Where the hell do you get your clothes (mainly asking the ladies, but anyone can answer)
Posted by OverMlMs@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 833 comments
I have been at a loss for where to shop. I don't want to look like some frumpy old, nor do I want half my shirt to be missing. I like dark, edgy, alt and comfort. I'm also not too interested in spending a fortune, but I want my clothes to last longer than a season. Where are these places?
Maleficent-Sport1970@reddit
Don't judge or laugh...I will get whatever looks good on me from wherever. Walmart, boutique, target, department store, Amazon and thrift. I'm a plus size and I have an eye for pieces that look like like quality and expensive.
silkywhitemarble@reddit
Have you shopped Torrid? They have mall locations and online as well. Torrid is Hot Topic's plus size division, and they have cute stuff. It gets pricey, but they usually have good sales. They have band t-shirts that are super soft and actually fit a woman's body. Lane Bryant is nice, but their stuff is kinda pricey, so I only shop their sales.
Walmart has actually gotten some nicer plus-sized clothes lately. They have more things that are stylish and less middle-aged lady looking.
Aryana314@reddit
Jeans/shorts/pants: Walmart or Kohls (bc I'm still plus size, it would be Target if I was smaller)
Tops: Amazon. They have a lot of funny graphic tees with saying/jokes on them I like.
You don't need a lot of clothes, either. I have two pairs of shorts, two pairs of jeans, and two pairs of slacks, along with 20 shirts/tops.
dietsoylentcola@reddit
i get some clothes at maurices and some handmade stuff from etsy.
jamiekynnminer@reddit
etsy has some pretty cool vintage stuff. i do invest in my jeans tho. cheap and stretchy look cheap and they don't last. A good pair or two of well made denim jeans will outlast you.
Icy_Outside5079@reddit
I agree. I don't like stretch in my denim. Good Jeans make everything look better
Affectionate-Map2583@reddit
I get heavy weight non-stretch jeans made to fit at makeyourownjeans.com. They're definitely high quality, but they do not outlast me because I do a lot of work in them. They do last for several years, though.
SpencerVerde@reddit
The basics…Loft, Ann Taylor, Banana Republic, J Crew (the latter two I usually shop/find their Factory versions more to my liking and, obviously cheaper), White House Black Market, Old Navy. The best work pants and suits I ever had—that fit me perfectly—were from The Limited. Still sad they closed.
Affectionate-Map2583@reddit
I've been vanity sized right out of being an adult human at many stores. I wore a 3/4 in high school and now I'm lucky if a 0 fits. It really makes me hate shopping.
tinka777@reddit
I was going to say Goodwill. Which is true, but these are the brands I usually get there. Plus Madewell, HandM, Target if they’re really cute and cheap.
Vast-Government-8994@reddit
Goodwill is super overpriced
tinka777@reddit
It is but it’s still cheaper than new. Dont have any other thrift stores near me, either.
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
Was going to say this! Their CEO makes a bundle, too.
St Vincent de Paul is my favorite go-to for clothes and shoes.
Significant_Most5407@reddit
Where is this store? Never heard of it.
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
I think it might just be in the Midwest, Cincinnati and there about.
Significant_Most5407@reddit
Thx
Vast-Government-8994@reddit
Never heard of it! We have Savers but they are getting stupid too
Inevitable_Tone3021@reddit
I still find lots of good stuff at Goodwill. Wearing a Ralph Lauren sweater today that I found there for about $7 and I also picked up a bunch of dress pants for work that were all around $4.99
I agree they are priced higher than other thrift stores but they have so much stuff it's a time saver. If I want work pants I can find 6 pairs to try on in a single rack.
I also hit up other thrift shops and vintage stores, anything second hand. It does take more time to hunt for & find quality pieces but I still favor the value of second hand over anything new. Department store quality has gotten so bad.
SpencerVerde@reddit
Oh yes, I totally forgot Target! They have great basics and trendy (H&M too). Never bought Madewell but hear good things.
ToothyCraziness@reddit
Idk, Target’s stuff is weird now, much too young for me
top_value7293@reddit
I do buy all my tees at target in the colors and I’m an old lady lol.. but I do know what you mean
Justdonedil@reddit
The trick is finding the right Target. I've got 1 with great clothing selection, 2 with good clothing selection, and 1 with horrible clothing selection. Online is easy enough to deliver and return to a store, though.
VioletaBlueberry@reddit
Even better when they have Madewell at the rack. (It's the same parent company as JCrew)
violet715@reddit
I miss the Limited so much! I’m an attorney and lived in their suits. It’s so hard to find a good suit as a woman these days that aren’t like, grandma funeral or cheap SHEIN crap. I’ve taken to just dresses with blazers.
avajune20@reddit
I had so many high quality outfits from The Limited. I loved their suits, jeans, sweaters, everything.
Gragegrl@reddit
My sister is an attorney and also had a hard time time with suits. She gets them at J Crew.
ThisSpaceIntLftBlnk@reddit
Calvin Klein, Anne Klein, and Kasper are my go-tos for suits, although I usually wind up cutting out/replacing the lining in the Kasper jackets. They don't breathe at ALL!
If you know your style/sizes for specific brands, Poshmark all the way!
ecbcbear@reddit
I love Old Navy’s Skinny work pants. I’ve got them in several colors. They wash well. Dry well. And stand up to repeat wear/washings.
nerdyjenious@reddit
Pixie pants, FTW.
Icy_Outside5079@reddit
The high waisted pixie skinny pants are a game changer. I have 2 black, navy, red and plan on buying more. The fit me perfectly because I have the opposite of today's current bootie fashion. My husband is constantly asking me where my a$$ went🤭
PatchWorkFlower@reddit
I went to buy some new ones and they all seem to be high waist. My fat gut is not a fan.
Gragegrl@reddit
Mid rise and low rise are made a comeback. It’s not great for me because I love high waisted for my big belly, Madewell discontinued my favorite skinny jeans. I hope you find what you’re looking for 💙
PatchWorkFlower@reddit
Thanks. Hope you find some too! Shopping for pants sucks enough already, it makes it worse when they take away what you know works for you.
ecbcbear@reddit
I usually don’t like high waisted pants but these don’t seem to bother me. But - I have a bigger butt than gut so that could be the difference for me.
LevelPerception4@reddit
I still have a pair of shortalls I bought from The Limited in the mid-90s. They might still fit my ass, but I’m pretty sure my boobs have permanently expanded beyond the bib.
Apropos of nothing, I went to Old Navy recently because my jeans are starting a hole. I knew I’d lost some weight, so I brought some size eights in the fitting room as well as size tens and they were all too big! I have NEVER been a size six, in fact, I was a size 10 in the early 90s when I weighed 30lbs less. But I will give Old Navy and vanity sizing their due: it felt amazing! 5/5, highly recommend.
sheila9165milo@reddit
The sizes were changed in the 90s by clothing manufacturers. I wore a size 12/14 at 150 lbs in the early 90s, gained 30+ pounds once I started dating my second husband and went up to a 16 pretty fast. Flash forward to 98, lost the 30+ pounds, and I'm now wearing 10s again. I was like WTF? Once the Internet became more info-based, I looked it up. Then there's the godawful size differences between clothing manufacturers that can be up to 1" difference in the waist for pants...
LevelPerception4@reddit
My size has fluctuated a LOT over the years, and the biggest thing I’ve learned is to just get rid of clothes that don’t fit. Even when I’ve lost weight so they fit, my body has usually changed somehow so they no longer fit the same, like my ass is smaller so now they’re too long.
newhappyrainbow@reddit
They’ve gone more in that direction over the years. I’ve worn the same jeans from there for forever. An 8 15 years ago is NOT the same as it is today.
LevelPerception4@reddit
The funny thing is that if I’d tried on the size 8 jeans at Old Navy and they fit (especially if they were a little tight), I would have bought them immediately and they would be my new skinny jeans. Because they were too big, it was somewhat disorienting. I put them back until I can find some time to try on a pair of Levis and get a better idea of what size I really am.
I tend to buy jeans too big because I want the pair that fits perfectly in the fitting room, but I really need the jeans that I can barely button/zip to accommodate stretching. I have several pairs now that I can pull on/off without unbuttoning or unzipping them.
WaltonGogginsTeeth@reddit
Big time vanity sizing. I’m the size I was when I was 15 according to Old Navy.
Jbyrdyogi@reddit
If you really want a run in vanity sizing, buy something at Athleta. I have an xxs small jacket and an xs pair of pants that are huge on me. I am not xxs (or even xs for that matter lol)
FuzzyScarf@reddit
I think Athleta is still one of the companies owned by Gap, just like ON. So vanity sizing wouldn’t be surprising.
LevelPerception4@reddit
In my experience, I’m a size bigger at Gap than I am at Old Navy and possibly two sizes bigger at Banana Republic.
Jbyrdyogi@reddit
Ah yes, you are right, totally makes sense.
Ok-Sport-5528@reddit
I’m actually in a smaller size now than I was at 15 and I weigh more! 🤣 None of this makes any sense! I hate that all these stores do this!
luckyluckyone@reddit
Wait - Old Navy has vanity sizing? Thanks a lot for bursting my bubble 😂
ElectronicPOBox@reddit
So I tried to explain to my husband the other day that like size 14 didn’t actually have a measurement equation fixed to it. He felt sure I misunderstood his question and asked it six different ways. His mind was absolutely blown that it wasn’t just like size 14 is some kind of placeholder for 34x32. Because I’m basically a cruel person, then I explained bra cups/band sizes. He will never recover.
Meridienne@reddit
Hahaha! Poor man!
peicatsASkicker@reddit
because I am a cruel person lol
Objective-Amount1379@reddit
That’s hilarious. And you can’t blame him, women’s clothing sizing is so illogical
West_Egg3842@reddit
YES. I’ve had to explain to my husband that sizes are not universal. I can be a 10 at one store, 8 at another, 14 at another and 12 at the next. I hate it lmao
Tomorrow_Wendy_13@reddit
It's gotten worse. I've bought my normal Old Navy sizes in recent months and had to return because everything was falling off.
wondercat171@reddit
This! I just ordered a pair of jeans and a coat from old navy. I ordered both a size smaller than I normally get and I’m swimming in both of them. Glad the returns will be easy.
jess3114@reddit
FYI You only have 30 days! After that they won't even give you a store credit!
wondercat171@reddit
I learned that lesson the hard way, unfortunately. Back to the store this week!
marshdd@reddit
Talbot has vanity sizing.
No-Guard-7003@reddit
Whenever I visit with relatives in New Hampshire, it's mainly Talbots these days. Bass went out of business for some strange reason and I love that store, too.
iloathethebus@reddit
Talbot’s is great for basics.
No-Guard-7003@reddit
Right? I can wear one pair of cords with pretty much anything.
iloathethebus@reddit
R.I.P. The Limited. They evolved as their customers aged. I started shopping there in middle school and was still shopping there when they closed because they seemed to grow with their market.
Also worked there in college. Loved that discount and some other incentives we got ($5 per pant/skirt, $10 per blazer). I was never as well-dressed as I was when I worked there!
It technically still exists as a private label at Belk, but it’s still not the same.
Apotts1979@reddit
The Limited is online now.
Living_on_Tulsa_Time@reddit
Oh really? Thanks.
Living_on_Tulsa_Time@reddit
I loved The Limited! Great clothes. Sigh.
ginger_kitty97@reddit
If you have a Belk, they sell Limited. It's a small (limited?) selection, but I've found some good stuff.
AlfalfaUnable1629@reddit
Jones New York too
GratefulPhD@reddit
SAME! I loved The Limited!!! 😩 I’m tall and their pants fit me better than any I’ve ever found.
No_Zebra2692@reddit
you can still buy The Limited from belk.com
I may or may not have bought a work suit from there recently (never mind I WFH)
Sea_One_6500@reddit
Banana Republic factory has been killing it recently with me. Their stuff has held up well for me.
Kinae66@reddit
Chicos
stuck_behind_a_truck@reddit
Banana Republic Factory has been surprisingly consistent for me. And Amazon.
blue_dendrite@reddit
Ohhh I remember those pants from the Limited. Had them in every color. Snazzy and comfy.
Adept_Confusion7125@reddit
I love White House Black Market.
SpencerVerde@reddit
Same. Especially when you catch a great sale!
xena1princess@reddit
Kohls, torrid,little old navy
Sea_Marble@reddit
Thrift stores.
confabulatrix@reddit
Target and Kohls
vabeachkevin@reddit
Forever 21
Snoozinsioux@reddit
Second hand; thrift stores, Poshmark, etc. know what lasts (good quality fabrics) and learn how to properly launder your stuff. Don’t keep your clothes in piles on the floor. As far as not looking frumpy, get your clothes tailored and find your true fits (for example, I have to get most things in petite sizes and my partner most things in a tall.) If you find pants you love but are too long or gap in the back, take them to a seamstress or learn to do it yourself. Sleeves too long on a shirt or jacket? Have them brought up.
zoezephyr@reddit
Old Navy is surprisingly adequate.
ResearcherHeavy9098@reddit
Costco, REI, J Crew, Banana Republic. I do dress pretty casual.
wickedlees@reddit
I buy most of my designer stuff on Poshmark or other resale sites
kmurrda@reddit
THRIFT STORES! If you really look, you can find GOOD STUFF.
90% of my wardrobe is thrifted :)
Mediocre-Studio2573@reddit
Goodwill I'm on fixed income with everything so expensive, I can dress nicely pretty cheap.
CaptainFlynnsGriffin@reddit
Sounds like you need a little Eileen Fisher in your life. I’m also a fan of some Anne Klein staples (blouses, tunic) and also adding in a unique wardrobe topper by Johnny Was. And I’m back to the gap or Frame for denim basics.
For shoes I finally got smart and I buy men’s athletic shoes - the smaller sizes are usually a steal and the toe box is more generous and the height of the shoe comfortably accommodates high arches without going up two sizes. I’m also a fan of more unisexed German brands like halfinger (uggs have copied their styles this year) for a more accommodating shoe that isn’t a floppy wide width. I also find men’s sizing to be extremely standard across all brands.
You’ll find your style. My kiddo describes me as a “comfort punk” and I prefer to think of myself as nicely put together with a side of “she could pull a kitten out of nowhere”.
HamBroth@reddit
Well my style is different from yours, but I opt for quality these days - stuff that I will still be wearing in 20 years. I shop a lot at AYR.com and ME+EM. I also like Patagonia and Soia And Kyo for outerwear. Cuyana and Peruvian Connection also make it into my rotation. Occasionally I’ll buy something at Aritzia because I like some of their summer linen-blend drawstring pants for pj bottoms and their varying styles of sweatshirts are fun and cozy.
For shoes I buy at Beek and Nisolo the most.
Nope-ugh@reddit
I mostly work in the starfish pants from Lands end. They have petite and are very forgiving. I also occasionally buy j Jill pants also.
JustAnnesOpinion@reddit
Target has several lines with appeal for adults who like to look well put together on a budget. For more of a splurge, I favor Nordstrom. It has fairly frequent sales, which you can track on the Nordstrom app. Talbots can have some finds during seasonal sales, and I like that they have a distinct full line of petites.
The sins of fast fashion have spread to a range of stores that aren’t considered fast fashion, so check for sturdy seams, stitching that isn’t unraveling and fabric that looks like it will last through multiples washes. Look carefully at sweaters before you buy one; I’ve noticed some in supposedly nicer stores that have started to pill just being on display and maybe being tried on a time or two.
lockmama@reddit
Walmart, Tractor Supply, occasionally Kohls, TJMaxx, Gabe's.
Lastxleviathan@reddit
I shop at Target, Aeropostale and Hollister. I'm 40 but I don't like looking like a grandma, either, and that seems to be most of what places like Macys are peddling these days.
ParticularCurious956@reddit
Duluth is pretty good for basics. I wish they had more color options, but I haven't been disappointed by anything I bought there. They remind me of the old Land's End, pre-Sears debacle.
Older Land's End stuff, if you can find it. The new stuff is over priced garbage, imo, and seems unclear on who their target demographic is.
Just thinking about what I wear the most - almost everything that I've bought in the last few years has come from REI or other sporting goods stores.
Chickwithknives@reddit
Duluth trading company for those less familiar.
Might also try LLBean.
I hardly buy anything anymore. The things I need most are jeans and it seems impossible to find any I like. I just want a mid rise non-skinny pair that actually comes down to my ankles or a little farther so they don’t look high water with tennis shoes.
ItHasBigEyes@reddit
I love L L Bean all cotton jeans. Sorry, but they remind me of mom jeans from the 80s. They fit my weird shape so well. Im the weirdo at thrift store checking for 100% cotton jeans and shorts. I don’t do well with stretchy, I want something firm to hold my mommy tummy in.
UpDownCharmed@reddit
Silver Jeans. Amazing. For women, plus size, and men.
There is a big secondary market for gently used pairs on eBay. Much less pricewise
ParticularCurious956@reddit
The last time I needed jeans I ended up getting them from Kohl's, their store brand. My kids were slightly horrified at the time, but American Eagle had stopped carrying the style that I liked and after going to every store in the mall and trying on so many pairs I lost track, it was the Kohl's basics that came through. Straight, not skinny, mid rise, a little stretch but they don't stretch out and get too loose during the day.
