Dudes just tired of women that are trying to get over on 'em. They seen their parents and grandparents' marriages fall apart and have just decided to remove themselves the the pool. After having women decide that they're entitled to the things I worked hard for, I can't blame them. I'm jaded and done.
That’s like hating on Germany for ww2. Yes it is valid and legit, but it’s gonna keep you from super hot German women and their legal cannabis, binge drinking, cigarette smoking?, rave culture!!
The cigs are strange but they fucking party over there!
Don’t sour against all women because of ww2, King.
Idk but if a dude wants to lose his virginity and if he can't talk to girls there are millions of hookers to call so I don't think there are so many dudes in this situation.
Anxiety is actually the big factor in my unhealthy relationship goals.
Rather than trying to work through my social anxieties on a personal level, I want someone that can effectively bypass them, Which from my personal experience is possible but takes way too much time where things are going just right.
Anyway, where some people have unrealistic beauty standards, I have unrealistic personality standards.
Also throat cancer is on the rise in promiscuous men from HPV spreading amongst promiscuous women. It’s not the chaste men who are suffering long term health consequences.
Very true. But what I saw claimed that married people (both genders) live on average 2 years longer. Probably some mental health factors etc involved too.
It's crazy that you think that's the same thing as having sex with someone who actually likes you and wants to sleep with you because of who you are, not the $100 you're paying them
be a 30-something year old man so obsessed with your virginity that you spend 17 hours a day shitting up every single board on a serbian bell cart racing website complaining about it
NO WILL I NOT have relations with a harlot in exchange for money, I will have genuine companionship and someone who wants me for me
I don't think that's what these people who constantly complain about being a virgin is after though. Sex this sex that, alpha this, alpha that. Their view and experience with talking to women is about as shallow as it gets with calling up a hooker.
It's better. Because you can tell things to a hooker that might drive off a date. They're basically therapists(the good ones that cost a few hundred) who will do some dirty shit to you if asked.
I mean that's great for you, however I and most other people crave genuine companionship, not someone who will listen to me complain and fuck me as long as I keep paying them
I agree with your other statement but not this one.
Most hookups, short term relationships, and even long term relations are not necessarily 'genuine companionship'. I think the traditional model of what a relationship is doesn't reflect the reality of how dating works. Humans are bad at analyzing themselves.
As far as companionship goes - there are a lot of us out there who don't want additional companionship. Plenty of people have close friends, pets, etc.
The US is not particularly affected by this, but lots of first world countries are suffering from an aging population because people are having less kids. This is only solvable with immigration from other countries who have too many kids, or, to have more kids.
IDK man, that's basically your perception on things. If the dude loses his shyness with a pro he might even start talking to 'real' girls in the future.
I was in a relationship for 13 years and I'm still shy talking to women. Not sure how someone spending 20 minutes with a prostitute addresses that. Social shyness has little to do with sexual experience.
I feel like your anecdote is bullshit for most men. It definitely goes away with experience for the average person. And the average person starts out shy when it comes to relationships.
I'm not socially awkward around women. I'm shy when it comes to cold-approaching women. Maybe it would be better to say I'm badly out of practice? There's a huge difference between being in a stable relationship and attempting to find dates.
Regardless, my point was that if you take a typical Anon who's awkward around women and 30% autistic, pairing him up with a hooker for half an hour isn't going to suddenly make him bold.
Humans are supposed to get out there and try things and fail and succeed and learn and adapt.
Experience can definitely reduce awkwardness and all sorts of other positive effects.
You're basically saying "If I try to juggle chainsaws I'll chop my arms off so I'll never try juggling." If you want to learn how to juggle, start with less pressure like oranges and learn: get an escort and tell her you're low experience. Start practicing with a pro!
Disagree here. I didn't go the hooker route but I became significantly more confident when my sex life took off. It eventually led to more success in work and social life.
If he can't talk to girls then how is he gonna talk to a hooker? Yes that's their whole job but if a man is too socially awkward to talk to women he's probably gonna be too socially awkward to talk eith a hoover as well.
Oh well yeah that’s a tough one to get over. Heres the secret: become monke.
Engage your reptilian brain and focus only on pleasure! You’re welcome anons!!
Because they want to be liked too, calling a hooker is the opposite of that. I have read some incels claiming that after sex with a hooker they felt even worse, so this is not a solution for everyone.
There are some guys who are very socially awkward yes.
Even I got a wife and I just had to ask her out. I mean, she worked retail and at the end she asked "anything more?" and I answered "Your number please".
I only said degeneracy, then you started listing groups of people. How do you know I wasn’t talking about rampant pornography? (That’s another one I just remembered, no porn.)
You mentioned people not getting married, divorce and death of the family as well, which are women’s rights issues.
From that it is pretty obvious that you are a rightoid. From then on deducing what exactly you consider “degeneracy” isn’t even hard. Don’t even try this ‘You said it!’ bullshit because it ain’t gonna work.
And because Idgaf I just checked your profile. Active in the catholicism sub you say? How interesting.
Also good to know women are so happy with rampant divorce and not having a family to come home to or be with, I definitely thought women were largely complaining about that and but I guess it’s just men so that’s ok then lol
I know at least one important woman who’s not happy about it and her opinion is more important than any of ours
No matter who’s told you they’re oh so unhappy about women not opting to stay with subhuman moids rather than divorce or not be with them in the first place, that isn’t their decision to make for all women, is it?
And the only people I’ve ever heard crying about how there are no families anymore and the west has fallen or whatever the fuck is loser alt-right incel men. Divorce rates are high because it’s finally acceptable for women to get a divorce, and the majority of men aren’t even worth the air they breathe.
The woman was Mary at Fatima. But genuinely are you ok? That last paragraph sounded like it came from a place of pain more than just moral disgust. I’m sorry if you had/have family issues. I won’t pry because Reddit really isn’t the place to talk about it necessarily, but I’d suggest finding real people in your life you feel comfortable opening up with.
I don’t know, just hope you’re doing ok I guess. Sorry if this last text is prying a bit too much. Hopefully I’m wrong and this comment is just confusing to you
I think these things can be much more accurately attributed to a toxic work culture and increasing atomisation of society as opposed to such broad terms as “degeneracy”. I guess I’m just curious, obviously its a bit of a tough question and I’m not trying to put you on the spot or anything, but what prescriptive changes do you think could be made to solve these issues?
