I'm pretty sure most people know that being attractive in life grants certain privileges in life compared to other groups. So does being rich, so does being white. So does your gender, which one depends on the scenario.
Even if you're not in the most privileged group for something, you still have to live your life. You bring attention to these privileges so that people in the outgroup have a least a slightly better chance at getting past the bias but your average functional adult isn't going to tell you to just give up on life because someone else might have an easier time if they were in your position.
to expand on the looks does not matter mentality ill give what i believe it actually means
if you are part of the 98% of the population that looks normal aka not looking like a goblin mixed with every possible facial and body deformation possible or having every possible genetic advantages and look like god in human form then that saying works but if you arent part of the 98% then it actually applies
if you have part of the 1% of human beauty you can get away from things others cant and also get things others cant
while if you are part of the 1% of human ugliness you will most likely receive harsher punishments and will also be judged more
there is quite literally a psychological effect called halo effect aka if you are more beautiful people will think you are more skilled at things while if you are ugly its the reverse
To expand on the halo effect:
Beautiful people are more likely to have other advantageous traits:
- Beautiful women want successful men
- Successful men want beautiful women and not ugly women
- Successful men used some advantages to beat unsuccessful men whether intelligence, mindset, physical, etc.
- Successful men mate with beautiful women so the offspring are likely to inherit beauty and success-enabling traits.
- Based on this, humans associate good looks with automatic positive traits which is a good assumption.
I wouldn‘t even say „based on this“ since it‘s just a natural correlation.
Guys who don‘t take care of their skin usually have bad skin. Therefore good skin = you take care of yourself
Guys who shower less often and don‘t use perfume and deodorant smell bad. Therefore good smell = you take care of yourself
Guys who are wealthy (if self-earned) usually are smarter than guys who are not. Therefore wealthy = you know your way around life (usually)
Guys who have a lean body do a lot of exercise and have a good diet. Therefore good body = you know how to handle yourself and have good habits
All of these determine your worth as a potential partner.
Genes matter a lot when it comes to the actual shape of your face but pretty much everything else (except size) can be changed with the right mindset.
to expand even further on the halo effect
lets say you are getting treated by a medic and you had the option for a doctor that looks like a 10/10 in the beauty scale
or one that looks like the 1/10 in beauty scale
you psychologically unconsciously will most likely choose the 10/10 person rather than the ugly person because in your brain beautiful = better at medicine
Like everything else, it doesn’t matter until it gets to a certain level.
Money doesn’t matter. If you’re making office worker salary or construction worker salary, your date probably doesn’t care. But if you make millionaire CEO money then of course that’s different. If you’re a jobless neet, you can’t tell me you don’t think that would matter to a sensible woman.
This guy won the genetic lottery so of course he’s treated differently. But for the average woman who doesn’t aim for that, if you’re average looking, there’s not a lot of difference besides their individual preferences.
I get the spirit of this post but it confuses me because he doesn’t even look good? Is it just a dark skin/light eye combo that drives women crazy land?
Lol, dude has facial futures you could cut a hard cheese with. Your just a contrarian.
If your not just being a jackass, than maybe you need to stop letting your own taste overrule what the general public has told you it's societal standard for male attractiveness.
he's like the male equivalent of those women who get disgusting levels of lip filler and cheekbone implants, just to look like a freak. the only difference is that he was unfortunately born like that. i would probably beat children too if i were him.
Yeah kinda agree with u on this one. Really surprised that a lot of people here considered that attractive. Goes to show that beauty is subjective after all.
it's been mostly men calling him attractive, cause every woman i've seen speak about him says he's just weird looking 😭 rich attractive women can stay with broke and unattractive men after getting cheated on, it happens.
"Unattractive men" is insane. He's conventionally attractive in every standard. People say he's "weird" looking because they hate the idea of being attracted to someone conventionally beautiful. Don't cope yourself
Also, don’t forget that his life sucks.
He’s stupid and violent. And because of that can’t even appreciate the good things in life that happen to him.
Just be kind, and find things you enjoy doing. You’ll live a better life than a guy like this easy.
He’s got infinite money and infinite women because he was born a certain way, he gets away with whatever the fuck he wants to do and you think his life sucks? He’d lose his shit laughing if he heard that, sometimes the piece of shit has an awesome life, deal with it
I have limited money and one women I married.
I do whatever the fuck I want and my wife supports it.
>He’d lose his shit laughing if he heard
I don't care. I don't think about what other people think. That's weak bull shit.
Why do you care what he'd think?
I’m a very happily married man myself, I’m about middle class (actual middle class not rich person calling themselves middle class) I’m very happy and satisfied with my life, but to look at this dude and say he’s not actually happy is insanity
>but to look at this dude and say he’s not actually happy is insanity
Bud, people off themselves all the time with all the money and women in the world.
I hope he's happy, but I know happiness doesn't come from money or women.
The fact that you think so, makes me worry for your wife lol
I've seen a lot of people work themselves to their bones and into an early grave. One guy i had seen had his hair turn almost completely grey in his 20s trying to support his family from stress.