New_Perspective_5399@reddit
Try Walmart Time and True brand
Friendly_Jellyfish71@reddit
LL Bean is really good, and underrated, I think. Stuff lasts forever.
joyunauthorized@reddit
It sucks that Lands End has gone so far downhill. We call it Land Fill now
New_Perspective_5399@reddit
And what’s with their creepy AI looking website models? YUCK
Gragegrl@reddit
💯their photos are so bad
ohblessyerheart@reddit
Love Duluth, get on the mailing list and watch for sales. Pants have actual pockets that you can put stuff in. Shout out for NoGa naturale cotton pants, super comfy but look like dressier pants.
elspotto@reddit
You mean green, tan, brown, and black aren’t enough colors? lol
Their firehose shirt-jacket is about my favorite cold weather coat. Held up to a ton of abuse as well. Even beats out my second hand, first life was spent in the limestone quarry near Wytheville Carhartt chore coat. Yes, I know where it was before I bought it. Dude mentioned he’d worn it for years, when I bought it and saw it shipped from Wytheville, I asked.
New_Perspective_5399@reddit
Love Duluth but it seems their selection is shrinking?
UncleFlip@reddit
Discovered Duluth couple years ago. Can be pricey, but their stuff is quality.
RedditSkippy@reddit
Need to check out Duluth. I’ve been growing more and more disappointed by Lands End, which has been my go-to for basics for decades at this point.
Any_Positive_9658@reddit
Nordstrom
FormerMidnight09@reddit
Yes! OP you might like Open Edit. Saw it in Nordstrom the other day.
gojane9378@reddit
Their Wit & Wisdom jeans are great for meno belly, stretchy and reasonable price. Love! Plus, Nordstrom is just pleasant to shop in.
heathers1@reddit
are they stretchy in the waist but clingy in the butt and legs? are they high waist for the muffin top? asking for a friend
gojane9378@reddit
Okay, tell your friend...The waist has a wide band, wider & softer than normal jeans but not like pregnancy jeans. The rest of the fabric is stretchy and a nice quality so it holds you well. Some styles have a high waist for the muffin. And they're like half the price of higher end jeans. And they're not made by a Kardashian lol
heathers1@reddit
Oooo! I will tell her to look into it! ;)
ThisSpaceIntLftBlnk@reddit
Thanks for the heads up!
Democracy AbSolution pants are good for meno belly too! You occasionally need to size up a little, but they're some of the most flattering pants I've found in a while!
Any_Positive_9658@reddit
I could see that. No weight gain here but I know many do
DebbieGlez@reddit
I love Nordstrom. They have free personal shoppers. I call, tell them what I need and they have it waiting when I get there.
Sparklefanny_Deluxe@reddit
THANK YOU I had no idea
ThePicassoGiraffe@reddit
Their salespeople get paid on commission
DebbieGlez@reddit
I’m glad because they are completely awesome.
Hepkat98@reddit
I worked there for a few years..... it's a great company to work for. They treat the workers pretty well. ALWAYS take advantage of the free tailoring. It makes a world of difference in how your clothes fit, feel, and look.
Any_Positive_9658@reddit
Free returns.. tailoring.. high and low end that you can mix and it looks fabulous
BDACPA@reddit
This is what I do. I mix clothes from Target with clothes from Nordstrom. Plus the Nordstrom Basic brand is excellent.
DebbieGlez@reddit
100%!!!
Ok-Heart375@reddit
And The Rack
eventualguide0@reddit
💯 I appreciate that I can find anything from work clothes to swimsuits to concert gear at Nordstrom Rack. That and places like Chico’s (though I find their clothes totally hit or miss) or Old Navy.
Feeling-Visit1472@reddit
When did Chico’s get so cool?
Winnie-booboo@reddit
My clothes are a mix of browsing a really good Clothes Mentor, TJ Maxx, Costco. Shoes and unmentionables I spend significantly more.
Sunshinegemini611@reddit
I buy my jeans from BJs. I get the Nine West and Seven brands of stretchy jeans for under $20 a pair. With menopause, my weight fluctuates a lot and the Seven brand is basically 3 sizes in one & they are comfortable to eat in.
Wow. Just read those last 4 words. Teenage me would be horrified at how my jean requirements have changed. My criteria used to be, “Are they tight enough and do they make my butt look good?” Now it’s, “Can I stuff my face and not have these jeans strangle me?” 😂
QuietMind765@reddit
Teenage me would have DIED that adult me chooses elastic waistbands.
AsparagusNo3333@reddit
Democracy jeans feel like yoga pants and look like real jeans.
They have an elastic/stretch waistband but it’s hidden inside a normal looking waistbands. Not our mom’s from the 80’s full on elastic waisted mom jeans.
theeWildOlive@reddit
That’s all I’ve owned for years. Love them and they still gave some that are not so high waisted. Hate high rise! 😆. Used to get them at Rack but now buy them on Amazon
QuietMind765@reddit
Thank you! I'll check em out.
myprana@reddit
Marshall’s carries seven too. Currently the brand of my fav pair.
Last-Secret370@reddit
Marcella, Alice and Olivia, Rag+Bone, Spanx, Veronica Beard, Viori
Time_Garden_2725@reddit
Target and Amazon basic. I do not have alot of money and I am retired.
Repulsive_Report_277@reddit
I wait for the Everlane and Madewell sales. I really like the quality and the fits are modern but modest enough for work while still being able to be dressed up
RustyRapeAxeWife@reddit
Actually I find designers I like and search for them on Poshmark and eBay.
No_Stage_6158@reddit
Zara, H&M, Banana Republic, JCrew, Uniqlo, adidas both iterations of Nordstrom.
mslisath@reddit
Second all of these esp Uniqlo
When_Do_We_Eat@reddit
Consignment stores are great, better quality than thrift stores because they are either unworn or gently worn. But you can find good things at thrift stores too, just depends on which one you shop at.
White House Black Market
J. Jill
Banana Republic
Free People
VoraciousReader59@reddit
Ross, Old Navy
bakscoobin@reddit
I’ve had recent luck at Quince. Reasonably priced washable silk.
Icy_Outside5079@reddit
I've been 🤔 about Quince. I see many recommendations on this post. I think I'll give them a try. Cashmere is my jam.
BootyMcSqueak@reddit
For edgier, goth stuff I shop at Midnight Hour.
MrsZerg@reddit
Kohls and Belk
Kissing13@reddit
I order all my clothes through e-shakti. You can customize the style (neckline, sleeve length, hemline) pick a different fabric if you like a style but not the pattern. You can even have it custom made to your measurements, and even if you use a standard size, they'll make it to your height (I usually add a couple inches or the waist is too high). Best off all, most of the dresses, skirts and pants come with POCKETS. Nice BIG sideseam pockets that will hold your phone, keys, lipstick and wallet. I haven't carried a purse in years.
https://www.eshakti.com/HowItWorks.aspx
olliegrace513@reddit
Loft
notodumbld@reddit
Coldwater Creek and Serengeti most often. Sometimes Chicos
Ok-Specialist974@reddit
Nordstrom and the Rack are great, but if you can't keep up with their prices, I like Marshalls, TJ Maxx, and other stores of that type.
Halfpint6924@reddit
I’m 4’ 9”, 132 lbs. with a 23 inch inseam. My arms are 18 1/2 inches from my armpit to my wrist. The only place I can shop is Kohl’s.
atomic_chippie@reddit
Disturbia. Am slowly converting my whole wardrobe to everything of theirs. Good quality fabrics, dark aesthetic, fits true to size and they're always having sales on the app.
Gragegrl@reddit
Thank you for this recc!!
atomic_chippie@reddit
You're welcome!
ogswampwitch@reddit
Check out Torrid's website. Stores are limited but they have tons of cool, edgy, gothish stuff online and they have good sales frequently.
UraTargetMarket@reddit
When my wallet is fat and I am not, Anthropologie, Banana Republic, Lucky Brand, Free People
AbjectBeat837@reddit
I’m obsessed with free people right now. Plenty of dark, edgy stuff.
Ok_Growth_5587@reddit
TJMaxx
recoveredcrush@reddit
Nearly all of my clothes come from a thrift store. I don't have a ton of extra money for clothes, this allows me to get good clothes for a lot less money.
lanfear2020@reddit
I am not hating Talbot’s, but some of it is too “old”, Nordstrom Rack, Marshalls are my most frequent. I just joined Armoire to try it out for work clothes since I only go in once a week, they have some really great brands so who knows what I may decide I need after this. Otherwise it’s just random.
Optimal-Ad-7074@reddit
I gave up on new-clothes outlets. too many "who is shaped like this???" outbursts I had to suppress. all the clothes I like, that suit me, seem to live in thrift and second-hand stores.
YMMV though; my style is t shirts and cargo pants.
FoundandSearching@reddit
Not to mention the poor quality of new clothes - manufacture & very poor materials.
lostinNevermore@reddit
And that ugly is the new black.
mintyboom@reddit
Everything is so ugly!!! I’m in shock!!
lostinNevermore@reddit
It is so frustrating
Useful-Badger-4062@reddit
So much polyester….ugh. Fast fashion is mostly garbage these days.
Esqornot@reddit
This is the reason I thrift! Everything today, even from the stores that used to be considered higher end, are all so poorly made now.
yeah_so_no@reddit
Sadly, now even the thrift stores are starting to get packed with SHEIN and other crap.
Humble_Scarcity1195@reddit
I've got the same style as you. I buy new t-shirts from a lot of random places, gaming shops (EB and Zing), threadheads, jbhifi and every so often stores will re-release cargo pants and I'll buy several pairs when that happens.
orbitalgirl@reddit
I just got some wonderful cargo pants from MUJI. They are so comfortable and fit perfectly. They are the men's washed cargos.
Humble_Scarcity1195@reddit
What is their sizing like? I've got a fairly round bottom.
orbitalgirl@reddit
I have large hips and find them very comfortable. My husband has a larger bottom than I do so I had him try them on and he said he has definitely worn worse and it would probably be more comfortable if they were the right size (he was barely able to button them)
Humble_Scarcity1195@reddit
Thankyou
LaRoseDuRoi@reddit
Thrift stores are where it's at. I'm a plus-sized leggings/skinny jeans, t-shirt, and hoodie type, and I find a fair amount of good stuff there.
DefinitelyBiscuit@reddit
Arco workwear is good for those.
Inevitable_Doubt6392@reddit
Is that only uk?
DefinitelyBiscuit@reddit
They might ship abroad, ive never asked.
Inevitable_Doubt6392@reddit
Sorry I assumed Gen X was mostly US based
Puzzled-State-7546@reddit
Thrift stores was my immediate response!
Habeas-Opus@reddit
Not sure if you have a Bargain Hunt near you, but I consistently find good style new stuff at near thrift prices.
headlesslady@reddit
:maniacal laughter: Hold onto your purses, ladies!
My favorite place to buy work clothes is Micheline Pitt (I also love her sister store, La Femme en Noir, but it's for sexier and better-paid ladies.) Their clothes are original, well-constructed, high quality, and I LOVE them. Their purses are also a treasure (they may still have some of their "Mystery Box" purse boxes available, take a look.) I own their Trick or Treat backpack & the Bride of Frankenstein. They're awesome. Sizes to 4X.
Another great place to buy gothy clothing is Lively Ghosts - they have short-run clothing that is lovely. I just bought this dress, and it makes me feel so dramatic while being perfectly suitable for work OR the goth club (if I could stay up late enough to go, anyway.) Sizes to 5X.
Die With Your Boots on is a nice shop in Salem that sells some fun clothes - I buy tees from there quite often. Their sister store, The Ossuary, sells fancier dresses (I haven't bought from them.) Sizes to 4X
Witchwood Bags has great hats, and some cute clothes (I own a hat, but haven't bought clothes from them.) Sizes to 3X
Oblong Box Shop has some super-cute designs, and I love the dresses I've bought from them. I got this one when it went on sale, and I get compliments every time I wear it. Sizes to 3X, some designs to 4X
lalachichiwon@reddit
Athleta, most of the time.
Sea-Contact5009@reddit
Thrift shops. Exceptions being underwear.
Lazy-Like-a-Cat@reddit
I’m a big girl and I LOVE Torrid. They definitely have stuff meant for younger ladies, but my mid-40s style loves their made-for-work lines. The blouses are flattering, jeans are comfortable and fit properly, and they have great accessories too. Prices aren’t too bad and the quality is surprisingly good. Big fan (literally and figuratively!!)
vlm0325@reddit
I love Talbots I’m showing my age - I know But they have classic styles that last Their clothing is well made and they periodically run sales and offer rewards. I’ll also shop Old Navy and Gap for active wear such as leggings
Meat_Bingo@reddit
I wanna add that one of the things that I really like about Nordstrom’s, J.Crew, and banana republic is that they extend their regular lines up to size 18, and in some cases 20. So if you are on the larger side, it’s much more accommodating without having to go to a specialized store or the plus size department.
Meat_Bingo@reddit
Nordstrom, and the rack, Ann Taylor and Loft, JCrew( and their factory store). Old Navy and banana republic.
KelsarLabs@reddit
Chicos is nice but so pricey. The Loft is the same, maybe a bit less.
Wildly enough, I just got a cute Gap sweater from Costco, lol.
OhReallyCmon@reddit
I "borrow" them from my 20-year-old daughter, and I have never been so in style.
LittleCeasarsFan@reddit
Nordstrom, LL Bean, and a few online specialty shops for Made in USA selvedge denim.
Starbright108@reddit
I have fallen in love with solid colored polo dresses from Tommy Bahama of all places. The fabrics are soft enough for lounging but they have a collar for looking "decent" for Zoom meetings. They also have pockets for taking my stuff with me on walks. You can accessorize accordingly. Maybe not edgy enough but I feel like I look polished without being a frump. I also love the style from Boden, lots of great looks and their quality reminds me of what JCrew was like in the 90sm
gojane9378@reddit
Boden is amazing. Their clothes & shoes are like works of art. I've acquired a lot over the years! I thought in my late 40's, I'll be the weight that I am. Now, I'm post meno and a lot of my Boden is too small. Im still grappling because the clothes are so beautiful. Sucks. I'm buying new stuff that fits from Uniqlo- affordable and more in tune w my current life.
Starbright108@reddit
I am in a similar boat but knowing I have to be a certain size to fit into my "hard" Boden pants is what motivates me to keep up with my exercise and diet. Athleta also has great professional ish/ cute pants that are very forgiving.
Gragegrl@reddit
Oh no, Boden doesn't carry real sizes?! That makes me sad. I love a classic Breton but my belly is too obvious in them now.
Starbright108@reddit
They do.
WillaLane@reddit
My boomer husband shops Tommy Bahama, maybe I should look too lol
SpinachFeta17@reddit
Love Boden!
PickledPotatoSalad@reddit
I'm plus size. I've joined the eBay crowd looking for Eileen Fisher, J Jill, and Cocomo tops. I'll just buy a one off top when they have the size and style I want. I also do JM Collections from Macy's when on sale. There is one type of dress pants I get off Amazon by Lee, but it's the only style that fits well in that size.
Duluth Trading NoGa pants and their tunic tops and cardigans.
I have to do an elastic waist due to perimenopause bloating during the day and from certain foods. Same pants could be super loose in the morning but tight by end of day.
I work in an office so I have to dress business casual. All my dresses have been from Macy's with shape wear underneath.
My shoes are usually Naots, Cloud On, or Sketchers with an insole insert for walking to work. I have a lot of issues with my feet so I switch to Naturalizers or Clarks at work. Lately I've work my sneakers or casual shoes at work all day and no one says a thing. I guess it's allowed with my age.
matchstick64@reddit
I buy a lot of 'normie' clothes at Nordstrom Rack.
I've been picking up different pieces that are funkier at "Clothes by the Lockeroom", "Merigold Shadows", and recently a couple pieces on "Banc Noir." I'm also a dark clothing person.
I stick to my patent leather Doc Martens most of the time, but have thrown a wrench in my goth-cred by buying a pair of red MaryJanes at Vivaia shoes -because I'm old and don't want any heel anymore.
matchstick64@reddit
I will add that those off-brand shops may take a bit of shipping time, but they are worth it. Nordstrom Rack has Doc Martens all the time.
karmelkid@reddit
Ann Taylor. I also like Anthony's fashion store in ft Myers, Florida. They carry brands that last, and they ship.
chicosaur@reddit
I buy a lot from Lane Bryant, but I am an xl/18 so I find it fits well for me
BobGnarly_@reddit
Check out a website called Black Craft Cult. It sounds like it'd be a good fit.
SmarTpantsTheOnly1@reddit
Thrift stores. But I'm lucky to live in a place that is known for its amazing thrift stores.
roblin_and_blatman@reddit
Winners, Nordstrom,outlet malls, outlet collections.
Buy nothing at full price, you'll be able to get much higher quality clothing for roughly the same price as the cheap stuff
ChronicNuance@reddit
I’m going to disagree with this just because I work in the industry for a mass market brand. I spend a lot of time evaluating product from higher priced, aspirational brands, and they are legitimately better quality. Outlet stores and name product sold at stores like TJMaxx have totally different design teams and pricing models, and use lower quality materials and construction and are produced in lower skilled factories. They also sell product that didn’t pass inspection at a high enough level to be put in the main store, and clearance product that didn’t sell.
