What age group does the word "kid" refer to?
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I've heard people use the term whilst referring to children all the way to young men I the their 20s.
max-wellington@reddit
Anyone who acts immaturely and is younger than me essentially.
HowAManAimS@reddit
Anyone who isn't a teen or adult is a kid.
Beluga_Artist@reddit
Anyone younger than me đ¤ˇââď¸
Irresponsable_Frog@reddit
Iâm almost 50. If you look younger than 30. Iâll call you a kid. But I donât call you a kid to your face but I do say with my partner, friends or mom, âSo the kid i work with, the one with the baby? Yea heâsâŚ.â Around others I usually say young man or young woman.
Somepersononreddit07@reddit
All ik is since im 17 a lot of people here consider me one just like the legal system
rawbface@reddit
From newborn infants to someone only slightly younger than me. There is no set age range.
curiousmind111@reddit
toasts Hereâs lookinâ at you, kid!
bike619@reddit
Anyone who isnât me that may or may not be younger than I am.
Listen, kid.
No_Poet_7244@reddit
To me, âchildâ refers to an age range (anything under 18) and âkidâ refers to a maturity level/mentality. College kids are, without a doubt, largely still immatureâthus they are âkidsâ to me.
mackelnuts@reddit
Whatever it is, it's younger than me
kiji23@reddit
Everyone. Same as âdudeâ.
WildTurkey5508@reddit
Anyone younger than you are.
ShiraPiano@reddit
As someone who grew up a little outside of Boston, I reference every age as kid. From 0-100.
vibeisinshambles@reddit
I refer to people older than me as kid sometimes. Iâm in my 40s
flatlander70@reddit
I am 54 and my 3 children range in age from 17 to 22. For me, anyone that age or younger is a kid.
Ok-Bus1716@reddit
Anyone from 0-20.Â
Arleare13@reddit
It's context-specific. There's no set definition.
lionseatcake@reddit
Yeah what this kid said đ
ChickenFriedRiceee@reddit
Also depends on where in the US you are and the local dialect/culture.
glycophosphate@reddit
Yep. I myself am 61 years old, and I will bet you all the money in my pockets that I will be called "just a kid" before the day is out.
TheLastRulerofMerv@reddit
Yeah. I refer to my 40 year old friend as "kid" every now and then whenever he acts like an idiot.
enstillhet@reddit
Whereas I, a 40 year old, use it to refer to folks from 0-25 or so.
unicornhornporn0554@reddit
Iâm 24 and use it to refer to anyone my age or younger. Or if they behave younger than me lol.
enstillhet@reddit
Yeah behavior can certainly change that age range for me as well come to think of it.
DisappointedInHumany@reddit
Oh boy is that right. Iâm 60. I routinely get called âyoung manâ and âkid/kiddoâ by my neighbors who fought in WWII.
SweevilWeevil@reddit
Here's looking at you, kid
BobThe-Body-Builder@reddit
You're hanging around with people who's age is three digits, you definitely are a kid!
jaebassist@reddit
I wish I had your neighbors
PraxicalExperience@reddit
I'd say that anyone a generation younger automatically qualifies as 'kid'. ;)
duckduckgirl@reddit
yup, bf calls his coworker (trainee) a kid even tho heâs only maybe 2 years younger than him. âi hate sitting next to kids on airplanesâ would be anywhere from 0-12 where theyâre moderately annoying. if you tell your child to âgo play with the other kidsâ it usually means kids around the same age give or take a couple years. âkids these daysâ usually means teenagers.
taniamorse85@reddit
Exactly. Personally, I pretty much only use it for children, generally under 12. However, it's also my favorite uncle's nickname for me, and I'm 39.
DieHardRennie@reddit
Sure there is. A baby goat is considered a kid until it is 1 year old. Then it becomes an adult goat.
ubiquitous-joe@reddit
Yes. Kid could mean: children (older than babies but younger than 18), a young adult (college kids, Billy the Kid), a 30-to-40-something in a field dominated by older people (1990s Bill Clinton, the Comeback Kid), or someoneâs children of any age, adult or otherwise (âmy kids are visitingâ).
Willothwisp2303@reddit
My 86 year old father calls everyone under 60 a kid. I keep admonishing him and retaliating by calling him an old man, but he thinks it's funny. đ
cavall1215@reddit
Yup. People use it to refer to a college student or recent grad as inexperienced in the world but think they know it all If you ask someone if they have any kids, it will include children of all ages. Kids at a family gathering usually means age 5-10. "Don't act like a kid" can be said to a preteen and up to reprimand them for immature behavior.
PressFforOriginality@reddit
Well my grandma has kids and they are atleast 70-60...
Lostsock1995@reddit
Yeah I agree itâs very context based. I call my nieces kids but if say I see a sad story about an 18 year old who got hurt or is really sick Iâll definitely say âbut theyâre just a kid :(â too
stauby@reddit
This is right, you can call anyone kid depending on context. My favorite usage is Joe Biden calling our 60 year old Vice President âKidâ all the time.
GreatGlassLynx@reddit
hawkwings@reddit
If someone says "The kids are playing outside", most people would assume that people under 18 are playing outside. There are exceptions to this.
needsmorequeso@reddit
Yep, I say âcollege kids,â knowing full well that I am describing âtraditional aged undergraduate students who attended an institution of higher education immediately after graduating high school,â and that generally makes them adults (maybe a few of them are 17 for the first few months if they graduated HS early).
But in informal contexts, they are âcollege kids.â
Reasonable_Guess_175@reddit
Greatly depends on context. 1. Parents call their children kids (âmy kidsâ) regardless of age
2. Technically a âkidâ would be anyone under 18 3. Someone who is younger than you, especially in certain contexts. I 4. Someone who is just broadly young (inexperienced, naive, vulnerable, etc.). Examples of this would be saying âcollege kidsâ or Iâve heard people say someone was âjust a kidâ when they passed away in their 20s even though they are technically older than 18.
AdFinancial8924@reddit
Yet we never say âmilitary kidsâ even though theyâre the same age.
_gooder@reddit
I do (not to their faces or to demean them). I grew up on military bases, my dad was an officer for around 30 years. I'm 62 now and trust me, there are a lot of kids in the military! And now some of my doctors are kids. đ
Ice_cream_please73@reddit
Military kids are kids from military families.