I don’t think it was specifically 100 years ago. I’m referring more so to the 50s and 60s, for which my primary reason would be high union membership. Collective bargaining allowed for more democratic workplaces, which ultimately begets good social outcomes. Obviously, I won’t pretend that almost anything else was socially positive at the time, but it is observable that this single factor was hugely beneficial.
im not the one who argues that sexual liberation ruined humanity, but while we are at "what ruins humanity" i find it amusing that the answer almost ALWAYS boils down to "well does everyone have enough money to fullfill their desires and live in safety? no? well guess what people do"
shit costs money. everything does. money and time. i WANT to meet my friends, but neither i nor they have money to visit each other, and in order to have enough money to actually survive, we gotta work. which costs time, so we dont have the time to even think about how to form a meaningful connection.
at the end of the day, everything, fucking EVERYTHING boils down to money and how much free time people have (which also depends on how much money they have)
I think you’re absolutely correct. I think a majority of social issues are manufactured in order to distract from the economic ones, which are the true cause of people’s misery. People don’t have kids because they cannot afford the opportunity cost of taking time away from work. People don’t have sex because third spaces (neither work nor home) are being eroded by an increased, manufactured sense of isolation.
All of these issues, manufactured or real, tie back to the capital class and their efforts to maintain their wealth and success. Just looking at the US currently, seeing billionaires like Thiel and Musk back the GOP only re-affirms this, to be honest.
I once read somewhere that this also fucks over the whole "mens place in the world/masculinity" part.
Like you cant be expected to be the breadwinner provider and protector of your family if, even with your partner supporting you both are hanging by a thread. (This just being one example)
The economy being in a good place for anyone but stock market traders and billionaires would solve like 90% of the countries problems in less than 10 years. It always boils down to people having time off work and money to spend their free time well
You know, the old usual. Strong family structure with in tact communal ties, teach the children responsibility young no sex outside of marriage, help build strong men who care for and would die to protect their women (not just physically, but in the day to day little ways to make her happy and fulfilled), build strong women who love their men and care for them and their families with their whole heart and nurture the richness of the family life, God at the center of it all as the Sumo Bonom (the greatest good from which all other goods and virtues flow outwards to the people around us)
Basically the good life.
No, but in all honestly I get that’s not happening anytime soon so real life baby steps solutions for individuals, no sex before marriage, men care for and protect women, women care for and love men, reach out and help the community (maybe donate at a food shelter) Oh and before all that love God with all your heart, mind, body, and soul. Pray a little every day.
Ok, I get that you’re coming from a perspective of Christian ethics, I understand why you’d come to those conclusions.
We’re agreed that there is currently a social ill, but I think I might contend on a few ways to solve it. I think the communal ties part is spot on, though I am a leftist so that’s obvious I suppose.
I think I take a bit of an issue with the prescription of limiting sex before marriage. From what I’ve seen, the data is pretty conclusive that abstinence is not a particularly effective method of preventing sexual activity. I think you might be conflating solutions for individuals to a broader societal solution, which I don’t blame you for at all. I think it’s just worth working off the knowledge that humans will always have sex, in or out of wedlock, and that is doesn’t necessarily have to be a societal ill in and of itself.
I think the food bank point is also interesting - again, I think interpersonally, it is absolutely a moral good to support, but I think as a societal issue, hunger can be much better addressed through social programs (i.e. food stamps, UBI) rather than just relying on the good will of those who can afford to give.
I should probably add here I don’t want people to go to jail or anything or have some law that states no sex before marriage. It’s more like I want the societal standard and culture to be there. Like I want it to be more normal to save sex for marriage than to not.
But I’m glad we see eye to eye on the strong communal toes. I fogured that point wouldn’t be one super objected to lol. But it’s hugely important in my opinion.
I tend to like helping at a more local level just because it’s more personal and I think has less lost in the beautocratic tendency for oversight, but I agree that the government having national programs and incentives for the welfare of the poor can be a necessary and good component. That’s more of finding out what works than anything else imo.
I know there are some other people in this thread being a bit rude, but honestly at the root of your views I genuinely don’t see any malice at all, and I totally empathise with the preference for individual charity even on just a circumstantial level. Institutional change can often feel so hopeless that it’s often just nice to focus and do on what you can, where you can. If you’re helping out in your community already, well done and I hope you keep it up!
The easy way to remember it is that if someone was of the age to be a K-12 student on Jan 1, 2000 then they're a millenial. If younger than that then they're a Zoomer, if older than that then they're Gen X.
I think the generation thing is kinda weird for me, I'm from 95 but in my experience most people born up to 97 don't really (or are not clearly) identified by either generation. I myself lean towards identifying as millennial but I also got some of the zoomer humor, and not much of the vocabulary. I feel like I'm part of a "lost generation".
This happens with every generation because you'll naturally have more in common with people born 1 or 2 years after you than the 1 or 2 decades before you. For that year range, it's often called 'Zillenial'.
Zooomers are defined as having been born in the mid-late 90s through to the early 2010s. The earliest I saw was 1995, but in general the consensus is 1997-2012. I will tell you right now, that as a person born in 1994 I very much feel more like a member of the Millennial cohort than I do the Zoomers.
You can identify with whichever generation you prefer. Birth date is just one factor. Your interests, influences and hobbies are a better indicator of the generation you belong to. Plus or minus a decade is fine.
It depends. If you change nothing in your life, you're likely correct. However, you may just have been stuck in the same place with the same crowd for the past 5 years and just haven't created any opportunities for yourself. Changing jobs, moving somewhere different, and/or taking up an extracurricular may allow you to create opportunities to find someone. Also doing everything you can to be attractive in terms of looks (working out, clothing yourself properly, getting your teeth fixed if need be, taking care of your skin) and smell (proper hygiene including oral hygiene) makes a big difference.
Millennials and older definitely. Even though they are a minority of men, I see what leads to this. Literally not putting in the effort to talk to women or actually seek a relationship. If you tried talking to a woman once 5 years ago, I don’t know how you expect to ever get a girlfriend or get laid. Some guys I met take the female approach and just assume it will happen like magic. I don’t recommend a man ever take this approach unless he’s a celebrity or extremely attractive. Other guys I know have been out of shape, broke, or too shy. You can get a girlfriend with some shortcomings, but you can’t have a laundry list of shortcomings you’re not actually trying to fix and expect a girlfriend to just walk into your life.
And there is a place to go outside. Where you could reasonably start a business and not have youths come in and ruin it or the rent be only affordable to JAMBERJOOS
What should I say in its place for “Troublesome teenagers”?
(I was a piece of shit teenager in the eyes of society at the time. I am on the side of punk teens. I’m cool!! Hell, If laws weren’t so mid and bogus right now I would be out at the local Forrest throwing keggers and helping you all steal cars from the rich. Alas, I fear the stockades.) Anyway be kind to yourself inside of your minds, youths! Haha :)
Yes, it is true because the majority here are terminally online neckbeards with no other purpose in life than moving pixels around on a monitor and calling themselves gaeymers.
Yep. When I was in highschool/college it was super easy to get dates. Funny how it all dries up when I work in a male dominated industry and hobbies that involve making rocks shiny.