Higher priced brands legitimately use better quality materials, have better construction and are made in higher skilled factories and therefore generally last longer. I can’t think of a single product category where this doesn’t apply. Spend more money in less items and you’ll spend less over time.
roblin_and_blatman@reddit
For perspective I can buy a pair of pants fro. H & M for 25-35 dollars. They last about a year before the waste goes on them.
I can go to Calvin Klein at an outlet.
I pay 30 dollars for 2 pairs of jeans, and I've had them for 5 years so far.
Sure there's some things that are visibly defective. Don't buy those obviously.
I respect your opinion on the subject, but in my experience medium quality "2nds" from medium quality brands outshine low quality medi7m priced clothing.
ChronicNuance@reddit
For starters, cotton and polyester can’t be compared apples to apples because the base fibers have a completely different structure. They both have pros and cons. Sweaters happens to be a product I’ve specialized training in so now you get my brain dump.
The fiber staple length, number of yarn ends, the twist of the yarn, the yarn size, the stitch, the gauge of the stitch, yarn dying method and yarn finishing treatments all factor into the longevity of the garment. However, 80% of the cost of a sweater is determined how long it takes to knit, followed by cost of yarn, and finally trims and seam finishing method. It’s literally impossible to do an apples to apples comparison of the same garment from 3 different factories (trust me, we’ve tried), let alone different garments from different retailers.
Mercerized cotton vs short staple, single twist cotton is going to perform totally differently. The former will hold it’s color, keep it’s shape and rarely pill but it’s going to cost you 4x as much as the later. Carded cotton is somewhere in the middle because they pull out the longer fibers, which pill less and has higher tensile strength. The cheaper the garment, the lower the quality of the fiber, and the faster the garment will wear out.
Polyester is man made so any number of different features can be engineered into the fiber. Rarely is a sweater 100% polyester, so the other fibers in the yarn will effect it’s performance. Acrylic, cotton, wool (sheep or alpaca), nylon and spandex are common blends, and each of these has its pros and cons. Generally, poly will retain it’s color, has high tensile strength and usually doesn’t pill due to being one long continuous filament, but it’s not soft, and doesn’t breath well. Acrylic is soft but it’s a pilling nightmare, as is most wool (mercerized wool is the exception). Nylon and spandex are usually added for stretch and will break down in the wash over time.
TLDR: sweaters are complicated ;)
International_Try660@reddit
Not a lady, but Kohls and American Eagle.
-Blixx-@reddit
I intentionally lost. A lot of weight a while back.
After my shorts unceremoniously dropped to the floor in a hotel lobby, I decided I needed to size down. Losing weight sneaks up on you.
I was only half way to my target, but obviously needed to replace some clothes.
The answer for me was local thrift shops. The quality was quite good, sometimes better than new. With the weight loss journey behind me, I still shop thrift.
Reuse may be the most important part of clothes recycling. Plus it's fun to buy pants or a shirt for a couple of dollars.
TJH99x@reddit
Haha, I’ve lost weight recently too and have been thinking my pants might actually fall off if I’m not careful. It’s so hard to find new ones! I’ve found one or two and am otherwise trying to remember to put my belt on.
capacious_bag@reddit
The shorts story is a good one!
-Blixx-@reddit
It's just true. It was a business class hotel, Crowne Plaza where I stayed when I worked at my secondary office. The desk people all knew me pretty well, but not that well.
But, yeah. Checked in, reached down for my bag and felt an uncomfortable breeze.
Oops.
Specific-Culture-638@reddit
Did you die of embarrassment or laughter? I'm the laughing type, myself!
-Blixx-@reddit
I pulled my shorts up first. Then laughed and said something like: this is going to be too good a story not to tell. Sorry. Just mention the weight loss when you tell it. Basically incoherent babbling.
A couple of weeks later when I checked in she asked, "new pants?"
That was it. No further fallout. They handled the situation as well as one could hope for someone who has been pantsed by gravity.
MrsBeauregardless@reddit
I actually get almost everything at Lands’ End (on super duper clearance) or from thrift stores.
ssibalssibalssibal@reddit
My choices are extremely unpopular (fast fashion brands) but idk where else to find clothes that fit my style that I can afford. An example of my style/esthetic and one of my favorite designers is Yohji Yamamoto but so out of my budget. So I tend to browse Zara, Yesstyle and RealReal. I sometimes feel guilty for buying fast fashion but I've cut down on shopping and have bought clothes just three times in the last 5 yrs. I also tend to hang on to stuff forever and upcycle when I can. No offense to anyone but I just can't rock the BR/JJill/Ann Taylor vibe. It just isn't me. I sometimes find fun niche/boutique brands but they tend to have that coastal vibe that isn't me either. I can't recall the name for it. Best example I can think of is Connie Britton's character on the first season of White Lotus.
Coco-Sadie84@reddit
This is going to sound strong but I’ve started getting mine at a thrift store. I but inexpensive stuff I think I might like, take it home and see. I’m 58. I’ve worn tshirts and denim as long as I can remember. I’m revamping my wardrobe. I want soft and pretty. I want stuff that makes me feel good about me. I’m a chubby girl so I’ve always tried to hide my body. I’m done with that. From now on I want what makes me feel good. I don’t care anymore what people see when they look at me. Besides, no one is looking!
Ka3marya@reddit
Clothes 20 years ago were made to last. And I still use those. Out of lazyness I sometimes order from online shops something I really need.
zoso4evr@reddit
Depending on how tall you are (I'm short af), but I find a lot of cute and professional button down shirts on the Hot Topic online store. I also like Midnight Hour. Everything I've gotten from there has been good quality. I also like ThredUp. You have to do a lot of hunting but you can find some very nice high end pieces second hand for cheap.
tauregh@reddit
I love a little niche company called Seeds Of Life. Great men’s shirts that have prints you can’t find anywhere else.
CarpetSeveral8126@reddit
For me it's never been a better time to be dark alt. I have found so many obscure doom, goth, dark wave and horror shirts through places like Bandcamp and Instagram. Start liking fashion posts on insta and it'll find you tons in your feed. In the winter I'm more of a hobo wizard lol( maybe rob zombieish) but I find tj Maxx and jc penny often have quality sweaters and such for that vibe(natural and worn looking) pennys women's section had tons of alt look sweaters last year.
Gragegrl@reddit
Straight to He'll advertises to me on Instagram. Very edgy and cool but too small for me.
scottmartin52@reddit
I get most of my clothes at Target.
Jealous_Speaker1183@reddit
Online - I go to Threadup. It’s an online secondhand store. You can get everything from
Lovethatjourney4mee@reddit
Free People, Natural Life, and Anthropologie. FP and Anthro can be a little pricey but if you download app you will get notified of sales.
Used-Inspection-1774@reddit
Oh My Gauze.
nadiaco@reddit
thread up. thrift stores
Developing_Human33@reddit
Macy's and Kohl's but with today's economy it's mostly Walmart now. They sell Chaps brand clothing for half the price at Macy's and I get Wrangler brand jeans or something for $13 and they look no different than Levi 505 at Macy which are $30 or something. My $9.00 Walmart watch looks indistinguishable from a Lokata brand watch at $45.00. I don't spend frivously anymore.
Pristine_Frame_2066@reddit
Thrifting and consignment. I stick to cotton, wool, some rayon, silk. Rarely acrylic and polyester, but I do own some. Takes a lot to build a whole new wardrobe but a well made piece lasts.
I buy new undergarments and shoes but prefer sneakers and crocs and rothy for work. I avoid leather.
If thrifting is not possible, I like thred up and my kids love several sale platforms for their clothes.
CatMoonTrade@reddit
Wool& has some long sleeve dresses, and I buy them in black and dark blue, and I feel dressed nicely, but in extreme comfort. Air dry, steam for wrinkles. They are also great for travel
PikaChooChee@reddit
Yelp and Trip Advisor are two reasonably good resources for finding the kind of gems you’re looking for. Typing “coffee shop” into Google Maps will sometimes yield good results, too.
WinSpecial3281@reddit
Asos
SkippySkipadoo@reddit
Kohls. Best place for big and tall.
SometimesElise@reddit
You mike like Allsaints if you are looking for something darker/edgier but not like you're trying to dress like a 20 year old.
tandtjm@reddit
If you’re in the UK, Cos
rdhddvl@reddit
I am a concert shirt and jeans gal most of the time, but I work from home so for comfortable basics I go for Uniqlo and wait for sales on Pact Organic.
prplpassions@reddit
Woman Within. The sizes are spot on.
intotheunknown78@reddit
I liked a ton of stuff I saw at target last month. My black ribbed sweater dress had some of my student stop in their tracks to tell me I looked very pretty. They had a bunch of sweaters I wanted, but I only got the dress.
I mostly go to Ross/TJ maxx because that’s what I have out here (I don’t even have a target, I was out of town)
jonesy40@reddit
I’ve had some luck this year at Maurice’s.
beek7419@reddit
Old Navy, GAP, Amazon, occasionally Kohl’s and loft. Shoes are typically Converse, Vans, and Doc Martens.
Weak-End8864@reddit
I like my clothes funky and quirky 👉🏻 Boden, Anthropologie, The RealReal, Shopbop, Farfetch, Never Fully Dressed, Revolve, Wolf & Badger, and FELT (a local Chicago shop)
hungrypotato0853@reddit
Costco. My fashion sense has been reduced ro Costco.
ThisSpaceIntLftBlnk@reddit
Oh, and Old Navy Luxe tees -ONLY the luxe ones. Long sleeved and short sleeved. I own a ton of each (in black, of course!) and they don't shrink/stretch. I usually can get them on sale for $13 or less each, buy a couple each year, and relegate the oldest ones to cleaning rags/painting clothing.
Friggaknows@reddit
Thredup - I’m a thrifter but live out in nowhere so online it usually is…
ThisSpaceIntLftBlnk@reddit
TJ Maxx/Marshalls. Mostly online, though. You can order a bunch of stuff, and get free shipping, try them on at home, and then return what you don't like at a store.
Nordstrom Rack is also great, although I REALLY miss their old brand of pantyhose. (don't judge -I need the control top and the coverage for my blotchy legs!)
Ms_ankylosaurous@reddit
Women’s trendy thrift places - they dont take stuff that is in poor condition or more than 2 years from being in market
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
If only we had places like that near me :(
Lucky_Spare_8374@reddit
ThreadUp, Poshmark and eBay! I use ThreadUp the most. I've gotten sooooo many designer clothes on that site in the past year! EBay I use more than Poshmark, but ThreadUp I use way too much. 😁
ap9981@reddit
Poshmark!
Always try to bundle a few likes from one seller to save on shipping. Their shipping rates tend to be absurd for a single item, but don't really increase as you add
greenblue_md@reddit
Where do you live
Laurieladybug@reddit
Try searching for one in your area. Sometimes they pop up in weird places that you wouldn't think to look.
ColoradoInNJ@reddit
Ebay!
Ms_ankylosaurous@reddit
Try marketplace some like like it maybe ?
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
If only we had places like that near me :(
cat_at_the_keyboard@reddit
Check out consignment stores or Plato's closet.
Ms_ankylosaurous@reddit
Even a goodwill or value village can have gems
Adept_Confusion7125@reddit
FB has marketplace groups. Search for a group in your area. I live in a very rural place. I have bought some really cool stuff and got great bargains.
nextact@reddit
There are several online thrifty places my daughter shops at.
Sophiatab@reddit
I've been told my look is dark and edging (post-apocalyptic resistance fighter has been the most creative description a friend has ever gave me.). I buy a lot of stuff from Duluth. Their clothes wear like iron. They are comfortable and they have good sales.
Float_0n@reddit
Vintage clothing stores, eBay, charity shops (UK here) or Jigsaw, Whistles, John Lewis, M&S and the like. I like quality that lasts, but must fit my 'mostly dressed in black with some kind of interesting embellishment or something' alt tendancies.
NoddysBell@reddit
UK also. I mainly use charity shops , but am increasingly finding M&S has some really nice stuff. I went jeans shopping recently which is one of my most hated activities, and found Next to be great. I do like a lot of Next clothes, but find a lot of their colours to be quite drab in store. Online obviously has more choice (but quite useless when jeans shopping).
Float_0n@reddit
M&S has improved hugely recently, I always forget about Next. Boden is quite good for more interesting prints/colours and Mint Velvet has a lot of lovely textures and fabrics too. Both good for tops, but I don't know what their jeans are like.
AWEDZ5@reddit
Kohl's and maurices for jeans, i find t-shirts online.
sheila9165milo@reddit
Thrift shops, online catalogues, and Walmart, sometimes the junior's section has decent stuff that we can wear, just have to buy bigger sizes (obviously, lol)
Neither_Ad_1070@reddit
Torrid
PrestigiousGrade7874@reddit
Thrift - goodwills in high end areas and charity thrift in high end areas.
LakeCoffee@reddit
Everything around here closed up long ago. We can travel for hours to the outlet malls only to find weird, ill fitting clothes in awful colors and come home with nothing. Or order online and have to decide if the clothes are ok enough to not take the trouble to send back. Getting decent clothes is so difficult now. I miss when malls were full of quality stores and you could get lots of nice things to wear in just an hour or two.
sonia72quebec@reddit
About 90% of my clothes comes from local thrift shops. The rest from Old Navy, Gap and Costco.
forfoxsake718@reddit
Jeans at Sam’s club lol. Cheap as hell and stretchy!
evieAZ@reddit
Accept that you’re going to have to pay more, and get fewer but higher quality pieces. Cheap stuff from Target or Forever 21 just doesn’t look good on us as we get older. For my edgy but adult clothes I love Allsaints, they can be pricey so wait for a sale
WafflingToast@reddit
Everlane
sekhmetgoddess7@reddit
If you want clothes like Victoria’s Secret used to have, try Venus. The clothes last too.
SchmoosMom@reddit
Online - I’ve turned into a Dovetail work pants, Icebreaker and SmartWool shirts person. Treated well those things last forever. For “nice” I have found dresses in weird little stores or Wool& for basic dresses.
Ill-Conclusion-4402@reddit
Costco, Goodwill, TJ Maxx
Mystic-Nature@reddit
I have found some great things from Evereve. They have a service called TrendSend. I tell them the kind of things I’m looking for, example going on a trip or an event, and they shop for it and put outfits together for me. I have a style profile so they know my sizes and the types of things I’ve liked in the past. Items can be pricey so I’m selective, but I usually put a price range in my request. I have found brands like Kut from the Kloth jeans that I love, are a bit stretchy, and are on trend. I’m not ready to give up looking fashionable and stylish!
DangerKitty555@reddit
Old Navy makes up the majority of my wardrobe. Fits all four categories you’re looking for (I think, not sure what you mean by alt???). I buy basics in bulk and wear them til they have holes and/or the seams fall apart.
Patient-Form2108@reddit
Goodwill. I found Calvin Klein clothes to fit the best and be stylish. I’m 60.
NtMagpie@reddit
eBay for J.Jill, Soft Surroundings, Duluth Trading and any linen/wool/silk/other name brands I can't afford new. Thrift stores for jeans, general browsing. New stuff from Disturbia, Killstar, and Amazon. Good luck on your hunt!
Forward-Layer8933@reddit
Quince
JaneTaoMDFACS@reddit
If you’re in NYC, there are tons of amazing independent boutiques that I can refer. Also, Bloomingdale’s is great. Ask them to work with their house stylist with your budget, they hook it up lovely
DieLawnDie@reddit
Honestly, I mostly shop consignment stores. You never know what you’ll find, but when you find it, the price will be right. I’ve also had really good luck with dresses from Boden.
Glittering_Drama_493@reddit
Talbots
vividtangerinedream@reddit
Mostly Macy's and Kohl's
Akira75@reddit
Kmart and Big W
AntiSnoringDevice@reddit
I buy in vintage stores, mainly because I am tired of spending for office clothing, but also because you can find nice brands. And also...pre-worn falls a bit more gently on the body and you get a better idea of how the garment will eventually look on you. Last but not least, as we inevitably approach an age when metabolism and "the change" are bitches, I don't want to spend too much on something that might not fit anymore in 6 months. Love!
Old_Chain8346@reddit
Renys
queenG74@reddit
Shein is good. Just go by your measurements and ALWAYS READ REVIEWS I'm curvy so I like Torrid for somethings.
Poshmark had been my favorite lately.
SkyerKayJay1958@reddit
Thrift, reseller sites such as poshmark, mecari, eBay, thread up and consignment shops. Current fast fashion is recycled from when we were kids. You have to dig.
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
There's a place in Cincinnati called The Snooty Fox. Higher-end clothes, mostly from the social set cleaning out closets each season. They're so popular, that the brand puts on a bus tour where they stop at each store in the area, provide a boxed lunch, and more. I've never been on one, but I hear they're excellent and fun.
NefariouslyNotorious@reddit
That sounds awesome 🤩
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
The folks I know who have been on the tour say it's one of the best things they've ever done. Maybe someday I'll get to go on one. ☺️
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
ETA: Here's some info on the tours. They really do it up!
https://shopsnooty.com/bustours
NefariouslyNotorious@reddit
Oh you totally should and report back!! Unfortunately Im in Australia and we have nothing close to this. There are all day coach trips around all the outlet malls in Sydney, but I’ve literally never found anything that was especially cheap or that I’ve actually wanted at an outlet mall. Maybe we’re doing them wrong? 🤔
Lower-Protection3607@reddit
Maybe. Hmm...