AdFinancial8924@reddit
My point was that for people 18-22 if theyâre in college people see and refer to them as kids. But if theyâre in the military theyâre seen as men and women.
ThievingSkallywag@reddit
I was in the Air Force and taught at the tech school for a few years and when we were telling stories in the instructor office, it always started with, âso this kid in my classâŚâ because in class, many of them still seemed/acted like kids, for better or worse.
needsmorequeso@reddit
Oooh good point! I work more closely with higher Ed than military, so I hadnât thought of that.
GreatGlassLynx@reddit
Same. I also call my little brother âkidâ and heâs about to turn 40 lol
big_sugi@reddit
My little sister is over 40. Sheâs still âkid.â
GreatGlassLynx@reddit
If youâre old enough to remember when someone was born, you automatically have the right to call that person kid forever.
needsmorequeso@reddit
Same. I remember when he was a baby. Heâs a kid. Never mind that heâs in his 30s.
Darmok47@reddit
My mom will tell me about "this kid at her work" and I'll realize she could mean someone who is 22 and just started working, or anyone below 40.
WokestWombat@reddit
My older sister by 11 years still calls me kid, and Iâm 20
PlanMagnet38@reddit
This, but I wouldnât use âkidâ for a child younger than 5. I would use âbaby or infantâ for 0-18 months and âtoddlerâ for 18 months to 4.
lavasca@reddit
This is an optimally succinct description.
CaliforniaHope@reddit
Exactly this.
John_Tacos@reddit
Bout right.
naliedel@reddit
Most excellent.
Building_a_life@reddit
Yep. This sums it up.
NewOrleansLA@reddit
Anyone younger than you
Consistent_Damage885@reddit
Depends on context. Definitely anyone under the age of twelve. Usually okay for teenagers too. And once you get to be a certain age you find yourself calling 20s kids too.
SteampunkExplorer@reddit
It technically means a child, but it can be anyone from a baby to a young adult.
Tardisgoesfast@reddit
Depends on the context.
herstoryteller@reddit
I refer to people as 'kids' if they are more than 2 years younger than me.
signsntokens4sale@reddit
My age or younger. You're 48? Congrats you're a kid.
OneRoughMuffin@reddit
I refer to any student, regardless of age, as kid.
country_dinosaur97@reddit
I usually use kid to refer to anyone immature or childish even if they are older then me it doesnt matter if your act loke one ill call ya it.
This started when i was 21 had two helpers who were amost 10 years older then me both them extremely childish. Cause they were self entitled brats who now later in life had to figure it out on their own, cause they messed up their life's. Both them barely knew their ass from a hole in the ground but at least the one wanted to try to get better and be useful.
Dont know what happened to him after he left the company lost contact but honestly hope hes doing good.
Ok-Communication1149@reddit
Half your age or or less of you're an adult
androidmids@reddit
Kid is usually reserved for persons who behave as a kid (as in goats) and are rambunctious, annoying, unkempt, and so on.
If a group of people are younger than yourself and are acting in such a manner they can be called kids.
D3moknight@reddit
Sometimes a "kid" can just be someone younger than you. Context is everything. Kids are just younger than me, but children are under 18.
bananacrazybanana@reddit
imo 3-13
however at 25 i refer to everyone under 20 as kids
people still refer to me as kids
sabboom@reddit
I use it for my FIL who is 15 years older than me.
Temporary-Papaya-173@reddit
Anyone and everyone if they are acting like a child.
AstoriaEverPhantoms@reddit
I use it for maybe anyone under high school aged, so under 15. Otherwise I use teen/ager.
cmcrich@reddit
If Iâm old enough to be their mother, theyâre a kid.
MeowMeowCollyer@reddit
It bugs me to no end that English doesnât have a gender neutral word for adult offspring. My 33-year old kid is non-binary and an accomplished adult. When I refer to them as kid, it feels like Iâm diminishing them.
Moist_Asparagus6420@reddit
co worker of mine use to always call me "kid", wouldn't have bothered me so much if he wasn't 7 years younger than me
AdTotal801@reddit
5-27
desertgemintherough@reddit
Iâm 66 and I have used it for any group of friends.
ThisCornIsNotYetRipe@reddit
0 to 25
cookie12685@reddit
Anyone younger than the speaker
jacksraging_bileduct@reddit
Anyone 25yrs or so younger than me.
leaveme1912@reddit
Anyone under 18 or someone you want to belittle
MainelyKahnt@reddit
"kid" would be like 6-17. Older than a toddler but not an adult. Now, as a resident of New England who grew up in South Boston, "Kehd" is a term used for anyone of any age and usually in a derogatory manner like " yo, who the FUCK is this Kehd?" Or "fuck off, Kehd!"
idle_monkeyman@reddit
Anyone younger than me is a kid. I'm 60, so that's all of you, kids.
Awkward-Passage8447@reddit
I refer to my 32 yo brother as kid sometimes. An example would be. "I love that kid to death, but he ain't the brightest bulb." He's older than me, so I don't think there are real set guide lines for the word.
Puffification@reddit
I've always thought of it as 0-10
BigGammaEnergy@reddit
Youger than me.
Uhhh_what555476384@reddit
As you get older, kids get older. When I was 20 a kid was someone not fully grown. Now I'm 40 and a kid is someone younger then 25.
psychocentric@reddit
(I'm only being slightly sarcastic here) Anyone younger than the person calling them a kid seems to be a good frame of reference. Ha.
msphelps77@reddit
Iâm 38 and refer to anyone 25 and under as a kid. As for my own children, they will always be kids to me no matter their ages.
redditjunky2025@reddit
anyone 5 years younger than I am
brookish@reddit
Anyone 10 years or more younger than me
BotherBoring@reddit
My boss calls me 'kiddo'. He's 50+. I'm 41.
igwaltney3@reddit
Anyone who is younger or acts younger than me. I refer to my 25 yr old employees as kids
igwaltney3@reddit
Anyone who is younger or acts younger than me. I refer to my 25 yr old employees as kids
kitylou@reddit
Like 5-12 Iâd say
Venus_Cat_Roars@reddit
The question is at what age does being referred to as a kid feel great. I think it begins around 40 and gets real sad when there is no one left to think of you that way (90s?)
