I wasn't trying to insinuate lesbians don't exist lol. I'm just saying women fundamentally don't like each other on an immediate surface level. Whether they see each other as competition or because they're jealous, whatever. 'least that's what it always seems like, they're just immediately catty.

And just because women don't want to be at bars where they get hit on by drunk straight dudes and just want to have fun doesn't mean "everything is about men", that's just the reality of the situation. Straight girls don't go to lesbian bars because lesbians hate when straight girls go there and give lesbians false hope that the straight women might be down to clown, but at gay bars gay men and straight women get along just fine because the women feel safe knowing that they won't hit on them, and there's no confusion from the gay men because, well, they're not into women anyways.

I know a lot of people on this platform, especially 4chan, don't go outside much but this is literally the general consensus amongst most people of these demographics.

All I was trying to do is explain a reason why lesbian bars are very scarce while gay bars and clubs are everywhere and pretty successful. I mean I'm in a deep red state and the most popular club in the whole city is a gay club.