Hang in there mate gta 6 elder scrolls 6.
Robotic sex girlfriends.
Ai taking most jobs so goverment has to pay people just being home and enjoying life.
It may seem insurmountible, but the path to solution is deceptively simple: Go one step at a time. What is your end goal? What will you need to achieve for it to be possible? What do you need to achieve those things? Go along that route until you have small, possible steps to take in life.
Learning to drive is one such step. The next is up to you.
I dropped out of college and now I have a job in the field I was more or less going to college for (IT). And I wouldn't have even found this opportunity without being terminated from my dead end retail job. You just never know what kind of opportunity might be around the corner unless you actively look.
It can't be that these guys actually care that much about the sex because this solution is so obvious.
I think it's more just a marker of success for them. Being able to get a woman to sleep with you is an accomplishment but if she's just doing it for money it's not
It’s not even that. Women are exactly as stupid as men, ie there is no shortage of morons. Lie to them. Easy peasy.
Dudes like this have much worse problems. They have created this idea that they are different and special, better than everyone else. Because this is CLEARLY not the case, they have to find something that does set them apart.
It can't be that these guys actually care that much about the sex because this solution is so obvious.
The counterpoint is that getting a hooker requires either looking up some technically-illegal service or flying out to a place where it's legal. Not especially difficult hoops to jump through, but the sort of person who ends up as a permavirgin is generally too risk-averse to do that kind of thing.
Put another way, any man with the initiative to procure a prostitute could probably get laid without one. The problem with people like OOP is total learned helplessness.
There's a difference between the ones that vet their clients and the ones that don't, and presumably you'd be using a condom. Every social class has its own grade of prostitute, and the rich guys aren't generally shelling out for venereal diseases.
It's perfectly 'valid' to not want to do that anyways, for religious, social, or personal reasons, but a wizard who only wants one throw to break the mental barrier can probably pool enough money together to get himself an escort that's no worse than what he'd find on Tindr.
It's really love and intimacy that they want; to have someone that wants only them. But most incels are too immature to admit that and instead just talk about the sex, which might be a reason for their loneliness.
No I understand why it would suck to be in their place. I'm saying they have an easy solution they refuse to use. If all they cared about was having sex
Imagine constantly starving while everyone else around you has plenty of food. Except you can still go buy food. It wouldn't be free like other people but you can get it if you want
Yeah to me if i was a virgin, would not want to do the hooker option because it would feel like cheating and not gratifying, like you know it isn't real and just paid for it. Whereas if you get a girl to sleep with you, you know it's because she's into you enough to want to do that which is a confidence boost in itself
What’s ironic is if you extrapolate that same mentality to something like video games, these losers have no problem paying to win. But when it comes to muh birginity paying to win is somehow scummy?
Sorry I'm not having a go at you but I hate it so much when people say this. Maybe because I was in a similar situation in my late teens. It's absolutely not about "penis go into vagina". It's loneliness, depression and a lack of love and nurture. People like Anon need to realise they are self-destructive and they need to pull themselves out of it step by step. Only then they can have enough self-confidence and self-respect to even attempt to being content in their lives and hav a chance to form a romantic relationship.
Paying a hooker or having a one-night stand will just leave them more depressed before.
What I really find sad is that those people find relationship so important that if they lack it and never had it it means they are failures. First you need to be comfortable alone with yourself at least.
I had a phase through college where I had to willfully hold myself back from this mindset. Still a virgin at 25, but not quite dateless anymore.
It doesn't make one a failure, but it does sit over your head. Its something everyone of your ancestors achieved, socially expected, and very much depicted as pleasureable. Both relationships and sex. These people like most of their lives, or are at least comfortable in them. It is always this one flaw, inforced one every level from biology, to history, religion, and socially. It haunts them and lashes at them.
They hate themselves because they are uncomfortable doing the things they need to do to fix their problems. Not mildly uncomfortable either. They are stuck unable to find any more pleasure in what they are doing, or in anything else.
