ULPT Request: Ruin ex’s life who took my money and destroyed me emotionally
Posted by Early_Proof1373@reddit | UnethicalLifeProTips | View on Reddit | 23 comments
Read here the better I provide the context, the more creative this group can help. I’m looking for only unethical ways to ruin my ex’s life but not illegal. I have a corporate job and I don’t want to get caught in any trouble.
My ex GF took nearly $70,000 from me over the last year and now broke up with me. She is denying giving me back saying it was a gift.
Family: She has two adult boys from her last marriage, she herself is divorced for 15 years and have had multiple bfs / sexual partners before meeting me. We lived in a big city (separately) until 6 months ago when she said she is visiting her parents and will be back but never came back and broke up with me. She now lives in small city in Canada. I’m still in Bree big city. Work: She didn’t work after Covid but now she works as esthetician as independent worker in a salon. I have access to her : Phone number, email, workplace number, workplace address, her parents address, her old address (her ex husband and one son live there), I don’t have access to her new home address. I also know her credit card number (but not CVV), her bank account number, her parents bank account numbers (she herself gave me these when asked for money), her car registration number, her driving license number, SSN equivalent. In addition to this, she was on government grants since Covid and I got to know she took money from her previous bfs. She is a narcissist and used me emotionally and financially. She drained me emotionally so much that I lost my identity. I am looking to destroy her life and business. Something that will work long term. Spamming emails and phone may only work for a while, but won’t destroy her or her business. I thought of applying credit card on her behalf but I don’t know where to get it delivered. I thought of signing up for gym memberships with her account, but it won’t be a lot of money. Also thought of doing fake bookings at her workplace and never show up but it still won’t be long term and she is cleaver enough to know it’s me. She is highly sexual, she can sleep around with anyone. If I were to put ad about her, I don’t want to be traced back to me.
Help me please.
Secret-Tackle8040@reddit
Who gives anyone $70k?
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
If you don’t have anything good to add, it’s advisable to not say anything. Read the rules of this subreddit. The very first rule.
Basement-Juice@reddit
Maybe understand how transactional SB relationships work in the first fucking place, since you wanna talk about “rules”. Clearly you can’t follow them. Actually, maybe just invest money into some good therapy and self improvement, and lay off trying to control women as some property you feel entitled to, because this shit ain’t it.
sheneedstorelax@reddit
How did she take the 70k?
CandidIndication@reddit
How did she get a hold of your $70K? I don’t see where you’ve explained that here. Did she commit a crime?
Secret-Tackle8040@reddit
I didn't offer any ethical tips. And you are the last person in the world who has room to speak on what's "advisable". I get that you're salty that you fell for a honey pot and emptied your bank account chasing some bird but don't take it out on me.
My unethical advice to you would be to try and continue your misguided revenge fantasy. It's unethical because this woman is obviously waaaaaaaaay smarter than you and you're bound to lose. She's playing chess and you aren't even playing checkers, you're playing with a piece of string. Send her a piss disc and see how that goes.
Abbigrantty@reddit
This is genuinely terrifying. It reads like the ramblings of a sick, violent individual. I suggest you seek help and think long and deep before you do something insane. For your own sake.
Lord-Smalldemort@reddit
This is pretty terrifying. I have seen people do a lot of crazy shit when they have been rejected and broken up with. It’s funny because you have all the information you need to destroy her and for her, statistically speaking, you’re the person, most likely to murder her if she were to be murdered. And here you are on the Internet, asking for ways to ruin her life because you gave her presents and then she broke up with you. You say you’re not willing to do anything illegal but… I don’t know.
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
Presents? Who gives half of their life savings in presents within a year? Think again before commenting.
Lord-Smalldemort@reddit
Exactly who gives half of their life savings in presence within a year? That’s obviously some unhinged behavior. And when men display unhinged behavior, bad shit happens to women.. Take some personal accountability for your actions. Seriously who gives away their life savings in a year? Was she curing your cancer?
kvtnink@reddit
Go repost this in your feminist group. Oh wait you already did
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
I think you are in the wrong subreddit.
toysNpoison88@reddit
If you can't sue, really only less than legal methods will do, and there are definitely tons that keep you safe from culpability if played right and especially if it has a business it owns. You have more than enough to destroy it utterly already. There are alot of ai bot services that can be tasked with constantly calling and even booking services from different numbers with tons of voices or even automated and email related stuff, you can even schedule how often or intervals but the bots have a very limited life before you have to task a new one/s. You can "hire debt collectors" too.
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
Seems like you have a lot to share but I didn’t understand fully what specifics I can do. Can you share more details please? This 70k was half of my entire lifetime savings. 🙏
toysNpoison88@reddit
I'm more or less saying aside from suing, the reality is "less than legal" methods must be utilized and in the event it was willingly transferred regardless of intent to be loan or gift, it could be difficult to get any lawful remedy and you said you don't want to risk your career. I can't really say any methods that "step out for a cigarette outside the law" as it will be flagged, but if you look into the various ai bot services for example you can hire them to call, schedule, email, and even pick the intervals which could make it harder to anticipate and screen, and also they can use new internet numbers each time so blocking is ineffective and it's essentially what happens with spam callers/scam likely phone calls but it can also fill up emails and voice-mail and essentially temporarily (or until you task new bots after their lifespan) onslaught the business lines and make it nearly impossible to correspond with legitimate business inquiries. This has actually proved devastating to businesses and may even have specific laws about it now as it was a crisis far beyond bad review floods ever could as of course ecen with new numbers they have to advertise it publicly to actually get customers attention. If it has nothing to actually take and spent the money then vengeance and sabotage is pretty much all you can pursue to your own desire, I wouldn't mess with the banking especially with the parents ecen if they are scum, but there are alot of really jagged federal laws pertaining to banking for sure, and while fraud has federal entities backed up for years, they will tend to get around to what they can or even randomly prioritize some cases over others and you may be unlucky in that regard. If it was genuine fraud and taken (at least some) without your authorization, you can prosecute.
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
Thanks for your detailed response. I really appreciate that. One last question - are you aware of any such ai bots that you mentioned? I didn’t know and I would like to explore. Thanks again!
FairyPenguinStKilda@reddit
Think of it as 70K saved on sex workers and move on. I am guessing you enjoyed her highly sexualised behaviours until she took the sugar away?
Radiant_Seat_3138@reddit
Found the ex 🤣
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
First, I would never pay any sex worker 70k in one year. Second, no we didn’t have much sexual encounters, only a handful when we started dating. Everytime she would say she is busy or not feeling it or whatever. And I was just working on making the relationship going.
Single_Asparagus4793@reddit
Is it that hard to figure out someone’s home address in Canada? Figure that out, let the games begin.
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
I think so. I’m not sure how to find out her new address. I’ll appreciate any guidance.
Single_Asparagus4793@reddit
Canada411? It looks like you can search by name or number.
Early_Proof1373@reddit (OP)
Tried it. This website is useless. I couldn’t even find my own name on this.