I mean, the girl is giving him emotional validation and stuff, considering if he's a loser and doesn't get that often it probably feels nice, doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. This was wholesome imo.
And I'll add that I kinda appreciate the self awareness. Let's chalk it to to confusion due to never having considered for a second that kids might be what he wants as a goal, not a... Partner. That felt gross to type lol
It's been a while since my uni days but research showed that most pedophiles (or at least the ones the research polled) do not want to be pedophiles and would never even want to harm a child.
In that seminar we also learned about how most child sexual assault isn't done by pedophiles but by opportunity offenders. For that you have to take a look at two other very vulnerable demographics that are sexually assaulted more than you'd think: the disabled and the elderly.
The elderly and the disabled usually don't get sexually assaulted because of a fetish or a predisposition for those two groups but rather because they are vulnerable. They are often unable to get help or depend on their abusers too much.
The same goes for sexual offenders who assault children. The availability of children is what leads to child sexual assault. And this is also why most child sexual assault happens by the people in their lives not by some random pedo.
This means that you need to create awareness in your child from a very young age! What is a good touch and bad touch. Who is allowed to touch me. What are things they should immediately tell their parents. What is sex and masturbation in child appropriate terms (children masturbate from a very very young age. Especially girls)
But that talk is very uncomfortable. Adding to the vulnerability of children
Ensuring clear body autonomy language is really important, I think. Making sure the child knows the proper terms for genitals instead of "cookie" or "hoo hoo". Fostering healthy communication between parent and child can seem complicated, but once it starts, it gets somewhat easier. Always make sure your kid feels heard.
My ex has a cousin that was recently charged with a list of these kinds of offenses. What you've said, seems to apply to his pattern of abuse. Understanding what causes this sort of abuse is difficult to process given the age of the victims, but hopefully one day we can find a way to nip these things before more victims are made.
yeah baby fever is a thing, spending time with friend's children (atleast one that's not a horrible little shithead) gets people to realize their evolutionary drive despite their best efforts to not fulfill them.
Not a question but a remark. Being horny isn't always the only thing pedophiles feel towards children. It could be that he has a genuine crush on her and feels feelings of love, just like normal people would when they meet a girl their age whom they like.
Literally, it's fucking terrifying, but some people's brains are configured like this, and they need to be treated for it. They really should be able to live normal lives, and not go near any children ever for any reason at all ever.
Looked it up properly, pedophilia is in the DSM-5 as a disorder, some people actually just have extremely, extremely misdirected sexual urges because their brain doesn't work correctly. It can also arise from childhood sexual abuse.
So like, you can technically be a pedophile without being a rapist, but very few people admit this to anyone before someone catches them engaging in activities related to it.
I'm never going to explain pedophilia again, this is awful.
yeah I remember one greentext where anon had pedophilia triggered by getting raped by his babysitter, but he could only tell his girfriend who went through the same thing
knowing what childhood sexual assault can do to people only makes me more sick when I hear about a case that's going on in the news :(
Name 1 scenario where you would have a friend watch your sibling for the day and make them dinner. No doubt anon is sus, but so is big brother anon for indulging in anon's fantasy scenario
perplexication@reddit
I mean, the girl is giving him emotional validation and stuff, considering if he's a loser and doesn't get that often it probably feels nice, doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. This was wholesome imo.
OldAssTortoise@reddit
Someone please for the love of God tell me that he felt that way because he wanted to have kids of his own and raise them like a good father…
soobnar@reddit
Bro, it’s 4chan
mEsTiR5679@reddit
This is the path I'm hoping for...
And I'll add that I kinda appreciate the self awareness. Let's chalk it to to confusion due to never having considered for a second that kids might be what he wants as a goal, not a... Partner. That felt gross to type lol
textposts_only@reddit
It's been a while since my uni days but research showed that most pedophiles (or at least the ones the research polled) do not want to be pedophiles and would never even want to harm a child.
In that seminar we also learned about how most child sexual assault isn't done by pedophiles but by opportunity offenders. For that you have to take a look at two other very vulnerable demographics that are sexually assaulted more than you'd think: the disabled and the elderly.
The elderly and the disabled usually don't get sexually assaulted because of a fetish or a predisposition for those two groups but rather because they are vulnerable. They are often unable to get help or depend on their abusers too much.
The same goes for sexual offenders who assault children. The availability of children is what leads to child sexual assault. And this is also why most child sexual assault happens by the people in their lives not by some random pedo.
