Are GenXer suffering from memory loss earlier than our parents?
Posted by oldexpunk60@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 253 comments
I've noticed that many of my peers in their 50s seem to be experiencing noticeable memory loss. When I was younger, I don't remember my parents, or other adults experiencing memory issues in the same way. Is this something that's getting worse, or is it one of those things you just don't notice as a kid, like how small your house is?
Has anyone else observed this trend?
Sufficient_Stop8381@reddit
My memory is perfect. On top of that, my memory is perfect.
No-Explanation8225@reddit
47m here. Wait! What was the question? šI started experiencing memory loss at 43.
Cool-Group-9471@reddit
WE ALL BEGAN memory lapses at 50s. Im a Gen Joneser Boomer. Not happening sooner. Feels like it because IT SUCKS
AdrianValles@reddit
It's from all the aluminum can bongs.
cheesebin1@reddit
Gen Xās memory issues mirror the legalization of some kind of herb, canāt remember what itās called.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
No, but I have an excuse called perimenopause.
Also, some of us (the population) may have damage from Covid. We still donāt know entirely what that damn virus did to us.
Breklin76@reddit
Fucked up my memory pretty well.
kckitty71@reddit
Menopause is no joke! I was like a rabid animal.
Ysiriff@reddit
Or a rabid kitty.
hippiechick725@reddit
How long does this shit last? š”
kckitty71@reddit
Maybe 10 months. Iām not a bitch anymore but thatās probably because of the weed. Menopause does suck, but itās actually helped my mental health since going through it. Thatās probably because of the weed, too. But I have learned so much about myself. Sorry. After I smoke weed I usually start posting on Reddit.
Zoinks222@reddit
Are you me?
New-Egg-5944@reddit
The rest of your life!
drainbead78@reddit
Started getting what I now know were the beginning of perimenopausal symptoms in 2021. My periods have only recently started to get unpredictable.Ā
DjinnaG@reddit
Iāve read possibly as long as ten years for some people. I was āluckyā and had the surgical kind of menopause, but even 5.5 years later, still get hit by symptoms every now and then
prepper5@reddit
I used to knowā¦
Breklin76@reddit
I was saying covid. I donāt have menopause and am empathetic to you ladies for having to deal with it.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
That is kind of you.
freerangetacos@reddit
After COVID, my memory is intact but my sanity isn't.
reddity-mcredditface@reddit
Long term, my lungs too.
MountainGal72@reddit
Yep. Perimenopause and covid, three times, despite vaxxing. šš¼āāļø
DjinnaG@reddit
I get it mid-January every year like clockwork, but I also had a bonus round September past, because of course. And it always hits me harder, and lasts longer, than for the rest of the family, which is the opposite of every other communicable disease. Seeing a long Covid clinic now, as Iām still not fully recovered from the September bout, even though Iāve already had it again. Sigh
RJARPCGP@reddit
Coronavirus? That was when my brother-in-law got infected in 2023. Since at least 2023, it's easy to catch.
RidethatSeahorse@reddit
I caught the menopause and Covid at the same time too. Ruined.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
Iāve had it 2x and I get shots whenever they are available, because science works.
Weak_Employment_5260@reddit
Or the rushed vaccines
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
Sorry. Going to disagree with you there. The science was sound and science has checks and balances- itās called the scientific method.
I will not tolerate any form of anti science rhetoric in the current political climate we find ourselves.
Weak_Employment_5260@reddit
Has nothing to do with 'anti-science' and everything to do with not having time to discern if there were any long term effects that could arise. The simple fact that even the rare myocarditis effects were only noticed after it was mass distributed may indicate they rushed the testing through or did not have a diverse enough testing group.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
And if you read the studies post vaccination, those risks even to young people were less than catching the disease itself. No vaccine is perfect but it beats the hell out of dying or being disabled
āIn all age groups studied, the overall risks of SARSāCoVā2 infectionārelated hospitalization and death are hugely greater than the risks from postāvaccine myocarditis.ā Oct 2022
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9538893/#:~:text=The%20most%20potentially%20serious%20adverse,young%20males%20(Figure%201%20).
LevelPerception4@reddit
Gotten four COVID vaccine shots. Never gotten COVID. 10/10, will vaccinate again.
Weak_Employment_5260@reddit
Before I got any vaccines, had 2 people in my house get Covid to the point of hospitalization. Even on RA meds I didn't get Covid. Only got the minimum vacs after because of work mandate and Kix concerts.
NaniFarRoad@reddit
My GP has told me to go away and not come back until I've had 2 years without a period. In the meantime... ???
This year has been bad for cognitive failings - I keep misplacing things and never finding them again. In previous years I'd eventually remember where I put stuff, but now the info is just .. gone. I lost a gift card over 10 months ago - it MUST be in the house, but no idea where. It would be nice if I could actually forget it ever existed, but nooo, THAT bit of knowledge my brain is more than welcome to remind me of every couple of hours!