If you're an unsuccessful person, you are less confident, more introverted, less people interact with you, you have less to talk about, people don't want to be your friend.
If you're a successful person, more confidence, more opportunities, more connections, more friends, more experiences to talk about.
You have to get the success loop started somehow, so that means being really good at something, achieving something meaningful to you, being more attractive, etc.
You spawn into a prison camp and die of malnutrition and infection.
You spawn into a “poor” area in America speaking English, one of the most widely spoken languages on Earth. You have rights. You get welfare food. Public schools give students free laptops. Every day isn’t just you waking up half dead and starving in a PVP zone. You have the opportunity to at least attempt to be anything you want. If you’re getting by and surviving I’d say your life is going just fine.
pathetic nonsense. i worked my way to where i was. my friend was a defeatist who once got asked 'is this how you plan to spend your life?' and he started studying at age 17 with one year left in highschool and became a doctor after retaking his csat. in korea mind you. he went from stealing money from his grandma in his one bedroom apartment to that.
your choices and failures are your own, you can blame them on society if you want but no one cares and no one gives you points for it.
People who feel that way, wither never had a real relationship, or they let a relationship defined them because they didn't have anything else to go by. You only need to find a small pebble in yourself to start working with that, but to some people even that is too much.
Pussies consistently say shit like Anon, I used to think like them. Then I realized I was indeed a pussy, and now I’m in school getting my associates in paralegal studies because I want to be somebody someday, not a nobody complaining on 4chan about how my life is shit.
32 year old woman here, single and careerless. Plan to kill myself at 35 if something doesn’t change. Unable to attract a man interested I. More than sex.
Don’t need to hear how terrible I am, I know it. Biological clock is ticking and no man wants me anymore.
There are a lot of girls who are into gamers/losers/nerds, find one and you'll be pretty much guaranteed to lose your virginity. I was just simply being myself and making tons of jokes
I had this issue graduating high school, and I've been having it repetitively ever since. I think what can delay it is when you're in a grind and just focusing on making it to the next day or week. That way you don't actually think about your long term future until something happens to force you to think about it.
I actually came to the same conclusion as Anon a year or two ago.
As someone who had a meandering start to life, I feel a lot better about my age by putting it in the context of my years as a legal adult than in the years I've been alive.
For example, if you're 29 in thr US, you're not 3/4 of the way to 40, you're a little over halfway there (its been 11 years since you turned 18 out of the 22 years from 18 to 40).
There's just not that much that those of who aren't world-class athletes or actors can do prio to leaving their parents' houses.
It's also never too late to get started on making something of yourself.
Idk if Anon will even see this or find useful; noones coming to save us and drag us out the slump. Take the smallest steps initially if needed, doesnt matter how small the increment. Wean yourself off social media, its the most toxic shit if youre a below average/average man in any aspect. Slowly cut down on the videogames or even incorporate some exercise for every death/round lost. As for the job market theres no guarantees, just remind yourself of how you present yourself to people. Would you hang out with 'you'? How you think and talk about yourself will reflect on how people will treat you. Chin held high. Sorry if this is preachy/useless.
Idk if Anon will even see this or find useful; noones coming to save us and drag us out the slump. Take the smallest steps initially if needed, doesnt matter how small the increment. Wean yourself off social media, its the most toxic shit if youre a below average/average man in any aspect. Slowly cut down on the videogames or even incorporate some exercise for every death/round lost. As for the job market theres no guarantees, just remind yourself of how you present yourself to people. Would you hang out with 'you'? How you think and talk about yourself will reflect on how people will treat you. Chin held high. Sorry if this is preachy/useless.
Alright alright, fries are in the bag bro
Controversial but at this point go to a prostitute... It's such a mental block for men to be virgins that it ruins their life and confidence, for $200 get it over with.
adhi_7@reddit
Anon is literally me
Ultravisionarynomics@reddit
real
Ultravisionarynomics@reddit
literally me
Substantial-Cat2896@reddit
Hang in there mate gta 6 elder scrolls 6. Robotic sex girlfriends. Ai taking most jobs so goverment has to pay people just being home and enjoying life.
