People who live by the sea, does the novelty wear off?
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I-am-the-end-of-time@reddit
The novelty wears off and it becomes a way of life. I moved from the midlands to the South Coast 25 years ago. I would highly recommend it!
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Are you retired now? Seems a pipe dream for me at the moment!
I-am-the-end-of-time@reddit
No, not yet retired. I get to look at sea views on my way to and from work, which is the type of thing I mean when I say it becomes a way of life. Keep the dream alive.
SentientWickerBasket@reddit
No, I like being by the sea. I don't like living too far from it.
It should be noted that it's a very different experience in the off-season, especially if you've been staying in an area with a heavy tourist industry. Blackpool, for example, is closed during the winter.
Apprehensive_Plum755@reddit
We went to Blackpool one year and arrived for the big final day (Gareth Gates in concert, or somebody similar). Got up the next day and everything was closed. Every pub, every restaurant, every shop. We spent the week watching channel 4 and eating McDonald's.
mattb2k@reddit
Should've gone to St Anne's or Lytham!
Visual_Addendum_577@reddit
We call St Anne's gods waiting room. Lot of old people
mattb2k@reddit
Hahaha tell me about it! I live in St Anne's š¤£š¤£
Chris-TT@reddit
That must have been a good few years ago. One of my businesses - previously Laser Quest when I first owned it, now Putt Above, an activity cocktail bar, is on the Promenade. Weāre open seven days a week, and every time Iāve visited (given itās a four-hour journey to get there from where I live, so I usually stay over), weāve had some great nights out regardless of the time of year. I must have owned that site for over ten years now, and have never felt the need, with whatās going on, to stay in the hotel watching TV.
Apprehensive_Plum755@reddit
Oh yes, it was probably 2002 I think. I must stress I loved it, but the change from one day to the next was incredible.
Visual_Addendum_577@reddit
The arcade you're talking about is coral island. I used to work there a long time ago. We were open on Christmas day, not only open but the same as every morning there was a queue of prolific gamblers waiting at the door before it opened.
Apprehensive_Plum755@reddit
That's it! It had pirates and skulls and treasure chests. Thank goodness it was open for us š
oatcakedick@reddit
Gareth Gates, now thereās a blast from the past. Went in the shop for a Mars Bar, came out with a bag of MnMās
Visual_Addendum_577@reddit
Blackpool born and bred. I miss the ocean if I go too far from an ocean I get home sick. That being said, you're not wrong about the depravity. The problem is many years ago, before mental illness was fully understood, the cure for a lot of these conditions (ADHD/depression/autism etc) was to get some sea air. This caused a lot of people with mental issues to migrate to the coast, have children and pass down genetic conditions to them. As well as these people, a booming tourist industry meant there was plenty of work. So again many families migrated to the coast to take advantage.
Fast forward a decade or 5 and now we are a town with city problems. High rates (highest in the country) of mental illness, and more people than there is work, especially because it's cheaper to go abroad than take a holiday in Blackpool, effectively drying up the tourist industry. High rates of unemployment correlate with high rates of crime (some of the highest crime rates in the country) and of course the tourist industry is struggling now, so what's the solution? Catering for stag and hen parties, building more pubs and clubs to cater to a different type of tourist. Notoriously big groups of alcohol fueled people tend to clash getting into drunken fights etc, further increasing our crime rate (this time for violent crimes - again we have some of the highest stats in the country for violent crimes)
All that being said I don't feel unsafe walking around, and I do love walking on the beach (I may in fact take the dog for a walk on the beach today). The ocean gives spectacular views and we don't really get too much snow or ice, because of the salt air.
Frosty-Cap3344@reddit
I have relatives who live in Filey (near Scarborough) and it's been totally dead when I've visited off-season, like only the basic services still operating, they told me there is a lot of drug abuse and poverty.
spamvicious@reddit
Filey is one of the places we go every year and love it. We went a bit earlier this year and saw a different side of the town for sure
Randy_The_Guppy@reddit
I was in Filey in March for a few days through work. Certainly didn't feel dead to me. There was a lovely trendy cafe place for breakfast and a great pizza restaurant too. I was surprised at how much was going on during the for March Scarborough too.
No_Association_3234@reddit
That's my favorite time, though. Summer, with the crowds, I avoid the beach! It's mine and my neighbors' in winter, though.
spectrumero@reddit
No, the novelty never wears off. Also, why spend money going to the Med when we have a really nice beach a 10 minute walk away? Sure, the weather isn't nice 100% of the time, but when it's a 10 minute walk away you can go there whenever the weather is nice, you don't have to be relying on good weather over a set of dates when you're off work.
Reasonable-Fail-1921@reddit
No itās never worn off. My childhood home where my Mum still lives has a view of the sea from what used to be my bedroom, and I still go into my old room to gaze out the window when Iām at my Mumās.
I only went about 4 miles inland when I moved out of home and I still miss the sea view!
Majestic-Relation-31@reddit
Iāve lived within 2 miles of the sea my whole life (53) Six different towns, I would miss it terribly. Iām currently living 150m from a Kent beach, I swim in the sea at least once a week. I feel so blessed šš¼
Gutternips@reddit
Your mix of imperial and metric measurements is very British.
I'm intrigued, what's your cutoff point when you switch from metric to imperial, 1000m, 1 mile?
Majestic-Relation-31@reddit
Lol Iām not sure š¤ maybe half a mile š
Shriven@reddit
Same - not being able to see the sea gives me an odd sense of unease.
My boss used to do our 1-2-1s in the sea, our office is so close to the beach. Glorious
blue-eyed-zola@reddit
Imagining your boss as John Cleese in full scuba gear, trilby, umbrella.
k1tkat86@reddit
k1tkat86@reddit
* Moved from the city to the sea 6 years ago and never get bored of the view.
Jacktheforkie@reddit
Itās ok but the gulls can get annoying because they shit all over the car
AubergineParm@reddit
The car is easy. Itās the 3rd floor windows that are the real bugger.
Jacktheforkie@reddit
True, but the gulls here poo pure acid
KaiCypret@reddit
The novelty never wears off. My living room window (and indeed the rest of my flat) is about 50m from the Solent, with a clear and uninterrupted view across a common and the promenade.
I'm looking at the sea as I type this from my desk. The sun has just dipped below the horizon I think. There were greenish and blue bands in the sea earlier, but now it's all just soft blue, gradually fading into the sky blue, which then fades to a pale peach colour as the sunset ends.
In the summer, at the weekends, I can sit with my window open, and watch the little sail boats and the occasional yacht wander past as I enjoy the breeze. I have a kayak, but my partner and I have only been brave enough to use it in gentle rivers so far. This summer I'd like to walk it across the common and straight into the sea - I think that'd be nice.
When the weather is right I can hear the surf, but I live in a town that is otherwise a fucking hole, and often the only noise I can hear is twats racing their shitboxes down the long, wide, straight coastal roads which run between my front door and the common.
Eventually winter comes, and then the sea is slate grey to match the sky, and it's often rough and violent. When the wind comes directly off the sea it *screams*, sometimes all night, for nights on end, and my living room becomes genuinely almost unsuable. The sound is almost indescribable to anybody who hasn't experienced it, but to anybody who has they will immediately know what I mean. I basically live in my bedroom (which faces north) for much of the winter - the noise is less there, but still audible.
The weather is so much more dramatic when you don't have other buildings acting as wind breakers. When storms get really bad I find rainwater creeping in under the sash windows and leaving little pools and trickles on my kitchen floor. Sometimes the wind is so bad I can feel it, with all the windows closed - it;s just so strong it finds a way in, and you can feel it even when sat at the far end of the living room with everything closed.
So that's the downside, and it is a bad downside, but I've lived inland - in rural areas, cute little villages, council estates, suburbs, and city centres, and I think my current situation is my favourite. The sea just makes me feel good in some fundamental way.
Solid_Bee666@reddit
I just want to say, you write beautifully and vividly. I'm guessing you live in Southsea - I used to live in Fareham and (if I'm correct) I know your area well. Even your 'downsides' sound lovely, when compared to the soullessness of the cardboard boxes that are new build properties. Pools of winter water are (to me at least) a small price to pay for the joy of throwing upwards a sash window on a summer evening. So much of the south coast architecture was destroyed in the war - it makes the surviving period properties so much more joyful. Thanks for sharing - you've really provoked some of my happy memories of my time in your part of the world.
WordsMort47@reddit
The pools of water wouldn't be a massive problem but I'd be worried about potential mould forming that could adversely affect one's health
mysterons__@reddit
That and damp.
Zillywips@reddit
I'm guessing probably not Southsea as they'd struggle to walk a kayak straight across the common and into the sea at the moment due to the sea defences work. Sounds lovely tho!
KaiCypret@reddit
All that's missing is a balcony!
Solid_Bee666@reddit
And a book and a glass of wine. Sometimes we lose sight of the beauty of Britain - it's easily done and understandable. But it always there if you look for it- and the OPs comment is a timely reminder of that.
J_Kendrew@reddit
That's too true. I think modern society has everyone so busy and stressed that it's easy to not appreciate the landscape we live in and the nature around us. For a country so compact the landscape is quite varied and if you can find the time to stop and take ti in, it really is great.
AlternativePrior9559@reddit
You are so right. Iāve been lucky enough to travel extensively throughout the world and it still remains one of the most beautiful countries
Cedar_Room@reddit
Lovely words. Bravo!
tobych@reddit
Your style reminds me of the little book "The Peregrine" by J.A. Baker. Werner Herzog's writing style was influenced by the book.
Stormstar85@reddit
I am overwhelmingly jealous right now.
owzleee@reddit
I used to live in Lee pool n Solent and the beach wasinites from our house. I spent most of my childhood beach combing, playing and swimming (Brown own was amazing for kids' adventures!)
ra246@reddit
Portsmouth/Southsea Common?
KaiCypret@reddit
Correcto!
Iwasjustbullshitting@reddit
My nan used to live in Milford on sea, got great memories of sitting on her balcony overlooking the Solent and the isle of wight.
Curious_Exercise_535@reddit
It would be perfect if it wasn't in Portsmouth /s (IYKYK)
hepheastus_87@reddit
Came here to say that, "a town which is otherwise a fucking hole" really solidified that I was right.
tmbyfc@reddit
TBF that describes a hell of a lot of the south coast east of Bournemouth
minadequate@reddit
I lived in Southsea for 3 years (Albert Road area) and I only walked along the water when people visited. Otherwise you kinda forget itās there half the time. I now live in a seaside town in Denmark and half the time I see the sea is because I can take a long detour on the bike and avoid a big hill by cycling along the beach. If you donāt live in sight of the sea you can easily forget itās there.
Avy_Wavy420@reddit
I thought this sounded familiar!!
Appropriate_Math_136@reddit
We're up over the hill, but having Farlington Marshes or Emsworth-to-Langstone as walks 10 minutes away is glorious.
Mypinksideofthedrain@reddit
Have you been around thorney island yet? One of the gates is closed right now but it's usually a great stroll.
BackgroundHorror3751@reddit
Was thinking the same!
cloudstrifeuk@reddit
Milton here.
Fully agree.
Odd-Kaleidoscope-644@reddit
But protsmouth is a shit hole!
cloudstrifeuk@reddit
Except it isn't is it? Has it got "bad" areas? Yes. Just like every other city in the UK.
Southsea is great.
in1998noonedied@reddit
I'm on the other side of the water to you! I love looking across the Solent at Portsmouth either day or night, it looks like an 80s city pop album cover from this angle.
tisbby@reddit
Your post is beautifully written. My dream is to live by the sea... one day I will
tcpukl@reddit
Does the sea air rust your car?
KaiCypret@reddit
Haven't noticed rust in particular, but there is a constant accumulation of salt from evaporated sea water. Even parking a couple of streets back from the front doesn't prevent that. It's worse in the winter, when the weather is bad.
tcpukl@reddit
Thanks. It's something my dad always told me when I was a kid.
KaiCypret@reddit
He probably right, but my car is 15 years old, so it's already more rust than car.
royhodgsons@reddit
Currently on holiday (by the sea) and my wife and I were reminiscing about our time in Southsea. Magical place and somewhere we are often reminded of when we go anywhere by the coast. Your words brought back even more fuzzy feelings so I thank you kind person
Comprehensive_Put_58@reddit
Stunning explanation beautifully said
idlewildgirl@reddit
This is beautifully written (and I'm very jealous)
InitialPound5069@reddit
You have a way with your words! Very well written.
Stopfordian-gal@reddit
Itās so true what they say when it comes to writingā¦.write what you know about! Love it !
xPositor@reddit
I'm imagining this to the tune of "Little Fluffy Clouds"
mJelly87@reddit
Totally agree with the bad weather. I live about halfway up the street from the beach. My home is pretty much 90Āŗ to the sea, but you can really hear it going down the street. And I've lost count of how many times I've stepped out the front door and almost got blown away.
8racoonsInABigCoat@reddit
Well this sounded absolutely idyllic until about 2 and a half paragraphs in, then it took a sharp turn!
savant_aficionado@reddit
This was like reading an excerpt from a book, cheers mate. Now I need to go to the seaside
MalfunctioningElf@reddit
That sounds like a beautiful view you have. Just to note, I think people go to the beach because they tend not to have the opportunity to experience what you experience from your window. That's certainly why I go anyway. It's peaceful and comforting, in the right circumstances of course. Not at Blackpool with grey skies and a load of chavs knocking about.
CaptMelonfish@reddit
We used to holiday in Amroth/Tenby when I was a kid, we'd go very late in the season, practically at closing and always catch the waves coming in and smashing against the seafronts. It triggered something in me.
These days we'll go to the coast in the winter on purpose, my wife being a cold blooded creature (requiring a sun lamp at all times) can only do short spells, but I'll stand in the icy wind with snow on the ground just soaking it all in (whilst getting soaked). That deep grey expanse lashed by the wind turning itself into fine spray as the sound of the waves vibrates your chest.
I always remember the chorus of Bamfields John Vanden by chris frye.
"And you might slip and stumble on the rocks at the shore And exult in the blast of the mighty wakeās roar But when you stand humbled by the oceanās door Then youāll understand just who I am Bamfieldās Johnnie Vanden"
dilla18crew@reddit
I grew up In Portsmouth my whole life and loved the beach , a lot of my childhood would be spent down there and a lot of memories all around southsea, it was the best childhood I could of asked for. I now live in a big major city away from the sea and I miss the beach so much, when I go to visit it I try to organise all my socializing with friends around that area.
You get a great sense of peace when your at the edge of the land, something being in a landlocked city you cant really replace.
Kitchen_Owl_8518@reddit
Not a native from Portsmouth but my first flat was in Portsmouth, I spent 2 years there in my late teens and still remember it fondly and try to get back any chance I get.
vintagefancollector@reddit
Your writing is top notch, the imagery is so clear.