The whole world changed around 1995-2000. You can literally just sit at home and entertain yourself for hours on Xbox. Back before then 99% of kids were normal and they’ll go out in middle school high school, be social get into trouble socialize. Now my wife’s younger cousins will literally sit on their computer all weekend and talk to their male friends over video games/discord and that’s pretty much all they do. This is a good chunk of gen Z males.
Back when I was in HS, 2008-2012 you had to be a little autistic to not get any pussy but these kids nowadays it’s the norm
I think you're right but off on the year. The early Internet was not bad.
2005 is when things really changed with the start of Xbox Live. Before then, people went to each other's houses to play Mario Kart, GoldenEye, Halo, etc.
i think the proof of that is the downvotes we’re getting.
if i wanted to really make them mad, id say that not only did i fuck, but i currently fuck. in fact, i fuck various third parties together with my girlfriend.
Sad wee cretins too scared to talk to a woman so they build up all this resentment. Use their silly little terms to explain why they’re lonely. Nothing to do with their personality of course.
Western feminists should have invented lab grown pregnancy before whatever they have been pushing for about family/gender value changes
Because what they did now is reducing the population count of the liberal free world and in the future the world population will be dominated by Muslim society birth rate and forever dooming female rights ironically.
I just accepted that there are things that are an integral part of the 'human experience' and I've missed them due to sheer ignorance or by misplaced priorities and that I'm less human for it. Resulting in my removal from the gene pool. it is what it is
When this movie came out I was in high school. Typical 4chins regard, looks too, no money
somehow I get a gf
somehow I get a pseudo Christian gf
No sex the whole time, just dry rubbing and making out, 99% of dates led to blue balls.
We break up. Immediately go on POF. First chick that talks to me there wants to meet. And she's a freakkk. Crazy af so I sent her packing after first few times (she was only in my state for a limited time, less than a year). Fat af, don't care had sex.
Been more than a decade since then.
At least I'm not a 40 YO virgin. Probably would have ropemaxxed long before then
Well, milenials in majority have none of those yet they refuse to do it. While zoomers understand that these are things that YOU regulate and prioritize while in the moment. Zoomers have infinitely more mental maturity than milenials, which is exactly why milenials refuse to procreate - they're infantile.
Wow, a whole 4 generations of people that don't know how to properly form a functioning relationship? Who would've thought that that would ever happen in the failing modern world caused by ignorance of greed and complacency!
Yeah, well that's what happens when an entire generation of young men go down the regarded right-wing rabbit hole cause they A) Are failed by the education system and can't research or reason for shit and B) Don't have anything in particular going for them to support the spineless neoliberals that call themselves the Left.
Right wing/Left wing is all a social construct create by the elites to create infighting. Our offsprings are becoming less viable to form stable relationships themselves while celebs have 5-6 baby mamas. That’s what we should truly be talking about, not whether muh right wing or muh left wing views bad.
The Left and Right are constructs, yes. At the very heart of the American struggle is a class struggle. At the end of the day, Left wingers and Right wingers don’t have a dog in each other’s lives. They just don’t want to allocate the government’s resources one way or another. That’s where their disagreement lies. If you spend 5 minutes off the internet you will quickly realize this. And no, the system is just a series of checks and balances that are superficial at the end of the day if revolution pops off. The elites won’t allow policy to harm them. They aren’t beholden to rules and the majority of their equity isn’t even in the US.
Hey I'm not a liberal or a conservative, but US framing and all that, and that's what's happening in the US. I have more in common with a miner from Oklahoma or a Common Brown Rat than I do with a billionaire, and I know it.
Not really. I'd say being a virgin at 40 is still seen as a joke. It's just Reddit and /tv/ bubbles, that are often filled with these 40 year old virgins, that make it seem otherwise.
Nah bro this is insanity if i was almost 30 and still a virgin and i was desperate for sex id just fuck a prostitute or escort. But most incels have a horrible wrong mindset about sex, for some reason they think it wil fix their fucked up personality.
Well first off, you need to understand that your mother is not all women, and that women are just low-testosterone men moulded into society to be feminine and/or matriachal, femininity is a culture, a tribe.
Once you've done that, you just got bridge the cultural divide, they are men with tits and they will meet you halfway to be buddies if you put the effort in.
I_am_Reptoid_King@reddit
Dudes just tired of women that are trying to get over on 'em. They seen their parents and grandparents' marriages fall apart and have just decided to remove themselves the the pool. After having women decide that they're entitled to the things I worked hard for, I can't blame them. I'm jaded and done.
NeverFraudulentAgain@reddit
So you just let your bloodline die like that
Booce380@reddit
I have 3 siblings and they each have 3+ kids i'm sure my bloodline will be fine.
CinderellaGal06@reddit
Finally you will let those girls be free.
encrustingXacro@reddit
IDK man; my parents and both my maternal and paternal grandparents are still together.
Hailreaper1@reddit
Yeah. I’m sure you removed yourself.
BathTubBand@reddit
That’s like hating on Germany for ww2. Yes it is valid and legit, but it’s gonna keep you from super hot German women and their legal cannabis, binge drinking, cigarette smoking?, rave culture!!
The cigs are strange but they fucking party over there!
Don’t sour against all women because of ww2, King.
silmarp@reddit
Idk but if a dude wants to lose his virginity and if he can't talk to girls there are millions of hookers to call so I don't think there are so many dudes in this situation.
SOMEMONG@reddit
I can't imagine that a guy who can't talk to women would be able to perform for a hooker.
silmarp@reddit
However it's not really unheard of? I mean, it's a little bit normal because "I'm paying" attitude.
undreamedgore@reddit
Not if you live outside a city, or more commonly, do,'t want to fuck a hooker.
bocaj78@reddit
Or even more commonly, don’t want to get fucked by a cop
silmarp@reddit
I mean. 40 years is a long time. There is a point the dude would just call the 304s.
Save some exceptions that's it.
V3Ethereal@reddit
I got 5 more years till I hit 40, I don't particularly care enough to call a hooker.
Pretty sure getting to this point either requires a lot of apathy, or unhealthy relationship goals a hooker won't exactly fix.
GruntBlender@reddit
That, or a healthy mix of depression and social anxiety.
V3Ethereal@reddit
Anxiety is actually the big factor in my unhealthy relationship goals.
Rather than trying to work through my social anxieties on a personal level, I want someone that can effectively bypass them, Which from my personal experience is possible but takes way too much time where things are going just right.
Anyway, where some people have unrealistic beauty standards, I have unrealistic personality standards.
MechwolfMachina@reddit
Also throat cancer is on the rise in promiscuous men from HPV spreading amongst promiscuous women. It’s not the chaste men who are suffering long term health consequences.
