Have you seen any Black Friday related violence?
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In Ireland I saw it first hand last year. A man took off his belt and started using it to whack people away from the front of the door. Have you seen anything? I’ve read a man being shot over a tv in Black Friday
pfta4@reddit
People were aggressive a long long time ago, that has died down a lot. Back then when it was at the peak, there are stories here and there from strangers and acquiantances, but nothing newsworthy.
rolyoh@reddit
Why is there Black Friday in Ireland? What holiday do they observe on Thursday when the US is observing Thanksgiving?
Haboob_AZ@reddit
A long time ago, but I don't go out anymore on BF. I don't know if many around here do anymore - doesn't seem like it. A year or so ago we had to grab something from Target on BF and walked in and there were hardly any people in the store (was around noon or so) Kind of shocking.
Maybe they all cleared out after the door busters.
ApplePajamas@reddit
In about 2010 I witnessed line cutters at Best Buy get dragged away by police-I was 4th in line and had sat there for nearly 10 hours in the cold for a laptop. This isn’t really a thing anymore here though.
TheRandomestWonderer@reddit
Nope.
Hatweed@reddit
Not in the 15 years I’ve actually gone out on Black Friday. People have generally been sane.
Red_Beard_Rising@reddit
For the past four years, on Black Friday I've been in the woods hunting deer. Before that I was probably working. Never really had a desire to participate in the Black Friday nonsense. I don't like crowds much.
TheBimpo@reddit
Never. The hysteria over huge sales on Black Friday has largely gone away in the US. Retailers don't promote it as heavily and have curtailed the $99 television and other loss leader specials, they don't want chaos in their stores.
TrixieLurker@reddit
In all my time, I only ever seen these on social media videos and even those faded away after 2020.
KartFacedThaoDien@reddit
It’s not about chaos. It’s about profit. Why have $130 4k 65 inch TV’s when you can just raise the sticker price by $80 then add an $100 discount to that. The same with a pair of shoes I bought last year for $80 in early November. On Black Friday they were $180 with a $30 discount.
ALoungerAtTheClubs@reddit
When I worked at Target in the early 2000s, some of the "door busters" would be cheap crap they didn't even sell all year. I remember in particular this junky stereo that would only get wheeled out for Black Friday.
I assume it's much the same now.
NormanQuacks345@reddit
Or keep that original sticker price but make a special batch for $100 cheaper, then put them on sale for $50 off?
PartyPorpoise@reddit
Plus a lot of people have opted for online shopping anyway.
wizardyourlifeforce@reddit
Ireland's a bit more violent than we are it sounds like.
Canners19@reddit (OP)
As someone who was in the riot last year…. Agree
veryangryowl58@reddit
Genuine question - when and why do you have Black Friday? Here, it's always been a day-after-Thanksgiving thing, and a lot of people have that off.
sto_brohammed@reddit
In France we have all kinds of Black Friday sales too. We have it because it's profitable.
veryangryowl58@reddit
Well yeah, I figured that last bit. Just kind of weird that you'd pattern it off a day exclusively tied to an American holiday.
Canners19@reddit (OP)
Just trickle down American culture
Crepes_for_days3000@reddit
My apologies lol
MrLongWalk@reddit
To what extent do you blame the US for this phenomenon? like do you see this as a deliberate attempt by the US to push our culture on you? Or is it more seen as Irish businesses cashing in on trends they see in the US?
veryangryowl58@reddit
Oh. You should have taken the turkey and stuffing, instead!
HorseFeathersFur@reddit
What riot? What was it about?
MrLongWalk@reddit
You’ll be the first one to ever admit it, half the Irish I know swear you have to punch somebody to get breakfast in the US.
Canners19@reddit (OP)
Here in Dublin you see the guards have to arrest someone or break up a fight everytike you head into town
MrLongWalk@reddit
I’ve seen it, but you’d have a hard time convincing most of you lot that it isn’t far worse here.