Just got a new phone, and I spent a couple of days carefully moving every app over, to avoid losing data. But alas, I forgot to backup my chats, so now I've lost 2 days' messages (I've got client messages that are forever gone). It's just really annoying to have to say "sorry, I don't think I've got Alzheimers but can you remind me what you said yesterday?", in a professional setting.
I'm only 50.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
Please go check out r/menopause . Itās a wonderful resource. 2 years without a doctor visit is stupid because a lot of things not related to peri could happen like breast health and colon cancer.
NaniFarRoad@reddit
I'm still getting called in for screenings, but anything else (itchy rash, headache, mood changes, joint pains, trouble sleeping... "must be perimenopause, we can't give you hormones until after 2 years past".Ā
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
Glad youāre still getting checked up on, but read the sub r/menopause because itās very helpful.
VeganMinx@reddit
I blame menopause, but I don't remember my mom's being this terrible. I swear I can't remember shit. Could be COVID... also thought it was meds from the mommy makeover. Regardless, I write important stuff down because I genuinely can't remember a friggin thing.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
My mom didnāt talk about it at all so perhaps? Women back then didnāt discuss this issue, to our detriment.
idobi@reddit
Covid got me.
DangerKitty555@reddit
Yup, this is me too!
Ok-Writing9280@reddit
I have chronic pain brain fog, long COVID brain fog and perimenopause brain fog. I am permanently knackered and exhausted, and today I am also jetlagged after a very quick OS trip for a sad family occasion.
NerdyComfort-78@reddit
Iām sorry to hear that.
Ok-Writing9280@reddit
Thank you! It has been a tough time X
FreeThinkerFran@reddit
Yep. Iāve had COVID 4x now and I freak out because I canāt remember words for things. And the āpause is definitely hitting now and not helping.
analogpursuits@reddit
Yeah, I'm kind of thinking that Covid did it to me. Quite suddenly I started being unable to find the right word when explaining something. Started about 2 years ago at age 50, about 6 months after having Covid a second time. Happens often now. Really frustrating.
JoeyDawsonJenPacey@reddit
Diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome many, many years ago.
Long COVID.
Perimenopause.
Iām lucky I even have a brain left right now at 47.
Alzheimerās and dementia run in my maternal line.
Iām terrified.
nakerusa@reddit
Covid completely ate my mind. Both times I've had Covid = overt memory issues. There are times I still have no memory of. At its worst, I couldn't even watch TV because I couldn't follow the game or story. I'd lose my way in conversations, forgetting what they were talking about or worse, forgetting what I was talking about. It did get better over time but it took at least a year+ before I felt like I did before Covid. Then I got it fucking again this past summerš¤¬. Different memory issues this time but... even now there are times when names, events, terms, and tasks I've done in my profession of when I can't recall them.
skoltroll@reddit
All I know is that, when I had it, I experienced the kind of missing time that'd make Fox Mulder jealous.
WeathermanOnTheTown@reddit
Read that out loud, slowly.
oldexpunk60@reddit (OP)
Isn't it ironic.
lostjules@reddit
Doncha think
EaterOfFood@reddit
A little too ironic
DVWhat@reddit
Something something 10.000 spoonsā¦..I canāt remember exactly.
RichR11511@reddit
10,000 spoons when all you need is a good fork
OnPaperImLazy@reddit
The irony is that in the song, most of her examples weren't irony.
PutridWorth938@reddit
I saw her in an interview, and the interview mentioned that, and her smile said it all... That's the ironic part of the song...
Weak_Employment_5260@reddit
Nope. Just bad luck
Dangerous_Strength77@reddit
When all you need is a knife.
Correct_Positive_723@reddit
Yes I really do think š¤
OnPaperImLazy@reddit
And yeah I really do think
OkArmy7059@reddit
Great song by 4 Non Blondes
slushpupguy@reddit
Only 1 non blonde
Muggins75@reddit
Wrong - it was Blind Lemon
oldexpunk60@reddit (OP)
That is redundant as no lemons have vision.
PathOfTime__01@reddit
Neither do melons š¤
writeyourwayout@reddit
It's like rain on your wedding day!
Breklin76@reddit
LMAO
Mopar_Poe@reddit
51 Here... and yes, I've hit the point in life where I walk into a room and forget what I was looking for.
In_The_End_63@reddit
Memory loss or "drive" full?
I think these are two different situations.
A brain is not an SSD array.
RJARPCGP@reddit
I think educating myself on the internet, and gaming saved me through the tough times of the 2020s!
My memory seems sharper now. Luckily, I never got a severe coronavirus infection.
I actually was confirmed this February for the first time to have covid! The current covid variants, seem easier to catch.
