Like what are talking about. Like i used like to denote an example of how a conversation would start. Like totally not the same thing as what I'm doing now. Like if you like your work and your proud ok like talk about it then i guess. But like also op is like bummed out he/she isn't proud or doesn't have a good job. Like i like my job and do it well but if I'm talking with someone new i want to talk about work as little as possible. Like if we talk about hobbies and stuff we can get to know each other and bond over shared interest or plan a date around them. But like talking about work what do i even do with that information like fill out a job application so we can like hang out?