My wife

is not the issue here. I hope that someday my wife will learn to live on her allowance, which is ample, but if she does not, that is her problem, not mine! Just as the rug is your problem. Just as every bum's lot in life is his own responsibility, regardless of who he chooses to blame. I didn't blame anyone for the loss of my legs. Some Chinaman took them from me in Korea. But I went out and achieved anyway. Heh heh. I cannot solve your problems, sir, only you can.