Advanced-Anywhere346@reddit
Iâd say anything under 18 wouldnât warrant a correction, but depending on the age of the person using it, itâs relative. Like Iâm in my early thirties, and though I donât treat them as such, people in their early twenties are indistinguishable from teenagers to me. Iâd refer to them as kids in a hyperbolic way, and funny enough someone in their 40s and beyond would probably see me the same way
raindorpsonroses@reddit
My coworkers who are less than 5 years older than me refer to me to as a âkidâ because I donât own a home or have kids of my own.
Mrs_Gracie2001@reddit
My husband uses it on anyone who is younger than he is.
Foolsindigo@reddit
Anyone younger or older than me.
GuardianDown_30@reddit
Anybody younger than I am.
WhattaguyPJ@reddit
I've heard people use this term as a reference to someone who isn't always younger, but perhaps naive or even sometimes ignorant. This seems to help that person cope with the fact that others aren't on their same level, apparently.
Leaf-Stars@reddit
Anyone younger than the person using the word.
Known-Ad-100@reddit
According to my husband. Anyone lmao. He will be calling someone "this kid" and the person is old enough to be his father.
Raining_Hope@reddit
Anyone who's 13 or younger is a kid. For a lot of people "kid" refers to anyone who isn't an adult yet. Teenagers are just kids in a lot of senses and are usually given less responsibility and expectations compared to adults. However, unless you are 13 or younger, it's unlikely that you will see yourself as a kid.
After that I'd say a rule of thumb is anyone 15 years younger than you (or more) is also considered a kid. The generational gap is large enough that younger generations seem like kids to you.
seanx50@reddit
Under 55
Horsesrgreat@reddit
Anyone younger than yourself đ
Vegetable-Star-5833@reddit
For me itâs anyone under 19
USMCWrangler@reddit
Anyone 15 or more years younger than me.
CaptainPunisher@reddit
I'm 48. I didn't care how old you might be; I regularly say "What are you kids up to?" This is sometimes said to people in their 70s. Generally, I'd say it's someone under 18, but you really just need to get it from context. "I don't run with the kids downtown (bar scene) anymore." That could be 21-30 or even older.
LadyFoxfire@reddit
It depends on context. If youâre talking about âshould we have kids at the wedding?â youâre generally referring to under 18, but maybe you make an exception for your 16 year old cousin because sheâs well behaved, so âkidsâ would actually be under 16.
But itâs also common to refer to adults that are significantly younger than you as âkids,â like if youâre 50 and work with a lot of early 20s, you might call them âthe kids I work with.â
Ryyah61577@reddit
In my household it is a term of endearment.
Wilbie9000@reddit
Anyone younger than you is a kid.
Rengeflower1@reddit
Ages 12 and under. 13 becomes a teenager.
tmahfan117@reddit
Anyone currently younger than myself. To an 80 year old, 50 year olds are kidsÂ
Sidewalk_Tomato@reddit
"Kid" is very flexible.
juupmelech626@reddit
Juvenile goats under 1 year
JNorJT@reddit
anyone younger than you lol
Mountain-Tea3564@reddit
Depends. An 80 year old will look at a 40 year old and call them a kid. Itâs very context specific.
22FluffySquirrels@reddit
Anybody younger than me.
starstair_@reddit
I'm 18 and call people older than me kids fairly often as long as they're my peers. Like everyone at my job who is in the same position as me (aka the lowest tier) is a kid to me even though the oldest of them are 23.
Tinsel-Fop@reddit
People who are younger than I am. Except from my mother's perspective: I am her 60-year-old kid.
GetOffMyLawn1729@reddit
When I (73) am discussing Thanksgiving plans with my friends (also 70's), the "kids" refer to any of our children, e.g. "are any of your kids coming this year?" The "kids" in this instance are mostly in their late 30's.
Now, read my username!
SilentJelly6737@reddit
Anyone younger than me.Â
Neuvirths_Glove@reddit
One generation removed (younger) is a kid. I'm 62. My 30-something sons and daughter-in-law are the kids to me and my wife. I have a coworker about the same age, He's also a kid to me (although I wouldn't refer to him as such unless I wanted him to call me an old fart).
knight_is_right@reddit
Anyone younger than me
Kittum-kinu@reddit
Baby goats
SuperPomegranate7933@reddit
Anyone 15 or more years younger than me is a kid.
Bubbly_Power_6210@reddit
"here's looking at you kid-" Humphrey Bogart- one of film's most romantic lines
BeautifulSundae6988@reddit
No set definition beyond a younger person, usually an adolescent. But definitely like, sub 30.
Kid is usually just a term relative to the speaker. A younger person.
llynglas@reddit
Also depends how old the speaker is.
DoinIt989@reddit
Real Boston townies call everyone "kid".
jiminak46@reddit
Me, sometimes. I'm 78.
PineapplePza766@reddit
Yeah Iâm 27 my family still calls my cousins and our s/oâs the kids because weâre all their kids lol đ¤Ł
baddadpuns@reddit
Depends on how old you are. Our parents call anyone under 55 "kids" and we call anyone under 40 "kids.
Any-Grapefruit3086@reddit
i feel like kid is an affectionate term for basically anyone younger than you
msflagship@reddit
Depends on life stages. If they arenât at or past the stage in life where theyâre pursuing a career, settling down, & owning a home, theyâre a kid to me. There are some 40 year old kids. There are some 20 year old adults.
zenos_dog@reddit
Our intern in high tech was âkidâ for as long as it took for the next intern to get hired.
RIPdon_sutton@reddit
When I was a "kid" I was referred to as such. 12 and under.
MicheleAmanda@reddit
All of them.
TinyHeartSyndrome@reddit
It is a synonym for child, so it can be minors or even someoneâs adult children.
AssTubeExcursion@reddit
Anyone a few years younger than me.
GonWaki@reddit
Anyone my age (64) or younger. Why? When I was a kid, I used to play with other kids my same age.
Nothing different now except we play the âremember whenâ game a lot.
Ifuckinglovedogsbruh@reddit
Relative, if someone's younger than you or to someone ig.
jbdole@reddit
I use kid or kids like my Great Aunt Elsie did: as a gender neutral plural and substitute for yâall or uâins
HavBoWilTrvl@reddit
I agree with what some others have said. It's not indicative of a particular age range. I find it is usually applied to a person younger than the speaker who thinks they know more than they really do.