Snozzberriez@reddit
Don’t chaste men live shorter lives than married men?
TheEzypzy@reddit
yes, probably because their wives make them go to the doctor. conversely, married women live shorter lives than unmarried women
Snozzberriez@reddit
Very true. But what I saw claimed that married people (both genders) live on average 2 years longer. Probably some mental health factors etc involved too.
Faust_the_Faustinian@reddit
Holy shit I need to become a promiscuous man asap
CDR57@reddit
🎶 promiscuous maaaaaan 🎵
TheEzypzy@reddit
nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex man. keep living your life how you want!
Baron_Flatline@reddit
35 and still a virgin lmao
Joshgg13@reddit
It's crazy that you think that's the same thing as having sex with someone who actually likes you and wants to sleep with you because of who you are, not the $100 you're paying them
__VOMITLOVER@reddit
MsDestroyer900@reddit
I don't think that's what these people who constantly complain about being a virgin is after though. Sex this sex that, alpha this, alpha that. Their view and experience with talking to women is about as shallow as it gets with calling up a hooker.
sbeven7@reddit
It's better. Because you can tell things to a hooker that might drive off a date. They're basically therapists(the good ones that cost a few hundred) who will do some dirty shit to you if asked.
Joshgg13@reddit
I mean that's great for you, however I and most other people crave genuine companionship, not someone who will listen to me complain and fuck me as long as I keep paying them
the_fresh_cucumber@reddit
I agree with your other statement but not this one.
Most hookups, short term relationships, and even long term relations are not necessarily 'genuine companionship'. I think the traditional model of what a relationship is doesn't reflect the reality of how dating works. Humans are bad at analyzing themselves.
As far as companionship goes - there are a lot of us out there who don't want additional companionship. Plenty of people have close friends, pets, etc.
judge2020@reddit
US economy in shambles
If they gave more money for having kids (like reducing your tax liability by 30k) it'd probably even itself out though.
the_fresh_cucumber@reddit
We don't need more kids. There already are not enough jobs in the US.
MsDestroyer900@reddit
The US is not particularly affected by this, but lots of first world countries are suffering from an aging population because people are having less kids. This is only solvable with immigration from other countries who have too many kids, or, to have more kids.
silmarp@reddit
IDK man, that's basically your perception on things. If the dude loses his shyness with a pro he might even start talking to 'real' girls in the future.
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
I was in a relationship for 13 years and I'm still shy talking to women. Not sure how someone spending 20 minutes with a prostitute addresses that. Social shyness has little to do with sexual experience.
Smelldicks@reddit
I feel like your anecdote is bullshit for most men. It definitely goes away with experience for the average person. And the average person starts out shy when it comes to relationships.
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
I'm not socially awkward around women. I'm shy when it comes to cold-approaching women. Maybe it would be better to say I'm badly out of practice? There's a huge difference between being in a stable relationship and attempting to find dates.
Regardless, my point was that if you take a typical Anon who's awkward around women and 30% autistic, pairing him up with a hooker for half an hour isn't going to suddenly make him bold.
LLMprophet@reddit
Humans are supposed to get out there and try things and fail and succeed and learn and adapt.
Experience can definitely reduce awkwardness and all sorts of other positive effects.
You're basically saying "If I try to juggle chainsaws I'll chop my arms off so I'll never try juggling." If you want to learn how to juggle, start with less pressure like oranges and learn: get an escort and tell her you're low experience. Start practicing with a pro!
AllDaysOff@reddit
It will help. How much depends on the person.
the_fresh_cucumber@reddit
Disagree here. I didn't go the hooker route but I became significantly more confident when my sex life took off. It eventually led to more success in work and social life.
LLMprophet@reddit
The point isn't to switch one out for another forever.
Just give it a fun try with someone you aren't going to "ruin a relationship" with and most importantly break the seal.
Then go out and find genuine companionship if you can.
vivianvixxxen@reddit
Por que no las dos?
gumpters@reddit
Bad for the soul. The piper will be paid
paucus62@reddit
please be bait
TopptrentHamster@reddit
Cope
silmarp@reddit
I think it's not the same but if you're socially awkward and can't talk to girls is a resource many people use.
Joshgg13@reddit
Agreed, but it doesn't solve the real problem that socially awkward people have which is loneliness and a feeling of being unlovable
m50d@reddit
It actually does. Maybe not 100%, but a lot of them genuinely just need to get laid once and get over themselves.
silmarp@reddit
Yeah. But I was talking only about virginity. To each problem it's own time.
ResponsibleSeries411@reddit
It Will let to realize that sex and virginity is not that big of a deal. Which would help a lot of men be more successfull with women tbf
chloapsoap@reddit
It’s not the same but if seeing yourself as a lonely virgin is holding you back in life and you need to confidence boost then you should just do it
the_fresh_cucumber@reddit
I agree.
Still I wonder how many wives and girlfriends are banging a dude because of the free rent situation.
alpine-goblin@reddit
yeah, like what's the point of a hooker when you can just jerk off?
magusx17@reddit
Not everyone needs emotional support. Consent is enough. It's not like the suggestion is to go out and rape the first woman you see
Joshgg13@reddit
...huh?
Hugar34@reddit
If he can't talk to girls then how is he gonna talk to a hooker? Yes that's their whole job but if a man is too socially awkward to talk to women he's probably gonna be too socially awkward to talk eith a hoover as well.
BathTubBand@reddit
They want money. They do all the talking.
I’m explaining this to you not trying to be a jerk. :)
Hugar34@reddit
I know but my point is they would be too anxious to even engage in the actl itself
BathTubBand@reddit
Oh well yeah that’s a tough one to get over. Heres the secret: become monke.
Engage your reptilian brain and focus only on pleasure! You’re welcome anons!!
silmarp@reddit
Fair point but I think he doesn't really need to talk to a hooker. But some would be too socially awkward even for a hooker yes.
However a good hooker would conduct the talk in a way that she earns a client yes. Making it possible.
Idmaybefuckaplatypus@reddit
Isn't that part of the movie
silmarp@reddit
Tbh I didn't watch the movie.
Idmaybefuckaplatypus@reddit
It's a good one tbh.
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
1: missing intimacy
2: extremely unethical. Most of those women are forced into that work unwillingly by sex trafficking or their financial situation
silmarp@reddit
Yeah dude, I was talking about losing the v card. Not about solving all of the problems. Let's not fall into the Nirvana fallacy here right?
Freak_Metal@reddit
Because they want to be liked too, calling a hooker is the opposite of that. I have read some incels claiming that after sex with a hooker they felt even worse, so this is not a solution for everyone.
warablo@reddit
Eh, I think this would just hurt them mentally more
the_capibarin@reddit
I think it is meant more socially, as in having a partner of some sort
silmarp@reddit
There are some guys who are very socially awkward yes.