BigCheesePasty@reddit
You wrote that beautifully
Abbiethedog@reddit
You write very evocatively.
nosuchthingginger@reddit
Please could you write a book or a blog about your days in your house? That was beautiful and real. Loved to bit about the local twats
beefcake79@reddit
I felt your words š©· Iād love to be cosy in winter in a place like yours I find comfort in the wind and rain
Quixotes-Aura@reddit
You write beautifully
SaltTyre@reddit
What a lovely, well-written comment
No-Age2207@reddit
Never!
Smaiblue@reddit
The sea doesn't. The seagulls do.
Apidium@reddit
It's not novel. But I wouldn't be inland. The air is not good there.
A bunch of pebbles and some waves are hardly some magnificent coast line. Least of all in winter.
The-Jelly-Fox@reddit
I've lived by the sea my entire life. Never leaving, not even for millions of dollars. Living by the sea is priceless.
Aphr0dite19@reddit
I live near the Solent, no the novelty doesnāt wear off. Itās about a 15 min bus ride to the beach for us and I canāt imagine ever moving and not being able to get to the sea. My town also has a quite nice harbour, that also feeds into local creeks, a few minutes walk from my house. Quite nice also.
AubergineParm@reddit
Not yet. Weāre getting back into dipping our toes in after winter. Still chilly but have got a couple of very quick swims in so far.
Waking up to the sound of seagulls is one of the most peaceful things you could ever hope for.
No-Photograph3463@reddit
Yes and no.
I live in Poole and love being by the sea for 10 months of the year. The two I hate are July and August where the place is full of grockles who respect nothing and trash the town and fuck the roads. Then it gets to September and most of the wankers go back home and it becomes a nice place to live again.
Triana89@reddit
Grew up in Weymouth and then ended up in Bridport for a good few years post uni. Oh god the grockles, I plan going back to see the parents around avoiding all school holidays and the main summer season.
I agree with the yes and no thing, I grew up with it so it was just normal and there but now I have had to head inland for a few years to do the career thing it's just a slightly wrong feeling not being by the coast. I don't necessarily specifically do anything to vist the sea while I am there beyond being in a costal village so can't go anywhere without driving along by it but there is just something right about it being there.
Sad-Huckleberry-1166@reddit
what is it about the tourists in Bournemouth? Maybe just the accessibility to london, but it seems to attract some right planks.
No-Photograph3463@reddit
Last few times I've been in the height of summer (admittedly a few years ago now) it wasn't just Londoners, but also Birmingham based on the accents.
It really didn't help when Harry Redknapp did some shows based in Sandbanks. That really spiked the wanker tourist numbers, with more than one person shouting out their car window whilst I'm cycling asking which house Harry Redknapp lives in.
pajamakitten@reddit
A lot of Brummies came down here in 2020 during the pandemic and have been coming back ever since.
pajamakitten@reddit
We are popular for stag dos.
danddersson@reddit
Ah, chill. It's fun to people watch in those months, and there is a lot going on. Money spent as well.
Purple_Quantity_7392@reddit
This is so true. We live by the sea, but also have forests & mountains. We get mobbed at certain times of the year, and I literally take for the hills & forests to avoid them. When it gets quiet again, I blissfully take my walks on the beach :)
RipCurl69Reddit@reddit
Same. Going to the airshow every year while growing up is the main reason that I learned to HATE littering and still do.
Academic_Economics12@reddit
I moved a couple of years ago to live on Morecambe bay, and while it is often greyer weather up here I wouldnāt move again. Even the grey days can have their own kind of beauty in a way, and we get some of the most spectacular skies here too. The hills of Lancashire and Cumbria are a stunning backdrop to the ever changing seascape, and on a clear day we see across to the Isle of Man. Iād never go back to being landlocked again.
dave_gregory42@reddit
No, I live in Brighton but grew up on near the coast in Hampshire. I never get bored of being near the sea.
Some people would say how bad it can be in winter but I've never experienced that personally. If the weather is really grim, you can also just... stay inside and not go to the seafront.
Middle-agedCynic@reddit
Am also a Brighton resident but don't consider that bunch of pebbles a 'beach'. Grew up in Blackpool with miles of sand for making sand castles and burying people. As a place to live Brighton is generally light years ahead of Blackpool, but I never go to the seafront itself.
levezvosskinnyfists7@reddit
I love Brighton beach in winter weather!
otherpeoplesthunder@reddit
Me too. I love the windy chilly beach in the winter when it's mostly empty.
Snoo3763@reddit
Brighton resident here too, came to say the same thing, no, novelty doesn't wear off. I love the beach in winter, you get a whole stretch to yourself, then when summer comes around and it's absolutely packed part of you knows that sometimes you have this all to yourself.
Weary_Judgment_9871@reddit
Iāve lived by the sea my whole life (52f) and it never wears off. I still pinch myself sometimes at how lucky I am living where I do. I couldnāt imagine not leaving by the sea.
Standard-Display-818@reddit
I moved by the sea side 5 years ago and it will never wear off. It's beautiful and peaceful. However my partner was born here and it doesn't bother him at all and it makes no difference to him. Everyone I've asked here either loves it (they are from cities far away) but Everyone who is born here, appreciates the beauty, but overall not particularly bothered.
SystemLordMoot@reddit
I live just outside of Bournemouth, my work office building is in the town centre. I'm only in the office two days a week now, but every lunch I take a walk along the seafront. The novelty of the open sea and the view of purbeck never wears off.
tempteroffate@reddit
Iām probably 4 roads from the sea and I donāt think Iāve seen the sea in maybe 6 months. I didnāt move here specifically for the sea, life just lined up that way. I imagine if I had kids or something Iād take advantage of it a bit more.
hannahproasheck@reddit
I'm from Portsmouth but moved to the midlands to be with my fiancƩ, and I miss the sea loads but the house prices definitely keep us up here haha
Dedward5@reddit
My answer is āconflictedā I live a 5 min drive from Godrevey beach in Cornwall which is about 5miles of sand. I havenāt been there for about 6 months.
That said every time to st Ives to drop my kids off for a thing, the view of the harbour is quite special.
Coralwood@reddit
I was brought up in a seaside resort in Northern England. Winter there was grim, rain came down sideways, freezing cold.
Frequent_Lifeguard27@reddit
Hey I live in Devon - Dawlish for a year (500m from the beach) and Exeter my whole life (25 years)ā¦
Pros: Mid-week sea swims are cleansing Sailing/windsurfing in the estuary Stunning coastal runs/bike rides My partner mackerel fished whilst I read books Amazing ice cream
Cons: Any coastal town is TREKS for commuting so best if you work from home (always adds 30 min onto any journey) Salty windows Beaches attract a lot of topless tourists š
free-the-imps@reddit
Been living 5 mins from the beach for nearly a year now. There hasnāt been a week when I havenāt walked along the shoreline. My partner comes home from work (I work from home), and we just go out for a walk on the beach before doing anything else. Thereās so much to see; sealife like seals, fish, crabs, birds, thereās lots of little terns nesting near to where we are right now. Iām fascinated by the geology and archeological history which is rich here. And the sand dunes are unexpectedly beautiful with colourful plant life at different times of the year.
My wardrobe has changed; wool, worn in layers, and decent outdoor layers that are windproof and waterproof, with several decent hats either for warmth or shade. The right clothes for any weather and youāre good. Nothing beats being outdoors in that beautiful light and clear fresh air.
The beach is more than just sand and sea, watching nature change with the seasons is fascinating. Weāre just coming to the end of cuttlefish bones appearing abundantly on the shoreline. Soon there will be little clear blobs of comb jellies appearing. Each day is different, all are wonderful, itās a privilege to watch time pass and nature change here. Plus friends love to visit, thereās been some truly lovely days where weāve just walked and talked, eaten ice cream, walked and talked some more, til sundown, under open skies.
I used to live near a busy airport, this time last year I was hearing planes land/take off every two minutes from 4.30am! Never again will I move away from the beach.
MrsBalrog@reddit
This is the view from my living room window, it is an estuary so the sea is just around to the left. It never wears off , there is always something to see. Sadly I will be moving away because I live over a pub and I need something a little quieter at night now. I shall miss this view.
AuroraDF@reddit
I was brought up by the sea and moved back there temporarily from the city, and I did not appreciate it.
Now I live in London, and I take any opportunity I have to be by the sea, and can't wait to retire back to my home town where I will now appreciate it.
Ze_Gremlin@reddit
Live close to the sea. The Mrs is the water fanatic. It just smells like manky seaweed to me
I'm more of a fan of the forest. I like trees, woodlands, farms.. luckily, plenty of that close by too
Consistent-Show1732@reddit
It never wore off for me. I moved away, but I miss it like crazy.
fridakahl0@reddit
To improve happiness, first leave the midlands (I speak from experience)
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Talk to me bro. We only bought a couple of years ago so I need to financially hold out for as long as possible so I donāt make a loss.
fridakahl0@reddit
Fair fucks mate. I was born and raised there tbf so that alters the experience. Itās a whole lot of nothing nowhere. West marginally better than the east imo. Moved to Scotland and never looked back
bisubdave@reddit
No. Every day is a joy. Been in Cornwall for 7 years and still feel as if we are on holiday.
User23572@reddit
The novelty never wears off. I moved to the coast about 8 years ago. We're 10 minutes from a beautiful sandy beach where we go to swim and paddleboard in the summer. The buckets and spades live in the boot of the car during the summer holidays, and we can stop at the beach for an hour after school and work on a whim. The kids can go sailing with the local sailing club, and we have plenty of islands nearby we can get a boat to.
We're lucky that there is plenty going on in the town in the winter too, but even without that I don't think I could ever move away from the sea!
edno99@reddit
It does when you like cycling and you're stuck between the sea and the south downs. My field of exploration is cut in half by the sea and anywhere I want to go involves a slog up and over hills, knowing that I'll have to do the same to get back home š¤Ŗ
weaselfighting@reddit
No. It doesn't.
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Tell me more.
shezboy@reddit
I honestly donāt think I could be fed up of living by the sea. I miss being by the coast and would happily spend my golden years with a home overlooking the sea or even the river teign watching the sail boats go by. Warmth n calm in the summer. Cosy n stormy in the winter. Oh to live somewhere you can hear the water lapping against the shoreline through an open window.
Sonchay@reddit
Yes. Now that I live inland, I sleep soundly in my bed without having to listen to seagulls squawking every hour of the day.
Positive-Nose-1767@reddit
I grew up in a cottage on a very scottish beach and it never wore off. Running into the water for xmas swims, floating around in summer, sitting and listening...if only cottages like that werent a billion quid nowadaysĀ
Patient-Magazine-748@reddit
No. I keep a swimming 'go bag' in the car. I can be at work and decide I need a break. 10 minutes later I'm in the sea. I can't imagine having to wait until the weekend and sit in traffic for a couple of hours to reach the coast.
I go in at least once a week all year round. If I leave it longer than a week it really starts to affect my mood and productivity.
The sea was one of my first friends as a kid and we've remained close my whole life. And it's one of the few activities left that remains entirely free.
Exact_Scratch854@reddit
I didn't grow up by the sea hut moved here five years ago. Still not worn off.
My partner has lived here his whole life and whilst he appreciates it, I don't think he appreciates it as much as me.
Could be lifestyle choice though, I'm more outdoors-y than him.
Sittingflesh@reddit
Lived in Brighton for 13 years. Went to the beach twice.
Reddit-Queen-2024@reddit
Be ready to deal with mould if you live by the seaside. By far the worst part of it if youāre in a house thatās prone to it. The appeal of having the sea close by is always lovely, though
widdrjb@reddit
No. I live 2 miles inland from Druridge Bay, and it's brilliant all year round. Even in the depths of winter, a ten minute dip brings me to life.
Embarrassed_Storm563@reddit
I live in Dorset about 20 mins drive from the sea. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else.
StarShipYear@reddit
Go on a holiday at one of the places you like in winter. That should give you a taste for it. Personally, I love the outdoors, would love being by the sea, but weighing up the pros and cons, I couldn't do it.
Bacon4Lyf@reddit
Thatās where my town is lucky, instead of tourism they chose old people as their main source of income. All the olds retire here and theyāve got money to burn. When I lived in Cornwall the winters were pretty brutal since no one really had much money and everything was shut, but since thereās no tourism where Iām from and itās just old people, thereās always some kind of festival in the high street
dunneetiger@reddit
Where is that ?
pajamakitten@reddit
Has to be somewhere like Bournemouth. We have tourism but retirees are big money for us.
Bacon4Lyf@reddit
Very close
pajamakitten@reddit
Christchurch then. God's waiting room and to up itself to pretend it is actually pretty shit if you want to do anything.
dunneetiger@reddit
Hear me out: I am from France and la Mer du Nord (the English Channel - surprised no French President has not requested to change the name) is exactly the warmest. I always wonder how you lot seem to find it OK (I tend to go to Cornwall for my sea related breaks)
flippertyflip@reddit
So many places like this dotted around. They can be very quiet towns though so don't move for the nightlife.
g0_west@reddit
Sounds equally a bit grim for young people wanting to have fun though if the whole local economy is built around catering to old rich people
Bacon4Lyf@reddit
As a teenager I hated it because it was boring and quiet and nothing ever happens. Now as an adult I love it because itās boring and quiet and nothing ever happens.
It did suck as a teenager, but really itās not so bad, itās not exactly the sticks, thereās a direct train to London every hour and thereās 3 pretty big cities within 40 minute bus rides of us. Itās just the village itself was a bit quiet
luckeratron@reddit
North Norfolk?
Bacon4Lyf@reddit
South coast
rinkydinkmink@reddit
Yeah after living in seaside towns most of my childhood, I hate them. Most of the year they are depressing as fuck. It's not the sea that's the issue, it's everything else.
EarnestHolly@reddit
There are lots of places by the sea that aren't seaside towns.
Dolphin_Spotter@reddit
Winter is the best time. Few tourists, dramatic seas, no traffic.
Rastadan1@reddit
So much wiiiiiind
PistachioElf@reddit
This. 100%.
JustaGirl1978@reddit
I moved from the Midlands and live right on the beach front in Wales. It's never worn off for me. My days off are spent walking along the beach, I walk to and from work along the beach. In the summer, I love nothing more than taking a random day off work and heading to the beach at 7am with a coffee and a book and spending a few hours while nobody else is around. The best decision I ever made.
Prestigious-Gold6759@reddit
Aberdyfi?
JustaGirl1978@reddit
Swansea š
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Given me a little bit of inspo, especially as a fellow midlander!
If you don't mind me asking, how old were you when you moved?
JustaGirl1978@reddit
I moved 14 years ago when I was 33. Best thing I ever did.
JimmyBallocks@reddit
No.
As a kid who grew up in and around London I saw the sea once, maybe twice, a year.
