GenX men in particular, how's your sex life?

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BeautifulStrangers73@reddit

Absolutely fantastic! Hotter than ever!

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

We hoo! It's so nice to see when people have grown closer together as they've agreed. It's just fucking awesome. (Keeps me optimistic too!)

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BeautifulStrangers73@reddit

We are both very thankful for our relationship and the level of naughtiness we have in common. As we’ve gotten older, our inhibitions have been less of a concern.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

That's fantastic! It's always fun trying new things.

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Fantastic_Mouse5140@reddit

At my age and single, I pay for it, and it's fantastic.

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mazopheliac@reddit

We all pay for it one way or another.

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mazopheliac@reddit

Underachieving. Which tracks with the rest of my life I suppose.

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49…. Pretty decent. Wife is 6.5 years younger tho… I think that’s helped. She’s more or less down to go if I want to. But because, ya know, life (kids, job, stress, etc)… maybe avg 1.5 times a week… some weeks more than others. I def need to check into T stuff. No ED, but man, soooo tired these days.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

I would absolutely look into it. Especially if you're having brain fog along with the fatigue.

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Cynicastic@reddit

El zilcho for 15+ years. I'm 55 she's 61. In our case there's medical reasons (hers, mainly).

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Sorry to hear that man. :(

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Appropriate_Cow94@reddit

Good and bad. I have a wonderful wife who is also 51. I have a girlfriend who is 34 and too frisky for me to keep up. Zero issues performing but just wanting to..... not so much. Each of them maybe once a week. Girlfriend wants twice a day. I keep trying to get her to find someone else. Girlfriend doesn't want to play with wife much but wife wants to play with her. Realistically, my life is very good.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Absolutely! These are good "problems" to have. 😊

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GenX-ModTeam@reddit

Low effort and other posts may be removed from time to time at the moderator’s discretion.

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Bobwiththebigone@reddit

I am always ready to go. Wife on the other hand…

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rodeler@reddit

Same. But, when it does occur it is fantastic!

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Seems like some things never change..

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IndependentTalk4413@reddit

Honestly pretty great. Wife is almost always down to clown. Doc started me on TRT last year and that’s been great for many reasons, not just banging. We don’t go at it like 20 year olds but 2-3x a week usually. Went to Puerto Vallarta this fall for vacation and banged like teenagers the whole week. Now, we don’t have kids so maybe that makes a difference.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

That's fucking awesome! Literally! I find it amazing that some docs are still saying they're against HRT because, "Well, it's a natural party of aging." Fuck that jack. I've got shit to do. And women have been having this argument with their docs literally for decades. Just infuriating. Not having kids will definitely be a factor. They can be a mod killer for sure.... At any age. :)

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buckinanker@reddit

TRT is amazing, 51 and feel like 35 it’s helped at work, in the gym, my mental health and yeah wife and I have fun at least once on the weekend

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Same, actually. Things had been declining, every, libido, etc. Then they just.... Stopped. Couldn't focus, zero desire. Oddly enough, no ED, just no desire. Now I feel like myself again. No way I could do my current job (stressful) without the energy it provides, and I'm over 55.

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buckinanker@reddit

It was like a fountain of youth for me, I recommend it to anyone over 50 that’s struggling and can afford it.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Same. I didn't think it was that expensive, especially when you compare it to stuff like Wegovy. With insurance I think I'm paying $30/month. Totally worth it.

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buckinanker@reddit

Ah I went the online doctor route, little more pricey, I should look at going to a local doc to get a script

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Yeah, there's a clinic around here that I did my blood work with, because I had a month wait before I could talk to my doc. I could see how it was going to get very expensive with all the follow-ups they wanted to do. On the plus side, I had all the testing taken care of when I talked to my doc, so it was a pretty short conversation. We talked about risks and side effects, and then I had a script. Easy-peasy.

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Sufficient_Stop8381@reddit

Running up in everything

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Literally?

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HamYogurt@reddit

My wife has gone through menopause, which is great because no more cramps. Unfortunately things down there have gone dry. It makes it uncomfortable. We are still working that out.

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buckinanker@reddit

Not to be weird, but my wife has to take drugs to basically remove her estrogen. Google Lola, it’s the only thing she is ok with and saved us.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Lube is your friend. Keep talking with her about it. My wife went through menopause, basically lost the blood, kept all the other symptoms. Apparently this is pretty common in post menopausal women, but earlier generations simply didn't talk about it.

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ihatepickingnames_@reddit

Non existent. High libido but single. Actually wouldn’t mind it going away.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Yeah, I get that. In some ways it was nice not being constantly horny. But it came at a cost of my energy and brain power to do anything else, so I had to go on HRT. I'm too damned young to retire.

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Mysterious_Main_5391@reddit

All good. No pills, no problems.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Living the dream man! Living the dream. 😊

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FujiKitakyusho@reddit

Nonexistent. She has zero libido now.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Menopause, or was she low libido to begin with and menopause just finished it off?

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FujiKitakyusho@reddit

It was different before. Low, but still some intimacy. That's all gone now. She has a few years on me.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you two discussed it?

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QueerGardens@reddit

49 and it’s non existent he never has any interest anymore and yet I’m the one that’s on 2 antidepressants that are supposed to kill libido but haven’t lol.

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Maybe couples therapy? Lack of desire can be both a physical and mental thing.

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frettbe@reddit

I assume you're joking, I don't know what you're talking about. Vanished, like my libido

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Nope. No joke. Maybe get your testosterone levels checked? It should decking as you age, but not drop off a cliff.

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NegScenePts@reddit

S...ex? Seems familiar, but I'm not sure where from. I gave up years ago.

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Obvious_Market_9485@reddit

It has its ups and downs

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CompetitivePirate251@reddit

“So is like steak, very rare “ R. Dangerfield

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Cacti-make-bad-dildo@reddit

It's dr Ruth! Good luck with yer questionnaire

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

She was awesome! Remember how Christian groups had such a hard time figuring out what to say about this tiny little Jewish lady who was helping people fuck in very explicit terms.

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edwardJ1972@reddit

Been fairly consistent the last 14 years. 2-3 times a week I would guess. I’m 52 BTW

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Leeto2@reddit (OP)

Nice! Intimacy is such an important part of a relationship. I'm not ready for my wife and I to move to the "companionate" stage of a relationship. Hopefully we can keep booking into it 80's

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