Ambitious_Win_1315@reddit
Anyone under 25
Possible-Champion222@reddit
That 90 year old man has a 70 year old kid
Whizzleteets@reddit
Anyone 40 or less
Weightmonster@reddit
A-Kid is 27.
Weightmonster@reddit
a kid is also a baby goat.
Unfair_Holiday_3549@reddit
24-0
Backeastvan@reddit
Anyone who acts childish at work is the kid
Ghitit@reddit
My adult kids will always be my kids.
Random kids are usually under the age of about twenty five.
Vast_Reaction_249@reddit
Anyone younger than you.
BM7-D7-GM7-Bb7-EbM7@reddit
When I was a teenager a kid was someone who was not yet in high school, so <14.
When I was 22 a kid was someone in high school, so <18.
At 40, when I'm watching sports, I'll yell at the TV to the men in their 20s playing professional whatever, "Oh, c'mon kid, you can do better that."
It is very very situational though, like I wouldn't necessarily call a young coworker a kid unless the situation warranted, like if someone messed up, "it's ok kid, you're still learning."
In my 40s though, I'd refer to all people in college or younger are kids though. Basically, if your parents are still paying your bills, you're a kid, ha.
RockShrimp@reddit
Anyone younger than the speaker.
4RyteCords@reddit
Anyone roughly ten years younger than me
urmyheartBeatStopR@reddit
So yeah... some people use kid in a authoritative way, so basically anybody that is younger than them.
An old guy called me a kid once, he seems to be in his 50s or 60s. Boomer attitude, I just ignore and leave. Didn't want to be confrontation, I was in my mid 30s at the time.
Dolly-Cat55@reddit
For me, itâs anyone under 18. It changes to under 15 whenever someone goofy says something like âhey kids!â
Tbagzyamum69420xX@reddit
Anyone younger, or acting less mature, than me at any given moment.
kilroy-was-here-2543@reddit
Anyone younger than the person saying it seems to be the common rule
Tildengolfer@reddit
I use it to describe anyone my age or lower. I am a 36m and I am struggling to accept Iâm almost 40. So Iâll create conversation with someone my age at a bar and tell my wife, âI was talking to this âkidâ.â I catch myself from time to time wanting to correct myself but never do.
RedLegGI@reddit
Children, teenagers, college age students, and thatâs about where it stops. Once you get to about 22 it trails off.
wifeofsonofswayze@reddit
A "kid" is anyone younger than me.
Famous-Platypus8145@reddit
anyone younger than me by more than a day just to piss off my friend whose only 3 days younger than me
BobsleddingToMyGrave@reddit
Anyone 20 years younger than me.
My kids are middle 30's.
Dis_engaged23@reddit
Anyone younger than you.
alottanamesweretaken@reddit
My cousin refers to his husband as kid. They are both in their seventies.Â
Yes, they are from Boston.Â
Substantial-Ad5483@reddit
I came here to say in Boston, everyone is Kid!
DrHarlem@reddit
Would be even better if theyâre from Southie
Cratertooth_27@reddit
Dude kid
biddily@reddit
I'm trying to think if there's a specific time I call someone kid, like, did they do something dumb so they are now a kid? Or do I call someone a kid all the time. I never pay attention to it. The words just come out.
I think it's an anytime term. Anyone is a kid unless they are old. It's like dude or guy.
Life long Dorchester resident. Dorchester is a neighborhood of Boston.
cheezburgerwalrus@reddit
Go Sox
CupBeEmpty@reddit
This is ridiculously Boston. My buddies down that way pretty much call anyone they know well enough kid. I have a few who I am older than but Iâm still kid occasionally.
noir_et_Orr@reddit
Lets stop at dunkin kehd.
abakersmurder@reddit
Lol my husband is a âkidâ heâs 40⌠boston
ModernMaroon@reddit
Kid: indicating immaturity or poor judgement/decision making
Kid: roughly the stages from when a child can speak semi-coherently until the stage when an adult begins making their own life decisions on a regular basis
Kid: someone younger than you
Kid: someone less experienced at something than you are
Kid: dude
kid: indicating appreciation for the simpler things in life
bwurtz94@reddit
I refer to anyone younger than me and people maybe 5 years older than me as kids. If I couldâve gone to school with them, theyâre a kid. But Iâm an old soul.
t3chguy1@reddit
Recently I went to a phone accessories store in NYC to buy a case for tablet and store owner called me "boy". I am in my 40s with a bold spot (probably not visible from the front). The guy is a black person in his 60s probably, it could be a cultural thing
49Flyer@reddit
It depends on the age of the speaker. To a teen, anyone younger than them is a "kid". Someone middle-age or older might refer to people (particularly males) in their mid-late 20s as "kids".
jereezy@reddit
Basically someone younger than you
kindamoisty@reddit
If they're younger than me and being obnoxious then I'd call someone "kid".
peter303_@reddit
Sheep under two years old.
Difficult_Ad_962@reddit
I consider kinds to be 12 and under, 13-18 are teenagers, and 19+ are adults
DrHarlem@reddit
My 80 year old grandma refers to folks in their 50s as kids.
BambooSound@reddit
Depends on the goat
MarquetteXTX2@reddit
Infant -18
TheDwarvenGuy@reddit
Basically its anyone who is capable of making dumb actions by virtue od being young. A group of 25 year opds acting roudy and drinking might be xalled "kids" by an older authority figure.
Brilliant_Towel2727@reddit
Anyone younger than the speaker
ZJPV1@reddit
It definitely depends on context.
When used on the societal level, it usually means anyone who is school-age or younger (sometimes referring to pre-teens and under, or sometimes including teenagers who have yet to reach majority).
When used in a family setting, it would generally be a synonym for "children". An 80-year-old person would probably still refer to any offspring of theirs, in their 40s, 50s, or 60s, to be their "kids".
It can also be a "power-dynamic" thing. At my job, I'm a trivia host. There's an implied power structure of me being "host" and everyone else being "players" and I'll usually greet everyone with "hey kids" or something like that (I'm 37. Often, players are older than me). This can also be applied by specifically subverting the expectation. i.e. specifically calling older/elderly people "kids", to impart youth or just be silly.
jastay3@reddit
It is common to refer to adults in terms below their actual age in informal language.