After living in a bunch of different largely shit places in my 20s I found myself living on the coast. Loved it.
Moved back to London, hated it, moved to the south coast to be by the sea.
Never leaving it again.
CMPunk22@reddit
What did you hate about London? Iāve lived on the coast my entire life and enjoy coming to London for a day or 2
Darkveiled@reddit
Itās a lot, and itās very busy. If you want to get out on hot days, so does everybody else. Then if youāre staying in it can feel a little stifling just due to the sheer amount of housing, flats etc in the same part of London as you. People tend to live life quickly as well, it can feel quite chaotic at times, meeting friends or living with housemates everyoneās very much on their own path. It can be a lot of fun, and quite inspiring, but it definitely has a time limit. Iāve done a couple of separate 5 year stints and by that 5th year Iāve really had enough and am seeking something calmer.
Elephants_and_rocks@reddit
Difference in visiting London and living there, living London can very much suck depending on what you want and like
mcgee300@reddit
Yep. Lived in London for years... Moved to Dorset on the coast. Never moving back.
ciaodog@reddit
You need to elaborate mate, what you wrote is too compelling..
tinykitten101@reddit
Your car does get bird shit on it a lot
mattt-wales@reddit
I've lived near the sea for over 40 years, and I would say the novelty wears off. However, whenever I am away from it for more than a few days, I notice my mood gets worse.
StrangeKittehBoops@reddit
No, never wore off. It is a forever changing view depending on what the weather is doing. I had to move away and miss it greatly.
MeemoTheWise@reddit
Nope never.... makes me smile every time I see it.
jlelvidge@reddit
I live on the East Coast, you do tend to take it for granted but sometimes, when you are working and then you look out on such a fantastic view, especially as I do working in hospitality, then you realise how lucky you are. You can behave like a tourist on your days off, have beach bbqās or go on the slots when its raining. I was born in a run down area of Manchester so this place is far better.
rockadoodledobelfast@reddit
Nope. The beach is literally on my doorstep, and lying in bed listening to waves crashing is the perfect way to fall asleep. The salty air in the mornings is also worth it.
Baboobalou@reddit
I'd like to live closer to the sea and be able to hear it.
I live in a village on a hill behind a coastal town, and I like the space, and peace and quiet it gives me, but if i could swap it for a cosy cottage by the sea, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
DarrensDodgyDenim@reddit
Norwegian here, I couldn't imagine not seeing the sea. I'd be lost.
Baboobalou@reddit
No. I moved from towns close to London to the coast 15 years ago. I never planned it. Fate just led me that way.
I'm still I'm awe of the views I see. When I drive into town, I see the sea on the horizon, and whatever the weather it makes me smile.
I don't go down to the sea as much as I used to as much pasttimes have changed, but it's one of my favourite places to be.
Smart_Comedian_4123@reddit
Friend of mine moved to Australia and he claimed he hardly went to the beach because when itās there every day it gets boring quickly. After youāve been at work all day you donāt really fancy a sunbathe. He came home after a few years, ironically to the Midlands
Careless_Bend_1678@reddit
Im 25 and I have never lived anywhere but on the coast (in three different countries). It never wears off. I donāt go to the beach or walk along the coast every day or every week, but just seeing it from a distance while walking on or the bus does make me feel very relaxed!
dl064@reddit
Analogously I lived overlooking mountains on a farm and that never got old. It actually gets more comforting with age.
ccam1978@reddit
I could never live away from the sea now. It never wears offā¤
Thestickleman@reddit
I've lived near the sea an multiple beachs, coastal walks and all that for most of my life and I very rarely go/use any of them.
Just don't really see the point really. If I go to the beach I go to one that's like an hour drive away but I go maybe once a year or every couple years as the each just isn't very fun.
Haven't used the coastal walks or admire the views or anything probably like 10 years
McCQ@reddit
Never. Growing up, I took it for granted because it was the norm. At one point in my career I worked in Manchester and I'd travel back home each Friday, get off the train and take a 15 minute walk along the water to my flat with an uninterrupted view. I love it all the more now.
AutomaticInitiative@reddit
Born in a seaside town, continue to live in the seaside town, the sea is the best part.
Kellysmunt69@reddit
Nope, never. The sunrise/sunset walks along the beach still hit the spot.
Dharma-Cat@reddit
Yes, it did for me. Too āsameyā. I moved to a rural market town, love it!
Chunderdragon86@reddit
Moved from hove to Essex I prefer the channel to the Thames estuary stones over mud all day long
CraftBeerFomo@reddit
For the last 4 years up until when I moved a few weeks back I lived 2 minutes walk from the beach and I can count on one hand the amount of times I even stepped on the sand let alone spent any time there chilling or sitting enjoying the view.
I would walk along the path that ran alongside it daily to get where I needed to go but did I really pay any attention to it or take it in? Not really.
guareber@reddit
I don't see the point of living by the sea without being able to go in the water for 10 months out of the year.
JudgeStandard9903@reddit
I think it depends how much you like the sea. I lived in Guildford for 4 years and hated being so far from the sea. I was born in a coastal town, grew up within 10 miles of the sea and in my soul yearn to be by the sea. I now live 5 minute walk from the beach and could never imagine living away from the sea. My husband on the other hand was born and raised on the foothills of the himalayas hundreds of miles from a coast and is indifferent to it.
Signal_Astronaut11@reddit
Depends on which coast. I lived in Southsea for years and the novelty definitely wore off. The crowds, noise of personal stereos, sickly stink of coconut sun-cream EVERYWHERE, the litter, the fights at night... Also, no trees or greenery so no birds, just - pigeons. And typical seaside town - no parking anywhere.
Now if I lived near a different coastline, a remote coastline, countryside, rugged - I'd love that. I would never tire of it, and I hope one day to do this.
JudgeStandard9903@reddit
I think it depends how much you like the sea. I lived in Guildford for 4 years and hated being so far from the sea. I was born in a coastal town, grew up within 10 miles of the sea and in my soul yearn to be by the sea. I now live 5 minute walk from the beach and could never imagine living away from the sea. My husband on the other hand was born and raised on the foothills of the himalayas hundreds of miles from a coast and is indifferent to it.
TemporaryCommunity38@reddit
It's literally never been a "novelty" to me, just the norm.
lukusmaca@reddit
3 years and not worn off yet! Summer is much nicer than winter tho š
Dr_Vonny@reddit
Canāt believe my luck. Live in a nice holiday resort and every week I say to my husbandāpeople pay good money to come on holiday here and we get to enjoy it all the timeā
gustinnian@reddit
The constant sea wind can eventually get on your nerves after a while. Also the winters are quiet but the summers are always crowded, ideally it would be quiet all year round...
amirightorwrongtho@reddit
I've lived close to the sea all my life. I love it. I would miss it if I moved away. The novelty never wears off. At least three or four times a week I spend my lunchtimes walking along the cliffs along the coast, and often when I'm driving around I am in awe of the views across the sea, and the sunsets. I think it helps me feel at peace, and less claustrophobic. When I visit busy cities I think I start to miss the openness of being at the edge of the country.
DrachenDad@reddit
Yes, it has. We hardly ever go to the seaside.
DrachenDad@reddit
Yes, it has. We hardly ever go to the seaside.
DrachenDad@reddit
Yes, it has. Hardly ever go to the seaside
sanityunavailable@reddit
I grew up near the sea. British weather isnāt really great for enjoying it and it makes things extra cold and windy.
Lots of tourists, bad or non existent public transport (at least where I was - not great for a teen), limited jobs. Sand seems to get everywhere.
I moved to London as soon as I could. I did eventually move to a smaller city, but the only time I would even consider living near the sea again is in a warmer country.
ZedBundy@reddit
Live in Brighton, donāt go to the beach as much as I used to, but go enough in the right conditions. Hasnāt lost its novelty at all.
mellymeep@reddit
No it definitely doesnāt, I donāt have a sea view unfortunately canāt afford that luxury but I am 5 minutes from the beach on the north east coast and itās brilliant. I do have a love/hate relationship with seagulls though.
lambaroo@reddit
nope. i love living by the sea. it's not a tourist/beaches kinda town though, thank fk
Silly-Earth4105@reddit
It wore off for me. Lived a 2 hour drive from the beach until I was 18. Moved to the coast and still live here (26).
I donāt even really like going to the beach much anymore lol. I wanna move somewhere more mountainous haha.
Suppose it depends what you like. We moved here cause we thought it was cool, hadnāt travelled much, and it sounded nice. Novelty wore off within 2/3 years and now itās just where we go to walk our dogs occasionally.
SignificantBoss8445@reddit
Eight years by the sea and itās definitely hasnāt worn off, love it
Remote-Pool7787@reddit
Weāre 5 min walk from the North Sea. Summer is lovely, weāre not a big enough tourist destination that it gets packed on sunny days. But winter can be very bleak
re_Claire@reddit
Yeah my mum lives near the north sea and it can be bleak! But walking along the beach/sea front is so lovely in the summer. It's also not a tourist destination where she lives so the beach only gets packed with dog walkers haha
I might have to move up there soon and I have vowed that I'll actually go to the beach more often if I do.
Full-Permit-4848@reddit
yeah exactly that! live a 5 minute drive to south shields and lots of beaches and not too bad even in the summer
callisstaa@reddit
This is the best stretch of coastline imo. Tynemouth and Cullercoats arenāt really major tourist destinations and are lovely. Shields is beautiful too but gets a bit busy in the holidays. Even Whitley Bay is a lovely seaside town now even though it still has a bit of a reputation.
Full-Permit-4848@reddit
yeah true! especially with the shields thing i think itās good how you can go further down than the dunes and the marine park where itās the busiest
Personal-Listen-4941@reddit
Itās a random Thursday evening. When I finished work, I walked for an hour along the coast, then went to a pub surrounded by tourists who paid heavily to spend the day here.
I love living in a tourist seaside town
cagoesswimming@reddit
Sometimes I get the same vibes about London. Go on a casual Sunday morning run across tower bridge, people have flown thousands of miles to be there
dinotoxic@reddit
From Cornwall, the sea itself I find boring most of the time. Just vast blueness. However, if there are some boats and things going on then itās nice. Sunset is nice. I do however love the cliffs, sheer drops and jaggedness of them.
I live in Bristol now. I miss Cornwall sometimes during summer, but winter is so boring and rubbish down there. Serious lack of career opportunities too which is why I moved away
Willing-Confusion-56@reddit
I've got two fantastic beaches a out 3 miles away. I'll never get bored of being there. I love the sea and the sound. I was born here (Sunderland) and I always feel drawn to water where ever I am.
Tomato1237@reddit
Massively agree. While I don't live next to the coast (from Houghton), it's not a far drive away and it always just feels wrong to me if I'm ever more than about 30 minutes from the ocean. A few people in my family have owned yachts in Sunderland Marina for as long as I can remember. Love whenever I get a chance to go out with them, even if I'm just helping with repairs.
Willing-Confusion-56@reddit
It's lovely round the marina. The swans are nesting nicely.
marquis_de_ersatz@reddit
No I've always lived near the sea and while I'd like the warmth of being inland, there's something claustrophobic about it to me.
QueSeRawrSeRawr@reddit
It's horrible in the winter, but spring/summer makes up for that. I don't actually go to the sea as much as I should but I always love it when I do.
TomTam00@reddit
I never understood why people like the sea so much. There's nothing there. It's an empty plane and windy. Look, if you like being by the sea good for you, but it's incredibly boring.
sunt4u@reddit
never gets old but I certainly donāt just go to the beach anymore for no reason like I did when we first moved here 9 years ago, then we would be there pretty much everyday! Now iāll go like this morning when I had half an hour to kill whilst waiting for my daughter. What i do like as much is the feeling of a coastal community, feels nice š
Ihavecakewantsome@reddit
I grew up by the sea and now live almost as far as you can get from the sea. I do long for it, especially on a sunny day. But local lakes do scratch the outdoor water itch, and I can deal with the lack of sea breeze sensation!
DanBennettDJB@reddit
No.
I'm from Poole, (park stone) and I live in cities since adulthood (London, Sydney , Paris) and I can't shake it.
Whenever I go home for Xmas, Easter, whatever to see my family , nothing gives me peace and serenity like the ocean, though I grew up with it. Maybe less of a thing if you get into it as an adult.
RipCurl69Reddit@reddit
Wheyyyy Poole
Bomo resident here, definitely agree. The whole combination of the Purbecks, Poole Harbour and Bournemouth Beach we've got is absolutely spectacular year round. I can definitely understand why people come down here in the summer, it feels like a privilege to be right on the edge of such fantastic views at times
pajamakitten@reddit
Hengistbury Head is my personal favourite spot.
danddersson@reddit
Bournemouth resident here. 5 minutes walk from the beach. It is ALWAYS delight to walk by the sea, whatever the time of year or weather. We are fortunate to be sheltered by the Purbeck hills from some of the worst storms, but can still see their effect on the waves.
And nobody is going to build a housing estate on the sea (I hope anyway).
MaxGoldfinch25@reddit
I'm in Poole too! I moved inland for a few years when I was younger but ultimately couldn't escape the draw of the sea. It literally brings me joy seeing the sea every day, and getting the fresh air that we have here.
We have friends stay fairly often and they're all so in love with the lifestyle I have here. I'm going down the beach after work just because I can. Nothing beats it.
alinalovescrisps@reddit
I grew up in Cornwall, 10 mins walk from the beach. Honestly I think the only time I feel truly at peace is when I'm by or in the sea. I was talking to my mate from home about this recently and she's the only person I know who really gets what I mean.
Love the sea in winter too on a really stormy day. š
BoneyMostlyDoesPrint@reddit
Was literally just having the same conversation this week with a childhood mate, anytime we've lived too far from the coast it's never quite felt like home.
Some of my favourite memories of living by the sea are from winter! Crazy storms that push the waves all the way up and over the promenade, or calm cold days huddled on the quiet beach in lots of layers with a nice hot drink.
alinalovescrisps@reddit
I've lived away from the coast (or rather away from any proper beaches) for 15 years now. Still happy where I am for now but I love visiting the coast and getting in the sea whenever I can š
So funny how all us coast kids can relate š¤£
Helicreature@reddit
Me too. Fabulous memories of calling the seals from the rocks at Godrevy, riding on Carbis Bay, the Sally Ann playing hymns in St.Ives whilst the gulls tried to nick your chips. Got spirited away for 30 years following military husband around the world but now weāre home and even when the wind is trying to blow me off the cliffs and the rain hammers on the roof for weeks, thereās nowhere else Iād rather be.
GuiltyStrawberry5253@reddit
Iām Parkstone too! I was born and raised in Leicester, but lived in Dorset for 15 years now and could never move away from the coast. I can be at the beach by bus in around 20 minutes and find it grounding in a way. I feel this area has enough life in that itās still manageable year round, vs the more stereotypical seaside towns (pretty much all of the Devonshire smaller towns Iāve been too for example) which feel like a different place come winter.