Even I got a wife and I just had to ask her out. I mean, she worked retail and at the end she asked "anything more?" and I answered "Your number please".
Agent_Jenkins@reddit
Stealing that bro
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
Based and couragepilled
Markyloko@reddit
yeah bro just pay a hooker and you will lose all the social anxiety that comes from that
Memmew@reddit
Zoomers are like 28 max
gumpters@reddit
The sexual Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race
deezmonian@reddit
Wait, how so?
gumpters@reddit
Degeneracy, people not getting married, rampant divorce, death of the family, bifurcation of the genders… you know, the usual
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
Ah so checks notes women’s and lgbtqia+ rights have been a disaster you say?
Just some bigotry guys, move along.
gumpters@reddit
Very telling response
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
Telling about the fact that I advocate for the rights of opressed groups maybe
gumpters@reddit
I only said degeneracy, then you started listing groups of people. How do you know I wasn’t talking about rampant pornography? (That’s another one I just remembered, no porn.)
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
You mentioned people not getting married, divorce and death of the family as well, which are women’s rights issues.
From that it is pretty obvious that you are a rightoid. From then on deducing what exactly you consider “degeneracy” isn’t even hard. Don’t even try this ‘You said it!’ bullshit because it ain’t gonna work.
And because Idgaf I just checked your profile. Active in the catholicism sub you say? How interesting.
gumpters@reddit
Rightoid lol
Also good to know women are so happy with rampant divorce and not having a family to come home to or be with, I definitely thought women were largely complaining about that and but I guess it’s just men so that’s ok then lol
I know at least one important woman who’s not happy about it and her opinion is more important than any of ours
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
No matter who’s told you they’re oh so unhappy about women not opting to stay with subhuman moids rather than divorce or not be with them in the first place, that isn’t their decision to make for all women, is it?
And the only people I’ve ever heard crying about how there are no families anymore and the west has fallen or whatever the fuck is loser alt-right incel men. Divorce rates are high because it’s finally acceptable for women to get a divorce, and the majority of men aren’t even worth the air they breathe.
gumpters@reddit
The woman was Mary at Fatima. But genuinely are you ok? That last paragraph sounded like it came from a place of pain more than just moral disgust. I’m sorry if you had/have family issues. I won’t pry because Reddit really isn’t the place to talk about it necessarily, but I’d suggest finding real people in your life you feel comfortable opening up with.
I don’t know, just hope you’re doing ok I guess. Sorry if this last text is prying a bit too much. Hopefully I’m wrong and this comment is just confusing to you
deezmonian@reddit
I think these things can be much more accurately attributed to a toxic work culture and increasing atomisation of society as opposed to such broad terms as “degeneracy”. I guess I’m just curious, obviously its a bit of a tough question and I’m not trying to put you on the spot or anything, but what prescriptive changes do you think could be made to solve these issues?
Jan-Nachtigall@reddit
How was work culture less toxic a hundred years ago?
deezmonian@reddit
I don’t think it was specifically 100 years ago. I’m referring more so to the 50s and 60s, for which my primary reason would be high union membership. Collective bargaining allowed for more democratic workplaces, which ultimately begets good social outcomes. Obviously, I won’t pretend that almost anything else was socially positive at the time, but it is observable that this single factor was hugely beneficial.
Scorkami@reddit
im not the one who argues that sexual liberation ruined humanity, but while we are at "what ruins humanity" i find it amusing that the answer almost ALWAYS boils down to "well does everyone have enough money to fullfill their desires and live in safety? no? well guess what people do"
shit costs money. everything does. money and time. i WANT to meet my friends, but neither i nor they have money to visit each other, and in order to have enough money to actually survive, we gotta work. which costs time, so we dont have the time to even think about how to form a meaningful connection.
at the end of the day, everything, fucking EVERYTHING boils down to money and how much free time people have (which also depends on how much money they have)
deezmonian@reddit
I think you’re absolutely correct. I think a majority of social issues are manufactured in order to distract from the economic ones, which are the true cause of people’s misery. People don’t have kids because they cannot afford the opportunity cost of taking time away from work. People don’t have sex because third spaces (neither work nor home) are being eroded by an increased, manufactured sense of isolation.
All of these issues, manufactured or real, tie back to the capital class and their efforts to maintain their wealth and success. Just looking at the US currently, seeing billionaires like Thiel and Musk back the GOP only re-affirms this, to be honest.
Scorkami@reddit
I once read somewhere that this also fucks over the whole "mens place in the world/masculinity" part.
Like you cant be expected to be the breadwinner provider and protector of your family if, even with your partner supporting you both are hanging by a thread. (This just being one example)
The economy being in a good place for anyone but stock market traders and billionaires would solve like 90% of the countries problems in less than 10 years. It always boils down to people having time off work and money to spend their free time well
gumpters@reddit
You know, the old usual. Strong family structure with in tact communal ties, teach the children responsibility young no sex outside of marriage, help build strong men who care for and would die to protect their women (not just physically, but in the day to day little ways to make her happy and fulfilled), build strong women who love their men and care for them and their families with their whole heart and nurture the richness of the family life, God at the center of it all as the Sumo Bonom (the greatest good from which all other goods and virtues flow outwards to the people around us) Basically the good life.
No, but in all honestly I get that’s not happening anytime soon so real life baby steps solutions for individuals, no sex before marriage, men care for and protect women, women care for and love men, reach out and help the community (maybe donate at a food shelter) Oh and before all that love God with all your heart, mind, body, and soul. Pray a little every day.
Pulp_NonFiction44@reddit
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
Faust_the_Faustinian@reddit
Why you sound like a religious nut?
gumpters@reddit
Because I am religious lol.
Faust_the_Faustinian@reddit
I can tell lmao still a lot of the religious folk I know are not this extreme.
Like, not banginf until marriage? Why do you need a legal binding to fuck someone?
deezmonian@reddit
Ok, I get that you’re coming from a perspective of Christian ethics, I understand why you’d come to those conclusions.
We’re agreed that there is currently a social ill, but I think I might contend on a few ways to solve it. I think the communal ties part is spot on, though I am a leftist so that’s obvious I suppose. I think I take a bit of an issue with the prescription of limiting sex before marriage. From what I’ve seen, the data is pretty conclusive that abstinence is not a particularly effective method of preventing sexual activity. I think you might be conflating solutions for individuals to a broader societal solution, which I don’t blame you for at all. I think it’s just worth working off the knowledge that humans will always have sex, in or out of wedlock, and that is doesn’t necessarily have to be a societal ill in and of itself.