IndigoHoney_online@reddit
I wear a uniform of yoga pants and a graphic T from Torrid. If I work a trade show, I swap out the t-shirt for one of their Harper blouses.
asobersurvivor@reddit
I’m in the same boat. I really just want normal, plain sleeves.
ConsiderationIcy1934@reddit
I shop at Torrid
NefariouslyNotorious@reddit
Torrid FTW 🙌🙌 Too bad between the USD>AUD exchange rate and shipping costs it ends up costing a small fortune. So I take advantage of Torrid Cash & major sales & also keep an eye out for it on Aus ebay & Facebook plus size clothing buy & sell groups.
NefariouslyNotorious@reddit
I’m fat so more limited in choices, but Torrid, occasionally Shein (don’t come for me, they actually have cute stuff in my size), basics like “around the house clothes” Kmart, Target, Best n Less, a LOT on ebay & thrifting. I’ve been a thrifting fan since I was 14 & have picked up sooo many of my favourite pieces there.
wheelshc37@reddit
.titlenine.com. Cute comfortable pants and skirts and dresses
WillGrahamsass@reddit
I bought the nicest Tshirts on Amazon. They are modest yet pretty and comfy.
Suedehead4@reddit
What was the brand of those T-shirts? Thanks.
WillGrahamsass@reddit
Binshre is one and Beocut the other
alixtoad@reddit
Costco
Footnotegirl1@reddit
I've been on a run getting clothes through Universal Standard. I've been very happy both with my purchases in general and with their returns process.
Ornery-Practice9772@reddit
Kmart or op shops
DivAquarius@reddit
Nordstrom
Macys
Nordstrom’s Rack Amazon SHEIN
Target
karen_h@reddit
Hot Topic.
kiwihoney@reddit
What country do you live in?
Blossom73@reddit
I'm only 5"0, and wear petites. It limits where I can buy clothes. I mainly shop at Lands' End, LL Bean, Talbots, Loft.
Very occasionally I'll find something I like in petites at Macy's, Kohls, or JC Penney.
A lot of clothing manufacturers seem to think any short woman is at least 70 years old, so it can be hard finding anything age appropriate in petites.
InternationalAd9230@reddit
I am petite as well, and I pretty much live in pants from Chico's. All their pants come in long, regular and short. 👍
Blossom73@reddit
I forgot about Chicos! I'll have to check them out.
Pants are the hardest for me. ven a lot of petite pants are still too long on me.
peicatsASkicker@reddit
Betabtand Dress Pant Yoga Pants in Short Petite. I'm not sure if they're still offered but you can find them on eBay.
Soggy-Speed-490six@reddit
Upvote here for Lands' End & LL Bean. I'll add Eddie Bauer too!
State-Cultural@reddit
Poshmark and thread up - I have found some cool stuff priced decently
Imdyinovahere@reddit
Absolutely! I’ve recently lost 60 pounds and have replaced most of my wardrobe pieces that I love in a smaller size from places like Free People and Anthro through Poshmark, EBay and Mercari. Now when I see something I love at the actual store. I head over to one of those sites to see if it’s there cheaper.
peicatsASkicker@reddit
same!!
Messymomhair@reddit
I just worry about sizing 😬
wifeage18@reddit
This!!!^^^^^
siamesecat1935@reddit
Some. And some thrifting. I am cheap and hate paying full price. But have gotten great steals, esp. Thredup, high end, nwt , at a fraction of the original price.
I do have to laugh, I’m at an age where being fluffy and old, most of my pants, includ8ng my jeans, are pull on. But still look nice!
surfdad67@reddit
Wife used to do poshmark, now she only does Shein
Enonemousone@reddit
Hate to say Shein has some of the cheapest quality clothing out there. Look up the documentary "Dead Whitr Man's Clothes " to see the negative impact fast fashion is having.
matchb_x@reddit
SHEIN is trendy, unsustainable fashion that in addition to being low quality, doesn’t adhere to safe worker conditions. In other words, it’s cheap, it won’t last past a season in terms of style (and possibly wear), and the labor conditions are abhorrent. OP would be better off spending more on quality capsule wardrobe pieces.
dsmac085@reddit
Mercari too
greatgrohlsoffire@reddit
Same!
peicatsASkicker@reddit
Betabtand Dress Pant Yoga Pants with big ass pockets
decaffdiva@reddit
Salvation Army
Pixie1184@reddit
I like INC at Macy’s
bettesue@reddit
Quince!!
So_Many_Words@reddit
Duluth has pants with full pockets.
ZeddCocuzza@reddit
Don't sleep on Maurice's.
Susang1@reddit
Uniqlo. Awesome Japanese company with clean lines and excellent quality.
Southernms@reddit
Poshmark
eBay
The Real Real
Thrifting
Nordstrom
Hotsauce4ever@reddit
I just got the best hoodie cardigan from Foxblood—a store/online store that exclusively sells black clothing. The gap still has some good basics.
To be honest, I wear very basic black or neutral leggings, cardigans, sweaters, dresses, etc, and accessorize with colorful glasses, a gorgeous scarf, or patterned/colorful tights. Unique shoes and boots top it off.
I go for basics because my body isn’t shaped like it was, and I’m so completely overstimulated from shopping at stores.
emmerjean@reddit
I started shopping at the thrift stores. The clothes made in the 80’s & 90’s are just made better with better materials and fit. I’ve noticed even the vintage target brands outlive brand new pieces. I just keep it classic and mix and match.
Haveyounodecorum@reddit
Sezane
imalloverthemap@reddit
I’m retired so I spend a lot of time on Athleta.com, plus they carry tall sizes
IamNotaJenny@reddit
I lost some weight via divorce (mmmm, nothing like stress and despair as a dieting plan!), and I needed to replace clothing for every season and occasion with a lot less money. Found a few consignment stores. While pursued my size 8’s for resale, I spent hours there getting everything from workout gear to dresses. Some great stuff. Some hilarious stuff (no one is going to get me to wear overalls again!), but some quality designer basics for work and it gave me a chance to try some brands I’d heard about but never actually purchased bc they are above my pay grade. Upside: they took a load of my things (I donated what they didn’t take), and when I came back in to sell clothes for the next season, I’d just spend the $$ I made from my old clothes on new ones there. Was fun. Takes a bit of time though. And if you go near the end of the “season,” good sales. Purses, shoes—everything.
Now: I wanted to feel like I had a few contemporary pieces that put me in 2024, so I went to Anthropologie (sale rack!), Free People, and Nordstrom Rack (they have a tailor! Bless them!). I learned that skinny jeans are out and “barrel pants” are in. Good riddance, skinny jeans! Get yourself some boots and wear them with dresses and skirts. Getting a “decorative” belt can also revive the look of a dress. I feel like maybe you are not reading these comments anymore, but at 52 I’m finally feeling renewed after years of stumbling around feeling like I had no store that was mine. oh, I love Bliss too. :)
MagsH1020@reddit
If you want edgy/dark tee-shirts go for male shirts as alot of female edgy tees are form fitting nowadays.
Personally I still go to hot topic, target and shop online.
My main fashion issue is I am short (4ft 11) so finding jeans that fit me is hard. I end up wearing jeggings or leggings.
Pipcopperfield@reddit
Belk for my plain black T-shirts, target for my basic stretchy jeans, Walmart for my Jean shorts, the local farmer’s market for screen printed T-shirts.
shacklefordstoleit@reddit
I work for Volcom and Nautica. Volcom has some decent stuff. It's available at Macy's too.
Itchy-Mind7724@reddit
Hear me out…Talbots. And I’m a young genx’er. Sure, lots of their stuff is old lady but they have amazing chinos and fun button down shirts. You’re not gonna want to wear most stuff they have but they have some solid basics that are decent quality.
Cerfer@reddit
Kohl's
Tracylpn@reddit
Mail order catalogs like Woman Within, etc. I'm overweight
Disbelief-Society@reddit
Target!
Roy_Coulee@reddit
Costco
ElleMNOTee@reddit
I’m getting rid of a lot of the Costco clothes I have, I’m just tired of the synthetic fabrics. I’m making more of an effort to purchase cotton clothing that is more comfortable against the skin.
LaRoseDuRoi@reddit
I've started getting the occasional hot flash and night sweats, so I am ALL about cotton and linen these days, and as little synthetics as possible.
EcstaticYoghurt7467@reddit
All my clothes have come from Costco in the last 5 years. 80 pairs of exactly the same style pants in every size imaginable. If I like the color, I’m BOUND to find a pair that fits. No more endless rack searches. The tyranny of choice is a thing.
QuietMind765@reddit
This is me. I wfh and Costco clothes are that ideal mix of comfy and zoom professional.
Surprise_Fragrant@reddit
Yes, but for me, Sam's. I love their leggings, and their basic tee shirts (Hue). I'm too fat to wear them, but I used to be able to get great pants and jeans.
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
No Costco near me, yet. It's being built
desertgemintherough@reddit
Nordstrom clearance, Lands End, Saks, Talbots, 80s Calvin Klein, 80s Liz Claiborne, 80s Jones NY, 80s Kenneth Cole, Gap; most any quality thrifted clothing. Never Target, never fast fashion.
Ibn-al-ibn@reddit
My wife gets her clothes from H&M and Ross mostly.
SnowhiteMidnight@reddit
For edgy and alt but comfortable, which is me too, I have a uniform of leggings with menswear sweaters and shirts with enough length to cover my butt. I'd buy women's tops but like you say, we get only half a shirt. And half a jacket or sweater - this season everything ends at the top of the hips. With patch pockets placed directly on the waistline because sure, we like adding bulk to our waist. Truly awful. I have always shopped used clothes but I don't have a choice because what's in stores is terrible. Try getting an investment piece like a used blazer by an edgy designer, then you can wear with leggings or jeans.
Final-Beginning3300@reddit
Ross, TJ Maxx, Target, Marshalls, thrift stores.
mlkeeton2000@reddit
Honestly good will, salvation army has some really awesome stuff. I buy almost everything from them . Second hand stores only take current trendy items so check them out.. Amazon essentials like basic shirts with nice jeans from good will can really make a big difference both in terms of cost and cool clothes.
DelightfulHelper9204@reddit
Consignment shops. I like one called the clothing carousel.
Queen6cat@reddit
Poshmark is also a good option
Squee01@reddit
Free people, gap, Nordstrom/nordstrom rack
hmmmpf@reddit
I have brought back my childhood teachings from my grandmother. I am also goth/alt leaning; My wardrobe is largely black and grey with some purple and blue mixed in. I mostly sew my own clothes, especially once I retired (early,) but also before that. I have also gotten into sustainable and natural fibers. My body hates being enclosed in plastic clothing (polyester, nylon, etc;) it makes me stinky and sweaty. I make tshirts with alterations from a lot of black cotton jersey, cotton velvet, linen, merino wool, etc. I dislike fast fashion as it doesn’t meet my sustainability and natural fabrics test.
TyMaintenance@reddit
I thrift about 30% of my wardrobe. The quality of yesteryear is unmatched plus you can get top brands for next to nothing. I got a reformation coat for $20, looks like it was never worn.
Messymomhair@reddit
Jc Penny, Khols and my mom's left overs.
IllTakeACupOfTea@reddit
Poshmark and eBay.
rosievee@reddit
I have a similar style to you. For me: Torrid, Dapper Boi, Joanie, Duluth Trading, Sourpuss, Kreepsville, HUE for jeggings/pants, Old Navy, a few Amazon brands (Yesno, Minibee), Macy's, vintage.
Things I would have recommended a few years ago, but that have really gone downhill: Express, H&M, NY&Co, Target.
Everyone I know seems to like Costco clothes? I'm too overwhelmed by that place to browse clothes there though.
urbangirlpdx@reddit
I pretty much buy everything online these days. Some favorites are:
Artful Home
Poetry Fashion
Petalura
Gudrun Sjoden
Costco for jeans
32 Degrees for cheap sweats/thermals
lexicruiser@reddit
REI
ms_eleventy@reddit
Lulu, Old Navy, and Goode Rider. For real. I'm all about being comfy.
InsuranceChance3634@reddit
Dressing like a pro. . . Head to toe in Costco!
ZarinaBlue@reddit
I buy mine secondhand when I can. Thredup, poshmark, Depop, The Real Real.
Most of my new stuff I get from Free People, Buck Mason, and Fjallraven.
I am HUGE fan of raw denim, so Iron Heart, Railcar, and Raleigh are great.
Footwear from Converse, Docs, Red Wings, and Frye mostly.
birdmadgirl74@reddit
Dillards for work attire and jeans. Target for casual stuff. I also have scored some great things via Poshmark.
donerstude@reddit
Thrift shops are awesome in my area and my whole family loves shopping there
theRealAverageHuman@reddit
Lately it’s been Free People, Gap Outlet, Marshall’s, and graphic tees direct from the artists.
SnooConfections8768@reddit
Marks Workwarehouse or Bass Pro. I don't wear fancy stuff, although I have a suit and sports blazer if needed. I don't care too much about clothing. Most people don't notice what you are wearing because they are more interested in themselves and what they look like. Or looking at their phone.
TheTrueGoatMom@reddit
I have a little thrift store I buy tops at. I buy jeans at old navy, because they have a certain style I like(among 10 other styles, so anyone can find their perfect fit.) I don't spend more than $50 a year on clothes.
Independent-Safety44@reddit
Sezane (France) and J Crew. Everything else is garbage.
deja_blue-fl@reddit
Try foxblood for dark and edgy!
ellieloveselton77@reddit
JJill, Eddie Bauer, LL Bean, and Duluth!
Doctor_in_psychiatry@reddit
Online: Venus, Boston Proper. I haven’t been to a store in five years
Jsmith2127@reddit
Lately I purchase a lot of stuff at an online thrift store called thredup. They have everything from stores like gap, and old navy, to high end designer.
Mystery_Fan_5253@reddit
Talbot’s and LL Bean
Mama_Lee@reddit
H&M and Old Navy, Hot Topic for tees.
moooeymoo@reddit
Old Navy for yoga pants and jeans. Walmart for sweats. Natural Life for tees and sweatshirts. Who knows for dressy clothes. Malls here in the twin cities MN are gang hangouts and plus the stores aren’t what they used to be.
geri73@reddit
TJMAXX, Burlington, Marshalls, Khols, DSW, TEMU, Walmart, Target, Amazon but rarely, and thrift stores.
kibblet@reddit
I’m in Wisconsin, so Kohl’s for the basics. And still hit the thrift shops.
Oldebookworm@reddit
Torrid is the older, larger Hot Topic 😊
Kalena426@reddit
Took the words right out of my mouth...OLd Navy too.
sara11jayne@reddit
I find a lot off things at walmart. I’ve gotten a bunch of cargo pants, sweaters, shirts, even a dress now and then. I almost always wear black. I really don’t care about what’s in style, so supplementing my wardrobe is pretty easy.
Honestly, I am very rough on my clothes. I don’t separate them to wash, just throw everything in together and use hot water/high heat dry. Once in a great while I find a hole in a pocket.
Torrid is crazy expensive. Sometimes the sale rack is promising, but I am cheap.
The only thing I really splurge on his shoes. Mostly Doc’s, some Vans, Creepers. Shoes are my downfall.
QueenOfCrayCray@reddit
Kohl’s for work clothes. Old Navy for every day clothes. Sometimes Target.
Prestigious_Chard597@reddit
Thrifting
ggoptimus@reddit
Wait you guys buy new clothes?
MarcoEsteban@reddit
Right? I had such good taste for timeless fashion and bought high quality when I was young, I'm wearing my own vintage, now!
SlipstreamSleuth@reddit
Nordstrom, Zara, Cos, River Island, Banana Republic, GAP, Everlane, Mango, Sézane, Madewell
Gorissey@reddit
I love Madewell and J Crew the best- and Ralph Lauren for a splurge. I buy stuff on Amazon sometimes but mostly things like tights and leggings.
Superb-Fail-9937@reddit
None of these stores are within an hour of my house. It’s hard out there ladies, lol
hahahahthunk@reddit
J.Jill for shirts. NYDJ for jeans. Nordstrom for everything else
Reasonable-Bison2173@reddit
Reverence
Careless-Village1019@reddit
I've had the same clothes for the past 15yrs. No cap
NEOwlNut@reddit
Nordstrom Rack. Scheels. Outlet malls are also great if you live near one. My local one has Eddie Bauer, etc etc.
However if you are savvy at the old interwebs there’s starting to be a lot of great choices online. I’d say I order about half my clothes.
If I’m shopping for my wife (I buy all her clothes) it’s always Nordstrom Rack. The place is just great. You can find amazing deals there.
Apart_Ad6747@reddit
Temu, shien, Amazon. I have a sewing machine and know how to use it but also everything has some stretch.
Chzncna2112@reddit
Walmart. Every place except them and thrift stores are very expensive. And thrift stores are getting there.