KiaraNarayan1997@reddit
Americans mostly use it to mean anyone younger than them by a certain number of years. If youâre in elementary or middle school, anyone 1 or 2+ years younger than you is a little kid. In high school and college, 3 years younger or more is usually a kid. In your mid to late 20s and early 30s, 5+ years younger is a kid. 35+ consider 10+ years younger to be a kid and definitely anyone under 21.
Snugglebunny1983@reddit
I'm in my 40's. Everyone under 40 is a kid to me.
Smart-Dream6500@reddit
Usually anyone a generation or more younger than you, casually. People high on their own farts may get offended though.
javerthugo@reddit
Anyone younger and/or less experienced than the speaker.
qu33nof5pad35@reddit
For me, anyone under 25 is a kid.
Jantte90@reddit
Anyone younger than me
BigMaraJeff2@reddit
Depends on how much like experience they have. I'm 32. I will call a 22 year old a kid. But if that 22 year old has done some shit, they aren't a kid
CubedMeatAtrocity@reddit
It can be regional. In NJ, everyone calls everyone kid regardless of age.
Jasnah_Sedai@reddit
My own kids will always be my âkids,â even when theyâre 60. For everyone else, anyone young enough to be my kid is a âkid,â roughly 20+ years younger than me. Always used in a light or endearing manner, never in a derogatory way. Like, I would never tell a 20yo coworker that theyâre âjust a kid,â but Iâd say something like, âhey, kiddo, havenât seen you in forever!â
LoudCrickets72@reddit
Iâm 33 and I typically refer to people as kids if theyâre under 23 or so.
jrh038@reddit
47, he was a fucking kid.
RupeThereItIs@reddit
Anyone significantly younger then yourself.
dartmouth9@reddit
Under 10, 10-12 tween, 13-19 teenager
StaviaKostia@reddit
I caught myself referring to a group of guys visibly 30+ as "kids" yesterday. Luckily it was only in my head. I'm 51.
Usually it's the context. Anyone under 18 or so is almost always a "kid," unless I'm in a situation where calling them that would be destructive to the rapport. I would never call a teenager "kid" if that teenager came to me asking for serious help.
But if a 25-year-old person is standing in front of me bitching that they have to walk six blocks because Uber has surge pricing on? That's a f***ing kid.
igotplans2@reddit
It depends. Their competency and attitude drives it. Fir instance, we're going though a period now where prople in their twenties aren't nearly as independent, financially stable, or settled as they were a few decades ago. Many still live with parents and have only taken on as much responsibility as a typical teen had a generation ago. For that reason, they can be, and often are, still referred to as a kid.
SupKilly@reddit
0-24
xMordetx@reddit
Every age group, so long as the person in question is kidding...
redheadsuperpowers@reddit
Anyone who appears younger than me to me, depending on the situation
GoblinKing79@reddit
Well, I'm a Masshole, so kid applies to literally everyone.
AutofluorescentPuku@reddit
Anyone perceived to be younger than 33% of my current age.
DBDude@reddit
If youâre doing a study to hype up âkidâ or âchildâ gun deaths, kid can mean up to 19, or even up to 24.
CharlesAvlnchGreen@reddit
It's a more conversational synonym for children, so parents will use it forever ("My kid qualified for Medicare this year.")
It's also used informally to refer to those a generation (or so) younger than you.
You would not use it in a professional sense; calling a 25-year-old coworker a kid would be hugely disrespectful, unless you're in Boston (or an area that uses "kid" more loosely in slang). But in the latter case, "kid" could refer to someone of any age.
ghotiermann@reddit
Anything younger than me.
nauticalfiesta@reddit
I'm in my 40s and have both younger and older people call me "kid." Its only derogatory when its someone older who is using it in a way to mean that I'm inadequate. Its basically the singular version of "you guys"
My mom called me "kiddo" pretty much up until she passed away.
TrillyMike@reddit
Anyone younger than me, or sometimes anyone younger than most of the other people around at that time
kairyfairy@reddit
Anyone more than 10 years younger than you
worrymon@reddit
Anyone younger than me. And anyone older than me if I'm being ironic.
Gullible-Display-116@reddit
Depends on the context. Older people might call people in their 20s or even 30s a kid.
RianThe666th@reddit
Anyone who, in the specific context of the situation I'm using it in, shows signs of being a less than fully matured, developed, and perfect adult.
My dad is a kid when he pulls out his phone at the dinner table, my coworker twice my age is a kid when he gets drunk and flirty, my boss is a kid when he makes a slightly irrational call in a high stress situation.
It has nothing to do with actual age, if you're acting like a kid I'll call you a kid. And let me tell you those kids these days ain't shit.
GigglingLots@reddit
Top voted comment is wrong here saying no set definition. It is from 3-12. Baby/infant~>toddler~>kid/child~>teen~>adult.Â
You hear elder adults refer to their grown adult children as âkidsâ because they are infantilizing  them but itâs not a bad thing
707Riverlife@reddit
I sometimes refer to my roommate, who is 36, as a kid. Iâm 70, so itâs all relative.
shrimp-and-potatoes@reddit
I am in my forties, I consider everyone 30 and younger as kids, until they prove otherwise.
mykepagan@reddit
Lots if good answers here. I will add that if you use the word âkidââ to refer to someone over the age of 20 then you are trying to be condescending. Unless that person is a friend, in which case you are being humorously condescending.
pinniped1@reddit
Anybody a few years younger than me.
Usually it's a term of endearment unless there's other context. e.g., punk ass kids...
Quirky-Camera5124@reddit
anyone 20 or more younger than you.
tibearius1123@reddit
I call my soldiers âmy kidsâ many are older than me.
Embri2001@reddit
Not sure. I will say I have started to use the word more loosely the older I have gotten. Normally I stop at age 18.
kaehl0311@reddit
Depends on the age of the person saying it. Iâm almost 40 but whenever I see him my Father-in-law still says âhey kiddo!â
jub-jub-bird@reddit
Anyone significantly younger than the speaker. I'm in my 50s and people in their 20s are definitely "kids". My own kids are definitely always "the kids" but often so is their extended friend group who are all in their 20s and early 30s.
prometheus_winced@reddit
Two different definitions. As an age range, 4-11. Older than a toddler, not yet a pre-teen / teen.
As a relationship to a parent; always.
PraxicalExperience@reddit
It's a subjective thing, and the longer you're alive, the more kids you're surrounded by.
