No one’s forcing you to go to the club. There are tons of other social venues available if you look, just find people who are likeminded. You like going out to a bar, drinking, and talking to people? Great! Do that. You like mechanical keyboards? Guarantee you there’s a meetup near you. You like reading? Find a book club or start one. Board games? TTRPGs? Video games?? They’re all around you.

It’s easy to fall into a desperate cycle of nothingness. You wanna escape it? Get off your computer and go live. Can’t win the lottery if you never buy a ticket, but unlike buying a ticket, meeting people is a journey in and of itself. There’s a whole world out there for you full of people looking for the same things you are - you just have to look.