I think the food bank point is also interesting - again, I think interpersonally, it is absolutely a moral good to support, but I think as a societal issue, hunger can be much better addressed through social programs (i.e. food stamps, UBI) rather than just relying on the good will of those who can afford to give.
https://www.publichealth.columbia.edu/news/abstinence-only-education-failure#:~:text=%E2%80%9CWhile%20abstinence%20is%20theoretically%20effective,pregnancies%20or%20sexually%20transmitted%20diseases.%E2%80%9D
gumpters@reddit
I should probably add here I don’t want people to go to jail or anything or have some law that states no sex before marriage. It’s more like I want the societal standard and culture to be there. Like I want it to be more normal to save sex for marriage than to not.
But I’m glad we see eye to eye on the strong communal toes. I fogured that point wouldn’t be one super objected to lol. But it’s hugely important in my opinion.
I tend to like helping at a more local level just because it’s more personal and I think has less lost in the beautocratic tendency for oversight, but I agree that the government having national programs and incentives for the welfare of the poor can be a necessary and good component. That’s more of finding out what works than anything else imo.
deezmonian@reddit
I know there are some other people in this thread being a bit rude, but honestly at the root of your views I genuinely don’t see any malice at all, and I totally empathise with the preference for individual charity even on just a circumstantial level. Institutional change can often feel so hopeless that it’s often just nice to focus and do on what you can, where you can. If you’re helping out in your community already, well done and I hope you keep it up!
hunteram@reddit
"If things weren't they way they are, I totally wouldn't be a virgin"
No-Section-4385@reddit
And even at 40 he still got too dip his bread stick into the pot of cheese.
Deathnachos@reddit
Zoomers aren’t 40 but I don’t know a whole lot of 40yo virgins either way.
Horrorifying@reddit
I don't think Zoomers can be 40 yet.
DiabeticRhino97@reddit
Confirmed, oldest zoomers are 28
BusinessAd5844@reddit
The oldest are 27, and "zoomer" is a mindset.
DiabeticRhino97@reddit
Untrue. My brother was born in the beginning of 96, and is considered a zoomers at 28
Consistent-Rise7770@reddit
It's 1997... midwit.
BusinessAd5844@reddit
You downvote all you want, doesn't make me incorrect. Go Google it if you don't believe me.
BusinessAd5844@reddit
Gen Z is most frequently being defined as people born from 1997 to 2012. He's a millennial/zillennial.
Mroatcake1@reddit
Shit a brick!
That must make me nearly middle age... but I was only 18 like 5 years ago, honest!
American Idiot was released, Superman died, the Red Sox won the World Series, Sherk 2...
MDunn14@reddit
We can’t I think the oldest we can be rn is 28
jonasnee@reddit
29 actually, 1995 is usually considered the start of the zoomer generation.
BusinessAd5844@reddit
No it isn't. 1997 is, y'all keep moving the goal posts whenever it's convenient. 1997-2012 are Gen Z. Oldest are 27.
jonasnee@reddit
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zillennials
MDunn14@reddit
Thanks! I have seen 95-97 depending on source but we’re def not over 30
ARLDN@reddit
The easy way to remember it is that if someone was of the age to be a K-12 student on Jan 1, 2000 then they're a millenial. If younger than that then they're a Zoomer, if older than that then they're Gen X.
mistersausage@reddit
If they remember 9/11 actually happening? Millennial. Younger, zoomer.
mariokartmta@reddit
I think the generation thing is kinda weird for me, I'm from 95 but in my experience most people born up to 97 don't really (or are not clearly) identified by either generation. I myself lean towards identifying as millennial but I also got some of the zoomer humor, and not much of the vocabulary. I feel like I'm part of a "lost generation".
RtHonJamesHacker@reddit
This happens with every generation because you'll naturally have more in common with people born 1 or 2 years after you than the 1 or 2 decades before you. For that year range, it's often called 'Zillenial'.
Stinky_WhizzleTeats@reddit
Millennials are 40 year old virgins. Zoomers are 30 year old virgins
PlusSizeRussianModel@reddit
Zoomers can’t be 30 yet either.
tukatu0@reddit
They are in a year. 13 months to 2026.
BusinessAd5844@reddit
That's a Millennial. Gen Z began in 1997.
One-Yak-6088@reddit
Zoomers are 27 at the oldest. Gen Z began in 1997. They'd be 29 in 2026.
Stinky_WhizzleTeats@reddit
Zoomers start at 94-97 depending on who you ask
Throwaway74829947@reddit
Zooomers are defined as having been born in the mid-late 90s through to the early 2010s. The earliest I saw was 1995, but in general the consensus is 1997-2012. I will tell you right now, that as a person born in 1994 I very much feel more like a member of the Millennial cohort than I do the Zoomers.
seastatefive@reddit
You can identify with whichever generation you prefer. Birth date is just one factor. Your interests, influences and hobbies are a better indicator of the generation you belong to. Plus or minus a decade is fine.
Throwaway74829947@reddit
In that case I choose to identify as Gen Alpha. Goo goo gaa gaa motherfuckers.
seastatefive@reddit
If you want to, who am I to stop you? All power to you, baby.
Throwaway74829947@reddit
Gen alpha (by conventional age ranges) is 12 at the oldest, so unless they're particularly gifted they're barely in middle school.
seastatefive@reddit
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Alpha
Maybe 14 at the oldest.
FantasmaBizarra@reddit
dystopian rule
Matt_2504@reddit
Jorjor Well
boobiewatcher69420@reddit
Nobody ever understands when I say this
Phendrana-Drifter@reddit
My favourite phantom menace character
T-D-Leon@reddit
Most millennial aren't either.
Jazz-Solo@reddit
I already feel like I'm 40.
vincecarterskneecart@reddit
literally unplayable meme
vice_butthole@reddit
Thats because you arent grinding hard enough 😤
I oldmaxed myself to be 60 and retired we aren't the same
Bodine12@reddit
It’s more aspirational for them.
Bodine12@reddit
It’s more aspirational for them.
undreamedgore@reddit
2020 litterally aged us 20 years.
ResponsibleStep8725@reddit
Nice, I found an excuse for starting my stories with "back in my day..."
Supershadow30@reddit
Holy shit
WoolooOfWallStreet@reddit
Zoomers only ‘look’ 40
Nisecon@reddit
Literally 1984
Automatic-Ass-Name13@reddit
It’s literally from that part of the book when Winston Smith is being tortured and interrogated
bell37@reddit
You don’t have to be 40 years of age to act like a 40-year old virgin.
MrDraco999@reddit
I mean I'm 28 and still a virgin so, I'm pretty much getting there. If I haven't gotten laid yet, it's safe to assume I WONT get laid in future lmao.
Pablovansnogger@reddit
I has the same thought, but happened less than a year ago at 27 for me.
Reptilesblade@reddit
I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 28. And I lost it to my wife.