BearManUnicorn@reddit
No, but I remain optimistic every year!
krill482@reddit
That stuff doesn't really happen anymore. The trend has been dying out for the past 10 yrs. COVID and online shopping pretty much put the nail in the coffin for black friday madness.
Recent-Irish@reddit
No, but that’s because I never go to Black Friday. Why miss on Thanksgiving and decorating the tree for Christmas?
neoslith@reddit
Your tree isn't up already??
TheyMakeMeWearPants@reddit
Any sooner than Black Friday and the Great Turkey sends his goons around to mess with your decorations.
neoslith@reddit
Thanksgiving is just jealous for being a bad holiday.
Recent-Irish@reddit
It won’t be up till next Friday.
Luka_Dunks_on_Bums@reddit
Not in a long time
If_I_must@reddit
As someone who worked retail in the 2000s, Black Friday has gotten much calmer since online shopping has blown up. Still, I am sorry that we exported that to you. I so often think that it's the worst parts of American culture that get shipped out to the rest of the world.
hucareshokiesrul@reddit
Many Christmases ago, I went to buy a doll for my son. I reach for the last one they had - but so did another man. As I rained blows upon him, I realized there had to be another way!
blueghostfrompacman@reddit
That must have been some doll
hucareshokiesrul@reddit
She was.
Gallahadion@reddit
But out of that, a new holiday was born: a Festivus for the rest of us!
ballrus_walsack@reddit
I got a lot of problems with you people!
Bayonettea@reddit
I worked retail 10-15 years ago, and not only did I witness it, I was subject to it a lot over the years. I've been pushed, shoved, groped, trampled, punched, kicked spit on, had various liquids spilled on me, had stuff thrown at me, threatened with bodily harm, rape, death, etc, all so people can save 2 dollars on a toaster
Adjective-Noun123456@reddit
Online shopping kind of killed the Black Friday hype here.
Last time I saw anything noteworthy was like...20 years ago, and it was just lines and crowds. Some super minor shoving as people filed in when the doors would open, but that's the extent of what I can remember.
IPreferDiamonds@reddit
My sister goes out every year for Black Friday. She has been shopping Black Friday deals for 20 years. She has never seen any violence. We are in Virginia.
stangAce20@reddit
Not since before the pandemic
AshTheGoddamnRobot@reddit
No, even working at a mall on Black Friday I never witnessed that thank God.
It was way worse in the '90s and '00s. You should ask my aunt what it was like getting Pokémon cards BF 1999 lol
Kevin7650@reddit
Not really, traditional Black Friday where people all line up outside a store is dying out here anyway, thanks to online shopping and most stores now running Black Friday deals throughout the weekend.
blueghostfrompacman@reddit
Come in for Black Friday deals now through March 25th!!
101bees@reddit
So many years ago, I was at the in-laws for Thanksgiving and a bunch of us decided to go out for the Black Friday doorbusters that were happening that night.
My husband and I took a seat in the middle of the mall in view of a Victoria's Secret. It was so crowded, I couldn't see much, but my husband is tall enough where he had a decent view of when they first opened the doors. Apparently two women started fighting over panties, enough to where security had to intervene.
That was my first and only taste of Black Friday madness.
stellalunawitchbaby@reddit
It’s not really the same experience as years past but personally no, I’ve never seen Black Friday violence, and I used to go during peak Black Friday. When I was a little kid and they did the door busters I’d go with my mom and grandma and we called it “crazy shop,” I do remember people lining up hella early (first 100 people get a free whatever) but no fighting or anything, thankfully. And then as a teen and adult I’ve gone on my own but it’s just been chaotic and energetic rather than violent. Also as an adult they started moving to Thanksgiving night sales, and because the crowds spread out a little more the energy was different, more mellow. Now they have once again moved away from Thanksgiving evening sales (somewhat) and people shop online more so it’s very different - I still go for fun but hardly buy anything.