Total_Employment_146@reddit
Stitch Fix is not too bad. Kinda' repetitive, but once you find styles that work for your body, it's an easy place to go and search for more similar items to ones you have already purchased. The offerings aren't too frumpy while still being age appropriate and you can find a decent range of styles, depending how edgy you want to go. Nice to be able to try on at home and ship back what doesn't work. Also, you can just buy "free style" rather than having their "stylist" choose for you. I started by letting them send me boxes once a month, then once I figured out what works for me I turned off the subscription and now just go to the website and shop on my own when I want something. Prices are reasonable.
angelicambb@reddit
Their stuff is all from previous seasons. I have some boots I got on clearance at Nordstrom for $80 and Stitch Fix offered them to me a month later for $450. What a joke!
Takara38@reddit
I tried them for a bit, and did end up buying a couple things. The prices were outrageous when I did it a few years ago. $100 for a cute band t-shirt was when I said “no more.”
Total_Employment_146@reddit
Wow. I have not seen prices that high on Stitch Fix. I think they do have some items that are considered "luxury" and more expensive, but for a T-shirt?? I also would not pay that! I think Stitch Fix is a bit high, but most things are these days - that's why I originally said prices are "reasonable" - compared to all the rest of the outrageous pricing in the world, I stand by that statement. Pants/Jeans are around $100. Tops usually around $60 - but those are nice blouses, not T-shirts. Shoes are decent priced, usually around $80-$100. Anyway, shutting up now because I sound like a shill. 😆
chicagotodetroit@reddit
+1 for Stitch Fix! I used them for a while to help figure out which brands I could actually fit and what looked nice on me.
angelicambb@reddit
Nordstrom and Ann Taylor. Comfortable, quality clothing worth the price. And both have options for a variety of body types.
Sharp11thirteen@reddit
Goodwill!
Efficient_Salt_8618@reddit
Quince
slipperytornado@reddit
I love quince so much for basics. I have a bunch of cashmere sweaters from them and I style myself however I want. I am a practitioner of Chinese Medicine in a small HCOL town full of rich people. Every single day patients tell me how fun I dress. I love that! There are many many many well dressed women in this town so it’s cool to get some props! Quince sweaters are a huge part of my wardrobe.
spiralizerizer@reddit
Their stretch Ponte pants are amazing. The fabric is very substantial and long-lasting.
Efficient_Salt_8618@reddit
I get so many nice basics from them that are great quality and very affordable!
hafree27@reddit
New find! THANK YOU!!!!
rokdabells@reddit
Quince is AMAZING.
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
Never heard of this brand, will look, thanks!
gojane9378@reddit
It's all over IG...
NewHomework527@reddit
Yes! Just got my first job outside the home and bought my work clothes here. Highly recommend!
cakeswindler@reddit
I just found out about Quince and I love them. I hope the have a good Black Friday sale. I want to stock up on some pants and jeans
My0wnThoughts@reddit
Thrift stores typically have a great selection and I often find very nearly new clothes.
stephenforbes@reddit
Pic'N'Save
JenX74@reddit
Bloomingdale's
SuperBandicoot2860@reddit
Cabela’s. Kohl’s. Boscovs. I’m self employed and pinching pennies, so only get something if I really need it. (Plus, I don’t need to “dress up” for work, so that helps.)
Due-Asparagus6479@reddit
Amazon and Temu.
Dirtymac09@reddit
eBay used
dyingbreedxoxo@reddit
Anyone who is doing ebay or thrift stores should check out Poshmark. Everything is negotiable
meggsovereasy@reddit
I love that you can negotiate on eBay now. But yes, I buy a ton of great stuff on Poshmark.
According2Kelly@reddit
JJill is my jam
Tomorrow_Wendy_13@reddit
I like them and Coldwater Creek, especially for work clothes.
RedditSkippy@reddit
I love them because they have tall sizes.
Bratbabylestrange@reddit
I'm 6'1 and get all my jeans from Maurices, because they're curvy and I can get extra long. They never have that in dress pants though 🫤
SnarkyVamp@reddit
And plus sizes!
According2Kelly@reddit
Exactly!
SnarkyVamp@reddit
I buy J. Jill shirts on eBay. I have an alert set that tells me when new ones are listed. I do the same for Soft Surroundings. And I buy jeans from Women Within. Once I find a brand, size and style that works, I stick to that.
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
I haven’t looked into them in years, I’ll look again
Substantial_Layer_79@reddit
Coldwater Creek. I can't stand polyester
meggsovereasy@reddit
Nordstrom, J. Crew, Poshmark
Devincenzi@reddit
Kohls, JC Penney, the clearance rack at Eddie Bauer and Maurice's.
smurfsm00@reddit
Nordstrom has some weirdly cool clothes if you’re particular about your cut.
I still also do thrift stores. Just get whatever seems good and get it properly tailored for you. Don’t give up on going thru fun new clothing phases.
GenXella@reddit
Dillards, Saks, Good Will, LuLu Lemon, Hurley, Billabong, Rip Curl, Roxy, Zumiez and Pac Sun/Hollister for Jeans.
nicilou74@reddit
I got back into sewing my own stuff after realising that clothes are either too young for me, or old and frumpy.
Try Stylearc Patterns. They have some great designs and you can make them anyway you want.
yeah_so_no@reddit
I get most of my clothes secondhand; I’d rather buy nicer things used than a lot of fast fashion. I look on eBay and poshmark mostly, in addition to local thrift and resale stores.
I do also sometimes get things at Target and, when I have the money, Madewell. I usually buy Levi’s jeans.
Much_Substance_6017@reddit
Thrift stores. I have SO MANY 100% cashmere sweaters and Levi’s jeans for $5-$20 apiece. If y’all aren’t buying men’s jeans… start now! The POCKETS!!!!
Sexy_bi_mom_friend@reddit
Torrid. There is a selection of tame stuff and more edgy things, too.
Conscious_Poem1148@reddit
I’m not any help. 🤣. I don’t like shopping. Just joggers and nice tees . I’m a nursery teacher. Diapers and spit up all day.
MeanWoodpecker9971@reddit
There is a nice store in your town that specializes in nice stuff that fits in with your area. If you don't have some great shopping near, take a drive to the nearest cool city and have a fun weekend and do some shopping. Try stuff on. See it in person.
HippasusOfMetapontum@reddit
Ebay
Lolapmilano@reddit
I'm surprised no one has mentioned Etsy. I buy lots of stuff from there. They have sellers that carry great selections of things that I consider timeless: silk, merino, cashmere, linen.
emmcee78@reddit
I’m fat , so YMMV….. but Nordstrom Rack, Old Navy, Torrid, Lane Bryant occasionally for bras……. TJ Maxx/Marshalls occasionally has a decent plus size selection depending on the location….
Hooliken@reddit
I am a dude, so take it for what it is. I get all of my jeans from Mugsy and Perfect Jean. Stretch jeans are amazing in so many ways. Being a mostly jeans and T-shirt human, most of my T-shirts come from 9-Line and Til Valhalla. I am a big dude, and their T-shirts fit me better, tighter in the arms/chest, with a little freedom for the 54-year-old midsection.
For my amazing wife, I have successfully given her gifts from VS and CurveDream.
BornTry5923@reddit
Kohl's
mtempissmith@reddit
I don't buy new clothes from places like dept stores. I can't afford to shop there anymore and beside which the quality of the clothing is questionable at times. I shop online, eBay, Mercari, Poshmark and I look for brands that I know well that make decent quality clothes. I buy a lot of 90's and early 2X clothes actually because a lot of the stuff made back them was actually made well.
I don't work a regular job anymore. I'm disabled so mostly I live in leggings or jeans and oversized tees. I am a layering person so I have a bunch of cute sweaters and a few hoodies I toss over that. I do have clothes to go out if I want to and I have a nice collection of Dr Martens and Converse high tops to wear. All if it was bought thrifting, mostly online. Last year someone on Craigslist gave me a couple of bags of cropped pants, shirts from Old Navy, and a few light dresses so I have those as well for Summer. That stuff still had the tags on. It had never even been worn.
I never buy retail. I worked it for too many years. I know what the markup is and who made good clothing vs vrap clothing. I get my stuff at a steep discount or sometimes even free. Why would I pay $100 for a pair of jeans at say Macy's when I can get the exact same jeans for $25, often with the tag still on, by thrifting online?
About the only retail stores I occasionally pop into are Old Navy because I like their basics and little dresses and often at the end of a season there are steep discounts and DSW because I've found Converse high tops and Dr Martens boots there marked down to really low prices. I seldom buy but once in a while I look because I've been lucky a couple of times...
i__hate__you__people@reddit
Poshmark. I’ve discovered that once I find a brand I love and that I know how it fits me, I can buy lightly used for 1/10 the price. Example: $200 7 For All Mankind jeans for $20. They look great, feel great, and are a bargain. Plus it introduces me to new fits and new styles (in my known preferred brands) that I’m more willing to take a risk on due to the price
SadPolarBearGhost@reddit
Nordstrom, Anthropologie, and madewell have great apps, good sales and good return policy. Madewell has a sale right now on winter clothing and frequent sales through the year. Nada Manley in YouTube has great videos with tips, links to buy, and choices for each kind of item she recomends at various budget points from target to Sacks
Specialist_Ad1286@reddit
Jeans from Buckle (no sparkly butt ones) I need long and find several that fit great. Then Eddie Bauer, but I make sure I get a sale, and I am thankful they have tall also. Love WHBM, but again I want a sale.
Makeup_life72@reddit
Macy’s, Nordstrom’s, Anthropologie, White House, Black Market.
squee_bastard@reddit
I’ve been wearing GAP off and on since 1991, probably my longest running relationship at this point.
Lately I’ve been loving 32 degrees, super cheap stuff that’s decent quality.
Susiejax@reddit
Banana Republic, Athleta, Gap
willboby@reddit
Tractor supply
OldSailor742@reddit
as a fat guy the only clothes I'm comfortable in are carhartt.
Goldie1976@reddit
As a fellow fat guy I've found Duluth Trading to make pretty comfortable jeans and long tail tee shirts.
OldSailor742@reddit
yeah i have some deluth trading underwear. suprisingly despite them being the most expensive they've lasted the longest.
kategoad@reddit
I bought a cooling bra and it is amazing.
Goldie1976@reddit
I bought some of their 7 year socks and that was 9 years ago the elastic is pretty stretched out now but no holes.
kategoad@reddit
I wear a lot of Eddie Bauer, but lately, I've been ordering from North Style, but they get terrible reviews. I haven't had issues, but be aware. For work if I have to dress like a grownup, a lot of Talbots. I have sensory issues, so I try for natural fabrics when I can.
Currently, Eddie Bauer pants and plaid flannel, and a gray t-shirt, because of course I am. LOL.
I bought this dress from BloomChic, and it looks amazing on. I'm wearing it with a slate blue cardigan with silver fastening for an interview tomorrow.
Weaselina@reddit
Costco. Seriously. Same for a lot of my friends.
I get really great, high quality leggings that I love there.
And I have to admit I have also shopped for basic pieces on Amazon. But lately I go for comfort and softness as well as style. Som with money saved I buy a couple of high quality, usually handmade pieces from boutiques in towns where there are some reliably cool shops.
And of course, vintage markets.
Particular_Ad8156@reddit
TJ Maxx and Marshalls. So much of what has been mentioned here is too expensive for me!
dorothytrailerparker@reddit
Everlane and Quince
kewissman@reddit
Underwear and socks: warehouse club
Clothes: thrift stores
Craig1974@reddit
Not to be a jerk, but why is a post like this allowed in GenX when my post about favorite cologne among GenX was deleted by mods?
writtenwordyes@reddit
Favorite daughter, Banana Republic, Costco, Amazon, Nordstrom, Poshmark, ebay
NaturalAd8452@reddit
I use the Poshmark and Mercari apps all the time.
ShudderFangirl@reddit
I feel like your aesthetic probably matches mine. I get black and grey pieces from free people (all black and grey) and match with more personal items like band shirts/graphic tees. I have a ton from their hot shot line in particular. The look says…maybe she used to be goth or punk, but now she cares about comfort, lol. Something like that might work for you. Also, I listened to a podcast about a book that helps you to identify your style shop for pieces and that was helpful. Can find the title if you are interested.
hamish1963@reddit
Thrift stores, almost 100%, except for bras, socks and underwear.
Physical_Ad5135@reddit
Chicos. Dillards. Bloomingdale’s. Ann Taylor. Costco.
Pretty_Ship_6622@reddit
Online. I have found Bloomchic, Cider. Debbie Harry has a new line out. So cool. Not sure of prices on that line.
cnikkih@reddit
Judy Blue jeans, but I’m short so I have to cut most of them off. I get a quarterly shop from Stitch Fix, and I buy comfy tees to wear under my blazers with my Vans. Or I just wear fitted dresses with a cardigan and my Vans.
Longjumping_Ad_4332@reddit
Athleta and Garnet Hill
Sunflower971@reddit
J Jill is my go to. Stylish and great quality.
MermazingAF@reddit
I shop at buckle for my jeans, typically wear rock revivals, as they have lasted me a few years at this point. I do get some of my shirts from there as I love the sullen brand, as well as free people.
frazzled-mama@reddit
TJ Maxx and Marshalls
kimdawn23@reddit
Marshalls and TJ Maxx, Old Navy, Kohls, and...thrift stores I guess. I'm still wearing pretty much the same things I've always worn. Today it was jean shorts with black leggings under, black concert T, oversized cardigan and boots. For work - if I go into the office- it's usually just nice pants from the above listed and a sweater, pullover, or button down. Work from home days are nice top and leggings or sweats on bottom 🤣
AHMHPH@reddit
Gap, Gap Factory, Costco.com, Amazon, Anthro, H&M, Evereve. Wish we had a Zara!!
emilythequeen1@reddit
eBay, Nordstrom, SHEIN, Goodwill, and high end consignment. Poshmark. Etc.
JackFuckCockBag@reddit
I still wear Dickies work pants and black Hanes t shirts. I've looked the same for the last 30 years. They were the cheapest clothes I could find when I was already living on my own at 15.
Waltzing_Methusalah@reddit
Duluth Trading works for the basics. And they are solidly made. For work clothes, Nordstrom or the Rack, but I find needing “work clothes” less and less (combo of WFH and DGAF).
Ok_Original_9640@reddit
I live in a rural area, whenever I travel to a city I go to a Goodwill. Much better selection ! That's how I acquire most of my clothes.
SongOfSongs3@reddit
Disturbia
No-Gas-8357@reddit
Jc Penny has good basics.
jimbothigpen@reddit
Not one of the ladies, but my lady gets pretty much everything she wears from thrift stores and she's fuckin hot. So, I guess my recommendation is thrift stores.
slr0031@reddit
Stitch Fix
Evening_Warthog_9476@reddit
I live up in the mountains at 10,000 feet so I we are all Patagonia and Northface but I’ve always been like that. No matter what age I am because I grew up in the mountains. Every day regardless of what I’m doing, I’m wearing black leggings usually a good quality Northface ones with pockets on the side and a north face hoodie lol
Remarkable-Moose-409@reddit
I’m all about goodwill & a good tailor!
Lthrr9@reddit
Since I retired, I usually wear a band shirt, jeans, come, and lots of jewelry. For “normal” clothes, I like Boden and Nordstrom.
Nolser@reddit
The Buckle has a great selection of stuff that looks good on even the ugliest 47 year old man…(me).
Surprise_Fragrant@reddit
I'm a boring gal (not dark, edgy, or alt, but built for comfort). My main stores would be Walmart, JCPenney, and QVC. Yes, yes, I can hear you giggling, but there's a few clothing brands that make skorts on QVC that I love, so if I can catch them on sale/clearance, I'll buy them. Walmart clothing is good if you find the more "expensive" pieces (the $11 shirt on a hanger vs the $5 shirt folded on a table), and you baby them when you wash them. And JCPenney brands like St. John's Bay, A.N.A and Liz Claiborne are all good basic staples. SJB and Liz jeans are great for my apple-shaped body and I don't have to worry about them being low-cut or giving me a muffin-top.
Oh, and for awesome graphic tees I go through Teepublic. If I looked for "Pee Wee" I'd probably get 500 shirts to choose from.
DisappointedDragon@reddit
Yea! Another QVC shopper here. I buy a lot of things from there and HSN. I have a few go to designers there and once you shop a few things, you usually have an idea for their sizing. LOGO jeans are wonderful. I used to find a lot at Steinmart but mine went out of business. I used to go to Chico’s a lot and the mall stores, but just don’t have time now because I’m driving 2 hours and back every weekend to spend time with my parents (mom is in poor health.). So online shopping is my go to.
srslytho1979@reddit
For edge, I like PersonSoul (mid-price Dune-reminiscent streetwear with insanely good quality). For fun, I like Dark Cottage (mid-price, good quality, dark sensibility) and Los Banditos (a little more affordable and playful).
srslytho1979@reddit
Oh I left out Harajuku Streetwear. Again, great quality. Mid range pricing. A little edge.
nerdyjenious@reddit
Ann Taylor Factory or JCrew Factory is my fave for work stuff, Old Navy Pixie Pants rule - stretchy, comfy, good rise height. Basics for super cheap at H&M if you don't care about them lasting forever- they're the only ones that have a variety of necklines that I like!!