Civil_Wait1181@reddit
I have to apologize to at least one person a day that I suffer from C.R.S. I don't know how much is "normal." I'm a quick thinker and that's not gone, but the past is mush. Alllllll mush.
unclefes@reddit
They told me in the 80s that it would go on my permanent record and lead to harder drugs, nobody mentioned I was going to have to carry around a little notebook for the rest of my life and periodically check my drivers license to reacquaint myself with my middle name.
Civil_Wait1181@reddit
oh yeah? well. don't get so distressed. did I happen to mention that I'm impressed?
VeganMinx@reddit
YES! I thought it was menopause, but I genuinely can't remember shit. It's kind of scary.
Breklin76@reddit
Iāve had covid 5x and have enjoyed a lot of ārecreationā in my life. My short term is shot. Also, since COVID, words find their way to my tongue slower. I have a pretty decent vocabulary, itās proving challenging at times to remember words that once flowed effortlessly.
I take a regimen of nootropic mushrooms and supplements which seem to help.
hippiechick725@reddit
Youāve had Covid 5 times? You work in a hospital or something?
trpclshrk@reddit
My whole family basically gets it once a year. I thought that was pretty normal! Or a normal anyway. We have 5 people here. 2 work with public full time, 1 student, 1 retired, and 1 who works with the most public, but only January-May. Itās pretty impossible for one of us not to pick it up every year. Then 3-5 of us will end up with it. Some years it crosses over to my original blood family, too. They also have school aged kids though, and get it fine on their own as well.
Thank God most of us (only 1) has had it very serious. My wife has 4 years of messed up taste/smell. I lost mine for 3 days. My first symptom is always irregular heartbeat, which I hate SO much. Then, I know itās Covid when I think Iām dying for usually 1 day. Then itās a light flu for a couple days. My personal experience.
hippiechick725@reddit
I personally had it twiceā¦only once felt āsickāā¦but my father in law died from it in 2020. I guess the vaccine helped!
Breklin76@reddit
No. First time was before it was known as a thing. January of 2020. Then, four more times AFTER Iād spent all year being smart and having been vaccinated. Once I was vaxxed I said Fuck It and did what I wanted. It so happened that I contracted it from the places I opted to go. Mainly, bars and shows.
hippiechick725@reddit
Wow.
Lumpy_Dependent_3830@reddit
It could be the legit amount of micro plastics we all have in our brains now.
Other_Ad_613@reddit
Virtually zero supervision and playing football from 4th grade through 12th means that my cuncussion punch card is full. My last one was 18 months ago and it was caused by the tiniest bump on my head. Worst one I've ever had. Add undiagnosed ADHD until I was 44 and my brain doesn't work super well.
starchysock@reddit
Life was simpler then. Today we are ingratiating ourselves with almost non-stop distractions about things that are largely trivial or out of our control.
I've read about monks from the ancient past. They could memorize the entire book of Psalms and the Gospels. Imagine trying to do that today.
leftword4Zombies@reddit
I recently heard a podcast host who did a three month digital detox say that his memory improved tremendously over that period of time. I just smoke too much weed. Ā ĀÆ\_(ć)_/ĀÆ
AllReflection@reddit
Iām 55 and I quit weed about 8 years ago after 30 years of pretty heavy use. I have a demanding job and it was beginning to impact my performance. I feel like my brain has bounced back pretty well, all things considered. I quit booze 15 years ago and that helped too.
WeathermanOnTheTown@reddit
I smoked weed once, 20 years ago, and I was so slow and stupid at work the next day that I never touched it again. People hire me to be smart. If I develop a weed habit, I'll lose my career.
AllReflection@reddit
For me, I had some trauma and depression that I was dealing with incorrectly. Weed and booze numbed me, and I was smart enough to do my job despite it (high tech product management, consulting, and executive roles). Quitting was hard, learning to process my emotions was harder š .
I_deleted@reddit
The brain is smart enough to know what it doesnāt have to remember anymore, like peoplesā phone numbers or directions to places etc
DjinnaG@reddit
But the lyrics to Gilliganās Island we will never forget
newideal17@reddit
Haha, you betcha! And themes to scooby doo and Spiderman too.
SnatchAddict@reddit
sebmojo99@reddit
yeah i think this is a big part of it
space_wiener@reddit
Social media has completely wrecked my attention span. I canāt focus on anything longer than a few minutes. Iāve tried reading books a few times. Couple pages and Iām bored and my phone comes out.
WeathermanOnTheTown@reddit
Put your phone in another room. Best advice I can give.
jaimonee@reddit
Ive heard of similar stories. Those who walked among us who could memorize the phone numbers of all of their friends, their locker combo, their mom's license plate, and the cheat code to Mike Tyson punch out.
Again, they are just stories.
SomeCar@reddit
No, I think we are just more vocal about it.
Andyman1973@reddit
Ummmmā¦wellllllā¦.due to extensive early childhood sexual abuse, I spent much of my childhood with dissociative amnesia.
