How many of you didn’t go to kindergarten?
Posted by RemissionMission@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 303 comments
I was born in 1974. I started school in the first grade. There simply was no kindergarten at the elementary school in my rural town. In third grade, my parents divorced and I changed schools. Over the years I was at that school, I made a lot of friends along the way. They were all really surprised to learn I never went to kindergarten.
Sometimes I wonder if I missed out on some important building blocks not going to kindergarten, but other than being pretty bad at spelling, I think I have managed just fine without it.
I’m just curious as to how many others didn’t go to kindergarten?
InternationalRow1653@reddit
Born in 82 and started school at 4 we had a separate school for pre k
ConcertTop7903@reddit
Half day
whatevertoad@reddit
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s very impressive. I have to admit that I wasn’t nearly that independent at age four.
whatevertoad@reddit
Well, I had no choice. I'd just wake up and knew to leave for the bus stop when Sesame Street was about half way through. I'm not sure I did anything else much to get ready. It's really kind of a miracle I made it to adulthood.
BobUker71@reddit
Didn’t have kindergarten when I was little…kindergarten was just day care.
chriscorso@reddit
Born in 74 and I did pre-k at 4 and half day kindergarten at 5
EquivalentOwn2185@reddit
i had to go twice. i was 5 in new zealand so i went and then they moved me to texas where i missed the age requirement for 1st grade so i had to go again and no1 could understand me.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I moved to Houston for 7 years after I graduated college in my home state of Mississippi. Things were so different there than what I was used to. I can only image the culture shock you must have gone through when you first got to Texas coming from New Zealand.
EquivalentOwn2185@reddit
thanks im still going through it i believe. after that they moved me to oregon and then wisconsin and then colorado and then new hampshire i left on my own and went to virginia and then illinois and then california and then nevada and then back to NH and then nex mexico and then illinois again then NM again then illinois again then NH then ohio then wisconsin then kansas then back to wisconsin then to california then albuquerque then NH again then minnesota where im currently trapped in zero degree winter and i think maybe i just don't belong here -_- ....
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
My goodness! You have been shuffled around your whole life. I certainly hope you are able to find a place where you feel at peace and at home.
EquivalentOwn2185@reddit
so do you like houston then better than mississippi?
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I prefer being back here in Mississippi. Houston had way too many people for me. The traffic was absolutely horrible. And I missed all of the nature that’s here.
EquivalentOwn2185@reddit
i like that it's agood answer glad ur back someplace better im a country mouse as well 😉
EquivalentOwn2185@reddit
thanks friend i hope so too 🫶
Life-Unit-4118@reddit
Atlanta, GA, born in late 67. I went to a private Montessori school (we actually DID hug a tree) for one year (during which I somehow remember tying my own shoe for the first time). I didn’t go to K, and instead started 1st grade at 4 yoa bc of my late birthday. This caught to me with a lot immature behaviors later, and it sucked being the last to get my drivers license. But that Montessori year was, I believe, hugely formative.
JenMartini@reddit
I am you 4 years later - Atlanta, Montessori, early 1st grade start, last to drive, etc.
Life-Unit-4118@reddit
No way! What are the odds that your Montessori was called Ashdun (or Ashton) on Ashford Dunwoody Road?!
JenMartini@reddit
I don’t think so, it was in a church not standalone and I lived further south. My grandmother lived around there, though.
plainolt@reddit
Born in 66 - I started K at 4 (turned 5 in November) and 1st grade the following year
cOntempLACitY@reddit
We had half day kindergarten. I remember a rug used for a nap (rolled up and stored at school). I’m not sure what we did with a couple-hour program and a 20 minute nap. I remember a fake shoe we learned to tie. My mom told me later she didn’t like my K teacher because she said I wasn’t going to be a strong student, my mom was so offended! I ended up a top student, so I’m thinking I just didn’t do things her way.
Visible-Horror-4223@reddit
Born in 1972, and I didn’t go to kindergarten. Oddly, we had it, but I didn’t have to go. The daycare center I went to offered their own preschool and I attended there. When I started first grade, the teacher told my mom I was ahead of the other kids. I guess they taught us more at daycare.
jayhawkwds@reddit
74 model here. I remember my Mom showing me the way to school for Kindergarten. It was like 8 blocks, and across a highway. I walked to and from school almost every day.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I have to ask because there was no such thing as walking to school where I grew up…
Did a bus not come by your house? Where I’m from, a bus is required to pick up every child within the school district if their parents don’t take them to school and pick them up. And what happened on days it rained or if it was freezing cold?
jayhawkwds@reddit
I don't ever remember riding in a bus unless it was a school activity, and that was from kindergarten through High School. The only kids picked up by the bus were kids that lived in the country. I was in a different town for first grade through graduation, and my Dad would drive us if it was really bad weather, but we walked or rode our bikes most of the time. And I really can't remember Dad ever picking us up, no matter the weather. (The us I'm talking about is my sister and I, who is 3 years younger). I know Kindergarten was 8 blocks because Mom taught me 7 up, one over and one over seven down. 1st through 8th was a 5 block walk or bike ride. I drove to school once I turned 14 in 88. Kindergarten for me was 79-80, and first through 8th was 80-88. Graduated in 92.
Business_Coyote_5496@reddit
Huh. I was born in 1968 and there was kindergarten at my public school and I went to it. I'm kinda shocked that in 1979 where you lived there was no kindergarten
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
There was kindergarten available “in town” (I lived out in the country, and we called it “going to town” when we went into the city.), but you had to pay to go to it, and there was no bus to take you there. My parents opted not to enroll me.
SheriffBartholomew@reddit
Pre-school and kindergarten were the standard where and when I grew up.
Spirited-Mess170@reddit
I went to Kleuterschool in Amsterdam. When we came to the states there was no kindergarten so I got a break before starting first grade. So, technically, I didn’t go to kindergarten.
oakey55@reddit
1955 no kindergarten
No_Reserve_2846@reddit
Born in 74 in NJ. I went to kindergarten and “nursery school”. The nursery school was like what is now considered pre-k, but it was private, run by a woman out of her house and not part of the school system.
Mostly_Nohohon@reddit
I did but I don't remember actually learning things. Maybe we did and I just don't remember it.. but I just remember lunch, playing outside, a snack of Kool aid in little cups and cookies before being sent outside to play, nap times and getting my mouth washed out with soap for peeing in the air vent with another kid. 😬😂
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
😂 As mischievous as I was as a child, I luckily made it through my childhood never experiencing having my mouth washed out with soap.
BudFox34@reddit
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RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I finally got my answer.
La_Peregrina@reddit
Sub part to this - full day or half day. Mine was a half day kindergarten, my kids were full day.
TRH100@reddit
My dad didn't go, but that was 1955.
Obvious-Confusion14@reddit
1975 here, I was in a pre k and Kindergarten program before going to 1st grade. I was there from 3-6 years old. Born in the first half of 75. That odd school rule of born before a certain month you had to wait for the next year. Was so weird. But yeah 3 years of pre school, pre kindergartner and kindergarten.