DanBennettDJB@reddit
I highly recommend the cycle through branksome woods to the beach too if you're that way inclined, it's a beautiful 20 minutes
I have to say I find the winters a bit tough when I visit at Xmas but a crisp winter day is pretty beautiful too
badbeard241@reddit
Me too (Lilliput). Ive not found anywhere else in the UK yet that is like our area. Palm trees, different architecture, views of poole harbour and our beautiful beaches. On a sunny day the vibe is like nowhere else unless i imagine if youre in California or Spain.
DanBennettDJB@reddit
Lilliput is especially nice, we're privileged to have grown up down there tbh
Current_Scarcity_379@reddit
And you have The Lord Nelson.
TedBurns-3@reddit
It never gets old! And we're looking after it for you when you're not here Dan š
NLawton91@reddit
I've lived near the sea for most of my life, and I honestly think I take it for granted.
Lovely little place that's never too crowded even with the sudden influx of tourists coming in, but I love it.
WinkyNurdo@reddit
I grew up in Essex (the Greater London bit) which was OK but I was very much an indoor kid, preferring my megadrive to going out and about. Moved to Poole in Dorset when I was 13, and everything changed. Suddenly just a few miles bike ride from amazing beaches. I was always down there with mates, it was great. I stayed in Poole and Bournemouth until I was 30. Thereās an OK economy down there but for my trade it was shit. Literally the only reason stayed stinking was the lifestyle.
So eventually moved to London to make some money. Stayed there 17 years, and mostly loved it except the lockdowns; I was in a studio flat and that was horrible. I left last year, to live on the Kent coast. Iāve bought an affordable flat and wfh on a London wage. Got a lovely big balcony I can see the sea from. I love it here. Maybe in the future Iāll go back to the south coast, but for now this is home. Itās lovely living by the sea but winter can be a bit trying for those who arenāt used to it. But itās good for me.
Previously-Tea@reddit
I live about a mile away from the beach, and it doesn't get old. I love and I'm down there most days walking or running.
julesy74@reddit
Iām from Australia, and no, it never gets old! Everyday is magic!
gailgphoto@reddit
No. Not for me. I cherish living by the ocean. I walk the beach in all seasons and all weather. I sit by the ocean and read. In summer, I swim and read in the sun. I love the salty smell on a foggy day. I love watching the ocean during a big storm.
WowSuchName21@reddit
Depends on how you value living by the sea Iād imagine? Personally have enjoyed it, itās not a novelty, itās just a feature of the area..
If you holiday there and are thinking about it, you probably picture it in the summer..
Saxon2060@reddit
I lived about 2 miles from a beautiful beach as a child (Formby, north of Liverpool.) Now I live in the city and so not especially near the sea, I couldn't walk to it anymore. But I was talking to my dad once about it and he said he couldn't really imagine not living in a coastal place. Like it just gave him a sense of his bearings or something, or just the knowledge that you're on the edge of some expanse, not in the middle of some morass or, I don't know. that's not how he put it, he didn't really explain, he just said he couldn't live somewhere not near to the coast. And I think I agree.
WiltingRose79@reddit
The novelty has never worn off for me, I moved from a city to a town in the south east 25 years ago, I left all my friends and family at the age of 20 to move to a town that I had only visited a half dozen times before, because I felt a need to live by the sea. I have never regretted that decision, the sea calms my soul. During bad times I would often sit on the beach, listen to the waves, smell the salty air and watch the sun rise. There is something rather magical about the power of mother nature, that helps put life into perspective sometimes However big your problems are, the pure majestic power and beauty of the sea helps you realise that whatever your going through, the tide will always rise and fall, and the sun will always come back to start a fresh new day
Vampirero@reddit
I live in Bournemouth. I moved here from the north east. I love living by the sea. It didn't wear off for me. I just think that we need to continue to appreciate where we are.
Love where I am.
qualitycancer@reddit
I think it doesnāt wear off it just changes, all my life I visited Dublin and the seaside is a place to be, there are spots all along the coast and it shifts how big the city feels
4b3r1nkul4@reddit
I moved to the coast from London five years ago, my flat has a balcony and sea view and Iām a two minute walk from jumping in the water.
I never want to leave. I feel like Iāve discovered a cheat code. I swim every day in the summer, I go cycling along the cliffs every day I can, and the sunsets and sunrises are transcendent. My girlfriend wants me to move back to London and friends, that is absolutely not happening.
Crazy_Squirrel6679@reddit
To some people it does wear off, like me. š¤ I am originally from Madeira island, looked at the sea everyday for 30 years, it was a constant in my life. When I moved to London it did felt in the beginning slightly claustrophobic, something was missing, I went to the river Thames, maybe on my first work week, I worked close by, I had a need to look at water, but not the same (there's buildings on the other side whereas I was used to just see the horizon) I know it sounds weird, but it give me a bit of claustrophobia. But now, well I still love the sea, but I don't miss it, the same feeling of peace that it gave me when looking at it, I get from the English countryside.
Bigoli91@reddit
It never does being by the sea is wonderful
Fit-Kangaroo-9061@reddit
I moved from London to the south coast 15 years ago. The novelty never wears off. I love the sea and cold water swimming has genuinely helped improve my mental health. Being by the sea gives me a sense of freedom and tranquility. The calm beauty of the summer waves and the angry winter storms is something i will never voluntarily move away from. The kids especially loved the beach walks after storms to see whats washed up. Also, summer breakfast bbqs at sunrise, no beating that.
moonshot66@reddit
I lived in Los Angeles for eight years and loved being near the Pacific Ocean.
About to move to Orkney and fulfill a lifelong dream of living in Scotland by the sea.
heliskinki@reddit
LA to Orkney is one hell of a culture shock!
moonshot66@reddit
I left LA just over 20 years ago. Iām moving to Orkney from rural NH. It will be different but Iāve spent a lot of time in the UK and my husband is from Cumbria.
g0_west@reddit
I hope you're prepared for a very different kind of seaside experience lol
ARobertNotABob@reddit
Moved to a seaside town 5 years ago. I've been down to "the prom" to look at the sea ... once.
Like you, Cornwall is where I'd like to be, rugged coast etc, but where I am is mud.
Webcams get me through :)
Prestigious-Gold6759@reddit
I literally did this a few months ago, and I still can't believe it. I will never move away, it's wonderful!
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Where did you move to and from if you donāt mind me asking?
Prestigious-Gold6759@reddit
I've moved around a lot. Can I pm you?
Low_Will1393@reddit
Never, the main road to work runs parallel to the beach all of the way and even being stuck in traffic is fine with that view.
catsnbears@reddit
I lived in Scarborough for many years. It was awful away from the high priced tourist areas and there was drugs everywhere especially in winter. Nothing to do as most of the town shut and the cold seeps into your bones, the older flats do nothing to keep the damp out and thereās a lot of mould. There was a lot of violence, prostitution, theft and drunkenness as police and council presence drops out of season.
In summer we didnāt go anywhere near the seafront, it was full of tourists and so very infuriating and the cost of living rose significantly. The best times were early spring and autumn where it was warm enough to go walk by the sea and the shops were still open but there wasnāt many tourists about.
HOWEVER if you manage to live in one of the smaller places by the sea that is more like a village the quality of life is far higher, itās really expensive though as the housing is highly sought after and rarely becomes available as most is inherited or bought at a premium for holiday homes. It will take you a while to settle in be warned, it took a long while to be accepted as I wasnāt one of the families that grew up there.
CaptH3inzB3anz@reddit
I moved to North West Wales 9 years ago, I have a house with a sea view, I get to walk my dogs on the beach almost every day, weather permitting. I love it, and never get tired of the view from my living room. I have no intention of moving.
Eirevampire@reddit
Live 30 seconds dander from the sea. Can hear and see the water most mornings (unless it's as still as a mill pond). I've been here my whole life, and I still love it. Husband is a Sassenach, from a land locked county, he absolutely loves being by the sea.
QuackTales@reddit
Not really.
the_uk_hotman@reddit
Yes, especially when you can open front door and step out onto the beech. Moved to a big city now rather than an island in the sea. More places to go walking other than a beach every single day. When it's 20mins to get to anywhere near a supermarket. Don't talk about the summer time when it takes people hours and hours to get off the island. So glad I moved
Illustrious-End-5084@reddit
Iāve just bought a house by the sea coming from a city so fingers crossed š¤ the novelty doesnāt wear off. Had enough of British cities.
RunningCrow_@reddit
As someone who grew up in a south coastal town, I miss being by the sea. The air is so clean, the sound of seagulls, just being near the sea is great. I love where I am now, but I would go back to the coast in a heartbeat.
the-holy-one23@reddit
Iāve lived by the sea for 6 years and I still love it
fuk_offe@reddit
Can you share the twats rosd for research purposes? ;)
walphriggum69@reddit
I live by the sea and Iāll die by the sea.
Working_Bowl@reddit
Iāve always lived by the sea, so I donāt know if it ever was a novelty. I can say that we go to the beach a lot, whether itās just for a walk along the promenade or to the beach in summer. Kids still love to play on the beach, sometimes we go very early with a picnic breakfast, sometimes in the evening and have chips on the beach. Weāve got paddle boards and they go to local beach sports club during the holidays. We also still go on beach holidays. So I guess no, the novelty hasnāt worn off!
Jr79@reddit
I grew up in a village in south wales right on the coast, I still miss not being able to go to the beach, 30 years after leaving. The sea seems to be a very calming influence for many.
rFAXbc@reddit
I live in Cornwall and I haven't been to the beach for ages so I guess the novelty wore off!
Shoegirl523@reddit
I have lived by the sea all My life. It never gets old. I walk along the beach everyday. it is so calming. Can't recommend it enough.
Glass_Pineapple4999@reddit
The novelty did wear off for me a bit yeah. I grew up in the Midlands so the sea was far away and just a once a year thing. A concrete council estate is my natural habitat. But i like the coast and did always fancy living by the sea. In 2012 I moved to Poole for work. I thought I'd be at the beach all the time, but quite quickly I settled into the same old routine I'd had in the Midlands, work, sleep, pub, work, sleep, go football, work, sleep.... unless you're rich the grind is no different just because you're near the water. People would visit me and think I had it made, drinking on the Quay or down the beach, but that's 1% of your time. I was in Poole 3 years and went to the beach properly about 5 times. I did enjoy my daily walk along the Quay though.
Since then I've lived at various points at other places by the sea, Youghal in county Cork, Southsea in Portsmouth, Belfast and Road Town, Virgin Islands. I think about it how I think about anything really, it's got its pros and cons. In the Virgin Islands I had some of the world's best beaches just down the road and sometimes couldn't be bothered with it, I'd stay in to watch the snooker hahaha. It does become part of a routine. But then you'll have moments where you think wow this is awesome, all of this really is worth it sometimes.
I remember a guy in Poole saying once that he couldn't imagine ever not living by the sea, and I said you don't miss what you've never had. I think a lot people that grow up by the sea have an intrinsic part of the soul tied to the sea, I've never had that, and while I have occasionally enjoyed the benefits of living near it, I don't feel like it's something I can never be without again.
Tortoise_247@reddit
It depends what you mean by novelty. I live by the sea in Brighton but I never get tired of a morning stroll at the coast
MishaBee@reddit
I live about 20 mins away but work right by the sea.
Every morning when I get my first glimpse of the sea as my bus nears the end of it's route, it lifts my spirits and make going to work that little bit easier.
Careful_Adeptness799@reddit
No it never wears off. Had a rough day at work just go to the beach and sit listening to the waves SO relaxing.
Mar10-10@reddit
I'm kind of but not quite 'by the sea' and I love it. 4 years ago we moved to North cornwall from the cotswolds, bought a house 6 miles inland on the North Coast in a very quiet little hamlet. It means I can go to the beach/Coast path anytime, I regularly run and cycle routes taking in various beaches and towns, started surfing (badly) and in the summer we often take our tea down to a local beach, go for a swim and eat watching the sun set. I don't want to ever go back to live anywhere I can't do these things. Yes in winter some of the towns are bleak but we still go out collecting sea glass or running or walks on windy beaches and there is much joy to be had being the only ones there on a long sandy beach on a damp grey day
Hopeful2469@reddit
I lived near the sea for 2 years (in Dorset, about 15 mins away), and I never got bored. Life circumstances caused me to move, but even now, 5+ years later I miss it and if it works out for me and my family, we'll consider moving back closer to the sea.
Can't say it never wears off, but definitely didn't after 2 years.
CCM278@reddit
No. I find that true of large bodies of water in general, owned a house overlooking a lake for 15 years. Everyday I came home it was like going on holiday. Had to sell up and move for my work, even though the new house is great I miss that.
Retiring, the plan is to buy again in a lakeside communityā¦or a narrowboat.
thermiteunderpants@reddit
The novelty wow off when southern water started pumping literal shit into the sea every day to the point where you can see the untreated sewage just floating around in the water and washing up on the beach. Tourists still come in the summer, but locals don't use the sea anymore.
Voynitsky@reddit
The problem is people go to Devon and Cornwall in the summer. For the rest of the year you have grey skies over a grey granite ground. So, the novelty wears off, especially when anything interesting to do is 2 hours or more away.
Paracelsian93@reddit
As others have said. It never wears off.
toddlerMJ@reddit
It doesn't. Summer is great and all but nothing beats a walk to the sea with the dog on a crisp, sunny day in November or January.
Visual_Humor_8461@reddit
Not even slightly
Visual_Humor_8461@reddit
charliechin@reddit
Ah! Kincaid Bridge, from GTA San Andreas!
Visual_Humor_8461@reddit
I have tried wheelying a motorbike across it but failed spectacularly when the police shot me.
ninniguzman@reddit
I live in Westcliff-on-Sea and work hybrid with my job based in London: the fact that, when it's sunny, I can just go to the beach on my lunch break (which is just 4-5 mins walk from my flat) is amazing and has been a life changer. Life is more slow-pace and quieter here, and air obviously fresher.
LauraHday@reddit
Oh my god I'm the opposite. Too much time by the sea actually makes me FEEL depressed. Why is that? (Bear in mind I'm thinking of shitty British seaside towns like Brighton, Margate, Blackpool to be fair)
letthemhavejush@reddit
Iāve always lived by the sea and will always be a āI have to live near the seaā human. When I walk outside of my flat and look down the road I get a stunning view of it and the surrounding beach.
In off peak season itās cold when the wind is blowing in that direction, but summer when everyoneās parked in your road and you canāt get a space is a ball ache.
cococupcakeo@reddit
I used to live opposite the sea as a child and then into my 20ās before moving away. My mum used to get us out of bed to see the moon over the sea. I then used to do the same with my child (had a balcony and used to go on there) itās so pretty watching the moonlight glisten over the sea even in the U.K.