Then in 2015, went through neurological exams to rule out physical causes for my memory issues. They diagnosed me with āmoderate to severe short term memory cognitive dysfunction, borderline mentally disabled.ā
So, always had memory issues.
DangerKitty555@reddit
Hard to tell, pretty sure Covid fucked up my brain so not sureā¦
Consistent_Link_351@reddit
I used to do a lot of drugs. I still do a lot of drugs, but I also used to.
Humble_Scarcity1195@reddit
I haven't noticed it yet.
If you are noticing it more with women than men it can be related to menopause (I'm female and not looking forward to this particular side effect of menopause), and in most cases it is reversible as its just the hormones playing havoc. I remember my mum doing this as a kind of mental fog swept over her in her early 50's.
If its both, I can't explain it.
NaniFarRoad@reddit
Bullshit that we're fobbed off with "it's just the hormones". For most of us we will have to endure over a decade of this crap! Nothing "just" over it... :(
Legitimate_Team_9959@reddit
Yep, this. Menopause brain is real and so frustrating
Honeybee71@reddit
Yeah bc most of us were stoners lol
MiserableDinosaur@reddit
We have learned how to repress our memories because of our poopy parents not parenting us. We just donāt have access to a lot of stuff
PathOfTime__01@reddit
Our parents didnāt have to manage this crazy fragmented digital culture which doesnāt let us concentrate on anything for longer than a minute.
Nopenotme77@reddit
This decided to pop into my feed though I am a millennial With a boomer mom.
Memories can get funky in the 50's for some people. You'll notice a lot of times it's because they have a lot going on. If they are dealing with kids at home and probably aging parents there's only so much room they have to remember things.
As others have mentioned menopause but I will also add untreated illnesses as a whole. Diabetes, heart disease, thyroid issues all start creeping up and can wreak havoc on the body.
contrarian1970@reddit
I think all of this streaming content has led to less sleep after dark. That will affect both your memory and your life span.
red286@reddit
I wonder how much of it is just that people are too distracted in their lives these days.
'cause that's what's the cause of my 'memory issues'. I'll plan to do something, and then something else will come up and distract me, and then I'll completely forget that I had planned to do something else until hours later.
Jack_PorkChopExpress@reddit
Your memory is the 2nd thing to go as you age. I can't remember what the 1st thing to go is.
RunningPirate@reddit
My brain will stall out mid sentence.
nomadbynature120@reddit
What was your question?
Icy-Package-7801@reddit
Plastics and kinder buds.
One_Net_8642@reddit
We have extreme amounts of data coming into our brains daily, they only had tv and other humans. Lol I find myself not remembering on purpose sometimes, such as that's their appointment to remember not mine š lol too much of my own crap to remember
robgrab@reddit
People talk about memory loss as you get older. Doesnāt it seem inevitable? How much information have we accumulated over the course of our lives? Thatās a lot of information to parse through. Add to that the daily info dumps from the internet and itās a wonder we remember anything at all.
demipopthrow@reddit
it's all the micro plastics
Science_Matters_100@reddit
More likely getting away from organ meats, becoming deficient in several B vitamins
gchance1@reddit
My mother bitched about "senior moments" in her 40s.
boredtxan@reddit
I think Gen X is more willing to admit the forgot something than Boomers.
Cromulent00001@reddit
Haha. Gen Xer here. What did you just say?
SeparateCzechs@reddit
We thought Evel Kneivel was the SHIZZ. We spent our childhood building ramps and trying to get airborne on our bikes. We never wore helmets. The year I was 11 I had four concussions.
As an adult I took up a heavy contact sport that while it required a helmet, it was because humans much bigger than me were trying to hit my head. Hard. They often succeeded. I can think of five instances while fighting in armor that I was concussed(medically confirmed) and one time where I was launched airborne from a spear shot to the head. That gave me both a mild concussion and whiplash.
Iām 57 now. Iām starting to have to search for words. I have two friends who played my sport far harder than me that have CTE(Traumatic Chronic Encephalopathy), theyāre just in their early 60s
Apprehensive_Put463@reddit
Mental fatigue?
Capall_7@reddit
Covid changed things. Memory issues are common if you get Long Covid. So thatās new...
HowIsThatStillaThing@reddit
Itās all of the drugs we took.
Crispy217@reddit
Look into the side effects of cholesterol lowering medication. The brain is basically all cholesterol so the medication thatās being prescribed now is basically starving the brain. Iām not saying stop taking your medication Iām simply saying there seems to be a direct correlation between the popularity of cholesterol lowering medication and Alzheimerās.
CaptMerrillStubing@reddit
Iāve been alarmed about recent issues recalling the names of people & things. 57.
Vulpine69@reddit
Could be this.
CarlatheDestructor@reddit
I've had a couple of TBIs and menopause didn't help.