Manifest the change you want to see in the world.
Syncrossus@reddit
It depends. If you change nothing in your life, you're likely correct. However, you may just have been stuck in the same place with the same crowd for the past 5 years and just haven't created any opportunities for yourself. Changing jobs, moving somewhere different, and/or taking up an extracurricular may allow you to create opportunities to find someone. Also doing everything you can to be attractive in terms of looks (working out, clothing yourself properly, getting your teeth fixed if need be, taking care of your skin) and smell (proper hygiene including oral hygiene) makes a big difference.
deezmonian@reddit
I feel like that’s kind of manifesting your own inaction there, no? I mean, unless you’re happy to be one, in which case absolute power to you
Vlad_The_Great_2@reddit
Millennials and older definitely. Even though they are a minority of men, I see what leads to this. Literally not putting in the effort to talk to women or actually seek a relationship. If you tried talking to a woman once 5 years ago, I don’t know how you expect to ever get a girlfriend or get laid. Some guys I met take the female approach and just assume it will happen like magic. I don’t recommend a man ever take this approach unless he’s a celebrity or extremely attractive. Other guys I know have been out of shape, broke, or too shy. You can get a girlfriend with some shortcomings, but you can’t have a laundry list of shortcomings you’re not actually trying to fix and expect a girlfriend to just walk into your life.
LemonFlavoredMelon@reddit
My friends still tease me that this is my autobiography...
I have new friends.
LLLLLLover@reddit
The main character of that film has many friends and women who are attracted to him. Not really a relatable scenario for lonely men these days
BathTubBand@reddit
And there is a place to go outside. Where you could reasonably start a business and not have youths come in and ruin it or the rent be only affordable to JAMBERJOOS
__VOMITLOVER@reddit
Why do you people talk like this
BathTubBand@reddit
What should I say in its place for “Troublesome teenagers”?
(I was a piece of shit teenager in the eyes of society at the time. I am on the side of punk teens. I’m cool!! Hell, If laws weren’t so mid and bogus right now I would be out at the local Forrest throwing keggers and helping you all steal cars from the rich. Alas, I fear the stockades.) Anyway be kind to yourself inside of your minds, youths! Haha :)
fatfuckpikachu@reddit
has his own house as far as i remember and that puts him above several layers lmao.
DiarrheaDrippingCunt@reddit
Yes, it is true because the majority here are terminally online neckbeards with no other purpose in life than moving pixels around on a monitor and calling themselves gaeymers.
Metal_Matt@reddit
Damn, moving pixels on a monitor is brutal
liberalhellhole@reddit
Thank you for your great contribution to this post Mr. DiarrheaDrippingCunt
Previous_Air_9030@reddit
Yep. When I was in highschool/college it was super easy to get dates. Funny how it all dries up when I work in a male dominated industry and hobbies that involve making rocks shiny.
StooNaggingUrDum@reddit
Um, EXCUSE me, I have a CD collection too.
GGudMarty@reddit
The whole world changed around 1995-2000. You can literally just sit at home and entertain yourself for hours on Xbox. Back before then 99% of kids were normal and they’ll go out in middle school high school, be social get into trouble socialize. Now my wife’s younger cousins will literally sit on their computer all weekend and talk to their male friends over video games/discord and that’s pretty much all they do. This is a good chunk of gen Z males.
Back when I was in HS, 2008-2012 you had to be a little autistic to not get any pussy but these kids nowadays it’s the norm
mistersausage@reddit
I think you're right but off on the year. The early Internet was not bad.
2005 is when things really changed with the start of Xbox Live. Before then, people went to each other's houses to play Mario Kart, GoldenEye, Halo, etc.
Glitzarka@reddit
if you aren't getting laid by age 40, just work and make money and buy more video games. who cares at that point
FireFrostYPog@reddit
Just 5 more years for me and i plan to rewatch it on my birthday. 🤣
SaddamIsBack@reddit
Some millennial are still virgin ? Oo
_Volatile_@reddit
It'll be true in about 16 years
ablebagel@reddit
millions? fucking hell, sucks to be those guys i guess. i lost it at 15, being a introverted loser, and crazy sought me out without even trying.
i genuinely think these chuds just don’t wash, and verbally berate any woman who speaks above twelve decibels in their presence
Hailreaper1@reddit
Yeah. No one I know is in this situation yet online it’s an epidemic.
ablebagel@reddit
i think the proof of that is the downvotes we’re getting.
if i wanted to really make them mad, id say that not only did i fuck, but i currently fuck. in fact, i fuck various third parties together with my girlfriend.
but i wouldn’t say that
Hailreaper1@reddit
Sad wee cretins too scared to talk to a woman so they build up all this resentment. Use their silly little terms to explain why they’re lonely. Nothing to do with their personality of course.
ablebagel@reddit
nooooo never
couldn’t have anything to do with that could it
yamfun@reddit
Western feminists should have invented lab grown pregnancy before whatever they have been pushing for about family/gender value changes
Because what they did now is reducing the population count of the liberal free world and in the future the world population will be dominated by Muslim society birth rate and forever dooming female rights ironically.
liberalhellhole@reddit
Muslims have like 5 kids with each of their wives...while white women are trying to discover themselves and their sexuality until they reach 45.
Any-Yoghurt3815@reddit
I just accepted that there are things that are an integral part of the 'human experience' and I've missed them due to sheer ignorance or by misplaced priorities and that I'm less human for it. Resulting in my removal from the gene pool. it is what it is
HarryBoBarry2000@reddit
Zoomers are 27 at the oldest. Regardless, bros before hoes.
SoupaMayo@reddit
Damn so I'm a zoomer, that sucks
BirbsAreSoCute@reddit
Why?
Red_Blast@reddit
Wait so people born at 1998 are zoomers?
HarryBoBarry2000@reddit
1997.
WintersbaneGDX@reddit
Skibidi before poonani
DefinetelyNotAnOtaku@reddit
Yeah but not everyone is gay so bros before hoes might not work as well as it fid for you.
Qverlord37@reddit
I just bought a house, I am a home owner before I could lose my virginity. Shit is tough out there.
DankElderberries420@reddit
When this movie came out I was in high school. Typical 4chins regard, looks too, no money
No sex the whole time, just dry rubbing and making out, 99% of dates led to blue balls.
We break up. Immediately go on POF. First chick that talks to me there wants to meet. And she's a freakkk. Crazy af so I sent her packing after first few times (she was only in my state for a limited time, less than a year). Fat af, don't care had sex.
Been more than a decade since then.
At least I'm not a 40 YO virgin. Probably would have ropemaxxed long before then
SweetTooth275@reddit
Zoomers unlike milenials aren't afraid of procreating
MechwolfMachina@reddit
Procreating without stable careers/housing/long term goals/mental maturity is extremely regarded.