HorseFeathersFur@reddit
Nope. Gen x here and have never once witnessed anything like you’d see on the news. I’ve been Black Friday shopping once or twice but it’s all hype and not worth it.
Advanced-Power991@reddit
worked in retailhell many years ago, had a manager get punched in face in front of me. All over a stupid toy we had sold out of.
Crepes_for_days3000@reddit
Omg. Did that person get arrested?
Agile_Property9943@reddit
I don’t know because I don’t do Black Friday shopping. There are always nutcases everywhere though
Crepes_for_days3000@reddit
I hate to laugh but the belt thing is hilarious. People who go crazy like that for a deal are so dumb.
I have never seen any hysteria at all when I go shopping,only clips from the news when people get crazy. We are a huge country so the vast majority haven't seen these things in person.
Ok-Professional2232@reddit
Years ago at Walmart I did see people shouting and shoving each other but it ended very quickly.
TheLivingShit@reddit
No I've only seen it in the news. However when people were being assholes and buying out toliet paper, customer's were pushing associates and grabbing packages out of their hands. I worked in retail from 2002-2024 and I saw the most violence over toliet paper and wearing masks- all grown male adults.
rawbface@reddit
Last year?? Black friday has been declining in popularity in the US since 2007. The pandemic positively killed it. In the mid 2000's you would see people camped out in front of stores starting right after thanksgiving dinner, but now black friday deals start on November 1st and last through the first week of december, with online ordering and curbside pickup.
Black Friday is no big deal anymore, there's nowhere to see any violence.
dumbandconcerned@reddit
One of the two years I went Black Friday shopping, a woman bumped into my friend and knocked her down. (Not intentionally but she also certainly didn’t say sorry.) She hurt her wrist. That’s about it
Katty_Whompus_@reddit
I stood in line at midnight on Black Friday once, we were a bit drunk and laughing and cutting up with others in line and it was actually a really fun experience, but I don’t need to do it again.
WingedLady@reddit
Personally no, but I hate the crowds on Black Friday so I tend to stay in and start decorating for Christmas and generally have a relaxing day.
I'm also usually one of the main cooks responsible for Thanksgiving (literally just finished working out a timetable and will be printing recipes today since I get helpers this year, haha). So I'm usually kind of wiped out for Black Friday.
bass679@reddit
Yes but it has been years. Waaay back, probably the early 2000s I would do black Friday with my Ma and her sisters. One year my aunt got in a verbal altercation where they got in each other's faces but no actual violence. Actually now that I thi k about it I'm pretty sure at least once per year she almost got in to a fight.
Another year we were at Walmart, quite late in the day, like 10 SM. There had been a sale on 2 Gb flash drives which was very big at the time. Anyway, this was 5 hours after the sales started and some guy is looking at the flash drives and can only find 500Mb and 1 Gb. He starts saying to the poor clerk, who looked maybe 16, "where are the 2 Gb drives? What ddi you only stock 5 of them? Why would you do that?" for the record there had clearly been hundreds of them.
To be clear the kid wasn't responding, he tried to say they had sold out of them but the guy just kept asking leaving no space for an answer. After about 3 or 4 cycles of his question he grabs some of the smaller flash drives and chucks them at the kid. At that point other customers and some employee step in and the guy got dragged away, literally screaming about "why did you only stock 5?"
So yeah. Not the worst but it happened back then.
stopstopimeanit@reddit
I went once. Someone kicked my shopping cart. I stopped going after that one time. Super shitty.
Salty_Dog2917@reddit
No.
anneofgraygardens@reddit
no. I've never gone shopping on Black Friday.
Vegetable_Burrito@reddit
Nah. With online shopping and people realizing retailers just bump up prices right before the holidays just to artificially lower them to make it look like stuff is on sale, I think the myth of Black Friday craziness is over.
