I think the fact that men would consider this or Ai girlfriends as an option shows that there is something wrong with society. Incels are a product of modern society. I see a large market for Ai robotic girlfriend for a lot of males not just incels. The fact that fertility (decline in the birth of children), and relationships similar to marriage are on the decline further illustrates this fact.

When this happens something is broken with society. I am not saying that things need to go back to the past where women were subsugated or anything like that but society needs to find a way around this inpass. Where real people want to be in real relationship and are willing to make it work and not just end the relationship because it is easier that way. Of course I am not talking about making it work if domestic violence is involved.

There is a lot of people that are just confused by what society expects from them. With talks of toxic masculinity and the perception that it is impolite/rude to approach women to ask them out.

There are middle age people like me that are not incels want a relationship but don't want to risk financial future on a real relationship as we have got comfortable lives. So in my case yes the holodeck would be an option I would consider if it existed. Ai girlfriend no.