You have alot to look forward to
-Sloth_King-@reddit
How the fuck do I even improve at this point? I failed college hard(it was all my fault) and I'm only now getting my driver's license (not American)
Uncommonality@reddit
It may seem insurmountible, but the path to solution is deceptively simple: Go one step at a time. What is your end goal? What will you need to achieve for it to be possible? What do you need to achieve those things? Go along that route until you have small, possible steps to take in life.
Learning to drive is one such step. The next is up to you.
butterfingahs@reddit
I dropped out of college and now I have a job in the field I was more or less going to college for (IT). And I wouldn't have even found this opportunity without being terminated from my dead end retail job. You just never know what kind of opportunity might be around the corner unless you actively look.
esssssto@reddit
Not knowing how to drive being American is like not knowing how to swim being a fish.
Still you can do It man keep working on yourself
Jozef_Baca@reddit
At one of my college entry exams I saw a dude that was like 50 taking it.
If a guy like that still doesent give up, then there must still be some hope.
justalad9@reddit
Hoping j don’t end up like this
ihatemalkoun@reddit
i hope you do.
justalad9@reddit
Now why would you say that
ihatemalkoun@reddit
I am a meanie.
justalad9@reddit
:(
ChwizZ@reddit
I also hope you don't end up cleaning your house.
Such a tragic way to go.
iareto@reddit
blud is like 28. haven't even left his prime talking about over
alexriga@reddit
“I have to fit stereotypes, or I’ll litteraly die from cringe.” These kinds of people are their own worst enemy.
PM_MEOttoVonBismarck@reddit
simatrawastaken@reddit
How are they supposed to pay for gas
burritos93@reddit
Blowjobs
Matt_2504@reddit
At that point just get a hooker bro 💀💀💀
undreamedgore@reddit
Yeah, as horny as I am I think my nerves, shyness, and akwardness would kill my ability to do so.
Revan0315@reddit
It can't be that these guys actually care that much about the sex because this solution is so obvious.
I think it's more just a marker of success for them. Being able to get a woman to sleep with you is an accomplishment but if she's just doing it for money it's not
Fair_Preference3452@reddit
It’s not even that. Women are exactly as stupid as men, ie there is no shortage of morons. Lie to them. Easy peasy. Dudes like this have much worse problems. They have created this idea that they are different and special, better than everyone else. Because this is CLEARLY not the case, they have to find something that does set them apart.
Efficient_Star_1336@reddit
The counterpoint is that getting a hooker requires either looking up some technically-illegal service or flying out to a place where it's legal. Not especially difficult hoops to jump through, but the sort of person who ends up as a permavirgin is generally too risk-averse to do that kind of thing.
Put another way, any man with the initiative to procure a prostitute could probably get laid without one. The problem with people like OOP is total learned helplessness.
Sirasa6@reddit
I can only get laid via prostitutes, it's a hard knock life.
ThePassiveGamer@reddit
I wouldn’t want to put my dick in a hooker.
Efficient_Star_1336@reddit
There's a difference between the ones that vet their clients and the ones that don't, and presumably you'd be using a condom. Every social class has its own grade of prostitute, and the rich guys aren't generally shelling out for venereal diseases.
It's perfectly 'valid' to not want to do that anyways, for religious, social, or personal reasons, but a wizard who only wants one throw to break the mental barrier can probably pool enough money together to get himself an escort that's no worse than what he'd find on Tindr.
OfficialHelpK@reddit
It's really love and intimacy that they want; to have someone that wants only them. But most incels are too immature to admit that and instead just talk about the sex, which might be a reason for their loneliness.
Mesarthim1349@reddit
It's more like, imagine you are constantly starving, but everyone around you seemingly has plenty of food with no effort.
Revan0315@reddit
No I understand why it would suck to be in their place. I'm saying they have an easy solution they refuse to use. If all they cared about was having sex
Imagine constantly starving while everyone else around you has plenty of food. Except you can still go buy food. It wouldn't be free like other people but you can get it if you want
Mesarthim1349@reddit
Yeah might as well save a paycheck or two for a decent escort. Probably won't solve the pain from lack of love, but at least solves the sex thing.