That being said, my first job was at Toys R Us and those were the days when there was one toy every kid (supposedly) wanted (furby, tickle me Elmo, shit like that) and some people went a little nuts when they’d come on Xmas eve and we didn’t have any in stock. We had some in the back held for people who ordered them and one woman saw me bringing one to the front and, I kid you not, said ‘SHE HAS ONE! GET HER!’ Lmao. I can’t even remember what toy it was.
fromwayuphigh@reddit
I avoid stores on Black Friday but I have certainly experienced the urge to throttle someone who'# lollygagging down the aisle when I'm just trying to get groceries.
CupBeEmpty@reddit
I’ve only ever seen it on TV/the internet. I don’t go out on Black Friday for shopping so maybe I’m biased. That said any time I have seen clips of violence or stampedes it is from somewhere nowhere near me.
ProfessionalAir445@reddit
No. I’ve only gone out on Black Friday twice.
Once in like 1998 when my dad tried to buy a computer and thought we could just walk up to Best Buy when it opened to get it (lol) and once I went out later in the day with a friend buying stuff. It was just busy.
Justmakethemoney@reddit
No, but I'm also not one of those people who are in line for hours before the store opens. If things are going to happen, it's going to be in those first few minutes after the stores open.
Tat2dDad@reddit
The one and only time I ever went to a black Friday sale was when I went to WalMart (Anaheim, CA) to buy a trampoline 14 years ago. I grabbed a cart and stood in the toy line waiting patiently for the sale to begin. Employees started to roll out some of the "door buster" items on pallets that were still wrapped, and upon the first one being set down I witnessed a mass of people screaming, hitting, and throwing each other down to rip open the wrapping and start to fight over $11.00 stick vacuums.
rileyoneill@reddit
No. But it also seems like it started to die out in the late 2000s. Since 2008 or so we have been going through a "Retail Apocalypse" with mall closures going on all over the country. Black Friday has been dying out a little every year for a long time. The deals are not what they once were, its a huge pain in the ass that can involve hours of waiting.
TVs were the big item that people would fight for, but now they are already so cheap and if you want one, you just buy it cheap whenever you want.
psychocentric@reddit
I haven't seen any since after COVID, honestly. Stores around here found out jamming the sale into a few hours a day didn't make them any more money, so now they run ads for a week or so.
The worst I ever saw was two women fist fighting over some big item in the parking lot. Like, the lady already purchased it and some other whacko tried to take it from the trunk of her car. I was about to interveine when a police car rolled up.
People are wild.
PracticalYak2743@reddit
15 years ago? Absolutely. However, it was around 2011, I dont remember exactly, and black friday just...stopped. Overight. Like one year it was the traditional Black Friday, the next NO ONE went to Black Friday.
This is a mix of several things. One was competitors. Competitors kept opening their doors earlier and earlier. It went from "Our doors open at 2am!" "well our doors open at midnight!" "Or doors are open at 5pm!" "Ours are open all day!" "ours are open all month!" ect.
Next, deals just wernt as good.
Last, online shopping.
Black friday literally is not a thing anymore in the US.
Mr_Kittlesworth@reddit
No, that’s insanely rare and mostly prompted by TV cameras for the video. I’ve never even heard of Black Friday violence in real life.
CVK327@reddit
No, and I miss when Black Friday shopping was really a thing instead of two weeks full of sales.
travelinmatt76@reddit
No, I almost never participate in Black Friday. I went one year because I wanted a specific external hard drive. I live in such a small town that even though our Walmart was super busy, it wasn't insane like some places get. That's the only time I've ever gone.
OptatusCleary@reddit
I have not seen anything like that. I’ve heard about things like that on TV, mostly from several years ago. I don’t think the deals are as good as they used to be because I rarely hear about it anymore.
