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tworupeespeople@reddit

weird since poor people in general have more kids than middle or upper middle class people.

no shit a surgeon isn't going to marry a bartender but most women aren't surgeons. just settle down with someone who has a similar job profile

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That's because they get more Food Stamps and tax credits the more kids they have. Easy way to increase your effective income by just popping out a couple more screaming turd factories and letting the government pay for your new above ground pool

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FreelancerFL@reddit

I've seen decent women ruin their lives for a bum, a friend of a friend just got knocked up by some dipshit who's almost 100k in debt with no college to show for it.

Physical attraction is the key and most people either refuse to accept that fact or they're ignorant to it.

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StopCallinMePastries@reddit

Wow some random person you haven't even met is an exception to the rule I guess that determines the entire course of human history now

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FreelancerFL@reddit

She's not somebody I've never met, I've met her several times, I just don't consider her *my* friend the same way I consider our mutual a friend.

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

This is true as evidenced by all of human history and every single study done on the topic.

Yeah but I know this one women with daddy issues that dated a tall jacked guy who was rugged and did a cool thing but wasn't making a lot of money.

Yeah wow you're really goddamn stupid.

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StopCallinMePastries@reddit

The fact that anytime a widely known truth is discussed there are swathes of people scrambling to find a 1:10000 example to cope really shows you how deluded people are.

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Vampyr_Luver@reddit

I know an exception to that rule - a male auto mechanic who married a female optometrist

She was something else, though. Like, she was insanely bossy. 15 yrs later, stories still float about their wedding because no one on the groom's side could cope with her without copious amounts of alcohol

Unfortunately, that was only the beginning, and he came to cope with her with copious amounts of alcohol

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StopCallinMePastries@reddit

Here come the anecdotal fallacies...

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420CSE420@reddit

I knew someone like that too. His wife is a lawyer making well into six figures while he just works low level office jobs for a couple of years before being let go for low performance. From his complaints, it sounded like the wife controlled every aspect of his life and their relationship. The only reason he worked was to get out of the house, and he even said his wife "let him" work in the first place.

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kafkajeffjeff@reddit

to be fair id do that if i was the breadwinner to my wife.

if you dont both work whoever does makes the rules, not even trying to be egalitarian or anything but its just right

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Sharky-Li@reddit

It depends on the wife but sometimes they are resentful to the man for "not doing his job" because most desire a man to take charge. By marrying down they're settling and they lose respect since the breadwinner role has always been the man's job and person who makes the money usually calls the shots. This happens at a subconscious level so they may not be able to control it, it just gives them the ick plus her friends will comment and their opinion matters a lot.

If a woman doesn't respect you in a relationship she'll bully you and make life hell so both the man and woman are unhappy. If both are chill it can work but it usually doesn't work.

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ShitMcClit@reddit

Mechanics can make pretty good money.

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Vampyr_Luver@reddit

Definitely,

But he didn't - when they divorced, she got custody AND paid him

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leastemployableman@reddit

Mechanics make a lot of dough though if they are good at it.

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aj_thenoob2@reddit

This is all true but I feel I'd still rather be a man. You have ultimate freedom as a man. You can do and accomplish anything and get true praise without having to think if someone's saying it because they like you, or because they think you didn't deserve it or earn it.

You can go where you want at any time. You have a drive to master things and can build the strength to do it.

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mondo_juice@reddit

Yes. All true. We have our unique struggles as men. Self imposed AND societally imposed.

But fuck it’s nice, man. I’ve recently been dealing with my girlfriend not being taken seriously at the doctor’s office. They’re so quick to discount her feelings and experiences as “you’re just being dramatic”

But when I’m there to say “No, we have been dealing with this for years. We came here to get help, and you’re not listening to us” they too quick to order the blood tests that would have been “a waste”. Turns out my girlfriend fucking has Lupus and it’s gone undiagnosed.

LIKE WHAT THE FUCK BRO. FUCKING LUPUS. YOURE LITERALLY A FUCKING DOCTOR WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU MOTHERFUCKERS JUST PASSING THIS SWEET GIRL DOWN THE LINE BC YOU CANT BE BOTHERED TO SIT DOWN AND LISTEN TO A WOMAN.

I straight up didn’t believe the “healthcare is harder for women” until I saw it. I had to literally advocate on behalf of my girlfriend, or she would not have gotten the treatment she had needed for YEARS.

Kinda pulled the veil back way more than it already was. This is a man’s world. Men and women both suffer because of it, but men have FAR more privileges that they don’t even realize are privileges.

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RawketPropelled37@reddit

People have to push doctors to do their damn job, women most affected

That's just normal. Just because you're girl's a pushover doesn't mean "muh patriarchy". My own wife is a loud Italian and gets treatment for whatever it is she needs every time

tl;dr: Skill issue

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johnny_effing_utah@reddit

Exactly. Jordan Peterson made this very point years ago and the fembots came out of the woodwork to try and ruin him.

He literally helped many women become more assertive in their professional lives and they noticed a difference in higher pay, more promotions, etc.

Most women are naturally passive when it comes to confrontation and Peterson argues that in the primary driver behind the so called “pay gap.” Of course Peterson points out that the pay gap is non-existent too but that’s another post.