NerdFromColorado@reddit
Baby goats
Dillenger69@reddit
For me, it depends on the maturity level of the individual. If it's a group, anyone 20 years or more younger than me.
judewijesena@reddit
Walking age to 12
breathless_RACEHORSE@reddit
Anyone more than 15 years younger than me.
AshTheGoddamnRobot@reddit
Anyone younger than me
OlderNerd@reddit
20s and younger
HorseFeathersFur@reddit
My kids are in their 30s but theyâre still my kids (another word for my children)
Wadsworth_McStumpy@reddit
Everything from "My son's wife is going to have a kid" to "My oldest kid is 42."
So, I guess, from zero to age 42 (and counting.)
-ballerinanextlife@reddit
25 and under if weâre speaking of brain development
clunkclunk@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
Ok_Helicopter_984@reddit
It could be used in a few different situations, but definitely a goat
DraperPenPals@reddit
Context specific. Can also be used for adults as a way to disparage or insult them.
No-You5550@reddit
It depends how old you are. At 68 even 30 year olds look like kids. I swear I saw a guy I know is 28 and I thought he looked like a 17 year old kid. It would help of course if he didn't act like the 17 year old kid but that is another story.
AdFinancial8924@reddit
Anyone younger than you. My mom still calls us âkidsâ and weâre in our 40s.
Yankee_chef_nen@reddit
Iâm a chef at a residential college dining hall and I refer to the 18â20 year old students as kids or children.
(The college is only a two year school, after the second year most of the students will attend the research university in Atlanta that this college is part of.)
No-Profession422@reddit
Anyone about 10 yrs younger than me. I'm 62. đ
Advanced-Power991@reddit
very context specific, generally used for those with little to no real life experience, I use it mostly to refer to 20 somethings as I don't interface with much younger than that
Prism_Zet@reddit
25 or less, or someone a good chunk of years younger than me, or someone just being immature.
Antitenant@reddit
amazonhelpless@reddit
Anyone 5 years younger than me. Iâm in my early 40s.Â
FlyByPC@reddit
Anyone less than half your age or so.
ididreadittoo@reddit
Anyone about 15, maybe 20 years younger than me generally. So GenX and younger.
xczechr@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
drebinf@reddit
To me, anyone under 50-55.
DeathToTheFalseGods@reddit
Anyone that acts like a child. I have referred to people twice my age as kid because they were throwing a tantrum like a 2 year old
Equivalent-Pilot-661@reddit
People just say it to people who are younger than them there isn't a set age limit atleast u don't think so anyway
Shneebles518@reddit
Outside of age-group, "Kid" can be used as a term of endearment. If I'm meeting up with my friends I'll sometimes greet them with "Hey Kids". Older family members may call younger family members of any age "Kid", affectionately. It can also be used in a derogatory way as in "Kids these days don't want to work".
50ShadesOfKrillin@reddit
i'm 20 and people hit me with the "thanks, kid" all the time
Spyderbeast@reddit
If they are young enough to have been birthed by me, I might call them kid.
That doesn't necessarily mean I think they're young and stupid. It's just I'm old enough to be their mom.
sxhnunkpunktuation@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
Karfedix_of_Pain@reddit
It really kind of depends on the context...
I'm in my 40s and my parents still refer to me as their kid.
If I'm complaining about "kids these days" it can be folks in their 20s.
If I'm talking about who's going to sit at the children's table this Thanksgiving it's probably teenagers and younger.
squishyg@reddit
Young people. Thereâs no agreed upon definition.
Parents refer to their children as kids regardless of age.
Itâs common to say âcollege kidsâ when discussing people in university.
If you hear that a 23 year old died, you might say, âThatâs so sad, she was only a kidâ.
People might push back against describing someone as a kid when that person has been accused of certain crimes. For example, thereâs likely to be complaints if a lawyer describes a 19 year old accused of rape as a kid, especially if the victim is described as an adult
Longjumping_Event_59@reddit
Baby goats.
ushouldbe_working@reddit
Under teenage but not baby/infant
R0b0Saurus@reddit
Anyone younger than me
dm_me_kittens@reddit
Anyone younger than I.
TranslatorHaunting15@reddit
I think it depends on who you ask. To a 70 year old, a 30-40 year old can be a âkidâ but to a 100 year old a 70 year old can be oneÂ
Positive-Avocado-881@reddit
According to my dad, anyone younger than him and heâs 72 đ
jmakovsk@reddit
That Animal Blundetto killed Phil's kid brother Billy. 47, he was just a kid.
WritPositWrit@reddit
Those people who are younger than I am.
Isekai_litrpg@reddit
I would say for the most part someone under 10, young enough they could plausibly be your child, or as a means of demeaning someone for being young and/or immature.
HitPointGamer@reddit
It may refer to the difference in age (if the speaker is 70 then even 40 year olds may be referred to as kids). It might reference the immaturity of the personâs actions regardless of their age. Or it can be used in a parent-child relationship no matter how old they are: âIâm 100 and my kid is 80.â
In general, though, I try not to refer to a legal adult as a kid. Minors are fair game, though!
Mason-the-Wise@reddit
Individuals who are socially children or the speaker thinks are less mature than their standard for an âadult.â
Shadw21@reddit
Depends on context, but most broadly, it can refer to anyone younger than the speaker, or someone not acting their age/being an idiot.
Also baby goats.
jderflinger@reddit
I get called kid a lot and I am almost 50. Sometimes I'm like bro, I am older than you.
joeydbls@reddit
If ypu are from boston it could mean a 50 yr old man
Bluemonogi@reddit
It could be referring to anyone younger than whoever is speaking. It depends on the speaker and context.
Iâm 50. I would say my friendâs adult offspring in their 20âs are kids.
TrickyShare242@reddit
People younger than you. Thats how it works if it exceeds 20 years you can call them a baby even if their 40 and you are 80
Little-Bones@reddit
Anything under 13 usually, but given the context even a 20 year old can be referred to as a "kid". It's more about the topic of their cognitive function than anything
HayMomWatchThis@reddit
Anyone younger or less mature than you
HayMomWatchThis@reddit
I.E. âyou listen here kidâ
JayB662@reddit
Pre-teens
Head_Razzmatazz7174@reddit
Basically a 'kid' is anyone younger than 18, or anyone who is at least 15 years younger than your present age.