ConsistentDepth4157@reddit
It's not that surprising that you didn't go. My school didn't have a kindergarten until I started there in 1969 and I live about 25 miles from Chicago
Complex-Way-3279@reddit
I went to preschool and kindergarten. 1974 too.
Emanon1234567@reddit
Born in 1964, NJ.
Half day kindergarten.
Littlehousegirl76@reddit
Also NJ - 1968. Preschool and then half day kindergarten.
Bellabird42@reddit
Half day for me, too, in NJ. I’m a ‘77. My mom was annoyed that they didn’t have full day bc she worked
Diligent-Touch-5456@reddit
1965 and I went to Pre-school and Kindergarten. My grandma was also a teacher.
MDEnce@reddit
68' went to free half day kindergarten.
Sure-Midnight1415@reddit
Born in 76,skipped kindergarten and started at age 6 in a new country knowing none of the language
cme74@reddit
I did not, born in '74 as well!
probably_bored_1878@reddit
I was born in 1972 and started Kindergarten at 4. It was a half day, with nap time and milk!
We moved from one state to another and they didn't have Kindergarten at the new place so I didn't go to school again until I was 6 and in 1st grade
Present-Pen-5486@reddit
I was born in 69, we had Kindergarten all day for half of the year and also had a nap and milk. AND I HATED EVERY SECOND OF IT!
chamrockblarneystone@reddit
I was born in 67. We had full day kindergarten. The only thing I remember is they kept testing me for special classes because I couldn’t color inside the lines.
I’m a retired hs English teacher now. I still can’t draw for shit. My people look like they were drawn by a 5 year old. So embarrassing anytime I quickly tried to draw anything in class.
I drew Africa once and the kids asked if it was a horse.
CadenceQuandry@reddit
73 here, and also half day kindergarten with a nap. And I still remember kids who bawled every time they were dropped off! Ha.
You didn't miss much. If you played with others and were socially fine, I'd say it all worked out. Ha
GlassHouses1980@reddit
I was born in late 1970 and I was 4 when I started kindergarten. I also graduated at 17 and didn’t turn 18 for 6 months after graduation. 😁
WonderfulTraffic9502@reddit
Born in 1975. Graduated at 17. Turned 18 during college midterms almost five months after HS graduation.
Standard_Gur30@reddit
Same, but without kindergarten. Stared first grade at five and turned 18 in college.
Enough_Jellyfish5700@reddit
I don’t remember my age starting at those grades. Kudos to you
ahutapoo@reddit
We had a 4 year old in our class of 5/6 year olds. He really didn't belong there, he was not quite mature enough for it, even I could see it.
Responsible_Row1932@reddit
I was born in Nov ‘72 and had to wait ‘til I was almost 6 to start kindergarten. I was very bitter to learn my least favorite classmate celebrated her 5th birthday that fall. I was filled with righteous indignation that she was turning 5 instead of 6 and then she explained to all of us that she was so mature- people she didn’t even know would stop her in the streets to exclaim how mature she was. Ugh. The little 5/6 year old inside of me still doesn’t like her, lol.
We had 1/2 days at school 5x per week. We only got chocolate milk on Wednesdays. At some point kindergarten in our district moved to full days every other day and alternating Fridays. Even as a child I understood that must have been difficult for working parents.
lightningboy65@reddit
...I hope somebody had to bring cookies to go along with the milk....our class had an assigned "cookie bearer " for any given day. There was actually a sheet issued every month assigning cookie duty. Otherwise milk time would have been a savage experience....LoL
shan68ok01@reddit
We had milk breaks all through grade school. No cookies, but we got chocolate milk instead of white.
lightningboy65@reddit
...well the chocolate milk would temper the lack of cookies. My entire school career the only drink offered in the school was white milk....no chocolate milk, soda, or alternate beverages.
shan68ok01@reddit
We only got milk. White for breakfast and lunch, chocolate for milk break. Once we reached junior and high school, it was usually only white(whole or low fat/high protein), but every so often, we would have chocolate in the cooler. Now, most schools have vending machines in them, and the school lunches suck.
It makes me feel bad for the food insecure kids. When I was in school, there were very few things that weren't made by our lunch ladies from scratch. Even the square pizza was made in-house, including the sauce. They had amazing recipes and decades of experience.
lightningboy65@reddit
...same here. Our School cafeterias, district wide, had the best raisin filled cookies ever known to mankind! They were baked at the HS kitchen and shipped out to the other schools in the district.
shan68ok01@reddit
I was in a tiny rural farming school district. Any time there was a death in the community, Connie and Leota, with the blessing of the school board would make up a batch of their amazing cinnamon rolls and would take them to the family dinner after the services.
mrsredfast@reddit
We had a milk break at my elementary school every morning at 10:15. Was still happening there when I moved on to middle school in 1980. It was awesome.
Old_Goat_Ninja@reddit
Same, 72 and started at 4.
makethebadpeoplestop@reddit
Another '72, went to kindergarten at 4, here, lol. I also went to preschool at 3. I think people forget that childcare really wasn't a thing in the late 60s-early 70s. If you didn't have family that could watch you or a babysitter, a parent needed to be home and it just wasn't financially viable for us for mom to take more than a few years off of work. I have a brother that is 2 years older and at 7, we were latchkey kids.
arabrab12@reddit
another kindergarten at 4 here! morning in 73. didn't turn 5 until December. My daughter started kindy a week after she turned 5 and parents kept asking me if I was holding her back - um no!
cua@reddit
I was also born in 72 and started at 4. Mine was an experimental program at a university. I went to college before elementary school!
fnnkybutt@reddit
Born in '63 and never went to kindergarten. It was available, but you had to pay for it.
Shot_Construction455@reddit
Born in '74 and went to half day kindergarten
skipper_jonas_grumby@reddit
Been in 1975 in a rural area. I went to kindergarten but I only remember two things about it.
My kindergarten teacher had one blue eye and one brown eye.
And nap time. Most of the other kids had mats or blankets to sleep on (laying on the cold floor) but my family didn't have much money so what I had was an old scratchy rug
shadypines33@reddit
I did not. My mom taught me to read and write when I was 4. I went to daycare until I was five, but skipped kindergarten and went straight to first grade.
77765876543@reddit
1975 here, we had Kindergarten
kibblet@reddit
I went to nursery school and then kindergarten in NYC.
Tightlines68@reddit
I went to 2 years of kindergarten. I’m one dumb mother fucker
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
Haha! Stop it. Apparently many here went two years, as well.
PlasticWentech@reddit
Born in '66 and got a younger brother in '71. I was confused when he went to kindergarten simply because I didn't. I thought he was getting a bonus I missed out on because I loved school.
