in all countries are abandoning entrepreneurship in favor of franchise or working corporate.
whoismikeschmidt@reddit
why do some many women think that life has to be constantly exciting and fun? so many times women fuck their family over for the sake of having fun
Hattmeister@reddit
And this is a thing women do and men don't do?
QuickPieBite@reddit
Sadly, women do them more often... There are stats on that tell us harsh truth: they divorce men more often.
https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1dorajh/that_stat_about_women_initiating_divorce_70_of/
saketho@reddit
everybody wants to be the main character in their own drama show
Hefty_Commercial3771@reddit
Story is clearly false.
We all know this because OP is forever alone.
verbmegoinghere@reddit
We know the story is false because abusive people make up the stupidest goddam bullshit up to justify why their partners are leaving them.
It's always one sided dribble like this but if we had OP's wife posting we'd probably find out the chronic meth habit (well he is a chef), the fucking the waitresses in the alley next to the bin, the gambling, lies and punches (when she gets to mouthy) is probably more likely.
GrimmerUK@reddit
And why do you think OP is abusive?
verbmegoinghere@reddit
Because in research on abusive partners these sorts of ridiculous stories are in tun a key characteristic, especially how the partner is painted, ie selfish, self-centred, flippant, bordering on abusive.
Very few people take their partners to court to divide the assets simply because they want to travel Europe.
Especially when there are no kids involved.
The other thing is that the split of assets of childless couples is usually along the lines of who's income generated these assets in the first place.
So you don't automatically get 50-50. The split is based on what you had and created during the relationship.
romareborn@reddit
lmao stfu
thegraybusch@reddit
As a social worker yep. Sure it happens like they say sometimes, but more often than not it's always sensational to bury the lead. Like if she was leaving and was done with his behavior he probably found out her next step was going to Europe and living life. Then he created the story of that being the initial reason to leave. It's mental gymnastics and it's almost always bs
Iron-Fist@reddit
I mean he said he started a restaurant right there in the post
--Meow-Meow-Meow--@reddit
Anon will find a good husband someday… I have faith in him.
leaderofstars@reddit
Nope forever alone working the gloryhole
this-is-robin@reddit
Why do men still get married today? We get no advantage out of it, apart from some tax advantages maybe.
I_Automate@reddit
Why do men not get pre-nups?
this-is-robin@reddit
Because (I can only speak for germany) they are not secure, as in a judge can pronounce them void if one of the spouses are severely disadvantaged of it, EVEN if both sides agreed to the prenup. Getting married just doesn't make any sense financially. Too big of a financial risk with too little advantages.
jhm-grose@reddit
Can't you get a lawyer and have it notarized
Efficient-Sea-1983@reddit
Because women can claim duress and get it thrown out
cool_dad86@reddit
Where i live a family judge can and will throw them out if he/she believes any of the points in the contract are not taking into account new developments, meaning if even only a couple years have passed since the marriage and they are now older (less chance of new relationships), or either of them got a promotion/fired/new vehicle/etc since, to not even speak of children, dead family members like a parent of one of the partners (because they would lose support in the event of a separation) also come into play. Sincerely the only times ive seen a prenup even be used in my country has been by local singers, footballers and actors and even with extremely short relationships they rarely get their prenups upheld in court. Im sure there are countries where prenups do something but here they are not even worth the effort to write them. What some rich people with an army of lawyers, accountants, administrators, etc do is create phantom companies belonging to phantom companies belonging to and so goes the rabbit hole, so that in the even of a divorce they only lose a little bit, maybe a car
saketho@reddit
“its not romantic” but it is regarded
TadBones@reddit
Marriage contracts solve practically all issues and you still get the benefits (shared bank accounts, tax advantages, more rights in certain countries blabla)
GiannisGiantanus@reddit
they get forced to? women will pull an ultimatum on you eventually.
smokeymcdugen@reddit
Assuming you are shit at picking a partner:
Sex when you want Half chores or more done Meals made for you Not being alone Someone to play games with (mileage will vary on that one) Etc etc
this-is-robin@reddit
Dude I am not talking against being in a relationship / having a gf, just talking about the concept of marriage itself. All those things you listed, you don't need to get married for. You can have all of that already with a normal relationship.
PhantomCruze@reddit
OP can beat her at it by squandering all the money and assets by dragging out the divorce process and paying it all out in legal fees.
Propose that as the plan and her attorneys will say "yea if he does that, even if you win, there'll be nothing for you to get, settle now"
TastyBerny@reddit
Lawyers being as they are, surely they’d slather at the prospect of a long drawn out court battle billable at thousands of dollars per hour and encourage her to fight.
Yung-Dolphin@reddit
i think you mean salivate lmao
TastyBerny@reddit
I meant slavering in fact but spelled it wrong.
Lmao
Yung-Dolphin@reddit
huh i forgot that was a word lmao
funkmydunkyouslunk@reddit
“OP can beat her”
That’s all you really needed to prevent any of the other shit
sn4xchan@reddit
Not if they are doing it pro bono. If he spends all his money, she doesn't get any and then she is going to owe a debt she can't pay.