Mak0wski@reddit
Yeah to me if i was a virgin, would not want to do the hooker option because it would feel like cheating and not gratifying, like you know it isn't real and just paid for it. Whereas if you get a girl to sleep with you, you know it's because she's into you enough to want to do that which is a confidence boost in itself
Ascertain_GME@reddit
What’s ironic is if you extrapolate that same mentality to something like video games, these losers have no problem paying to win. But when it comes to muh birginity paying to win is somehow scummy?
Fuckin Anons….
kpingvin@reddit
Sorry I'm not having a go at you but I hate it so much when people say this. Maybe because I was in a similar situation in my late teens. It's absolutely not about "penis go into vagina". It's loneliness, depression and a lack of love and nurture. People like Anon need to realise they are self-destructive and they need to pull themselves out of it step by step. Only then they can have enough self-confidence and self-respect to even attempt to being content in their lives and hav a chance to form a romantic relationship.
Paying a hooker or having a one-night stand will just leave them more depressed before.
LemonFlavoredMelon@reddit
I’d rather be a virgin than fuck a hooker. Can’t get emotionally attached to a hooker
the_fresh_cucumber@reddit
No way Disney movies told me that all human relationships are pure and meaningful
skaliton@reddit
Gotta love how there is only one 'solution'
not improve yourself by going to school or working in a less 'menial labor' job
Tsyvatsok@reddit
What I really find sad is that those people find relationship so important that if they lack it and never had it it means they are failures. First you need to be comfortable alone with yourself at least.
undreamedgore@reddit
I had a phase through college where I had to willfully hold myself back from this mindset. Still a virgin at 25, but not quite dateless anymore.
It doesn't make one a failure, but it does sit over your head. Its something everyone of your ancestors achieved, socially expected, and very much depicted as pleasureable. Both relationships and sex. These people like most of their lives, or are at least comfortable in them. It is always this one flaw, inforced one every level from biology, to history, religion, and socially. It haunts them and lashes at them.
They hate themselves because they are uncomfortable doing the things they need to do to fix their problems. Not mildly uncomfortable either. They are stuck unable to find any more pleasure in what they are doing, or in anything else.
hobomaxxing@reddit
All of life is feedback loops.
If you're an unsuccessful person, you are less confident, more introverted, less people interact with you, you have less to talk about, people don't want to be your friend.
If you're a successful person, more confidence, more opportunities, more connections, more friends, more experiences to talk about.
You have to get the success loop started somehow, so that means being really good at something, achieving something meaningful to you, being more attractive, etc.
ThePassiveGamer@reddit
No it isn’t all feedback loops.
You spawn into a prison camp and die of malnutrition and infection.
You spawn into a “poor” area in America speaking English, one of the most widely spoken languages on Earth. You have rights. You get welfare food. Public schools give students free laptops. Every day isn’t just you waking up half dead and starving in a PVP zone. You have the opportunity to at least attempt to be anything you want. If you’re getting by and surviving I’d say your life is going just fine.
Success is over rated.
ihatemalkoun@reddit
“Perfection and power are overrated. I think you were very wise to choose happiness and love.”
ihatemalkoun@reddit
pathetic nonsense. i worked my way to where i was. my friend was a defeatist who once got asked 'is this how you plan to spend your life?' and he started studying at age 17 with one year left in highschool and became a doctor after retaking his csat. in korea mind you. he went from stealing money from his grandma in his one bedroom apartment to that.
your choices and failures are your own, you can blame them on society if you want but no one cares and no one gives you points for it.
PulsarTSAI@reddit
And the worst part is, it is much easier to fall into a negative loop than a positive one.
ehladik@reddit
People who feel that way, wither never had a real relationship, or they let a relationship defined them because they didn't have anything else to go by. You only need to find a small pebble in yourself to start working with that, but to some people even that is too much.