Quirky_Commission_56@reddit
I was born in the summer of ‘75 and went to a Montessori school when I was 3, where I was accidentally set on fire at during Christmas celebrations (why the instructor thought it was a good idea to allow 3-4 year olds to carry lit candles in a tight knit circle when everyone’s coats were made from synthetic materials is beyond me. I was relatively unharmed other than the scrapes on my knees after the instructor knocked me to the ground and used her bare hands to snuff the flames out and got 2nd degree burns. Was sent to Kindergarten the following year.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
My goodness! What a memory to have. That’s wild the instructor had kids that age carrying around fire.
Reader47b@reddit
70s baby. I went, at age 5. It was half-day, which meant 2 hours on Mondays and 3.25 hours on Tuesday - Friday (as all of elementary school, K-6, let out early on Mondays; the rest of the day was teacher planning time).
Sw0808@reddit
I was born 8/74 and I went to Kindergarten when I was 5.
fadedtimes@reddit
Born in 77, had kindergarten but it was only half day
Jaded_Lie247@reddit
Ha! I was born in 67. I lived in Los Angeles where there was Kindergarten, however my mom put me directly in 1st grade from preschool because I was tall. 🤦🏻♀️
Bellabird42@reddit
That’s such a funny thing to me! And clearly, no one objected!
MiMiinOlyWa@reddit
Born in 1968,in Idaho. The class before me was the first class that had public kindergarten in Idaho. Idaho is not progressive, at all
Dangerous_Ad_1861@reddit
I didn't. But I'm not certain they had kindergarten in the 1950s.
DainasaurusRex@reddit
I did living in Indiana but it was only a half day. In Illinois, kids don’t have to start school until age 6 even now.
carrieslivon@reddit
I did kindergarten but not pre school
rwphx2016@reddit
I started kindergarten a few weeks after turning 5 (birthday is in mid-August). In our school, some kids started in the morning and others in the afternoon and then we switched. At the time, Chicago Public Schools required kids to be 5 or to be turning 5 by Thanksgiving, else they waited until the next year to start.
I don't remember much about what we did in kindergarten, but do remember the room and my teacher, Mrs. Collins. She drove a little red car and the first time my mom and I saw her at the local Kroger I couldn't wrap my head around her grocery shopping.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I have a mid-August birthday myself. As a kid, I always felt cheated that most of my classmates got to celebrate their birthday at some point in the school year, but I never got that opportunity since school started right after my birthday had passed.
rwphx2016@reddit
Oh yeah - that was a pet peeve of mine, too.
Technical_Air6660@reddit
I went to preschool and kindergarten. They were low cost but private and partially run by parents out of a Unitarian church.
SnarkyGenXQueen@reddit
Born in 1974, went to Pre-k and Kindergarten.
OutrageousDirector96@reddit
Also born in 1974, in the US. I attended preschool and kindergarten but at private schools. The nuns at my kindergarten were very strict, even spanked kids (and worse). But, I learned how to properly carry scissors and knives while waking, something my husband clearly was never taught, as he walks around the kitchen with the sharp points facing upwards. It freaks me out. I often tease him how he would not have graduated had he been enrolled at my kindergarten.
Bluerocky67@reddit
Born in 1967. Started primary school the September before I turned 5. Full days (9ish to 3pm). Don’t remember nap time, but do remember tetra pack milk at break time, I loved it. I was the youngest of 3 so was desperate to get to school by the time I started.
AdFormal487@reddit
I didn't go to Kindergarten. According to my late Mom I wasn't 'ready'. Turns out she was probably correct. When I started grade 1 I kept walking home (over train tracks) at every opportunity. Morning recess walked home. Mom brought me back. Lunchtime another great escape. Back I go. Afternoon recess repeat. No point in bringing me back. This went on for about a week or so. Those nuns were terrifying. Not the Sound of Music type.
InadmissibleHug@reddit
I didn’t, and I know damn well I didn’t get all the right preparation for school.
I also suspect I’m neurodivergent.
I did not cope with going straight to school terribly well
Healthy_Chipmunk2266@reddit
I went to kindergarten. 50 years later I still remember it. Teacher used to pick us up off our chairs by our hair and shove our chairs towards the tables when we were sitting. We'd be shoved into the table when she did that. Knocked the wind out of us every time.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s terrible. I never had a teacher do that, but I remember getting paddled with a wooden ruler in first grade for taking too long in the bathroom.
anothercynic2112@reddit
Born in 67, kindergarten wasn't mandatory it was basic coordination, cutting and pasting, snacks, nap, recess and go home.
If you didn't eat too much of the paste you went on to first grade
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I have to admit I tasted the paste on many occasions. Why would they make it taste like spearmint if we weren’t supposed to put it in our mouths? Ha!
aqaba_is_over_there@reddit
79 and started at 4.
Kindergarten was half a day. There was a morning and afternoon class.
The school didn't process the change of address for me as my parents bought a house the summer before I started. So they had me on a bus instead of being a walker and having my mom pick me up.
I protested and said my mom was picking me up but the teacher just looked on the sheet and said I was on a bus.
I got within visual distance of our old duplex before the short bus shows up and someone got me and took me back to school to my fuming mother.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
This gave me a flashback to the time I got on the wrong bus after school at the beginning of the school year when I started school. When the bus took off and my older sister wasn’t on the bus, I knew something was wrong.
Karamist623@reddit
I went to kindergarten.
Gildor_Helyanwe@reddit
Born 1969.
I did have kindergarten but was going through leukemia treatment so missed a lot of it
I can read and do basic math so don't think it impacted my life much
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
You must be such a strong person after having to endure that at such a young age.
sharkycharming@reddit
I didn't learn how to spell or read in kindergarten. All we did was play, go to the library, watch construction vehicles build things in the neighborhood, eat snacks, and take naps. The only semi-academic thing I remember learning in kindergarten was how to count with an abacus. (And I haven't used an abacus since then, sadly.)
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I had never heard the term abacus until now. We didn’t have those at my school. I only ever remember seeing one in my pediatrician’s office; and I just thought it was a toy. Ha!
Reasonable-Card-7870@reddit
‘72 started at 5 July birthday and then repeated the next year… suggested I didn’t play well with others. Legal record affirms their suspicions!
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
This made me laugh.
SherryGabs@reddit
In the early 70s in our area, only a church or two had kindergarten. I had no way of getting there. My family members made sure we were prepared for first grade.
Big-Annual1981@reddit
I was born in 1967 and in rural WV, USA there was no kindergarten. I started first grade at the age of five and turned six during the school year. This allowed me to enter my senior year at 16 and turned 17 during the year.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I was 16 when I went into the 12th grade, as well. I was the only one of my friends that graduated at 17.
Beauphedes_Knutz@reddit
I went to KG. My spalling suks.