Wonderful-Extreme394@reddit
Costco for a lot of comfy stuff and polo shirts, work pants. Walmart for jeans and T shirts. Then for more outdoor specialty stuff I go to like REI or Patagonia. For dressy stuff Macy’s.
Shoes I get at local shoe stores.
Beautiful_Rhubarb@reddit
Amazon.
Some from Old Navy (basics)
Jeans from AE
Winterqueen-129@reddit
OMG! Same! WTF? Why are all the dresses and skirts and shorts so damned short? I’m not 16 anymore! I want a skirt that comes down to one inch above my knees. But no! Everything is like barely covering my ass! I like Talbots. They’re not too frumpy and made for women not girls. For jeans I like Eddie Bauer or Duluth trading.
kitterkatty@reddit
eBay for your style. It’s esp awesome bc of the great measurements.
Idk why poshmark hates me lol but I can’t buy from them anymore. Downloaded the app and everything and they’re just always wanting me to use PayPal which I hate. eBay is the easier option tbh.
Ok-Kick4060@reddit
Poshmark
ThisMTJew@reddit
I’m a GenX guy. I haven’t bought new clothes since 1993.
Lizakaya@reddit
Zara, djerf avenue for some things, h&m, Nordstrom for shoes, thrift shops and Poshmark
branigan_aurora@reddit
What country are you in? I can speak to Canada but not USA.
WhyLie2me18@reddit
Talk to me fellow Canadian. Where are you shopping?
d0chd0ch@reddit
Got my first senior’s discount at the Bay on Tuesdays
UpNorth_123@reddit
Try Simons “Contemporary” brand. Trendier than some older lady brands, yet fits better than Banana Republic and Aritzia if you’re over a size 6. They also carry good jeans and accessories.
Adept_Confusion7125@reddit
Laura, Melanie Lynn, White House Black Market online, Mark's, Hudson's Bay.
Adept_Confusion7125@reddit
Also Talbot
branigan_aurora@reddit
Mark's (work wearhouse), Ricki's, and Costco. I'm a mid 40's professional woman but working on a farm related industry so I can wear jeans to work. Also a lot of Winners (I like high end guys jeans) and a few random choice pieces from online retailers.
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
USA
dragonhascoffee@reddit
Scrubs from various sources from work, and PJs from Walmart. The rest of what I own is from Goodwill.
Nomad-Sam@reddit
LOL … Costco, but then I don’t care much what others think of how I look
anti_socialite_77@reddit
My issue is where can I find a place that has clothes that won’t fall apart. Everything is trash now. All the outlet stores are garbage and sell poor quality clothes. I need moderate price, decent quality clothing. It barely exists. I was at Macy’s trying on Karl Lagerfeld something or other and it was pure trash.
Avaly13@reddit
Try Nordstrom Rack. At least for bottoms. All my jeans come from Nordstrom but I also check Rack to see if same brands are on there. Macy's seems to have gone downhill. Bummer since I loved them! I'll get tops anywhere since I find those to be more trendy and obviously seasonal. I pay for my pants.
anti_socialite_77@reddit
Nordstrom Rack is the same. They have some of the higher end labels, but the clothing is different than what they’d sell at a higher end store. Went there for blazers for work and they were unlined and super cheap material but somehow like $60. It’s so frustrating.
Avaly13@reddit
I don't think so but I guess it depends. I find my same cut/brand in jeans that I've paid full price there on sale because newer stuff was coming in to regular Nordstrom.
ginger_kitty97@reddit
I've had good luck with Belle Poque and Scarlet Darkness stuff from Amazon when I'm looking for more alternative and retro stuff. I get a few good things at TJ Maxx/Marshall's from time to time. But I find a lot of my clothes thrift shopping.
Glenn__Sturgis@reddit
You're a gem xer. Thrift store.
FloydetteSix@reddit
Thread up is a decent online thrift store I like to use
Fireside0222@reddit
Belk…specifically the Wonderly brand.
New_Perspective_5399@reddit
Good Lord am I glad you asked this question. It’s impossible! I have had a lot of luck with WalMart Time and Tru brand jeans. They are shaped for GenX women like me. :-) Also, I watch Marnie Goldberg on YouTube and Insta and she always has age appropriate styling suggestions and recommendations.
gojane9378@reddit
Uniqlo has been my go to lately.
mish_munasiba@reddit
Goodwill
Final_Walk_566@reddit
Norstrom and Nordstrom rak. Literally nowhere else.
easauer@reddit
It's hit or miss at different places. Nordstrom, Dillards, Target for basics. Then online for edgier pieces. Katie Hewko, Printfresh for pajamas, local boutiques.
Avaly13@reddit
Nordstrom. Unfortunately you will need to spend a little to get clothes that last more than a year. It's all about fit. A great fitting pair of nice jeans/pants can make ask the difference. Tops are easy to find and I'll go cheaper with those. My splurge is bottoms (& shoes and accessories).
Elaborate_Penguin@reddit
eBay, thredup, TJ maxx
SpiceWeasel-Bam@reddit
I'm a Xennial man. Many of my clothes come from the Columbia store. Prana pants and shorts, Sorel Boots, mountain hardwear jackets. Some clothes from Adidas, Costco, Nordstrom/rack, and Amazon.
PartyCat78@reddit
Honestly, Goodwill/thrift. I like what I like and it’s not necessarily “in” (although we have watched styles come back again at our age). I do pretty well thrifting. I also have a ton of cool t-shirts that I pick up from all over (national park, concerts, breweries, etc) and these are my typical daily staple.
dirtygreysocks@reddit
32 degrees, old navy... and whatever. who cares, it better be comfy.
dirtygreysocks@reddit
oh, and ots of rompers from natural life...lol
Mir_c@reddit
Anthropologie, Marine Layer, Madewell, Nordstrom Rack, Vuori, Athleta. Used to go to J Crew, Banana Republic and Gap more, but they closed most of the ones near me.
Prestigious-Joke-479@reddit
Just go to Marshall's, Ross or Target.
Me25TX@reddit
Macys
angelenameana@reddit
I love Nordstrom and the brand Free People. Also live for Norma Kamali pants when I need to look like I tried to gaf.
HouseOfBamboo2@reddit
Nordstoms
jadekitten@reddit
I buy some dresses at Johnny Was, when they are on sale and patterns aren’t too wild.
AreaChickie@reddit
I'm a Kohl's girl. But I'm 49. Might not be your thing. 😋
Blitzkrieg-42@reddit
Amazon or the thrift store down the street. Function or form at this point. I’m more concerned about matching my orthopedic shoes now. 😂
gimmesomesunshine@reddit
Evereve, Quince, Anthropology, sometimes Madewell, Nordstrom. I use Trendsend, Evereve's box subscription program, and I've been really happy with what they send me. It's expensive, but i only treat myself to one or two pieces. Hope that helps. Totally understand your post!
ChronicNuance@reddit
We shop the same places so you might want to check out Everlane and Aritza too. Free People is still a regular stop for me, and I’ve weirdly been loving Old Navy’s denim lately. The OG straight fit denim is solid and fits great, the WOW denim is cheap stretchy crap.
brandido1@reddit
Boden
sweetassassin@reddit
Everlane and Quince, Nordstrom only during online sales. Nordstrom Rack, only brick and mortar.
T.J.Maxx, Sierra, Costco, Uniqlo.
Understance for my under things.
Minimum_Apricot1223@reddit
Target
Cultural_Pattern_456@reddit
Kohls and tj maxx lol
Lawlers_Law@reddit
As a 50 yo man, Macy's
Due-Author-8952@reddit
I wear a lot of Maurice's clothing.
iyamsnail@reddit
There’s a website called yoox.com. They have the most insane sales if you are willing to sift through everything
sonamata@reddit
Banana Republic Factory for staples and Poshmark for style.
FinzClortho@reddit
I'm a guy, but that doesn't matter. I buy most clothes at Walmart, TSC, and a Ranch Supply store here in my town. My wife shops the same places, and some of the designer clothing stores.
ringo5150@reddit
My gen x wife loves leina and fluer stuff.
Actual_Contract8644@reddit
torrid.
BobCalifornnnnnia@reddit
I thrift 99% of my wardrobe.
jess3114@reddit
I ship at Old Navy and Gap Factory mostly. Their clothes aren't very well made but they're inexpensive and I usually get a few years out of them.
Aggravating-Tea9592@reddit
All I can say is not Chico's!
SpinachFeta17@reddit
I totally agree with this.
Crowned_One_78@reddit
I prefer to spend my money on good food and experiences so I shop at Goodwill! The treasures I’ve found - some with tags still attached… amazing.
ferretinmypants@reddit
Dillard's
graysie@reddit
What’s your style?
graysie@reddit
I like many varied brands, so poshmark.
leahmbass@reddit
I get a lot of clothes from Poshmark these days. It’s the only place I can seem to find pants that fit me.
rico_suave3000@reddit
Costco has Banana Republic, CK, etc. it fits my work attire (smart and business casual) Shoes, belts, and the infrequent tie from Nordstrom.
Trioxin5@reddit
Uniqlo
Old Navy
Quince
genxindifferance@reddit
Thrift stores. I ain't paying no 100 bucks for a gd pair of jeans
Crowned_One_78@reddit
Exactly this
whatchaos@reddit
Thred up. You can search brand, size, etc. You just have to know what brands fit you in what sizes.
CynicalOne_313@reddit
I've bought work and non-work (active wear) clothes at Kohl's, Macy's, and Torrid though Torrid's quality isn't what it used to be. Dresses and tops from BloomChic.
Original-Teach-848@reddit
Nordstrom Rack, Banana Republic and Banana Republic Factory. Madewell, Everlane (only online but worth it and ethically produced) are some brands that won’t fail. My go to suit is Banana Republic.
PahzTakesPhotos@reddit
Torrid. Shops exist, but I do my Torrid shopping online. Most of the skirts and dresses have nice, usable pockets. I also get some from Holy Clothing. They have nice, flowing styles (and many also have pockets).
I've never paid full price for stuff from Torrid. They have sales and rewards programs, so I can get a lot of cool/nice stuff for not a ton of money. (I'm also a fat chick, and Torrid has cool fat chick clothes).
rampant_bastard@reddit
The thrift
Fit-Nobody6078@reddit
56F here. Most of my casual clothes are Old Navy and Lucky Brand. Lots of concert t shirts too. For work mostly Kohls and Banana Republic.
First_Prompt_8407@reddit
For work: Ann Taylor, Banana Republic For My Time: Marshall's, Old Navy - cheap stuff
GraceOfTheNorth@reddit
Polo, Ralph Lauren. Rarely because they last
Brockin42@reddit
Huckberry (mostly guy stuff)
TakeTheThirdStep@reddit
Ollie's Bargain Outlet and Lidl grocery store.
donttouchmeah@reddit
Amazon basics, Lucky Jeans, Johnny Was, Lilly Pulitzer, Target. Depending on the occasion
absherlock@reddit
Levi's are my go-to blue jean and Old Navy for khakis. I have waffle-weave Walmart brand thermals that I've had for a few years and Wrangler-brand workshirts, also from Walmart.
stromm@reddit
Hmm, I wear a lot of shorts, t-shirts (Star Trek, Star Wars, gaming, D&D, etc), cotton drawstring pants, and rarely business casual.
So lots of them Internet clothing sites, Amazon and sometimes Walmart.
Wysical_@reddit
I do Nuuly and will buy a piece or two when I like it. LOVE their brands like Anthropologie. The key is to buy jewelry and other accessories to make the outfit. For that, I buy cheap. Target is great for trendy cute shoes. They don’t last but they’re cheap. I did get a pair of sandals from Madewell on sale and they haven’t scuffed so worth it. Nuuly is $100/month.
Imdyinovahere@reddit
Nuuly can be hit or miss for me. I haven’t signed up as a member but I’ve gotten some amazing pieces from Anthro and also some that should never have been resold they were so far gone.
Wysical_@reddit
I’ve done it for a while and you have to really read the reviews for sizing and also see how far they go back. One item I’m thinking of renting this month has reviewed that say they got a worn one, so im debating on it. If it’s been more than a year I won’t rent it. A couple of times it’s happened and I’ve gotten a refund on the rental of that item and a credit for an extra item on my next Nuuly. So they have really good customer service.
late-nitelabtech@reddit
TJMaxx- but full disclosure , my 83 year old mom works there, so I kinda have my own personal shopper. She loves to shop, and I hate it, so it works out for both of us!
OryxTempel@reddit
Nordstrom Rack.
notoriouscsg@reddit
I mostly shop at my favorite designers’ online stores after I’ve discovered them at a festival, which often leads to discovering other small, unique designers. I have entire collections of certain designers I like. I also LOVE Halara!
FranqiT@reddit
Costco 😩
killslikeaninja@reddit
Kohl’s but mostly my wife.
Icy-Dependent6908@reddit
Gudrun Sjoden Colorful. Lots of sizes. I belong to a facebook group where women resell. I often find good deals on eBay.
USAF_Retired2017@reddit
Amazon.
Frankthabunny@reddit
Hollister
GratefulPhD@reddit
These are my primary stores: Anthropologie; Ann Taylor Loft; Banana Republic; J Crew; J Jill; Johnny Was; Nordstrom; Talbots; and White House Black Market.
I’m also fortunate to have an amazing women-only consignment store near me with higher-end luxury items where the 1% sell their clothing, shoes, & purses (that I could never afford new!).
GeneSpecialist3284@reddit
NYDJ Marilyn jeans. Soft, stretchy, true to size and as comfortable as jeans can be. You've gotta watch the length though. For some awful reason, flood pants are in style. Ugh. I don't favor their tops much though.
abfuch@reddit
Thred Up, Marshall’s and resale shops. Nice stuff from SHEIN or Nordstrom Rack
Master-Reference-775@reddit
Gap, Banana Republic, J Crew, Nordstrom (and Rack), and Quince.
CreativeRiddle@reddit
My go to pieces have come from Uniqlo online, fabrics are top-notch. Fit and feel are lovely. Not old feeling nor too trendy.
maoinhibitor@reddit
I get a lot of my work clothes at Marshall’s/TJ Maxx or at locally owned outdoor outfitters. Locally owned places carry many of the same brands as REI or Cabela’s, but with less overhead the prices are better and the money stays local. The clearance rack is my friend. For fun, I get official band t-shirts, sweatshirts and hats, for example from Bifocal Media, Xclaim, Bridge 9 or Shirt Killer. It’s fun to rep some favorite bands on weekends while knowing the money went to the bands and the scene.
Impressive-Cry-1563@reddit
Abercrombie for jeans. Mix Ann Taylor Loft and BR/JCrew factory for work stuff. For other stuff - American eagle flannels, LL Bean, REI
JohnYCanuckEsq@reddit
Costco baby. 3/4's of my white collar closet is Costco stuff.
JunoD420@reddit
In addition to the aforementioned Nordstrom and Nordstrom Rack, I like Everlane and Quince.
Didthatyesterday2@reddit
I'm an outdoors kind of person, so mostly Sierra trading post and thrifting. Outdoor wear is always in style, IMO.
ghoulierthanthou@reddit
Thrift stores damned near exclusively.
calimiss@reddit
I am frugal! (And plus sized!)
I wear a lot of cotton tank tops and t-shirts - those I get at target (universal thread, v neck).
I also like a lot of pattern, so a lot of lucky brand (marshalls/tj Maxx usually) and Bila (sams club occasionally)
Jeans and shorts from Walmart usually, again cotton or mostly cotton. I've also found some nice basic linen pants, dresses and blouses at Walmart.
Oh, hit and miss items at costco as well, always look, you never know.
I buy when I see things I know I'll wear. Nothing too trendy, so I've got clothes that are, well, 20+ years old that I can still wear and not look dated.
ortho_shoe@reddit
I order boxes from Short Story, online retailer. Caters to ladies 5'4" and under. Send your measurements and clothing preferences, colors, patterns and styles. I have been very happy with my boxes, send back what you don't like.
NovaScotiaSeparatist@reddit
Thread up
Iowadream74@reddit
Amazon or Goodwill. I hate shopping lol
capacious_bag@reddit
Agree with all the ladies who said Banana Republic Factory. It might just be my favorite store these days. I also really like Quince.
aradiacat@reddit
Nordstom, Jjill, for example. I also pretty much know what type of clothing fit me well, so I'm will shop eBay or poshmark to save $$.
AffectionateSignal25@reddit
Aritzia
Snarkan_sas@reddit
Resale sites are way to go!! Try on some things from different brands you like, and learn your sizes. Then browse ThredUP or similar sites for your brand and size.
helenonwheels@reddit
My advice is to go get professionally measured somewhere so you know your true dimensions and then look at Poshmark and Depop. I have been able to curate my own style by buying things that way instead of buying what stores push as trendy.
Strangewhine88@reddit
Tat would be nice but sizes aren’t really consistent even within the same brand. Or so I have found.
Stardustquarks@reddit
Kohls and Costco
please-stop-talking-@reddit
Costco. I've begun my spiritual journey.
WinFam@reddit
Meee tooo! I literally told my sister last week that I have no idea how to dress myself anymore. Not that I ever felt like I had it really figured out at any point, but now it just seems impossible.
What is that coming from?!