BambooSound@reddit
Why do more when you can alt+F4
cantorofleng@reddit
Still gonna die tho.
skaliton@reddit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=so5TlXOkpHI&ab_channel=tfgentile
Jaw43058MKII@reddit
Pussies consistently say shit like Anon, I used to think like them. Then I realized I was indeed a pussy, and now I’m in school getting my associates in paralegal studies because I want to be somebody someday, not a nobody complaining on 4chan about how my life is shit.
Reptilesblade@reddit
Good going King. I wish you all the luck!
Jaw43058MKII@reddit
Thank you brother 🫡
ThePassiveGamer@reddit
Isn’t that basically the pussy route for people who don’t want to be full fledged lawyers?
Jaw43058MKII@reddit
No. I am getting my associates to get my foot in the door with jobs before law school.
ThePassiveGamer@reddit
Why do you wanna be a master of law?
Jaw43058MKII@reddit
So I can rule as the LawMaster, head of state to all LawMakers
wololowhat@reddit
Rule of cool? I dig it!
Jaw43058MKII@reddit
In the grim darkness of American bureaucracy: there is only Law
TrumpDesWillens@reddit
It's better than nothing.
LemonFlavoredMelon@reddit
I dunno, dudes gonna hit 40, if he was gonna do any changes he would’ve done them 10 years ago
ihatemalkoun@reddit
learn to read shitbum
unofficialSperm@reddit
So you know Einsteins Definition of insanity?
ihatemalkoun@reddit
"if you eat poop and fuck wit furry suits you do be hitting dat weed too hard cray cray"
1v1mecaestusm8@reddit
The way to improve yourself as a 30 yr old virgin is to study the arcane magicks bestowed upon all wizards
Uncle480@reddit
Learn from the grand wizards of 4chan
cantorofleng@reddit
Phrasing.
csolisr@reddit
My magic book is currently retained in customs, by the way
Magnus_Helgisson@reddit
What about your robe and wizard hat?
csolisr@reddit
Same deal, besides it was a pain to find one my size because of height.
Maz2742@reddit
Get a motorcycle dude. Those things are death traps with the way people drive on American roads
ThisSongsCopyrighted@reddit
anon is british
turin37@reddit
What would an US anon say?
Joshgg13@reddit
Realizing
Azurehue22@reddit
32 year old woman here, single and careerless. Plan to kill myself at 35 if something doesn’t change. Unable to attract a man interested I. More than sex.
Don’t need to hear how terrible I am, I know it. Biological clock is ticking and no man wants me anymore.
SweetTooth275@reddit
The less milenials the better
betterthaneukaryotes@reddit
He's so close
account18anni@reddit
alcohol and cigarettes are a good way to make life more bearable and die sooner !
Much_Anything_3468@reddit
What the fuck is a “khh virgin”
TrumpDesWillens@reddit
you
ReformedTerrorist@reddit (OP)
Kissless, Hugless, Handless.
PlatinumBall@reddit
Anon has nothing to worry, I've got rid of khv, but I'm still a loser rotting in my bedroom, it really doesn't change much
AlarmedShower@reddit
Tutorial?
PlatinumBall@reddit
There are a lot of girls who are into gamers/losers/nerds, find one and you'll be pretty much guaranteed to lose your virginity. I was just simply being myself and making tons of jokes
PM_ME_LADY_SHOULDERS@reddit
anon has tried nothing and is all out of ideas
samfishxxx@reddit
Dude needs to go to a dodgy massage parlor and get it over with already
Exulted_One@reddit
This is me. I'm in this greentext.
TheIVPope@reddit
It’s funny, most people have this pre life crisis at 18 or something. Surprising it takes some people so long
AlarmedShower@reddit
I don't comment much here, but I'll add;
I had this issue graduating high school, and I've been having it repetitively ever since. I think what can delay it is when you're in a grind and just focusing on making it to the next day or week. That way you don't actually think about your long term future until something happens to force you to think about it.
I actually came to the same conclusion as Anon a year or two ago.
captainfalconxiiii@reddit
What is “khh”?