This means that you need to create awareness in your child from a very young age! What is a good touch and bad touch. Who is allowed to touch me. What are things they should immediately tell their parents. What is sex and masturbation in child appropriate terms (children masturbate from a very very young age. Especially girls)
But that talk is very uncomfortable. Adding to the vulnerability of children
mEsTiR5679@reddit
Ensuring clear body autonomy language is really important, I think. Making sure the child knows the proper terms for genitals instead of "cookie" or "hoo hoo". Fostering healthy communication between parent and child can seem complicated, but once it starts, it gets somewhat easier. Always make sure your kid feels heard.
My ex has a cousin that was recently charged with a list of these kinds of offenses. What you've said, seems to apply to his pattern of abuse. Understanding what causes this sort of abuse is difficult to process given the age of the victims, but hopefully one day we can find a way to nip these things before more victims are made.
OldManMoment@reddit
Don't worry, it felt gross to read too.
LazaroVents@reddit
It's probably the most "normal" thing, but remember that most people on 4chan are not "normal"
Ondor61@reddit (OP)
The good ending.
MarinLlwyd@reddit
Or it was heartburn.
theredhound19@reddit
Hoping the third symptom would be a shooting pain from shoulder to arm. The rare event in which a heart attack is a good thing.
MarinLlwyd@reddit
It was followed by a shooting pain from the hand to the head.
theStarKindler@reddit
Which is of course an extremely common event called heart defense.
QuinnAvery89@reddit
The M Night Shamalanangadingo twist we deserve
ClaymeisterPL@reddit
yeah baby fever is a thing, spending time with friend's children (atleast one that's not a horrible little shithead) gets people to realize their evolutionary drive despite their best efforts to not fulfill them.
anything else is unnatural
AlternatePancakes@reddit
I will just assume it was that.
EquivalentSnap@reddit
Kind of cute ngl puts that to bed
No-Section-4385@reddit
Could be what he actually felt, but knowing anon he will confuse it for something and warp that feeling for the worse.
greensparten@reddit
I think so. He realized how amazing kids can be. He felt emotion for something other than himself, a bigger purpose.
thr33beggars@reddit
He did want to have kids…in a sense…
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
This is true. Unfortunately, he still wants to father them with the little sister. Bring rope and something to cut the organs out when we're finished.
ItalicHail@reddit
I do find it believable that this is just paternal/elder sibling affection, especially if OP is young and hasn't experienced that
Unfortunately, every day we stray further from god
MasterMemeDealer69@reddit
If real, he should seek out professional help before this develops into a more serious issue and he ends up hurting someone.
Sharker167@reddit
I would think you wouldn't feel it in your chest and stomach if you were a pedo. Anon is safe
tar_tis@reddit
You base this on....
Sharker167@reddit
The fact I don't feel horny for my wife in my chest. I assume pedophiles feel horniness in the same way but toward different things.
Any other pedantic questions?
tar_tis@reddit
Not a question but a remark. Being horny isn't always the only thing pedophiles feel towards children. It could be that he has a genuine crush on her and feels feelings of love, just like normal people would when they meet a girl their age whom they like.
Either that or acid reflux.
home_rolled@reddit
I wake up
There is another psyop
TargetDecent9694@reddit
I awaken, alas there is another assault upon my sovereign mind
Atompunk78@reddit
Fuck-The-Reds@reddit
I wake up
I grab a brush put on a little makeup
Indigowar@reddit
Hide the scars to fade away the shake-up
Ondor61@reddit (OP)
I glow :>
Spiritual_Ask4877@reddit
Get this fucking psyop out of here.
Icy_Magician_9372@reddit
🔁🐱🔁
Egg_Yolkeo55@reddit
I really hope that people start to treat this like a mental illness. This man needs meds.
fakegamersunite@reddit
Literally, it's fucking terrifying, but some people's brains are configured like this, and they need to be treated for it. They really should be able to live normal lives, and not go near any children ever for any reason at all ever.
SpaceBug176@reddit
Isn't the only difference between a rapist and a child rapist is the child one is a pedophile tho?
Like, they won't just jump on a kid the moment they see one
fakegamersunite@reddit
Looked it up properly, pedophilia is in the DSM-5 as a disorder, some people actually just have extremely, extremely misdirected sexual urges because their brain doesn't work correctly. It can also arise from childhood sexual abuse.
So like, you can technically be a pedophile without being a rapist, but very few people admit this to anyone before someone catches them engaging in activities related to it.
I'm never going to explain pedophilia again, this is awful.
3XX5D@reddit
yeah I remember one greentext where anon had pedophilia triggered by getting raped by his babysitter, but he could only tell his girfriend who went through the same thing
knowing what childhood sexual assault can do to people only makes me more sick when I hear about a case that's going on in the news :(
Robotic_Phoenix@reddit
it already is classified as a mental illness and there is treatments for it.
they usually given meds to lower sex drive.
