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From what I've seen, and what I've encountered. Most kids will choose love over money, and they won't hold being poor against you unless you raised a narcissist or actively contributed to their misery. If you struggled but did it for them they'll hold you up. This is why you see a lot of pro athletes shower their mother with houses and gifts, while they tell their dad to F off. When you force your kid to endure pain for your benefit, like you hold it against them that they're the reason you're poor, or they owe you, or even worse you drag them off to work as teenagers and pocket your money (which happens in some countries) be prepared to have someone who is so tormented they find it painful to even think about forgiving you or loving you.