NeverFraudulentAgain@reddit
It's what our ancestors did for generations
SweetTooth275@reddit
Well, milenials in majority have none of those yet they refuse to do it. While zoomers understand that these are things that YOU regulate and prioritize while in the moment. Zoomers have infinitely more mental maturity than milenials, which is exactly why milenials refuse to procreate - they're infantile.
SideWinder18@reddit
I’m 25 and one of the oldest members of GenZ. This is for sure not a reality for Gen Z
HardCorey23@reddit
Time comes for us all
yamfun@reddit
I remember he has Ultima Online in his room
alpine-goblin@reddit
Saw that movie recently and had this voice whispering in my head "oh god, this is actually going to be me in 20 years" (if I make it that far, lol)
HardCorey23@reddit
You're gonna have a happy ending (wedding, beautiful wife, lots of dancing etc.)???
arandombuilder@reddit
Real
Silver_Orange_3653@reddit
inb4 just be confident bro
Unhappy_Owl5339@reddit
Millions? In America alone, definitely not.
Scarab_Kisser@reddit
good thing the film about three digits body count meatsock wouldn't be so interesting to watch
295DVRKSS@reddit
The key is to sell everything they own on eBay and be friends with Seth Rogen
FHFH913@reddit
"Huehuehuehue"
MetaByte7@reddit
And Ant-Man! Don't forget about him
wordjedi@reddit
Nothing gets the pussy off the pedestal like liquidating your action figures
iSeize@reddit
There is lots of solid advice in that movie good for a guy any age
PlantKey@reddit
I went to Vegas and got jerked off by a cute Chinese woman but didn't lose my virginity. I'm 29 right now
DazedPhotographer@reddit
The solution is to get into ultrarunning
Mr_Kool@reddit
I'm turning 30 and shared my pessimistic outlook on life and relationships with my Dad.
He compared me to this movie.
inconsiderateapple@reddit
Wow, a whole 4 generations of people that don't know how to properly form a functioning relationship? Who would've thought that that would ever happen in the failing modern world caused by ignorance of greed and complacency!
inthebushes321@reddit
Yeah, well that's what happens when an entire generation of young men go down the regarded right-wing rabbit hole cause they A) Are failed by the education system and can't research or reason for shit and B) Don't have anything in particular going for them to support the spineless neoliberals that call themselves the Left.
It's a natural progression unfortunately.
MechwolfMachina@reddit
Right wing/Left wing is all a social construct create by the elites to create infighting. Our offsprings are becoming less viable to form stable relationships themselves while celebs have 5-6 baby mamas. That’s what we should truly be talking about, not whether muh right wing or muh left wing views bad.
ttv_highvoltage@reddit
The political left is created by the elites? Lmao
The political system that advocates we kill the ruling class is definitely made by the ruling class elites buddy sure
MechwolfMachina@reddit
The Left and Right are constructs, yes. At the very heart of the American struggle is a class struggle. At the end of the day, Left wingers and Right wingers don’t have a dog in each other’s lives. They just don’t want to allocate the government’s resources one way or another. That’s where their disagreement lies. If you spend 5 minutes off the internet you will quickly realize this. And no, the system is just a series of checks and balances that are superficial at the end of the day if revolution pops off. The elites won’t allow policy to harm them. They aren’t beholden to rules and the majority of their equity isn’t even in the US.
inthebushes321@reddit
Hey I'm not a liberal or a conservative, but US framing and all that, and that's what's happening in the US. I have more in common with a miner from Oklahoma or a Common Brown Rat than I do with a billionaire, and I know it.
Onesharpman@reddit
Not really. I'd say being a virgin at 40 is still seen as a joke. It's just Reddit and /tv/ bubbles, that are often filled with these 40 year old virgins, that make it seem otherwise.
OtherwisePudding4047@reddit
I’m 20 and can confirm I’m a 40 year old virgin
trident_hole@reddit
I'm sorry
OtherwisePudding4047@reddit
Life’s hard being 20 and 40 at the same time
trident_hole@reddit
As a 35 year old I can relate to that
Interface-@reddit
You're 30 and 5? My condolences.
trident_hole@reddit
One day I strive to be as high as you are
WietGetal@reddit
Nah bro this is insanity if i was almost 30 and still a virgin and i was desperate for sex id just fuck a prostitute or escort. But most incels have a horrible wrong mindset about sex, for some reason they think it wil fix their fucked up personality.
BaconDalek@reddit
Ok dude so what? Not fucking isn't such a big deal.
SambandsTyr@reddit
I'm pretty sure a lot of people were Virgins all throughout history.
gabo_erazo@reddit
Oldest zoomer is like 27 lmao
KnownAsAnother@reddit
Who needs it when there's unfettered access to materials of all kinds with one quick little internet search
prezado@reddit
lost to a hooker, i'm safe guys
MechwolfMachina@reddit
Your reproductive health is screaming
Calm_Structure2180@reddit
I would've went for a hooker if I was a 30 year old virgin.
96363@reddit
i'm tale end of millennials. i'm only 30.
Phobos687@reddit
Mf we zoomers are like rabbits tf you talking about
formation@reddit
So many wizards at Hogwarts
PepperoniVaperoni@reddit
Still a funny joke
Relaxulage@reddit
Give me another 19 years and I'll let you know if it's true
Fexcad@reddit
Literally true Literally just a skill issue with baby men crying
Melodic_Elderberry52@reddit
Real
hornwalker@reddit
Learn how to be kind, hygienic, sexually Coherent. Its not hard,
Opheodrys97@reddit
Cool but what do you do if you're scared of women?
An_Draoidh_Uaine@reddit
Well first off, you need to understand that your mother is not all women, and that women are just low-testosterone men moulded into society to be feminine and/or matriachal, femininity is a culture, a tribe.
Once you've done that, you just got bridge the cultural divide, they are men with tits and they will meet you halfway to be buddies if you put the effort in.
hornwalker@reddit
Vibrator in ass
cujoe88@reddit
What does being sexually coherent consist of?
hornwalker@reddit
Not sure I literally just made it up
Champomi@reddit
it's when you don't start a greentext with "be me, straight" to then write the gayest shit ever
An_Draoidh_Uaine@reddit
Lick the bean son.
nickos33d@reddit
Sex, coherence
DefinetelyNotAnOtaku@reddit
There are millions of kind people that are lonely and millions of unkind, unhygienic people who aren't. This is fake and gay
heckmeck_mz@reddit
Boomer take
heckmeck_mz@reddit
Also: That's what she said
ShortBrownAndUgly@reddit
On a semi related note, I do miss Apatow’s magic touch he seemed to have on the 2000s
No_Print77@reddit
Bro tried to sneak zoomer in there so he wouldn’t feel alone