I also used to take my child down to the beach with all their little friends when they were small with a whole cooked dinner wrapped up in foil as we were close enough to do this in the summer. Everyone loved it. I donāt live by the sea anymore and miss it so much.
Slim-chance@reddit
Nope
durkydiggler@reddit
No never.
Background_Reveal689@reddit
Yes. I live in poole and the beaches in the summer are absolutely rammed with tourists that leave their rubbish and literal shit everywhere. In the spring/start of autumn it's great for walking the dog but that's about it.
Tough_Conclusion271@reddit
If you have a nice morning / evening view of the ocean.. probably not.
I grew up in Bournemouth and honestly with how busy it gets, took away any pleasure of living by the sea. Still live around 20-30 minutes away but wouldn't want to live in any city again, let alone a seaside one
BroodLord1962@reddit
Everybody to their own. Personally, while I enjoy the odd seaside holiday, I would hate to live there. As for the midlands, I used to live in the midlands and loved it, the countryside is beautiful, and I'd take the countryside over the seaside every day
Relative-Dig-7321@reddit
Whitby, no not really things slow down in winter and weather can be pretty fierce but itās still lovely.Ā
Gutternips@reddit
I live by the sea and winter is my favourite time of year. Less tourists and more dramatic seascapes, also great for stargazing on cold clear winter evenings.
Relative-Dig-7321@reddit
Yeah my town has always been a touristy place for as long as I have lived, they for the most part are really respectful and bring in a lot of revenue for businesses I really donāt mind tourists. What I donāt like are people having second homes driving the price up for everybody else.
PlasticLingonberry54@reddit
Some of it does. Occasionally all of it does for a brief period. There's a few cons.... the seagulls crowing all night long and the business of the holiday months. But all in all... its amazing and I'd not change it. I couldn't ever imagine not living coastal now. Beautiful and its one of the many reasons I get up everyday
WellWellWell2021@reddit
Never. Going for a walk by the sea looks different every day. The sound of the sea is just so soothing.
bioticspacewizard@reddit
Itās great. The novelty never wears off. I can walk my dog on the beach whenever I want, always have somewhere beautiful to go with friends, swim every day in summer, and can eat takeaways watching the sunset over the ocean. Whatās not to love?
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Sounds like my dream. Unfortunately I think Iām going to have to wait until retirement. Where abouts are you?
bioticspacewizard@reddit
West Wales āŗļø
AntLockyer@reddit
No, I wasn't even much of a seaside person before moving here but every time I see it it amazes me 10 years on.
captivephotons@reddit
Iām sandwiched between the sea and the South Downs, 5 minutes in either direction, so spoilt for choice. I would never move inland to a place where I canāt easily reach the sea. It changes everyday. Thereās nothing like a brisk walk along the prom when the wind is howling, the rain is horizontal and the waves are crashing on the beach. And if you donāt like the walk in the rain one can easily find a cafe nearby to take shelter and peer out of a window. On the other end of the scale taking the dog down for a run at low tide on a glorious summer evening is unbeatable.
Erratic_Assassin00@reddit
The novelty can wear off but move inland for a few weeks and you appreciate the coast all over again. Basically, it resets once you leave it for any length of time.
Glittering_Film_6833@reddit
I grew up next to the sea, in Devon. I would struggle living away from it. I can't explain why.
VolleyFireAnxiety@reddit
I moved to the north Norfolk coast about 5 years ago and while you do get used to it being there the novelty never really wears off. Driving home and coming over the hill to see the sea in front of me still brings me joy and lunch breaks on the beach are still a regular thing. I never want to move away from the coastline again.
Selgovae4017@reddit
I now live a few hundred yards from the sea and all my life I have been drawn to it. There is just something about it that makes me feel better. My most miserable times was when I was hundreds of miles from the coast.
4 Science-Backed Health Benefits Of Living By The Sea It's clear from research that there are various benefits of living by the sea for both our mental and physical health. Studies suggest that it can help with depression and that a coastal environment offers up more chance for physical fitness. So, while we all enjoy our holidays by the sea, could a more permanent move to the coast benefit us? Science seems to suggest it does.
Ch1pp@reddit
Everything rusts and rusts quickly.
lassiewenttothemoon@reddit
Yeah I've never really cared for the sea. I guess my "sea" is mountains and forests. When I visited Switzerland all I could think about is how amazing it would be to have such a beautiful view everyday. Which is funny, given people feel the same about the sea which I have a good view of everyday from my house, but never really get anything from.
Maleficent_Beach85@reddit
Yes.
I've lived by the sea for 25 years now, I used to spend a lot of time by the beach, now, not so much. Don't get me wrong, it's still somewhere I go to chill out when life gets a bit much and it is very relaxing, but I don't think it's something that I would miss if I moved away from the coast.
lovesorangesoda636@reddit
Never gets old. There's something amazing about being able to pop out at lunch time and have a little picnic looking over the sea
BoneyMostlyDoesPrint@reddit
No, never!
I'm from a coastal town near Brighton, moved away and back a few times as an adult and miss it every time. Don't think I could ever commit to living anywhere too far inland longterm, makes me feel claustrophobic. Currently in Newcastle and although I occasionally miss my seasidey town having both the river and sea so close by is enough for me to feel comfortable and content.
Might sound a bit nuts but I really do feel more relaxed knowing there's a big swathe of unpopulated (by people anyway) nothing for miles in one direction. Makes the business of the world seem less oppressive... Also I do love a good swim in the sea when it's not being pumped full of sewage.
jajwhite@reddit
You get used to it, as with everything, but you miss it. I was born and bred around Torquay. As a student and for a few years after college I lived with a sea view, and I looked at it less and less, but I knew it was there. I looked at it less because it was so close to my doorstep - who needs a view when you can walk there and be walking on wet sand in 5 minutes!
The sea view does magnify the mood, but not in the way you might think. Summer days, it can be annoying - full of tourists like noisy insects. I forgave the Summer drunks who shouted in the evenings because they were once me and my mates!
Gloomy winter days seem to envelop you for months on end and the damp and rain get into your bones. It's nicest when you have a quiet day and the weather is just right, or you get a good sunset and you suddenly wake up to it and realise how lucky you are, but it's human nature to ignore it much of the time.
I had to move to London to find work, and once in a while I miss it. The flat horizon is so calming, I visit every year and I have a painting of the sea front on my wall. And I intend to retire there, if I get the chance. It never leaves you.
Live-Cut-5991@reddit
Nothing better than driving about long distance, or being in a city centre all day and coming back home along the prom, peace and quiet, still, relaxing, calm.
TheAlbertBrennerman@reddit
I have lived by it all my life, I take it for granted yes, said this to my wife the other week. You take it for granted because it's there, literally miles of coast and fantastic views. But I tell you, I couldn't not live by the sea.
Feeling down or depressed? Get walking along the beach. Literally the best think you can do I feel.
TeapotUpheaval@reddit
My partnerās parents would say no. After staying there, Iād have to say I agree - itās lovely by the sea! The weatherās a little more variable than inland, but thereās a peaceful solitude to it that you just donāt find anywhere else. They live in a really nice location, though. Lots of nice seaside walks!
GranddaughterofBeryl@reddit
Iāve moved from a 5 min walk from Cardiff Bay to the middle of the UK (Derbyshire) and I miss that and only that about Cardiff so much. I feel very claustrophobic so far from the coast so Iād say it never wears off.
tmbyfc@reddit
I can't imagine not living by the sea. Grew up in London but all school holidays were spent on the IOW, first with my auntie and then when my parents bought a tiny holiday cottage in the 80s (for about 11 grand!). They retired down there in the 90s so I've spent most of my life going to and fro on the ferry, until they passed in the last few years.
We've lived in Brighton & Hove for 23 years, and I wouldn't live anywhere else. We go to Dartmouth every summer to a cousin's cottage for a different view of the sea, and much as I love it there (and I do), it's too far from everything else for us. Brighton is a bit manic in the summer, but we're in the quiet end, and it's nice having the 20 yr old nieces and nephews coming to stay in the summer and go to Pride etc, stumbling in at 8 in the morning while I put the kettle on. That was us once.
When our kids are grown up we might move to a smaller place but it will still be here. I love all the seasons, winter is amazing, no crowds, stormy wild seas with the wind in your face and a pub lunch with the fire going, or calm crisp freezing blue skies and a hot coffee listening to the surf. Spring there's unexpected warmth on some days, with over-enthusiastic shedding of clothes, people lying stretched out optimistically on the stones, only for a sea mist to roll in with no warning and the temp drops 12 degrees inside five minutes. Hilarious watching some people get caught in that. Autumn the summer seems to last longer here, t shirts and pints on the beach when it's nearly Halloween, before the switch gets flicked and the heavens open and it all rolls round again.
For me the trick is being in a big enough town with stuff happening all year round. Lots of those December school holidays were spent being the only person in the village under 50 and no signs of life anywhere. In the last 20 years my parents would be one of maybe 6 houses in a street of 48 with lights on out of season, everything else was holiday flats, so it's worse than when I was a kid, just a theme park for rich 2nd home owners with house prices wildly out of reach for locals.
Motor-Trouble194@reddit
No, Iāve lived in a village by the sea for 5 years and hope never to move. See the sea from several rooms as there is only a field between the end of my road and the sea.
Every season is different and there is always a set of cloths that you will be comfortable in going for a walk.
Lately there has been a fair few airBNBs set up in the village and itās great to see people from all over the country come and find our gem of an area. (I donāt think I would like it becoming overly full of tourists like some of the big seaside towns)
Itās colder in the summer and ever so slightly warmer in the winter. When we moved the neighbors said it doesnāt snow because how close we are to the sea. First winter lots of snow!
DreamOdd3811@reddit
Interesting, Iād expect it to be colder in winter!
Motor-Trouble194@reddit
Someone once told me it was because the North sea, even though feels freezing to us actually stays around 8C even in January so it acts like a huge thermal store and give off heat (8C heat agains a winter day) and helps āwarmā the costal areas ever so slightly.
In the summer it is the opposite and the sea is cooler than the land area and absorbs heat away.
Happy to be proven wrong tho
Rahikeru@reddit
Born and raised on the Sussex coast and went to Portsmouth for uni. There's no real novelty for me, it's more that it's the only thing I've known and I don't want anything different.
Finding my way home is so easy when you got the sea as a reference for south. The air is supposedly cleaner, and summers here are never unbearably hot. I do feel privileged that I can walk for 15-20 minutes and I'm at the beach, but at the end of the day it's a shingle beach so it's nothing special ā I still have to drive about 15ish minutes for a sandy beach.
The sea is a comfort thing, even if I'm not a regular beach-goer. I don't like it when tourists flood the coast every summer though.
psweep25@reddit
No way. Always different every minute. Storms are great. Changing sands. Mist rolling in. Marine traffic app.
blackskies4646@reddit
Nope. I'm about a 5 minute drive from the sea front. There are car parks at each end of the "front" and it's a good 3ish mile walk. On a sunny day it's heavenly.
Some people have houses set back from the sea wall. One of those people have installed a huge window and put their living room upstairs just so they can sit and look out over the sea.
First-Butterscotch-3@reddit
Yes...I spent my first 31 years within a mile of 2 beaches.....never truly appreciated it until I moved to landlocked midlands
WernerHerzogEatsShoe@reddit
I had a mate who moved to Brighton. I went down to visit him and went to the beach and I was saying 'must be amazing with this on your doorstep', he just said 'dunno, I never go to there'. I think the novelty wore off in about a week for him.
srm79@reddit
I've moved up and down the country over the years, but I always have to be near the coast, I couldn't imagine living inland
anal_fist_fight24@reddit
I lived by the sea until I was 18 and then didnāt for 18 years. I moved back recently and it has been incredible for my mental health. Thereās something about not being surrounded byā¦land. And being able to walk along the beach etc. just love it.
FatBloke4@reddit
Downsides of living by the sea include:
Seagulls are really annoying;
Depending on your location, winter storms can be a bit intense;
Corrosion from salty air tends to rot your car and anything metal outside.
But none of this is enough to make me want to move inland.
___CS4C___@reddit
I never get bored living by the sea. Walking the dog first thing in the morning when the suns coming up and the tide is out is one of lifeās simple pleasures likewise at nighttime, great way to reflect on my day.
PenetrationT3ster@reddit
Live in Brighton. Been here 3 years, it's always a joy to go to the sea. I'm a 2 min walk from it, i dip my feet in sometimes and it's lovely. I will always be close to the sea, it's extremely therapeutic for me.
CryptographerRich277@reddit
I'd love to live by the sea, or next to a canal in Amsterdam. Something about the water.
Competitive-Green430@reddit
Yes seagull crap screams takes off the edge
animalwitch@reddit
My Grandfolks had a flat overlooking the sea in Torquay. It never gets old, they thought so too as they'd been there for 40 years.
It was grandad's favorite past time to look over the bay.
There would be various boats, birds and occasionally dolphins.
It was so nice to sit on their balcony, especially in the blazing sunshine!
Tiny_Major_7514@reddit
I left Aus aus and live by the see in Wales - despite the stereotypes in Aus the coastline here is beautiful. I'd say the novelty never wears off; it just becomes part of your life in a way that you feel you couldn't live far from it again.
PurpleTranslator7636@reddit
Grew up about 70m from the sea as the crow flies. Saw it once or twice a year. I hate the sand, the salt, the coldness of the water.
dolly3900@reddit
Nope.
Live about 100m from the sea.
Often I can hear it through the window when I wake up.
I walk my dogs past it each morning.
If I were to step out from my door right now, I can see, hear and smell it.
I will never not love this place.
loudotmac@reddit
I'll never tire of it.
I embrace the grey and miserable days when the horizontal rain and crashing waves deter many of the fair weather wanderers from visiting my local stretch of beach. Having the sands to yourself is a special kind of magic.
Blue sky days are, of course, preferable, but with good weather comes more people, and they're not my fave.
SingerFirm1090@reddit
I don't myself, but I have friends who live on the Norfolk coast, they tend to look forward to winter because the town is quiet, no tourists.
KPTheLegend7@reddit
Yea. It never snows.
Krillzilla@reddit
Thereās something grounding about the sea and the fact it's always there, constant and vast. Whether it's calm like glass or roaring with waves, being near it is calming. For me, it's like looking up at the night sky, both are immense, ancient forces that remind you how small you really are. That perspective can be strangely comforting.
I could never live too far inland.
davebronson@reddit
As a man who lives in Devon but works in Cornwall, the weather is too shit to notice š¤·š¼āāļø Donāt get me wrong, when the sun is shining there is no better place to live in the world, but the sun shines a few weeks a year so for the rest that calm sea is just dull waves š
cari-strat@reddit
Another Midlander here and would absolutely love to live at the seaside. My dream is a place with a beautiful sea view, preferably a west facing terrace, balcony or garden as I love to watch the sunset. I don't want a big fancy house, but a little bit of land for my dogs and no immediate neighbours would be a bonus.