You can have things that make you happy when you're poor but these people if they got seriously injured they might choose death as a favorable alternative to actually going to a hospital. These people have no security for themselves, work their ass off their entire lives and likely dont have much to show for it.
I don't understand why you think all these people are not trying to be happy and accomplish goals and find what makes them happy. They can be doing that shit but still be angry that people get handed everything and do nothing with it or do shit that hurts people.
>I don't understand why you think all these people are not trying to be happy and accomplish goals and find what makes them happy
I never said this.
All I said is women and money don't make you happy.
>They can be doing that shit but still be angry that people get handed everything
Then be pissy. That's fine. But looking into your neighbors bowl ain't how you become happy, it muddles the path.
>do shit that hurts people.
Hurt them back.
I’m not even saying he’s happy, I’m saying that you just looking at his life from the outside and announcing he’s regarded and doesn’t actually appreciate anything is just weird, you’ve now built his and my life in your comments, you don’t know either of us at all, I’m an awesome husband lmao no need to feel sorry for my wife, you are very weird, a very very weird person
>I’m not even saying he’s happy, I’m saying that you just looking at his life from the outside and announcing he’s regarded
Yes you did.
Sorry gotta do it.
I here by announce both these schmucks are regarded.
So what?
My dude, you need to figure your own shit out.
Make decent money. Be happy with that accomplishment.
Find someone who loves and supports you. Someone you are proud to be with and happy to spend your life with. Be happy with that.
Looking at some moron who can’t even comprehend a loving relationship, or even have anything interesting to do with unlimited money?
I’m not saying you or I couldn’t enjoy that much money. Sure. But I am saying that this guys life isn’t happy. He just has material things he can’t truly appreciate. And he doesn’t have a healthy love life. Something anyone can obtain if they try, and know how to value another person.
That’s not coping. That’s just focusing on your own happiness to work on rather than being a little crybaby because some stranger was given an easier opportunity to be happy. And he’s failing at being happy anyways.
Too many people go the incel route because they like to point at guys like this and ask “why do I even bother? Look how easy he’s got it!”
Well. Who cares? Live your own life and discover that your personal happiness can be obtained without infinite money, and multiple women you cheat on and don’t care about.
You think I’m an incel? I’ll let my wife know, I am very happy, I make fine money and have plenty of close friends and a loving wife, why are you assuming I’m unhappy? It’s just as weird to look at my comment and assume I’m unhappy as it is to look at a rich as fuck dude who gets whatever he wants in every facet of his life and just say he’s unhappy because it makes you feel better about yourself, news flash man sometimes the people who live awesome lives on paper, actually enjoy their awesome crazy life too
I’m giving him the classic “actually it is YOU who is coping”.
He’s excusing having to try in life because some asshole got an easier path in life. And refusing to believe he can find happiness himself without good looks and infinite money.
It’s not really accurate on my end to say he’s coping. I just think he’s disregarding my good advice because it’s easier than actually trying.
You’ve built this entire life that I live in your head because of like a 7 word comment lmao, what the fuck is wrong with you, your amazing advice of “be content with what you have and be happy” yeah real groundbreaking stuff dude, just cause I have to try harder than him and go to work every day instead of lie back and get sucked off by a billionaires daughter and watch the money flow into my account doesn’t mean I’m just happier than he is automatically
You’re just proving my point here dude.
You don’t get it. That’s fine.
I didn’t make my comment for you. Plenty of other people on green text need to hear this advice. And aren’t to stuck in their heads worrying about some other guys blowjobs and child abuse.
Go in peace. Hopefully you get it some day.
no one is saying you can't be happy without infinite money. but it's insane to make the assertion that you won't be marginally happier with a stress free life. if you think there's no difference, you've probably never had to deal with the real financial stress of living paycheck to paycheck. if you think you won't be any happier at all with good looks, you've never been lonely.
There are 4 pixels in this meme, but if you actually Google him, he's objectively attractive. Fantastic facial symmetry; chiselled jaw; fit; bright eyes; darker complexion. It's ironically more gay to claim he's not attractive because of the amount of jealousy and cope.
Hey, womathany mantano here, internet's busiest woman, this shit makes me wanna throw up and I think the billionaires daughter probably has an affinity for abusers. This is not common and this guy makes me feel nautious.
I give this woman a light 2/10
What I'm about to say is less about women as a group, and more about the importance of cultural norms, and how social instincts shouldn't always be trusted.
I've been reading about how brutal life was following the agricultural revoltion was, and how all peaceful tribes were basically crushed by invaders killing all the men/elderly and taking the women and girls. Something like 1% of men passed on their genes, where with women it was the normal percentage you'd expect. I'm wondering if the millennia of that in prehistory up through the bronze age selected against women who had hangups about psychopathic men and instead selected for women who instead immediately started having kids with the village's invaders.
Mass graves from this time period showed very few young women, and almost no girls. So them actually phsycially resisting in any meaningful way was rare. While I did say psychopathic, these tribes treated those in the tribe, or tribes they were friendly with fairly normally. They had art, pottery, and even trade routes. So once these women were "married" to their "new husband" they would be treated just as well as everyone else. So it made a very strong incentive to simply adapt. Of course, there was no writing, so we can't tell what was in their heart of hearts, but I would assume while it was against their will at first, it didn't stay that way.
