Any stories of it NOT working out?

Posted by Quiet-Midnight-8169@reddit | expats | View on Reddit | 35 comments

Does moving abroad ever just not work out? A little back story from me, moved to Canada in the summer with my partner, both on work visas. We are almost 5 months in and it still just does not feel right. I miss home, I miss what I know, I miss my friends, I miss my family. Partners job is high demand and he doesn't like it. We wanted to come here to upgrade our lives, but we just feel like we've moved sideways instead. We haven't been able to enjoy being here due to just working all the time. This just isn't what we came here for. Our short term lease is up November 30th and we have to make the decision to either go home, sign another short term lease, or sign a 12 month and stick it out. I actually quite like my job here, but that's the only thing I'm enjoying. Winter is coming too and that's not going to help much. How do you cope with the thought of failure? With going back to the same country/area, same type of jobs etc when you initially moved to change your life, but it just hasn't worked out that way? It sucks so bad that we planned for 2-3 years but it could be over after 6 months. I wanted this to go well so badly.