PhantomCruze@reddit
That's why you pitch it before making that the plan, so her lawyers will contemplate that bluff or not, not your own.
funkmydunkyouslunk@reddit
“OP can beat her”
All you really needed to prevent all this other shit
PhantomCruze@reddit
dpschainman@reddit
dumbass married a whitegirl.
trent_diamond@reddit
just sell everything first and blow it on drugs and hookers
Lazarous86@reddit
Or put it all into crypto to hide it all and then claim yoi have nothing because you gambled it all away. After the divorce finalized, slowly start to unwind the Crypto as to not spike your income.
trent_diamond@reddit
trade the crypto for gold
medney@reddit
Fake: anon was successful and got with a woman
Gay: Europe mentioned
right_lane_kang@reddit
Just wait until that child support hits 😭
Ciubowski@reddit
"love of my life"
leaves him
tracker904@reddit
Wants to “explore life” but can’t do it with her loving husband because what she actually wants is her holes explored by multiple men and possibly farm animals.
I dub this story F&G
stillmahboi@reddit
I feel like you need therapy if you immediately jump from 'explore life' to gangbangs and beastiality.
Maybe moderate the wank content a bit fam.
SpaceBug176@reddit
Then she can explore the world with her husband, mf. She clearly wants to get gangbanged.
stillmahboi@reddit
Maybe anon is just a bit of a wanker?
Idk feel like there's lots of reasons for divorce other than farm animal sex and gangbangs
SpaceBug176@reddit
If he's abusive its better to use that in court instead of "I wanna explore the world".
stillmahboi@reddit
Didn't say he's abusive it that he's annoying, maybe she just finds him annoying.
Just very strange to jump from that statement to degenerate porn.
ForumsDwelling@reddit
This story is fake you wanker
charcoallition@reddit
How dare you be reasonable in a green text thread
PlatformFit5974@reddit
Honestly i think it was satire
Markyloko@reddit
remember. there's always something anon isn't mentioning.
roundelay11@reddit
What you do is cancel any insurance you have to ensure she doesn't get a payout on anything. Then, burn down the house, burn down the restaurant, and then blow your brains out in front of her. Make sure to get blood on her face as you go.
PsychologicalClue865@reddit
"I want to end my shitty situation and continue on living and hope to find the love of my life and build a loving family."
THE GOOD ENDING
VitorusArt@reddit
themightyscott@reddit
Poor old Lenny.
benbwe@reddit
Tfw you just marry the prettiest girl that will say yes instead of somebody that genuinely likes you
full_knowledge_build@reddit
Anon wants to end his???? What??? Dinner? Gooning session?
FattyCaddy69@reddit
End his what?! Don't leave us on a cliffhanger.
BasicBitchTearGas__@reddit
His sentence
ForumsDwelling@reddit
*sentience
cat_pavel@reddit
this thread obviously
maresflex@reddit
Edging streak
SwynFlu@reddit
End his wife>!'s Minecraft world!<
FunnyRegret7876@reddit
His marriage of course. It's all right there.
ChoiceFudge3662@reddit
Likely fake but it is a possibility, with that in mind when this shit can happen why even bother getting married? Even the prenups can get thrown out, and we’ll really on save on taxes.
Like you’re asking me to give someone the power to completely fuck me over and ruin my life, and you want me to just trust them with it? No.
planetrebellion@reddit
Well Op should just ask candlej
PomaranczowyXD@reddit
i was raised in a broken and abusive household
soiboi64@reddit
Fr though, running a business is stupid and impossibly hard. Doing that is enough to turn anyone into a miserable fuck, and after 7 years, everyone wants to move on, even spouses.
eat_my_bowls92@reddit
Restaurants especially. It’s not uncommon that a couple divorces once a restaurant opens. It’s stressful and takes up all your time both physically and emotionally - especially the first 5 years before you start turning a profit (if you make it that far!). Most newer places I’ve worked at in recent years had groups of people going in on the endeavor so they share responsibility and lessen the load, but even then restaurants are not for the faint of heart.
soiboi64@reddit
I wish more people new the truth. I own businesses for 8 years now. It's insane. You never sleep. You never pay yourself. Valuation of a business is soul crushing, given the sweat equity you put in. Every problem falls on you and your employees treat you like trash and think your loaded. Its bad. We gotta rework the small business system to make it sustainable for the future. People in all countries are abandoning entrepreneurship in favor of franchise or working corporate.
Topkekx13@reddit
i feel there might have been several things omitted
Hondurandictator@reddit
Why didn't OP kill her to stay with the house? Is he stupid?
Idiot_of_Babel@reddit
Met and divorced in 2 years
Lots of optimizations possible, nowhere close to TAS
AstroBearGaming@reddit
End your what? Your sentence?
You should totally end your sentence my guy.
Enes_da_Rog1@reddit
"I want to end my Netflix membership"
Vorrherschaft@reddit
Many such cases
outlawgene@reddit
What he wants to end is his fucking sentences.