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GillaMobster@reddit

same, I'm a wimp, a male and the doctor just tells me to lose weight. I am pretty fat.

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Thelofren@reddit

That's exactly the problem? I go to the doc, just say what I have and then I get the treatment. A woman has to "be brash and demand and complain" to get the same result

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fourthwallcrisis@reddit

Unironically true. Learning to do necessary things for ourselves, regardless of our own nature or upbringing, is a requirement for living in any community, large or small.

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mondo_juice@reddit

You suck

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Slingbr@reddit

That’s just bad doctor bro.

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mondo_juice@reddit

It’s been bad doctors her whole life, bro. Because she’s a woman.

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Bum_King@reddit

Lol, I’ve known plenty of women who don’t have this problem. Maybe it’s just her.

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mondo_juice@reddit

God, you guys suck

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Luwuci-SP@reddit

Men like Dr. Gregory House should be ashamed of themselves

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SlowTortoise69@reddit

blows raspberry

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Immatt55@reddit

Wait until you understand that for every misdiagnosis like your experience, there is genuinely dozens of people just being fucking dramatic and not taking an advil.

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mondo_juice@reddit

Not saying those people don’t exist, but doctors are letting their patients down when they treat everyone like this. Doctors should operate in good faith with every new patient. Man or woman.

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biggybenis@reddit

Dude it's never lupus

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mondo_juice@reddit

Except in that one ep where it was for a second and then wasn’t again.

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Dapper-Tap-8322@reddit

testosterone is one hell of a drug

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cake_molester@reddit

That too

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kalispetros@reddit

It's not true, it's cope, well paid women 100% date broke men all the time OP probably too scared to leave his basement.

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

They don't. Look at marriage statistics and which partner earns more.

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kalispetros@reddit

55% of opposite-sex marriages, men are the primary or sole breadwinners.

29% of heterosexual marriages today, women and men earn about the same.

in 16% of marriages the wives outearn their husbands.

Almost half is same or under and it's rapidly changing, develop a personality and maybe work out twice a week it's not hard.

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this-is-robin@reddit

Nah. Sometimes I wish I were a woman because of much easier it is to find a partner. Cos like where tf do you find a gf as an introverted, average looking guy? Whereas women will almost always have the option to do Online Dating. It doesn't work for guys if you are not above average looking.

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Mekosaurus_Rexus@reddit

They had their own struggles bro. Being pumped and dumped over and over while craving love isn't fun. And then slut shamed and seen as low value because their body count is too high.

Incels and blackpilled guys picture this image of a girl fucking chads for fun and then looking for a beta to settle down. And there are actually girls like that, sure. But many others arent, and they get the pump and dump treatment because they're insecure and easily manipulable.

If course being an incel is way worse because they dont even get to experiment anything in terms of relationships, and thats devastating.

But as someone with close female friends, i can assure you they experiment their own share of suffering, rejection and develop insecurities. Like "why am i never enough". Thats not nice.

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donnydodo@reddit

Plenty of men are also brilliant liars. They are very good at convincing a woman they are interested in a longer term relationship. Creating the illusion of real connection and compatibility. Then once they get that one thing, they become flaky and indifferent to this woman.

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

Those men aren't brilliant liars or manipulating you. We all know the story, some of us have been that guy. Show up drunk at 3am, fuck her, eat her food, leave.

omg I love him for being 6'4"

You're stupid is the problem.

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LeagueofDraven1221@reddit

You guys are getting praised?

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igerardcom@reddit

His mommy praises him when he leaves the basement once a week to take out the rubbish.

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PurpleActuator6488@reddit

I think women have it better under 30 and men have it better over 30. Generally speaking.

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ThatsVeryFunnyBro@reddit

I think nowadays women have a lower skill floor but a lower skill ceiling, while men have higher skill floor but a way, WAY higher skill ceiling.

It's actually all balanced.

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jrasher8515@reddit

This isnt true at all, I know lots of accomplished professional women dating DJs, artists, unemployed skaters etc.

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TheBlxd3@reddit

How about a bald, 5'10, average looking 27 year old go kart track supervisor

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jrasher8515@reddit

Sure, if he plays in a band or has a passion he cares about. Hell 5’10 is taller than most women

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

This isn't true at all, I know lots of accomplished professional women dating guys with unique skill, guys with unique skill, guys with unique skill etc.

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SnooCompliments9907@reddit

Pretty chicks have that choice ugly ones don't

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

Ugly chicks have choices that even above average men don't

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WASTELAND_RAVEN@reddit

My neighbor 2 houses down is a dumb stay at home dad for his four kids while his anesthetist wife is out working everyday. It’ll be 2pm on a Thursday and he’s out there rollerblading and having a beer like a fucking ultra Chad with his kids.

I’m jealous as FUCK 😭

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technicallyanitalian@reddit

based

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vesuvious600@reddit

Sir this is McDonalds.

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Space_Obama@reddit

It's as simple as this.

A highly successful man can meet a girl that works at Starbucks and fall in love with her. All she has to do is exist.

But if it were the other way around he would stand no chance because he would be made fun of for working at a low-paying job and criticized for doing nothing with his life.

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