DeadMetalRazr@reddit
I, for one, am looking forward to forgetting everything.
designer130@reddit
Itās the screens, I have no doubt it contributes tremendously.
dundundun411@reddit
I am. But I am pretty sure it is from lack of sleep. If I get more than 4 hrs straight a night, that is a lot.
ZakanrnEggeater@reddit
read somewhere that air traffic controllers have to retire at like 56 due to changes that occur in the brain, slow downs
kinda frustrating
killing-time-in-zoom@reddit
I came to this thread to say somethingā¦ what was it?
Superhen68@reddit
Yes. But itās not their fault.
ComicsEtAl@reddit
JTMissileTits@reddit
COVID can cause mild to severe brain damage and it can get worse with subsequent infections. So yes, probably.
I had it once and I haven't been the same since.
Sabres00@reddit
No, but also gummies go pretty hard.
pal1lap@reddit
I don't remember
AMPressComix@reddit
Yes, I did waaaay more street drugs than they did.
AMPressComix@reddit
"I just want to say one word to you ... plastics."
tolerable_fine@reddit
If it's true, then maybe something to do with the reliance on tech? It'll only get worse from us and on.
JenninMiami@reddit
Itās the fucking trauma.
MonkeyThrowing@reddit
I have memory loss. Itās becoming a problem at work. Itās recent memory. What I did last week.Ā
Demented-Alpaca@reddit
If we are its because we did a LOT of drugs man. I mean like all the drugs.
Remember that D.A.R.E. program? Drugs Are Really Expensive? We even created a program to try to make our drugs more affordable.
shit_ass_mcfucknuts@reddit
I did do a lot of drugs...what was this post about again? Does anyone have any drugs?
Demented-Alpaca@reddit
Sorry man. Dave's not here.
Barragin@reddit
That and the ounce of microplastics in our brains probably doesn't help either...
Demented-Alpaca@reddit
What? I don't remember hearing about that. Big plastic made me forget I think!
Barragin@reddit
yeah - it was bad enough learning it was in our balls, but its much worse_
"In the recent study, the Ross lab found that in just three weeks of exposure to microplastics through drinking water, the particles had not only begun to bioaccumulate in every organ, including the brain, but also that the study mice exhibited behaviors akin to dementia in humans.
āTo us, this was striking,ā says Ross. āThese were not high doses of microplastics, but in only a short period of time, we saw these changes.ā
https://ryaninstitute.uri.edu/microplastics/#:\~:text=In%20the%20recent%20study%2C%20the%20Ross%20lab,%E2%80%9CTo%20us%2C%20this%20was%20striking%2C%E2%80%9D%20says%20Ross.
SnatchAddict@reddit
I spew microplastics every time I nut. Like Boba Tea.
Breklin76@reddit
I dream in Barbie now.
La_Mano_Cornuta@reddit
I learned it from you, Dad!
Accomplished2424@reddit
šššš
Thirty_Helens_Agree@reddit
Oh, so THIS is our brains on drugs!
TheChewyWaffles@reddit
If you think short term memory loss from weed is bad, you should hear about short term memory loss due to weed.
Demented-Alpaca@reddit
I actually snorted out loud.
Adept-Elderberry4281@reddit
I donāt remember. š¤Ŗš šµāš«
Capital-Meringue-164@reddit
Iām seeing a doctor for this tomorrow. 49 and itās messing with my life. I am grateful for AI tools helping me, I need it.
berndtj@reddit
We smoke more weed
FaceMaulingChimp@reddit
Whoās Gary?
RCA2CE@reddit
My parents died.. so nah
HPMcCall@reddit
Pretty sure we smoked more weed. That's my excuse.
texoma456@reddit
You should be so lucky
William_Redmond@reddit
Was in an emotionally abusive and chaotic marriage for almost two decades and the āfogā that comes with dealing that has not dissipated much in two years. Couple with information overload, short attention span, canāt remember a whole lot without having it written down.
Dlatywya@reddit
I can relate. Even after removing the gaslighting a-hole from my life, I donāt trust myself as I should.
Dlatywya@reddit
Iām so happy to see that Iām not alone. I lost my drivers license three time in six weeks.
When Iām not taking every memory loss test I can find, I think the issue is that we are doing too much.
Many of us are working two jobs, raising kids, caring for parents, walking dogs, helping spouses, worrying about the state of the world and our brains are overloaded.
foresthobbit13@reddit
I think itās because of cognitive overload. Compared to, say a medieval peasant, we are exposed to several orders of magnitude more information than those people were. Hell, even people 100 years ago werenāt exposed to nearly the level of input we have to deal with on a daily basis. We also heavily rely on technology to do our thinking for us, reducing mental āexerciseā, for lack of a better term. Thereās a reason older people are encouraged to play mentally stimulating games and engage in problem solving in order to stave off mental decline. āUse it or lose itā applies to the brain as well as the body.