This is must have been going on for around 6000 years or plus some very hard selection pressure considering there were no options to escape meant it almost certainly had some effect on us. There was also evidence of this from just about every region in the world.
You're oblivious then. Fact is, dudes handsome. The lesson is to not let that fool anyone. As a handsome, just do work a be honest. For those women, shame on you.
It's probably the bald head but he looks handsome enough, almost like the chad meme. Strong jaw, high cheekbones, blue eyes, long or right sized face and probably built too. I can see where the confidence comes from because he looks handsome enough that being told no was not a option for him. And if he had natural charisma then no wonder he's getting away with crimes and just falling into success. But eventually I'm pretty sure when things go bad, at some point someone will forget what he looks like out of anger and just retaliate out of intolerance. While people say pretty looks get you anywhere, at some point the charm will just not work like if he had debts to pay he's likely going to piss off the wrong guy.
[ Most people capable of cleaning up well enough that your ] Looks don't matter [ to a large enough part of the population that your appearance is not the main thing holding you back ]
Shower, groom, style your hair and clothes properly, don't be obese, have a job or other prospects, have one normal hobby (it can even be video games), generally treat women like people, and unless you were hit by a car at birth or got acid thrown on you, you'll meet someone
Remember, if every single person donated 1 dollar (that's 1 million people), and its unlikely that its that high, but at most 1 million, that is LESS THAN 1% OF THE PLANET.
Where is the confusion coming from?
I'm saying that this is not a case of the shitty people being a majority. But rather it is the very few shitty people seeking out shitty things to do.
let me help:
Suppose every single person who donated money towards bailing this guy only donated one dollar, then you'd need 1 million donors, which is still <1% of the human population.
Chances are the real donors actually gave much more than 1$, which proves that the shitty people who'd give this guy money aren't a majority.
I mean, maybe. A lot of autistic people I know give a lot more scrutiny to things because of their tendency to take things literally growing up being used as the butt of a joke a little too often and i definitely hear this kind of sentiment a lot in autistic circles (“do marketing people really consider the average consumer *this* dense”)
I can, even with this single picture, kind of tell that this guy is dangerous.
Obv would try to give him a chance if I met him on the street or smth, but from min zero I have my doubts.
I thought I was a good reader of people and still managed to get into business with a psychopath. They are very manipulative, tell people what they want to hear, and are generally pretty good at putting up a false front until things start falling apart for them. Unfortunately, for psychopaths, the world is full of the next victim.
WHY DO GOOOOOD GIRLS LIKE BAD GUUUUYS
https://preview.redd.it/rmt6x990asue1.jpeg?width=236&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=edb099c94359f603676d2dda5bfb6f0d1404ce4f
Women: "Chris Brown Is so hotttt OMG"
"He literally beats women up and almost kills them...."
Women: "HE CAN BEAT ME UP ALL DAY, RIGHT HERE! PUNCH ME TO DEATH! SQUEEEEEEEEE"
Idk why you're acting like this is a woman only thing. I posted a mugshot of a hot lady who had cut her man's penis off on another account and the comments from men consisted of: "I would let her cut my penis off too if it meant I got to fuck her" and "I would eat the shit out of her ass"(verbatim).
Not to mention the types of comments men leave on news articles whenever a moderately attractive woman rapes an underage boy...
Where does the beating a child to death story come from? I only see he assaulted a 16 year old when he was 18.
But shit honestly, doesn’t even look he did anything serious after being pushed into a gang due to our countries failure on helping drug addicts for those 80s poor kids. And it got him out of gang violence so is it really that bad he got rehabilitated in an unconventional way? Not like he did things that today’s rich people are being caught doing.
Lol I'm getting downvoted for stating a fact? Do you all really think of a 16 year old when someone says "child"? And not to mention, he was 18 when he beat him up, lol. Yes he's probably a piece of shit, but still.
Lol you are so right. I'm probably going to catch flak but it's true. When I read "child" I thought of someone under 10. If he was 16 he wasn't a child. And if he was 18 that basically makes them peers.
Reddit is really weird with age. If it was a 16 year old beating the hell out of a 13 year old, no one would be referring to the 16 year old as a child.
Yeah, I don't get it either. I remember [the comments under a post where one teenager raped another teenager](https://www.reddit.com/r/MorbidReality/s/icKllGBJsp) crying because both were correctly labelled as "teenagers" when being 14 and 18 years old. In their mind a 14 year old (or even 16 year old in this case) is a litteral child, exactly the same as an 6 year old, whole the 18 year old is a completely formed adult, exactly the same as a 50 year old.
Unfortunately, yeah, it does seem to be all true:
[Wikipedia - Jeremy Meeks](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeremy_Meeks)
Although the greentext does exaggerate the "beating a child", as he did it at 18 years old as a gangmember to a 16 year old (which isn't much of an age difference0.
Everyone forgets, that before the time he became famous - he was a petty criminal living an awful life.
Looks alone don't cut it much.
However, looks + being famous might really throw you up the ladder quickly.
He is kinda like hawktuah is some sense
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