At present we are rather tied here due to elderly parents and children/school but it's a dream for the future, hopefully before we are too old and feeble to make it a reality.
ratemychicken@reddit
As soon as the seagulls opened their beaks
No-Mulberry6289@reddit
The novelty never wears off. Ever.
Mickcmc@reddit
I have now moved for just over a year away from a lovely house within earshot of the sea in Northumberland. I miss it desperately. The problem I had was that I also missed my family who were 300 miles away and I am not any longer a youngster easily able to drive such distances. Being close to the sea is an amazing balm to life and I miss it not having it herein east Cheshire. My head tells me I made the right decision but my heart misses it desperately.
loved0ve_@reddit
I live in Brighton, have done most of my 30 years and no it never does, whenever I see the sea it boosts my mood substantially and gives me glimmers of happiness x
MessyBex@reddit
I honestly cannot imagine living anywhere other than close to the sea. Not necessarily right on my doorstep but still within a 5 min drive/ 20 min walk
emjayem22@reddit
Never. Moved from the midlands to Edinburgh over 20 years ago. Walk by the sea every day and never get bored of it, winter or summer.
PinacoladaBunny@reddit
We live on the coast in Merseyside. 3 years in now and absolutely no regrets. We often go down to the beach after work to sit and watch the sunset (especially the winter ones!) with a brew. Itās healing for the soul living by the sea - not to mention my husbandās very severe asthma has basically āhealedā since we moved here.
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Where did you live before if you donāt mind me asking? Was the sole reason for your move so that you could be near the sea?
PinacoladaBunny@reddit
We lived about 1.5hrs away, right over the other side of Manchester. It rains there all the time, and despite all the countryside, it always felt quite congested with people and traffic and noise. We had the opportunity to move, and Iād always wanted to live by the sea.
As a plus, over here itās cheaper too so we could buy a Victorian villa - it would never have been possible to buy somewhere like this in G. Manchester. We can also still commute to Manchester easily, and now also Liverpool too. So we made sure it was still practical for living lol. The seaside weather is also awesome, which is a big bonus!
MartyDonovan@reddit
I grew up near the sea. We couldn't see it from our house but it was really just at the end of the road. I don't think I ever saw it as a novelty, it just was. It was great during the summer, we spent so much time at the beach, and all times of the year it was nice to walk along the seafront.
But I got tired of living in that small village, I was tired of that more than the sea. There wasn't much to do for young people and after a while it feels like you're walking the same beaten track around the same places.
I live in London now, which I love just because there's always so much going on. I don't really think about the sea that often, but I do visit my parents about once a month and it's nice to go down to the sea while I'm there. It finally does make it something of a novelty.
TheRealBlooBananas@reddit
I moved to Swansea for my PhD having lived in other places in the UK up to that point, and now living anywhere away from the sea is ruined for me. No, it absolutely does not get old. I can go to the same local beaches 200 times in a year and still think "wow" every time
Psychological_Sky480@reddit
I was born in a seaside town, lived a couple of minutes from the sea as a kid. Still live in the same town now a short drive or bus ride down to the seafront but still go down when I can.
I donāt think Iāll ever leave, even though the town has gone downhill in recent years (like a lot of seaside towns sadly have) I still love sitting by the sea just watching the waves and soaking up the sun. I enjoy a trip to somewhere like London but love getting home and donāt think I could ever live in a city or inland.
Goodmorningbelle@reddit
Never! Iāve always lived by the sea! How the hell does anyone know where they are if they donāt know where the sea is šš¤£
No_Memory1601@reddit
I have travelled and worked all over the world and have always tried to find accommodation at or near the sea. Now l have retired and my home is away from built up areas and by the sea.
The sea has always affected me positively and has always been important to me.
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
Very similar to me. Enjoy your retirement.
No_Memory1601@reddit
Thank you. I have 2 beautiful greyhounds and we walk to the beach together where they can run their their hearts out and they join me in enjoying my retirement.
ballsybadger@reddit
Could never live away from the sea, started life in Lymington Hampshire and ended up on North coast of Cornwall, two very different coasts. Loved sailing and messing around on the Solent / Channel and now walk dogs for miles on deserted beaches exploring rock pools and sitting watching the seals in Cornwall. I literally get stressed so badly if Iām away from the sea.
twiddlepipper@reddit
No, the novelty never wears off. I spent 22 years growing up next to the beach in Hong Kong. Lovely and warm. Moved to the UK and ended up living in Epping Forest - which is also fantastic but missed the sea a lot so we bought a house on the Devon coast that we AirbnB but will be our retirement home in a few years. Advantages? Seagulls, sand, sea and surf. Sailing, fish and chips, coastal walks, stunning scenery everyday whatever the weather and loads of places to walk the dogs, the annual pirate festival, cider and there are no flight paths over the house. Watching dolphins and seals daily. Disadvantages? When there's a storm - you know it. Sometimes it rains for days and days. Lots of maintenance living next to the sea. That's it. Wouldn't change it for the world.
Kpowell911@reddit
As much as I love leaving the Midlands and going to Devon and Cornwall, I think if I lived there Id actually hate people like me who come down and get in the way of my day to day life everytime the sun comes out.
fisher30man@reddit
I think I'd enjoy it but the tourists would probably annoy me after while tbh
ygbjammy@reddit
I grew up in a house a matter of metres from the sea and beach. When I lived in a city for university I missed the countryside and trees and fields but never really missed the beach and sea if I'm honest. I now live about 30 mins from the sea, in a rural area, and totally happy. Maybe the beach near me just sucks š
BarnacleAnxious9248@reddit
No, you'll never tire of the view, the smell and my colleagues are highly amused by the sound of seagulls that they hear on teams calls as I work from home!
Winter is a whole other vibe, dark, moody and quiet. Absolute bliss! I'm lucky my town is also full of old people and industry so never really shuts over winter, it's just a lot easier to get a parking space, lol.
LikeEveryoneSheKnows@reddit
I live on the north coast of Scotland. Clear views out to sea and to Orkney. You can't beat it. I'll never get tired of it, as it's always changing.
Kind_Shift_8121@reddit
I grew up on the coast and so there is no novelty for me. I have never not been appreciative and fascinated by the sea though. I tend only to go now early in the mornings or on a stormy day as I see now joy in laying on the sand surrounded by loads of other people.
FoodEnvironmental368@reddit
Absolutely not, I get to see, hear and smell the sea every day. A beautiful sunny day and you could mistake it for the French Riviera, a windy winters day and itās like itās the window to another world - mist, spray, fog and cloud - I love it.
88Jewels@reddit
No. I was born on the NE coast and spent my whole childhood on the beaches. I moved to York for around 7 years, and I loved it, but it wasn't the coast.
I've been back in my hometown for about 10 years now, and I genuinely never want to leave. There's just something special about living on the coast.
Mxcharlier@reddit
Unless you live literally on the seafront you can go weeks without ever seeing the sea despite living in that town unless you purposefully make an effort to go and look at the sea.
in Devon and Cornwall the seaside is either freezing and windy or full or grokels. The novelty wears off quick I'm sure.
heliskinki@reddit
That would be me if I didnāt own a dog. Iām walking him on the beach at least 3 times a week.
coffeewalnut05@reddit
I dunno, Cornwall and Devon are super dynamic. Every evening the sunset looks different, the waves change, the tides go up and down, moonlight at the beach is also spectacular and a unique experience. The turquoise hue of the seawater is always beautiful. The coastal trails also light up with 50 shades of green and wildflowers in summer. Sea air is also proven to be healthier.
The seaside is glorious.
Mxcharlier@reddit
Lived there 18 years.
Yep. It's amazing.
It's also now hellish expensive. Impossible if you can't afford a car, lacks public transport, many areas of deprivation that are overlooked because it's a beautful place and fewer career opportunities because it's just so damn far from so many places.
I miss it terribly at times. I lived equidistantly between Dartmoor and Torbay and was blessed those issues didn't affect me at the time but I'd never move back unless money was no object.
But give me the moors and woodland any day over the seaside!
namur17056@reddit
Used to make monthly trips to the midlands to get away for a bit lol
heliskinki@reddit
Lived by the sea for 11 years, plus another 4 while I was at college.
The joy never wears off. Seeing unobstructed views of the horizon is good for the soul.
stevegraystevegray@reddit
We're moving from London to the Kent coast next year, we have family in Whitstable and Margate and it's almost a relief when we go there now. We won't be able to afford much, but a little house by the sea is fine
PistachioElf@reddit
I maybe the exception but after living by the sea for 5 years Iāve had enough. Winter is miserable. I understand why people like it but I donāt. Too wjndy to really get out and enjoy especially if you have very young children.
Spring and Summer is amazing at times. But there are still days when the rest of the country is having sunshine, and weālll have sunshine with a biting cold wind. Not pleasant.
Most-Regular621@reddit
Lived next to the sea all my life in two separate countries (direct view to the sea each time from home) and no, it never wears off. You really miss it when you leave too
Gibbo982@reddit
I use to live in Cyprus near the sea and it never wore off.
MissCaldonia@reddit
I live on the Kent coast, itās nice sometimes but not that amazing as we canāt see the sea from where we are anyway (approx 1/2 mile ) Iād say itās not as good if you canāt see it or have very easy access, be selective about what the area becomes like in the Summer. Iād rather live near a forest like I used to, itās nice to visit the beach in the evening but I wouldnāt personally miss it it.
Own-Independence-757@reddit
Yes.
You loathe any mention of a sunny day, extra 1 hour on your commute.
LemmysCodPiece@reddit
I was born in Newquay and I live in Perranporth. I have never been a fan of beaches or the sea. I prefer being inland, I love trees, open moorland and mountains. So I am moving, for the first time in 50 years I will not live by the sea. I get why people like it, which is cool.
AppropriateAthlete77@reddit
Never ever wares off. Watching the sunset from the coast where I live never gets old. Even just a nice hot day too or when the sea is bashing into the land itās all amazing and I feel so lucky to live near the sea.
Bael_thebard@reddit
I live in Dundee, my house doesnāt have a view of the Tay or the sea. However I see both every day and would hate missing that view.
RepeatedlyIcy@reddit
Yes! I like a 10 minute walk from the beach and on a quiet night, can hear the waves if I have my window open.
I am not a beach person, the only time I'm down there is to walk along the seafront as it's the only scenic place within walking distance to me.
It's busy in summer, traffic is terrible and it's a stony beach. I also would never swim in the water here.
I moved from the peak district, which I love. I would much rather be in the hills!
OkayYeahSureLetsGo@reddit
Never. It was the best choice we made when buying a home, I love being within walking distance of the water and don't mind a bit longer commute. However, I can usually WFH so that does make it easier.
ryskwicpicmdfkapic@reddit
I find British seaside depressive. It might be nice for those two weeks of summer that we usually have, but the rest of the year itās just depression, for some reason.
Wednesdaysbairn@reddit
Moved to the East Neuk in Scotland 22 years ago (from Shropshire, another beautiful place but about as far from the sea you can get in the UK). Since then my life has collapsed due to many reasons but now, even as I sweep up the shite from the tourists, I still look around and realise what a wonderful place I live in. The sea is otherworldly and soothing - not to mention the associated wildlife.
yatootpechersk@reddit
Lived across the road from the sea in France for six years and it never wore off.
sunglower@reddit
I have two friends who live by the sea(different places) who are there every day almost walking their dogs, fossil collecting, taking in the scenery.
I also know and know of folk who live by the sea who haven't been to the beach in years! I guess it totally depends on you.
ForeignWeb8992@reddit
The sea has no novelty but it has a presence that permeates many aspects of life around it. You noticed it more when you are away.
Adorable_Storage_606@reddit
As someone that grew up in on the beach on in new zealand, yes it absolutely does wear off lol
FrancesRichmond@reddit
Never wears off. Have lived by the sea for 35 years - I never tire of it. I walk by the sea every day, on the prom, on the beach, along the cliffs- it suits every mood and is always a thing of beauty.
Ok_Cow_3431@reddit
No. I live in Barry and have done for the past 9 years, never get tired of it even when it's cold wet and windy in the winter. Something about the fresh air blowing off the water is rejuvenating. Most of my daily running routes are on the waterfront, it's great
-are_you_on_email-@reddit
Never. Grew up near the sea, moved south, moved right onto the sea to the point I could see it from bedroom and living room windows / balcony doors. Moved slightly inland (only 15 mins) and I miss it.
Itās like having a great desktop screensaver every day, itās never the same view, it motivates you to get outside, itās easy to cross the road and walk for hours with your own thoughts. If money we no object (would need a house now not a flat)) Iād be back there in a shot
Salt-Evidence-6834@reddit
Yes. As a child living by the sea disappointed me. I figured if there had been land there then there might have been something good built on it, but there was just water there instead. We didn't really have that much beach weather on Tyneside though
Conversely, my wife grew up inland & going to the seaside is still special to her.
leona189@reddit
The novelty for me will never wear off. I love living by the sea and have done my whole life. Thereās just something about it.
Jaikus@reddit
My Mum has lived by the sea for 10 years now. While the novelty 100% hasn't worn off for her, the coastline HAS worn off due to erosion and she is now much closer to the sea than she once was.
Only 10-15 meters of sand dune remain before her house is "on the beach" and she will be homeless. She is disabled, unemployed and I'm worried what will happen to her, being of relatively poor means myself.
Caveman1214@reddit
Never
Captftm89@reddit
I'm going against the grain here, but I lived in a seaside town for the first 24 years of my life, moved away & haven't missed it once.
algbop@reddit
Nope! 34 years and counting on the Essex coast, and I still love it. I always feel a bit unbalanced when Iām not by the sea.
Supergoose5000@reddit
I moved away from the south coast. One of the many mistakes in my life. I was utterly smitten with where I lived. Now I can't go back as my wife hates it.
SilentDrapeRunner11@reddit
No, never. I live near a port and absolutely love seeing what new ships have docked from my living room window. It never gets old.
gponter79@reddit
No 100% never wears off. Live in Wallasey on the edge of Wirral looking out to the Irish Sea, we have long beaches and beautiful sunsets over the horizon. Itās amazingā¦.
EatingCoooolo@reddit
In the UK definitely. I lived in Brighton and Hove for 10 years and couldnāt get myself to go into that water once. Looking at it is nice but once youāve seen it a thousand timesā¦
Other warmer places Iāve lived, nope. The more you can swim in it the more decades it will take for me for the novelty to wear off.
Goodbykyle@reddit
Never! The beach & lagoon are different every morning āļø
ConflictOfEvidence@reddit
I grew up living near the sea and moved away at 20. I've spent more than that time living in the middle of Europe at least 10 hours from the sea. I still miss it
MsOCD@reddit
Nope... not even a little bit.