Out of curiosity, how do you define what Friday is “Black Friday” in Ireland? In America it’s just the day after Thanksgiving. How does the average person in Ireland distinguish Black Friday from another Friday? Is it something like “the fourth Friday in November is Black Friday”? (I have actually been in Ireland during that time of year and didn’t notice anyone really doing anything for it, but that was a while ago now.)
illegalsex@reddit
I've never encountered anything like this in my life, but I also avoid Black Friday shopping at all costs. It just isn't worth it to me.
baalroo@reddit
Black Friday isn't really what it used to be 15 years ago. At least where I live, you can just go out shopping on Black Friday and it feels like a completely normal day out. People do their deal searching online.
mhoner@reddit
Yes but it’s been a bit. Online shopping and the push for small businesses helped curb that in more recent years.
LikelyNotSober@reddit
No, Black Friday is usually bs anyway.
ghotiermann@reddit
I avoid Black Friday like the plague. Not because of the possibility of violence. I have no desire to get up early so that I can stand in line with a ton of other people who are trying to push their way into the store.
No, thanks. I’ll wait for Cyber Monday.
ColaEuphoria@reddit
Personally no, but also Black Friday isn't even fun anymore. The stores have stretched it out to the point where it covers all of November and the sales are practically nonexistent.
Ravendead@reddit
Yes, I worked retail at the time and had to stop a lady from kicking another customer because they had both grabbed the last backyard trampoline set that was out on the floor.
Seguefare@reddit
I haven't shopped black Friday in many years. Never saw any violence, but did see chaos. I remember seeing someone carrying a stack of boxes of boots about 10 high through a tight crowd. I have no idea how she did it because there's no way she could see.
But the craziest crowds weren't at Black Friday, but at yearly manufacturer/distributor sales. Most of those either don't happen anymore, or aren't worth going to because the huge discounts are gone. Lines for those would run for blocks. I remember one in an old mall. It was at one end in an anchor store. The line had wrapped all the way to the other end of the mall and back around to the same storefront. They would place signs saying "Nothing in this store is worth hurting someone over". I remember going to one at a clothing manufacturer. Women were stripping down to try things on all over the place, because waiting for the curtained-off spaces would take far too long. I don't remember if there were any men there at all.
But the one I've only heard tale of still happens every spring: the Vietri distributor. My sisters went one year, and swore to never go again. I was in college, and had no money, so I missed it. But I heard it was madness, with people grabbing things out of other's hands, and everyone having to guard their hoard like an angry, wet cat, hissing and clawing.
RunFarEatPizza@reddit
There used to be before the true rose of online shopping when you had to go in at midnight and go get deals.
spike31875@reddit
No, not me! But, to be fair, you won't catch me anywhere near shops on Black Friday: I avoid it like the plague. So, I'm never in a position to witness anything like that.
I usually spend Black Friday recovering from my Thanksgiving food coma, cleaning up any dirty pots, pans or dishes left from the night before, eating leftovers and playing Call of Duty for a good portion of the day.
cryptoengineer@reddit
No. The worst I ever saw was linecutter outside a Target before it opened.
Management was informed when they showed up, and he was told he wasn't welcome in the store.
Bluemonogi@reddit
No. I always stay home.
machagogo@reddit
Not once. Not Ever in my 50 years
Chubby_Comic@reddit
I have seen videos and heard stories, but I refuse to get out in that madness to save a dollar or two. I hate shopping most of the time on a good day.
willtag70@reddit
Not first hand, only in occasional news reports on TV. It definitely happens in the US but I wouldn't say it's common. But I rarely shop in stores and never at busy times especially big sale days. Virtually all my shopping in online.
JudgeWhoOverrules@reddit
I've never personally seen it but I've heard it in the past. Black Friday shenanigans were a lot more prominent back when people actually had to go to stores to shop. Now it seems everyone just orders things online so there's no possibility for interpersonal violence.
notthegoatseguy@reddit
Black Friday isn't really a thing anymore, and hasn't been even before COVID times. Retailers spread their sales basically from early October to throughout December.
Building_a_life@reddit
Wha? No.
AnalogNightsFM@reddit
I have not, no.