SierraDespair@reddit
Yeah, Pedocillin 9mm
DoomMetal_Dad@reddit
Lowtiergodlightnightingeyes.gif
kojoltan@reddit
Torpedo
Binaural_Wave@reddit
The feeling OP got does not necessarily mean sexual attraction, but perhaps emotional bonding to another human being.
I can only hope…
FinestCrusader@reddit
Never in my life have I felt such a sensation when I was bonding with family or friends.
chillanous@reddit
Anon felt like a mentor for the first time in his life and couldn’t understand
ZaBur_Nick@reddit
THATS PARENTAL LOVE
rutranhreborn@reddit
Good for him not acting upon it, should seek help, arguably better than the quick way down
djilatyn@reddit
I don't even have a fake or gay meme for this one.
Ondor61@reddit (OP)
Fake: Anon has friend, Gay: Anon is not into women.
kipueo@reddit
no
zerosaved@reddit
A girl gamer!? NOT IN MY HOUSE
CandidateMiserable74@reddit
Execution, no otherway Anon I'm sorry
Aggressive-Army-406@reddit
I think he should an hero himself
magusx17@reddit
What kind of sick fuck asks a bro to watch his little sister
Slothhub@reddit
You don't trust your bros? And even if he betrays me I know my bros address and he knows very well what happens if he would do that
Chevy4701@reddit
What kind of sick fuck can't not fuck his friends CHILD sister???
magusx17@reddit
Name 1 scenario where you would have a friend watch your sibling for the day and make them dinner. No doubt anon is sus, but so is big brother anon for indulging in anon's fantasy scenario
Matt_2504@reddit
🪱🎣
fakegamersunite@reddit
I could get asking a female friend, but not just like, your buddy.
Marina_Occultist@reddit
I honestly think anon is so emotionally disconnected that he's mistaking endearment and affection for actual love
drak0ni@reddit
Yes anon, it’s time for the rope.
PsychodelicTea@reddit
OP: "I'M A PEDOPHILE?!"
God: My son, you eat crap all day, it's just gastritis
Ninja_Cezar@reddit
Yeah. Hopefully is just the simptome of terminal cancer.
One can only hope.
Illustrious-Back-944@reddit
I’m too drunk to read this rn
Anyway…anon is a pedophile lmao
finnyporgerz@reddit
I’m hungover to read it too man, wtf
SierraDespair@reddit
Im too sober to read this, fuck
mudkip2-0@reddit
I am most certainly not drunk enough to forget about this one...
Durpady@reddit
Let's see if this one gets [ Removed by Reddit ]...
TheBeastlyStud@reddit
Anon gets baby fever but confuses it for something far worse because he hasn't had a purely decent loving interaction in years.
Welp, at least he ended up asking for clarification instead of ending on the evening news.
Anyways, gake and fay.
Chiliatch@reddit
Seek intensive therapy. If not, then self castration is an acceptable solution, too.
DazedPhotographer@reddit
by the 5th line I had already successfully determined that anon should start ropemaxxing
MentalRise8703@reddit
This is unfortunate indeed 😞
BonesWillBeClaimed@reddit
anon actually has heartburn for eating too many spicy tendies
SalvationSycamore@reddit
Anon finds out he is allergic to the pure hearts of children
ThisSongsCopyrighted@reddit
Yes, anon, you should
EquivalentSnap@reddit
wtf 🤢🤢🤢
isweatpiss@reddit
It's ok to be turned on by fridge magnets
TenMillionEnchiladas@reddit
Weirdly enough I think that's actually one of the better scenarios in this case if it turns out anon just has a fridge magnet fetish.
animorphs128@reddit
The fact that he goes to 4chan for advice says it all. Aint no redemption arc for this creep
plokijuh1229@reddit
At that point, he should castrate himself in some way right? He's asexual otherwise.
edge_mac_edgelord@reddit
Well atleast hes not justifying it
KtotoIzTolpy@reddit
oh god
EUNEisAmeme@reddit
yeah, not touching this one
Nova_Spion@reddit
That's not what anon said
Flashy_Narwhal9362@reddit
That’s what anon had to keep telling himself over and over.
mischling2543@reddit
Wtf anon
Bruz_the_milkman@reddit
Thank god it did not elaborated to that point in one night
WarriorOfAgartha@reddit
The answer is yes
Regret1836@reddit
Anon should probably kill himself.
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
Yup. Let's pedo-file this one under "greater good" and move on.
Ondor61@reddit (OP)
This might be the only time when telling someone to kill themselves is the correct course of actions.