I mean on a windy day it's not great for the hair especially when you try to brush it when it's got sea air in it but that's still not enough to make the novelty wear off, worth it everytime.
Conscious-Cut-6007@reddit
Grew up near the sea and went inland for uni and first job. Six years inland and would have days when I would crave seeing the sea.
Now back on the coast with a sea view and I never get tired of being close to the sea and spend hours just watching the sea change
SwordTaster@reddit
Depends on the person I guess. I'm from the great yarmouth area, lived there 30 years. Never saw it as a novelty and never particularly gave a fuck.
Iklepink@reddit
No never. I canāt stand being far away.
The furthest I lived from the sea was 20km but that was in Sweden and I did live 300m from an enormous lake. I currently live 1km from the sea in Aberdeen (I can see it from my kitchen and lounge) and Iāve previously live 200m and 60m away in Wales.
I can just pop down to the beach whenever I like. Take a drink, a book, some knitting, just sit. Itās exposed to all the weather and I love it all. I live for winter storms off the sea. I love going down in winter, the skyās grey, all the buildings are grey here, the sea is grey. Itās so bleak yet so beautiful. Long evenings in summer where the sun doesnāt set until 22:30 and I can just sit watching the sun over the sea.
The council does fireworks at the beach for bonfire night and seeing them reflected in the expanse of the sea adds an extra layer of magic to the whole evening.
Bury me at sea for all I care, I love it.
EnidBlytonLied@reddit
Devonian moved to Sunshine Coast, QLD. Yep it becomes boring after a while. Same thing to do āletās go to the beachā every weekend plus in many QLD beaches you canāt swim because of the rips and tides. I moved to Brisbane within 2 years where thereās more culture (not more than Devon though) and more things to do- especially in the evening
Itchy_Cranberry2750@reddit
Nope
Stunning-Attitude366@reddit
We moved from coastal to country and I miss hearing the ocean particularly at night.
p1p68@reddit
Born and raised in dorset. Honestly I avoid it in summer because it's got so many holiday visitors and dog walk alot in winter. I always appreciate how lucky I am to live in dorset as we have such a wide variety of beaches. Kimmeridge, Chesil, Shell Bay, Warbarrow, to name a few, all very different.
RipCurl69Reddit@reddit
The entire Dorset coast is fantastic, so glad my parents moved from Southampton when I was a baby lol
Genuinely couldn't live anywhere else. Sometimes I just go down Swanage way and walk around the seafront for a bit, it's lovely
JunFanLee@reddit
Never, I grew up in Devon...Moved to London for Uni then settled here'ish with kids and stuff that was nearly 30 years ago. I miss the sea so much. One day I hope to retire by the coast and be reunited with it
Eryeahmaybeok@reddit
I grew up in Devon as well. My secondary school was in Dawlish. I moved away in my late 20s and really miss the proper single track countryside with nothing around for miles and having access to the coast (the south east 'coast' just doesn't compare)
FamousOrphan@reddit
Yes. Iāve lived by the sea my whole life and I havenāt been to the beach in years. Not a fan.
DarkLady1974@reddit
I can't wait to get away from here and in around 2 years we're moving somewhere without seagulls! They're evil and verminous scavengers that crap everywhere! I never used to mind them but 11 years of them has taken it's toll
Overseerer-Vault-101@reddit
Devonshire dumpling born and bred, always lived within sight of the sea and been all over the country. Itās not that the novelty wears off, As in you have something you acknowledge and appreciate daily. Itās just when itās gone you REALLY notice it missing. A Scott may long for the lochs and glens, A Welshman may long for the valleys but I could never live anywhere away from the sea for longer than a few months without going insane.
welshpussykat@reddit
Absolutely not. Can't beat it for walks and clearing your head
Cruump@reddit
Never, I can see the North Sea from my bedroom window and I often walk down to the beach just to look at the sea
Fun-Environment9172@reddit
When you realise the sea breeze is actually a pissy junkie asleep in your front doorway. What is it with junkies and the sea? I thought they were allergic to puddles?
Independent_Push_159@reddit
Nope. Lived by the sea, in different parts of the country for the whole of my life (now 54yo) bar a couple of years in the middle. Always and still love the sea, even if I don't see it for a few days, I feel comforted by its proximity. Living briefly in the midlands was a real wrench - I'd take trips to the coast whenever I could, and had evening walks along the Trent/Nottingham Canal in the evening. Just no substitute for living by the coast though.
EarlBluejay@reddit
Yes, but also, no?
Our front door faces north, into the North Sea; which starts about 150 meters away at most. During the winter, the wind hitting you instantly as soon as you leave the house; the sea just being this grey area that can kind of blend into the sky, and I try and stay away from it as best I can.
But this time of year, in the Spring; we've had lovely weather, you can step out the front door, and there's a vibrant bluey-green layer between the open sky, and tge green grass atop the cliffs.
Summer is coming soon, and nothing beats sitting on the cliffs, cup of tea in hand with the sun beating down.
And that's saying nothing of the sunsets over the sea, or watching the ship lights miles out to sea on a warm night. It's these little moments that remind me, when people say 'you're lucky to have the sea right on your doorstep', that yeah, I am, despite half the time thinking 'well, it's there I suppose'
beetlehat@reddit
To be concise, no
taught-Leash-2901@reddit
I grew up by the sea and then spent five years (late teens/early twenties) living miles inland - swore I'd never do it again - been living coastal ever since. Good news is we'll all be living by (or under) the sea in 30 years...
Extra_End1623@reddit
I used to live 5 minutes from the sea and went to the beach twice lol
Dnny10bns@reddit
Never. I've lived by it most of my life. Entirely by fluke given I've moved around a lot and travelled. It's not something I really thought about till I got older. But yeah, it definitely has a calming effect being near water. Something about it just eases anxiety or stress.
Putrid-Caramel7004@reddit
Nope, I do a daily walk along the seafront.
I appreciate it every single day. The wind, the clouds, the sun, the changing light, waves and colours of the sea. Everyday feels like it is brand new, unique. A gift I can enjoy.
I was sad today so I naturally just gravitated to go sit by the ocean. It erases thoughts and calms me. I was able to stand after a while and carry on with my day feeling better.
DogDrools@reddit
Youāve described it better than I did. All you say applies to me to how I feel too.
DogDrools@reddit
Iām old. Iāve lived in the countryside until I was 28. Moved to the city for 8 years and for the last almost 30 years have lived near (not sea-front) the sea - five minutes away. I love it. I regularly think about how lucky I am to live here and that if I was a holidaymaker here Iād be thinking permanent residents were sooo lucky. I love where I live and would hate to move.
Ur_favourite_psycho@reddit
Definitely wears off once you realise it's full of actual shit nowadays. It gets boring to go to the beach and sit with tons of tourists everywhere.
Flintlockooo@reddit
Born and gre up in Cornwall. It absolutely wears off when you realise there's literally nothing else to do. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love looking at the sea, but it's much nicer now going back down every year or so in between actually having a life.
BreakfastLopsided906@reddit
I want do answer something cool. But the top comment is a book. So, Cornwall? Yes?
syfimelys2@reddit
Nope, and the older you get the more you appreciate it (I think anyway)
Manatsuu@reddit
I live in Whitley bay and I love being by the sea. As a dog owner, itās really great for taking my dogs there. And nearby thereās a nature reserve with dozens of seals that I regularly enjoy going to watch. Itās not a touristy seaside town as such though, so itās not maybe seasonal like other places where it feels dead in the off season.
Plumbus93@reddit
No, It never does.
Cirieno@reddit
Seagulls, and sand in the air gets on everything.
cognitiveglitch@reddit
I grew up by the seaside on the south coast. Didn't really visit the beaches that much, I guess you get used to the convenience of them being there, and in summer they get packed with tourists.
But I can't tolerate living too far from the sea.
Relatively recently I fell in love with Norfolk's desolate beaches, blasted by the cold North Sea wind where you can walk for hours and rarely see another soul. Maybe the seals. My kind of beach.
ItsUs-YouKnow-Us@reddit
No. I love it every single day and see it as a real privilege!
Even if itās cold and raining. Watching the violence of the waves hitting the shore with the salty wind in your face is amazing.
BackgroundHorror3751@reddit
It doesnāt wear off. I moved from inner city council state Manchester to 10 mins walk to the sea near Portsmouth 20 years ago and it still feels the same as day one for me. I canāt see how itād ever change either!
Emergency_Mistake_44@reddit
Not the sea as such but I live along North Kent where the River Thames starts to open up towards the North Sea/Channel depending where that line is drawn and can see it from my flat balcony.
I walk along it every day on my way to the gym and while it's not very picturesque with all the cargo ships, occasional cruise ship and various industrial related vessels I do like the fact that it's a different picture every time I go past.
It's quite calming to me to sit on one of the benches near it and just gaze into the distance, whether that be Essex to the north of me or the aforementioned widening of the river to the east. Not much to see in a westerly direction except Dartford Crossing.
PeterG92@reddit
I live 150m from the sea, I wouldn't change it for the world. The seaside in the summer is amazing. Yes, not as nice in the winter but hardly horrific.
FeistyRedhead62@reddit
Never.
1968Bladerunner@reddit
No, I can't imagine living life far from it. Since moving to the far Highlands at 10yo it's been a constant source of enjoyment, wonder & endless beauty.
MyDarlingArmadillo@reddit
Never. I'm right on the coast, I can see the sea as soon as I open the door, I never get tired of it. It's always changing, always different. You do get a lot of wind, it can howl through sometimes, since there's nothing to break it before it gets to you, but on the other hand, snow barely lies. I love it, I couldn't move
DrHydeous@reddit
What novelty? I grew up in a seaside town it was just there, and Iāve not cared since I was about 10.
catsaregreat78@reddit
We live beside a sea loch. Itās tidal and deposits seaweed in the normal way but we rarely get rough water/white horses. The most disruptive it can get is a storm surge pushing the water up past normal spring tide height and overtopping the road which cuts us off from civilisation for about an hour.
Iāve always lived by the sea, although this is the closest Iāve been to actual water. The thought of living inland gives me some sort of claustrophobia. So thereās probably no novelty as such but I still appreciate the different moods the water gives off.
joesus-christ@reddit
There was a brief period in my early 20s I got bored of it, but then PokƩmon Go came out and it was wonderful again. Of my 30 years living by the sea it was amazing for 25. Every single day I regret moving to the city, but I've committed now so may as well get what I can out of it for a few more years before heading back to the seaside!
No_Aesthetic@reddit
I've lived by the sea in New York and California, it doesn't really wear off if you like it. Your relationship to it changes over time, but it sort of becomes a part of you. Nowadays, it's hard for me to be away from the sea. Birmingham is pretty far from it, but I'm moving to Portugal soon. So yeah. Go where you want in life and enjoy it!
TGC_2802@reddit
I grew up near the sea (Could see it if I walked 2 mins down the road) 30 mins walk to the "beach"
Unfortunately the sea was the Bristol Channel which is brown, terrible and right next to a major port š¤£
sampoo92@reddit
I relocated to Devon three months ago from the west mids. One of the best decisions Iāve ever made. I feel so much more alive. I watched kitesurfers and sailing boats from my window today as I was working. But even if you donāt live on the seafront, there is so much to do⦠going for an evening walk by the sea never gets old.Ā
Everything Ā seems calmer and even the āroughestā areas are nothing in comparison with the depths of west mids.Ā
indigo263@reddit
Living by the sea never gets old! Grew up in a house where the beach was just a short five minute walk away and I still live in the same town. When I moved away for uni and didn't have the option to just walk to the beach I really missed that. Whenever I go on holiday, it's the ones where a trip to a new beach (or two, or three) that I enjoy most.
Mr_Miyagis_Chamois@reddit
Doesn't ware off - it washes off
ResponsibleDemand341@reddit
Would never move away. Love my weekends up in other cities doing a bit of sightseeing and gigs and whatnot, but my true happy place is walking along West Bay to Burton Bradstock, whatever the weather, and going for a swim where the cliffs dip where it's the most peaceful.
Footner@reddit
Never. The only times I have found it wear off is when I go away for a while around family and stuff. But then the second I come back the novelty comes backĀ
AllHailTheHypnoTurd@reddit
Yeah I do not give a shit. The only time itās good is during the summer and then itās unusable because of tourists
bookishnatasha89@reddit
I've lived by the sea since 97. The novelty is still there but sometimes I take it for granted that I do.
Aettyr@reddit
I lived my whole life in Blackpool before moving 3 years ago so I feel required to comment
No. The sea doesnāt lose its appeal. Everything else does. The sea is beautiful and calm, and I always miss walking along the prom and breathing in the air, enjoying the windā¦
But I donāt miss the gaudy 6 month long seasonal attractions, the utter lack of care by the council for anything except the town centreās terrible decorations, and the especially terrible amount of poverty the town is in! For your own sake, never go near central drive or lord street if you value your lifeā¦
lordrothermere@reddit
No. It's the best
llynllydaw_999@reddit
I lived near the sea for 25 years and then moved inland. I don't really miss it at all, even when I lived near the sea I spent most of my leisure time inland.
Suitable-Ant8840@reddit
I grew up in the Canary Islands and it was amazing. It never got old. Quality of life was unbelievably high in contrast to the low level of income. I do recommend it if you have the opportunity. The flip side was a lack of future prospects for young people so everyone moved away including myself - Iām in Manchester now (great in its own way) in-laws are Cornish and so I do get a regular dose of the beach but it doesnāt quite hit the same lol.
Squabsy2@reddit
Lived on hants / dorset border my whole life (57) literally could not live anywhere I couldn't walk to the beach it calms me in a way nothing else does. I work in London and colleagues don't get it , think I must have a boat or spend all summer sunbathing , neither is true . Walks and cycling along the coast is . On a windy day I can hear the sea from my gardenĀ
Princes_Slayer@reddit
I live a 5 minute drive from a beach/Irish Sea. I love it. I would take my dogs for walks early in the morning, no matter what season. On a particularly crystal clear morning I could see the Lake District up the coastline.
worldofecho_@reddit
No it never wears off. I find the sea is a calming presence and acts as an anchor (pardon the pun) in life. It looks different and gives different vibes dependent on the weather conditions, the sky and tides - so it doesnāt ever get boring. It can be dramatic, rough, calm and mellow. Sometimes all in one day.
I still have shit days living by the sea but I would say living right by it has improved my well-being massively.
Others have commented on the wind - that can be annoying. However some places are windier than others - e.g I used to live in Brighton which I find is way more windy than Southsea where I live now. Maybe we are protected from the elements by the Isle of Wight?
BlueMilkshake33@reddit
Nope, its one of my mental health needs to live by the sea. I couldnt survive in the midlands.