Gold_Yellow_4218@reddit
I was born in 73 and went to kindergarten. I didnt even realize that not going was a thing. I even had an aunt fail kindergarten for not being able to cut straight and had to repeat kindergarten.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
A few people here have talked about having to go to kindergarten twice. It’s hard to believe some places took it so seriously they made kids repeat it if they felt they hadn’t performed well enough, yet in other places they didn’t even have kindergarten.
lindalou1987@reddit
Born in 1968. Went to Montessori instead of Kindergarten.
mybloodyballentine@reddit
Not only kindergarten, but Head Start too.
aogamerdude@reddit
Same I think, unless head start is arts & crafts but I really think it seemed like head start.
mybloodyballentine@reddit
I lived in the projects, so for a lot of the kids in my class it was the first exposure to books. There was a lot of finger painting too, which was my second favorite thing. First favorite were crackers and juice.
aogamerdude@reddit
Ours may have been the last generation to make puppets out of the brown grocery bags.
GloomyKerploppus@reddit
Funny that you would ask this. Our family moved from Colorado to just outside of Washington D.C. for one year because my dad landed a year-long government contract job.
I had just graduated from preschool (I was good with naps and glue), but was deemed too old for kindergarten in our new state, so I went from preschool directly into first grade in a new town.
I still haven't recovered from it.
Now I feel blessed that I had a full public school education. This no longer exists now in my country.
Dalmatian_Carl@reddit
‘72 here and never went to kindergarten. It became mandatory when I was in second grade. The first day of school for me was traumatic, since I had never gone to daycare or anything, and was suddenly thrust into this new thing of being gone all day. I think it stuck with me. I did alright, grade-wise, in school but hated every minute of it.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
It was traumatic for me, as well. I had never interacted with any children outside of my family. To this day, I have bad social anxiety. I’m no psychologist, but I’m willing to bet it’s in part due to my first social experience being absolutely terrifying for me.
Tex_Arizona@reddit
My wife grew up in rural China in the 1980s. She actually started Kindergarten when she was 4 years old. Problem was the school in her village didn't actually exist yet. On the first day of school she and her classmates helped the faculty stack up bricks. Then they spent the next few months helping with the construction of their own school.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s very interesting. I bet she actually enjoyed taking part in that.
Enough_Jellyfish5700@reddit
I started at Headstart before Kindergarten, then I did only half of Kindergarten because it wasn’t working out for me.
imadork1970@reddit
Nope. I had Sesame Street, Mr. Dress-Up, and Romper Room.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
Same, plus Captain Kangaroo.
Accurate_Weather_211@reddit
I grew up in rural Oklahoma and attended kindergarten for half the day in the afternoons. When Price Is Right was over it was time for me to walk to school. I walked home with my older brother.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
When I was in school, there was no such thing as walking to school because the schools were not near any neighborhoods. I know there are kids all across the country that walk to school, but I wonder if any parents are sending their kids off by themselves when they are in kindergarten these days? I’m guessing they don’t because times have changed a lot since we were young.
ApatheistHeretic@reddit
'79, went to kindergarten in '85. Got to watch Challenger explode during nap time.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I remember watching it happen in Mr. Russel’s science class. Mr. Russel taught my mom and dad, and then me, my brother, and my sister. He was ancient when he retired.
thehobster@reddit
I may not remember this correctly, but I’m thinking that kindergarten in Arkansas in the very early 1970s was private and not part of the public school system. With that in mind, living with a single parent, education that was paid for wasn’t on the agenda.
nixtarx@reddit
You spelled kindergarten right, which is better than a lot of folks.
tommyalanson@reddit
Went to Montessori, then first grade.
aogamerdude@reddit
You didn't miss much, 1st grade repeats the core basics, then building on - at least where I went. The difference is in kindergarten there's lights out naptime on a mat, for maybe an hour, at the end of the year you get to take home the mat.
BigMomma12345678@reddit
I went to private school all day kindergarten in 1977? Catholic school, because grandma said so.
erilaz7@reddit
I went to morning kindergarten during the 1971–72 school year. I was rather advanced, so after recess I went to the first grade class and did math with them.
Vegetable_Collar5393@reddit
No kindergarten teacher the year (1971) I was supposed to go. I did go to Head Start the year before tho.
Primary-Cattle-636@reddit
Full day kindergarten. Mid 80s
Yasashii_Akuma156@reddit
1972 here. Catholic school K-12.
DryFoundation2323@reddit
We had half day kindergarten in my small town. There were smaller towns in the area that did not have kindergarten at all. Pre K was pretty much unheard of back then in my area. I was born in 1967.
Live-Cat9553@reddit
Born in 71 and I didn’t go to kindergarten. My mom said she wanted to keep me home one more year. I could read by the time I got to first grade though because my siblings taught me.
mimi6614@reddit
I was born in 68 & went to Catholic school. I went to kindergarten but most of my classmates did not because it was only available in the public school.
SwimmingBridge9200@reddit
I was born in 1971 and went to half day kindergarten. Same for my husband who is the same age.
T-Doggie1@reddit
My county didn’t have it until 1975, I think.
JustFaithlessness178@reddit
Born in 69, half day kindergarten in Ohio. We chose AM kindergarten. I remember meeting friends, painting on paper, having a snack.
I currently work with Kindergarteners. It is an all-day intensive affair with mandated testing. Night and day
TheSwedishEagle@reddit
I went to private school so both preschool and kindergarten. Was surprised when I learned kindergarten is only half day at public schools. Ours was a full day. I learned things in kindergarten that I still remember such as how to count to ten in various languages.
DeeDleAnnRazor@reddit
No kindergarten in my small town either unless your parents paid for it. I started school in first grade, but most of my classmates did as well, most of our parents were on the more poor side. I would say it had no impact on me. First of all, my mother was a good teacher and I already knew how to read before I started first grade. I ended up pretty successful in life. On the other hand, my daughter started school with kindergarten (1990s) and she was an early (born in August) so she was one of the youngest in her class. I should of held her back a year, she wasn't ready for mainstream school and struggled a lot. Guess there are a lot of variables.
angst_after_20@reddit
1974 here. I went to preschool which I didn't like for some reason. Then kindergarten which had an AM or PM option depending on what worked for my parents I guess.
AdObvious1217@reddit
I went to kindergarten, but my xennial sibling did not
Sensitive-Rip-8005@reddit
I did kindergarten and a private church affiliated “Head Start” type program the year before. My mom volunteered in the kitchen so I was able to attend.
TBeIRIE@reddit
My “kindergarten” was in a 2 room school. K-6th in one room & 7th-12th in the other. My clump of desks for our age group consisted of 4 desks ages 5-7 😂.
fitbit10k@reddit
Born in 1970.
I went to kindergarten and there was a prekindergarten program called Head Start that I went to as well. Does anyone remember Head Start?
app_generated_name@reddit
It's still available
fitbit10k@reddit
That’s good news!
basscat474@reddit
I went at a church because our public schools didn’t have kindergarten yet. They started when I was in 1st grade. 1975
dlax6-9@reddit
No kindergarten...late birthday, to boot...so was 19 when I graduated HS.