At least that's how I use it.
GelatinousCube7@reddit
every midwesterner from 1990 to 2000
WokestWombat@reddit
I would say around ages 4-12. Before that is baby/toddler and after that is teenagers (still not adults but not kids either).Â
blueponies1@reddit
I think it scales with age. Anyone whoâs still in their teenage years is fair game for kid. Anyone 20-25 can be called kid by someone in their later 30s+. To call someone going on their thirties+ a kid you have to be double their age or so.
Zipposflame@reddit
if under 40 yourself its anyone under 30 if you are over 40 its anyone 20 more more years younger than you
thunderclone1@reddit
Anybody you feel to be in an age group significantly younger than yourself
(I've seen a 70 year old call a 40 year old "kid")
ConfuzzledFalcon@reddit
Zero up to about 5 years younger than me.
sadmep@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
11twofour@reddit
My age plus 5.
Esmer_Tina@reddit
Now that Iâm in my 50s, anyone under 40 is âsome kid.â
ButItSaysOnline@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
bangbangracer@reddit
Context matters, but often anyone visibly younger than me.
Outside_Narwhal3784@reddit
Usually refers to anyone 17 or younger. Basically someone who is still considered a child.
It can also be used affectionately, or antagonistically depending on context, to people that are younger than yourself. For example Iâm in my 40s and I might refer to someone in their twenties as âkid,â just like an old timer might refer to me as the same.
elucify@reddit
I asked my 90-year-old mom where my sister and brother-in-law were. She said "The kids went to the movies." My sister and brother-in-law were 65 and pushing 70 at the time.
"Kid" can, in context, mean adult child, though that still produced a laugh.
C5H2A7@reddit
10 and under? 11-12 I consider preteen/tween, and 13+ are teens.
Odd-Help-4293@reddit
I think primarily it's used for 0-12 year olds, but it can also be used for basically anyone who's much younger than you.
ExplosiveToast19@reddit
Itâs more about how old the person speaking is than how old the people theyâre referring to are.
When I started working out of college one of our senior managers accidentally called us âkidsâ when he was talking about new staff. He was in his 60s.
AdhesivenessCivil581@reddit
I had a boss in her 40's who called us, in our 20's kids. She still called us kids when she was in her 70's and we were in our 50's
sean8877@reddit
Me and my friends used to refer to each other as "kid" all the way into our 20's.
teslaactual@reddit
Anyone decently younger than you, people in their 20s refer to 5-18 year olds as kids while people in their 40s and 50s will call 20 year old kids etc.
AdhesivenessCivil581@reddit
Depends how old you are. Pretty much anyone 10 years younger than you are at any given time.
WingedLady@reddit
When I was a graduate student (so about 22 at the time) I was a teachers assistant (TA) and taught a basic lab course. I often referred to my students, anywhere from 18 to probably 45, as "my kids" when talking to other TAs.
It really has no set definition.
Kielbasa_Nunchucka@reddit
anyone that is significantly younger than you, like ten years plus. I (41M) call my 19yo apprentice at work "kid" just as the 60-70yos in my Elks Lodge call me "kid"
BilliamTheGr8@reddit
Depends on context. If an adult is called a âkidâ it usually means they are younger and less experienced. It can be an insult or benign.
FiveGuysisBest@reddit
Anyone who doesnât know what a 401k is.
traumahawk88@reddit
When you're younger ... Kid likely means somewhere in the 'under 12' range.
Then if you go to grad school some day you'll prob be in your mid to late 20s teaching and grading freshman and realize that 18yos are very much still kids. (Queue angry teens downvoting this).
I'm 36 now. Dealing with anyone under about 24 feels about the same as working with the kids when I taught STEM lessons in elementary schools. Excluding the subset of kids forced to grow up too young due to trauma or something (the kids who had to mentally mature very early to make it through life) you'll eventually realize that your average 18yo isn't that far off maturity wise from a 15yo and you'll likely consider all of them to be kids too. Under about 21-24... And you're a kid to me. And until mid 20s, they're not really much different.
Zardozin@reddit
Anyone 25 years younger than you can be called kid.
I cite Lou grant as supporting evidence.
jephph_@reddit
Younger than me
buchenrad@reddit
I'm 33. So for me it means anyone 25ish or younger. You know all the people that are currently as dumb as I was when I was 25.
msspider66@reddit
Anyone younger than me
prometheusnix@reddit
Ten years younger than me, or anyone acting childish.
Outside_Narwhal3784@reddit
Usually refers to anyone 17 or younger. Basically someone who is still considered a child.
2PlasticLobsters@reddit
It's a sliding scale. The older you get, the more people look like children to you. I'll turn 60 next year & now think of people under 40 as not-quite-adults. People in their 20s might as well be in middle school.
I've often wondered what it's like for people who live into their 90s or over 100. Do people in their 60s & 70s look young to you if you live that long?
InsertEvilLaugh@reddit
Anyone younger than me is a child!
In general usually anyone 19 or younger I feel, though 20 works too.
mulahtmiss@reddit
I typically think elementary & middle school age. Like 5-12. But it could vary based on context!
anneofgraygardens@reddit
my sister was just telling me about how when we were (actual) kids, our mom would refer to coworkers as "young kids" and she was really confused because how did these young kids have jobs? didn't they have to go to school?Â
She was really surprised when she visited my mom's workplace and learned that the young kids were actually grown adults..
NotAFanOfOlives@reddit
Could be children, could be anyone younger than who is talking, some people refer to themselves as a ______ kid (usually referring to a subculture like emo or rave) up until about 30. After 30 it gets weird.
virtual_human@reddit
Under 30.
limpet143@reddit
Basically anyone young enough to be my kid.
The_Lumox2000@reddit
When I was 13 it was anyone 10 and under. When I was 21 it was anyone under 18. Now I'm 35 and it's basically anyone under 25.
CommandAlternative10@reddit
When you are 45 you will call someone 35 a kid. It never ends.
Open_Philosophy_7221@reddit
As a 26 year old American,
In a professional setting kid is almost ALWAYS insulting if you are older than 18... Even if the person calling you a kid doesn't mean it that way. It is demeaning.Â
At 22 an interviewer asked me what I wanted to be "when I grew up". Baby boomers hold a LOT of power and wealth in the country and unfortunately there is a lack of trust of you get folks in many fields.Â
If it is someone much older than you and it is a social setting, it's kind of sweet.