GrumpyOldFart74@reddit
I currently live 5 miles from the sea and itās the furthest Iāve ever been in my entire life. Weāre trying to figure out how to move back closer because we miss it⦠but itās bloody expensive!
kripantina@reddit
Itās not a novelty, itās a habit! Run - by the sea, dog walks - by the sea, etc.
hopeful-gym-bunny@reddit
I've lived in a North Yorkshire seaside town for just over 2 years. I love it.
I try to get to the beach with my dog every day. Just to breathe in the air and take in the views. Gorgeous.
It is bitterly cold some days, but I wouldn't return inland.
InfiniteBaker6972@reddit
Iāve been a stoneās throw from the sea for 25 years and the ānoveltyā is still very much alive.
AndyKWHau@reddit
I took the sea for granted while I was a teenager and then when I moved to London, I realised I really missed it.
charlolwut@reddit
You miss the sea air when you move to a city. I never noticed it as a kid, but I have loads of smelly sea air candles in the house that I light whenever I miss my hometown.
Imtryingforheckssake@reddit
I honestly couldn't imagine not living by the sea. Never understand other locals who don't enjoy and make use of it. When I moved out my first place was a bedsit, but with the beach and surrounding fields practically om my doorstep I didn't really mind living in a shshoebox. Also appreciate just how much free entertainment is on all summer (and throughout the year to a lesser degree).
Fickle_Hope2574@reddit
Yep. The noise from the seagulls, the noise of the waves and honestly the smell lost their apply within a few months for me.
Aconite_Eagle@reddit
No. Grew up by the sea; can never really live away from it without missing it.
painful_butterflies@reddit
On the 5 days of summer we have each year, it's paradise, on low wind days, it's OK.
On the 8 months of shit weather it's awful, sea spray covering your windows and car with crap, meaning when it dries, everything's crusty.
Metal garden furniture needs constant maintainence to protect from the salt.
Wind. Fucking wind! Our neighbours actually demolished their co servitors because of the absolute racket it made on even mildly windy days.
Without wanting to be "that guy".... tourists!! Yes we need your money to survive, however, for the love of God! Park like you've used a car at least once before, walk on pavements like a human, rather than a diagonal conga line which congeles into a blob when it stops. And just because you're on holiday having a good time, please remember there are people who live here and NEED TO SLEEP!!!! No you don't need to set off fireworks because you came to Devon to sleep in a field.
mizcello@reddit
Any other sea-livers.. I visit our local beach every single Sunday without fail with my grandma who has dementia, she thinks itās the best thing ever and āhas never been before!ā.. we share a fish and chips, then we get an ice-cream from another local hut.. itās been years.. I never miss a week.. my point is.. locals should get a little card that gets them to the front of the queue in summer!!!
I want to make a revolution! I support them every single week through the shut down of winter.. snow, hail, storm.. but then have to wait 45 minutes in a queue for our shared fish and chips or ice cream in the summer! Have a separate local queue or a golden ticket!! Rant over.
ignatiusjreillyXM@reddit
I miss living by the sea. I did so (in three different countries, with quite a variety of coastal conditions and climates among them) for the best part of a decade and the novelty never wore off.
Possibly what I hate most about England (specifically England) is how many grim towns and settlements we have on our coasts - those places should be treasured and valued a whole lot more than they are
Travel-Barry@reddit
Never wears off. It's actually got to the point where I fell off and a little depressed when I don't live near it.Ā
I used to be quite apathetic until I actually started using it tbf. Sure, it's nice to look at, but it comes with other benefits, such as much cleaner/fresher air and a nice place to cool off in the peak of summer.
I have even started sea swimming in the dead of winter. It really makes those summer swims feel tropical later in the year as your body gets used to the shock.
BestEver2003@reddit
BF has just moved back from Devon. He had a place on the harbour in Exmouth. I wish we still had it as it never got old.
louse_yer_pints@reddit
I grew up in a seaside town then at 40yo I moved inland and I miss it so much. It's not just being able to walk to the beach and having it right there it's the little things like lying in bed at night and hearing a constant roar of the sea off in the distance. I miss that most.
Sharks_and_Bones@reddit
The novelty doesn't wear off but you do see those areas in a different light. It's all lovely when the sun's shining. A bit different when it's cold with a biting wind and horizontal rain. I used to get seaweed tossed up onto my car during a regular rain storm. In a proper storm you had to try and find somewhere away from the sea to park (easier said than done) because large stones would be thrown up and smash windscreens etc.
Lisanolan2010@reddit
I live a stones throw away from the sea and bloody love it. The view driving down my road to my house never gets old.
Far-Bug-6985@reddit
I love living by the sea, always have lived within 20ish mins but used to work by the sea so saw it for 8 hours a day. Something soothing about it. Always good to go and sit and watch the sea and have a think.
Live in Devon and am married to a Cornishman, we would both argue our area of south Devon is better to live in year round as we get ~some~ less tourists, especially if you know where to avoid, and have more industry/jobs/resources. Cornwall is pretty but he didnāt enjoy living there and even visiting can be frustrating!
coffeewalnut05@reddit
Not for me. The beach and coastline change with the seasons and even from day to night.
Moonlight at the beach is a magical experience and nothing like the daytime, for example. Sunsets also vary every time and never get old. The tides change. The waves are bigger or smaller depending on the day. The sea looks bluer on some days than others. The coastline can look even more dramatic on a clear sunny day.
It never gets boring. The seaside is so dynamic.
cankennykencan@reddit
Yes the fucking seagulls do my head in waking me up in the morning
francobegbie123@reddit
I recently moved after 10 years living around 50 yards from the North Sea in Scotland. My kitchen window looked out past a lighthouse to the wind farms on the horizon. The view was amazing.
However, it was cold, windy, and foggy. Even going a ten minute drive slightly inland and the weather was noticeably nicer. I wouldn't ever want to live there again for that reason.
firewerk@reddit
I grow up in Weymouth and Poole all my life. I moved to Leeds around two years ago and whilst I don't miss the lack of work, clubs or generally anything to do, I do miss the sea like crazy all the time. Any time I get to go to the sea is a treat.
Grand_Rice_4565@reddit
Nope, I live in Jersey, went for a 2 hour surf after work today. I will do the same tomorrow as the sun is setting.
Mudeford_minis@reddit
Iāve always lived by the sea and def take it for granted. Iām 60 now and in recent years the Friday afternoon rush to the coast in the summer months has become most tedious.
gingerbread85@reddit
I grew up by the sea. It's fair to say I took it for granted until I moved away and then I missed it so if a sudden. Now that I'm back living by the sea I'm back to taking it for granted š Nice to know it's there though
Bastet_x@reddit
I live about 3 miles from the beach and I will never get tired of it.
Warm-Reference-4965@reddit
No it never wears off. I moved from my hometown in London down to the south west coast 18yrs ago. I'm a few minutes drive to numerous beaches. As I drive from my home and over a hill where I see the sea I still cannot believe that i achieved the lifelong ambition to live near the sea. If I'm ever struggling with the issues in my life I go and sit down at my favourite beach. It's calming and reminds me how lucky I am. Nope I don't see the novelty wearing off anytime soon!
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
How old were you when you moved?
Warm-Reference-4965@reddit
Mid 30s
Eastern_Canary2150@reddit (OP)
!thanks
32 here. Youāve given me some inspo⦠thanks for sharing your story.
lesloid@reddit
No, never. Iāve lived by the coast all my life except for 2 years and I missed it so much for those two years. Our house is 1/2 mile from the beach and I walk on it every morning with my dog. It is different every day, the beach itself changes depending on the weather and the tides, and the sea can be completely different colours and make completely different sounds from day to day. It still calms me when Iām frazzled, gives me hope when Iām jaded and I still enjoy getting fish and chips or having a pint on the harbour wall. I would never live anywhere that I couldnāt walk to the beach, thatās a hard line for me. Hate the fecking seagulls though, their shites tear through the paintwork on your car!!
RobCarrol75@reddit
I live by the sea in a town reliant on the Golf industry, so always seems relatively busy most of the year. I absolutely love it but the beach gets very busy in the summer, so I prefer it in winter. Love a stormy day with the waves crashing in, or paddleboarding on a beautiful crisp winters morning when the sea is like a pain of glass.
flowersfromflames@reddit
I live a 5 min walk in plymouth. I really donāt care for it.
i grew up in the Cotswolds, I miss that
takenawaythrowaway@reddit
No it's brilliant, I used to go to the beach multiple times a week, surfing, BBQs walks etc. loved it.
Unfortunately I'm not about an hour from the beach which is a bit of a shame but for 7 years I loved by the coast and it was the best.
Personal-Border5777@reddit
The novelty will never wear off for me. I spent the first 18 years so close to the sea that my parentsā back garden date actually opened right onto the beach, and for the last 20 years Iāve been living in a different part of the country, within about 100 m of the beach.Ā
Happily for me, both my parents old house and my house now are on the West Coast of the country, So I get wonderful sunsets as well as access to the beach/sea.
I love it.
And, weirdly, after all those years living right by the sea, whenever I hear a seagull screeching (which is often), My mind automatically goesāOoh! Lovely holiday noise!ā.
MelodicAd2213@reddit
Growing up in a naval family I was always very near the coast, it wasnāt until I went to uni and moved around for jobs that I realised how much I missed the coast. Moved back 20 years ago and will not be moving away again. I donāt really go on the beach much but being able to sit with the sea breeze on you and the sound of lapping waves is always great.
Icy_Answer2513@reddit
No the novelty doesn't wear off (for me at least).
I see it as a privilege to be in easy distance of the sea and some picturesque places.
I can forget to take advantage of it, or be unable to at times, which is regrettable and infuriating in equal measures.
Sustainable_Twat@reddit
I stayed in a hotel by the sea and initially, I liked it.
However, the novelty wore off after I came back to the hotel after a stormy day and half of the Seaās water was engulfing my bags and bed.
ddickin1@reddit
Arrrgh! Tis true that the sea is a cruel mistress, but... that turns me on!"
Deep_Sector_7047@reddit
We moved from London to the coast 18 years ago and I know I could never not live by the sea now. Winter can be a bit bleak (but isnāt that the case for a lot of places), but the summers feel so much longer. The vibe is completely different too. Even with our changeable weather, it doesnāt phase me. Raining in the morning, sunny in the afternoon and weāre on the beach. Itās a different way of life, can be a bit frustrating at times too, but we still love it!
StopTheTrickle@reddit
Depends how close you are. I spent 3 Months working on a beach in Cambodia, in a guest house, sound of waves crashing 24/7, all times of day you'd hear it
It grinds you down eventually, you start to go a bit nuts
damapplespider@reddit
I took up sailing just over a decade ago and moved to be nearer the sea 3 years ago. I live two roads back from the beach and I love it. I smile every time I see it. The days where the sun glitters on the water, the difference in the waves depending on tide and wind, the noise of the shingle as the wave breaks and the huge sky that sits over it all. The winter days where you wrap up and get invigorated by the wind blowing the cobwebs away. Searching through the shingle for interesting flotsam or seaglass.
Portsmouth City Council have just commissioned a poem from the Poet Laureate which sums it up well. It sits along the bit of the new sea defenses which are stepped like a theatre overlooking the Solent.
https://www.portsmouth.gov.uk/southsea-seafront-is-sheer-poetry/
The Theatre of the Sea
The performance is never the same one day
to the next. A cruise ship enters stage left
or a gull swoops down and steals the scene;
what song the weather will sing is anyoneās guess.
The moonās reflection understudies the full moon,
then at noon the sun delivers its big speech,
costumed in flowing robes, and still gets outshone
by the extras and bit parts of yachts and clouds.
Beyond the orchestra pit of the sea wall
the hovercraft sashays in for its curtain call.
But maybe youāre the real star of the show,
playing your true self, watched from a balcony sky,
lit by the footlights of coast and shore.
You stand to leave and the waves rise to applaud.
Electronic-Fennel828@reddit
No. I donāt live by the sea anymore but I used to and there isnāt a day that goes by that I donāt miss it.
fairylighterfluid@reddit
No. Whenever I go somewhere without a beach I always expect to crest a hill and see water. I find it really jarring to be somewhere that doesn't have an "end".
BeanzOnToasttt@reddit
Absolutely not. I love it so much, it's my happy place š I'd seriously hate it if I lived away from the sea/beaches.
Valuable-Wallaby-167@reddit
No, although admittedly I've never lived with my house literally facing the sea, so maybe if you can see it outside your window it's different, but I've spent most of my life within a mile of it.
I start getting homesick for the sea if I live too far away. I currently live about 5 miles away and honestly that's further than I like.
I find walking by the sea helps a lot with my mental health. As well as being beautiful it feels so endless and powerful that it helps put everything in perspective.
Original_Response776@reddit
Never tire of it.
Significant_Froyo899@reddit
I love living by the sea. Grew up by the sea on beaches facing west so the sun always sets over the ocean. I spent a year on the east coast and one evening nearly cried with homesickness when I saw the sun setting over the land. The sunsets are superb,and the storms are fantastic even the force 10 ones
MoodyBernoulli@reddit
I grew up a 2 minute walk from the sea.
Iāve never been bothered about going down to the beach or the sea in general.
PlasteeqDNA@reddit
Has not for me.. I couldn't live anywhere else.
mEmotep@reddit
No. I still get excited and feel like I'm on holiday
I_dream_of_Shavasana@reddit
The sea, and the shore, are constantly changing so there is novelty every new tideā¦Iāll never grow tired of it. The feel of the air. The sound. Ebb and flow as metaphor for life. Itās beautiful. I much prefer the deserted sandy beaches of the Atlantic in the Highlands to anywhere else.
TedBurns-3@reddit
Never. Gets. Old. And. Never. Will.
Quiet-Song-5395@reddit
My mom grew up next to the seaside and she hated the sea because where she lived (not in the UK) few people over the years drowned in the sea.
gerbilshoe@reddit
Its so nice to be able to go down to the sea and hear the waves gently lapping on a calm day and just look out and walk along the beach with your shoes off looking for washed up stuff and creatures, also exciting to see the huge waves when its stormy. I wouldn't want to live right next to the sea , I'm about 30 mins drive away and would like to be closer.
dglcomputers@reddit
Somewhat, mainly because we can go to the sea whenever we want so don't necessarily go as often as I should. Plus the weather can get pretty wild so you can go off living by the sea!
Also if I want to use my paddleboard in safer, warmer waters I have to pay Portland Port for the privilege.
Though I bet not many people can see the sea from the local Lidl! (and great for sea-side stuff in the summer), and a dip in the sea is a great way to cool off on a hot summers day.
ConsciouslyIncomplet@reddit
I live a half- mile from a major seaside resort on the South Coast. Sea air, great walks, a 4 miles promenade with cafes, restraints and shops. Fun fair, Pier and loads to do over the summer. Itās great and would struggle to now live somewhere else.
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