CandidateReasonable4@reddit
I was born in 1964 and went to kindergarten. There were 2 half-day sessions and I went in the afternoons.
purple_sangria@reddit
Hippie mom didn’t want to get me vaccinated. Also hippie, but more rational, dad went behind her back eventually and I tested straight into 2nd grade. I remember being so confused about some things, like I didn’t know what cheating was and gave this kid all the answers to a test. He wasn’t the best student and the teacher figured it out pretty quickly when he turned his test in 2nd right after me and got 100%. Also don’t think I ever fully caught up in terms of socialization, but that may be more on me and my personality lol.
Chops526@reddit
I was born in 1973 and went to both kindergarten AND Pre-K.
d3amoncat@reddit
1970 and we had a half day of kindergarten at ages 4-5 depending on your birthday. My class was also one of the pilot classes for the letter people.
JuliusSeizuresalad@reddit
There are women out there who have barely passed high school themselves that are teaching a gaggle of their own kids with nothing more than a dollar store chalk board and printouts from the internet. I worry for those kids more than missing a year of shapes and nap time.
geolaw@reddit
Born in 68 but TBH can't really remember kindergarten or what.
All I really remember is being taught that the metric system was coming to the USA "any time" 🤣🤣🤣
Also I remember my math teacher asking us how old we would be in the year 2000. I remember thinking I was going to turn 32 and "God I'll be old!!". Lol if I could be 32 again I would take it any day
OccamsYoyo@reddit
I didn’t. For whatever reason the school division couldn’t afford a kindergarten that year. Either that or there just wasn’t enough kids (the Gen X baby bust in action). So I went straight from home to Grade One without an easing-in year.
MyriVerse2@reddit
My school didn't have a gifted program, so technically, I was in Kindergarten, but I sat in the 1st grade class for most of the year.
AlanStanwick1986@reddit
I didn't know this was a thing. Of course I went to kindergarten.
rellikvmi@reddit
Started school at age 6 in ‘71. I was in first grade. The kindergarten era started in ‘70 and I did not attend. It was a half day if I remember correctly, and was primarily for underprivileged children. I lived in a semi-rural NC, with a town size of approximately 2000.
beebs44@reddit
They dragged me kicking and screaming. I still refused to go most of the time.
Goldeneagle41@reddit
My state didn’t have public kindergartens then it was strictly 1-12. I went to a private one. I loved first grade because I already knew everything that was taught. I was lazy in school.
Qnofputrescence1213@reddit
Born in 1973. My parents planned on sending me to Catholic school but at the time the local ones didn’t have kindergarten. So I went to two years of preschool through a local program 2-3 mornings a week. Then kindergarten at the public elementary school in my neighborhood. Then 12 years of Catholic school.
By the time I ended 8th grade at my Catholic elementary school, my school was offering both kindergarten and preschool.
AncientDeathRancor@reddit
No kindergarten. Head start.
wolfysworld@reddit
Born in 73, started kindergarten at 6, as I had a fall birthday. It was full day.
Voltesjohn@reddit
Went to kindergarten. Don’t remember what I learned.
Mixednutbag@reddit
I just remember the smell of peanut butter and apple juice.
Upset_Peace_6739@reddit
I went twice. First time in US where I was born then again in Canada when we moved here in 1970. My folks wanted me to be with kids my age.
herefortheguffaws@reddit
I never went to kindergarten but my mother taught me how to read at age 3. I even had my own library card for which she taught me to write my full name in order to receive it. I was way ahead of my classmates in 1st grade.
Popular-Capital6330@reddit
same!
Popular-Capital6330@reddit
Me👋🏻 born in 66. My year was the first year that kindergarden existed and it was optional so I didn't go. Straight to 1st grade for me.
Administrative-Bed75@reddit
I know I started mid year or after everyone else, for some reason, and when it came out I hadn't gone to preschool, everyone thought I was weird for not knowing what to do when, or how school "worked." Don't remember why, but it surely involved the era of my parents' divorce so likely a combination of my parents being on tour (musicians) and then moving in with my grandparents.
Administrative-Bed75@reddit
Oh but I was a spelling bee champ. However I suck at math; I put that on fourth grade math-related punishment and undiagnosed discalculia, though.
MoonageDayscream@reddit
I didn't go, my mother said they get me for twelve years, she kept me to herself for one last year. I really wanted to go though.
patshea69@reddit
We had every other day kindergarten
No_Difference8518@reddit
Our public school added on an addition for kindergarten and a gym (they used to bus kids to the high school) when I was 5. So I started in grade 1, and my sister (a year younger) started kindergarten the same year.
There was a goverment mandate that all public schools have a kindergarten. Before that, you didn't need one.
Probably should mention this is Canada. Not having a kindergarten , even in '74, would be illegal but to this day it is not mandatory to attend. We know have junior kindergartens... although I am not sure if they are required by law.
ConfuzedDriver@reddit
Born in ‘69 and went to half day kindergarten. I think in the US a lot depends on state law. There are still a lot of states where Kinder is not required attendance so you do get some walking into first grade having never been in school before.
ted_anderson@reddit
I had the opportunity NOT to go but ended up going anyway. By the time I was 5 I had so much unofficial home schooling that I was slightly ahead of the average 1st grader academically. But socially I was right at the pre-school level.
I'm glad that I went because prior to that, I didn't know much about standing in lines, taking turns, cooperating with other children, etc. Even though I wasn't an only child I was the first born so everything in my world centered around me.
Horn_Flyer@reddit
74 as well. To be honest I don't remember if I went to kindergarten. My memory doesn't go back that far unfortunately.
mycatisradz@reddit
‘76 here. No kindergarten. But for a couple years we did at-home workbooks switching between our house and a neighbor’s. Basically preschool daycare.
Smokinlizardbreath@reddit
1971, grew up on a farm, sesame street was my Kindergarten, my grandmother didn't want to drive me to town every day.
Pleasebleed@reddit
I fucking had to do it twice
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I curious why you had to do it twice, if you don’t mind sharing.
Pleasebleed@reddit
I was a borderline birthday (late September) so I actually stayed the first time when I was five — and apparently wasn’t “socially ready”
Fair amount conversation between parents and teachers and my pediatrician. And all agreed I’d be better off to do it again and be the oldest in my grade. Physically bigger.
Honestly probably best decision they made.
excaligirltoo@reddit
Born in 1970. I went to half day kindergarten starting at age 4. Graham crackers, chocolate milk, naps, recess, and I learned to read.
baconismadefromcats@reddit
1965 with a couple older siblings. None of us went. It wasn’t available where we lived. We all started in 1st grade.
hibou-ou-chouette@reddit
No kindergarten for me. Started grade 1 at age 5.
Adhesiveness269@reddit
I was born in 74 as well. I started kindergarten in Washington and then moved to Utah. When I got to Utah, they said that I didn't meet the standards of education there. I had to repeat it there, so I went to kindergarten two times.
Embarrassed_Wrap8421@reddit
Born in 1952. Never went to daycare, nursery school, preschool or kindergarten. Straight into 1st grade. My brother, born in 1955, also went straight into 1st grade.