ReformedTerrorist@reddit (OP)
Kissless, Hugless, Handless.
captainfalconxiiii@reddit
Oh shit that’s almost me thank god I got a hug from a girl in 6th grade whose name I don’t remember
ReformedTerrorist@reddit (OP)
There is hope for you brother.
captainfalconxiiii@reddit
I’m only 19 so it’s not like I’m OOP
DiesNahts@reddit
What an absolutely pathetic worldview, hope its fake
neet-malvo@reddit
Youd know a lot about pathetic wouldn't you
neet-malvo@reddit
This is the realest thing ive read in like 3 months
solemlyswear69@reddit
Already a 20 year old and 30 year old version of him. Why would he change at 40?
Popshot_@reddit
Me in my early 20s
breakfasteveryday@reddit
As someone who had a meandering start to life, I feel a lot better about my age by putting it in the context of my years as a legal adult than in the years I've been alive.
For example, if you're 29 in thr US, you're not 3/4 of the way to 40, you're a little over halfway there (its been 11 years since you turned 18 out of the 22 years from 18 to 40).
There's just not that much that those of who aren't world-class athletes or actors can do prio to leaving their parents' houses.
It's also never too late to get started on making something of yourself.
Cdog536@reddit
90% of suicidal men go choose to go through with it, just before their lives are about to turn around
Saughtvol@reddit
Fucker never lived in the first place, the grass is not far to be touched
RecycledMatrix@reddit
If only this rotmaxxer could take that cleaning energy to do something besides rotting.
gvdc@reddit
Idk if Anon will even see this or find useful; noones coming to save us and drag us out the slump. Take the smallest steps initially if needed, doesnt matter how small the increment. Wean yourself off social media, its the most toxic shit if youre a below average/average man in any aspect. Slowly cut down on the videogames or even incorporate some exercise for every death/round lost. As for the job market theres no guarantees, just remind yourself of how you present yourself to people. Would you hang out with 'you'? How you think and talk about yourself will reflect on how people will treat you. Chin held high. Sorry if this is preachy/useless.
gvdc@reddit
Idk if Anon will even see this or find useful; noones coming to save us and drag us out the slump. Take the smallest steps initially if needed, doesnt matter how small the increment. Wean yourself off social media, its the most toxic shit if youre a below average/average man in any aspect. Slowly cut down on the videogames or even incorporate some exercise for every death/round lost. As for the job market theres no guarantees, just remind yourself of how you present yourself to people. Would you hang out with 'you'? How you think and talk about yourself will reflect on how people will treat you. Chin held high. Sorry if this is preachy/useless. Alright alright, fries are in the bag bro
the_marxman@reddit
I don't even believe anon is gonna clean his house.
Ham_Sandwich675@reddit
Yeah I didn’t
cococolson@reddit
Controversial but at this point go to a prostitute... It's such a mental block for men to be virgins that it ruins their life and confidence, for $200 get it over with.
Then you can see the actual path forward.
FiveCentsADay@reddit
I turn 30 next year, pretty excited to see where my wife and I will be at then
hpx2001@reddit
It’s crazy how often anons seem perfectly aware how to improve their life and yet refuse to do literally anything about it.
johnson_alleycat@reddit
“Almost 3 quarters of the way to 40” is a fun way to say “I’m a 28 year old moron”
GanotAlon@reddit
"Realize in 3 quarters of the way to 40" so 30? Lmao
dirschau@reddit
I guess anon doesn't want to be a wizard
AlexBondra@reddit
Anon will an hero before improving himself
No-Section-4385@reddit
Be a hero no the hero.
YourFavoritNew@reddit
Fake, anon is already 45
anonssr@reddit
Anon is not even 13, wtf are we posting
Illustrious-Back-944@reddit
“Going to have to fix my life, hit the gym, and go outside if I don’t kill myself”
Yeah anon can’t let that happen at any cost.
MrBones-Necromancer@reddit
Man, just do what most people do during a midlife crisis. Hit the gym and buy a car. Jesus.