I kind of want to start a thread with outfit ideas - either from those of you who have it figured out, or something we see and want an opinion on!
covenofme@reddit
Look for these brands on Poshmark and eBay: Madewell, Ann Taylor, Talbots, White House Black Market, Ralph Lauren. Stick to quality materials like wool (warm in winter and cool in summer), Italian linen, cotton and rayon blends. I have black wool skirts that I have worn for over 25 yrs. A good wool skirt is always in style. Ponte slacks (J Jill and Talbots) last forever and are always in season. If you live in a cold climate, LL Bean and Patagonia brands last a very long time.
Physical shopping: Ann Taylor Loft, Nordstroms Rack
Bryn_Donovan_Author@reddit
I buy everything on eBay and Poshmark. I'm on a budget, I like having lots of choices, and clothes made a decade or longer ago are often better quality than what's being manufactured now.
FairyMaze@reddit
I like Kohl’s because they have a wide variety of different styles, different brands. • Old Navy is another favorite except for jeans, I mean I can find some good ones sometimes there but mostly have rips, etc. • Poshmark, Mercari and EBay •
Also sometimes Amazon But you really need to read reviews first •
I have been shopping at small online boutiques a lot lately but they can get a little pricey depending on what your budget is. My most recent favorite is Freckled Poppy and Emma Lou’s
ms_anne_thrope_83@reddit
Nooworks.
lisathew8lifter@reddit
White House black market
Strangewhine88@reddit
It’s so bad. I made a pass at the legacy department store that is off and on again. Horrible quality, garish colors, buyers purchasing for mid level managers in a mindless bureaucracy who collect Sarah Coventry jewelry. I found two items in the entire womens department that were 100% natural fabrics with seams that don’t pucker. No one wants this stuff. No one looks good in it. Do not get me started on the shoes.
zsreport@reddit
As a guy, I mainly get my clothes from Duluth Trading Company, Carhartt, and LL Bean.
14LabRat@reddit
I'm a guy with long hair, and I like to think I have good style. I thrift and lurk on ebay. I just scored a sweet Claiborne turtleneck for $19.
greenglssgoddess@reddit
Goodwill or other thrift stores almost exclusively.
jessriv34@reddit
I buy most at TJ Maxx, Marshall’s, and 2nd hand through Poshmark, Mercari, eBay, thrift stores, an odd yard sale here and there.
Sometimes it’s not where you buy but what you buy. Stay away from too much trendy stuff and buy a few higher priced staples you can mix and match with that will last you for years and never go out of style.
NoYou3321@reddit
Madewell, Quince, Universal Thread at Target and also the New Day brand from there.
NoYou3321@reddit
oh, and the Amazon brands Daily Ritual and Anrabess.
resilientkat@reddit
I’ve had great luck finding name brands at Goodwill.
yaksblood@reddit
Im a huge thrift store/yard sale fan. I like to get shirts at record stores. Also my family likes to swap around clothes. Sometimes I get clothes at wally world…. Stuff can go for as little as a dollar. Occasionally I will buy clothes on-line (amazon, tee public, temu). Tbh, my fashion sense died a long time ago. I was living in up in my 20s -European fashion and one-of-kind pieces. Now my biggest joy is having comfortable socks and shoes and making my clothes last forever.
poolpog@reddit
Savers
Desperate-Laugh-7257@reddit
Costco. Youre welcome.
nappingondabeach@reddit
Hand-me-downs from my mom
valencia_merble@reddit
I’m picky. I dress young & avoid fast fashion. I like quality. I’m also cheap. So Muji, Quince, eBay for vintage & gently used.
nutmegtell@reddit
Ann Taylor Loft and Nordstrom Rack.
jdodge2010@reddit
Chico's pants have really come through. Just basic black pants that fit and are comfortable. Can wear to the office or with a concert tee.
crxdc0113@reddit
i bought mine back in the 90s
Extension_Case3722@reddit
Anthropologie, The Gap, Lucky Jeans- often I find something I like and if it’s more than I want to spend I start looking on Poshmark, Threadup, or EBay.
helenonwheels@reddit
This is the way!
Objective_Mind_8087@reddit
Jcpenneys.com
spoonfulofsadness@reddit
I go to Loft because the clothes fit, but they’re the opposite of dark and edgy. There really aren’t a lot of options out there. You could try Hot Topic for some things. I’ve seen cool sweaters and skirts.
RichardSnoodgrass@reddit
Not your aesthetic but I get/got most of my wardrobe from outdoor stores. It's not particularly cheap unless you shop sales but I've found the clothing surprisingly long wearing. I've a bunch of Pranda trousers that have lasted a decade at least. A few Patagonia and Royal Robin button up shirts that are closer to 15 - 20yrs old etc... Tonnes of icebreaker merino stuff I get on sale. People joke about pataguchi ,and it is a bit dear, but they stand behind their products and appear to have some ethics concerning workers making their clothes and the environment.
countess-petofi@reddit
Same as always - thrift and sew. Learning to sew was one of the best things I ever did for myself.
MortAndBinky@reddit
I'm on the chunkier side, so Torrid and Snag Tights, mostly. I did find a cool place called Marcella out of NYC. Woman-owned and designed, sustainable.
MariJChloe@reddit
Old Navy and Gap
Even-Cut-1199@reddit
Macy's online and store clearance racks. You can also find good deals on Ebay for Macy's brands. Amazon is a decent place to clothes shop too.
YogaSkydiver@reddit
Old navy, Gap, Loft, and, TBH... Target has some cute stuff (especially when it comes to the basics).
Cheechjohns@reddit
This is difficult. I hate mom jeans but would be doing a disservice to the world wearing anything that exposes half my ass when I bend down. Low rise just means my gut gets to overflow and that is a whole other mess. I accepted this and went to Chico’s and they have some great clothes. I wish we had a Nordstrom where I live, or anything really. I relate to anyone who has to try their stuff on first
Operation-FuturePuss@reddit
Instagram
Living_Ad2354@reddit
My wife buys them.
Funny-Berry-807@reddit
Kohls?
DWP_619@reddit
I love Nordstrom Rack, Burlington, Ross. Stitch Fix works too. I hate feeling frumpy. Don't have a lot of money but like nice things so I hit sales and clearance racks. Good luck! Ps. A good hair cut/style will make you feel better too.
Helenesdottir@reddit
Torrid. Online.
RaeAhNa@reddit
Most of my clothes are from Torrid. They have plenty of things that are tame enough to wear to work.
Helenesdottir@reddit
That's how I started with them, work clothes. Now it's all retired teenager clothes.
Miss_Interociter@reddit
I love Torrid!!
NotTheMama73@reddit
I bought bras at torrid outlet last August and they are still good as new and I wash them in the machine.
elphaba00@reddit
When I was younger and plus-sized, my mom would take me shopping at places like CJ Banks. I felt like I was doomed to look like an old lady at 25. Torrid lets me keep some of that youthful edge
LemurCat04@reddit
I also like them, they have weird quirky stuff I like.
Helenesdottir@reddit
Today I'm wearing a Ferris Bueller quote T shirt
elphaba00@reddit
I have a New Kids shirt that I bought for my birthday, and I have my army green fall jacket that I wear everywhere
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
I love their stuff, but I am not their size demo unfortunately
Middle_Meno65@reddit
Thred Up and EBay
Unable-Arm-448@reddit
Poshmark (online)
LilyLilyLue@reddit
I'm definitely more of an edgy/comfy type myself. I mostly shop at thrift stores. I'm also VERY limited to what I can wear due to always being hot and living in South Florida. 🥵
Puzzled-State-7546@reddit
Second hand stores ,they are why I subscribe to fashion magazines, so I can keep up with the latest trends, and afford them.
Mysterious-Squash793@reddit
Yellowcake by Valerie Mayán
Low-Possession-4491@reddit
Costco and REI.
MedievalHag@reddit
Men’s section for t-shirts.
Few-Comparison5689@reddit
I'm 5'10" and buy women's tshirts from the tall section of whatever online store. They're never long enough and are tissue paper thin. Regular men's tees are longer and thicker, never going back
AvidHarpy@reddit
I have always had great luck with H+M men's shirts. They are a little less boxy, lots of different colours, lengths and necklines.
BringBackHUAC@reddit
You should check out Duluth Trading!
OverMlMs@reddit (OP)
I would, but I'm an XS in women's so I'd have to shop boys, lmao
GenXChefVeg@reddit
I have an awesome purple and turquoise fuzzy coat from the boys department at Target.
waaaghboyz@reddit
So shop boys!
Zeca_77@reddit
I buy Levi's boys jeans from a Levi's outlet. I sometimes buy boys' sweatshirts too.
talee4@reddit
i do😅
kushbud65@reddit
I’m short,size4,usually buy my jeans at Old Navy, they have ‘short’ sizes and they’re perfect!
Waffler11@reddit
Used to be Marshall’s, but now too lazy to go to the store. Now we’re more financially comfortable, so we get a lot at LL Bean and Duluth.
blissfulhiker8@reddit
Goodwill. The one in the fancy neighborhood.
JoJoShoo@reddit
Nordstrom, Neiman Marcus, and Etsy
BridgestoneX@reddit
i hate shopping so i went with stitch fix. was pleasantly surprised that most things fit. at first i thought a lot weren't necessarily "my style" but then i realized i had been out of style for some time.
LatchKeyKid46@reddit
I spend my days at Ross & TJ Maxx
masters1966@reddit
Goodwill
GypsyWitchRover@reddit
Costco, Duluth Trading, Old Navy for jeans. Amazon for some stuff and Marshall’s, thrift stores.
All the department stores have gone to hell. Target is a joke.
Adolph_OliverNipples@reddit
I buy almost everything from either LL Bean or Amazon Essentials.
50M.
I’m too exhausted to actually shop.
Laurieladybug@reddit
Plato's Closet. Trendy stuff, reasonable prices.
RedRapunzal@reddit
I started sewing...
First and foremost - know your body. If that takes a day in a dressing room with a trusted human to tell you shapes, colors, styles, length etc - do it. Come armed in the future with that info.
Two floppies equals frumpy. One tailored item, even slightly, and one flowy is the way to go on most people. Or two tailored if it works on you.
I'm a tall plus late Gen X female who is aging gracefully (in the face and hair). I try to stick to good traditional pieces and may add a small flair or the "latest" at an affordable price. I look at many different stores and mostly on clearance racks, first. Forever 21, Landsend, Kohls, LLB, etc. I avoid most Walmart and such stores. I find that their items are made and designed by smaller built people outside the US (not talking weight, but shoulders, torso length).
I take good care of my clothes and try to stay with some quality. I do buy one-in-every-color sometimes. I moved into sewing so I can make more natural fibers and in things that work for me.
Shoes is one of my issues...
medusamagpie@reddit
Nordstrom Rack
Guilty-Mud-5743@reddit
Love that place. And the one near me has in-house tailoring. Nothing like getting a pair of $500 designer trousers for $90 and having them tailored to fit perfectly.
medusamagpie@reddit
I didn’t know they did tailoring. Awesome!
hairballcouture@reddit
I find more stuff from The Rack than regular Nordstroms. I still need to check out Off 5th (Saks discount).
medusamagpie@reddit
I’ve found a couple of things at Off 5th. Bloomingdale’s Outlet has some good deals also.
Dry-Praline-3043@reddit
I just wish they had more petite sizes.
Blossom73@reddit
Same.
tinka777@reddit
Their website has a decent selection of petites.
laurapill@reddit
Skims and Athleta.
Psychological_Tap187@reddit
Honestly hot topic sometimes has some fairly good quality clothes that is semi unknown looking but not total teenage goth agnst. I've got a couple pair of plaid pants there that while they have that old school punk look they don't look try hard being younger than I am. I've had them for years and they still look great. You got to pick and chose though.
Little_Storm_9938@reddit
I recently found quince. They have nice cashmere sweaters for a good price. Also bought a couple of pairs of slacks for when I need to play dress up. Otherwise it’s mother jeans (sooo expensive- I buy second hand on the sites we all know about), and yoga pants from that killed-all-the-bookstores billionaire. Tops are a crapshoot.
hairballcouture@reddit
Quince is nice, just checked them out!
Guilty-Mud-5743@reddit
Nordstrom all the way and I use their free personal shoppers to put together virtual style boards for me based on my needs (a biz trip, WFH, an event). The best. For bags only The Real Real because I refuse to buy new leather.
YamAlone2882@reddit
I buy from JJill. Their clothes aren’t dark or edgy, but their jeans are soooo comfortable. They have stretch and give, which my 53 y/o waist and thighs very much appreciate. They are a little pricey, start at ~$89.
eatitwithaspoon@reddit
I'm in Canada and I usually shop local thrift stores, Winners, and Mark's work wearhouse (for the Levi's, they've always been my go-to jeans). I don't usually shop much, but once in awhile I will check out the downtown independent boutiques and splurge a bit.
Raesling@reddit
Temu is my absolute favorite source. But, you have to look out for their dresses. They look nice in the app, but hang like a tent if you don't use a corset belt or a crinoline.
katmc68@reddit
Nordstrom Rack, Saks OFF 5th, Bloomingdale's The Outlet, thrift stores & Target.
RIP Neiman Marcus Last Call
travlocal@reddit
Oh I hear you about missing half the shirt. We're heading into winter and Target is selling cropped sweaters for God's sake. Old Navy is just as bad.
So I like a little edgy too. I found metaphysical/ ancient geometry and hamsa theme shirts at Target a few years ago. Still holding up. Been lookimg and Etsy, Thred Up, Poshmark have a lot like that. I also have found cool stuff, a classy but a bit sexy tops at J Crew Factory of all places.
bevalasvegas@reddit
eBay
cece1978@reddit
Stitchfix Madewell Target Nordstrom Rack
bouncy_bouncy_seal@reddit
I thrift almost everything.
Smittles@reddit
Nordstrom, because of their excellent return policy and I am in proximity to two stores that make returns convenient.
Exact_Reputation_500@reddit
I started making my own clothes because I couldn't find anything that fit right at the store.
EVILtheCATT@reddit
I used to love Torrid but their styles and quality have gone to shite. PoshMark is good, and I really love Unique Vintage.
Cashbail@reddit
Uniqlo
NotTheMama73@reddit
Thrift/second hand stores. When I get bored with my wardrobe…. I donate to the local mental health clinic and shop again.
Loud_Wolverine_8257@reddit
I figured out a few brands that I like and that fit me, and I buy from Poshmark.
lordjohnworfin@reddit
Kohls department store.
onehundredpetunias@reddit
It's tough. Thrifting, H&M and don't disregard Stitch Fix!
AssignmentClean8726@reddit
White House Black Market
ms5h@reddit
Talbots and StitchFix
Lucy1029@reddit
I've had success with Amazon and Temu for business casual tops/sweaters tunic length. Women with Control for pants/jeans on QVC.
sajouhk@reddit
The Levi’s store. Looks like the waffle knit henly is back baby!!!!
Reasonable_Smell_854@reddit
Very tall man here but Dixxon flannel has women’s stuff too. Their flannels are awesome and I’ve bought a bunch of their bamboo shirts for the 11.5 months in houston that isn’t flannel friendly.
afroista11238@reddit
Stitch fix. I don’t have the time or patience to go to stores and try on clothes.
gravitydefiant@reddit
I've gotten some great stuff from Stitch Fix, but I've also gotten many boxes where I hated all 5 items and then I've spent $20 on literally nothing. I don't like that gamble.
afroista11238@reddit
I loved the Ralph Lauren personalized online styling service but they stopped their service. I haven’t tried rent the runway as I’m sure it’s beyond my budget.
Soundtracklover72@reddit
Kohls and a local store called Boscov’s. I’m able to find a nice in between of old lady clothes and teenage angst.
NomToss@reddit
Costco, Amazon, Nordstrom
relicmaker@reddit
Revolve or ShopBop
momlin@reddit
I buy most of my clothes in either Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Burlington, Ross, Nordstrom's Rack, Old Navy, Kohl's or places like that. Rarely do I pay full price for my clothes. In fact this weekend I scored some cool stuff at Nordstrom's Rack., love that store.
swampdaisy12@reddit
I buy a ton from 32 Degrees. Everything is so soft and comfortable. And super durable. And cheap!! Lots of built in bras, too. They sell this brand at Costco and I looked them up. Now I buy off of the website. https://www.32degrees.com/
Klekd2@reddit
Find favorite brand that you know fits you well and save searches on eBay.
dyingbreedxoxo@reddit
and Poshmark!
BeaMiaVA@reddit
Amazon
LemurCat04@reddit
Kohl’s. But I’m basic AF and wear button down shirts and jeans to work in the winter and button down shirts and cargo capris in the summer. I’m also a devotee of v-neck t-shirts, so they check that box.
Winter_Cat-78@reddit
I like dark tattered sweaters and such and I mostly get them on Temu, surprisingly. Jeans and pants from Amazon, along with tanks and such. Got a few really kick ass jackets and coats from Temu too.