Kpop_shot@reddit
I was also was born in 74. I went to kindergarten for a half a day. I guess it was different in different places. I remember memorizing my home phone number and nap time. So you may not have missed too much.
soleiles1@reddit
I was barely 5 when I started K in 1979. But back then, kinders weren't required to read or do math on any complex level. It was play based learning, socialization, and conflict resolution.
Today's kinders are tested on everything to supposedly prepare them for the demands of lower elementary grades. We have 5 year olds already anxious about school. It's ridiculous.
Let kids be kids! You didn't miss out on much.
Any-Concentrate-1922@reddit
Went to kindergarten for 1/2 a day. They had a morning group and an afternoon group. I was in the morning group. This was public school. We did work on learning to read but also did show and tell, art, and just playing. I had also gone to preschool. Since a lot of parents worked and a lot of the kids had gone to the same preschool, there was an arrangement where kids could go to this preschool for the rest of the day after kindergarten. (It was a private preschool, so presumably our parents paid for this.) A school bus took us there.
retro_lady@reddit
I did, but it was just half-day (born in '77). My brother, who is several years older than me also did.
Katherine1973@reddit
I went to kindergarten half a day. I still remember it. All we did was eat cookies and learn to write the alphabet. I went to private school so I am not sure if kindergarten was offered in public school back then. I was born in 1973. I really don’t think you missed much. I am still friends with people who were in that class. We were a tight group who went to school together from kindergarten to 8th grade.
BerryMantelope@reddit
I was born in 65 and went to “morning kindergarten” (70-71).
ileentotheleft@reddit
Me too but only the first half of the year, then we switched with the other class and were in afternoon kindergarten. Looking back I can’t imagine how they’d do that now but most moms weren’t working outside the home then. I also went to nursery school the year before.
BerryMantelope@reddit
My brother had “afternoon kindergarten” a couple years later, and we both went to nursery school before kindergarten. My mom went to work part time as soon as both of us were in school full time. So we were the OG latchkey kids.
ileentotheleft@reddit
My mom started part time work when my younger sister was in 2nd grade, so I was old enough to watch her after school as a 5th grader
windsorforlife@reddit
Same here, born in October ‘65, and went to morning kindergarten in ‘70/‘71. I still have a vivid memory of how the class was set up, and actual moments playing with certain kids. An Elmer the Safety Elephant was sitting on a shelf above our coat racks.
carneyguru@reddit
Yep me too 😁 and if it snows, "No morning kindergarten"
TealTemptress@reddit
Half Day with my Clash of the Titans owl folder. Then some kid would fall asleep in the wooden boat after someone peed in it. Good times!!
wonderbeen@reddit
Same, born in ‘74. Didn’t go to kindergarten because I was home schooled by my grandma. My grandpa was the superintendent of schools and she was his secretary. I think she did an alright job!!
-Blixx-@reddit
Kindergarten became an optional program in my district the year I started 1st grade. They also got air conditioning in the portables which the rest of the school didn't have.
So, no kindergarten for me. It looked like a more gentle start to the educational process. Whatever.
NegScenePts@reddit
73 Canadian Model, rotated between English and French Kindergarden. One day english, the next day french.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s interesting. I wish I would have been exposed to a second language early in life. I had Spanish I in 10th grade, then Spanish II in 11th. I didn’t learn enough to retain any of it.
NegScenePts@reddit
It's definitely been a benefit in my area of Canada. I don't know if they do the kindergarden eng/fr rotation any more, or if it was a 70s thing in my rural public school only.
RCA2CE@reddit
I went to pre-school and then kinder
captainwizeazz@reddit
Don't worry, there is nothing important going on in any kindergarten.
Capital-Meringue-164@reddit
It’s nice to read this because people usually look at me like I’m bonkers when I say my parents opted me out of kindergarten. It was really an optional thing, like 2.5 hours a day, so I don’t blame them. My youngest is in kindergarten this year and it’s now expected that they have full day preschool to prepare and he is zooming ahead of classmates who I assume did not go to prek.
lightningboy65@reddit
I was born in 65 and started K at age 5. 1/2 day, I went in the afternoon. The memories that stand out for me are ....1.) SRA reading program....I got to wear headphones for the very first time. I really did feel like a jet pilot! LoL 2.) music class...loved those sand blocks you'd rub together to the beat . 3.) nap time....laying on my rug (every kid had to bring a nap mat) with one eye open, lopoking arouind at the other kids doing the same, for 10 minutes.
delusion_magnet@reddit
I was born in '69 and didn't go to kindergarten. I guess you could say I was home schooled. I went directly to 1st grade with some 2nd grade classes for reading and science.
bexxyrex@reddit
I didn't. My mother thought all they did was color lol. Thankfully, I was one smart little girl and managed to start first grade without any issues.
nakedreader_ga@reddit
Born in 74. My parents had us in a church kindergarten before we started public school. I remember the kids who hadn’t gone to school before crying while I was just ready to get the day started.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I didn’t cry when I walked in that first day, but I was absolutely terrified. My mother wasn’t with me. I rode the bus there. I had never socialized with any children before, aside from seeing some cousins every now and then.
Apart_Ad6747@reddit
I went to preschool at 3, pre k at 4, and k at 5. Graduated high school just before my 16th birthday with an associate degree. I was born in 1970 and was surprised to learn not everyone had started school at 3. I could actually read by pre k. By 1st grade I had a late elementary school reading level. As an adult I’m always surprised when i figure out that someone is illiterate. Usually they “can’t see that”, or “it doesn’t make sense-I don’t understand the jargon “.
ElJefe0218@reddit
Same, preschool 3 & 4 then K at 5. My babysitter was a substitute teacher at my elementary school.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s impressive. Here I was starting school in the first grade not even knowing my numbers or the ABCS.
Apart_Ad6747@reddit
Yes, but I wonder sometimes if it’s even worth it. Some of my children went to school early, some late, some homeschooled and it really seems that the outcome is as individual as the child.
app_generated_name@reddit
What career did this translate to?
Apart_Ad6747@reddit
Fashion and interior design, master tailor for 30 years. Student/RN for the last decade.
KatJen76@reddit
While I did go, I do remember encountering the concept that it was kinda optional or that other kids didn't go at a fairly young age. I also remember hearing about half-day kindergarten in other school districts. At my elementary school, it was full time, though.
beachlover77@reddit
My town did not have kindergarten back then either. I am 47 and grew up in a very small town. My mother stayed at home so I never went to daycare or anything, just started first grade when I was 6.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
Yeah, my mom was a stay at home mother, as well. I had never been exposed to any children prior to starting school, aside from seeing my cousins every now and then.
starfishcovemini@reddit
Born in ‘74 and went to half-day kindergarten at 4. It was a really big deal that I knew how to write my name, lol! One day I heard the teacher playing Debbie Boone’s You Light Up My life on the piano, and I told her she was playing it wrong. Every day after that I had to sing it for her while she learned it. We sang it at graduation.