Soundwave-1976@reddit
We have, but we went to the black Friday sales where we knew it would happen just to watch and see if it was true.
MrLongWalk@reddit
Never, Black Friday hysteria is exaggerated by and for the media, especially for European audiences.
Real-Psychology-4261@reddit
Not in the past 10-15 years. Black Friday is no longer some big cultural phenomenon where people line up outside the door of a store at 4 am to buy a TV that’s on sale for $499, regularly priced $699.
pinniped1@reddit
No.
BF is mostly dead in the US. It peaked in about 2008 IMHO.
It's wild to me that other countries are doing it, on that exact day, the Friday after Thanksgiving, when it isn't otherwise a holiday at all in that country.
terryaugiesaws@reddit
My cousin was punched in the face over a video game on black friday. this was about 20 years ago.
Black_Raven89@reddit
Not personally no because I don’t go to any of that shit, but I am fond of watching YouTube compilations of Black Friday fights and shenanigans as I smoke a bowl on my couch and eat Thanksgiving leftovers.
InterviewKey3451@reddit
Not me but my mom went one time and got one of the last two trampolines and when she was walking away Two women went at it fighting over the last one
RanjuMaric@reddit
No.
TillPsychological351@reddit
Sort of... I worked in a multiplex movie theater as a teenager, and Black Friday was ine of the busiest days of the year. In the jam-packed lobby, two women were arguing about something (I think their place in the concession line, but I'm not sure), and suddenly they starting hitting each other. The police were just outside on their regular patrol, so it didn't last too long. A bunch of people who were caught in the middle were given free food.
Vachic09@reddit
I have never personally witnessed it, but I think some people were trampled years ago.
wiarumas@reddit
I shop online. There is no sale worth it to go in person.
Next_Firefighter7605@reddit
I worked at a pet store in college and one Black Friday a woman slashed open over 30 bags of dog food because we were out of the flavor she needed.
JussiesTunaSub@reddit
Only when I actually worked retail 25+ years ago.
I saw two women bashing each other's faces in over a $15 boombox with a CD-player (average prices where like $50-60 at the time)
Gallahadion@reddit
No, because I don't get involved in the madness that is Black Friday (though I hear it's not as bad as it once was). I try - with varying degrees of success - to stay away from the busiest shopping areas where I live just to avoid the increased traffic from Black Friday through New Year's Day.
zugabdu@reddit
No. The United States is a country of more than 330 million people. Some nutjob in a group that large is bound to do something stupid. It's not remotely typical.
timothythefirst@reddit
I used to hear about it on tv like 15 years ago but that’s kind of died down now with online shopping and the stores rolling out Black Friday deals way earlier so there’s not a big crazy rush. I’ve never gone out on Black Friday myself anyways though.
Cheap_Coffee@reddit
The only acts of violence I've seen on Black Friday are two drivers in the mall parking lot going for the same parking space. But that's usually limited to horn honks and middle finger extensions.
Roadshell@reddit
My main experience with Black Friday is extremely long lines at the checkout.
We don't really have the stampedes anymore. The retailers kind of have it down to a science now, they line people up in an orderly fashion outside and let people in in groups of ten at a time. It's kind of boring.
danhm@reddit
No, and at my old retail jobs from like 2005-2015 it wasn't even our busiest day anymore. Saturdays in December usually outpaced it, especially the last one before Christmas. Especially especially if that one happened to be Christmas Eve.
GhostOfJamesStrang@reddit
No. In part because I'm among the vast majority who do not participate.
We've all heard the stories, but in reality they are extremely rare and thus make headlines when they occur.
Especially with the rise of online shopping and also the deals just aren't good anymore.
ScatterTheReeds@reddit
Only on tv
DOMSdeluise@reddit
I have not but I also avoid black Friday like the plague. Deals aren't worth that hassle for me.
Significant_Foot9570@reddit
I have never seen this in real life. The only times I have ever heard of or seen it have been on the TV news, and the last time I remember something like this was years ago.