Mindless_Baseball426@reddit
My memory (and my eyesight) went to shit when I caught COVID for the third time, so anecdotally I think thatās a factor.
Along with the increased stress of daily life todayā¦Iām not saying life was necessarily less stressful for older generations BUT they didnāt have the constant exposure to personal AND global stressors like we do with our easy access to social media and news. Excess cortisol is known to cause memory issues and we are flooded with it all day every day with no down time.
Witchy-life-319@reddit
I have brain fog most days. It takes some concentration to focus. But most of my peers I grew up with have vivid recollection of what happened in school. Me? Nope, blocked most of it out due to trauma. Itās a good thing. What they tell me, I donāt want to know anyways. Lol
ChrisRiley_42@reddit
I am, but because of organic damage, not other health issues.. (I had brain surgery in the late 90s, and have had memory issues ever since)
GrolarBear69@reddit
I'm late forties and can say in all honesty and seriousness that we likely have mild dementia and have significant chemically induced neurological damage. We breathed leaded gasoline exhaust, during some of our countries highest pollution levels and we also were breathing arsenic, and sulphur cyanide from Mount Saint Helens. pretty sure there's some Chernobyl and three mile island in there too.
I remember waking up in the morning in Anaheim California in July 1983 and my eyes burning the minute I opened them.
Seriously Your mom's aquanet likely cost you at least 5 IQ points (in my case WAY more).
I'm happy if I recognize someone I met a week ago. There's almost no chance I'll remember your name unless I work with you for at least a decade.
I remember song lyrics almost instantly with no issue perfectly reciting them, but you as a human being don't register as anything but "that dude"
our parents had the same loss, just more severe. To the point that they coped by just repeating themselves and telling us the same stories over and over like a malfunctioning video game character. There's nothing left of them in there but the memories of that handful of stores they repeat. That will be us soon š. Pick some good stories to remember my friends.
Specialist-Shine-440@reddit
It could be lead poisoning, at least in part. In the 60's, 70's and 80's cars were belching out the lead and it has a probable, damaging effect on children's brains. Some people think it even makes you more prone to commit violent crime. Good thing lead petrol is no longer a thing.
RISEoftheIDIOT@reddit
I canāt remember my PIN. As of RIGHT NOW. Iāve entered it for 10 years, and now I canāt even remember it. Itās forgetting-my-locker-combination all over again. Gods I hate this getting older shit.
Haki23@reddit
Didn't you ask this question yesterday?
jammixxnn@reddit
Besides walking into a room and forgetting why I was there or what I planned to do, or the names of people I just met 5 minutes ago?
No-Gain-1087@reddit
Oh damn what was the question agian , the answer is hell yes mine is awful it went south at 49
mtcwby@reddit
I don't have that observation but could certainly believe it could be related to how people interact now electronically rather than face to face. We isolate as a society more and it's not healthy IMO. I've seen seniors who live alone have far more memory issues than ones who don't. And in a couple of personal cases when they moved to a place with daily interaction their memory improved dramatically.
stop-freaking-out@reddit
Well in my opinion..... wait what was that question you were asking?
True-Sock-5261@reddit
Two words:
Leaded Gasoline
Add to that an endless exposure to plasticizers, herbicides, pesticides, other environmental toxins and on and on and on.
looking4truffle@reddit
Lead in paint too
DVWhat@reddit
Iām 58 and have had 2 significant mental breakdown crisis in the last decade, both of which affected my brain function in ways I know, but struggle to articulate. Iām also on meds now, to help mitigate the worst affects of the 2nd crisis. In the midst of that I also had COVID, and I can realistically expect that any of those factors (including the meds) or any combination thereof are contributing to my memory problems.
CA5P3R_1@reddit
jeffnorris@reddit
I don't remember what I was going to say
Careful-Use-4913@reddit
Yes, I think so. I think we lead higher stress lives than they do, and probably donāt eat as well as they did - at least they probably had a longer time eating non-processed foods than we did.
jluvdc26@reddit
So I do wonder if this is a thing. I have recently learned that taking a lot of Benadryl can cause memory problems. I have always had really bad allergies (and kind lousy parents) and I spent most of my childhood completely knocked out on Benadryl. I also probably have used it too much as an adult. I also take Buspar for Anxiety that can cause memory issues and I have definitely noticed more since I started taking it. I'm going to try to go back off of it later this year to see if that improves my issues. But our generation in general is the first group that has had more allergies and more antihistamines than any group in history and I wouldn't be surprised if something pops up from that.
oldexpunk60@reddit (OP)
I was also heavily Benadryled as a child.
LibertyMike@reddit
My memory was bad until I dropped weight & started exercising on a regular basis. Now I'm remembering names better. I've also started working on memorization and repetition. My dad died from dementia, and I wouldn't want to put my wife through that. No guarantees, but I'm doing what I can.