MK5@reddit
I was born in 1965, and my kindergarten was..odd. There was no public kindergarten in any of the local elementary schools, so I went to kindergarten in a storage room at the local community center. Since it was a private kindergarten..and this was 1970 in the rural South..the class was all white. It wasn't until thirty+ years later that I realized how weird that was, and suspected it was a case of racism, but mom insists to this day that there was no public kindergarten at the time.
The_Blendernaut@reddit
1968 checking in and I went to kindergarten. I was recently talking to my mother about this time and how my memories from that time are profound. I remember everything about it. What we watched on TV to nap time, what we had for lunch, etc.
JoyousZephyr@reddit
I was born in 1969, and did not attend kindergarten. My mom checked with the school and found out that I knew most of what they were teaching, so she just let me be a little loner kid for another year.
I do remember thinking "why do these kids all seem to know each other?" on the first day of first grade, but I made friends and wasn't behind academically, so it was fine.
lajaunie@reddit
I didn’t. Was put straight into first grade at 4 Turned 5 later in the year. Graduated at 17.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I graduated at 17, as well. I was the only one of my friends that wasn’t 18.
Original-Move8786@reddit
We had half day Kindergarten. AM and PM bus arrivals in the 70s. I think it was a way to keep costs down and in my state Kindergarten and pre school were not mandated.
FlizzyFluff@reddit
I went at 4.
Brewed_energy@reddit
I went to kindergarten for a couple of months and then we moved. The new area didn't have kindergarten so I waited for first grade. But then we moved again. That area did have kindergarten and required me to go even though I was already 6. The first couple of school years, I was in the same class as my little brother. They separated us in 2nd grade.
Osinuous@reddit
I had half day kindergarten. First part of the year we were mornings, then we flipped with the other class. But in that half day, we did have nap time. So it was basically 2.5 hours or ‘school’ until first grade.
simplylisa@reddit
Born in 66 and it was half days. Naming things, snack times, the scary playground tilt a whirl, and a nap. I work in a school system now and K im expectations involve reading and writing. I mastered Oreo side separation.
Individual_Note_8756@reddit
Also born in 66, also went to half day kindergarten, started when I was four due to a November birthday. I have few memories of it, although I do remember being forced to nap daily, which was hard for me.
I also vividly remember being taught to read, it was the Tip and Mitten series, Tip was a dog & Mitten was a cat. Does anyone else remember them?
I already knew my alphabet because I watched the first season of Sesame Street at age 3 (?). My mom wrote to PBS telling them how wonderful it was, how much it had helped me, and that she hoped that it would have another season. She kept their reply forever, saying they were really appreciative of her letter and that they had been allowed a second season. 🥰
Ironically, my own sons had half day kindergarten in the same district, they are now 20 & 22. The 20 year old was the last year of 1/2 day, it finally went full day in 2010.
Primary-Initiative52@reddit
My experience and dates are almost identical to yours! 66, half day, November birthday. I didn't get Tip and Mittens though...it was Mr. Mugs! Mr. Mugs was an English Sheepdog. We learned how to write our letters, sang songs together, learned how to listen to an instructor, and have certain times devoted to certain tasks (like, art time, reading time, sing song time.) Overall not a bad experience I guess!
teacher860@reddit
I also read the Tip & Mitten starting in kindergarten (1973-74) - there were only a couple of us who could read already. We also had fun with “the letter people.”
homework-munky@reddit
Born summer of '78. I was in a pre-pre-school program at 3 (my Mom's words) then regular pre-school the next year, different locations.
Did the same for my daughter & son and it was really just arts, crafts and lots of playtime. Looking back I wonder if it was just glorified babysitting since daycares hadn't really taken off yet.
stevemm70@reddit
Born in 1970. I did go to kindergarten in Rhode Island, but we moved after my first grade year. We moved to a place that didn't have kindergarten in the public schools, but there was a private kindergarten that had been there forever. I always wished I'd been able to go there. I heard it was really, really nice.
slade797@reddit
I skipped kindergarten.
emtaylor517@reddit
Same! Born in 1975. My parents tried to enroll me in kindergarten at age 4 but that wasn’t allowed, so they waited a year and then put me in 1st grade.
D_Richards@reddit
I was born in 1977 and was so good at kindergarten that I went twice! My mom said I was "special."
I think kindergarten is more about routine and social interactions to prepare you. The first time I went, it wasn't every day or a full day. The second time I went, it was five days a week and all day.
Careless-Gazelle-247@reddit
Born in 76. I went to pre-school and then first grade, skipping kindergarten entirely.
sunqueen73@reddit
Went to kindergarten but there was no preschool. Kindergarten class was out ar 12:30 or so. My mom was a sahm, so she would walk me to school and home.
Was on my own at 1st grade.
GreenTfan@reddit
Born in the 60s in MD, went to half-day kindergarten. It wasn't required, and I remember going to first grade with kids who hadn't gone to kindergarten. First grade was also half-day until Thanksgiving, then a full day the rest of the year.
AKA-Pseudonym@reddit
Born in 76. Went to Kindergarten. Learning the alphabet and counting to 20 was about as academic as it got. But I think I must be right on the cusp of Kindergarten getting more rigorous because when I moved to a new district for the 1st grade most of kids could already read.
Ratatoskr_The_Wise@reddit
No Kindergarten here either. It wasn’t a “teaching” grade like it is now.
Comprehensive-Sale79@reddit
I was born in 1977 and I didn’t go to any pre-k schooling (which seems very common today). I did go to a private kindergarten though prior to starting 1st grade at the public elementary
Temporary_Waltz7325@reddit
You don't learn to spell in Kindergarten other than maybe CAT and DOG.
There is nothing you missed out on except some play time with other kids, and missing that for a year is not something that would cause a person social fitting-in troubles in the future.
West_Sample9762@reddit
I had a younger than me cousin (born in 71) who went to kindergarten. The extent of what he learned to spell was “you are a B I G green P I G”. 5yo boy humor. lol
gatadeplaya@reddit
I did not. My Mother had me tested out. Getting rid of me for half a day wasn’t going to work for her. So I was 5 and in the first grade. It’s a miracle I have any social skills at all 😂
EquivalentPain5261@reddit
Born in 71- half day kindergarten. I’m in upstate NY. This is the first time I’ve ever heard that some places did not have kindergarten. That’s interesting
Fluffy_Tap_935@reddit
Same. I have a late birthday and lived in a state where I didn’t make the cut off to start K. Next summer we move to a state with an earlier cutoff and I’m suddenly old enough to just start as a 1st grader, so that’s what my parents chose.