Otherwise it can go either way.Â
Teknicsrx7@reddit
Anyone younger than me
TehLoneWanderer101@reddit
I still refer to my 19 year old college students as kids to other people (never to my students themselves). In the adult world, they might as well still be kids.
WhatTheHellPod@reddit
In general a non family kid is any person sufficiently young enough for you to resent them solely for their being younger than you.
stefiscool@reddit
Anyone younger than me, even if itâs a day, so 41 and below haha
Mathematicus_Rex@reddit
From 2 to infinity; younger than 2 is a baby
sharkycharming@reddit
I am a 50 year old American woman. If I am talking about kids, I generally mean anyone under 24 or so. I am sure there are exceptions, but those are probably ironic and self-deprecating as regards my own advanced age.
CaraC70023@reddit
Depends on context, and the age rises as the speakers age rises. For me at 29 it's anyone about 23 or younger lol
Rezboy209@reddit
When you're my age (pushing 40) anyone 25 and under is a kid. When my grandpa was in his 80s he referred to anyone under 60 as a kid lol.
WinterBourne25@reddit
Itâs completely contextual. Itâs a slang word. There are no set rules.
cdb03b@reddit
It depends on context. It could be narrow being anyone under 13, or broad being anyone under college graduate age (24), or even just anyone younger than you. But the most common usage is probably the first category of children under 13.
Vachic09@reddit
Whoever is 15+ years younger than yourselfÂ
whirdin@reddit
Usually used to describe anybody younger, regardless of actual age.
Billy The Kid was a popular outlaw and the term "kid" is often used to refer to somebody less mature or less experienced.
ElectricTomatoMan@reddit
Depends on the age of the speaker.
naliedel@reddit
I have adult children and I still call them my kids. They know they are independent. Not sure what else to call them? They are not children. Offspring seems too removed.
Current_Poster@reddit
It's partly about where you are.
Like, the average age in NYC (where I live) is about 37-38. The town I moved from, it was 63. I used to be unironically called "new kid" on jobs when I was 30, because things were so skewed.
Rogue-Telvanni@reddit
Anyone younger than me.
timothythefirst@reddit
It depends.
In a literal sense itâs anyone under 18
Sometimes people differentiate between kids/teens and the cutoff would be, well, the teen years.
Sometimes people refer to college students as kids even though theyâre technically adults
My boss at work calls me a kid even though Iâm 30, because shes 60.
Thereâs really no definite answer.
CAAugirl@reddit
Anyone who is young enough for me to have birthed is a âkidâ have some employees that my colleague and I refer to as babies because theyâre not even 20. It all depends. Theyâre obviously Not babies but when something bad happens to them, theyâre so young, theyâre babies. And theyâre kids.
Avasia1717@reddit
âdo you have kidsâ means do you have any offspring, regardless of age.
but if i said âthere are some kidsâ i donât mean babies, toddlers, or adults. little kids would be roughly age 3-12 and big kids would be 13-18. 18 is legally an adult but most people would see an 18 year old still in high school as a kid.
but then there are also âcollege kidsâ which is kinda weird because college students, besides rare exceptions, are legal adults.
it might happen that a recent college graduate starts a job and the other employees there call him the new kid.
stuck_behind_a_truck@reddit
10 years younger than me.
Fun-Property1881@reddit
Anyone from 3 years old to whatever 5 years younger than me is a kid.Â
I'll be 75 and a 70 year old is but a wee lad.Â
This is just how I work. Im happy with it.Â
exhausted-caprid@reddit
There are a couple of meanings depending on the context:
Kid as in "social category", like a kids' sports league or a summer camp for kids? My mind says toddlerhood to early teenage years.
Kid as in an adult referring to "my kids"? Any age, just a catchall term for your progeny. My grandma calls her 50 year old grown-adult offspring her "kids".
Kid as in generally calling an individual a "kid"? Anybody younger than the speaker. I'm a third-year college student, and the first years are kids to me. However, to the grad students whose lab I work in, *I'm* the kid. All a matter of perspective, really.
I'm now going to stop saying the word "kid" before it loses all meaning due to overuse.
luckygirl54@reddit
Can refer to anyone.
DOMSdeluise@reddit
If I'm talking about my kids, or someone's kids specifically (bobs kids, Jane's kids, whatever) I would be referring to their children, irrespective of age. If I am saying someone is a kid, I'm saying they are under 18, not an adult.
MunitionGuyMike@reddit
Anyone younger than you. And sometimes even yourself
GF_baker_2024@reddit
It often depends on the person using it. I'm in my mid-40s, and my mom still calls me a "kid."
oarmash@reddit
Colloquially I will call anyone ~5ish+ years younger than me, a kid. Regardless how old they actually are.
HandoAlegra@reddit
My rule of thumb is anyone under 24 or younger than me
KR1735@reddit
It's a relative term. My grandma uses "you kids" to refer to my parents, who are in their mid-50s.
Redbubble89@reddit
Really depends.
BreakfastBeerz@reddit
I'm almost 50. My parents still refer to me as "the kids".
PurpleAriadne@reddit
Sometimes itâs a term of endearment from someone more mature/more experienced to someone junior.
Devious_Bastard@reddit
For goats itâs when they are babies. For humans itâs anyone younger than me by a few years.
Gatodeluna@reddit
It depends on the age of the person saying it. Most people will call under-13s kids. To anyone over 30 a teenager is still a kid. Beyond that, a 50 y.o. can be a kid to a 90 y.o., etc.
wiarumas@reddit
General use term covering a wide variety of ages. Sometimes just means people who are younger (the bar was filled with a bunch of kids). Also, not uncommon to describe a person's offspring as kids. Eg, "I have three kids. The oldest is 40 and has kids of his own."
irishpunk62@reddit
I think itâs different for everyone, but for me, anyone more than five years younger than me.
Stop_Already@reddit
Iâd say it largely depends on the age of the person using it.
Iâm in my mid 40âs and to me? Anyone under 30 is pretty much a kid. Sometimes people might prove me wrong and be more mature when I interact with them but for the most part? Yeah.
Dio_Yuji@reddit
It can have two meanings: 1. a child (younger than 18) or 2. Someone whoâs significantly younger.