AfternoonSweet5380@reddit
Agreed! Fasting definitely helped me with my mental clarity. Years ago I stopped eating any fast food, highly processed foods or drinking soda. I felt better right away. Diet and fitness are key
LibertyMike@reddit
I do intermittent fasting/OMAD almost every day, and i've done up to a 3 day fast. It's not easy, but definitely worth doing.
McStubby@reddit
My grandmother told me this when I was young:
āTwo things happen when you get older. First is that you start losing your memory and the second I canāt rememberā
Powerful-Past5614@reddit
Covid brain damage.
nikki3515@reddit
I don't think we're getting impacted at a faster rate, it's just now in our day and age we can connect and talk about it in real time.
Consistent-Sky3723@reddit
My mom was forever losing the car keys or her purse.
OreoSpeedwaggon@reddit
Hey now, just because I have Alzheimer's disease, that doesn't automatically mean that I have Alzheimer's disease!
Gold-Acanthisitta545@reddit
Plastics.
Minimum_Current7108@reddit
Itās all the drugs weāre fuckedš«¤
alixtoad@reddit
Yes Iāve lost my mind
JacksonJ1969@reddit
Maybe but Iād be a terrible person to ask. I had a stroke before the age of 50. My memory and ability to multitask are all gone. At work, I have to do my time card, as I work, otherwise I wonāt remember what I did at the end of the day. As an engineer, this sucks!
Strangewhine88@reddit
Thatās not how I remember my parents who were in their mid 50ās when I was a teenager. They were getting dinggy and absent minded at about the same rate as I am now. Same with my older brothers and sisters who are in their mid to late 60ās. Recent events have taken their toll, as we get to the age to worry about end of life issues more than climbing the hill and conquering the world.
Firm-Needleworker-46@reddit
Itās probably all the top shelf weed.
bigkat5000@reddit
Weed & Booze
bradinspokane@reddit
Maybe I'm wrong but there are 50 commercials a day telling us we may have dementia/early onset Alzheimer's and to talk to our doctor about some drug that's making big pharma an ass load of money
Bookofdrewsus@reddit
Not me. I often say I have been cursed with a good memory. People think I make shit up because their memory sucks. I dunno, maybe I am making it all up...
SausageSmuggler21@reddit
I believe this is a correlation thing. I don't think our parents spent much time reminiscing about anything, so they never exercised their brains. They had spent their adult lives working, cleaning, cooking, and fixing. So, we never really saw them try to remember stuff because they just followed routines.
BillyDW1978@reddit
I was at a grocery self-checkout today and hand to type in the type of fruit I was holding in my hand and completely forgot what it was for 30 seconds ā¦it was a āmangoā.
ā¦so yes, possibly suffering more memory loss than my parents.
Mammoth-Clock-8173@reddit
I have been living in my current house for 18 years. The other day I looked at the hallway light switch and couldnāt figure out what light it operates. Uncomfortable feeling.
dropandflop@reddit
Creatine. Get on it. Cost is low, benefits high for the brain and body. Work up to 10 grams a day if you are looking for a mental boost.
1stOrual_of_Glome@reddit
Itās too much digital stimulation.
Blackstrider@reddit
Naw, you just don't remember... ;)
In all honesty, I haven't noticed this.
Here4AlltheTea2@reddit
I 100% agree with you. Iām 58 and my friends and I talk about it a lot because we all see it, are experiencing it and/or know others that are. Not here to argue and/or debate the issue just stating the only thing we all have in common is that we got Covid vaccines and that was five+ years ago and sometimes we just wonder if that might be affecting our memoriesā¦ but itās weird totally agree with you. Our parents werenāt this forgetful at our ages and Iām talking about four really good friends, including myself and then we all have a couple friends that are experiencing different measures of forgetfulness š¤·āāļø
Miserable_One_8167@reddit
Come on now, covid vaccine gets blamed for every ailment, or ache or pain, with nothing more than anecdotal evidence.
MichaSound@reddit
I have memory loss from having Covid before there was a vaccine. Plus inflammation, autoimmune problems, loss of sense of smell and a host of nasty symptoms.
Iād wager that if thereās increased memory loss amongst our peers, itās probably caused by Covid, not vaccines.
Silly-Shoulder-6257@reddit
Covid, age ( weāre living longer) so menopause ( if youāre a woman), stress, lack of sleep, lack of exercise, poor diet, alcohol, drugs (rx)ā¦..
flyart@reddit
Lead paint and unleaded gas. Say no more.
TentacularSneeze@reddit
More to say: microplastics.
billymumfreydownfall@reddit
Completely different lifestyles, diets full of sugar and processed crap, copious amounts of alcohol, lots of weed and other drugs... of course our memories are worse.