MonitorOfChaos@reddit
I've never thought of it until your post. I was born in 76. I have no memory of kindergarten, but that doesn't mean I didn't attend. I do remember 1st grade though. Now I am wondering and there's no one left alive to verify. lol
KissesandMartinis@reddit
I went half days. Oh, school in the 70s!
eejm@reddit
I was born in 1976 and went to half day kindergarten. I went to preschool as well. My mom was born in 1946 and didn’t go. They didn’t have it in her tiny town.
renpen13@reddit
Born in 69. No Kindergarten.
madlyhattering@reddit
No public kindergarten in my town, either, so my parents sent me to a private half-day kindergarten (somewhat surprising as I’m from a blue collar family, but they knew I was ready to learn). I had friends who didn’t get to go, though.
West_Sample9762@reddit
Born in 67. Should have been in kindergarten (or, as it was called in our town “sub primary) in 72. But our town/school couldn’t afford a teacher. So I did a second year of this new dangled concept called “Head Start” and started grade school in 73 as a first grader.
melissa3670@reddit
I did go in 1975. It was a half day and my mom opted for the morning session for me. It was lots of letter people.
SarcasticGirl27@reddit
Born in 73. I went to morning preschool three days a week & then went to afternoon kindergarten the next year at the elementary school.
NCLAXMOM26@reddit
Born in 74 as well. I went to kindergarten, I don't believe it was optional. However, I did go to elementary school through 6th grade. Our age group was the last year 6th grade was still in elementary school. I guess a better way of putting it is we were the first group to go to "middle school" vs "Junior High"
kgurney1021@reddit
Born in 67, half day Kindergarten, I was a night owl even back then so of course I got the am session, but I loved it. I was a school nerd. Didn't like sleeping on the floor and being quiet.
Feral__Daughter@reddit
I did go, but it was a horrible experience. I remember clearly, and my mom backed this up that I got in trouble daily for not knowing how to snap my fingers. A letter was sent home to my mom and dad about my failure to snap fingers. I'm 54 and still unable to snap my fingers.
Kindergarten is much different now. Kids actually learn meaningful things, not back how it use to be.
RealPumpkin3199@reddit
I can't snap either. How traumatic for a kid to be punished for that!
Individual_Note_8756@reddit
I can’t snap my fingers either! 😂 However, it wasn’t required in my kindergarten.
prairiescary@reddit
It was optional when I was a kid. I started Grade One (Canadian) when I was 5. My mum and older sister taught me to read before I ever went to school.
Bartlaus@reddit
Born in 1972, rural Norway. There basically wasn't such a thing as daycare, a lot of women with small kids still didn't work outside the home. Mine did, I was watched by my great-aunt who lived nearby. She had a part-time job running a small library branch in the neighbourhood so I learned to read and used up all the children's books and started on selected grown-up books long before I went to school.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s awesome. I started first grade having zero exposure to numbers or the ABCs. I most definitely was not able to read. Do you still have a love for reading?
Bartlaus@reddit
Absolutely; and I married a woman with the same, and we have produced four bookworm kids.
WaitingitOut000@reddit
We used to have two years of Kindergarten, Junior and Senior. Half days starting at age 4. Both were optional, and I think K is still optional even today. I was a shy kid, so it was good for me to go.
Little_Storm_9938@reddit
Born ‘74. We had kindergarten in the elementary building, and pre-k at a separate location. Both were play-based, and encouraged positive social interactions and behavior. Pre-k had nap time (with I’d swear were wrestling mats), and milk and cookies. I vaguely remember going to nursery school as well but my only memory of that was crying on the bus and being miserable. Separation anxiety has always been real.
Masters_pet_411@reddit
1969 and my grandmother told my mother I was ready for school so I went to Pre-K and learned to read at age 4. I remember realizing I could read when the whole class was reading out loud with the teacher and the teacher (and rest of the class) stopped but I kept on reading out loud. I think the embarrassment is what made it a core memory 🤣
cathy80s@reddit
I was born in 1966. I have two older sisters, and I was the first to go to kindergarten. The kindergarten was added to our elementary school for the 71-72 school year.
whywhywhy4321@reddit
1969 and started Montessori preschool at 3 when my mother went back to work. Full day kindergarten at 4, sis and I would walk to the babysitters after school was over.
Boomslang505@reddit
I started 1st grade in Holy Loch Scotland at age 5 turned 6 shortly afterwards.
Uncle_Brewster@reddit
I went to pre-school, which was in a church basement. The next year I went to kindergarten. Both were half day.
NorthSufficient9920@reddit
Born in 76. I had two years of nursery school before kindergarten. Nursery school was two half days a week first year and three half days a week second year. Kindergarten was five half days a week.
DriveIn73@reddit
I started first grade when I was 5. I didn’t go either.
tastysurprise4111@reddit
Born in 79, had half-day afternoon kindergarten at 4 yrs old. I loved it. Snack time, story time, drawing time, “learning” the abc’s (I could read already though so really it was to practice “penmanship”). And 123’s, shapes, free play with costumes and blocks. Ffwd to my daughter born 2015, her kindergarten was the online during the middle of lockdown. However she had been in part time preschool for 2 years and her time there was very reminiscent of my kindergarten days.
Accomplished_Act1489@reddit
I didn't. Born in 65. Never learned why. All my older siblings did.
dangelo7654398@reddit
Kindergarten is pretty intense now, unless society has already decided you are disposable.
dbrmn73@reddit
I didnt either, my mom thought you had to pay for it and she couldn't afford it.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
That’s how I remember it. They had preschool classes in town, but there was no bus to and from, and you had to pay for it, which my parents weren’t about to do.
Rich_Focus3999@reddit
I did not. I never knew it was weird until I got older. I just remember in first grade all the kids seemed to know each other.
I am born in 1966. And I came from a really dysfunctional home. I also don't know how to swim. Not sure why these things never happened.
I was removed from parents by the state and placed in foster care at 15.
RemissionMission@reddit (OP)
I’m sorry to hear about your family upbringing. I grew up in a dysfunctional home, but it was because my father was a raging, violently abusive alcoholic. I was fortunate enough to have a loving mother who did her best for me. I can’t even imagine what it must have been like for you in your situation. I certainly hope you were able to find a loving family that you’re still close to until this day.
Digitalispurpurea2@reddit
No kindergarten for me, although I started school at 5 in England not the US.
No-Drop2538@reddit
I did. But it's interesting that head start programs have a really improved outcome.
HillbillygalSD@reddit
I was born in 1970. I went to Kindergarten a few months. Then, we moved to a more rural area where the nearest school didn’t have a kindergarten.
I don’t think you missed much. Kindergartens weren’t as intense back then. I remember learning ABCs, coloring, taking naps, and having a gym mat in the back of the classroom that we could play and turn flips on.
PubKirbo@reddit
I went to Kindergarten and also can't spell. I don't think those are related.
MightyAl75@reddit
I did half day and remember that several kids that would go to parochial school in first grade were in my class.
Melodic_Counter_2140@reddit
I did and I hated it
tdawg-1551@reddit
Ours was a half day. Every grade had 4 classes, kindergarten had 2. In town kids went in the afternoon, out of town kids went in the morning.
FillLoose@reddit
I didn't; also started school at 1st grade.