BloominBlue@reddit
Quince has some great stuff. I get all my work pants from there. They’re stretchy and comfy, but look professional and come in a wide range of colors and leg widths (skinny, straight, bootcut, wide). They also machine wash really well and air dry pretty fast. I like Old Navy for work tops. (Business casual office, FYI.)
dyingbreedxoxo@reddit
Poshmark
Dangerous-Art-Me@reddit
J Jill and Lands End
sunnybearfarm@reddit
Thrift, Poshmark or consignment only. I’m really surprised at the great selection. I could pay retail but I just can’t be bothered ☺️
lunicorn@reddit
I live in the Pacific Northwest. I get by with Lee lined jeans for 4-6 months out of the year, and flannel/plaid for at least half the year. Plenty of L.L.Bean and Lands’ End at thrift stores here. Thrift stores are also good places to find tall (long) shirts.
WeirdRip2834@reddit
I like LLBean brand for durability, but the clothing is too short for me in the arms.
Now I order from Lands End. I just want basic and boring clothes that will last a while. Can’t find the clothes I want anywhere else.
Sufficient_Stop8381@reddit
Kohls and Amazon. I stopped caring years ago.
ILoveMeeses2Pieces@reddit
Old Navy, Gap (when there’s a good sale), Thrift stores, Target and Amazon.
RightSideBlind@reddit
Old Navy, pretty much.
Of course, I work from home and don't have much of a social life, so most of the time the only person who can see me wearing those clothes is my wife, and she doesn't care.
CalmChestnut@reddit
online :/
btjsmith@reddit
i get mine from Temu and sometime walmart
ColoradoInNJ@reddit
I shop on ebay and thrift stores, mostly for Free People brand. A lot of their current tops are cropped, but on Enay you can find stuff from past seasons. I find their stuff to be edgy, sexy, usually high quality. Opposite of frumpy.
grahsam@reddit
My wife and I like American Eagle for casual clothes. I like Banana Republic Factory Store, Sacks Off 5th, and Nordstrom Rack. Macy's has a broad selection.
My wife likes Free People and Anthropology.
meditation_account@reddit
I dress casually but for comfort so sporting brands are my go to. Lacoste makes high quality jackets that look great and last a long time. Don’t buy clothes on Amazon, it’s all low quality garbage.
Calm_Squirrel972@reddit
Buy my favorite jeans old Target brand, Massimo, on Poshmark. Wait for favorite brands to go on sale online. Wear a lot of American Eagle wait a few weeks and items are half price online.
Finding_Way_@reddit
LL Bean
That stuff just last and last and last. And it's great casual wear and one step up.
MellyMJ72@reddit
I shop at OLD Navy but I'm not happy about it. Amazon is so hit or miss at least I can get jeans and tshirts. But anything is super frumpy.
aes7288@reddit
Lots from Zara, pick up high end pieces from The Real Real
serenitybybowie@reddit
I like to have a rock (or edgier) vibe to my clothes so I do a lot from Zadig & Voltaire (Blazers) and All Saints (tees, sweaters, leather pants/leggings), it's sometimes hit or miss there. Their stuff lasts. Jeans are Frame, Rag & Bone, L'Agence. Aritizia, H&M and Zara for things that are a bit trendier, won't last forever but, longer than some other stores.
autogeriatric@reddit
Torrid for my fangirl itch, Three Bird Nest because I’m a hippie at heart, and lululemon for my casual wear.
PinBig1102@reddit
Tjmaxx & Marshalls
ThatMeasurement3411@reddit
Usually thrift stores. Man I miss quality fabrics.
SnarkyVamp@reddit
I only wear natural fabrics, so I'm limited to a few brands. Polyester is the worst!
MowgeeCrone@reddit
I buy second hand mostly. Good quality, well made. Long lasting. Natural fibres. Items I can't afford to buy in store ($600), but can afford ($40) to buy off someone who can, and rarely wears more than once, if at all, before having a wardrobe cleanly clean out. Which there's a lot of atm.
username-taker_@reddit
[1971] Costco, Etsy, Kohls, Old Navy, Red Bubble, Target and Tillys.
The_Great_19@reddit
See if you might like sites like Stitch Fix or Short Story (if you’re petite). You get clothes in the mail, keep what you want, and return what you don’t. So convenient.
EggplantEast847@reddit
Lucky Brand 🍀 for this guy
MorningBrewNumberTwo@reddit
Charity thrift shops. They have the better quality items and are cheaper.
Spiritual-Sun-33@reddit
I still go to hot topic
dsmac085@reddit
On ebay I'll try to shop off season. Full jeans/long sleeve/sweater type stuff in the spring or summer and warm weather clothes in the winter. Many times if you watch the item the seller will extend a discount
titianqt@reddit
NY & Company. Or Talbots. Because they have petites. Even if I have to order my size, I can at least check them out in a brick and mortar store.
surfdad67@reddit
Surprised no one has said Shein, the wife has bought tons of cheap cost, but decent quality dresses and shirts from there, all made overseas
Techelife@reddit
I usually go to TJ Maxx.
Humphalumpy@reddit
Ann Taylor, Vince, Poshmark.
thisgirlnamedbree@reddit
I'm plus size, so Torrid, Lane Bryant, Amazon, Avenue, Walmart, and I've also found stuff at Gabe's, TJMaxx, and Marshall's.
If you're looking for edgier stuff, there's Dolls Kill, Disturbia, and Vampire Freaks.
Vegetable_Storm_6045@reddit
Nordstrom Rack and Costco
pinkeroo67@reddit
Amazon for online shopping, Fields, Marks, other local stores for the little things like socks and undies.
ReachAlone8407@reddit
Thrift stores mostly.
Reasonable-Proof2299@reddit
Old Navy, Maurices, Costco (for casual). Kohls sometimes
I guess if I have to dress up I would go to Macys or the Loft
rharper38@reddit
I shop at Walmart and on Belk.com, the clearance section. But I have a more preppy vibe.
Quirky_Commission_56@reddit
My daily wardrobe still consists of jeans with various tees and Chucks or sandals depending on the weather. Since I’m busty and have huge hips, anything new I buy is usually from Torrid.
I also enjoy thrifting but the picking is usually slim.
FangioDuReverdy@reddit
TheRealReal.com
punkolina@reddit
Sadly, malls are pretty much dead where I live. The majority of my clothing now has to be purchased online, mostly Macy’s, Loft, Amazon. My in person shopping is basically TJ Maxx, Marshall’s, occasionally Maurice’s and Costco.
Potato2266@reddit
Marshall’s. I can always find well made clothes at decent prices.
syzygialchaos@reddit
I’ve gotten some solid pieces at Brooks Brothers of all places. They also have regular sales with huge discounts, so worth getting on their email distro and waiting.
Easy_Ambassador7877@reddit
REI for cargo/hiking pants mostly The men’s section of any store for T-shirts. I’m a small person but small men’s shirts are just the right amount of baggy without looking huge on me.
That’s what I wear in town. If I’m out with horses I switch to jeans or breeches and add my carhartt coat. Base layer when it’s cold is smartwool.
I’m 100% casual. Idgaf about style or fashion anymore. Clean and presentable is my standard cuz I’m not trying to impress anyone, I just want to be comfortable. And I’d prefer whatever I buy to last me for years not months. I try to minimize my contribution to the waste created by fashion and the textile industry. Even donating used clothing isn’t as great as it sounds when you realize there are mountains of clothes in the atacama desert that are full of perfectly fine clothes that were cast off because they are simply no longer fashionable.
Bobodahobo010101@reddit
I get a free t shirt everytime I do a 5k, I buy one or two band shirts a year at shows
Dickies hoodies if it's cold
I buy pants once every 7 to 10 years or when forced, and I've got a pair of docs from 2007
Ok-Heart375@reddit
Athleta, Gap, Pact, American Giant, tee public, fanka, land's end (for basics)
GothGranny75@reddit
I thrift most of my clothing.
vowagg@reddit
I'm going to list brands since all the stores have been mentioned already. My look is sporty/stylish with some feminine elements (bows, scalloped edges, etc). I work a tech job and keep it casual, though sometimes I need to step it up.
Ngl, I pay close attention to what teens/20s are wearing and try to incorporate aspects that work for me. For example, recently saw a young woman with faux-pearl earrings in the shape of a huge bow. That earring style is my new favorite.
Varley Sea NYC 3.1 Phillip Lim Day Birger et Mikkelsen Free People Zara A New Day from Target Uniqlo Paloma Wool Second Female Ganni Loveshackfancy Claudie Pierlot/Sandro/Maje Wyse London Lacoste (just discovered a great pleated skirt, I didn't realize they had some fashionable stuff, it's not just polo shirts)
Pizza-n-Coffee37@reddit
J. crew has cute stuff
RedditSkippy@reddit
Lands End and JJill. Although Lands End has been messing with my go-to work pants, so they might be done for me.
Virgil_Exener@reddit
As a M55, Frank and Oak + Icebreaker
Blossom1111@reddit
Nordstrom and Nordstrom Rack. Anthropoligie.
scrapqueen@reddit
Honestly I buy most of my new clothes from Kohl's or Macy's, but I like to go to the thrift store. My rule for buying from a thrift store is only buy clothes that are classics and name brand. I really like it when I find Talbots at thrift stores.
mplsgal20@reddit
Nordstrom Rack, TJMaxx, or online.
Perfect_Mix9189@reddit
Torrid
MsCenturyModern@reddit
I know this might not help you, but I started seeing my own wardrobe using vintage patterns that I chose with styles that I like. I absolutely abhor fast fashion not to mention the colors that have been offered in stores for the past 5-6 years are hideous. (Seafoam green, mauve, terracotta?? 😫) Dm me for my Instagram…
Select-Effort8004@reddit
The Loft, I watch for their frequent sales, and the stores will price match any online sale.
PBJ-9999@reddit
Sometimes the mall stores, sometimes Amazon, sometimes a place called northstyle ( website and catalog) , sometimes Goodwill
mindymess@reddit
eBay. You can get super specific on what you are looking for.
pacododo@reddit
I have to dress between business casual and formal. 95% of my clothes are from thrift stores, mostly my favorite Goodwill and Savers. Favorite brands are Banana Republic, Calvin Klein and Gap pants, Gap and Ann Taylor sweaters and cardigans, Calvin Klein shells and blouses. All these brands are fairly good quality. I stick almost exclusively with solids as I look hideous in patterns. And mostly stay with blue, black, gray, white and black so everything is kind of interchangeable. A few key pieces go a long way. I do love shoes but I save so much on clothes I didn't feel too bad.
Basketballandbooks1@reddit
Quince, JCrew, loft
ieatsilicagel@reddit
Amazon. I'm not happy about it, but I can't really justify anything else.
Sloth_grl@reddit
I shop mainly at goodwill, tbh
TXRedheadOverlord@reddit
Amazon. We're rural, so it's easiest to get stuff delivered to me than risk a long drive into town where I can't find anything.
MissFabulina@reddit
I am eileen fisher...all the way. But that is most definitely not edgy.
If you want fashion, try designer resale/consignment. I am partial to The RealReal. But there are a few out there.
shanghaiedmama@reddit
Cider has some neat 90s style Goth dresses, in small, average, and large sizes. Sizes are correct (I thought they'd run small, but ended up taking things in).
Leprrkan@reddit
Big fan of Old Navy myself.
ChaosCoordinatorCO@reddit
My closet is mainly Maurice's, Poshmark (where I usually get White House Black Market), Amazon, and a few pieces from TJ Maxx
beaubeaucat@reddit
Lane Bryant (for now -- I'm working on that), JCPenny, Kohls, and Meijer
Kat1836@reddit
I love thrift stores. My local one has half-price Wednesdays. I come home with $3 designer jeans and tops. I mostly stick to and find all kinds of name brands like Lauren, Loft, Ann Taylor, and Patagonia. It's an adventure every time I go because I never know what I am going to find!!!
WickedCoolMasshole@reddit
Zara has some affordable but stylish options. I still shop at Gap quite a bit still tbh.
CyndiIsOnReddit@reddit
Unfortunately I'm not help because I've fully embraced frumpy oldster. I get my shirts and shorts from the Walmart men's department. I have the sensory issues that come with autism so I need everything to be three sizes too big and just hanging on me. I haven't found a cool tee shirt shop that has good shirts like this. I wish I could get stuff from the cool tee shirt shops!
I gave up on Goodwill years ago too. I find lots of great deals there for my (adult but normal sized) son and daughter but I just have no luck with bigger sizes.
Expensive-System-762@reddit
I get my basics (leggings, shirts etc from Amazon) and then I add one or two nice pieces every year from higher end like White House/black market, Athletica, or Nordstrom rack.
-karou-@reddit
I like Kohl's.
ClubExotic@reddit
Since I now live in FL, I mainly wear yoga shorts and capris that I find on Amazon. I also found some really comfortable shirts. I get my shoes from Academy Sports.
I used to like shopping at Kohl’s but they moved their plus sizes to mostly online.
CatsEatGrass@reddit
Stitch Fix
Positive-Froyo-1732@reddit
This is why I miss malls. If there were 30 stores that sold clothes, there would be 3-4 that suited my style/budget.
NomadFeet@reddit
Thrift stores and I will buy and wear some of the craziest stuff I can find there. Also J Crew is mostly okay, not as great quality as they used to be but I just bought some awesome J crew red plaid pants from poshmark. Got the same pants in leopard print last week. I feel good about buying used or on secondary market because I'm not buying more stuff to eventually go in a landfill AND I get it at prices that I am okay donating or tossing if I no longer like it or I manage to wreck it.
For basics and layers like tanks and tees, 32 degrees has nice stuff and it's very inexpensive. Almost everything is always offered in black.
tooful@reddit
eBay. I've resorted to going back to eBay and buying lots of clothes. It's really worked out well
chicagotodetroit@reddit
Amazon.
Once Dress Barn, Payless, and Sears went out of business, and many of the malls with JC Penny closed up, Amazon is where I shop when I need decent clothes. I used to shop at Old Navy and NY & Co for business casual, but they seem poor quality (plus NY & Co closed). I know some of these stores still exist online (for now), but it's not the same. The thrift store in my rural town is not a great place to buy anything other than t-shirts and leggings. Soooo...yeah. Amazon.
fmlyjwls@reddit
My wife has been getting her clothes from a place I believe is called Stitch Fix. Tell them your size and style, they send clothes (for a fee of course) and she’s been very happy with the results
Jmeans69@reddit
Technically a $20 styling fee but it gets deducted from anything you keep.
Apprehensive-Log8333@reddit
I actually have a few dresses from Hot Topic. They ALL have pockets! Most of their dresses are too low cut but I have a couple good ones from them. Then there's Pyramid Collection, the clothes that get the most compliments come from there. And I recently got a couple things from Dark Cottage, it's very small but I have an awesome dress and coat from there. I like Hot Chocolate shoes, super comfy flats. I too am dark, edgy, alt, comfort
DirectorBiggs@reddit
Over half of what I wear and purchase is 2nd hand high quality clothing, more often than not from eBay.
The waste and labor abuse in the clothing industry is awful and unacceptable and I do my best to be a conscious consumer and not add to the problem.
Jmeans69@reddit
Stitch Fix.
Purple_Wrangler_8494@reddit
Amazon
velvet42@reddit
Same, and I'm going to join the choir saying thrift shops. The trick is that, because of the nature of thrift shops, you have to go regularly and accept that some days you may leave empty handed. I do lean towards dark jeans and graphic t-shirts, which are usually pretty easy to find about anywhere, but it occurred to me a year/year-and-a-half ago that it had been about 20 years since I'd bought a new dress so I started keeping a closer eye out. In that year and a half or so, and via many trips to Goodwill and others, I've gotten about 10 new dresses that I felt fit my style, all for under 10 bucks a pop
That said, I usually don't look for clothes at Target, but last time I was there a couple things caught my eye on the way past that I might have tried on if I hadn't been in a hurry. And their prices overall are usually pretty reasonable if not thrift-store-low
caught-n-candie@reddit
Torrid if you are size 10 and up
_Sasquatchy@reddit
As a dude who has spent his whole life trying to figure out how to dress myself because the men's section is most department stores amounts to a closet. So much so that 25 years ago I have up and started bulk buying clothes., this cracks me up.
Women can literally find more choices in a tiny small business boutique in a single traffic light town than i have had access to in a department store for most of my entire life.
The difference here is that I resigned myself to this fact in 2003. I joke that I wear a unform now because it never changes and I stopped caring.
Black shirt, jeans/Dickies duck pants, chucks or boots. Done.
Modern fast fashion falls apart in 3 washes anyhow.
waaaghboyz@reddit
I like Primark. It has a lot of basic wardrobe staples like jeans and plain t-shirts, and it's pretty inexpensive. Discount stores like TJ Maxx. It'd help to know your general location for chains and shops that might not be national.
labtech89@reddit
Walmart.
Zip-it999@reddit
Target
Elleseebee928@reddit
Old Navy, Amazon, and good ole Wal-Mart
SadAd1232@reddit
White House black market is great for mature women! Although now I’m at a time in my life where I wear athleisure 24/7.
LibrarianNo4048@reddit
Since Covid started, I mostly shop at boutiques. You can find cute, high-quality clothing there.
gothfru@reddit
Mostly Torrid honestly.
Agent7619@reddit
Farm and fleet if I'm the one shopping.
MaximumJones@reddit
Amazon.
But I live in the tropics and only wear tshirts, shorts, and flip flops so it is not difficult to shop.