SubBass49Tees@reddit
Covid infections are linked to cognitive decline and memory issues, sadly
hopeymouse13@reddit
I've lived longer than my parents, my grandmother, and my great-grandmother. And I feel like I'm still doing well. Especially considering I have ADHD. I read quite a bit. I play games that use quite of but of my memory muscle. I work at it in many ways. But my younger sister's memory is awful. She repeats herself. I have to explain movies to her. She loses things multiple times a day. She's 57. So I guess I would say, maybe some are struggling, but some aren't.
onions-make-me-cry@reddit
It's possible. I've been through so much in my life that a part of it is just a numbness that I have at this point. It's like I've dissociated from my entire life.
panplemoussenuclear@reddit
Microplastics in the brain have increased significantly.
doodle_robot@reddit
wait what is the question again?
ThatGhoulAva@reddit
I'm not yet 50 but I absolutely can explain my memory.
It's weed. I can have a stroke from work or terrible memory. I now carry a rocket book at all times - problem solved.
Flaky-Artichoke6641@reddit
I keep remembering stuffs from my childhood...like 4 yo n can't remember what I did yesterday at times...lol
TheDandyWarhol@reddit
No. We're just fast tracking ourselves into government facilities since Social Security is going to be fine. I want a window with a view!
ThinkOutcome929@reddit
What did I come in here for?
Thirty_Helens_Agree@reddit
And where are my glasses?
Sheriff_Mills@reddit
On your face
devious_204@reddit
On your head, with the 3 other pairs
skoltroll@reddit
bubble gum
Donkey-Hodey@reddit
Maybe, but thatās probably because I smoke a shitload of pot.
TurtleToast2@reddit
I keep saying I'm the dumbest I've ever been in my life. I'm turning into my ditzy mom.
profjamie4102005@reddit
The constant barrage of information from multiple directions in my work and home lives is reducing my memory to mush. We are the first generation to truly embrace/adapt to technology. My brain is a pinball machine. These early memory losses are not normal, but they ARE normal for us.
spacefaceclosetomine@reddit
Repeated covid infections, long covid and lots more microplastics in our brains. What was the question again?
GarthRanzz@reddit
My elders never lived to my age but, I am experiencing it. But I blame my multiple bouts of COVID. It has noticeably gotten worse since 2019.
Johnny-Virgil@reddit
Scientists have done studies that show your brain learns to differentiate between information you have to remember, and information you have easy access to and therefore donāt have to remember. Everyone having all the worldās knowledge at their fingertips 24/7 has caused our brains to learn to be lazy. You donāt have to remember phone numbers, or actorās names, directions somewhere, recipes, math formulas or anything really. Your brain has learned that you can just look it up immediately.
thirtyone-charlie@reddit
Hazing the damn mosquito truck
Impressive_Climate83@reddit
Suffering from what?
_TallOldOne_@reddit
What? Iām sorry my mind wondered offā¦
used2B3chordguitar@reddit
My dad was struggling in his late 50s. I donāt like my chances.
weevil_knieval@reddit
Iām not
skoltroll@reddit
You, sir, are brilliant
TheGrauWolf@reddit
You don't remember? Well, I think that answers your question right there. I think. What were we talking about again?
skoltroll@reddit
I might be. I dunno.
I forget.
Expensive-Vanilla-16@reddit
I can't remember š
Guilty-Pen1152@reddit
Some recent studies are citing our exposure to leaded gas has had an affect on mental health.
article here
Alarming_Star_6549@reddit
I can remember old times better than yesterday. Im 52, I don't know if that's normal I just let people remind me...
TheChewyWaffles@reddit
Itās the weed. If you think short term memory loss from weed is bad, you should hear about short term memory loss due to weed.
weevil_knieval@reddit
Iām not
weevil_knieval@reddit
Iām not
Quick-Leopard-183@reddit
I actually went and had a memory test during covid because I thought I was losing my mind. I was in a very volatile relationship and things werenāt going to well aside from the pandemic. I was diagnosed with an impairment but they thought it was from stress and trauma. I think itās partly that and brain fog from autoimmune stuff and genetics. They used to find my grandfather all over the place. He had dementia.
Live_Ear992@reddit
Studies have shown repeat covid infections can damage the brain. So yes, we are experiencing more memory loss than prior generations.
MDK1980@reddit
There's probably more of us on drugs like statins than our parents were.
Capital-Cheesecake67@reddit
Thereās no evidence that itās happening earlier. I honestly donāt think itās something you attention to or notice when youāre a teenager. Now that weāre older and experiencing it ourselves or noticing it in our contemporaries, you spot it and pay more attention to it.
snarfer-snarf@reddit
huh?
littleoctagon@reddit
A surplus of information creates a deficit of attention.
I really don't know where that saying comes from but to me it feels like nowadays there is so much more information to process compared to our parents when they were 50. I think it would stand to reason that memory lapses would occur more to us.
Or it could be childhood induced confirmation bias. Would you remember excessive forgetfulness if you saw it? A kid's perspective is cognitively dissimilar to an adult's so...so much to unpack that finding reliable forgetfulness might be missed.