Men who have used sex workers and later got married, are your open about your past? If not, why?

Posted by SiRoddboi@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 8 comments

Curious how men navigate this problem and with sex work growing in various forms I imagine this is a convo many more couple will have in the future.

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Me-myself-I-2024@reddit

You think sex workers are a new trend or phenomenon? It’s 1 of the oldest professions this world knows and men have been using it from the start. Historically the only difference was there was no internet history to convict you. And is Only Fans classified as sex working in your book?? It’s still parting with money for sexual favours they are just of the cyber kind. But is that any different from a LDR a majority of the time? So where do you draw the line?

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Excellent_Weight_198@reddit

I think most people consider paying for any kind of sexual favour to be sex work, yes

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Me-myself-I-2024@reddit

That’s your opinion and of course you’re entitled to it but it doesn’t make it everybody’s and it doesn’t make it right to anyone other than you

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Excellent_Weight_198@reddit

Except these things have real definitions. From Wikipedia: Sex work is "the exchange of sexual services, performances, or products for material compensation. It includes activities of direct physical contact between buyers and sellers as well as indirect sexual stimulation".

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Me-myself-I-2024@reddit

LOL Wikipedia the website where anyone can post any information about any subject without any backup or proof. The last place on earth any definition should be accepted as gospel Sorry it adds no weight to your opinion

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FilmCrafty1214@reddit

Don’t see why it would be relevant or why a partner would need to know? Unless you feel guilty about using a sex worker for some weird reason. I wouldn’t ever admit it unless something serious had happened and I needed to state so.

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Excellent_Weight_198@reddit

Just out of curiosity, do you think it would also be fair to take the same perspective if a woman had previously been a sex worker? It’s her own business unless something serious happened and she needed to state it

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